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Dear Antonio, could you tell us about men umbrellas next time? Are umbrellas stylish or what type of umbrellas is suitable for men and how to look more stylish with them. Hope you see it:)
Wow, I found this video extremely insightful. There's a lot of attention on the idea of toxic masculinity these days, but there's not nearly as much attention paid to the positive traits that we should be nurturing in our children and ourselves. This video is a must for everyone raising sons. I have 3 daughters, but this definitely applies to them as well!
My favorite part of this video is how authentic and open Antonia is... He explains that he learned a lot about love in the really harsh and challenging times of his life. Even to bring this up shows bravery and authenticity!
Responsible, eclectic, authentic, and loving-what attributes could be more succinctly and accurately descriptive of a gentleman? I admire your eloquence as much as your integrity, Antonio. Well said, sir.
LOVED THIS ONE!!! Definitely the right day for it!!! Really got my wheels turning! Be Rational/Relatable - People will trust you more when you're open minded, understanding & sensible. Be Enthusiastic - you gotta lead by example, and most people need a jumpstart from someone genuinely who's positive & enthusiastic. It provides them a sense of certainty about the outcome of things. Be Active - Those who can do. People are drawn to and admire a man who's consistently pursuant of his dreams and goals. They're more willing to support that person and invest in that end goal, be it a successful marriage, business or friendship. Be a Listener - You can't lead without learning to follow, which requires instruction, which requires listening. Plus, you can't lead without listening to the concerns and expectations of those you lead.
Wow, you really stepped it up today! I think the real stories are bringing a whole new layer of value to your viewers. Long time follower, you've leveled up!
Instead of nice guy, I'm a kind guy. My life goals used to include career, house, car - the usual. Nowadays I focus on being kind. Eclectic - I'm a Statistician (which many people view negatively), plus a Master Gardener, Certified Forester, Cicerone-certified beer server, as well as earning professional certifications (I like getting certifications - proof of competency). I've had EMT training, firearms training, Psychology classes (including hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and Religious classes (I take university classes wherever I live). I play the mandolin. I renovate houses. I've been paid to cook at fine-dining restaurants. It's a good day when I learn something new. I've worked long and hard pursuing my interests - and the payoff is that I can hold a conversation with almost anyone at anytime. That and of course the satisfaction gained from those activities.
When my dad passed away I did the exact same thing I shut my feelings away but like yourself when I got married and had my daughter I understood the the power and strength of unconditional love
I was just listening and drinking tea but when that JonTron "WHAT" clip popped up I nearly choked 😂😂. But I totally agree with showing the love with your close friends because they get to a point to where they are like brothers.
I love this, Antonio! It's important to demonstrate non-toxic masculinity and this is a perfect example. Love is not weakness, kindness is not weakness.
This was one of your best !!! It’s true how a lot of people don’t know what you just spoke about. A lot of people nowadays especially men are always trying to find the easy way out of difficult situations instead of Standing tall and doing the right thing. Honesty respect integrity and just being genuine thank you for an awesome video Tony
Finally! You make it all so clear..Being a Real Man is all about balance! Yes! Mercy, Compassion tempered by Sincere commitment to Duty! (Doing what is Best for All)
A true understanding of what being a man is all about! I’m sure Antonio could go on about this topic for hours and hours and maybe one day I’ll be lucky enough to sit down and have that conversation with him. Being a man isn’t about showing aggression or trying to assert dominance, it’s about building a strong foundation of who you are, then adding the depth of who you can be. Being stylish (in my opinion of the RMRS ideal) is about being confident and comfortable, not just using clothes to mask who you are. Own it gentlemen!
Phenomenal stuff. I've been watching your channel for several years now, and I must say your output just gets better (and deeper) all the time. Thanks for this, Antonio. I hope many, many young men (and hell, middle-aged ones, too) find this and learn from it. Great job, brother. Keep it up.
Oh wow. I'm so sorry for your loss. I think it's a very real testament to your character that you were able to draw a positive lesson out from that experience, as upsetting as it must have been. Great video!!
Excellent video Antonio! I'm 19, and it's only recently that I've started to discipline myself in the hope of becoming a real man. Small changes add up, and I've never felt better about myself than I do now. I'm eager to learn, work harder, smarter, and continue to improve myself for the good of those I love. Thanks for steering me in the right direction when I need a boost, and take care brother.
"Having the strength to love" is the best part. You know, easy to hear/learn it, but difficult to master in life. There are some people who call me stupid, because i dont have a lot of friends, because i have the same woman in my life for 7 years (i'm 24 by the way). When i turned 18, i started to built up my life. I have chosen my partner and my friends with great care and decided to give them everything i ve got. After 7 years, (yeah i know that i m young) it is the greatest pleasure at the end of the day, to look at my life and be proud at all the relations i ve built up over the years, because i know that it is strong, full of love and honesty and they will always be there for me.
