WHY YOU SHOULD ROMANTICIZE YOUR LIFE ♡ (how to get out of a rut & feel alive again)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 มิ.ย. 2024
- I know we can get stuck in a seemingly never ending loop. but besties, it's time to feel alive again.
00:00 introduction
02:11 chapter 1: what is it & how to get started
04:41 chapter 2: dealing with obstacles & comparing
08:07 outro
☆ socials ☆
/ _rebeccajayy / wheresmychinchilla
business email: rebecca@sparkmedia.la
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Leah French's information! (video idea & help with script writing)
health ig: / healthandleah
personal ig: / frencherrrr
linkedin: / leahfrench
sources/inspired by:
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti... www.heartsempowerment.com/sin... globalnews.ca/news/8485087/on... www.juliabrunsphotography.com...
music
❥ Music by Laura Zocca - Never In Love - thmatc.co/?l=0E0380D1
❥ Music by Reed Gaines - Tryhard - thmatc.co/?l=2B09B3B5
❥ Music by Mia Nguyen - Moments with you (as written) - thmatc.co/?l=199E6516
❥ Music by Laura Zocca - Boys - thmatc.co/?l=F0C5E250
#romanticizeyourlife #romanticizingyourlife #motivation
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"We daydream about the fake scenarios that will never actually take place in our life."
This really hit me hard because that's all I do all day long 🙂
I too do the same dear♥
same 😩
Same gurl same
Same. 😅 I started writing stories to cope with it
I be feeling a certain way about life negatively. And the next thing I know Rebecca made a video to turn that into something positive. Thank you so much Rebecca. I hope you are doing wonderful. :))
I hope you feel better ❤️❤️
After scrolling my feed on social media and seeing this funny and cool moments of people I have started to compare myself with them. I felt so bad thinking that my life isn’t as cool as theirs, but your video brought me back to life! thank you so much Rebecca
thank you for watching ❤️
this video was beautifully done. i love it and you!!
omgggg I love your videos!! I love u ❤️❤️
I actually try to romanticize my life, but sometimes it just doesn‘t work out. I notice it really depends on my social media consumption, because even the most boring things always look better on instagram. Especially when exams are coming up, it’s extra hard to not hate everything 😅. Your video really reminded me to overthink who I want to follow and it showed those little basic things in such a realistic way that still made me want to realize my life more now. Thank you!
There's nothing worse than looking back at the present moment and feeling empty because you wasted months or years yearning and hoping for something better
This part killed me 😢
Thanks rebecca 💘
I would like to be your friend if I was from you country 😂
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I love to see Rebecca comming back into TH-cam after a long time and i can't wait for it to start
I honestly love posting so much and I can’t wait to be consistent with it :))
She made me cry in the intro because I knew it was true and I was experiencing the same thing
Same I just seriously didn't want to realize it but the intro kinda opened my eyes
Bestie you are the highlights of my day. You have no idea how much you've helped me and motivate me to actually go for the thing I love and be the one who I want to be. From the bottom of my heart I love you so much and thank you❤🥺
So ture ❤️❤️
I appreciate and love you so much for supporting my channel and watching my videos, and creating a safe space for this community ❤️
This was so simple yet so effective and beautiful!!
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This video is so aesthetic and inspirational. I was just diagnosed with an autoimmune disease but I'm still gonna romanticize my life. Everything happens for a reason.
As you should !!! Keep going, I'm proud of you 🧡
I love how your videos aren’t toxically positive but actually give good advice. Keep doing what you do!
Thank you so much Rebecca for making this video, I am gonna ramble so sorry for it in advance...
I completely wasted the past two years of my life and I find it quite amusing how I spent the two years of life just planning and planning, trying journalling, accountability, making vision boards, changing my interest feed to just motivational quotes and dream destinations but I did not execute a single thing I had planned.
