5 Signs He Is Not Over His Ex
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ส.ค. 2021
- One of the most annoying things is dealing with someone that is not over their ex. You will find yourself in an entanglement and constantly battling for their attention and affection.
In this video, I am sharing signs that will show you the guy you are dating or in a relationship with is not yet over his ex.
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The honest answer is let him go, so he can love his true love in peace.
Oh that ship had sailed long before the current came along 😆.... regardless I agree they should be dropped
Lol it’s an ex for a reason
Best answer ever ❤️
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The best thing to do his ex didn’t even want him either so now he has neither of us
He talked about her non stop , literally we’d be having a conversation and he’d say I remember she used to do this and say that. For 2 months straight.
I looked at him and said : shit, I miss her too! You talk about her so much that I started to miss her even tho I didn’t knew her.
Then I broke up with him
Good one 😅
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@@lanaw7304 lmao broke up with him a long time ago. he's a 43 year old father of 2 with an ex wife and thinks he's ''famouse'' because he put a couple of cringe covers on SoundCloud. not making this stuff up. his reasoning is that he's famous and wants to keep my reputation clean lmao. the most he got was 3 likes
@@roreo1612”an” ex wife? Is there more than one ex wife?
If the ex is calling the guy, he is entertaining her. Great one!
5. Trust your instincts
Exactly 💯
Do not date a recently separated person
Yep ask straight away. If they are newly single it’s a no go. One way ticket to being a rebound situation.
1. He will try to change you
2. Never wants mention the name of her ex
3. He still wants to be friends with the ex
4. If he's calling each other
My ex, from 4 years ago, still calls me ,sometimes. I still use my old phone. He's in my contacts. I don't have any way of blocking people on this phone. I'd broken up with him, after he decided,(after he told me, "he never wanted kids", when we dated for 1 year), that "he really wanted kids & he always knew I never wanted kids. He wants to see me again.( No, thank you !) He has a 2 & a half years old daughter. The kids' mum is still friends, with him, because of their kid. She brings the kid to his house, every 2nd weekend. He told me "she 'baby trapped' me !' I said "yeah !?, Right?!, You would've told her "you want kids, so you made a kid, together, the relationship didn't work out. Now you'll have to provide for your kid, until she's an adult". I told him "I'm living my best life". "I'm happy, I'm still single & still childfree, my friends are childfree, too " ." I don't want you, your daughter & your ex, in my life, good bye".😊
Facts,just left a guy who constantly kept talking about an ex,now they can have each other,I move on and cut him completely out of my life,because I told him from the door,I will leave you or any man,who constantly talks about an ex,period, or cheats,or lies,,I'm out
This kinda opened my eyes. I'm currently in a relationship with a sweet guy but he almost always tells stories about his ex.
Like a few months ago I had said something because we were talking about our day and he had said "You remind me of someone I used to know" (I knew he was talking about her because I had brought up I didn't like it anymore it made me feel bad...he promised to stop BUUUUUT here we are) anyways I do love him! But idk I feel like I'm in a competition with someone I don't even know!
When you love someone, sometimes you have to let them go and see what happens next
ive lived this and its best to let it go.
Holding on just makes it worse on you
Definitely
I confronted my ex in the first week of dating about his obsession over his recent ex baby mama. (He has 3 kids 2 different moms) he treats the first one like garbage. The second one he walks on egg shells. It couldn't of been more obvious. He denied it all the way till the end. He lied to me but I'm no fool. He lies to himself and that makes him the fool.
Thank the Lord I am single stress free 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 😁😇🥰
I'm getting there
The truth-teller is here, love this video! Straight to the point!
Thanks Frances
Oh wow this is so true. Please give me more of this ❤
Very true to everything. Been there done that, already left. Thanks for the great information.
Right on Brother well said love your real talk
Thank you you've cleared things up for me
So true, thank you so much for sharing🙏
These aren’t signs or red flags these are just straight up facts…
5 outta 5. I was spot on 100
My wife, keeps speaking with her ex, even I told her I am not comfortable her talking with him. She never acknowledges that that guy was her ex and hides this from me. But I read earlier her old chats, so I know.
This is crazy. People shouldn't spoil others' life if they can't get over a particular person !
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That is so sad😢
He is really giving the game! New subscriber here...im ready for the knowledge
Thank you!