This is an accurate video! I have experienced both. I was the most miserable being the nice guy, and it felt like I was consistently losing in every area of my life. Being a man really doesn't always look like what we think, it often requires us to draw boundaries for our own sanity and peace. You will look like jerk but your mental health will be preserved. Gents, this advice is gold. Please listen with an open ear and heart.
So sorry for your loss. I lost my brother to suicide when i was two years old. It hit me hard in high school. Oddly, his death keeps me going in the hard times. As most eloquently said, suicide doesn’t end the pain; it just transfers it to those who love you. Wishing you strength. Wishing you well.
Great Video. This advice applies to all Men of all ages - Be REAL, not just for the people around you, but for yourself. Accepting absolute personal Responsibility will drive you to Authenticity. This is what drives you to be Eclectic in how you spend your time in useful and productive pursuits, and thereby allows you to Love honestly and unconditionally, appreciating the people and differences of those people in your life. Be a REAL Man!
I liked the fact that you opened up in this video...as a guy, it's difficult to show love or affection or any kind of emotion without thinking that you'll look weak, so it's nice to have a positive role model to tell you that it's ok to show love. I also liked the fact that you always have been and continue to be true to your beliefs. Honestly this was just an amazing video and I wouldn't change anything.
My favorite part of the video: 6:22 . Sometime ago, you put out a video that at one point counseled us to "be a nice guy". I'm grateful that you've now clarified what you meant, Tony!!!!
Have been following this channel for a long time and I agree, this channel is the most authentic among similar channels. Some other channels have just become advertisement channels and show things which they don't even agree.
I have to say the whole video was well presented but you asked what my favourite part was. You talked about courage early on then talked about love at the end. What you said about showing a friend or brother in arms love and telling them so in my opinion takes courage and has to be my personal favourite moment.
Address insecurities I spent 11 onward working to put money back and become successful. I'm turning 30 this month (moderately successful, im not hurting for anything) and had no idea how to dress and found this channel. I recently started a cologne collection (I can't smell, but I found out the value of smelling good) and have learned a lot. Thanks boss.
I've been following this channel for 2 years now and it has done wonders to improve myself inside and out. I've gone from the guy that blends in with the crowd to the sharp dressed guy everybody wants to talk to. Just by updating my style and having more charisma thanks to this channel people have approached me on several occasions just to hand me their business cards because as they said, "you look important"
Antonio, I'm so thankful for your example. I really needed to hear all of this. You're an inspiration, and today I'm going to be the man that I've always wanted to be.
I was a little worried going into this video, but this was such a great video. I love how straight forward, honest, and authentic you are. I just discovered your channel recently, but I’ve already felt like I’ve learned a lot
Great video. Probably too late to get a coin, but I thought the final message was sublime. Love. The greatest of all the Commandments: “Love your neighbour as you love yourself.” We can all do this more
You are a reflection of a divine masculine archetype that is truly... a pioneering act. I love the content, love the self accountability, love the self actualisation & taking action. The wounded masculine is needing this type of content to really be able to see things in a way that can be given serious contemplation. How do you know if you haven’t met someone in the flesh, that they are going to be a waste of time and energy. I will see my red flags and assert my boundaries if patterns of behaviour are never communicated about. Incongruent, not wanting to be open about the possible “ego deficits”, hot and cold. I don’t normally need to deal wi tv this in real life but not when it’s online. If it goes on? Say a call was planned, and this is the 3rx time it was CB
I find this to be the most motivational channel going. You watch a few RMRS videos and before you've even done anything you feel like a sexier, more confident guy
As a transgender guy, your channel has been extremely valuable to me. I had to learn how to be a man from the ground up in my 20s, and you taught me how to dress correctly for my body type, what a "correct fit" is supposed to look like, and even how to build my new wardrobe from scratch without breaking the bank. And on top of all that, not one of your videos has ever made me feel like I'm not a "real" man just because I wasn't born as one. You always acknowledge that men come in all different shapes and sizes, and my body type is always on the list. It's clear that you believe being a gentleman is about style and attitude, not your physiology or your looks; any guy can become a gentleman if he tries. While learning how to be a man, I ran into a _lot_ of toxic attitudes about what "real" men are like. I've even had people tell me, thinking they were giving helpful advice, that "men don't do that", where "that" is an extremely basic human thing to do like crying when you're upset or telling your friends you love them. Since I _didn't_ internalize all that toxic stuff growing up, I've known it was garbage from the outset, and it always makes me so sad to see men trying to police other men with these harmful standards of masculinity. So it's always encouraging and uplifting when I see men reaching out to other men to help them break out of those toxic ideas, and teaching them positive versions of masculinity instead. I appreciate this video a lot, because whenever I try to define masculinity for myself, it looks a lot like this. I hope other guys take your message to heart and learn that they _are_ allowed to love people, to admit their faults, to have interests outside the norm, and to care about people openly and without restraint. Thank you, Antonio, for always being a REAL man, and for teaching the rest of us how to be one too.
