Author Summary: Everything is F*cked a Book About Hope
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- Book summary by the author.
This is the official summary of the #1 New York Times Best Seller, ‘Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope’, by me, Mark Manson. So buckle up bitches, Uncle Mark is taking you for another ride. Just the way you loved ‘The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck’ Summary (link below), you’re going to be all over this one too. This book is a meatier and more intellectual book than The Subtle Art, and just like The Subtle Art questioned our conventional wisdom on what makes us happy, this one goes and questions our assumptions on what makes life worth living. So I made sure this video summary does exactly that. Sort of.
See below for chapter time codes.
Intro: 00:00
PART 1: HOPE
Chapter 1: The Uncomfortable Truth 5:33
Chapter 2: Self-Control Is an Illusion 12:00
Chapter 3: Newton’s Laws of Emotions 16:30
Chapter 4: How to Make All Your Dreams Come True 22:26
Chapter 5: Hope is Fucked 27:12
PART 2: EVERYTHING IS FUCKED
Chapter 6: The Formula of Humanity 30:41
Chapter 7: Pain Is the Universal Constant 37:04
Chapter 8: The Feelings Economy 40:33
Chapter 9: The Final Religion 44:31
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Thanks for watching.
I bought the book 5 minutes into the video, you kept blowing my mind every minute after. Holy shit.
Dude, this book made a big impact for me as a father. Once I gave into the idea that my kids don't have thinking brains and that my job is to pay attention to their feelings and realize that all of their actions are driven entirely by their feelings, I turned into a much better dad.
Hi, Dad!
That chapter was quite interesting to read.
I would like to read this book.
I'm a father and I've always understood that, btw.
Glad it helped you...
@@chucktouchton398 The book is phenomenal.
this was so beautiful to hear. im going through that and i am trying to be a better dad to my two year old.
Your books are SO good, dude.
I love your channel dude. Keep it up!
agreed. they helped me start changing the way I think and I'll be grateful for them forever for that
We need more books by him!
He is fucking Awesome you are too
I loved your vedeos so much
You’re fucking SO good too, Clark. Both of you are insightful, helpful humans.
“Attachment leads to jealousy. The shadow of greed that is. Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose.”
Love from a small channel 💙
New York Times and international bestselling author summarize his new book free for not five but fourty five minutes, yet there are still people who dislike the video.. what a time to be alive.. Thanks Mark, love from Turkey
This book was so good, I read it over 4 times. Here is my most favorite part of the book.
We are inconsequential cosmic dust, bumping and milling about on a tiny blue speck. We imagine our own importance. We invent our purpose-we are nothing.
Sounds a lot like David Deutsch
Carl Sagan's pale blue dot
how do i process this, like how do i apply this to my thoughts?
@@hammbaby just understand the basic concept behind it.
Sound like Schopenhauer
"A philosophy book disguised as a self-help book" as he described it at a talk in Google. Authors like you are the philosophers and great thinkers of our time. Respect!
Your books have taught me to become sarcastically wiser, which I suprisingly prefer over toxic optimism :))
Same😂😂😂😭😭😭
This is me. I've become too complex for people to understand
I've read many reviews about how people find Mark's writing to have an overuse of the word 'fuck' and unnecessary cussing throughout, etc. This is a perfect example of people completely missing the point. The pure refreshment of a raw and contrasting book with no fucks given is exactly what many people need to hear right now. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear and in some cases that teacher just so happens to be a book like this one. So many lessons and a glimpse of actual light in the already very messy world of self help books!
Books are very limited medium. He told correctly - our feelings much more impact actions than logical side. IMO much better tool is games, because better immerses and easier to create appropriate stimulus.
My parents can’t stand reading marks book because there’s too much swearing 😂😂
@@Genny-Zee So many people! It's definitely something people need to be ready for and I think that's important.
