This Spider Will CURE Your Arachnophobia - The Garden Spider

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2023
  • Discover the natural world like never before: • The Secret World of th...
    Ever wondered what the best way to cure your arachnophobia was? Well, in this video I'll share the exact spider that set me on my path to curing my arachnophobia- the yellow garden spider!
    Subscribe: / mywildbackyard
    Here at MyWildBackyard we investigate the secrets of the natural world- secrets that can be hidden in our very own backyards! I want to share the incredible world of insects, spiders and other wildlife with you and inspire you to explore your curiosity. Get out there, and find your adventure!
    For those who read the description- we've updated the channel! I'm working on adding more features to videos to better expand our conversations about the secrets we find in the natural world! Introducing the Creature Tier System! There are four rankings:
    1. Staple - These are the lowest tier creatures. They are the most common species in a given habitat, and while they're not boring, they're really only exciting when you're exploring a new habitat and you haven't seen them before. Not something to write home about.
    2. Neat - These are a step up from Staple. They don't make your entire day, but they are worth taking a closer look at when found. Definitely can be exciting to have a productive day finding many Neat species.
    3. Wild - These are exciting to find. Whether they have interesting defensive features that offer a nice challenge in the field, are particularly cool looking, or maybe a little bit rare, Wild species aren't necessarily the MOST memorable of encounters, but they definitely make your day when you see them. An adventure featuring many Wild species will truly be memorable.
    4. Gem - These are special. Usually involving extremely interesting biology and significant rarity, Gem species are animals that you really do not see every day. These species can make your whole adventure, and will be very memorable.
    Music in this video - Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
    Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License
    creativecommons.org/licenses/b...
    #arachnophobia #spiders

ความคิดเห็น • 1K

  • @MyWildBackyard
    @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Join the MyWildBackyard adventure on Discord: discord.gg/6aQP6GpRB6
    Meet new people, learn about wildlife, and share your latest finds with the community!

    • @Rydillon16
      @Rydillon16 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      awesome vid my dude

    • @Reppintimefitness
      @Reppintimefitness 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're the Real life Spiderman

    • @danasisk2414
      @danasisk2414 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's hard to imagine you were ever grossed out by spiders. Lol. ✌👍

    • @goteamslugs
      @goteamslugs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Would you handle a slug? =)

    • @jhonzeimerman5650
      @jhonzeimerman5650 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jumping spiders: cutest non menacing creature. 10/10 would touch.
      This Spawn of hell: I'll jump and scream. Goosebumps maker nightmare fuel creature.

  • @someguyto4675
    @someguyto4675 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +367

    One of the best backyard pets you could have.

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Yes!

    • @baffledsquirrel2122
      @baffledsquirrel2122 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Now I’m upset …. Pretty sure we and my father killed one thinking it was poisonous

    • @wildlifeisthewealthofnatur5457
      @wildlifeisthewealthofnatur5457 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      ​@@baffledsquirrel2122 All spiders are venomous except Uloboridae. Most species have venom too weak to affect humans. On top of that, they are very docile. Even the highly venomous ones like widows and recluses are gentle who never bite unless pressed against skin.

    • @Reppintimefitness
      @Reppintimefitness 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He's the Real life Spiderman

    • @kab1r
      @kab1r 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I don't mind them outside 😅

  • @Red_Oni_Nerd
    @Red_Oni_Nerd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    "The more we push past fear, the more rich and fascinating the world becomes" is such a great line that can apply to more than just Spiders and the natural world. Great quote, definitely going to remember that from now on. ❤

    • @digitaldazzle5836
      @digitaldazzle5836 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s right. So no need to be homophobe or transphobic right? As a matter of fact, why fear anything?

    • @tinkcrow
      @tinkcrow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@digitaldazzle5836Are you being sarcastic? There is no need to be homophobic or transphobic. Fearing people based off of your own assumptions without even bothering to fact check yourself is wrong. The same goes for insects. Of course, some people are still going to be scared and that’s fine.

  • @kiddchaos421
    @kiddchaos421 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Until you're walking in the woods and not noticing the big web and it's all on your face and you're wondering where did the spider go😮😢

  • @Gawdrek
    @Gawdrek 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    As kids I used to see these spiders everywhere but now as an adult I rarely see them anymore. We'd catch em and feed them. When they bounce their webs they can be intimidating but I found they're pretty friendly overall for their size.

    • @Topdoggie7
      @Topdoggie7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pesticides have been destroying the populations.

    • @alphastronghold715
      @alphastronghold715 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      When they use their intimidation display, they can be intimidating.
      Imagine that.

    • @Gawdrek
      @Gawdrek 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@alphastronghold715 1994 10 years old. Imagine that.