Oh my god... Today i decided close my chapter and decided to move on with my life because the guy which i really liked he said he still loves his ex. This really made me feel very bad. Dear girls its not a idea to love someone who still love his ex. He will be toxic towards you only.
Sir you mentioned some points, those similar things happened, he tried to change me i was little surprised but i never bothered about it those days.
Thank you for your honest video. I subscribed to your channel after watching this video ☺️👍
Thank you 🙏🏾
@@Josh_LoveTalk heyyy can you help me plz..
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@@Bhavya_Lakshmi_Pa24 sure drop me an email - hello@joshlovetalk.com
Everything you have point out is fact..especially when you said when he use he's ex for example alot in a conversation..
Yh that’s a red flag
Very honest and practical advice.... Love all your videos 👌👌👌
Thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you ❤💯❤💯❤💯 perfectly said
This sounds like you know the guy I’m dating 🤣🤣🤣
@R l hope so too
Mine too!! It frightens me to think that this is such a thing, that it has to be mentioned on TH-cam. 🙈🙈🙈
Thank you for your video. I'm in such a situation. He gets angry when I text men, like colleagues, but calls his ex every day. When they call I have to be quiet. He keeps saying she's bad but seeks her attention. Last week I called it quits and now he wants my attention. I am done.
Not a man in my book if you're playing boy games. If you love someone and want to be with them. Even if they have moved on. Don't date or see someone else until YOU've MOVED ON.
after ending things, he was in my dm during his wedding prep were going on. i cut off after realising that but he wasn't the one who told me that. i just get to know but he still appear in my other social media dm just a week after his Nikah. i am feeling sorry for that new woman. That's why woman should not believe in love bombing and fall for quick marriage without knowing them for sometime
My ex and I broke up two months ago , he's already in a reason but he calls and text me everyday.he don't even like when I talk about other guys . He invite me out for my birthday a few days ago and send me money.i believe the girl that he's with should leave him alone cause he's only gonna hurt her
Feel you walk away from the situation and keep it pushing
What if his ex lives next door and he still talking to her run sis run
Do we know the same guy lolz? It’s insane!
All the best for your channel
Thank you 🙏🏾
he said to me “wear more blue colors,.it very suit you” (which I hardly to wear blue and I know his ex like blue color”. “why you always talk about her, why you so obsessed about her, I don't want to talk about her, I want to talk about us”
Let him know how you feel and make your standards/ expectations clear
@@Josh_LoveTalk I did, many times. But doesn't work. He won't even defend me when the ex bad mouth and said something not true at all about me. He said I'm being bitchy when I jist asked him to return his ex stuff to her. He allowed her to control his timetable which when he with his kids I'm not allowed to be around and only spend time with them. Also allowed her to say whatever she want to say with no boundaries. We never can wake a person who pretend asleep. I've been trying to wake him up for almost 5 years, enough is enough, I know he will never forget the ex and he still had an attachment to her
Another ex, had a slim girlfriend, before he dated me. He dumped her because he said "she was a total bitch, she loved herself, too much & she was still friends with her ex & I found her with him, during her lunch breaks at work, at the cafe, near her office" . "She went back to him, then & they resumed their relationship". Me & him, got on really well together, went away for weekends, went out to dinner, movies & rodeos. Then he started talking about his ex. He said "she was a bitch, but she had a lovely slim body, you should lose some weight". I couldn't believe what he just said. I said "I've always had an average body, it's never bothered you before, what now"? Then he made some excuse, that I "was feeling heavier on the back of his motorbike". I let this comment go. He starting finding faults with my cooking, (I'm a good cook, he used to compliment me on my cooking), my clothes, my friends, (he had no friends, when we met), everything about me, he picked at. We lived in my rented flat, he even picked at that ! One night, he got dressed & went out alone. I didn't care by then where he went. That night, a friend called me. She said "your boyfriend, (she said his name), is at the movies, with a tall, slim woman & a kid, a girl, about 6". I said "thanks, for this info, but I don't really care now, I want him out of my flat, him & I, are finished" . He came back, around 11am & told me "he's leaving". I said "good, don't come to me when your single mum girlfriend dumps you" . He left the next day. 😊 I never heard from him, again. I'm glad .
This happened to me before , it’s hard to see at first
Thank u!!
OMG i hve been dealing with such for a while and i fell for it....
