How often should you text a Girl
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- I get this question a lot and whenver I get it I try and get my clients to think about things in a different way. Stop trying to find the secret 'texting formula' that she wants and start asking yourself how often do YOU want to hear from her? These are the questions of a high value man.
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Whenever I feel like it, SIMPLE!!
Exactly! No if you feel like you need to text her every minute because you are nervous that is something to look at.
But, don't forget to keep yourself busy.
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Bruh I was about to see the whole video, thanks
A lot of people want a straight answer to this but its more about if the conversation is going somewhere that makes the difference. As Tony Robbins always says the quality of your questions determines the quality of your life.
Great quote from him, he mentions that in his “money master the game” book
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Don't text a girl if u don't see future with her. You don't want to be a texting buddy. 🙏
Not wanting a future doesn't mean you don't want to get laid. There's plenty of women with lackluster personalities that are attractive.
From my experience, if they're very responsive to your texts then feel free to go HAM. If not, text less....simple.
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Nah, I sometimes left them on read cos I'm too lazy to reply lol chatting bores me
Spot on. And it doesn't matter who initiates either..
This girl text always answers, sends me pictures of her fit, and we enjoy our time FTing but I feel like some of her responses (texts) are one dimensional. It happens enough times to were I noticed. Idk it’s just weird maybe it’s just how she is
I plan seeing if she starts up a conversation if I don’t. She was originally the one that reached out to me, but its gotten to the point I start it out pretty much all the time
@@SerjEpic what happened
I can almost guarantee If you text a girl everyday she’ll lose interest. Eventually that other guy she leaves you for who will give her that attention, will get dumped when she gets bored. Minimize texting. It kills attraction. Be setting up times to meet in person. In between do not overdo it with texting out of fear you’ll lose her. You will .
Never blow up her phone, take your time texting back and never ever text drunk after midnight
True. I also never respond to texts after 10pm unless its an emergency
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Not after midnight that’s when she will turn into a Gremlin. Lol!
Eyebrows be like " Are we done yet?"
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You should text her when y'all talking about something...
Yes!
No!
From experience, me and my girl can’t really text like that. Heck, I remember one time she shut me down real quick. “I gtg, talk to you later” and some girls are generally lazy and don’t feel like responding to texts. It really varies by person.
@@qsam14 look into this
1) Engage in hobbies, and have something going for you. 2) Text/reply when you have time 3) Don't write too long a message, keep it light and funny, and include some photos of things we're doing/are passionate about.
Genuinely helpful advice
Thanks
In the early part of a relationship, evening texts are good. That's the time of day girls are feeling more romantic I've found. Good mornings are not good early on
I dont text, Texting I have found is so toxic and can be easily misinterpreted.
Pick the phone up and ring her ffs. Or text her only to ask her when shes free to call, if she has a problem with calling and wont meet you half way forget her.
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Or send her a voice memo
To be fair, most women aren’t gonna be down to call if you just met them within the past few days.
Dudes, it's very simple .... If a woman is judging you based on your texting abilities; move on; she ain't worth your time.
You can find someone much less shallow.
Based on your theory I'll stay single my whole life then. It seems like everyone is judging by how I text. It's like "Oh sorry if I've reached my words limit for today, you must thing I'm needy. Go ahead and ghost me like everybody else just because I sent a double message"
Exactly she who likes you wouldn't care how much you text but will worry if you don't text
@@24muneca3 very true ..
As a normal & caring female, this isn't shallow at all. Its fair for us to want a little confirmation that a man is indeed interested. Not a bad thing.
We don't need much, doesn't need to be longass messages, but if guys try to hold out too long then we will think you're disinterested and move on or be confused. We simply want clarity, even if a man is very busy, no problem at all if he takes the 10 seconds to send a quick check-in text. Its a very minimal effort that goes a long way 👍🏼
@@niconiconnu then don’t text
TLDR
Be yourself but know your limits
Get some interesting topics for you and her
Interact and have fun
Dude you are straight up the best dating coach on TH-cam. Thank you for all this great advice. You go into so much detail. I really like how you are super open minded, most of the other dating gurus aren’t😬
Texting too much ruins attraction bc it gets boring. Be careful
This is from the girl whom I had a crush on. She told me, as a girl she HATES it when a guy keeps asking hey what’s up, what are you up to multiple times a day (I honestly didn’t know guys like that existed), also when they keep texting back and forth very quickly, it comes off as needy. I text her when I feel like it, but sometimes I’ll just send her a news article or meme, and she’ll react to it, and then she’ll feel comfortable sending things she’s into, this builds a relationship. Girls will also like good morning texts, hope you have a good day. This shows them they’re appreciated and you didn’t forget about them.