    • @tshepomotau4354
      @tshepomotau4354 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      When I was a young boy, I used to handle Lactrodectus brown widow spider when I was a kid. I used to handle them without fear. I tried to handle a certain spider. I think it was a sac spider. That spider then bit my finger, and I felt a mild venom getting into me. I immediately dropped it on the ground. From that moment, I began to be afraid of spiders and made sure that I didn't handle spiders even today. I fear spiders even today. I hate the thought that they could bite me.

  • @Sharkhuahua
    @Sharkhuahua 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    Wow! It didn't occur to me that golden garden spiders are actually great at curing arachnophobia! It's so cool that you had this help cure your arachnophobia, a great first spider :)

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Lots of spiders are great for it, but everyone has that one spider that really shatters the fear. This one was that for me!

  • @LittleSeasonist
    @LittleSeasonist 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I haven't handled any spider other than jumping spiders, the garden spider & the golden orb Weaver are the spiders that broke my arachnophobia. Such amazing creatures with personalities all their own
    Blessings fam 🫀

    • @user-yb1hl8cu7k
      @user-yb1hl8cu7k 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did it cure your arachnophobia?

    • @spooksbukowski63
      @spooksbukowski63 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope I will get there too! Blessings for you aswell!

  • @benhall2230
    @benhall2230 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    It’s funny to hear that a spider that was pretty instrumental in myself fearing them, had the opposite effect on someone. Your jumping spider videos helped me overcome that and now I’m more open to handling them if not still a little squeamish, but to hear the way you talk about taking the time to understand them and how they operate to further your passion for exploring things like nature, animals and insects alike, it’s incredibly inspiring and I’m always appreciative to see the new creature you want to show off. Much love to you and your future adventures❤️

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jumping spiders are definitely the best starting point. This one was where the fear started to really melt away for me

    • @WhatWouldVillainsDo
      @WhatWouldVillainsDo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jumping spiders in no way kreep me out but almost every other spider does. I have sat with a jumping spider on my arm several times and had full on conversations, and they sat their intently maintained eye contact and listend the whole while. You can tell by that look in their eyes they are pretty damn smart. They have done tests on them and found out they are able to use forewars thinking and are great problem solvers.

  • @timm1139
    @timm1139 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    As a kid, I always thought that these garden spiders were very cool. My dad said that they were good for the garden, & to leave them alone, like you explained. Thanks for the memories.

  • @jessd423
    @jessd423 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I also had arachnophobia, until I joined a spider group on FB. I finally started educating myself and realized how cool and misunderstood they are! I always have my spider catching cup handy instead of a flyswatter for when they wander in the house. I've only held a few tiny ones though 😅

    • @nobody.of.importance
      @nobody.of.importance 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are a good person.

    • @wayofthekodiak3118
      @wayofthekodiak3118 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait until you get a giant huntsman in your house 😂. Kidding, glad you're over it. I've had a tarantula for 17 years. She's actually about 26 years old.

    • @jessd423
      @jessd423 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wayofthekodiak3118 aw I wish we had huntsman spiders here! Also that's crazy I didn't realize they lived that long! That's amazing

    • @wayofthekodiak3118
      @wayofthekodiak3118 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jessd423 The females live a lot longer than the males. Mexican firelegs are known to live over 50 years. I'm in Texas the huntsmen here are small but the wolf spiders are huge. I had a brown recluse in my place recently and decided to dispatch it unfortunately. I work in tight spaces filled with spiders and brown recluses still make me nervous.

    • @jessd423
      @jessd423 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@wayofthekodiak3118oh wow I didn't realize that about tarantulas! That's amazing. Yikes. Yeah I don't know how I would feel if I were near a brown recluse. We definitely have them here in Montana but I've never seen one fortunately. No huntsmen here either. Just bears 😂

  • @bulletsforteeth5029
    @bulletsforteeth5029 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    It's been amazing watching Spencer move through his process of working with Spiders. It's a treat to see an Orb Weaver, I haven't seen any this year in Texas, the weather is just to hot and too dry, I hope to see them in the Fall when we get some more rain. They really are beautiful and beneficial creatures. 🕸

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah they’ve gotten a lot rarer. Fortunately where I’m at we’re actually having a really good orb weaver year! Hopefully they rebound over by you too. Also stay tuned, gonna be sending an email, shirts are gonna be heading out soon!

    • @bulletsforteeth5029
      @bulletsforteeth5029 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MyWildBackyard AWESOME!

    • @yojimarusilverfang
      @yojimarusilverfang 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've seen them quite a lot this year in my neck of the woods in Texas, even during the hottest parts of summer.