Antonio, I have been a subscriber of your channel for a couple of years now. You have taught me so much, and for that I am grateful. I just realized that I had not been seeing notifications of your videos, but thankfully I get notifications by email also. This video has reinforced the fact in my life that I am a good man, because [not tooting my own horn], I have possessed, to varying degrees, ALL of the qualities and attributes you have described here. The only one that I am weak on is the honesty...primarily with myself. Being authentic is something I am working on. I will keep on watching your videos, because they inspire me. I now have two young men that I have been asked to mentor, and I intend to introduce them to your videos. I am not a man of great means, and these two boys are even poorer than me, but I plan to make them stylishly poor and supremely confident, so they can be their best selves. Keep up the [VERY] good work. It is appreciated more than you know...or maybe you know, seeing you have over 2 million subscribers!! God’s richest blessings upon you this week, my friend.
I grew up not understanding how to love and let loose also. As I’ve aged and married with a child now I know how to love but hard to make long term friends. Thanks for addressing this.
Very important points very well presented! Being eclectic I think doesn't get enough emphasis. You hinted that College isn't a Trade School. Times, things, knowledge change at an expanding rate so it is important to maintain interest in a wide variety of things. Absolutely laser focus on what you're doing, but do many things in your life. I agree with what you said about college and military, but also for me, the women in my life got me interested in things I would not have otherwise cared about!
Couldn't agree more! Especially with being eclectic. Just like Antonio, I too served in the Marines but as an enlisted man. Did several different things and was posted all over the world, and went to an international university when I came back home. Now living overseas again. Wouldn't trade any of my experiences for anything in the world. Made me much more open minded than I could've ever imagined.
I personally love the cutaway scenes when even you hear yourself say something kind of awkward. That is another sign of you being real and being able to take ownership of something, even if it was awkward at the time. Keep up the great videos. Thank you for your service. My best friend is a Marine and he knows I love him. :)
At first, I thought this video was just going to be about a sponsor. However, you sharing sections of your life, the more intimate ones, was very enlightening. Thank you very much for letting us know about that side of you. Cheers.
Great Channel ! Glad I found it ! I’m fresh out of divorce, I just need a tuneup in getting myself back . Thank you 🙏🏼 and Thank You for your Service 🇺🇸!
I think i subbed to you about 2 months back. And i have watched a lotta your videos since then. I like them. Tips and advices on what to do to look good and impress others are always helpful. But this video how to live life as a good, genuine MAN, with your personal experiences, both good and bad, is probably your best one yet. Much love. Keep it up.
Thank you for this video, Antonio. This just might one of the top 10 videos you’ve ever made. Also, my condolences about your sister. I can’t imagine how devastating that must have been.
This is probably your best video - such a good topic to cover that will positively impact so many men, who will then have a positive impact on everyone in their lives! Amazing work
One of my favorite points is responsibility. As a leader I find it challenging to deal with so many kids who take ownership of nothing. Nothing is ever thier fault. They have now power to effect change either at work or at a personal level. Until learning takes place, they will never advance! BTW, I love the coin. Hopefully I am fortunate enough to win one! 🤞🏽😃👍🏽
Amazing video Antonio. I've got to say that the last piece of advice is the most important one a man has to know. I hope that you will continue your work and I want you to know you are awesome
Excellent video! I think what stood out to me was the strength to show love. As someone who was born in a small rural town, you were considered an outcast for showing feelings towards those you care about and developed a toxic masculinity. Having moved away from there and experienced the world, I have become more confident in opening up and letting those that I care for that I love them. Life is too short and I feel it should be spent spreading more love and encouragement.
Being more loving is a hard one for so many. Most of us are raised in a society that tells us "it's wrong to love ourselves; it's vain," but if we don't love ourselves, how can we honestly love anyone else? I'm still working on loving myself fully and unconditionally (and much props for making it through your childhood and getting where you are man, seriously), but I will say to anyone reading this, I love you, whoever you are, and you are ABSOLUTELY worthy of your love, through your perceived good and bad, you are worthy. Have an amazing day :)
From my close female friends, I have been told I'm a good guy mainly just because I'm polite and respectful. Granted there isn't much competition for guys around my age.
