Want Men To Approach You? (How to get him to chase you!)

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  • @jasonsilveryt
    @jasonsilveryt  5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    What do you think? More collaborations with Camille and Caitlin?

    • @TM-tt9pp
      @TM-tt9pp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Attract Great Guys Yes, I like these two fabulous ladies!

    • @anoukc6928
      @anoukc6928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love them!

    • @LizaFCamba
      @LizaFCamba 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looking forward to the next one!

    • @stephaniewashere9821
      @stephaniewashere9821 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes they were great. I must say that I'm puzzled as to why most relationship coaches don't mention about those who have disabilities like say mental, physical etc. Like how some advice given may affect them because they are not like the others. Unless, dating is for certain type of people.

    • @carolemann687
      @carolemann687 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

  • @pageremick5504
    @pageremick5504 ปีที่แล้ว

    Get a revolving fan, get three chairs (instead of having to change your direction on the couch) and have them back! Want to hear more from them about the boundaries you need during these first encounters. Great show! Thanks

  • @podersa241
    @podersa241 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    A smile is very important. Also say something nice to man as you pass by. Even something like good morning or a smile with a nod and keep it going. Never put a man down no matter how rude he is to you. It is not personal and it has nothing to do with you, It is about what is going on inside of him. I usually say I have nothing but love or you and keep it moving, You will be surprised how he will respond to you eventually..

  • @kimberlyrosemagtibay5692
    @kimberlyrosemagtibay5692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've been watching dating techniques, and tried to apply all tge time.. The truth is... Even u applied the right techniques if u do it to the wrong person, it still not gonna work because he or she is not the right person for you... Just relax and wait for the right one... ❤️❤️❤️❤️ more power just take the good lesson but don't expect that it will work to all men..

  • @Akashaforever101
    @Akashaforever101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I don't really know how to feel about this one. I feel like I could have sat on the couch and talked about how guys come on to me or how I approach a guy. I think this one was kind of boring, not bad, but a bit boring. Nothing was said outside of the normal "Guy meet girl/ Girl meets guy" Dynamics. I mean you have a relationship coach and a sex coach sitting on the couch and this is what come out of that??? I believe there should have and could have been a lot more. I mean we all get some crazy pick up lines, men and women; who knows if "That guy" with the horrible pick up line wasn't "The guy"? Maybe he was nervous and just screwed up that opening point. It would have been nice to hear a response that doesn't make him feel like an idiot or a response to, his friend not having to save the night lol. I think we have to be open minded when trying to find someone or be in a relationship. We all have our perfect guy and perfect girl set in our minds; and when we go out, we are looking for that and when approached, we completely dismiss what comes only because he or she is not what we pictured our perfect person to be, when in reality there is no perfect person. In your videos, you tend to go in depth on your topics and I didn't get that from this video. There is just something missing from this video, I don't know what it is, but it's something missing. Keep up the great work! I do enjoy your videos 😁

    • @aviancag8716
      @aviancag8716 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      LET'S GET PERSONAL With Steph I would have loved to see diversity( some one of color) . A woc getting approached vs any other race is different of women is different. A white guy will stare at me the whole time after we have locked eyes and I’ve smiled. I was in a bank.

  • @ramonan3720
    @ramonan3720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Excellent Ladies....FYI to viewers- Top Golf is a hot place right now for Men of Substance!

  • @joana.6736
    @joana.6736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very enchanting of you to introduce us to Caitlin and Camille! Thank you Ladies. Your knowledge adds to Jasons expertise and the vibe was really kind and human. I am always looking for the livable and human in all videos.

  • @amandamuir7752
    @amandamuir7752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve always liked the way you present your information 🙂
    “A truly wise man is always learning” .Proverbs.
    Thank you for growing your content, allowing for new perspective and understanding!
    You’re my favourite 🙂🇨🇦🌻

  • @lambo2655
    @lambo2655 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm 59 always been a very shy person so I don't approach women. I wish they'd step up and start approaching us.

    • @adorablekaluesther3728
      @adorablekaluesther3728 หลายเดือนก่อน

      59! So u have never been married... God grant you ur desire.... amen

  • @LoveDianeBE
    @LoveDianeBE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree, because I get more attention & conversation starters when guys look at my glasses. They’re not the typical black frames. They’re a dusty pink/mauve color which brings out my eyes, I think. I have natural long lashes and also get tons of compliments on my lashes. Which I like.
    I do have social anxiety so keeping a conversation going can be a big hard for me.

    • @theofflinedating
      @theofflinedating 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Diane, thanks for sharing. To keep the convo going that's a whole 'nother video, but I recommend getting authentically curious about the other person. Ask open-ended questions that you actually want to know the answers to, not just ones to fill space. The more interesting the question the better - interesting Q's get interesting A's :)

  • @leliu5thelement448
    @leliu5thelement448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If a man is intimidated by a woman..Honey that man is insecure and you don't want him! I want the Alpha Male that is not afraid to make the approach, not afraid of trying to talk to you...you hear me?

