If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. This was the quote I put in my high school year book. Still 100% my mantra to this day!
One of the other applicants was telling this story about being asked an absurdly specific interview question about a unique type of bee and how the demise of this species would affect the global ecosystem. Little did the interviewer know, this applicant's undergrad roommate was a beekeeper. Apparently, the attending's jaw dropped when he crushed the answer.
Sounds good, but the reality is that we are most often incapable of interpreting things when under assault - verbal or otherwise. We most often only know how the assault "feels"...and it's never good. I can remember malign verbal behavior that happened to me as a little boy as if they happened yesterday complete with context and ambience. Why? Because the "assault" was THAT vicious. As adults, we are just grown children emotionally and while contextualizing or interpreting things can help to some extent, it is an exercise in futility for most of the human race...all that's left in victims is bitterness and emotional turmoil. Having said that, I have worked (as an anesthesiologist) with surgeons who were and are decent human beings who "lost it" at times. For those surgeons/physicians, I have always given them the benefit of the doubt. However, there are some whose modus operandi is to be as punishing as human limits allow and we have all experienced these kinds of individuals. These are the types that we need to somehow reign in as much as the law and legal processes allow.
Interesting way of perceiving situations that would be seen as stressful to another individual. It's great to have a positive outlook, it helps others see the same way. I am a pre med student at the moment, I have a long road ahead of me. Perhaps one day I can also share my experiences with others whether good or bad. Great video!
Very interesting video and funny story. I enjoyed your presentation and actually read and looked further into each slide, I learned something unusual that I wouldn't have thought to learn today!
The utmost importance with an education is the effect you choose to influence the way one speaks and writes. I put detail attention to the usage, fluency, and level of your words then the message behind each of your videos. Your writing as expected follows that discipline. - Seidy.
Awesome video, Dr. Jubbal! Do you or anyone else have a link or specific information on the exact pathway/route that the attending was pimping you on? Truly interested now 😋. Thanks!
You should never respond with anger to the weakness of another person. Usually when people come off as an angry person they have personal problems. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
I remember getting humiliated at my first internal medicine rotation when after the history and examinations I missed the diagnosis by a mile and was pimped infront of the unaware patient who was having suspected lung carcinoma but that was also when I learnt the most in that rotations. Right now I'm happy to be pimped but I hope I have this attitude till I need it .
PIMP is an acronym for "Put me In My Place". Commonly heard preceding a clinical grade dropping from "Honors" to "High Pass" from my own experience. Attendings tend to be exquisitely accurate at knowing the answers to the questions they ask.
Hello Dr. Jubal, I was wondering since you left plastic surgery residency, what are you doing now to sustain yourself financially ? And what are your goals?
I like your attitude and willingness to roll with the punches so to speak. It occurred to me that the question about fish with high mercury levels was a bigger picture/thinking outside the box concept that might prove very useful for you or one of the people who you presented to in a niche setting. I live in Northern California and have visited several lakes known to be near sites of mercury runoff leftover from mining operations. It always amazes me to see people out fishing. I sincerely hope they don't eat the ones they catch.
"Pimp" you out. That is essentially degrading residents to feel like shit. And he said"fuck you?" Wow! I can't believe the crap residents goes through to be doctors. All the power to residents who study their asses off.
Sending love ! Agreed ! some of those things that consultants say just make me laugh ! we can only control how we react ! Reg was like to me as I was reading what floor and bed the patient was on - I get "are you impaired? we're walking upstairs for a reason - 2nd floor is above 3rd floor.... duh..." but it was all light hearted :) just banter
You look so .. alive ? I don't know but man , you're just *Great* ! I hope everything is going the way you wanted , Wish you only the Best because you deserve it doctor ! ♥️ And Thanks for making me laugh too 😂❤️
This encounter sounds benign. There are a lot worse things that happen in medicine; truly hateful, malicious, and malignant behavior. There is a story recounted by Dr. Buck Parker, M.D. (general surgeon) on TH-cam of a CT surgeon who screamed at him (during residency) because he missed connecting two hash marks on a sternotomy by about 1 mm. It was obviously not called for and abusive. Although this kind of behavior is unusual, many incidents like these on a continual basis wears on a person's soul.