Excellent video Antonio ! I would like to add the extreme importance of becoming religious, not spiritual. Being spiritual does not make huge demands for you to take responsibility for as being religious does. Religion imposes morals on yourself that will improve yourself. I’m a Roman Catholic converted from Protestantism and I will go down with my dying breath that all men should be Catholic. But knowing that not all men are ready to be Catholic, I would still say that to Study and take up being religious will improve you in many if not every way in your life. If you search for the truth, you will find it.
Just another amazing video as usual!! Maybe the ability to take the right decisions, prioritising things and being able to provide and protect would make a real man. Love you Mr. Antonio!!
My favorite part of today’s video was being eclectic. As someone who has taught in the classroom, knowing things about such topics as video games, Twilight, and Harry Potter assisted me in building a rapport with my students. Also, being able to see how educational policies were affected or did/do affect other social and financial policies has been very helpful. For example, I am starting a new job where I will be working with convicted felons on achieving an Associates or Bachelor’s degree. Hopefully after interacting with them I will gain more insight into how second chances can improve peoples lives as well as prison life and if any reforms would help.
Thank you Antonio for this great video! In a world where masculinity is under attack to the point of confusion, it's great to have this well put together, simple but powerful vid to remind us men of what is essentially the basics. Thanks again!
Absolutely correct! We need more young men to become real men/gentlemen. Being a man is a great thing and more young dudes need to realize that. Great video
Oooh Rah my brother! Well said. I strive to genuine, practice integrity, and have a serving mindset. Men, women, color, creed, it doesn't matter. In business customers buy from people they like. Most all of my satisfaction, business and personal, comes from helping people. It's the best feeling. Under promise, over deliver, be genuine, and be yourself.
I luv your channel so much because it has taught me how to become a better man thanks to all your helpful tips and also the products you advertise. I also have an abundance of interest that I study for 2 hours a day, thanks to a schedule you inspired me to make. Thanks RMRS
Great acronym. L = Love.. of people emotive but also Life: zeal, zest, living with purpose, ambition, longing for more adventure! Sorry I was late to the party:)
So much important information and wisdom in this video. It's so important for young people to find themselves and their way in life. I know it's helped myself greatly to think about this stuff a lot and get to know myself.
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7:43 I'm so sorry, Antonio 🌹
Dear Antonio, could you tell us about men umbrellas next time? Are umbrellas stylish or what type of umbrellas is suitable for men and how to look more stylish with them. Hope you see it:)
7:23-8:40. I greatly appreciate those words about love. You are helping me out greatly. Keep up the good work.
antonio , great content! my favorite part of this video was when you talked about authenticity
You forgot the c in eclectic on your timestamps.
The book “No More Mr. Nice Guy” by Dr. Robert Glover is a must read for every man, especially for men who grew up with no father.
I already have read and really a life changing book for all men 🔥
thanks for recomendation, i am going to read it
@@edilsonsantos3089 yeah bro❤️ and thanks me later ...this will make you a real Man.....
It's increasingly a read for even men who had fathers. Lots of us grew up with Nice Guy fathers, and Megacunt mothers
@J Blank They learn their style strictly via imitation
It’s so beautiful and wholesome to be on the only channel that doesn’t just completely ideologically hate men😭😭
Thanks Ainsley! 😁
Don't give your man-hating channels a good'ol rub
Best of luck, Ainsley. You're here so you're already crushing it, brother.
Great message Ainsley. Have you got a video on how to do julienne vegetables?
Heyyy bwoy!
This just makes you realize how we over complicate the simplest things. Thanks Antonio for showing us being a real man is not complicated 😎
Welcome! I appreciate you Manuel.
Great video brother!
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Best of luck, John.
Nice to see you here John!
Yes it is a great video
Nice guys look for others' approval and acceptance. Real men accept themselves and people respect them for it.
Real Men respect, honour and are kind to women and others. Real Men stand for what is just and right.
Read, read, read, expanding your knowledge expands who you are.
Wow, I found this video extremely insightful. There's a lot of attention on the idea of toxic masculinity these days, but there's not nearly as much attention paid to the positive traits that we should be nurturing in our children and ourselves. This video is a must for everyone raising sons. I have 3 daughters, but this definitely applies to them as well!
Well said brother!
Hey Will - Curious, how did you find my channel? Where are you from?
My favorite part of this video is how authentic and open Antonia is... He explains that he learned a lot about love in the really harsh and challenging times of his life. Even to bring this up shows bravery and authenticity!
Responsible, eclectic, authentic, and loving-what attributes could be more succinctly and accurately descriptive of a gentleman? I admire your eloquence as much as your integrity, Antonio. Well said, sir.
LOVED THIS ONE!!! Definitely the right day for it!!! Really got my wheels turning!
Be Rational/Relatable - People will trust you more when you're open minded, understanding & sensible.