You're "good morning" texts are way more cringy than texting a girl "what's up?"
@@jungleambience5355 everyone is different. some girls prefer good morning texts because it makes them feel appreciated while I also know girls who HAAATE with a passion if you text them with a "whats up" because they think you're bland and boring.
@@jungleambience5355 from a girl. Good morning messages are sweet and makes us feel appreciated
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Vice versa that when a girl says hey what’s up lol
Ohhhh I just needed that... 2 days ago I wrote to a girl I've known for a long time, and I found a way to keep the conv going yesterday evening, but tonight I think I'll skip bc I don't want to make her feel like I'm running or I'm needy. When the Covid situation is a bit better here in Italy I'll try to hang out..
A guy should always be the one initiating contact in the initial stages. After there is a connection the happy median is 70-30 with her chasing you!
agreed
@Johann Alyosha Van Tassel after you initiate contact and her attraction grows which it should be if you’re fun and showing her a good time then slowly back off until she’s initiating 70% of the time
U still single aint you?
If you start 5 conversations a week she should start 2 or 3
Who gave you that rule?
Another thing is DO NOT get sucked into the good morning/good night texts if she seems like the type to do that. One here and there is okay, but once you go down that path she's gonna start expecting it from you and it'll make you boringly predictable. Save that shit for when you're actually together.
How do you stop once youve been doing this.
I don't have rules on how often, it really depends on the girl and the situation. Generally when I feel like it and when I feel there's something interesting to say, never just to say "Hi how are you" or stuff like that. Usually in the beginning stages not less than once a week and no more than three times a week but it's just how I am, not a rule or anything. And I generally try to keep it simple, fun and short.
On the other hand I have a rule on how many times I'm gonna text first before giving up and it's 3 times. Even if she's responding, everything's good and she seems receptive if after the third time I initiate contact she still doesn't show any effort I just let it go. If and when she contacts me, then it's all good, otherwise she's not that interested and I'm wasting time.
Lloyd you have a point...I find that how often to text girl is not the right questions to be asking...I do believe that if a girl likes you she will text you and it just flows between the guy and girl...but when she has doubts that when her texting becomes sporadic leaving the guy wondering if he should keep texting to build attraction. I usually say: text when you feel like it and with this you can gauge her attraction level.
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I like how this is the exact opposite advice as other videos. I can now safely conclude that no one actually knows the answer. Lol
Lol
It just depends on the girl , your interest and the situation. People are different. If they were all the same then everyone would hit it off w/ everyone .
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Damn, women are rediculously complicated
Idk . If I girl really likes you she should also text. If your start the texting all the time she's telling you your not priority.
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Texting is so new to human history. Why spend all this time texting. Go and see her, go talk to her. It’ll be fun, promise
I feel that in general, just not even when talking to your crush, texting is all about informing people you don’t see about what happened in your life. I will go for days talking to people when I first bring up that “oh this girl thought you were good looking” or “this thing happened in my life”
What if 2 people doesn't live in the same country?? Then what? How often you text ? Because you can't meet up every weekend
If you have something to say or share, its good. If its emotional then its smothering. For example, if you are anxious or excited so you message her to relieve that, its too much. Dont look for reasons just to make contact. And, dont put her as the crnter of your universe. Live your life
it depends on the woman her needs in this.
wtf man, too much texting lowers attraction
Girls get so angry with me for not texting. I don't want to come across as desperate. Good morning texts is what kills me. I heard woman don't like good morning texts. I'll say something like I woke up and didn't have time.
Texting intermittently is not desperate. Would you think she was desperate if she texted you?
When you ask her out
Usually I just leave her alone after that until the day comes when we’re supposed to meet. Send her a good morning thing or meme. Let her respond first unless she asks if y’all are still hanging out. Then just go frm there
There's this girl I've been texting with 7 years. We met through a dating app. We had intercourse last year.
She became a bit distant so we stopped texting each other.
A week ago, she began texting me and complained why I don't text her,
So she texts me every morning at 5:30 am. a "good morning" so I assume she likes me whenever I keep In touch with her.
I tell her flirty lines, she seems to like it. Years ago, she was very flaky and hardly replied. Now she seems more interested in me
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May I please ask, how often did men write letters to women before the telephone, cellphone, text messages ? I'd like to go back to writing letters 😩
Text as often as you actually want to hear from someone, imagine that 😂
100% right, just not the thing to get hung up on.
Based off replies throughout the day , I wait for the girl to get back to me first before sending a new text
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what if you text her and it always takes her 2-3 hours to respond... even though you know as a 21 year old she checks her phone more often than that? She is having sex with me, so I'm not too worried, but is she playing games? hard to get?