The use of obscene or taboo language - or swearing, as it’s more commonly known - is often seen as a sign that the speaker lacks vocabulary, cannot express themselves in a less offensive way, or even lacks intelligence.
Studies have shown, however, that swearing may in fact display a more, rather than less, intelligent use of language.
While swearing can become a habit, we choose to swear in different contexts and for different purposes: for linguistic effect, to convey emotion, for laughs, or perhaps even to be deliberately nasty.
Psychologists interested in when and why people swear try to look past the stereotype that swearing is the language of the unintelligent and illiterate.
In fact, a study by psychologists from Marist College found links between how fluent a person is in the English language and how fluent they are in swearing.
The former - verbal fluency - can be measured by asking volunteers to think of as many words beginning with a certain letter of the alphabet as they can in 1 minute.
People with greater language skills can generally think of more examples in the allotted time. Based on this approach, the researchers created the swearing fluency task. This task requires volunteers to list as many different swear words as they can think of in 1 minute.
I never cared about the constant cursing, sometimes it made me laugh. I found others problems with the books that I won't list, yet I enjoyed the lessons nonetheless.
If you get easily offended or annoyed by a word like f, then you're definitely missing the whole point of the book
I'm from Brazil and your work is well known around here.
Thanks for making this channel, your sincere way of trying to help people is an inspiration to me!
Vai Brasil!! 🇧🇷
Adoro teu trabalho, Ludo
nem fudendo
Esse livro também mudpu minha vida. I love watch this channel for practice my English and learn more about the Mark Manson and yours ideas.
I love Madagaskar
The religion/cult part is true in all circuits. That’s why I see it as an important thing for my daughter to connect with as many bubbles as possible. Bubbles as family, school, friends and hobbies, later in life hopefully a beneficial work environment. If one turns toxic, others will still be there. I think that is valueable for the mental condition.
I believe that this is the reason for the demise of the human condition and I am not sure what you mean by bubbles in which your daughter is being brought up in, besides what is on the surface, in relation to the dynamic of this religion and cultic BS???
@@chasecook3647
I think we are misunderstanding each other. It’s more about the in-group/out-group dynamic. So try to find more in-groups to fit into to minimize the risk of being isolated if you become unwanted in any of them.
Hope the book clears it up a bit.
@JustAnother Nick and the problem is that I am a big overthinker and perception can change from day to day, right, but I do see some validity in what you're saying. . . I have a question for you: Do Yall ever wonder how God in His infinite Wisdom, how He has connected all of the events, past, and present, and future into this NOW that we all know to be "reality" (How we perceive those very things - -PAST, PRESENT, and FUTURE. . . It was just a thought And I think of it as a big spider 🕸️ web, a network of sorts, where God has worked out all of our fears, our faults, and our failures and kind of woven them into a single path that leads to Him and ahhhhh ugh, I wish that I could put it into better words!
@@chasecook3647
I think I understand somewhat where you are in this dilemma. And I don't think there are words to do it justice.
I don't believe there is a God but still I choose to believe in some spiritual form of hope and optimism even though I see more of the opposite all around is. It's a form of acceptance of not being able to control and not wanting to control the future. God isn't relevant to me but I would like to believe in optimism and the betterment of coming times. What can I do about it? My best, and I have to accept that.
Hope you sort of grasp what I tried to argue for here.
All the best to you!
As an independent writer, don’t be afraid to speak up your mind, even if that means losing or polarizing some readers. You keep doing you and readers are gonna like you for the right reasons; like for being genuine and unapologetic.
absolutely! he's my favourite author and public figure, I've got a lot of admiration for him
I liked Subtle Art but I absolutely loved Everything Is. I'm also pleasantly surprised that I understood Chapter 4. Thanks Mark for creating this wonderful piece of work.
A summary of "Models" would be nice, it's a good and honest book.
Right! I ended half way... and never got time to complete it
100% agree. As a 22 year old college student in an area where there is an insane of pressure to get married young, reading Models eased so many of my worries. Such an underrated book.