Be Enthusiastic - you gotta lead by example, and most people need a jumpstart from someone genuinely who's positive & enthusiastic. It provides them a sense of certainty about the outcome of things.
Be Active - Those who can do. People are drawn to and admire a man who's consistently pursuant of his dreams and goals. They're more willing to support that person and invest in that end goal, be it a successful marriage, business or friendship.
Be a Listener - You can't lead without learning to follow, which requires instruction, which requires listening. Plus, you can't lead without listening to the concerns and expectations of those you lead.
Wow, you really stepped it up today! I think the real stories are bringing a whole new layer of value to your viewers. Long time follower, you've leveled up!
This is awesome - thanks man!
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Instead of nice guy, I'm a kind guy. My life goals used to include career, house, car - the usual. Nowadays I focus on being kind.
Eclectic - I'm a Statistician (which many people view negatively), plus a Master Gardener, Certified Forester, Cicerone-certified beer server, as well as earning professional certifications (I like getting certifications - proof of competency). I've had EMT training, firearms training, Psychology classes (including hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and Religious classes (I take university classes wherever I live). I play the mandolin. I renovate houses. I've been paid to cook at fine-dining restaurants. It's a good day when I learn something new. I've worked long and hard pursuing my interests - and the payoff is that I can hold a conversation with almost anyone at anytime. That and of course the satisfaction gained from those activities.
Love this. Keep it up Jay!
Wow! Renaissance man right here!!! 👍
And yet you need to be reassured by strangers on the internet.
@@baldissonivattene8752 - nowhere in my comment did I seek reassurance from strangers.
what you just said has made me see life more clearly, i am going to use this as motivation to improve my life, thank you for sharing your experiences.
When my dad passed away I did the exact same thing I shut my feelings away but like yourself when I got married and had my daughter I understood the the power and strength of unconditional love
I was just listening and drinking tea but when that JonTron "WHAT" clip popped up I nearly choked 😂😂. But I totally agree with showing the love with your close friends because they get to a point to where they are like brothers.
I love this, Antonio! It's important to demonstrate non-toxic masculinity and this is a perfect example. Love is not weakness, kindness is not weakness.
Appreciate all of these! Great video Antonio!
Having the strength to love, definitely something that hits home with everyone in one way or another. Very well thought out and delivered.
This was one of your best !!! It’s true how a lot of people don’t know what you just spoke about. A lot of people nowadays especially men are always trying to find the easy way out of difficult situations instead of Standing tall and doing the right thing. Honesty respect integrity and just being genuine thank you for an awesome video Tony
Finally! You make it all so clear..Being a Real Man is all about balance! Yes! Mercy, Compassion tempered by Sincere commitment to Duty! (Doing what is Best for All)
Very good tips
Thanks Antonio for helping me to realize and become the best version of me!
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A true understanding of what being a man is all about! I’m sure Antonio could go on about this topic for hours and hours and maybe one day I’ll be lucky enough to sit down and have that conversation with him.
Being a man isn’t about showing aggression or trying to assert dominance, it’s about building a strong foundation of who you are, then adding the depth of who you can be. Being stylish (in my opinion of the RMRS ideal) is about being confident and comfortable, not just using clothes to mask who you are. Own it gentlemen!
Well said. It's good to see that other men realize that love is a major strength and in no way a weakness. 👍
Phenomenal stuff. I've been watching your channel for several years now, and I must say your output just gets better (and deeper) all the time. Thanks for this, Antonio. I hope many, many young men (and hell, middle-aged ones, too) find this and learn from it. Great job, brother. Keep it up.
Oh wow. I'm so sorry for your loss. I think it's a very real testament to your character that you were able to draw a positive lesson out from that experience, as upsetting as it must have been. Great video!!
Excellent video Antonio! I'm 19, and it's only recently that I've started to discipline myself in the hope of becoming a real man. Small changes add up, and I've never felt better about myself than I do now. I'm eager to learn, work harder, smarter, and continue to improve myself for the good of those I love. Thanks for steering me in the right direction when I need a boost, and take care brother.
"Having the strength to love" is the best part. You know, easy to hear/learn it, but difficult to master in life. There are some people who call me stupid, because i dont have a lot of friends, because i have the same woman in my life for 7 years (i'm 24 by the way). When i turned 18, i started to built up my life. I have chosen my partner and my friends with great care and decided to give them everything i ve got. After 7 years, (yeah i know that i m young) it is the greatest pleasure at the end of the day, to look at my life and be proud at all the relations i ve built up over the years, because i know that it is strong, full of love and honesty and they will always be there for me.
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Love and sensitive. Like how you said love, having the ability to show your heart isn’t all stone shows and speaks volumes.
