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@@inesdz438 hmm it is like main characters live their life and change their fate but you can't change it and you live your life like how they want you to live. I thinks it is like that but not so sure.
I can't even explain how much my life changed when i realized: my life is supposed to be fun, not meh and boring. And to achieve that i need to do what i like, not care about others. I had a major confidence boost hit me about two years ago and i can just say my life completely changed. I stopped caring about what anyone was thinking, i just had fun. (There is a limit to that too though, sometimes people can disturb others while having fun. So it is all about balance.) I started being more open to things, more open to new adventures. I started doing stuff, not waiting for stuff to just come to me. I realized i can dress however i like, be who i am, unapologetically. I make my own decisions. I do whatever i think is right for me, i don't adjust my entire life according to the wants of others. I swear once i had that mental glow up my entire life changed. It is all in your head. Your life is whatever you make it, it's your decision.
Making yourself a priority is key. No one can make you a priority in your own life but you. From a self love content creator to another; beautiful video Aileen!! ❤️
I realized yesterday that I haven't been playing my favourite songs lately so I listened to BTS while washing the dishes and put on classical music and the theme from The Shire while making bread this morning😅 felt like I was in a 19th century movie in the countryside of England or something and it felt amazing! Love this video soo much Aileen🤗🤗
Omg I felt this because I haven’t listened or kept up with Kpop because I was procrastinating too much but now I want to listen to it again and keep up because it made me happy and I want to feel that again instead of feeling nothing during the whole summer
You know i literally was making my coffee while listening to still with you (jk solo) and it felt so good !!! So much positivity a very small step but made me feel relaxed and was a main character energy
I needed this. I was literally just thinking I am only a background actor in my life. Just kinda dwindling about and doing everything for everyone else’s movie. It’s a sad feeling.
Self discovery is the best way to become the main character of your life. You need to take out time for the most imp person of your life aka YOU. I always take time for myself no matter what my mood is. Whether im upset, im worried, tired, happy, excited or whatever, i never stop doing what makes me feel good. It can be anything. For me it's talking to myself while doing makeup. Makeup is something i love doing. As long as you do something JUST for yourself and not caring about others, trust me that's shoots up your confidence 1000x times. Like, if you're afraid of wearing that dress, just do it. Who knows you will turn out the most attractive person in room then?! I love how Aileen sista always focuses on these small points which we tend to miss out. Thank you so much!!😚💜
mine would be either... dramatic coming of age story, or biopic about a girl who grew up in the digital age (the start of the internet, social media, blogging, creating, etc) 😋
i’ve been a slump for the longest time ever now, school is draining even when i’m not paying attention. i’m constantly on my phone and even when i’m bored with what’s going on my phone, i’m still on it 24/7. my screen time is 10 hours daily which is really bad and i want to fix it but just can’t. i want to stop procrastinating, not paying attention in class, etc. i wanna be active in class, always have my camera on, make notes, talk more in debate but my anxiety stops me. i can’t breathe, i can’t see properly, my body starts shaking and i just can’t do it. thank you for this video, its definitely helping me out
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I was just thinking this when the video came out : "I wish I could feel more often the way I feel when i'm coming out of a movie theater, when life seems a little bit different and magical for a few minutes"
Reflecting on self and re-wiring the behaviors and patterns i grew up with to better frame who I want to be. It’s such a fun life journey seeing the maturity and new foundations within myself. I’m at a point now I feel small and insecure with not having many friends/connections. I remind myself to be type of the friend (to myself) that I want in my life. I’m sure one day the right energies will cross paths 🥹
This desicion of becoming the main character poped out of my head from no where when I felt that I can't take others pressure and selfishness anymore and trying to takecare of their feelings too , and how funny that immediatly I found this vedio and after all this I realized that if you don't make yourself the main character of your life someone will use u and make himself the main of urlife
Can we all agree that videos like these are the only ones needed on youtube? No one needs a ton of slime pranks when videos like these exist. This video is such a middle finger towards depression.
I feel that Togi has Main Character Vibes!! Confidence, authenticity, soulfulness! Animals that are well taken care of become reactive and expressive :-)
My state of mind has been meh, unmotivated and tired (a bit bitter) for a month now to the point I shut myself from social media and friends to recharge. This video is the answer to my current state. I forgot how to be the main character because I dwell too much on my insecurities but this opened my eyes again. I'll start from scratch and feel good once more. Thank you so much Aileen 🥰🥰🥰
Hi Lavendaire , I was depressed and i didn't have any motivation till I discovered your channel about a month ago . i learned how to journal and make plans for my life and know myself better from you 😍 now im much better and in real peace thanks for your great content!
you know when I watch this video i started to feel like in the past, my past is saying "I don' t need help i can do it myself" but actually before I can do things myself, I need a guide so that I can get Inspiration to how people deal theirself in distractions which is what I'm dealing right now. hopefully I can get through this.
life is not to just be boring and a side character , frequently no one is a side character, everyone should be able to feel like a main character and loved!