The only thing I’ve ever memorized came from The Subtle Art…
“Don’t trust your conception of Positive or negative experiences. All that we know for certain is what hurts in the moment and what doesn’t, and that’s not worth much.”
Everything is fucked is a masterpiece.Thank you Mark for this incredible book.
Mr. Mark, that book is a masterpiece! I loved it because it's dark and we share the same beliefs, wisdom should be thought provoking and uncomfortable!
Hey man I am from India and a huge fan of you too...A friend of mine suggested your book and I bought and read it. It was one of the best decisions of my life. I was having a really hard time and your book help me get through it. I used to read so many self help books and none of them has been so damn convincing like yours. To be frank, it really helped me...Thanks man:)
Just finished Everything is f*cked and I cant tell you how many times I highlighted passages from the book. It is definitely one of the best self-help books I have ever read. It's a book that has become part of my psyche in a way. I cant help but look at the world through the lens of this book now. Chapter 7: Pain is a universal constant was so brilliantly written I think I am going to read it every few days to help me keep perspective of my own struggles through life.
I wish every author did this. You describe the book in a way that hyped it up but doesn’t completely spoil it. Appreciate you dude, I’m picking this up after I finish Subtle Art 💪🏻🤙🏻
The opposite of happiness is literally mind blowing and makes so much logical sense
*”I can accept failure, everybody fails at something. But I can not accept not trying.”*
-Michael Jordan
Love from a small channel💙
Mark is become more and more funny these days ! He wasn't like this in the past....Maybe he doesn't give a F**K anymore for anything
Calling for an author summary of Models!
Exactly man!
you're the chosen one!
Me too
Yes!
Me too
Yay! Thank you Mark! I've been waiting for this one. Chapter 4 is my favorite. Love your work!
Loved the book and how much it’s stretched your work. Been reading you “religiously” since back in postmasculine (circa 2010) days and love to see your evolution as a person and professional!
My favorite man out there. I keep reading both books over and over again. Awesome. I can’t wait for your next write up. ❤️
To build and maintain hope, we need three things: a sense of control, a belief in the value of something, and a community.
“Control” means we feel as though we’re in control of our own life, that we can affect our fate. “Values” means we find something important enough to work toward, something better, that’s worth striving for. And “community” means we are part of a group that values the same things we do and is working toward achieving those things. Without a community, we feel isolated, and our values cease to mean anything. Without values, nothing appears worth pursuing. And without control, we feel powerless to pursue anything. Lose any of the three, and you lose the other two. Lose any of the three, and you lose hope.
About to finish it ..just a fee pages left
This video literally just came in time!!
I am completely blown away by the book
Probably the best investment i would ever make on buying books😭♥
Cool. I read it in XII
I don't know how, but this guy managed to put all the things I wanted to know more about in one book. All themes he talks about are so interesting, even themes like AI that I never had interest in he explains so simply. You can really see the difference between his last book and this one. He has grown so much as a writer. He is a modern day philosopher and I am so glad people see his work. He is truly a genius.
I accientally stumbled upon the book during my vaction in an airbnb house in Iceland.
Started to read it and continued quickly all to the end.
This book is, in my opinion, one of the best books in the so called self help category.
In particular it really opened up my eyes to how struggle and pain is really necessary for our feeling of purpose, meaning and happiness in life.
It just have to be pain we feel is worth it.
That having to struggle is not a bad thing and we should not expect life to just be all fun and happy all the time.
Also very entertaining to read.
I had never been into reading, and I remember coming across the book in an airport and only buying it because the title was edgy. Now I've read it multiple times and turn to a random chapter whenever I feel everything is, well, fucked. You have no idea how big of an influence you are to me and many others. Your writing style is impossible not to get invested in
I found your chapter regarding the Hedonic treadmill and the folly of the Pursuit of Happiness to be what spoke most to me. Our society is indeed so focused on personal satisfaction that they don’t really live with purpose; and as a result, can’t handle when things cause them discomfort. Pain is a virtue and we should not be afraid to face it in order to be better. No such thing “Happily ever after”. A good life is where you live till you die with conviction and meaning.