I was terribly inconsistent. I could never work out for more than 3 days in a row and always felt defeated and upset. I really want to lose weight and get healthy and before someone comes at me, I have a health disorder that requires me to lose weight, I am under 18 and I am having terrible health issues. My hair keeps falling, my joints pain and I am always lethargic.
And all of this affects my studies and my mental health. I am not able to concentrate and thus get annoyed and then go to youtube to find comfort and end up watching videos for hours. All of this really upsets me and breaks my motivation. I have been getting low grades and I have underperformed every single time.
Heck, once I tried to go cycling for barely 10 minutes and had the worst knee pain of my life that night. Doctors kept telling me to lose weight but I just couldn't start.
Well, it's 2022 right now and I feel like it has been a high time since I have wasted so much precious time of my life. I am so tired of going through this same cycle again and ruining my own life. I am posting this comment over here so that there are other people who are going through this same situation to get some motivation and start again. I am very determined to better myself and to change my life.
To all my dear friends over here, I wish that all of you can achieve your goals, change your habits and instead of trying to be the best-looking person or the smartest person out there, go and try to be someone who you are proud to be and just keep bettering yourself
We all are capable to bring about a good change in our lives, let's go guys. All of us can do it !!!
you can do this ❤️❤️ thank you for telling your story
I have literally been stuck in the same situation..... Reading this made me cry because it's like looking in a mirror. Thank you and I wish you the absolute best
@@kristaellington2779 u can do this girl ✨
I wish you the best too♥️you got this♥️♥️♥️
How are you doing now?
Rebecca is literally being a queen by posting again regularly 🥰🥰🥰
PS Rebecca: You’re the only TH-camr that never fails to inspire me, it’s like you’re my bestie 💛💛💛
I love posting ❤️❤️ thank you for supporting my channel!!
i’ve realized that i don’t compare my looks or body to others…i compare my life to theirs. all i’ve ever wanted is an exciting and rich life, but i just feel stuck and like i’ll never have the community around me like i want
This is really helping me deal with an uncertain period of my life.
I love the editing and all the advice ♡
This made me feel so much better about myself. Thank you for this beautiful, motivational video. Why can't all people on social media be like you
I was procrastinating from so many days that I will wake up and workout and all but I never had the motivation to actually do it because of the cold weather but today when I saw this video my whole perspective changed and I really appreciated the small things in my life thankyou rebecca❤❤
wow honestly thank you for laying it out like a guide. especially with the chart where you break down tasks and how to make them more exciting. this is such a practical and simple video and i really needed the reminder right now ❤️
genuinely love the vibes of your videos so much !!! they’re so simple, yet the message comes across so clearly !!
your videos really are the highlight of my day. They’re so aesthetically pleasing and what u say always motivate me so so much. Ilysm Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️❤️
thank you for watching ❤️❤️
this introduction was literally exactly what i needed to hear. its so intresting how this video popped up on my explore page. as if someone knew that i needed to see this!! thank you so much. imma start now.
wow this girl is so pretty inside-out, im so so so proud of you for being so strong and an inspiration to people who look up to you like me
you're definately helping me become a better person rebecca
thank you so much, really needed this especially how ive been dealing with anxiety. thank you honestly ❤️
you got this ❤️
I've been very low this past year, I kinda gave up on my life and have a lot of work to do but I've no motivation, but after seeing your video I'm feeling much better, I was crying after during the intro because of how hit hard. Thank you so much Rebecca, I'm so glad I found your channel, I love you so much 🤍
Working is honestly the best way to feel better about the mundane. Even a few hours a week will make a huge difference. I’m always depressed if I’m not working at all.