This is an accurate video! I have experienced both. I was the most miserable being the nice guy, and it felt like I was consistently losing in every area of my life. Being a man really doesn't always look like what we think, it often requires us to draw boundaries for our own sanity and peace. You will look like jerk but your mental health will be preserved. Gents, this advice is gold. Please listen with an open ear and heart.
I searched how to tie a tie, found 18 different ways and now I’m down the rabbit hole…great stuff! :)
My favorite part of the video is when Antonio told me that he loved me too! Also never stop seeking new knowledge, it never hurts to learn new things.
So sorry for your loss. I lost my brother to suicide when i was two years old. It hit me hard in high school. Oddly, his death keeps me going in the hard times. As most eloquently said, suicide doesn’t end the pain; it just transfers it to those who love you. Wishing you strength. Wishing you well.
Great Video. This advice applies to all Men of all ages - Be REAL, not just for the people around you, but for yourself. Accepting absolute personal Responsibility will drive you to Authenticity. This is what drives you to be Eclectic in how you spend your time in useful and productive pursuits, and thereby allows you to Love honestly and unconditionally, appreciating the people and differences of those people in your life. Be a REAL Man!
Compassion, empathy, fairness, those things are all important for sure.
Great video Antoineo, much love ❤
Thank you 🙌
I liked the fact that you opened up in this video...as a guy, it's difficult to show love or affection or any kind of emotion without thinking that you'll look weak, so it's nice to have a positive role model to tell you that it's ok to show love. I also liked the fact that you always have been and continue to be true to your beliefs. Honestly this was just an amazing video and I wouldn't change anything.
My favorite part of the video: 6:22 . Sometime ago, you put out a video that at one point counseled us to "be a nice guy". I'm grateful that you've now clarified what you meant, Tony!!!!
Have been following this channel for a long time and I agree, this channel is the most authentic among similar channels. Some other channels have just become advertisement channels and show things which they don't even agree.
I have to say the whole video was well presented but you asked what my favourite part was. You talked about courage early on then talked about love at the end.
What you said about showing a friend or brother in arms love and telling them so in my opinion takes courage and has to be my personal favourite moment.
I love how that was an acronym. The easier it is to remember, the easier it is to apply.
Exactly!
Address insecurities
I spent 11 onward working to put money back and become successful. I'm turning 30 this month (moderately successful, im not hurting for anything) and had no idea how to dress and found this channel. I recently started a cologne collection (I can't smell, but I found out the value of smelling good) and have learned a lot.
Thanks boss.
I've been following this channel for 2 years now and it has done wonders to improve myself inside and out. I've gone from the guy that blends in with the crowd to the sharp dressed guy everybody wants to talk to.
Just by updating my style and having more charisma thanks to this channel people have approached me on several occasions just to hand me their business cards because as they said, "you look important"
Antonio, I'm so thankful for your example. I really needed to hear all of this. You're an inspiration, and today I'm going to be the man that I've always wanted to be.
Still trying to become the man I want to be I'm still considered the nice guy
Lots of love for RMRS
I was a little worried going into this video, but this was such a great video. I love how straight forward, honest, and authentic you are. I just discovered your channel recently, but I’ve already felt like I’ve learned a lot
Great video. Probably too late to get a coin, but I thought the final message was sublime. Love. The greatest of all the Commandments: “Love your neighbour as you love yourself.” We can all do this more
You are a reflection of a divine masculine archetype that is truly... a pioneering act. I love the content, love the self accountability, love the self actualisation & taking action. The wounded masculine is needing this type of content to really be able to see things in a way that can be given serious contemplation. How do you know if you haven’t met someone in the flesh, that they are going to be a waste of time and energy. I will see my red flags and assert my boundaries if patterns of behaviour are never communicated about. Incongruent, not wanting to be open about the possible “ego deficits”, hot and cold. I don’t normally need to deal wi tv this in real life but not when it’s online. If it goes on? Say a call was planned, and this is the 3rx time it was CB
Averted* when do I walk away, and how to address this in a way that is not burning bridges if that makes sens
I find this to be the most motivational channel going. You watch a few RMRS videos and before you've even done anything you feel like a sexier, more confident guy
I can’t believe I didn’t find this channel sooner. Binge watching all the videos!
As a transgender guy, your channel has been extremely valuable to me. I had to learn how to be a man from the ground up in my 20s, and you taught me how to dress correctly for my body type, what a "correct fit" is supposed to look like, and even how to build my new wardrobe from scratch without breaking the bank. And on top of all that, not one of your videos has ever made me feel like I'm not a "real" man just because I wasn't born as one. You always acknowledge that men come in all different shapes and sizes, and my body type is always on the list. It's clear that you believe being a gentleman is about style and attitude, not your physiology or your looks; any guy can become a gentleman if he tries.