This is so timely. I suddenly got tired of what's happening in my life. I work so hard but not getting what I want. I realize that maybe I'm being too hard on myself. I know I deserve more of life. I just let people use me. Today is the day I decide to love myself the most.
Thank you, I needed to hear this! Lately I've been thinking of myself as a character in other people stories, rather than the star of my own. This shift of mindset is so powerful! Especially the joy of truly accepting that No One Cares!😂 You always lift me up, Aileen. And the off the shoulder top is my favorite, so cute!!! xo
Have been insecure about my teenage acne and finding ways to not meet ppl and hide myself behind the doors, not going out with family and friends. This vid and some songs such as bts' 'love myself: answer' has really made me more confident in myself and my 'flaws'. Thanks a lot! 💜
yeah I use to be the side character.. shy, insecure....the people pleaser living in other people's frame instead of my own and it causes distress and disease. I created a whole program to change my mind to change my energy to change my life and now I don't shy from the spotlight..I believe I have a direct channel to Spirit and instead of shrinking under other people's judgment and ridicule I rise in the power of SPIRIT. Namaste
Since childhood I feel like I am in a movie.. But I always felt like a side character.. And it was since the past few years that I am trying to improve myself, love myself and trying to be the main character in my life..Thank you for showing and sharing how can I be a main character in my life ❤ more power to you, god bless you ✨
Seriously needed this so much.. the stress from work and studies have made me feel so low and irritated.. I was not sure, but now I know that I felt like the side character; as if I am just living each day, not living my dream life.. But when you said "No one care", I laughed.. This one life cheer up my mind.. This has boost up my motivation.. I want to look and feel good.. I have to stop feeling guilty of buying clothes for myself or eating whatever I want too.. I just have to remember myself as the main character and make the most beautiful movie.. Thank you so much.. 💜
This is such a cool concept! 😄 The first time I heard about this was from the beautiful, positive TH-camr called Darling Desi. She published a similar video last year in 2020 about being the main character in your own story. She is more like "Live your life as if it was a Studio Ghibli film. Where every moment is the best one you've ever had." And I loved that and it's so cool that you've made one yourself Aileen! 💗
Never knew I needed this, i have maladaptive-daydreaming and most of the time,I daydream about some fake scenerio's and most of them don't even include me, and the ones that include me distant me from the real life. ✨ So this is just amazing ✨
You are one of the effective vloggers I've ever faced..you know what,I am an energetic guy and by watching ur videos getting more .needless to say spreading positive vibration gets back to us .so just keep it up..
Thank you so much Aileen for this! I've been feeling overwhelmed and low energy lately, and now I'm motivated to take better care of myself in order to lift myself back up to a state where I can thrive. Thank you 😊
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"Find beauty in every scene of your life" Love this so much ❤️ my genre probably romantic comedy 🤣 ordinary life suddenly turned fun because I did something new and don't care what other think.
Aileen, your energy in this video is so infectious! Just before watching this video, I had a really tough week... My family is dealing with the passing of my uncle due to cancer, my brother went through his first break up, and there has been a lot of tension at work because I've been stressed about my grad school applications and my managers are unhappy with how I let my anxiety affect my work. And it seems I might be positive for COVID (rapid tests showed a very faint line so waiting for PCR test to confirm), even though I am fully vaccinated and have taken all precautionary measures of sanitizing and masking up. I've just been feeling so low in mood and had several breakdowns this past week where I'd burst out in tears because I truly felt invaluable and unworthy, as if all the work I had done was erased and I am back to square one. Watching this video made me feel inspired and excited to get back on my feet and channel my inner main character energy. Thank you, Aileen 💛
Living on-campus has made me realize that no one really cares about what you wear. There are people who wear hoodies, there are people who wear dresses, sports bras, khakis, suits. We are all so different and there's no single rule to tell us what to wear or how to look.