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It doesn’t mean she doesn’t have a life. You’re needy
In other words: Give up.
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just get other bitches
4:32 he has the point
So what abt double texting? How long should I wait to follow up? There’s this rlly intriguing girl who wanted to go out last night but we both ended up getting off work way later than expected. She said she still wants to go out next time she’s free and we ended up texting for an hour abt a mutual interest and at the end I didn’t get a response. How long should I wait to follow up?
Man i think you forgot this 👑
I'd say, at the start, take her out at least 2 days a week with text mainly before and after the date. Not too much at first. After the 3rd date, the girl should offer to go Dutch and initiate some text.
Never look needy. Don't text too often and don't reply straight away as you get messages from her. Keep your cool. You want to look busy.
also, it is more classy to text less
If you’re a high value guy you ain’t watching this video.
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Then obv you are not high value. Thanks for the projection though
Texting alot decreases attraction and it increases chance of arguing over dumb things
I’d say find a balance
I have a damn job. I only text girls at night or sometimes I don't at all if she sends like "okay"or "alright" until she reaches out. She seems to like the unavailability. Its attractive to women.
Some women. If this worked on all women there wouldn’t be all these videos with different answers. Women are humans not robots. They’re not all the same
I agree with him on the video. Never blow up a girl phone.
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A girl or a guy too?
just call her and let her hear your voice, and set up the date, forget texting lmao
As easy as that. Texting should be about purpose. Like only texting her to set up a date or a hang out. Phone call or facetime is the best option to do all that conversation shit that most people do with texting.
Lloyd how come you have to say "I am ｎｏｔ the single guy," 💀💀
That could be and inside joke with someone close to him, because the channel’s names implicitly brands him as The Single Guy and could be a subject that chicks bring up when talking to him.
Or could be that he’s living in an open relationship somewhere in México, big mansion, close to the beach, where everybody walks around naked, having safe sex all over the place, eating tacos 🌞
He has to say it because his channel name is TheSingleGuy.
So question comes why should we take advice from the single guy. So he's specifying it in the beginning that he's not, but TheSingleGuy name is for people who are single.
Hey Lloyd I need advice got this cute girl we talk regurarly and we know each other for a while now sometimes she acts like friend and sometimes more than that. I would like to ask her for date but I m scared that I m gonna mess up
Pinpoint her behaviour, and analyse what she does more, is she more probable to friendzone or go on a date
Ask her out. If she isn’t down and has some excuse ask her when she is free if she says she’s not sure there’s your answer chief. Plenty of fish out here
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I keep looking for videos on how to get people to not wanna talk to you romantically and TH-cam has no answers. I'm not gonna be rude and not respond but I don't know what to do when someone starts trying to make plans and I don't want to hNg out but feel obligated. I don't even have a car, why tf would anyone want to date me?
What If she never texts first should I just stop and wait for her too?
When texting a girl always ask yourself if she is actually having a conversation with you or if she is just replying for the sake of replying
I have this rule: I text first 3 times tops. Even if she's responding well, we're talking and everything, if after 3 times that I initiate contact she doesn't text first herself I let it go.
So first at all how often you should text her to make her not loss interest?! lest say you not preparare to take her out yet !!
This video was recommended to me and when I came across the thumbnail and title my first thought was, “oh shit, the guy who plays Vincent Chase in Entourage is giving dating advice.”
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I wanna text a girl when I wanna
Most of the time I don’t even want to know whats going on in this girls life. I just meet with them out of boredom
It's been over 50+ days of no contact with my very short term ex whom I dated for a month and she grew distant and indifferent after I became needy and desperate... I've grown very strong mentally and have been working real hard and have had a positive impact and growth since no contact, I feel I'm at a strong position now... I miss her a lot but should I reach out to her ? Or let my silence speak for itself?
Let your silence speak for your self and work on your life goals
Could you maybe make a video on how to handle seeing/liking a girl that is definitely seeing multiple guys at once? Is it worth it at all? Does someone have any self-respect if they feel like they are competing with other guys? Is there a double-standard? (yes, imo) please help. I'm starting to feel like a moron for continuing seeing her
Bruh she should trying to get with u
If shes seeing multiple guys shes not the type of girl worth keeping
Those girls like attention not worth it
It sucks when the girl is bad at texting. I do text her and schedule a call to catch up but when she does text me its a lot of back n forth.
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im glad i came across this video im over here liking this girl and texting her then i see other videos saying oh you cant be too hot with women, you cant text her everyday, you have to ignore her.
Got this LDR thing going. She always texts me first. Always. I'm pretty busy, so I won't get back to her for 4 days, a week, sometimes 2 weeks. We'd video chat once every week, once every other week. This was going fine for 4 months. For the first time since we connected, she's gone a whole week without messaging me. Pretty sure she got bored/found another guy. Oh well.
