My love-hate relationship with London.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2022
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share your experience with falling out of love, with whatever it was. :)
There is no such thing as falling out of love... Because real love never dies what you fell out of was the idea of love or you fell out of lust and lust is not always a sexual thing money lust or object lust is the same thing
@@tofferarvid6589 what you're saying seems too abstract, you basically gaslighted the entire video 💀
@@flamingaish it was a quote I wrote in my book so what are you saying.... Nice skull you reap what you sow and you just made a big mistake by touching an anointed one with your words of hate and your skull of death 🤯 God will be pruning you now for your trespassing on Gods chosen... I say back Satan you have no hold on me and your days of hate and hurting ppl is over you can turn back now or you will be thrown into the furnace.... It's not what I want but it's what you deserve for your disobedience and negativity... Suffer well 👍🗝️
Formula 1, since I was a little child till now age 27. I think I watched 98% of the races, the 2% I didn't was some sort of nightmare missing out.
Last couple of months I watched other motorsports I enjoyed more, but now I somehow even get angry when I watch something that made my life meaningfull to then really get bored.
Loved this video Lana. I related on so many levels ❤
The sad part about this is when you notice thet their flaws are the things you once used to love.
Ooof. I felt this one. Sad but true 😪
Yes😔
Felt that too
Yes
I thought my ex was objectively beautiful; his skin was soft, his hair was fluffy, his eyes sparkled when he looked at me. I look back at the photos and his skin is sickly pale, his hair is messy and greasy and dandruffy, his eyes are either sleepy or he has eyebags. He never treated me like he loved me even if he did, he didn’t care for himself and he relied on me to do it whilst doing nothing for me, calling me needy when i asked for the things he promised (it was less than the bare minimum). He was partaking in drugs and had bad friends and i just wanted to share my happiness with him… he’s not a great guy but i wish him the best. I hope he finds someone he can treat right and that he’s happy with :)
The video production of every single video that Lana makes, it literally feels like a short film.
Thank you!! :)
Couldn’t agree more. She has a true talent for it ❤
@@LanaBlakely please reply my comment 😭 Lana and give me heart comment
and such a rare calming voice
It happens quite often. You get obsessed with something and try your best to have that in your life. But no matter how much you try, things just don’t work out, and eventually you grow out of that obsession. I believe there’s always a very important lesson you need to learn when the things you liked or loved don’t work out.
...the lesson of *"nothing really matters"* :'DDDD
(sry had to)
What’s the lesson?
The saddest part of human psychology (or more like just the reality of it) is that we fall in love in our fantasy of something or someone, we think it should be the way we fantisise about it and dream about how it should feel.
I think you fell out of love not from London, but from your own feeling of what should it be, how magical it should've been, by reading book, hearing stories, looking at photos and watching movies that MADE THE CITY look great, was just a dream, I mean, it does not mean the place is bad, it is what you think it is, not the other way around. It is same about movies about relationships, it overexxagerrates the way good they should be, but they almost never show the bad parts. Art is about showing the best parts about something, not the reality, so if you see the reality and it is not always great, it does not mean that it is bad.
London is still the same, the facede of art feeling of greatness about it, that's what people are drawn to, they fall for a dream like city, but it's just the representation of it in art, architecture, poems and movies. London is great, any city is great, just let yourself enjoy your life in any place you live in. Feel about YOUR OWN city the same as magical feeling about London is.
This goes to show how much you notice and appreciate the small things. It's a beautiful way to live
I've always figured home would be a someone rather than a somewhere-a refuge from the tumult of daily life, a familiar wavelength that puts you at ease, an elevated conversation...or comforting silence, the reassurance of being valued and understood. I think that's what I've been waiting for. And then I can be anywhere.
Beautiful
This is so beautiful. Hope you find you person. ♥️
Your channel is a home. It is a sanctuary of good and uplifting vibes making people lives better. 1 million subscribers well deserved.