Your eyeliner is on point today mama. My movie is a noir thriller, and I’m in all black everything with silver aviator shades and dark red lip. This is actually my every day style and I get lots of compliments in random places like gas stations or dance class. I have always lived as THE main character in my story and I guess it shows :)
You're such an inspiration Aileen! From now on I WILL be the main character in my life and i will put all my effort into making it happen. Lots of love from India❤
Yes, of course.. This is what I really needed to be clear about. I read it somewhere that be the main character of your life.. But I wasn't clear about it, and honestly took it in a negative way.. Like everyone is everyone's main character.. Blah blah blah.. But now I got, what it actually means.. Thank you so much 💫✨💖 .. This is the best thing I have ever learned.. Thank you 😇💜💜💜
Just found this channel after listening to one of your 5 min meditations. I really resonate with this as I’m an online fitness coach and named my brand HEROZ and my motto is to become the hero of your own story for my clients. So this really helped me remind myself why I do what I do ❤️
I needed this reminder this week, I feel like I've been letting myself stay "blah" because I'm in a covid lockdown at the moment, but I will try to make the most of the free time I do have.😌 Also, my fav piece was the Celine bag! love it 💗
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Loveeee this so much ✨ I really needed to hear this. I’ve always been just waiting for that “movie like” moment to wear or do or say what I want, or romanticize my life, when I should live like that all the time.
Your rainbow color top is so good and I am in love with this.. I think I would wear floral dresses as I love the prints and it literally spark joy to my style and life!!❣️
Honestly, I was feeling really insecure and sad before watching this video so I remembered that I put this video in my playlist so I watched it and feel a lot better now. Thanks (:
This might be positive thing for someone and not so positive thing for someone else. But here's another thing u can do to make u feel like a MC: Record ur days. Like just snippets. Abt the highlights of the day. You can choose to record a simple study day or a fun and exciting day. You don't have to post it (u can if u want) but just keep it w u. Watch anytime u want. Add music to the background of the vid. Maybe a video. Or u can make a TH-cam channel. (Make it a private one. So only u can see ur vids) and post them on that channel
Awwww, Omg, Thank you soo much for this beautiful video my Lovee !! This is really soo helpful, articulate and lovelyy !! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THISS AND I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH MY ANGELLL !! SENDING YOU LOADS OF LOVEE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND BIGG HUGSS !! MAY GOD BLESS YOU SOO ABUNDANTLY BABE !! ❤️❤️❤️🦋
"most of the time I feel like a side character" you got me there Edit: okay after watching this video, which is beautiful, I want to say that I've tried acting out the ordinary things in my life as if I was in a movie and it only made me more self conscious and ultimately feel a bit dumb. Just my experience thought maybe someone may relate :)
Hi, random internet stranger. Your identity is built from your actions. If you have always been a side character it's going to be bloody hard and awkward to be the main character. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't continue to try. Few things are easy the first go-round. Leaning into the acting trope a bit, main characters in movies have to practice their lines before they can give a big performance, maybe you should practice? :)
You dont have to be conscious at all, remember that you are doing this for yourself and just enjoy the things you do- its okay if you are feeling so. Side characters are called so, because they are in someone's elses story and might just be a helping hand , in the off stage- in the shadows of the movie, you are you. Just be you and everything is gonna be fineee💜
As much as I love all of your videos, this one was just plain AMAZING. Honestly, I think I loved the confidence you exuded in every outfit and the intro boss babe vibes was 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Thank you for always creating high quality videos, Aileen!
I'm just a background actor in my life. I'm thinking my life is not amazing like the other people. But I realize We are the main character of our life because every people are different and unique so that makes special for each person. Thank You Aileen for the video, ur video is really inspiring me a lot to be brave, confidence and to enjoy the life and more, and also to love my self in good way. :) I feel fortune in the early last year 2020 because found this channel. Love you Aileen
Haha.. This is what i have been doing from past few months and i now absolutely enjoy life way more. Nice to see that someone else is also doing the same.
I love the floral dress! It suits you. Most of the time I love to wear 👗 because I'm in touch with my feminine energy. I feel my main energy when I'm in touch with myself. Feminine, gentle, confident and strong-that's how I like my energy. When I was in highschool I did not give myself enough permission to wear what I want because I think I'm not pretty enough to wear it but when I started at college and put effort in self-love, I allow myself to explore with more feminine clothes and I like it so I stick with it. Hehe Thank you Aileen for the wonderful video. 🙏
💥☄️💥🦢💋 00:00 Love the starting note .. thats makes the video realistic 02:17 Tip starts 2:55 Don’t chase perfectionism 🪄🙃🥿 A limiting believe that I have 😊 5:40 Music I would absolutely agree 6:50 Don’t be overwhelmed or seek external help & team all a time 🕰️ You are the ONE man army. 🫵🏼💋
It’s my first comment and I want to tell you that your videos are influenced me a lot... I was suffered from anxiety and in that period I tried to imitate you because most of your content are very close for myself... For now also, my role model is you Aileen! 💖 You are really pretty in the long dress... 🌸💕 Stay pretty and safe!