    • @windward2818
      @windward2818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Disclosure I am a man. Do you flirt with men you are attracted to?

  • @MorwennaBugano
    @MorwennaBugano 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You give some really great advice! and feel very authentic. Thank you!
    Once I started watching your videos, I was watching for 1.5h last night!
    A good way to spend a Saturday night I'd say!
    Learnt so much and actually inspired me to reflect on my life. What do I want and where do I want to be in 10 years.
    Thank you!

  • @18QueenHearts
    @18QueenHearts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm not sure if you've done a video on this topic before but I'd really like to get a perspective on dressing with confidence and dressing for attention and which of the two men would deem as a quality woman based on attire! The reason I'm asking is because I've recently realised that a particular acquaintance of mine makes a major issue of showing her body (whenever we go out and on her sm platforms) -eg- she'd wear see-through or net garments for her butt, front area and upper lady parts to show, very thin clothing so that her upper lady parts would show even more etc,)and all her pictures are extremely revealing. And to add to it, she laughs at other women who aren't getting that level of attention and enjoys it when other women's men are seeking her out! Just last week we've been out and my male friend pulled me aside to ask me why my friend was dressed the way she was and why she was trying to reveal so much of herself and why she was looking for so much attention. (we were in a club) *shrugs shoulders. I know that seems to be the way of most social media gurus/models in attracting attention lolol but there may be a bit of misleading dangers in this if a woman's trying to attract a sustainable and quality relationship (imo). It'll be great to get the male perspective and a round table on this!!

  • @datingandgrand7437
    @datingandgrand7437 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The issue I keep running into is that I have no problem talking to anyone, so when I am genuinely interested in something and the nearest person (at the store) gets pulled into my excitement I replay the conversation at home, in my head and realize *gasp* 😯 they thought I was flirting!
    Then, when I want to get a guys attention and he doesn't appear interested or notice me at all...it goes nowhere.

  • @alexandragisellechavez3564
    @alexandragisellechavez3564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that is true. . we need more practice, ..be confident and just talk. ..

  • @treedance1
    @treedance1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't really go of clothing but kinda helps to dress smartish for me to notice.
    how you greet me is a key as to me it's more rememberable.

  • @jessicamaier2023
    @jessicamaier2023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this!!!! So helpful and encouraging! Thanks for posting!

  • @lavayuki
    @lavayuki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I very very rarely get approached, even at places like bars and clubs. I guess I've always played it safe with clothing with LBDs when I go out

  • @rl798
    @rl798 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have an invisible "therapist in" tattooed on my forehead. Those are the men that I attract. UGH!!🤨. I don't even have to try. I'd rather be alone than deal with their problems. I have a son. I don't need a man child at my age.

  • @cathyklekner7972
    @cathyklekner7972 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tips!!! Thank you for taking the time to share. Appreciate it!!!👍

  • @teeve1500
    @teeve1500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Last time i said hi to a cute guy with the dog, he told me to piss off......so excuse me if i dont approach them...

    • @lunarlove8064
      @lunarlove8064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Toivi Laats excuse him he had a horrible day, don’t let it stop you from meeting wonderful people, beautiful

  • @paolablasi3085
    @paolablasi3085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm from Montreal and the guys I meet tell me I'm intimading...I don't really do much...I usually go to a cafe and read a book but guys are scared to approach me...I'm kind and people say I'm easy to talk to but I'm intimading...I'm don't know what that means...help please

    • @fairdose
      @fairdose 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm in Montreal too and Montreal guys are trash since it's a slacker city. The guys in Toronto and Vancouver are a better, higher league.

    • @paolablasi3085
      @paolablasi3085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@fairdose hi shortcake...your right about the guys from Montreal also to add to your comment they are spoiled they've been given everything to them on a golden platter at least the ones I've met and I've yet to have an intelligent conversation with one...

    • @paolablasi3085
      @paolablasi3085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@freestylingwithnad9091 no not really busy...I make my own hours as I am in freelance...

    • @podersa241
      @podersa241 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Men used to tell me that. They no longer do. My aura changed. I smile and my body language changed with the help of others. You may not realize it but there is a wall. A woman can be more beautiful physically but my aura kicks ass. I never put a man down even if I am not interested. Always make a man feel sexy. Start off passing by a really heavy 300lb guy and find something about him to compliment or say hello sexy and keep it going. You will make his day and you get great practice

    • @paolablasi3085
      @paolablasi3085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@podersa241 hi...very interested about this aura is it how you approach a man...cause I'm very friendly and easy going. I'm the listener type people just talk and talk...