Hey GoodMorning JoshLoveTalk .
Good morning Melab
Broke it off with my bf. His c and him were calling non stop. Using each others vehicles. She had adult children. He wants me to be involved either her kids. Not his kids. I’m like go be in her family. I’m not playing.
This is very true
i know a celebrity couple like that ...the man is married but now doing PDA with his ex ..and says they are just friends...
I wish I saw this video a year ago when I was dating someone who showed all these signs
As soon as I started dating my boyfriend he inatantly started speaking about his ex to me and brought her up during moments when he wanted intimacy, after intimacy, he wanted me to straighten my hair and wear a certain type of shirts and didn't like me wearing makeup. He also had pictures of her and him still and he had to get rid of them because I expressed my uncomfortable feelings about them and he wanted to delete the pics off his computer alone without me present and that hurt me and made me upset because I never knew if he deleted everything and didn't get to see how he reacted having to delete the pics. Been with him 11 years and he doeant speak about her but when I ask him why he had done that to me he gets so mad at me and says he is hating her because I've asked about it. I'm also told I'm crazy and called a creep but he was the one telling me so much about her height, weight, and what he's done to her sexually and I now feel that he isn't fully over her still but refuses to talk to me. Emotionally unavailable now☹
A true man will u put u first and never want you to feel like a second choice. He might be with you because he’s comfortable. Know when to leave and pray to God
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He brought her up when he wanted intimacy, after intimacy & he told you about their sex life. I can guarantee that man has thought about her while having sex with you! I’m sure he also pretends you’re her outside of sex & that’s why he wanted you to change your appearance, to be more like her.
you cheered me up thanks a lot
ill try to talk to my bf
Very true
Yes my ex told his new girlfriend that I was the one begging him ! Bs it was him ! He blocked me and unblocked after 10 days and started watching my stories
Thank you
Dear God! I had a guy in which he always called his exes crazy, narcissistic, losers, etc. Oddly, their phone numbers were always on the top 5 on his frequent call list.
To this day, he wonders why i won't come back to him. 😒😒
What if they have not contacted their ex in years and live states away
My guy is still connected with her ex girlfriend because the lady is still calling him whenever she wants to.
This is disrespectful to the relationship you both have. Let him know where you stand and ask that he puts in some boundaries
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Learning so much from you,God bless you dear
Amen thank you
I really wish to talk with you one on one, please which platform can I use?
Email me hello@joshlovetalk.com. I’ll send you the details and time
Thank you dear
That's what my husband is, every time I bring out all his exes, he is angry and defend them, which make me think
😭why im fearing about him we were close realtionship past 4 years 1st year of he said about his ex ande jealoused me from some words..he was not physically with her..3contnoisly it went and..i get to accpet it but now we are over 4month long-distance relationship he is staying in uae...i goint through depression about his ex why he chossed him..but intresting is that she is married ...why im depressed i dont know...
Ok I am in this situation with my current bf..I have told him that him having his ex on his fb page and I have explained to him how that makes me feel..I feel like he had rather have her around than make sure that I feel secure with him and he just says that there is nothing there and my come back is well if there is nothing there why cant you do what I need to feel secure with you and I usually get a head shake or an eye roll...Does this sound like he still has feelings for her ? Thanks
Not necessarily. My question to you would be, why do you have a problem with his ex on his fb? Has he done anything to make you feel there’s an issue?
It’s also worth asking him why he wants to keep his ex on his fb
If he really cares he is going to give you the right place
My ex broke up with me 2016 since then he's tried to reach out but I was firm and didn't give him a chance now recently somehow we talked and things are getting out of hand, I don't understand he dumped me I moved on why hasn't he?
Sometimes moving on isn’t fast for everyone
Just because u moved on and haven’t seen him move on,DONT mean he hasn’t
Thank you so much,
I like ur advice, but in a situation where he has a child and with his ex and still communicate bcos of d child, pls, is it right to quit d relationship.
No cos he needs they both need to co-parent and be there for their child. It’s only a problem where there’s no boundary and their communication goes beyond co-parenting
@@Josh_LoveTalk realy
Finally..........
He said it was a long time ago and that she was fake but she still used to call him but he never answered and that now we’re getting to know eachother and it’s better but he was jealous and territorial towards me but I blocked him because we had a huge misunderstanding (not regarding ex tho) God I’m so tired I even wanna take my life dating never works for me
Don't take your life!!! No person ever is worth that!!