OMG, YESSS!! That's what has helped me deal with anxiety over the last few years!! Enjoying and being grateful for the small things, makes you much happier when the BIG things appear in your life ✨💛
you have no idea how impactful this video is to me, thank you so much, i'm a new subs, ily! 🥺❤️
i haven't watched it yet but i'm absolutely sure that's the best thing ever (as everything you post) love u so much Rebecca!💗
you somehow show how easily you can be loved and that you are perfect the way you are but in a way that makes one feel good about oneself too and accepted by watching you feel comfortable with sharing all this
I like how she makes us all feel like special and puts so much effort in making us feel important.Also love how much effort she puts in her editing
SHE SAVED MY LIFE I LOVE FOREVER 😭😭💗💞
hands down one of my fav videos made, so glad i came across u. Thank u this was so necessary :)
The positivity on this channel is contagious ✨🤗❤️
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I love the lessons that you share and how you make it achievable too. And the editing is so nice! No wonder you spend a lot of time on it. I'm super impressed :))
I have been struggling so hard on getting my routine sorted and have just kindo of been rushing through my days, this had totally inspired me to get back to my slow morning routines and setting my day up in a positive way 😍
Her outfits are literally DrEam
i'm crying rn. thank you so much!! It's the first time I've seen your video and now I can't stop. love from Brasil
girl im so obsessed with your videos! love you, thank u for being so positive and sweet!! your personality is literally everything 🤍
I have been working on romanticizing my life lately. It is SO SO SO important if you want to be the main character in your life. Love the video and keep making great content girl! :))
I've been living of of your video's lately, really loving how calming they are
And I absolutely adore how you edit them, all the work that you put in and research you do, you're a true star and definitely one of my main motivations.
Keep going girlll ❤️🔥😊
I'm so grateful by make part of your channel and by the dedication that you give in every video to help us. Thank u so much Rebecca 💖
idk why when watching this i started crying.. im trying my best to become a better, healthier and happier person but its so hard rn im trying to move and figure everything out im just all over the place i started with cleaning my room and writing what i want to achieve this week and how im going to do it starting small, i get motivation and then it goes away so im trying to keep pushing forward even after. thank you for this video it was much needed
Your content helped me a lot w anxiety and getting out of an unhealthy lifestyle. It covers a special place in me, keep going girlie. x
wow this was so inspiring rebecca! thank you. you have no idea how much i needed this
This video is literally magical !! You have such a healthy attitude to life
hey rebecca! i love your videos! they're so encouraging and helpful. i've been insanely productive the past few weeks, but i'm starting to get very burnt out. it'd be interesting for you to do a video about how to recover from and prevent getting burnt out! much love xxx ❤
the first minute and a half hit hard. you spoke my thoughts out loud
thank you so much Rebecca, you have no idea how much i didnt realize i needed this
This is your first videoi am watching currently......i want to say its the best place and i will stay here♥ i found your video completely explaining what happening in my life right now⭐⭐
you always upload your videos right when i need them!! i loved the video
Rebecca, this video is a perfect example of how just a short 10 minutes can do so much. In some cases its spending 10 minutes in the morning to romanticize the little things, but in this case it was watching your video. You gave me so much motivation to make a change this year, thank you!❤
Always there for us at a perfect timing ! Exactly what I needed today. Thank you so much for being authentic and soooo kind. Love u
love u ❤️❤️
dayum, I feel like my whole life I'm always waiting and waiting for the 'better' to come and it never does. I need to enjoy the present more..
I feel lonely and negative and this video really helped me
Thank you Rebecca you made my day💗💗💕
I can't explain my feeling rn in words, i need some motivation form last week's, wasn't able to study alot but this video helped me alot, you have a pure soul Rebecca thanku soo much 🥺💗
okay but curly hair suits you sm omgg
This will probably get lost somewhere but I remember when I first watched this video in 2022, and I always seem to come back to this. I miss watching these kind of videos and this fills me with sooo much nostalgia. This is honestly one of my favourite video formats and love love love watching your older videos. There’s something so comforting about this ❤️❤️
your so kinddd, your my inspiration. 🤧🥺
you should honestly write your own book, cause this video is just amazingly pure and wonderful to watch!!
