Tony Gaskins Speaks His Mind About Sexless Marriages, Bad Relationship Advice, The Black Church...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ค. 2024
- Tony Gaskins is a author, life coach, motivational speaker and entrepreneur.
Gaskins starts off by speaking about the importance of men having the skill of resilience and issues plaguing the Black church. Gaskin also explains how people's addiction to drama prevents them maintain healthy long-term relationships.
Next, Gaskins talks toxic relationship advice online, domestic abuse, and why he believes broke men should not date.
Later in the reasoning, Gaskins provides tips for aspiring entrepreneurs, marriage, and sexless marriages.
00:10 Resilience is better learned in adulthood than childhood
06:17 Issue with Black Church
18:22 People's addiction to drama
22:53 Toxic relationship advice on social media
28:18 People desire stability without understanding what it really is
32:35 Domestic abuse
42:03 Why broke men should not date
1:08:24 Women have been programmed to have unrealistic goals
1:18:33 Tips for aspiring entrepreneurs
1:34:40 "Let a man's character be his currency"
1:42:29 Most people are not equipped to be in a long term relationship
1:49:49 Sexless marriages
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The proud look on Tony's face when the interviewer says he's been married for 10 ten years with a 9 year old son made my heart burst.
Spot on about most black churches today, it's more about money honoring the pastor and their family then what we suppose to be there for
That's why Christians need to come back to the one true church.
They will buy hope without thinking twice no matter the cost
I was in a church like this. I understand your comment
I've been to both black and white churches, and sadly, most of these modern, "cool" churches are the same. They all want to be mega churches, and the pastor wants to be rich and flashy.
“If you allow peace to stimulate your mind, you will require peace.”
"No amout of money can buy you character; but character can earn you any amout of money"
~ Zig Zigger 💕
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This is the most relaxed I've ever seen Tony in an interview. The interviewer did a *great* job.
Mr. Tony speaks the truth. I love this guy as a brother ❤
Shout out Tony Gaskin! One of the realest on TH-cam. Always appreciate his insights 🫡
I never heard of Tony Gaskins until I started watching this channel and I just learned a lot of eye opening things. Wow, these are the type of conversations I enjoy!
Yay! He has over 2000 videos on his channel. He is a true man of God that is the best relationship coach ever! Blessed Tribe member here.
Tony speaks the truth and I enjoy his videos and have his books. Also a Blessed Trible member 🙏🏽 ❤
Your eyes should have been opened a long time ago..
Please please make a habit of watching videos on his channel
Listen to his interview on the podcast hardly initiated with Tony Gaskins it’s long but it’s soooo good informative and eye opening
Tony Gaskins is the TRUTH!!
As a woman I’m here to say that things changed for me when I started to see men as human beings instead of just a man.
Tony 39?!
I love Tony and his wife; amazing duo. I wish them all the best. God is truly using him. I’m good at decoding people and reading someone spirit. He’s real, Tony is real.
I am just seubg this video now. The message is still relevant for a decade. What I wanted to say is that I could have done with a friend like you to decode some of these players that I believed and thought that they were genuine!
Powerful interview! God will not be mocked!
I am learning so much. I found Tony at a low place in my life. His wisdom has taught me so much. Character is my currency ❤
“It’s not a franchise, it’s me.” You done dropped so much wisdom throughout this interview and I’m listening like a churchgoer sitting in the pews on Sunday morning. My, God! Tried not to comment…but what you just said there….Jesus! 🔥🔥🔥
Blessed Tribe member here for Tony Gaskins!
Hey doc ! Any of those sons of god came down and snatched you up yet , on a count of your uncovered head while preaching in church? Stop sinning doc .
Another Blessed Tribe Member here to support Tony! Tony, thank you for your life-changing content! 🙏🏾
Tony u a real inspiration sent fron heaven i appreciate this interview
JT from The Blessed Tribe checkin' in. Here to learn 👂🏾.
I gobbled up, EVERY SECOND of this 2hour interview! EVERY second!🤭 thank you both!!
I'm just discovering Tony Gaskins - thanks to this channel! Thank you for this excellent - and very real - interview!