While learning how to be a man, I ran into a _lot_ of toxic attitudes about what "real" men are like. I've even had people tell me, thinking they were giving helpful advice, that "men don't do that", where "that" is an extremely basic human thing to do like crying when you're upset or telling your friends you love them. Since I _didn't_ internalize all that toxic stuff growing up, I've known it was garbage from the outset, and it always makes me so sad to see men trying to police other men with these harmful standards of masculinity.
So it's always encouraging and uplifting when I see men reaching out to other men to help them break out of those toxic ideas, and teaching them positive versions of masculinity instead. I appreciate this video a lot, because whenever I try to define masculinity for myself, it looks a lot like this. I hope other guys take your message to heart and learn that they _are_ allowed to love people, to admit their faults, to have interests outside the norm, and to care about people openly and without restraint.
Thank you, Antonio, for always being a REAL man, and for teaching the rest of us how to be one too.
but you arent a real man,those 2 "X" chromosomes dont lie
@@Anton43218 if that's how you define manhood then I hope one day you get karyotyped and find out you have De La Chapelle Syndrome 🙃
@@Anton43218 exactly, it's just cosplaying at this point. No hard feelings.
Thank you Antonio. Life changing🌹
Antonio, I have been a subscriber of your channel for a couple of years now. You have taught me so much, and for that I am grateful. I just realized that I had not been seeing notifications of your videos, but thankfully I get notifications by email also.
This video has reinforced the fact in my life that I am a good man, because [not tooting my own horn], I have possessed, to varying degrees, ALL of the qualities and attributes you have described here. The only one that I am weak on is the honesty...primarily with myself. Being authentic is something I am working on. I will keep on watching your videos, because they inspire me. I now have two young men that I have been asked to mentor, and I intend to introduce them to your videos. I am not a man of great means, and these two boys are even poorer than me, but I plan to make them stylishly poor and supremely confident, so they can be their best selves.
Keep up the [VERY] good work. It is appreciated more than you know...or maybe you know, seeing you have over 2 million subscribers!! God’s richest blessings upon you this week, my friend.
We sure love you Antonio. You're helping a lot of people. Both men and women. God bless you brother.
Thanks for the video, Antonio
The best and hardest part is the entirety of the Love section. Glad you included it, all of that needs to be said more
I grew up not understanding how to love and let loose also. As I’ve aged and married with a child now I know how to love but hard to make long term friends.
Thanks for addressing this.
Very important points very well presented! Being eclectic I think doesn't get enough emphasis. You hinted that College isn't a Trade School. Times, things, knowledge change at an expanding rate so it is important to maintain interest in a wide variety of things. Absolutely laser focus on what you're doing, but do many things in your life. I agree with what you said about college and military, but also for me, the women in my life got me interested in things I would not have otherwise cared about!
The guy rarely blinks and never drops gaze from the camera. Very compelling.
Thank you for the wise words, I loved the "Love part" as it's better to try and see what will happen than regret not to when you are too old.
“ With great responsibility, comes great power”. A line from ‘The subtle art of not giving a fuck ‘ that changed my perspective.
Couldn't agree more! Especially with being eclectic. Just like Antonio, I too served in the Marines but as an enlisted man. Did several different things and was posted all over the world, and went to an international university when I came back home. Now living overseas again. Wouldn't trade any of my experiences for anything in the world. Made me much more open minded than I could've ever imagined.
I personally love the cutaway scenes when even you hear yourself say something kind of awkward. That is another sign of you being real and being able to take ownership of something, even if it was awkward at the time. Keep up the great videos. Thank you for your service. My best friend is a Marine and he knows I love him. :)
i like how you succeed through all of the problems that happened to your family
Such a great example you ARE
You're an honest & a strong person... More power to you Antonio!😇👍🏻
I think this was a succinct but powerful video that every young man needs to hear. I wish this Plato like view were pushed far and wide by our media.
Just so inspiring all the time, thanks
At first, I thought this video was just going to be about a sponsor. However, you sharing sections of your life, the more intimate ones, was very enlightening. Thank you very much for letting us know about that side of you. Cheers.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Great Channel ! Glad I found it ! I’m fresh out of divorce, I just need a tuneup in getting myself back . Thank you 🙏🏼 and Thank You for your Service 🇺🇸!
I think i subbed to you about 2 months back. And i have watched a lotta your videos since then. I like them. Tips and advices on what to do to look good and impress others are always helpful. But this video how to live life as a good, genuine MAN, with your personal experiences, both good and bad, is probably your best one yet. Much love. Keep it up.
Great and authentic. Antonio. You are brilliant
Finally! Being a Real Man is all about balance! Yes! Mercy, Compassion tempered by Sincere commitment to Duty! (Doing what is Best for All)
Thank you for this video, Antonio. This just might one of the top 10 videos you’ve ever made. Also, my condolences about your sister. I can’t imagine how devastating that must have been.
