amazing video! my only addition is femme isnt just a feminine lesbian, a femme is a lesbian who reclaims their femininity in a way that not heteronormative. i know that wasnt the point of your video but since you did briefly describe it i wanted to add that slight correction. i love your video 🩷
@@otome.heroine I wish I was able to delve into that side more, there’s so much to say about a such a broad topic with lots of rich history. But for now this is what I got but this could be inspo for a whole video about femmes!
I love learning about Queer history. I struggled to identify as a lesbian for so long because it was thrust upon me in a derogatory way before I was ready to accept it. I face similar struggles with Butch. It is probably the label that best describes me, but there is such a stigma that comes with these words sometimes. It’s hard to choose to align yourself with them (in my experience). Great video, i look forward to your next ones!
thoroughly enjoyed this video, thank you for making such an informational video on the butch identity!! this is much needed right now and you did a great job!!! love to see more people talking about the butch identity and lesbian history
Can I ask you a question? I'm a 30/Cis Male. I usually identify as gay but I think I'm just attracted to masculine presenting people, despite their genitals. Is there a term for that?
@@summerskull9379I’m of the opinion that labels are tools to be used, and not exactly guidelines to adhere to. I wish you luck on understanding yourself better with every coming day :]
amazing video! my only addition is femme isnt just a feminine lesbian, a femme is a lesbian who reclaims their femininity in a way that not heteronormative. i know that wasnt the point of your video but since you did briefly describe it i wanted to add that slight correction. i love your video 🩷
@@otome.heroine I wish I was able to delve into that side more, there’s so much to say about a such a broad topic with lots of rich history. But for now this is what I got but this could be inspo for a whole video about femmes!
@obviouslyqueer did a super interesting video on femme identity, history, etc., published 4 weeks ago I believe. Would definitely recommend!
so genuinely thrilled to see other lesbians that care so much abt being lesbians
Great video, thank you!!
This is really cool and informing video. Thank you!
Trans man here who is gay, nice to know how things are on the “other side” of things. Very informative.
I love learning about Queer history. I struggled to identify as a lesbian for so long because it was thrust upon me in a derogatory way before I was ready to accept it. I face similar struggles with Butch. It is probably the label that best describes me, but there is such a stigma that comes with these words sometimes. It’s hard to choose to align yourself with them (in my experience).
Great video, i look forward to your next ones!
thoroughly enjoyed this video, thank you for making such an informational video on the butch identity!! this is much needed right now and you did a great job!!! love to see more people talking about the butch identity and lesbian history
Great video! Learned a lot of new stuff, especially history.
Can I ask you a question? I'm a 30/Cis Male. I usually identify as gay but I think I'm just attracted to masculine presenting people, despite their genitals. Is there a term for that?
honestly whatever resonates most with you! gay is a flexible term! i also believe androsexual exists which means attraction to masculinity.
@@humbuggd Thanks! I know some people can find labels limiting, and I respect that, but personally I find them helpful to understanding myself more.
@@summerskull9379I’m of the opinion that labels are tools to be used, and not exactly guidelines to adhere to. I wish you luck on understanding yourself better with every coming day :]
Whatbout bois i feel i fall in somewhere in between. As a sapphic. WLW, leeesbian. ♡