  • @luisacordero1501
    @luisacordero1501 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you!!! And thank you for your guests and their wisdom.
    I’m 53 and single after two marriages. I am approached on FB messenger but they never seem to want to talk on the phone, or invite me out. They chat good morning, how are you, how are you doing but don’t pursue me anymore than that, and it’s frustrating me. How do I get out of this negative pattern? Thank you for your videos. I’m learning daily!

    • @anoukc6928
      @anoukc6928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you should respond by telling them: ''hey, let's talk over the phone instead of texting'' or ''I'm not a text person, could we call each other?''

    • @lizhuynhkenny
      @lizhuynhkenny 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be careful, too many scammers on Messenger. If it s too good to be true or something makes you suspicious, don’t ignore your instincts. God bless !

    • @FollowingtheWhiteRabbit
      @FollowingtheWhiteRabbit 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also think that people sending these messages on Facebook are kind of spammers, especially if they have nothing in their feed except 2 profile pictures.... Try more small talk in real life! 😊😘

  • @camy92
    @camy92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Do lots more of these tutorials 😍😍😍
    Loved this one!!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @starlight1514
    @starlight1514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have no problem talking to people. I get like a bumbling idiot when I talk to a guy that I like. I am very confident person. I do public speaking, but when I get one on one with a hot guy I get nervous. What should I do?

    • @theofflinedating
      @theofflinedating 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Starlight, talk to him the same as you would your best friend. I know it's a weird tip, but try it. Take the pressure off yourself in trying to be anyone other than who you really are.

    • @Celinah
      @Celinah 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Practice more:)

  • @Sara-vh6sq
    @Sara-vh6sq 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video and tips! Fav is always be prepared!

  • @MS-ct5pq
    @MS-ct5pq 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    thx for the video..are theses girls married or in serious relationship?

  • @JuneHarriseco
    @JuneHarriseco 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in Picayune, Mississippi. Not originally from here. Please tell me where these men are that you speak of.

  • @nikitag421
    @nikitag421 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    both of them are Very beautiful ....

  • @UNEPIC9000
    @UNEPIC9000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Short and to the point

  • @margyiphillips4931
    @margyiphillips4931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jason, can you do a video on Speed Dating?

  • @alaiaadam5767
    @alaiaadam5767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    💥💥💥💥
    02:15 Wear something unique (like my channel globe 🌍 bag) peacock🦚 dressing ;)
    05:53 Say it immediately!!! Without thinking 💭
    08:13 Always stay ready !!!

  • @irmalair1
    @irmalair1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hmm.... what if you feel your best in your pajamas?

  • @brendastraley8829
    @brendastraley8829 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    PERFUME! Ladies and Gents stop wearing too much perfumes. Between soap, hair products, lotions and laundry products it puts people's noses on overload. Can be a real turn off to people that can't handle fragrances or have allergies or just don't like a certain small. YES you want to be well groomed and clean, but think before you layer on all those smells.

    • @theofflinedating
      @theofflinedating 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brenda, I agree! Love me a guy in some cologne

  • @dominika9887
    @dominika9887 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Camille looked really surprised when u said that she has been approached by hundreds of men (0:23) 😜

    • @anoukc6928
      @anoukc6928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hum...maybe it's more ''dozens'' instead of hundreds in reality! ;)

    • @theofflinedating
      @theofflinedating 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anoukc6928 it actually is hundreds! I just hesitate to throw that credential around because it makes those encounters sound transactional - when in reality, each of them was special and meaningful for me on some level

  • @nidzab2901
    @nidzab2901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Idk, I usually like your videos and get things out of them but this one.... nothing was really said. Was like the very cliche advice. Idk, it was so somber and blah. Sorry but I just want to be truly honest wth you.

  • @lunarlove8064
    @lunarlove8064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Camille looks like Phoebe from friends

    • @theofflinedating
      @theofflinedating 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Selma LOL! I used to have people say that when I was blond....great throw-back xo

  • @jsmum196
    @jsmum196 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good advise! Don't get into an elevator with only one person, a man in it. Think Ted Bundy. Women found him extremely attractive.

  • @Nikki-Nicole
    @Nikki-Nicole 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Caitlin V is gorgeous!

  • @markodejanovic1635
    @markodejanovic1635 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👍👍👍

  • @MyGenericYTC
    @MyGenericYTC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men, do not chase women!
    Chase self-sufficiency!

    • @lisa3341
      @lisa3341 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They do and you know it honex

  • @asteri.mensagens9801
    @asteri.mensagens9801 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm ugly...

    • @siesie1181
      @siesie1181 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Clearly, if that is you in the thumbnail, no you are not.

    • @asteri.mensagens9801
      @asteri.mensagens9801 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, that's me. Thank you for your comment.

    • @lunarlove8064
      @lunarlove8064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No woman is ugly, dress up, go to the hair saloon and get some makeup tips, you will be as gorgeous as any model, chin up gal u are beautiful👍🏾

    • @asteri.mensagens9801
      @asteri.mensagens9801 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lunarlove8064 🙂