Okk gonna be ready with popcorns to watch this !!! Yaaayyy ♥️
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the editing in this omg literally a masterpiece this deserves sm more views
thank u 😫 it took foreverrrr
Thank for this Rebecca 🤍🤍
U don't know how many people u have helps. U r a god sentttt
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You hace no idea how much you helped me! Big hug for you gorgeous!!
I love that I see this after crying about how I wish my life was like those I see on social media- maybe it's a sign.
I agree so much! ive dealed with axiety and stress for a while, when i started living my life how i wanted to live it i stopped worrying all the time. Im so much more happy now that I know that i want to live in the present moment and make the most of it even tho it can be SOOOO hard. I hope all of you will get better and really use this video for it's purpose (:
Bye
this was so inspiring thankyou!!! 💕💕💕 also your editing is amazing!
Amazing editing!! I know you must have worked so hard great job sis we love you!!!
Absolutely amazing!! Make me appreciate my life more and I feel like I’m not alone 😭😭
these videos help me so much thank youuu rebecca
You bring colors to my life every single day . Thanks Rebecca
first video of yours that i've seen and i loved every second. immediately subscribed :)
ugh i love u sm
lovely to have someone to remind me to be my own main character
i absolutely love this warm hearted content so much , keep it up
This video came exactly when I needed it. Thanks Rebecca
omg i needed this! I've been feeling really down lately 🥺💘
I got you ❤️❤️
I needed this. I've been so stressed about school lately and when I'm not my life seems pretty boring, but I'm gonna try changing that❤
I love the way you make your video simple and in really positive way...
Hey thank you, i just don't feeling myself for the past 3 weeks, and after i saw your vids my mood got a lilbit better now😊
The editing in this video was fantastic and so pleasing to watch!
You actually motivate me so much! Thanks to you I am starting to think about life as something fun and interesting other than something I have to go through. Thank you so much and love you!
The speech at the beginning *chefs kiss*
I found your channel a couple of days ago and this the second video I watch of yours and I just need to say thank you and I love you. ♡ Thank you because you're reminding me that it's possible to change my present by changing my mindset/the lens I see the world through and I love you because I absolutely love what you're doing. 💘 will keep watching your videos!! Xoxo
thank you for watching ❤️❤️
This is the best video on youtube I swear! Please keep making these, I found this to be super helpful and will be doing these! :)
I have depression and over think way too much but something that helps me is honestly going to school not for the learning lol but for wearing an outfit that looks good and I feel good for once unfortunately wearing a mask has allowed me to feel ok about slipping on important things but I have got my bf calling me to remind and help which I am truly blessed for
I just found your channel and now I can’t stop watching :) omg your videos are so simple yet powerful your a great addition to the earth thank you 😊
Your words gave me chills
There is nothing I love more than this channel ❤️
i just watched your last vedio and omg I'm literally so thankful to you for sharing the important thing with us ilysm 💗🧚
this was so well edited wow
I've been romanticizing my life since August and omggg 8 have never felt better 🥳🥳🥳
How? Can you tell?
@@zYuL05 yes I'm happy and it feels like in the main character
@@aestheticluv3r697 can you tell about your routines?
How were you doing it? 😊
this video is so beautiful and well made, i teared up a little at times...thank you
i could listen to your voice all day. U r so motivational. Love ya
you are so kind!!! I love you, beautiful soul
This actually helped me so much. Thank you for this!!
i just deleted all social media to find back to reality. it was so hard for me to see beautiful women everyday on social media that i compared myself to. your video just gave me so much motivation to work on myself and be the best version. i caught myself laying in bed all day the past months just scrolling through social media. i’m so unbelievable sad to became lazy and tired of creating a good life. i have so many issues in my relationship rn because i compare myself to his girl friends and being possessive. it needs to stop now and you made the first step to give me the motivation i’ve been waiting for. i appreciate this so much, thank you 🙏🏼
okay this is so beautiful! tomorrow i'm starting the last few months of highschool and i was already stressed about the final exam lol. now i think i will go studying but with a different mindset, tysm
goodluck with your finals ❤️❤️
I LOVE YOU 😭