  • @Colorista_1
    @Colorista_1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Yup! I’m an arachnophobia. I wrote about it when you were hunting that purple tarantula. I’ve been watching videos like this for years in an attempt to relieve my fear. I’ve gone from fainting at the sight of an arachnid (even at a picture), to being able to admire them at a safe distance. Thank you and all of the other creators who do a wonderful job of showcasing the beauty of these creatures. Y’all have a blessed day!

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much! You've come a long way, great job.

    • @nobody.of.importance
      @nobody.of.importance 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you can admire these beautiful creatures!

  • @heatherlutz2102
    @heatherlutz2102 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    They are absolutely gorgeous spiders, and one of my favorites! Mirror spiders and banana spiders are really pretty too.

  • @Trickybad
    @Trickybad 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Honestly, I've never considered free handling spiders before because they freaked me out. I would actually go out of my way to kill these garden spiders down in south Louisiana. After watching this video, I feel bad for doing that but also kinda want to try to handle it and cure my fear. Your channel has really opened my eyes to the world of spiders and other insects. Thanks man❤️

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Glad to be a part of your journey! No need to free handle them, they actually do prefer to be left alone. But if you can respect them as fellow life forms, that’s all I can ask!

    • @jmw9904
      @jmw9904 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If you want to start free handling, I'd suggest a jumping spider. Very curious and smart spiders.

  • @theComputerVoice
    @theComputerVoice 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    We had one of these in our school garden for weeks, and the kids got used to seeing it every day. It was a great way to talk about how cool it looked and how important it was for our garden. Then one day we had a hurricane come through and it was gone. :( We were sad but I'm glad the children were able to become accustomed to seeing it.

  • @mmsdcb9081
    @mmsdcb9081 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I counted 4 of these beautiful spiders in my garden this year. They still make me a little squeamish, but watching you handle them is phenomenal. While walking over to my garden , a grasshopper jumped away from me and right into a garden spider web. That was the most brutal attack I have ever seen a spider do! That spider was on him like flies to honey.. it was crazy! I like to keep my distance after seeing that.. hahaha.

    • @nobody.of.importance
      @nobody.of.importance 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The most important part with interacting with them (aside from don't do it unless you have a good reason) is knowing how to read their disposition, much like how you know not to pet a dog when it's agitated and growling. If they feel safe, they're generally not aggressive animals.

  • @DelicateInferno
    @DelicateInferno 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Hello! I don't have arachnophobia, but I am fascinated by these little guys. I love watching you handle them. Great job with this channel and advocating for these tiny beings we share the world with.

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Glad to share all these amazing lil critters!

  • @iszaaccc
    @iszaaccc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    i didnt like spiders about a month ago, but I forced myself to watch your videos and it helped me get used to seeing them and even holding some now, thanks for your content and I hope you keep doing what you do!

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Plenty more to come! You’re doing great, so glad I could help!

  • @williampulliam2427
    @williampulliam2427 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love wolfspiders, orb weaver, and jumping spiders. You've shown me a new world that you shouldn't fear these spiders. I love your videos and I love that I no longer am afraid of them. Thank you.

  • @2WildBoys
    @2WildBoys 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    We really enjoyed learning about your experience from arachnophobia to being what we would certainly consider a spider expert! Phenomenal education of everyday species and why we should care. Keep it up, Spencer! Once again, congrats on 100k!
    Also great call to action! Instant like 👍

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Been a crazy ride! And glad you noticed that lil mid-roll CTA! Highly recommend testing stuff like that on your channel as well!

  • @TheWildlifeBrothers
    @TheWildlifeBrothers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Another fantastic installment in the curing your arachnophobia series, Argiopes are easily among my favorite North American spiders and they are a really great pick to introduce to someone who is afraid of them. They’re so docile, and the individual you were working with displayed that well. I liked the personal note that you added to this video, hearing more of your story and seeing the progression into the biologist you are now is always inspiring for me. Great work man!

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Knew I had to make a special installment for the Argiope. Not kidding when I say my fear melted away after handling one of these, and it was actually watching Chris’s video handling one that I decided to give it a try!

  • @waverlygarner6189
    @waverlygarner6189 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Your passion for nature is refreshing to watch, and I truly appreciate the work you put into making these incredible animals more accessible to those of us who fear them. I find spiders fascinating, but I haven't been able to get over my mental block of interacting with them in any way. When one touches me, my brain instantly switches to a fear response. But I find their lives and contributions to the ecosystem fascinating. Maybe one day I'll have your courage and determinism to power through this fear. For now, I am enjoying your coverage and look forward to exploring your channel!