Amazing video Aileen! I definitely needed to see this today :) I loved all of your outfit choices but I think for me it was the rainbow top with the sleeves! Made me want to go out and add lots of colour to my wardrobe as it's all a bit grey and 1 dimensional. Thank you for always sharing inspirational content xxx
I really love watching your videos. I am also shy and always want to hide from people. I avoid eye contact. But deep inside I want to show up. I need confident
I started to meditate from January constantly brcause of your guided meditation videos that i really really like and they litterally changed my life thank u so so much
My younger brother told me the other day I have Main character energy, I had never heard of it! I was telling him I wanted to bring all my art supplies to a coffee shop and paint in in the coffee shop drinking coffee. So watching this video to find out what that means. It sounds good! If you look at my natal chart in astrology I have Leo in Mars, I will put it down to that!
dear everyone 💗🌷 ! Just some positive reminders . You're all beautiful the way you are and you're skin color is pretty the way it is 🤩💞 ! Be who you want to be and do what you want to do 🎀🍄❤️ !! Don't drop your crown queens out there ! I hope you all have an amazing day and it's always okay to not be perfect 🦋🌙🌻✨
Thanks so much for this. I've struggled with self love for the longest time and you are one of my inspirations. Your videos help me push through my everyday struggles with self love. I aspire to become like you someday, PS: i love how your sponsored videos does not scream "i got paid to make this video". Every single video that you create, whether sponsored or not, are always so insightful.
Dear Aileen, thank you so much for your honesty! I always thought: My God, she's so inspiring, she built this business and makes money by doing what she loves everyday. Her life looks so perfect - like THE dream life. I'm relieved to see I'm not the only one struggling sometimes (or more often than sometimes ...). I'm working from home, too, I am self-employed, too, but on many days it doesn't feel amazing at all. It just feels like "Blah, I'm not doing something exciting". (I have to admit: I was born with a rather melancholic mindset.^^) I wanna learn how to have a better mindset on most days and feel more happy in life. Thank you for always helping us make the most of it.
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Ngl I used to be jealous of the people who were main characters in their lives and always thought I would be a side character!!
How do you know if someone is the main character ?
What does it mean to be the main characters ?? 🤔
@@inesdz438 its all mindset
@@inesdz438 hmm it is like main characters live their life and change their fate but you can't change it and you live your life like how they want you to live. I thinks it is like that but not so sure.
You can be the main character babe!!
I can't even explain how much my life changed when i realized: my life is supposed to be fun, not meh and boring. And to achieve that i need to do what i like, not care about others. I had a major confidence boost hit me about two years ago and i can just say my life completely changed. I stopped caring about what anyone was thinking, i just had fun. (There is a limit to that too though, sometimes people can disturb others while having fun. So it is all about balance.) I started being more open to things, more open to new adventures. I started doing stuff, not waiting for stuff to just come to me. I realized i can dress however i like, be who i am, unapologetically. I make my own decisions. I do whatever i think is right for me, i don't adjust my entire life according to the wants of others. I swear once i had that mental glow up my entire life changed. It is all in your head. Your life is whatever you make it, it's your decision.
*If you are reading this, never ever give up. We will succeed. I'm cheering for you!*
Have a great day! 🖤
I was sure i will find ur comment there !
😭you made my dayyyy 💕🥺💖🌍
Thank you ❤
Making yourself a priority is key. No one can make you a priority in your own life but you.
From a self love content creator to another; beautiful video Aileen!! ❤️
Great video .. ive been struggling a little with this .. ima dress up and go buy some flowers 🤣
@@gabrielnicholls2000 loll it’ll work!! Do it for yourself!!
@@F0reverblessed thanks . I appreciate you
I realized yesterday that I haven't been playing my favourite songs lately so I listened to BTS while washing the dishes and put on classical music and the theme from The Shire while making bread this morning😅 felt like I was in a 19th century movie in the countryside of England or something and it felt amazing! Love this video soo much Aileen🤗🤗
Omg I felt this because I haven’t listened or kept up with Kpop because I was procrastinating too much but now I want to listen to it again and keep up because it made me happy and I want to feel that again instead of feeling nothing during the whole summer
Aww love to hear you find joy again thru music ✨
You know i literally was making my coffee while listening to still with you (jk solo) and it felt so good !!! So much positivity a very small step but made me feel relaxed and was a main character energy
Yaaay! Me tooo I've been way to busy for a while and haven't really had a listen to a good playlist gosh I miss it so much
"Life is an art, make it your masterpiece."