Bang on right
Great
Well my bf is talking with his ex for 4,5 years and he said that to me at the begining.They dont talk everyday.But he never rushes to her or she is priority.He even wants me to meet her send her pics of me when we started dating.What do you all think about that?
He’s parading you around to make her jealous. He’s using you. Run!!!
My boyfriend said I pushed him back to his ex am confused
But he always tell me not to wear makeup and Wear flat slippers instead of something high just because his ex doesn't wear makeup and like wearing slippers
The slippers though 😂😂😂
yoo, my bf also suggest me things to do that his ex did. I told him clearly, I am different than her and that’s nice he like her style. If he doesn’t like mine, he can leave, the style still stay.
If he can’t accept you as you are, then that’s not a situation you want to be in
Thank you so much, What happened to me, my boyfriend said that he doesn't talk , or think about his ex girlfriend but yesterday me and him we were chatting and both of use we were talking romantic and expressing our love to each other and the next day during the day he just posted his ex on tik tok then he told me he just did it for likes and he's asking for forgiveness should i forgive him and be with him or ? Plz i need an advice .
No girl! Don’t let that shit slide, you have to love yourself more than you love your bf. I would call that break up worthyy
I dumped him he told her he loves her and kept looking at woman that look like her
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1:56 & 5:05 👏🏽
My guy and his ex text about once a month it's never sexual I know they communicate over the phone cause sometimes the text say can you talk. I told him I don't like it cause they shouldn't still talk but it still happens what should I do?
Leave please! Save yourself time and heartache
I actually told my ex that I was going to block him, so that we couldn't talk outta respect for the new woman in his life.
He didn't like it.
I do not like when men and women walk around (especially exes) talking about they're still friends.
I think it's disrespectful to the new person.
If someone is meant for you, they either will never be your ex or they'll come back if they're yours.
You’re right
Yes! Me right now having to set boundaries with my kids father bc he still wants/expexts/feels entitled to emotional intimacy from me while he's in a new relationship! NOPE!
True my ex who i just dumped he’s talking to his ex
What about if in my situation, there are kids involve in the past relationship n there’s co-parenting going on.
It has to be strictly business - the kids. It is important to set boundaries and follow through with them. If there are blurred lines, eventually it will become messy
My bf told me he still has feelings for his 1st ex . And he is not over her . He regrets breking up with her .
And well he has no contact with her and he told me we will not go to her .
But he still loves her. What should I do as it pains me that my man loves another women and doesn't loves me . And unable to love me because of that .and i love him so much 🥺❤️i want him to feel the same for me .
Let him go , so he can love his true love in peace !
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I have no ill feelings about a few of my exs I don't call them but we do speak when I see them but its just hi and bye
My ex has a new girlfriend cut their hair short like mine or suggest they earn more money like me.
Well yeah she is usually the crazy one. Men with personality disorders are mostly in prison. Unless the guys got priors the toxic one in the toxic relationship is usually the woman.
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Right 😂😂😂😂
Here better b cause lm over him
Onwards and upwards!!!
I've been in a16 year relationship and wow excuse for msg's and tit pics is that long friends I'm not happy because at least it's not me making assumptions. Thank you
He always reassure me but yeah idk thanks for your advice as they constant talk
I lov my brother
Thank you
Broke up with my ex , after 2 years, recently actually, he reached out , saying he regrets blah blah,
Mind you his still with his baby, the reason why we broke up, asking me to be his woman, he will do whatever it takes to make up for lost time blah blah ,
It’s gotten to a point where we hang out even at they place , he has no fear that she may return and find us ,
I’m single and need some sex, no feelings involved , but now his taking abt love , which confuses me ,
I’m having fun but his attached now,
You are not God to give him asecond chance
I get you’re having fun and it’s cool. But remember there’s an innocent person that’s caught in between
Also, that sex is connecting you two on a soul level and men don't see sex like women. He definitely enjoying sex without the title, but if you start talking like that (doesn't sound like you will) He may not give you that. But if it's meant, nothing will or can stop you.
Good luck.
Not true
That's cool. Thanks for checking out the video anyway
I don't see how someone can disagree to such an amazing video that states nothing but facts.