  • @dialect64
    @dialect64 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My first time seeing one, the size and coloration freaked me out! But now a welcome guest in the yard, and I love feeding and interacting with them.

  • @eragonawesome
    @eragonawesome 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just want you to know that your videos are absolutely making a difference. I walked out my front door today into a huge orb web with what I later realized was a gorgeous spider in the middle of it. I was less focused on the beauty when it was smack in the center of my face, but because of your videos, i was able to calm down, take a deep breath, and just wait for it to drop down. Thankfully it decided to simply drop a line from the tip of my nose and leave, which was itself a truly unique sensation

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! So glad to hear it!

  • @derekmcdanold7108
    @derekmcdanold7108 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've got to give you credit for single handedly helping me get over my arachnophobia. In a matter of a few months of watching your channel I've gone from acting like a little girl around spiders to going out of my way to interact with them.
    Keep up the good work and quality content.

  • @bundleofbasil
    @bundleofbasil 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a sweet girl! She was so cooperative (as always, thanks in part to your careful handling).
    Interestingly enough, this was one of the first spiders that really intrigued me, even back when I was arachnophobic! That zig-zag pattern of silk in their webs was so cool to me, along with those bright colors. Great video!

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Argiopes are so ubiquitous in North America that I think a lot of people have histories with them. I grew up calling them banana spiders! Always found them in the gardens, and was always afraid to get too close. But something about their intricate webs certainly was captivating even when I was afraid too

    • @bundleofbasil
      @bundleofbasil 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @MyWildBackyard It's cool that you're able to handle them so easily now, given your old fears. And yeah, they definitely leave an impression on people. I was amazed that a spider/web like that was just hanging out in my neighborhood creek, and dared to get within 3 feet of the web to take a low res picture on my phone 😅

  • @thatguy9927
    @thatguy9927 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    What a majestic animal! Here in Colorado we have some very interesting orb waivers. Also, through your videos, you have completely inspired a six year old girl into the world of arachnids. Thought you should know.

  • @TheCthultist
    @TheCthultist 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Always love orb weavers, and the garden spider is always one of the easiest to stumble across.
    They’re just so cool and elegant looking and their webs have such a fascinating design to them.

  • @FlawedCoil82
    @FlawedCoil82 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    These spiders have been my favorites for over 30 years! I can’t tell you how many I have handled over the years. Certainly hundreds! I have many videos on my channel of me feeding and holding both black & yellow and banded garden spiders. ❤

  • @donaldwindland
    @donaldwindland 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Growing up, I LOVED these spiders. They helped foster my curiosity for all insects. Great video.

    • @numinous123
      @numinous123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Spiders aren't insects. They're arachnids, which is something different.

  • @jenniferloving9054
    @jenniferloving9054 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for doing a video on Garden Spiders. I love seeing them and their beautiful webs outside!

  • @PJWey
    @PJWey หลายเดือนก่อน

    Out beyond the edge, looking at the world past fear and with love. Thank you for sharing your own joy and journey.

  • @supremeghost7950
    @supremeghost7950 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes, your videos help.
    Even though my own arachnophobia got smaller year by year, your videos help, at least for me, accellerate that process.
    I want to try to handle the domestic spiders here, but they are extremly flimsy and quick to catch, so I don't even try to handle them on my hand, but the thought of handling a spider on my hand was a thought I never even considered back when I was a kid.
    And your videos did and do a great job with that.

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You’re doing great. Gotta give yourself credit too, you’re confronting your fear head on! Proud of ya.

    • @supremeghost7950
      @supremeghost7950 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MyWildBackyard Thank you. Also your Tarantula Videos and your depiction as gentle giants were a great influence on looking at these animals in a complete and different way. I would consider handling one of these gentle giants now on my arm or hand, if someone would ask me to.

    • @nobody.of.importance
      @nobody.of.importance 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've always seen spiders as akin to feral cats. They live outside, doin their own thing, catchin prey, etc, and when they perceive a threat, they'd always prefer to run rather than fight. I mean, wouldn't you if you were caught by something 10,000 times your size? :p
      But as @MyWildBackyard said, good for you, seriously. Confronting a deeply held fear like that takes a lot of nerve. I had trypanophobia for a long time (fear of needles) and had to overcome it a couple years back due to me needing to get a *lot* of blood draws. Now I don't have any fear of em at all! Hope you can get there. c:

  • @johnhanselman6371
    @johnhanselman6371 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Thank you for your calming message. I was unsure if the Yellow Garden Spider was a danger to me or my pets. BTW: I notice the spider "holds onto its web and shakes" to warn me to stay away from it.