I needed this. I was literally just thinking I am only a background actor in my life. Just kinda dwindling about and doing everything for everyone else’s movie. It’s a sad feeling.
Self discovery is the best way to become the main character of your life. You need to take out time for the most imp person of your life aka YOU. I always take time for myself no matter what my mood is. Whether im upset, im worried, tired, happy, excited or whatever, i never stop doing what makes me feel good. It can be anything. For me it's talking to myself while doing makeup. Makeup is something i love doing. As long as you do something JUST for yourself and not caring about others, trust me that's shoots up your confidence 1000x times. Like, if you're afraid of wearing that dress, just do it. Who knows you will turn out the most attractive person in room then?! I love how Aileen sista always focuses on these small points which we tend to miss out. Thank you so much!!😚💜
A fun question for you: What genre would your life movie be? 😍
mine would be either... dramatic coming of age story, or biopic about a girl who grew up in the digital age (the start of the internet, social media, blogging, creating, etc) 😋
It will be sexy business woman always traveling and taking care of herself
Definitely a romcom, I love some of the older ones from the 2000s haha
A fantasy with romantic academia, cottagecore, and royale core vibes
Slowliving calm🥰💓
You are not your thoughts. You are the witness of each thought.
i’ve been a slump for the longest time ever now, school is draining even when i’m not paying attention. i’m constantly on my phone and even when i’m bored with what’s going on my phone, i’m still on it 24/7. my screen time is 10 hours daily which is really bad and i want to fix it but just can’t. i want to stop procrastinating, not paying attention in class, etc. i wanna be active in class, always have my camera on, make notes, talk more in debate but my anxiety stops me. i can’t breathe, i can’t see properly, my body starts shaking and i just can’t do it. thank you for this video, its definitely helping me out
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I was just thinking this when the video came out : "I wish I could feel more often the way I feel when i'm coming out of a movie theater, when life seems a little bit different and magical for a few minutes"
Reflecting on self and re-wiring the behaviors and patterns i grew up with to better frame who I want to be. It’s such a fun life journey seeing the maturity and new foundations within myself. I’m at a point now I feel small and insecure with not having many friends/connections. I remind myself to be type of the friend (to myself) that I want in my life. I’m sure one day the right energies will cross paths 🥹
This desicion of becoming the main character poped out of my head from no where when I felt that I can't take others pressure and selfishness anymore and trying to takecare of their feelings too , and how funny that immediatly I found this vedio and after all this I realized that if you don't make yourself the main character of your life someone will use u and make himself the main of urlife
Can we all agree that videos like these are the only ones needed on youtube? No one needs a ton of slime pranks when videos like these exist.
This video is such a middle finger towards depression.
Avoiding conflict definitely puts us in the side character energy!! Sometimes we just need to face what is 🤷🏻♀️🤗
I feel that Togi has Main Character Vibes!! Confidence, authenticity, soulfulness! Animals that are well taken care of become reactive and expressive :-)
My state of mind has been meh, unmotivated and tired (a bit bitter) for a month now to the point I shut myself from social media and friends to recharge. This video is the answer to my current state. I forgot how to be the main character because I dwell too much on my insecurities but this opened my eyes again. I'll start from scratch and feel good once more. Thank you so much Aileen 🥰🥰🥰
Hi Lavendaire , I was depressed and i didn't have any motivation till I discovered your channel about a month ago . i learned how to journal and make plans for my life and know myself better from you 😍
now im much better and in real peace thanks for your great content!
you know when I watch this video i started to feel like in the past, my past is saying "I don' t need help i can do it myself" but actually before I can do things myself, I need a guide so that I can get Inspiration to how people deal theirself in distractions which is what I'm dealing right now. hopefully I can get through this.
It's more about who you impress than how much you impress. If people you look up to are impressed by you, you're on a great journey.
life is not to just be boring and a side character , frequently no one is a side character, everyone should be able to feel like a main character and loved!
This is so timely. I suddenly got tired of what's happening in my life. I work so hard but not getting what I want. I realize that maybe I'm being too hard on myself. I know I deserve more of life. I just let people use me. Today is the day I decide to love myself the most.
👏🏻👏🏻🤗 go sistah! We got this!! ☀️
having good energy can spread onto someone else. make someone else happy today ☺️
I’ve always felt like the side character because, I’ve never been appreciated enough.