I’m so glad somebody is speaking about jewelry and designer clothes. Its literally sick how those two things have such a hold on people
What you stated about the Church these days is Soooo true!
I stopped going because I seriously can not find a Church that operates in Truth. It’s all about feel good. It’s just Facebook Live!
People do not want to be condemned.
Blessed Tribe in the building!! Thank you for this interview. Tony always drops gems.
I sent this interview to my nieces and my nephews. We can’t have enough of Divine Wisdom in this day and time.
Tony preaching about resiliency ‼️
Tony continues to drop the gems. Excellent interview with Tony!
Brilliant interview! Thank you!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Yes!!! I’ve been waiting on this full video . Thank you 🙏🏾 😊
Dropping gems as usual 😊Blessed Tribe for Life!
I was waiting for you to drop the whole video so I could subscribe 😭❤️💯
Yay! Been looking forward to the full interview 😊
Great interview!! Solid advice from Tony..💯 - Blessed Tribe Member
Phenomenal!!! Amazing discussion, the best interview you have given this year. I learned so much, very insightful.
🙏🏾🙏🏾 So much wisdom shared in this interview.
We appreciate you Tony!
Bad brotha! I gotta share this link with a few people that need to hear. Oh, btw, listening while wearing my stunning “Blessed”Diamond necklace he just spoke about. God bless you!
You are so on point Tony positive messages and you have to act on it
New subscriber for having Tony Gaskin on your show. Super great interview!!
Powerful and truthful interview.thank you
Fantastic episode!! A lot of gems given out for people to sit and learn from.
Absolutely Amazing Interview👏🏽
Trophy 🏆 that is what maturity sounds like. Great job Gentlemen✊🏾🖤
I humbly thank you!
❤ Thank you for being a truth, seeker, and a truth teller may the most high, bless you for your words and your powerful statements that you speak to uplift the Black people in the United States of America, who need to be lifted up out of the sleep that they have found themselves to be in.
It's happening all over, unfortunately
Deep restful silence taken over me listening to this conversation ❤🎉UK
Isn’t that amazing. I hit play on Tony Gaskins’ videos and my newborn falls right asleep. It’s a peaceful spirit.
I love Tony gaskins insight and wisdom!
Great video. Ive been saying this about people having unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating. Men are even worse with their unrealistic expectations . Often their expectations will contradict and a lot of their expectations are based on looks and not character. I can see this in some of my friends who have been single for many many years
Great interview
God Bless both of you thank you
Such substance ! 👏🏽
So many Biblical gems being dropped in this podcast. This was truly a Blessing for impartation.
The convo at 1:18:45 blessed me🔥🔥🔥
Tony gaskins has blessed me in so many ways and help me get closer to god ❤amen
BARS! 💯🔥🔥🔥
Tony your birthday is a day before mine ! Love your channel
“What we aspire to doesn’t value us because they don’t value complacency or entitlement.” 💯Learning this in my marriage.
What he's says about the church could also be said about whole entertainment industry and the actors & artists that work in it. Also this could be members of Congress as well.
Thank you for tha Truth and tha Laughs🤭🤪😂🤣rollin boi”Spray on”
Wow this was refreshing I have homework to do.
This spoke to my soul definately need to do some work n make some sacrifices
I am not in need of any of those petty requirements but for me the main issues is consistency
Tony, thanks for not being part of the toxicity.
I love how logical Tony is. He's 100% right. You cannot get a crackhead off crack by smoking it with him!
lol he said this not my hairline. “This is spray” lol 😂
My dad was aeen as very weak to his stepchildren. They had a father who was a street thug type guy who had stints in prison. When their mom and dad got divorced, he also never had child support. However my dad was a college grad, majoring in biology and minoring in math, on an academic scholarship. After college and marriage to my mother, decided against doctor of dentistry school, and chose to enroll in the fire academy to become a fireman. He was a firemen for over 25 years, even becoming a battalion chief. Sadly, my parents got divorced, and then my dad married my former stepmom, who had 3 kids, raised in the projects. Because he wasn't a tough guy, his stepchildren deeply disrespected him and teased him to his face and also when he wasn't around, and their mother did nothing to stop them.