    • @samuelmorgan1295
      @samuelmorgan1295 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yep. And it's mostly just asking you not to make it rebuild its web. As you can see it's not particularly threatened by a person's presence unless they go out of their way to make themselves a threat. It knows you can stumble into its web like anything else, but it wasn't rated for catching godzilla so kindly notice it's there and go away please lol.

    • @HayTatsuko
      @HayTatsuko 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The oscillation on the web is also a defensive maneuver that may keep birds and other such predators so confused as to the spider's actual location that they can't strike at it. Amazing sight to see, in any case. I had a particularly large one on my back porch a few years ago.. She and her web were so stout that she could do waves of nearly 9 inches from one end to the other. No bird would have stood a chance of catching that one!

    • @Talon18136
      @Talon18136 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@samuelmorgan1295 nope I kill the bastards they are creepy and I hate that they build their web right in front of my door

  • @C.LudwigStpeter
    @C.LudwigStpeter หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your videos, watching you handle these creatures so calmly has inspired me to take the next step in pushing past my own arachnophobia (first step was admiring from a distance for years, second step was educating myself with videos like yours). I will be attempting to free handle my first argiope this summer when they show up in my garden!

  • @TheWildReportOfficial
    @TheWildReportOfficial 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Neat video Spencer, I was just filming one of these big girls the other day and it reminded me of how great garden spiders are as an introduction to handling wild spiders (and arthropods in general). I like how you described the experience of handling one and how this species relates to your overall wildlife journey!

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks man! I just saw the thumbnail for your VS video, I gotta check it out real soon! Love all these orb weavers!

  • @an0ana
    @an0ana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don't know if I could ever go and pick one of these guys up. Beautiful, but stumbling upon one of them is always a surprise like "Hello! There you are!" That was one difficult thing to get used to, finding out that spooders leave safety lines. Any time I handle my jumpers, I'm thinking, "Well, thank you for wrapping me up in nature's sugar-free version of cotton candy." These guys are very pretty ♥ I always think of them spraying silly string, lol.

  • @Herbie11
    @Herbie11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Man! And here I was so proud of myself for picking up the small jumping spider in the back yard last week.
    If we had those here in California, nobody would go outside. Ha ha!
    In all seriousness, your channel really has eliminated my family's arachnophobia.

    • @thomasstuart2105
      @thomasstuart2105 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not to scare you or anything, but we do have garden spiders like this in California. I think they're technically a different species (green garden spiders) and tend to be a bit smaller, but are otherwise similar. I found a bunch out near a landfill in the Bay Area, and have seen them in fields in northern cali as well! I don't think they are as prolific as yellow garden spiders can be in other states, but if you're determined you can find them!

    • @guesswhat-chickenbutt
      @guesswhat-chickenbutt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      These spiders are so neat!!!!

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m so glad to hear it man! It does take time, but it really is worth it. And it means a lot to read all the comments and see how people are beating their fears. Thanks for being a part of the whole journey here! Stay tuned for an email, once I finish some of the projects this week I’m gonna be getting ready to send out the shirts!

    • @MikeyG003
      @MikeyG003 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We definitely do have these exact same ones in California. I never saw them my whole life until recently a new housing community was built on the outskirts of town in the fields and this is in the Sacramento Area. Weird

  • @scoggzap
    @scoggzap 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude, your channel and Jack's channel along with BW really helped me in this way as well.
    Thanks for ALL you guys do.

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad to do it! Jack and Coyote are awesome.

  • @joewest5624
    @joewest5624 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks to your video, I went out to the forest around my North Carolina home, found a large orb weaver (banana spider in this case) and let her crawl around on my hand. I was not afraid of her thanks to you. It was an amazing experience.

  • @jamesblake7338
    @jamesblake7338 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wow man that’s cool, I never was very scared of spiders but my mom was . This is one of the first spiders I handled also. Mainly because I walked through her web and had to get her off my shoulder lol. While we’re on the subject of big orb weavers, my golden silk weavers have started making egg cases and I now am up to 14 ! I need to share some of anyone is interested. Leave a reply and I’ll get up with ya 😊

  • @jayemover_16
    @jayemover_16 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My brain just started screaming "ORB WEAVER ORB WEAVER" on loop the moment I mentally processed the thumbnail. They're my second favorite spider after huntsman spiders. Huntsman spiders are my favorite because they don't make webs and they're helpfully everywhere in Japan (I plan on moving to Japan). Webs are annoying when indoors.

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love orb weavers! Glad to be able to share them with ya!