Home has no smell! Honestly I really think you captured the essence of what home truly is perfectly. Home to me shows the true power of vulnerability, at the end of the day we all deserve a space where we can just feel free to be our truest selves without fear of judgement💗
I feel like that my Ro is this channel. Just watching you talk makes me so calm and peace. Thank you Lana 😊❤️
Your channel feels like a real home to me. Your every video and podcast brings so much calmness to my life. Thank you so much for creating such content. Keep going fellow infj :)
I'm from London, but moved 3 years ago. Whenever I visit, it no longer feels like it used to - this video captured those feelings perfectly. Congratulations on 1 million ❤
Watching the new uploads from Lana and enjoying my cup of coffee aside really feels like home.
This was beautiful 🥰 Congrats on 1 mil Lana! You deserve this and more 👏👏👏
Aaawwwe, that was very sweet, I almost shed a tear. I totally get it, a sense of home is so vital, like an oasis for ourself and our loved ones. Obviously you don't take it for granted and have illuminated it for all your subscribers so eloquently
Congratulations on 1 mil! Your videos and appreciation for the little things in life make me feel at home 🏡
congrats on 1 million subscribers Lana! 💚🎉
It’s been a while since I felt any “Ro” in my life. I really miss the fact that I can sleep without the eviscerating feeling of not knowing where I am going.
Your videos really help with this. Watching them makes me forget about this feeling for as long as they last and I notice and appreciate these brief moments of peace while I can. Thank you Lana and congrats on the 10 mil. You deserve it❤
Lana on her insightful streak, as usual. Even in close-to-the-heart topics!
It's lovely that you found a place that made you feel wonderful. It's sad you don't feel the same about it. I would love to see another country. London is actually on my dream list. Thank you for talking about letting go of certain things that don't have the same meaning to you. Thank you also for talking about your comfort association with "home".
Congratulations on 1 million subscribers!
Your voice is like lullaby, sounds so calm and (it may sounds weird but ill say it) i feel safe
I can relate to so much of this. Home is where I feel safe, a shelter from the world where hopefully I am in control. It doesn't always feel exactly like that but it's a good feeling. By the way I lived in London for just over a year and it was good - now if I go back I think ''how did I ever like living here ?' Our preceptions are always changing. Congratulations on 1 million subscribers 😃
Love London! Awesome video, Lana! Congrats for achieving 1 million subscribers! You deserve it!
I can’t express how perfect in time this video appeared. After a very hard day, during which my mother kept on threatening me that my divorce will ruin the family, her, my grandmum and my husband, and that promising in front of God is more valuable than my deeply rooted feeling of loneliness and my gut telling me continuously how wrong the relationship feels. I’m sitting in the park right now, sipping some tea and thinking what makes my „home”. Thank you
Body doesnt like it, dont continue
I love this channel so much, thank you so much for everything Lana!
your videos feel like home
I love the content and quality of Lana videos, thanks for your time to create this.
One of the best TH-camr ever came across just love your content, its just so straight no fuss, such content should be created
So happy every time I see a notification!! What are we gonna learn today! Every time I leave your videos with an insight. Thank you Lana ❤
I'm as usual always admirer of the content that you put up.Your content has thrown me lights into my personal life and I have grown learning and unlearning through my mistakes.To summarise I'm more responsible and accountable and voicing no has become easier and life has become really better.
I feel like home is where you notice those small details about it, which give you a sense of familiarity and love for that place.
Loved this video Lana. I related on so many levels ❤ it’s a hard realization to come to especially when you truly thought you found the one
Everytime i watch you're video i feel sense calmness in my mind the way you explain it on a very different level i feel very different watching you're videos keep up the good work
There's something comforting about watching this, perhaps this is a second home for many of the 1M subscribers here (congrats on hitting that)!
Love you ! Happy 1 mil subscribers 🎉🎉💚
It is my first time to watch your videos and I feel so much better because how we feel is the same. I have no friends at all, but I have my family here by my side, I realized that the best friend that I want to be is my family. The only one who take care of me, and the only one who can be my best friend at all.
THANK YOU LANA FOR ALL YOU'RE VIDEOS AND IT HELP ME TO FEEL COMFORTABLE AND BE WITH MYSELF ❤️
i love using a city as the example -- sometimes we grow and our love changes. great job lana :'-)
"Home is where the water taste good." This is so true. Every time I go on holiday I hate the taste of the water there, even bottled water for some reason.