I think the best part of my movie is I know what makes me happy or sad and I choose to be happy and energetic all the time
OK... But, Am I the only person that her videos make me happy? 🌞🌞
Ur not alone 🥺🥺🥺
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Thank you, I needed to hear this! Lately I've been thinking of myself as a character in other people stories, rather than the star of my own. This shift of mindset is so powerful! Especially the joy of truly accepting that No One Cares!😂 You always lift me up, Aileen. And the off the shoulder top is my favorite, so cute!!! xo
Always be the main character because it your’s story
Have been insecure about my teenage acne and finding ways to not meet ppl and hide myself behind the doors, not going out with family and friends. This vid and some songs such as bts' 'love myself: answer' has really made me more confident in myself and my 'flaws'. Thanks a lot! 💜
Walking down the street to your favorite song with shades on is top is top tier! Lol
I've always been told I'm a main character but never truly felt that way
yeah I use to be the side character.. shy, insecure....the people pleaser living in other people's frame instead of my own and it causes distress and disease. I created a whole program to change my mind to change my energy to change my life and now I don't shy from the spotlight..I believe I have a direct channel to Spirit and instead of shrinking under other people's judgment and ridicule I rise in the power of SPIRIT. Namaste
This was very accurate to burnout too. This was very comforting and encouraging, I like how you emphasized having fun and channel energy.
Since childhood I feel like I am in a movie.. But I always felt like a side character.. And it was since the past few years that I am trying to improve myself, love myself and trying to be the main character in my life..Thank you for showing and sharing how can I be a main character in my life ❤ more power to you, god bless you ✨
Seriously needed this so much.. the stress from work and studies have made me feel so low and irritated.. I was not sure, but now I know that I felt like the side character; as if I am just living each day, not living my dream life.. But when you said "No one care", I laughed.. This one life cheer up my mind.. This has boost up my motivation.. I want to look and feel good.. I have to stop feeling guilty of buying clothes for myself or eating whatever I want too.. I just have to remember myself as the main character and make the most beautiful movie.. Thank you so much.. 💜
This is such a cool concept! 😄 The first time I heard about this was from the beautiful, positive TH-camr called Darling Desi. She published a similar video last year in 2020 about being the main character in your own story. She is more like "Live your life as if it was a Studio Ghibli film. Where every moment is the best one you've ever had." And I loved that and it's so cool that you've made one yourself Aileen! 💗
girl you should totally make a podcast. i would be listening to it 24/7 !! x
Never knew I needed this, i have maladaptive-daydreaming and most of the time,I daydream about some fake scenerio's and most of them don't even include me, and the ones that include me distant me from the real life.
✨ So this is just amazing ✨
Well let’s appreciate the intro. That’s was the highlight of the video
You are one of the effective vloggers I've ever faced..you know what,I am an energetic guy and by watching ur videos getting more .needless to say spreading positive vibration gets back to us .so just keep it up..
From one shy person to another, just wanna say thank you for the inspiration.
I've been really getting into playlists with "pov" and moods that scream main character, only really pieces it together with this video! Love it x
You're such a ball of positivity! 💜
Thank you so much Aileen for this! I've been feeling overwhelmed and low energy lately, and now I'm motivated to take better care of myself in order to lift myself back up to a state where I can thrive. Thank you 😊
I watch ur videos when my mind gets messy
Very calming and pleasing and pretty and informative
Tysm
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"Find beauty in every scene of your life"
Love this so much ❤️
my genre probably romantic comedy 🤣
ordinary life suddenly turned fun because I did something new and don't care what other think.
Aileen, your energy in this video is so infectious! Just before watching this video, I had a really tough week... My family is dealing with the passing of my uncle due to cancer, my brother went through his first break up, and there has been a lot of tension at work because I've been stressed about my grad school applications and my managers are unhappy with how I let my anxiety affect my work. And it seems I might be positive for COVID (rapid tests showed a very faint line so waiting for PCR test to confirm), even though I am fully vaccinated and have taken all precautionary measures of sanitizing and masking up. I've just been feeling so low in mood and had several breakdowns this past week where I'd burst out in tears because I truly felt invaluable and unworthy, as if all the work I had done was erased and I am back to square one. Watching this video made me feel inspired and excited to get back on my feet and channel my inner main character energy. Thank you, Aileen 💛
Yess! Aileen you have no idea how much you have helped me through your videos! Thank you soo much sis!💕💜
I recently started watching you.
Really love you💜
"You're the artist of your life.you can create whatever you want"
From 5min meditation
Living on-campus has made me realize that no one really cares about what you wear. There are people who wear hoodies, there are people who wear dresses, sports bras, khakis, suits. We are all so different and there's no single rule to tell us what to wear or how to look.