It's a bit of a cliché, but I planned to only watch a few minutes now only to be unable to move away from it because it was so good. Hearing you talk about the book, I fell in love with it without having read a single page.
The Subtle Art has been probably my most favorite book for a while, but as I've lately gotten into stoicism I kind of wished I could get something like a blend between The Subtle Art and the ancient stoic texts. So needless to say, I'm looking forward to reading it :)
Thanks mark! Now I understand how it all fits together. I read it once I'm gonna read it again. The 2nd read experience will be much more deeper and fullfilling because of this video.
I like that u wrote what u wanted to write about . I don't care whether your books are bestsellers or not , I just love all of the work that you do.
Thank you and keep going.
The world needs you.
Mark the summary just makes everything vivid bro...that book is so intellectual...it helped us becomes better people and deal with the crisis of hope in a healthy way...thank you Mark Manson
Ashamed to say this has been sitting on my Audible queue for a while, bumping it up the list. I loved Subtle Art. There is so much depth to Mark's analysis of the human condition and what we can do to optimise it. I can also recommend subscribing to his weekly email.
I'm so glad you wrote chapter 4!
And thank you for the rest of the book, your previous book, and this TH-cam channel ❤
I didn't know anything about Everything is f*cked, I need to get a copy because I enjoyed the first book 📚 hope you did your magic in this one as we.. lot of love from South Africa
Ppppppp loop
I loved both books. I have read the first one twice and I'm working my way bit by bit through the second for the second time. I have also really enjoyed listening to your summary videos, great stuff.
Thanks for the endnotes tip, lol
I'm almost finishing this amazing book and were planning to read it again so knowing that the footnotes are going to add even more value, knowledge and wit to the second read makes me look forward to it even more. Thanks for all the work you're putting into what you do.
I like the idea of summarizing books by the author 👊👌🏾
Absolutely!
Yesssss! I just finished it two weeks ago and this is just PERFECT!
I appreciate these summaries for a number of things and most of all for discussing your intent. I wise man I’ve told me “listen to others as if you are speaking yourself” and this gives me a lot of connection to your work as something where you’ve done the work and research to expand upon and follow my own thoughts about the nature of hope and morality and the human condition. Thanks.
And that ending “until next time…I’ll see you later” 😂
Man, I haven't read any of your books yet, but I recently stumbled on your channel and I just wanted to say that you're such a cool Dude. I love the fact that I get so many amazing concepts to think about and that you pretty much rewrite my whole world view (and my view on myself) with almost every sentence you say. The fact that you educate and inform your self so well is very inspiring to me and makes me wanna go ahead and read all the books about psychology, philosophy, neuroscience and so on that are out there (I really don't know where to start, maybe you have some advice). So yeah, just wanted to get that off my chest, I didn't intend this to be that long.
All the best wishes from Germany ✌🏾
Bought these books earlier this year without knowing the concept.- Read "Everything" first then "Subtle". I think I appreciated "Subtle" more after reading "Everything" - Had I done it the other way around, I think "Everything" would be harder to appreciate. - Thanks Mark!
And now I'm going to re-listen to this book on audible for like the 3rd time. I love it!
Love your honesty! I ordered the book right away when you talked about Chapter 7- the idea that perception is deceptive attracts me.
This is the book that made me fall in love with philosophy, its a deep book and it opened me to some great authors like Nietzche, Kant, Hegel, Plato, Spinoza and I cant stop reading them haha, thanks for this great book Mark.
Great summary Mark. Really enjoyed the book and I think this video will make it more accessible for lots of people. Love that you're tapping into a modern audience that can see the value in philosophy/psychology in a fresh way. Thanks!