I am going through something very similar at the moment - and it actually really opened my eyes to realise this. I loved the city of Cardiff - I studied here, made great friends, had the best of times, seen the good parts of it, the bad, met love, lost it, had fun. Everything. And then I moved back, after spending a few years back home, and it's just ... nothing. It's just a place, another of many, and I was waiting to feel that tinge inside of me again, but it never came, and I don't think it ever will. And I'm starting to realise that that's okay. It's a strange feeling, but I am so glad you made this video!
Your videos are something special, it immerses me in the atmosphere of tranguility and love🥰
This is lovely
this was so beautiful. thank you lana
I don't speak English and I watch your videos to learn the language, even if I can't understand most of what you say, but I perceive the essence behind your words, and little by little I'm learning. It entertains me and I reflect on what I can understand. I thank you for having found your channel and having found you ^^.
Don't ever move in with someone with whom you cannot be yourself, for any reason. It will no longer feel like home.
Your videos are amazing, the quality, everything.
They motivate me and help me get to know myself too.
Thank you! Keep doing what you're doing!
my favorite youtuber atm. your uploads do so much for so many of us, specially me. and im sure i speak for everyone here, u are amazing, u are great, and u are an angel to so many of us
You’re so beautiful and this video is another comfort video, thank you ❤
I loved that video so much because right now I'm going through a similar feeling. I'm travelling back to a country I worked 4 years to be able to get back to only to notice that I am not excited at all. That feeling, that excitement I had 4 years ago is gone... It makes me so sad but at the same time curious at what comes next. Love you Lana ♡ Keep going making such great videos!~~~
Thank youu so much for existing too!
Art was my safe place when I was younger but when I started high-school I fell out of love with it and focused all my attention on academics and now that I'm in university I try to go back to painting and sculpting but it just doesn't feel the same anymore.
And you’re videos feel like home ,congratulations for the one million subscribers 🎉❤
I’m so happy for your 1 mil lana I’m so glad to say that I’ve been a sub since 500k thank u for always motivating me
home is where i can lay on bed and hear to your voice and understand myself abit clear. That's my RO.
I haven’t watched the video yet but I’m thrilled you have 1 million subscribers! Amazing job. I’ve been around since 10K so it’s nice to see.
Listening to you makes me feel at peace ☺️
The ending of the video is sweet😊 thanks Lana! You helped me a lot!
Home is where I feel like me - this is a new realisation for me over the last few days.
For years I've been figuring out what it was that I wanted to do with my life, and that meant putting my career and my finances on hold, it also meant moving back home to my family, from a life that I had built up abroad for 6 years.
For a while it felt nice to be back in a familiar space, but when that familiarity and comfort became an illusion, home no longer felt like home for me. I didn't feel the love of those who love me. I was conflicted with my identity and what I sought out initially became a curse that I couldn't undo. I fell out of love with myself, with my parents, and I fell out of love, with love.
Home felt like a prison, especially during the COVID years and lockdown. I went through a breakup that was long distance, I wasn't able to get closure for a long time, it was an unconventional way to end a relationship that I held dearly. I became insane. I lost touch with who I was and my identity couldn't be any blurrier. I buried myself under copious amounts of distractions, losing the real me to cope with what life had thrown at me. I became someone unrecognisable.
Fast forward (almost) 4 years, I'm finally back into a space where I'm only beginning to feel like me again, this is after a few years of depression and a complete lack of self love. I'm still coming out of my rut, but with one step at a time I'm slowly becoming comfortable with myself again, and home is starting to feel like home again.
For many, home is a safe haven, a place where they can rest and rejuvenate, to reset and restart. For me, it was also that, but only surface level - deep down, I had buried a lot of trauma and negative experiences during the period of my life where I had last lived in this house I call home.
A message for those who have also experienced a rocky childhood: when "Home is where the heart is" doesn't resonate with you, try "Home is where I feel like me". Too many of us have had to hide our true selves to survive childhood, this results in us living a role self, to appease those around us, for validation, for companionship, to feel "loved", to feel "approved". When you start to recognise this and begin living your true self, that's when home can be anywhere and not be limited to a physical space or a feeling with something. You'll always be at home when you are fully comfortable with yourself.