  • @bethanycampbell1426
    @bethanycampbell1426 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This spider is the reason I found your TH-cam channel! My family and I moved to North Carolina 2 years ago from the west coast and I’m still getting used to all of the creatures out here. Thank you for making these amazing videos! They somehow look cute when you call them names like sweetheart, buddy and little lady. Lol

  • @MyPalJimbo
    @MyPalJimbo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Heck yeah, love it! Great content! Spiders are just animals like you and me and they don't deserve all the hate they get. They deserve respect like every other creature does. Without them, think of how many more flies and mosquitoes would be annoying us and biting us all the time!

  • @johnanderson1818
    @johnanderson1818 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice job putting the word out there! Another awesome video! Already can't wait for the next one! 💯

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Next one is gonna be big. One of my favorites I’ve ever made!

  • @kaytlinjustis5643
    @kaytlinjustis5643 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember seeing an Orb Weaver spider like this in one in a garden at college. She was well out of the way but had a gorgeous web and is so beautiful I couldn't help but say hi to her on my way to class! Always happy to see a spider, because they mean less flies, gnats, mosquitoes... OTHER parasitic insects I hate! Thanks for this video about a gorgeous spider! 🕷🕷🕷🕸🕸🕸

  • @bobtrevorah2305
    @bobtrevorah2305 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love it! As a young kid (about 11 or 12), I used to catch these in baby food jars. The ones I caught had huge, bulbous abdomens though. Never saw any with the "thin" abdomen. Awesome video! Brought back a lot of memories.

  • @tamararothe9316
    @tamararothe9316 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi I'm a new subscriber and I been watching your video's. I used to be scared of spiders but your video's changed the way I look at spiders. I now look at them with curiosity then fear. In fact im thinking about getting a tarantula as a pet. Thank you so much my wild back yard😂

  • @jandecoleman1
    @jandecoleman1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What I found so intriguing about this video is that I used the same spider to help me with my acrachniphobia as well. Now I will admit I still don't want to be around spiders willingly, but I no longer freeze, scream, break out in cold sweets, and hyperventilate around them like I used to. But my fear came from a very unique and rare experience, as I was bitten by a very large tarantula at a very young age, in Texas. But, I will admit that this spider has to be one of the most beautiful spiders ever.

  • @detergentleman1235
    @detergentleman1235 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another beautiful video buddy much appreciate you for this 💚

  • @-cosmicrogue-
    @-cosmicrogue- 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always enjoy watching the cautious little tapity- tap movements orb weavers do with their legs when exploring a hand or unfamiliar surface. Since they have poor vision and rely on their web to be their eyes, the spindly legs remind me of blind mobility canes tapping around.

  • @monchopr3511
    @monchopr3511 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New fan of this channel. Amazing and high quality content. Blessings for you and the team the people who make this possible.

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @platinumhunter5791
    @platinumhunter5791 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This will always be my favorite spider. The garden spider was one of the best spiders you could possibly have.🥰🙏🕷️🕸️💖🌺

  • @fakeblast
    @fakeblast 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    there's some of those in my mother's backyard, this video surely encouraged me to try and get close to them next time i go there!! love these spiders they look so gorgeous

  • @LauraTrauth
    @LauraTrauth 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just found your channel and wanted to share a story. Never really had arachnophobia and we let our house and cellar spiders do their thing. But a few years ago we had a yellow garden spider build a web across our front door. So of course, we posted signs directing visitors to another door and let her be for the whole summer. Make sure her egg case stayed safe over winter, and watched the babies hatch the next spring. I wish we had more of them!

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for sharing! I bet she appreciated that

  • @misermeaku
    @misermeaku 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so glad this video made it into my recs today. When I saw "spider will cure arachnophobia" I immediately assumed it was another jumping spider video. Boy was I in for a shock! But I'm so glad I stuck around to hear you talk about the garden spider, because it helped me see them as less frightening. Very happy to have stumbled on this video, insta subscribed.

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad to have you! Jumping spiders are a great place to start if you're working on your fear, but these guys and wolf spiders, once I worked up the nerve to get close to them, basically put the fear to rest forever.

  • @stornkolson
    @stornkolson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like the psychology aspects of your videos. Also great camera work

  • @dacksonflux
    @dacksonflux 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Orb Weavers in general are super cool. Thanks for the idea of starting with one. I can't handle jumping spiders because the sudden movements freak me out.

  • @Emulp94
    @Emulp94 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Big up Spencer from the UK. Keep up the great content bro 😁

  • @VulpisLazuli
    @VulpisLazuli 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love these little guys. We've had at least one take up residence on our porches every year for the past 22 years. Such a beautiful species.