Now can we do one for "Models"?😁
I absolutely love that one from you as well. And do believe it deserves one author summary.
didnt know about it, what's it about?
@@9Nikko8 oh it's a work of art
@@9Nikko8 if I had to give it a genre I would say relationship advices but it is simply so much more
Yep, your video definitely helped to piece the chapters together a little better. Thanks Mark!
These lessons are so thought-provoking and impactful. I had to buy the book after watching this because I feel like I need to dive deeper into these topics. "Everything is f*cked" was so inspiring and helpful in my own life, I can't wait to read this one. Thanks for the summery!!!
Mark, I had to stop washing the dishes to tell you that I LOVE CHAPTER FOUR!!! Okay, need to go continue my chores whilst listening. Thanks! Love both books!
I like the way how Mark writes his book in a raw way, connecting to a reality in life.
He's a Philosopher not a baby cry psychologist 😃
@@elsonauquelllc8743 yeah agree
I’m surprised to hear of these complaints about this book. It’s a great read and I took notes on the books you referred to and have purchased several. Thank you for not only your work but for the others on my shelf. I love a brain workout!
This book was a hard read especially since I already do struggle with depression, nonetheless it is a very important read. The feeling brain really does suck & it can also be a useful tool you use to get you what you want. All of these chapters & concepts are important concepts to learn about & speak about, although this can be a hard process. By the way, Witold Pilecki was an ordinary man who was just trying to do the right thing, he had fears like the many of us & despite them still decided to act. We all have the power to do that & most of us probably won't due to fear.
thank you some much Mark
I've been waiting for this video for so long
Have read the book and will definitely watch the summary later. My favorite non-fiction author! Your books have helped me a ton!
I’m so glad I read your books when i was about to turn 18 it’s been helping me build my perspective from scratch
I love both books. Now I think I'll read this one again. Thanks Mark!
I listened to this book on audio about 10 times. It does take a few times to understand it. One of my favorite on my audible library.
Perfect timing as I literally just finished this book a few days ago 🔥🙌🏽
After reading your first book, which I loved, I finally bought this book which was on my reading list. Thanks for your work. I really appreciate your insight.
genuinely love your videos, keep em coming pls!
Only Mark Manson ✌️
Great summary! I loved this book and listening to your summary was a fun way to re-experience it. Loved hearing your insights and background.
I cant wait to read this book! I love to question my beliefs and open my mind to see things beyond my own perspective. I can't wait to read more about our fragility because we have all been so pampered we get offended at the slightest thing. Also about how we think freedom is choice, I'm still single because I can't f@#&ing commit, eye opening! I love your channel and, more importantly, your heart and intention behind it. ❤
The external pressures the difficulties and the axienty that you went through writing this book is worth it. I wouldn't say that I loved this book ~ yeah but kinda loved it ~ but this book had helped me think outside of my perceptions
I really did enjoy this book. I loved that idea of self-help through philosophy. One of the main parts that stuck out was when he says something along the lines of “people will go to self-help or self-development to say ‘show me the rules of the game, and I’ll play.’” I realized I was reading for the wrong reasons. Not so I could be a better person but so I could appear to be a better person.
That final chapter did throw me for a loop lol Interestingly enough, it motivated me. Talking about how AI has the potential to take over and put us essentially in the Matrix is horrifying and I hate it 😂 Because of that, I got motivated. Motivated to accept. Bring on life as it comes. Every emotion, good laugh, and bad fight, I’m here for it. As long as the grass is real and I’m not in a robot-induced coma, it’s worth being a part of
Loved the section on Newton, such a great book so far. Not watching this full video still listening to it haha! Thanks
Sure as aways, there is an escalating number of people who point out how awesome every distinct piece you've put into this book is & how it affected their lives, that's normal
What I was surprised to not be liked below as much and what I want to thank you is precisely this recapping itself. I really appreciate having this opportunity after reading the subject book that I once immensely enjoyed to recirculate and solidify a bit better internally all the good stuff you've put into it by the means of this video. Knowing what prompted you to put it inside and the process you've achieved that through does better the whole understanding as well. Hope you keep on doing what you do and will stay safe long
So great, really. You and Matthew Kelly are my two favorite self-help authors/speakers/creators!