Stay strong my beautiful and wonderful people :)
Congratulations on your 1M subscribers! 💓🍃
How are Lana's videos always so relatable? I've fallen out of love with things/people a lot, I always waste time and energy trying to force myself to fall back in love with it/them.
I think falling out of love, is always a sign that a new and exciting chapter is beginning.
Awesome video! Congratulations on achieving 1 Mln subscribers :)
Congratulations on 1 Million, Lana. Your videos truly inspire me❤️
Thank you!!
Yea they rock! 💓
Congratulations Lana and proud of you ❤️
so happy to see your video after a lazy day
Congratulations Lana for 1M subscribers 😍
I’ve fallen out of love with many things over the years. And have subsequently learned that one must choose to love.
Lana, believe me you are a great model. Your voice makes things seem perfect and everything will be okay.
So calming
Yall are so cosmic.
Agreeing with everything you said about what home is made me feel at home.
Love how much effort it has on captions (also easter eggs! Stayin for the video and Potterheads! hahaha)
Some things you say are what I have thought myself but never said, like "the home feeling is gone, long gone". You are cool
London!!!! My city., so vribrant ;))) Welcome Lana!
I unconsciously check your Chanel every time I open Utube 🥺 love ur contents that much!
I enjoy spending much of my time alone, and home is definitely a safe space. I resonate with this video very much, and it was great to drink water from the tap when I was in Sweden. Beautiful and clean country.
Wow I just love your voice and the way you elaborate things 🥰🥰
Relationships are so complicated 😢 Is very difficult sometimes to really connect with someone, figuring out life and feel safe…who feels the same 😏 by the way congratulations Lana for 1M subs wow🎉
HAPPY 1M LANAAAA☘️💚
Your channel is where i come when i feel like want some peace. So you are home to me..
Thanku Lana ❤️🔥
Your voice is lovely and soothing to those of us who have suffered lost love
Great video Lana! Enjoy your Sunday! :)
I LOVED this video. Both the London part and the home part. I fell in love with London slowly but steadily and in 2019 we saw each other 6 times so I decided to move in. Then the pandemic came and I decided to go back to a distance relationship. But I still feel like home whenever I return.
But as for the feeling of home I think it more and more comes from inside. I have two flats where I live, but I feel just as home in my friends place when travelling or in a hotel room as long as I feel at home in my body and mind :)
I'm going to start to think your channel is home, cuz it feels Ro. 😊👍 Felicitaciones por el millon de seguidores. Te lo mereces.
And the lack of smell at home and only at home... could not agree more.
And don't doubt it... There will be a yatch in your future. It seems Stockholm is a great place for sailing (or having a boat), I'm guessing, never been there. Do you like sailing? Get some footage of sailing in Stockholm. That would be sweetdish🇸🇪.☺️
I love that you let the part in where you ran back to grab your camera in the hotelroom ;)
Your channel is home ❤❤
Home is where I can turn off the lights in night and watch Lana's awesome videos.....
I'm so happy I came accross this channel 😭🥺 you girl! You're just amazing and beautiful inside out...my life's was a mess...and watching your videos makes it a less Messier 😀😀 your videos are so helpful, minimalist and aesthetic obviously..I don't know what to say, but I'm just in love with ur content and your insights.... although we literally live far across the oceans-thousands and thousands miles away...I'm still looking forward to get to meet you someday 😭❤️ Thanks for helping me become a better person ❤️
I lived in Ldn from 2009 till 2017. I miss it so much. 😪😪😪
Specially you and your voice feels like home when i am far from home ❤️
@@user-H4rsh yes brother
Beautiful 🖤
Thank You For Sharing ❤️
This video touched my heart, i agree so much with you❤
You are a good storyteller😊❤
Such a Ro video ❤️
one of my favorite video from you
Beautiful 💖
"Home has no smell." Keeping this thought.
Lana's definition of love: "This used to really excite me, this is where I wanted to invest my time and plan my future. I'd look at this and feel all warm and fuzzy. It felt right. And it no longer does."
Beautiful video ❤️☺️
You are amazing❤❤❤
I've noticed that I fall in and out of love really easily. It can be anything starting with a song and ending with a person - I'm obsessed and after a short moment I'm out of it.
Great Video Lana !!!.