  • @IanPhillipsWildlife
    @IanPhillipsWildlife 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Argiope is my favourite spider genus, finding Argiope bruennichi a few days ago in habitat that I've created was so amazing. Great to see you hit 100K subs, well deserved!

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey! Good to see you again! Hope you're doing well! So far I've only seen 3 species of Argiope- aurantia, florida and one I couldn't identify in Ecuador that we're pretty sure was an Argiope. So many cool ones around the world though, and such gorgeous arachnids

  • @Rizzbulla
    @Rizzbulla 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Probably 1 of the coolest looking spiders ever.

  • @cheesypotatoluv
    @cheesypotatoluv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    that noise you made talking about your first reaction made me laugh out loud because that's exactly how I feel 😂 I've been watching your videos even though spiders scare the living hell out of me 😭

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep. Took me a while to get comfortable, but it was well worth it. Push past fear and the world becomes a very rich and fascinating place!

  • @newwavepop
    @newwavepop 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    used to love watching these guys when i was a kid, had a nice big one living next to my front porch two summers ago.

  • @Jean-FrancoisBilodeau
    @Jean-FrancoisBilodeau 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for greating great content without resorting to dramatization or fear mongering. 👍

  • @rakitakhan
    @rakitakhan 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video Brother ! These were my first foray into spiders when I was about 5 ys old. Still one of my favorites !

  • @TheRealVodun13
    @TheRealVodun13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely love these spiders, they look so impressive and I could watch them for ages

  • @m1a2abrams50
    @m1a2abrams50 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The other day at work there was a wolf spider than decided to run straight across the floor in front of two of my department managers, who are both arachnophobes. They both freaked out and started silent screaming while backing into the corner of the desk. My coworker was about to stomp on it but I put my hand down in front of the spider, stole it up onto my wrist, and walked out the side door to let it crawl onto a outside railing. The looks I got when I came back in and the "You're f**ing crazy" I got from my department manager is something I won't be forgetting for a while. Thanks Spencer for these videos! Keep up the good work :)

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Heck yeah! I loved being the "You're f***ing crazy" guy!

  • @demonweinsshadow
    @demonweinsshadow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I miss Ziggy my orb weaver. It was amazing watching her a couple summers back. She even devoured a cicada. When she died, I allowed my sister to take her egg sack to her house. The following year we got to watch one of her children repeat the cycle. I've never been a spider fan, but it gave me a greater respect for spiders.

  • @valiantwarrior4517
    @valiantwarrior4517 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not sure how I missed this video. Good thing my phone spied on what I was researching and suggested it. 😂
    Thanks for the adventure, Master Spencer.
    Really iconic spider. Used to find those in webs built across ditches a lot when I was a kid. Loved how they would shake their web.
    I’m pretty certain that the spider I rescued from inside the local grocery store today was a male Banded Garden Spider(Argiope trifasciata). A very similar but smaller species.

  • @NeuKrofta
    @NeuKrofta 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are one of my favorite spiders, if not my favorite. I live in South Carolina and they are everywhere. Harmless and super impressive

  • @darthroden
    @darthroden 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here in upstate South Carolina we see them all the time in the summer and early fall months. The gold and black Garden Weaver spider is one of my favorites as well.

  • @markpell8979
    @markpell8979 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had one of these Garden Spiders living in my outdoor pepper patch in TX and we became 'friends' over a Summer a few years ago. One day after a very windy storm I went out to check my garden for damage and couldn't find her. Later while cleaning the pool I found her floating and dead, probably blown there by a wind gust. It was a sad thing but I was grateful to have had a relationship with this interesting creature and share my home with her for a while.

  • @melonman2064
    @melonman2064 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I grew up in NC and we had doors to our deck that we rarely used. Each of them would always have an orb weaver. Im still scared kf spiders, but orb weavers have a special place in my heart.

  • @DovesSweetSonnet
    @DovesSweetSonnet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ty for showcasing this lil girl. She's really a very pretty spidey, one that I would never get to see otherwise.

  • @guesswhat-chickenbutt
    @guesswhat-chickenbutt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely LOVE garden spiders!!! There's a big boy in the field across the street from my house. Every day i walk my dog, and i always make sure to check on my spider friend. So beautiful.

  • @sammylacks4937
    @sammylacks4937 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I live in NC and yes we have them everywhere. I love how when threatened they bounce their webs.

  • @mechatech9897
    @mechatech9897 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I remember we had one these spiders in our backyard, when I was still in elementary school. I still have arachnophobia but I was so fascinated by its colours that I used to check it out everyday, like if it's still there.