Your eyeliner is on point today mama. My movie is a noir thriller, and I’m in all black everything with silver aviator shades and dark red lip. This is actually my every day style and I get lots of compliments in random places like gas stations or dance class. I have always lived as THE main character in my story and I guess it shows :)
You're such an inspiration Aileen!
From now on I WILL be the main character in my life and i will put all my effort into making it happen.
Lots of love from India❤
Yes, of course.. This is what I really needed to be clear about. I read it somewhere that be the main character of your life.. But I wasn't clear about it, and honestly took it in a negative way.. Like everyone is everyone's main character.. Blah blah blah..
But now I got, what it actually means.. Thank you so much 💫✨💖 .. This is the best thing I have ever learned.. Thank you 😇💜💜💜
The tip about music is soooo true! Music is such a great form of expression and written from our emotional experiences. Thanks for the video. ❤️
Just found this channel after listening to one of your 5 min meditations. I really resonate with this as I’m an online fitness coach and named my brand HEROZ and my motto is to become the hero of your own story for my clients. So this really helped me remind myself why I do what I do ❤️
I needed this reminder this week, I feel like I've been letting myself stay "blah" because I'm in a covid lockdown at the moment, but I will try to make the most of the free time I do have.😌 Also, my fav piece was the Celine bag! love it 💗
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with the red jacket you look so freaking gorgeous, such a queen;; love your new video, thanks for the confidence boost
Hehe ty love you!
Loveeee this so much ✨ I really needed to hear this. I’ve always been just waiting for that “movie like” moment to wear or do or say what I want, or romanticize my life, when I should live like that all the time.
Your rainbow color top is so good and I am in love with this..
I think I would wear floral dresses as I love the prints and it literally spark joy to my style and life!!❣️
I watch this video everytime i feel low or doubt myself it really cheer me up & give me the confidence i need
Im loving this get- along aileen, i feel shes changed for the better she seems more open. Love aileeeeennnn always here for your videos
Honestly, I was feeling really insecure and sad before watching this video so I remembered that I put this video in my playlist so I watched it and feel a lot better now. Thanks (:
This might be positive thing for someone and not so positive thing for someone else. But here's another thing u can do to make u feel like a MC:
Record ur days. Like just snippets. Abt the highlights of the day. You can choose to record a simple study day or a fun and exciting day. You don't have to post it (u can if u want) but just keep it w u. Watch anytime u want. Add music to the background of the vid. Maybe a video.
Or u can make a TH-cam channel. (Make it a private one. So only u can see ur vids) and post them on that channel
Awwww, Omg, Thank you soo much for this beautiful video my Lovee !! This is really soo helpful, articulate and lovelyy !! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THISS AND I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH MY ANGELLL !! SENDING YOU LOADS OF LOVEE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND BIGG HUGSS !! MAY GOD BLESS YOU SOO ABUNDANTLY BABE !! ❤️❤️❤️🦋
The red jacket was like a cherry on the cake
"most of the time I feel like a side character" you got me there
Edit: okay after watching this video, which is beautiful, I want to say that I've tried acting out the ordinary things in my life as if I was in a movie and it only made me more self conscious and ultimately feel a bit dumb. Just my experience thought maybe someone may relate :)
Hi, random internet stranger. Your identity is built from your actions. If you have always been a side character it's going to be bloody hard and awkward to be the main character. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't continue to try. Few things are easy the first go-round. Leaning into the acting trope a bit, main characters in movies have to practice their lines before they can give a big performance, maybe you should practice? :)
@@taylormcneil2285 that's actually a very good way to think about it, thank you ! ^^
You dont have to be conscious at all, remember that you are doing this for yourself and just enjoy the things you do- its okay if you are feeling so. Side characters are called so, because they are in someone's elses story and might just be a helping hand , in the off stage- in the shadows of the movie, you are you. Just be you and everything is gonna be fineee💜
@@jasnoorkaur2499 thank youu💖
@@clau_sing_ mention not💜
As much as I love all of your videos, this one was just plain AMAZING. Honestly, I think I loved the confidence you exuded in every outfit and the intro boss babe vibes was 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Thank you for always creating high quality videos, Aileen!
I'm just a background actor in my life. I'm thinking my life is not amazing like the other people. But I realize We are the main character of our life because every people are different and unique so that makes special for each person. Thank You Aileen for the video, ur video is really inspiring me a lot to be brave, confidence and to enjoy the life and more, and also to love my self in good way. :) I feel fortune in the early last year 2020 because found this channel. Love you Aileen
Oh my Angel.💕
I love all of you. You have taught me a lot and I'm always grateful for it.