I watched this whole thing. The content on this channel, the people you sit with.. just beautiful 🤎
"True love making is not physical, it's mental". As you age you will surely face illness, disease and injury, the frequency and physicality of lovemaking will most certainly changes. Contrary to popular belief, this is an issue where the husbands conditions more often than not are contributory factors. The idea that this is always the women's "fault" causing her husband to cheat or leave her for someone younger is ridiculous. Brother Gaskin's insight was on point.
When I start dating again I want him to be my dating coach.
When Jesus take you somewhere you better hold on with both hands stay within his righteousness follow his commandments and watch how high he takes you ~ Praise the Lord
I believe people go to church especially the black race speakung of myself, its because it is therapeutic. Our people came from a generation of traumatized people. Other culture/ race have embrace mental health and own it as an illness whereas for our generation it was was down played and or a stigma. Unknowingly, our people were drawn to the church as a solace. This has being therpeutic for us over many generations. So I would not down play the importance of church as it is one of the cheapest way to deal with our traumas.
However, it is good as the brother share to go a bit further to use the church as a means to liberate the minds of our people. Helping to change the perspective for us to become resilient.
I agree with the brother that purpose is lacking. In everything we do there must be purpose. Purpose include people and is able to see a need. It is not selfish but selfless. Thank God for you my brother and the platform to bring us this message.
I like this man. I don't care what anyone says. I am able to take things from what he says . We always want to find fault in people .
The host sounds like my uncle Brian!!!
TG is a servant of the most high
DL brother .
Amen.❤
I just really wanted to say when he was talking about how he doesn't do things that eat up his resources. To some, that could sound like him bragging or holier than. However, this man loves the Lord Jesus Christ and speaks about it often. He is only able to refrain from these things because he his surrendered to GOD! I just wanted to encourage everyone that Jesus is the way, and He can do this for you. God doesn't love one person more than another. Repent and invite Jesus into your life. I don't know how people live without him. I enjoyed this interview. God bless y'all ❤
Amen.❤❤❤
“Why fake what can be real?”
Just in time
This taught me so much ima be married by tomorrow 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💌🤲🏿😎😎😎😎💧💧💧💧💧
Listen! You shall decree a thing and ut shall be established.
Character is currency!!
Amen
It would be nice to see the interviewer's face.
When I went to church in my youth I did not read the Holy Bible on my own; Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth (BIBLE). I live my life believing in God's word. It is a Spiritual Thing❤ Following it will save you a bunch of heartaches...😢❤❤❤
Crazy how nobody wants to discuss a change of laws...Talking around the real issue
Never knew anyone who was afraid of a rapper
1:57:09 if both partners have low sex drive then not having sex is not a problem to them but if one has a desire and is denied then that's going to be a problem.
A young couple in their 30s in a sexless marriage will be a big problem. It affects other areas of the relationship. There will be resentment. If a 30 year old married man who is impotent will his wife remained in that marriage for the rest of her life? I doubt it.
I’ve seen it, because apparently a military pension is more important to her and she’s 20 years younger. But my God….its so depressing to watch her…..
Ah ha My Mental Romance ™ 🧠👂🏾🧢💃🏾👊🏾
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When we go and sin no more, we must go and sin no more in our words our thoughts and our actions when I go and send no more, I take out words that have that sin sound, and I use words of liberation words that are uplifting and take out the pronouns, and put the word of what the meaning is in the word remember, it was the word first the word must be purified seven times so we have to get away from speaking these wordsthat are low vibration like the word sing SINGI use the word Chant.
We ALL have sinned, and NOBODY is sinless! From the choir stand to the pulpit, from the pulpit to the church pews, from the church pews up to the balcony, from the balcony down to the basement, from the basement out to the parking lots, and from the parking lots all the way home. WE ALL HAVE COME SHORT!!!
A sinner and a christian both have something in common bcuz they BOTH make mistakes. I'm no christian, muslim, or any other religious affiliation, but I'm a Spiritual Being. In the beginning was LIFE bcuz 'words' cannot produce life. That is only done between a MAN & A WOMBMAN the LIFE PRODUCERS OF THE WORLD!
I love how you put that .. "we must sin no more in our words , our thoughts and our actions 🔥🙏🏾💯 Wow.