What I loved about this book is the way you understand and read Nietzsche philosophy it was a deep stadying I represented in a seminar
I struggle with mental illness and this has helped me a lot! Thanx, Mark!
U r the only guy on internet that makes sense to me right now
Ashish chanchalani vine is best
“Anybody could do this shit when its going good, champion’s over come when it’s going bad.” Happy Thursday Champs🤙🏼 love the work Mark🙏🏼
Half way through the book and already one of the best philosophy books I've ever read, had to come here and comment!! Never have I read a book that has me laughing out loud as much as this one, I can just imagine Mark reading these hilarious one liners to end a paragraph 🤣🤣 but seriously though thank you for all you do in this field!!
Maaaan!!! you are a literally sneaking WISDOM straight into our brains!!!!
Thank you
Man, I liked you when reading your books and then found your TH-cam channel and now...I love you! Your summary of Everything was a nice reminder of its content and now I want to go back and read it again. I'm not ready to pick a cult leader, but if I was...it would be you! Thank you for being the creator you are!
Thanks for the summary & chapter 4 is my favorite chapter in any book ever!
I was waiting for this mark ❤️ Thank you
This summary really helped me! Thanks for doing this!
I have never read self-help books like yours, this is why I will be keeping them on the Shelf to reference whenever I am in a funk. I especially enjoy the stories you used to exemplify your points (e.g. the Japanese soldier who was so filled with absolute certainty and pride that he continued to fight WWII long after it was over only to find disillusionment in the modern world that in no way he could relate to). You have a real gift as a writer 4 being able to distill fine points taken from philosophy, Buddhism, stoicism, etc ... and make them relatable to what people experience in their everyday lives. Thank you for starting a TH-cam channel Mark. Now if you will excuse me I will be starting my own cult, er ugh?, I mean religion, ha haha
I read the whole book and did not want it to end. You are genius and your book is brilliant, it is the best I’ve ever read! It is not dark at all, it is brutally honest which I think quite the opposite of dark. It was like a heavenly intellectual experience 🫠
i didn't know I needed this but thank you Mark!
Thank you for this, Mark. Will read this book soon.
You're one of those philosophers who makes a difference and do the part to make the world a better place
these videos have been the reason I bought your books. I would not have expected what I got form them by the cover or title or reputation. Thank you
Wow! I saw your author summary of The Subtle Art just 2 hours ago! This is a bonus video for me! ❤️
love this, thank you!❤
Just finished reading the subtle art and just received this one. Can’t wait for this.
I'm so glad this video came across my feed. I can't wait to read it. I'm ordering it now!!
This book took me much more time to read with all that thinking brain... feeling brain ....thing ... It was like way deep and was more at a macro level ... It was actually an apt successor of "Subltle art" ... Your writing really keeps my feeling brain busy and my thinking brain is justifying that .... Great Book
I have just completed reading it today. I love it so much. Thank you for the book!
I'm an astrologer (yes that's right, an astrologer) with a psychological background. I've spent the last few years in research studying the dialects of light and much of what you are describing in this book including the arc that you captured in the book structure itself, is exactly the thinking/feeling dialectic reflected in the astrological luminaries. Brilliant (pun intended).
Waaah i needed this!!! Some dose of deep thinking and sanity.. thanks Mark!
I love this video! I love the book even though I didn't understand how the chapters fit together. I've listened to the audiobook about 50 times! BTW I still can't get me head around chapter nine.
This is sweet because after reading the Subtle Art, I just picked this up. Slowly getting through it, but I LOVE it.