I love this so much! 0:54 YOU'RE A QUEEN !!
Thank you for always spreading positive vibes
Haha.. This is what i have been doing from past few months and i now absolutely enjoy life way more. Nice to see that someone else is also doing the same.
I love the floral dress! It suits you. Most of the time I love to wear 👗 because I'm in touch with my feminine energy. I feel my main energy when I'm in touch with myself. Feminine, gentle, confident and strong-that's how I like my energy. When I was in highschool I did not give myself enough permission to wear what I want because I think I'm not pretty enough to wear it but when I started at college and put effort in self-love, I allow myself to explore with more feminine clothes and I like it so I stick with it. Hehe
Thank you Aileen for the wonderful video. 🙏
💥☄️💥🦢💋
00:00 Love the starting note .. thats makes the video realistic
02:17 Tip starts
2:55 Don’t chase perfectionism 🪄🙃🥿
A limiting believe that I have 😊
5:40 Music I would absolutely agree
6:50 Don’t be overwhelmed or seek external help & team all a time 🕰️ You are the ONE man army. 🫵🏼💋
sometimes it's not all about what you said, but the vibes you brought to me are definitely awesome. Feeling more confident when watching your video
It’s my first comment and I want to tell you that your videos are influenced me a lot... I was suffered from anxiety and in that period I tried to imitate you because most of your content are very close for myself...
For now also, my role model is you Aileen! 💖
You are really pretty in the long dress... 🌸💕
Stay pretty and safe!
Amazing video Aileen! I definitely needed to see this today :) I loved all of your outfit choices but I think for me it was the rainbow top with the sleeves! Made me want to go out and add lots of colour to my wardrobe as it's all a bit grey and 1 dimensional. Thank you for always sharing inspirational content xxx
I really love watching your videos. I am also shy and always want to hide from people. I avoid eye contact. But deep inside I want to show up. I need confident
I am living for this Aileen!! Love you so so much 💖 Loving the outfit with the Lirika Matoshi top 💕
I love it so much how you inspire and spread positivity to us in such a casual and light way❤ and I like the red jacket btw
I started to meditate from January constantly brcause of your guided meditation videos that i really really like and they litterally changed my life thank u so so much
My younger brother told me the other day I have Main character energy, I had never heard of it! I was telling him I wanted to bring all my art supplies to a coffee shop and paint in in the coffee shop drinking coffee.
So watching this video to find out what that means. It sounds good! If you look at my natal chart in astrology I have Leo in Mars, I will put it down to that!
GIRL ILYSM. The positive affirmations in this is amazing, you're the best. I loved watching this video so much.
The advices concerning the style... I mean... YES, YES, 1000 times YES!
It's 111 😍😍😍😍 I love your energy. I so feel like I've been blending into the background lately!
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I read this at 11:11!! ☺️
Its like you literally read my mind and make all these amazing videos ❤❤❤🥺🥺🥺 Thank you soo soo muchhh
I can feel a positive vibe in each of your videos. Thank you so much for sharing, Aileen. Love you
OMG i love her energy and her vibes!!
" Whatever you're doing, imagine you're doing it in a scene of a movie. "😎
Petition to update your podcast episodes!!!!!!😭😭😭
dear everyone 💗🌷 ! Just some positive reminders . You're all beautiful the way you are and you're skin color is pretty the way it is 🤩💞 ! Be who you want to be and do what you want to do 🎀🍄❤️ !! Don't drop your crown queens out there ! I hope you all have an amazing day and it's always okay to not be perfect 🦋🌙🌻✨
Thanks so much for this. I've struggled with self love for the longest time and you are one of my inspirations. Your videos help me push through my everyday struggles with self love. I aspire to become like you someday,
PS: i love how your sponsored videos does not scream "i got paid to make this video". Every single video that you create, whether sponsored or not, are always so insightful.
Hi di
Dear Aileen, thank you so much for your honesty!
I always thought: My God, she's so inspiring, she built this business and makes money by doing what she loves everyday. Her life looks so perfect - like THE dream life. I'm relieved to see I'm not the only one struggling sometimes (or more often than sometimes ...). I'm working from home, too, I am self-employed, too, but on many days it doesn't feel amazing at all. It just feels like "Blah, I'm not doing something exciting". (I have to admit: I was born with a rather melancholic mindset.^^)
I wanna learn how to have a better mindset on most days and feel more happy in life. Thank you for always helping us make the most of it.
Sending you lots of love 💓
I like your tips, I will apply them. Thank you for your effort😊💗
I'm the main writer of my life story.. I wear what i want, eat what I like, do what i desire ...Thank a bunch for your sharing