Religious fanatics. Sex is a sin ,being born is a sin. Without either it’s the end of humanity. Good thing is no matter what the crisis is both will go on. You can’t stop life. No matter how devoted you are to your death cult. Life goes on, everyday another baby is born.
How is his son going to build resilience and character at this rate?
I thoroughly enjoy I Never Knew Tv. But Tony Gaskins has some learning to do. He makes good points and offers classic insights here and there, but he needs more exposure to Black global world views. I've heard him say wildly colorist statements and share myopic opinions. Please give him a copy of Dr. Frances Cress-Welsing's "The Isis Papers" and introduce him to the Association of Black Psychologists to make his practice stronger. Said in all respect.
This brother has godly wisdom. Give it time. Time will teach you
@@quincysthillaire Asantesana (a gracious thanks in Kiswahili) for this insight. I am a humble clergy woman with children a few years younger than Mr. Gaskins. An elder can see sitting down what you can't see standing up! - African Proverb. Wishing you and yours a glorious New Year! ♥🖤💚
@@Glistensis appreciate your opinion sister. Happy new year to you!!
Very good point Sista.. Biology & Natural Law dictate how Men and women mate. Women are fickle & hypergamous.. And they simply have certain biological preferences for a man. When asked about relationships, this Brotha's response seemed to be based solely on his skewed "opinion". Basic principles of human nature could have easily explained people's behavior.
Red Pill is about men discovering the truth about female nature. It has nothing to do with men being angry, rejected, or seen as undesirable to women. His comment regarding an "insecure" man would harm folks in church, school, etc. also caught my attention. These people are practicing white supremacy.. I'm not sure how he came to the conclusion that they're "insecure".
Whenever a Man is solid & speaks the truth, other Men will listen to that Man. It appears this Brotha has a majority female audience. Nothing more needs to be stated....
He will be. He said recently that he’s going back to school to get degrees in psychology so he can be Dr. Tony Gaskins.
i want a shorter man because I am 5'2 The problem is most smaller men dont have the swagger and confidence to come up to me.
Basically the pastors and in the entertainmeners back pocket 😔. And the bibles is books of Instructions on how to live ur life Practically & Daily!
What happens when you build with a man and then leaves you for another greener looking grass?
men want tall women too you know
People don't have sex in marriages anymore?
We do 🤷🏽♀️
You write “Ghost writer “ for people? Well you’re very smart. No wonder you’re successful.
He was incorrect about red 💊 but otherwise a very good interview...
MGTOW would come running back if the laws changed.
What is the correction?
@Dr.Elaine1 While half of MGTOW are indeed losers who simply failed with women...there is a whole other half of MGTOW who left because of the bad deal given to men by the government.
These guys already have several children and some have even been married more than once.
Change the laws, and these guys will come running back at full speed.
@Dr.Elaine1 in addition to what I just explained...THERE ARE SEVERAL WOMEN online speaking about how women no longer want long-term relationships...and these channels who talk like this get lots of female support.
@@manospherehalloffame1682 “He was incorrect about red 💊” is an explanation?
@@Dr.Elaine1 ?
I disagree about only married people being able to speak. People who were once married can speak too. I was married for 10yrs. Then I was in a relationship for 2yrs. Now I'm single. But I can't speak on relationships because I'm not currently married?
What’s the difference between being married and being in a relationship, other than the state involvement?
Marriage is the ultimate commitment to one form, and it bears heavy responsibility, not only to community, but to the state and every party involved. marriage affects a lot of things
He said we can also learned from divorced people as well about what what can go wrong in marriages.
He would include you too because you have been married. But he is leaning to successful ones.
You wouldn't be able to speak on what it takes to stay together. However, you would be able to speak on what to takes to divorce, since you have experienced divorce out of a marriage.
I have a husband that wants to jump up and down all the time and he will be 59 years old and I am not even feeling it. Not because of any menopause or anything like that just because we don't have any type of connection at all
Man I wish Tony Gaskins would study Islam fr! I listen to him as a Muslim and he is so spot on. Islam theology could only back him up ever more than the Bible verses he speaks. Ps. Not a hate post at all!!🫶🏾 Muslims believe in Jesus and that he was very wise!
I was waiting for this full version🥹🥹