In this case it sounds like it’s your fault bro 🤣🤣. How do you not text her for 4 days ? Or a week ?¿? 👎.
Well mate, 100% your mistake there. You cant be surprised about how it went
The phone it only to set a date to meet.
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I like this channel, good advice and not full of himself.
Bro, I wish I had this advice two years ago
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Too much texting can kill attraction
I got a girls number over snapchat and we texted a bit the last 5 days and I tried to call her 2days ago but she had no time BUT yesterday she randomly texted me "how you doing" idk how to act now
💀 focus on going on a date with her bro that’s the goal .
@@riverdaletales8457 had a date with her... she didn't shwed up, had a couple days where I tried to forget this now I'm good, she had rlly dumb excuses so I don't want to waste time on someone who is playing with me
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Ask her out
@@x_9992 if she didn’t show up she’s out. What a twat
I met up with a girl twice and smashed both times but after the second time she told me she’s got dates with two other dudes the following week. She might be for the streets but I’m just wondering why she felt the need to tell me instead of keeping it a secret?
Haha mate you know what to do...leave her to the streets
But i wanna text her all day and idk if she is actually intrested she dosent text first and when i text first she does reply but it takes her like 2 mins mins to answer
You keep texting all day and you will get ghosted. I promise. Set dates. If she’s answering in 2 mins she obv likes you right now
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I need it to hear that
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fact is women choose successful men! just have a great job some cash a nice car ur good! and be nice to women and respect them. women wont go for broke ass dude whos obssessed bout texting them lol,
Yep. But now its harder because women have substituted men with a pet or another woman.
@@brianticas7671 another woman hahaha
@@lainthor5808 alot of girls are gay now
But why do broke guys still get the girl? I mean why should a woman have too pay for her date lol
@@kevindavis4709 those girls have no standard and dumb that's why
if she dont me im not going out of my way to text her
Yeah , I would text her first a few times and see if she improves in texting you first and fast.
Text her memes fellas
Hey, I'm struggling with a particular person and it causes me to feel stress,rage,impulse,announced etc...this person is 3 years younger than me but he's so rude and gets under my skin were in a trio everytime we i talk to the other person he would tell me to shut up no one was talkting to me. He rude and all he does is stay in his room and talk to his friends and be a completely different person to them to us and especially me. He thinks he's smarter than me and alaways try to make me feel dumb and when i get angry and fight him i get in trouble by my mom and others. It makes me purely hate him. I tried so hard to ignore it and be myself and normal and look past it and treat him nice. But I'm purely done. It's like a loop that plays and I'm tired of forgiving him. He's my brother. But he gets on my nerves. I'm ultimately gonna treat him how he treats me and ignore him to the limit. Advice?
That ks toxic behaviour and I can relate. He sees that you are superior to him but he shows negative vibe to theow you off. Focus on yourself and try to be respectful to him and don't mind his tantrums. Work towards living away from him.
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I text like every 2 days then the 3rd day I'll just give em a call c'mon u not the only guy texting and calling if a girl gets wyd's and all sorts of phone calls from the same people and not ever catch a break ? And u call and text her from the guy that gives her space and time for herself she gon be calling and texting him back cause u not blowing her up 💯💯👍👍👍like the rest of the guys are 🤷🤷🤷🤷 u ain't wyd her to death or goodmorning her to death
Most girls are not dating multiple dudes. Especially single moms
Right on right on
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Yeah, that's definitely not Lloyd
this girl in my class doesn’t want a relationship but really wanted to stay friends. She’s not dry what’s so ever over text, she’ll reply fast for the most part. I text her like once a week. My feelings are still there tho. I have to act like they are not so we don’t drift apart but it might be best to do that. She would probably be upset tho. What do I do bruh 💀
Lol if your tryna get a girlfriend start talking to her friends and see how she acts. That’ll tell you if her feelings are there. If they aren’t on to the next chief
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Good advice as usual
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🙄 idont know but when i still trying to know her i didnt text much. Now she is my girlfriend for long time, i text her to much and call 🙄. She also spam our chat like want me to fast read her chat 🤣. But it is fine,and she understand how iam. i from country mostly people here really like it🤣 and we are mix relationship
If you like a woman, do not text her!!! Instead CALL HER! !!!
i texted her after 4 days because her last text was a bit rude and now she said cant date a uy whose wifi is very slow all the best and i dont think its a good idea anymore all the best. what should i do now ?
You should move on. She just dumped you.
"how often should i text a girl?"
answer: "as often as you want."
ta-da!
solid advice... 🙄