  • @jeremytilley88
    @jeremytilley88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We have a ton of these in central Virginia, always love seeing them. I even caught and donated one to the Science Muesem of Virginia when I was a kid, and it lived there on display for quite sometime, even laying a couple false egg sacs before it finally passed on

  • @Legallyunintelligent
    @Legallyunintelligent 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Agriope aurantia Are my favorite and how I got over my arachnophobia too! So much so that I now have tarantulas I love dearly! Thank you for showing their beauty, they are a gentle giant who deserve a lot of love and recognition! 💚

  • @stephencavanaugh8377
    @stephencavanaugh8377 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Orb weavers in general have helped me get over my fear/disgust of spiders. I've happily come to understand their place in nature and how they greatly benefit us. I was very lucky to have female Castleback Orb weaver make her web by my front door and stick around for nearly 2 weeks. Beautiful and fascinating little creatures.

  • @sutherngirrl7590
    @sutherngirrl7590 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's a beautiful specimen!! Have a great weekend Spencer!!

  • @twobirdsonedrone
    @twobirdsonedrone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos have helped calm down my arachnophobia❤ thank you😊

  • @highrish8045
    @highrish8045 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yessss I love these spiders! I have one in my garden she does an amazing job at keeping the flying pests away!

  • @sydhair1999
    @sydhair1999 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had one in my yard when I was ten. Still all these years later, I never forgot this beautiful spider.

  • @FriendlyKat
    @FriendlyKat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your videos! Super educational! You’re so brave!

  • @AMERICANPATRIOT1945
    @AMERICANPATRIOT1945 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Garden spiders are so amazing. Just gotta love those big round webs!

  • @syberskiwolfmoon9807
    @syberskiwolfmoon9807 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ooooo Zipper Spider! Even as a kid, I loved catchinv grasshoppers and other insects to stick on their webs and watch them wrap em up. Never been bitten, never even seen one TRY to bite- but it is AWESOME to watch them wrap up food.

  • @johncress1859
    @johncress1859 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As someone from Central NC this channel is a treat lol

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey that’s awesome! We’ll have to get out and poke around for stuff sometime!

  • @Sawlon
    @Sawlon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found two this year. They are so beautiful! Also, their abdomen design looks like an alien with his hands on his waist. My buddy Bob TheSpiderHunter got me over my fears of handling spiders with shamrocks. Thanks for sharing about these beauties, Spencer!

  • @empireoflizards
    @empireoflizards 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In like 3rd or 4th grade, these were my favorite spiders! Orb weavers in general, as well as a few others are pretty cool...wasn't ever afraid to handle them!

  • @dkdevil3490
    @dkdevil3490 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Barn Orbweavers very much did the same for me. Not the first spiders I’ve handled, but definitely the ones that got me over the worst of it. And they’re very similar to these garden spiders that you guys get in the states.

  • @Jaguarmaserati
    @Jaguarmaserati 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Growing up in Indiana, every summer I had a handful of these in the backyard. Thanks for the nostalgia.

  • @TrilogyBPM
    @TrilogyBPM 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have so many of these gorgeous orb weavers in my backyard and they helped me handle more spiders!

  • @adoreable19841
    @adoreable19841 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I only clicked on this because it said, "...cure your fear...". For some reason I have never been scared of this spider. It's the first time seeing one and she is so fascinating to watch. Thanks for the video!!!

  • @DingDangJon
    @DingDangJon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My favorite spider! Used to have them in my backyard where I lived almost 20yrs ago when I was a kid. Sometimes I fed them grasshoppers too.

  • @rodgough4581
    @rodgough4581 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome! Grew up on farm in new brunswick, canada and we used to see huge ones in the fields all the time...we never bothered them...

  • @jonwalker8945
    @jonwalker8945 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Had at least 4 of these every year that would build a web in the windows of our kitchen growing up. I’m scared shite-less of spiders, but these were amazing to watch. I loved the zig-zag they always made in the middle.
    Also, they NEVER came inside, so we were cool.

  • @kriger619
    @kriger619 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I live in NC, only spider I see more often than the yellow garden is the crimson orb weavers. Very docile animals, never once been bit by them.

  • @corgimom2
    @corgimom2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congrats on 100,000. Awesome work. I don't think there's any spider that will cure my arachnophobia. LOL. That garden spider is HUGE. I see their huge webs in the yard......Lordy be! I don't know what it is about spiders, but I can't get past my fear of them. I don't care of they are harmless. They creep me out. But, I'm very intrigued by them at the same time. Go figure.

    • @MyWildBackyard
      @MyWildBackyard  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! She was definitely a big one, helping defend the porch from wasps and mosquitoes! For me that was kinda how it started- the spiders creeped me out but I still found them interesting. Great starting point to turn fear into excitement!