This is probably your best video - such a good topic to cover that will positively impact so many men, who will then have a positive impact on everyone in their lives! Amazing work
One of my favorite points is responsibility. As a leader I find it challenging to deal with so many kids who take ownership of nothing. Nothing is ever thier fault. They have now power to effect change either at work or at a personal level. Until learning takes place, they will never advance! BTW, I love the coin. Hopefully I am fortunate enough to win one! 🤞🏽😃👍🏽
Amazing video Antonio. I've got to say that the last piece of advice is the most important one a man has to know. I hope that you will continue your work and I want you to know you are awesome
Excellent video! I think what stood out to me was the strength to show love. As someone who was born in a small rural town, you were considered an outcast for showing feelings towards those you care about and developed a toxic masculinity. Having moved away from there and experienced the world, I have become more confident in opening up and letting those that I care for that I love them. Life is too short and I feel it should be spent spreading more love and encouragement.
Thank you Antonio greetings from Chicago
Thanks, Antonio. That acronym for R.E.A.L I so good I learned it by heart, literally. Greetings and immense thanks from Colombia.
Your every video bosts me to be a real man as always. Thank you Antonio.
Antonio my Brother, as the book says 'The truth shall set you free.' You spoke truth today. Thank you!!
Being more loving is a hard one for so many. Most of us are raised in a society that tells us "it's wrong to love ourselves; it's vain," but if we don't love ourselves, how can we honestly love anyone else? I'm still working on loving myself fully and unconditionally (and much props for making it through your childhood and getting where you are man, seriously), but I will say to anyone reading this, I love you, whoever you are, and you are ABSOLUTELY worthy of your love, through your perceived good and bad, you are worthy. Have an amazing day :)
From my close female friends, I have been told I'm a good guy mainly just because I'm polite and respectful. Granted there isn't much competition for guys around my age.
Excellent video Antonio ! I would like to add the extreme importance of becoming religious, not spiritual. Being spiritual does not make huge demands for you to take responsibility for as being religious does. Religion imposes morals on yourself that will improve yourself. I’m a Roman Catholic converted from Protestantism and I will go down with my dying breath that all men should be Catholic. But knowing that not all men are ready to be Catholic, I would still say that to Study and take up being religious will improve you in many if not every way in your life. If you search for the truth, you will find it.
Just another amazing video as usual!! Maybe the ability to take the right decisions, prioritising things and being able to provide and protect would make a real man. Love you Mr. Antonio!!
My favorite part of today’s video was being eclectic. As someone who has taught in the classroom, knowing things about such topics as video games, Twilight, and Harry Potter assisted me in building a rapport with my students.
Also, being able to see how educational policies were affected or did/do affect other social and financial policies has been very helpful. For example, I am starting a new job where I will be working with convicted felons on achieving an Associates or Bachelor’s degree. Hopefully after interacting with them I will gain more insight into how second chances can improve peoples lives as well as prison life and if any reforms would help.
Great video and you are right about not being afraid to love. If anything we learn how to live and that life is temporary. Enjoy the moment
Been a subscriber for a long time now, you and alpha m have given me the confidence I needed. Blessings from Trinidad in the caribbean.
Thank you Antonio for this great video! In a world where masculinity is under attack to the point of confusion, it's great to have this well put together, simple but powerful vid to remind us men of what is essentially the basics. Thanks again!
Antonio 100% will leave a mark on the planet. Thank you!
Absolutely correct! We need more young men to become real men/gentlemen. Being a man is a great thing and more young dudes need to realize that. Great video
I love your channel, you're truly my favorite TH-camr
Oooh Rah my brother! Well said. I strive to genuine, practice integrity, and have a serving mindset. Men, women, color, creed, it doesn't matter. In business customers buy from people they like. Most all of my satisfaction, business and personal, comes from helping people. It's the best feeling. Under promise, over deliver, be genuine, and be yourself.
I luv your channel so much because it has taught me how to become a better man thanks to all your helpful tips and also the products you advertise. I also have an abundance of interest that I study for 2 hours a day, thanks to a schedule you inspired me to make. Thanks RMRS
That's awesome!
I have watched this video several times and still love it.
I'm a very, very feminine woman (with a masculine man) and I get inspired by these videos.
This such a great video
Great acronym. L = Love.. of people emotive but also Life: zeal, zest, living with purpose, ambition, longing for more adventure! Sorry I was late to the party:)
So much important information and wisdom in this video. It's so important for young people to find themselves and their way in life. I know it's helped myself greatly to think about this stuff a lot and get to know myself.
Great advice. We should ALL strive to make ourselves a better person.