In the instance that you thought it was funny (the fish presentation), you said that not all people would interpret that jokingly. Isn't that an indication of them (that person) not having thick enough skin or unwillingness to take a joke, and is a reflection on them rather than the problems in the system of medicine? You seem to be at the forefront of this issue and have a good idea of where the line should be drawn (as you mentioned in the video) having experienced it so recently yourself.
Agreed. It’s a fine line between and I think too frequently people are easily offended and fragile, which takes credibility away from legitimate issues
Not all people have "thick skin." So, you are saying that all people should be born with thick skin, that medium or thin skin is not allowed in medicine, that it indicates "weakness?" And that weak people have no place in medicine? How about if I take the opposite position and say that people should be treated respectfully since not treating them this way can cause permanent psychological damage and even suicide, because it is obvious from physician suicides that this is a true statement. How about telling physicians that their decision to be decent human beings may actually save a life? How's about that, Samuel Smith "Med"? Also, if I called you a "man-whore" (if you were, in fact, a womanizer), you'd probably laugh it off. But, if I called, say, your sister - who happens to be a virgin and an otherwise normal person - a "whore," you'd probably beat the shit out of me (as you should). Whereas, I could come back and say, "Boy, this guy is thin-skinned!"
I don't think the presentation was meant to be a joke. I do think your attending really wanted to know what fish had the highest levels of mercury. I imagine he hinted that the fish should be edible and consumed commonly here in the US, or at least in certain cultures.
If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.
This was the quote I put in my high school year book. Still 100% my mantra to this day!
DoktAURA dropping wisdom! Well said =)
One of the other applicants was telling this story about being asked an absurdly specific interview question about a unique type of bee and how the demise of this species would affect the global ecosystem. Little did the interviewer know, this applicant's undergrad roommate was a beekeeper. Apparently, the attending's jaw dropped when he crushed the answer.
Hahaha that’s awesome
@@Worse_than_you_can_imagine
Bumblebees have crazy looking hives that are spherical.
I love the message of having the power to interpret things
Sounds good, but the reality is that we are most often incapable of interpreting things when under assault - verbal or otherwise. We most often only know how the assault "feels"...and it's never good. I can remember malign verbal behavior that happened to me as a little boy as if they happened yesterday complete with context and ambience. Why? Because the "assault" was THAT vicious. As adults, we are just grown children emotionally and while contextualizing or interpreting things can help to some extent, it is an exercise in futility for most of the human race...all that's left in victims is bitterness and emotional turmoil. Having said that, I have worked (as an anesthesiologist) with surgeons who were and are decent human beings who "lost it" at times. For those surgeons/physicians, I have always given them the benefit of the doubt. However, there are some whose modus operandi is to be as punishing as human limits allow and we have all experienced these kinds of individuals. These are the types that we need to somehow reign in as much as the law and legal processes allow.
Lool I love these fun stories to break away from the seriousness sometimes
Interesting way of perceiving situations that would be seen as stressful to another individual. It's great to have a positive outlook, it helps others see the same way. I am a pre med student at the moment, I have a long road ahead of me. Perhaps one day I can also share my experiences with others whether good or bad. Great video!
Very interesting video and funny story. I enjoyed your presentation and actually read and looked further into each slide, I learned something unusual that I wouldn't have thought to learn today!
I’m proud of the presentation because of the dank memes 🙃
The utmost importance with an education is the effect you choose to influence the way one speaks and writes. I put detail attention to the usage, fluency, and level of your words then the message behind each of your videos. Your writing as expected follows that discipline.
- Seidy.
Awesome video, Dr. Jubbal! Do you or anyone else have a link or specific information on the exact pathway/route that the attending was pimping you on? Truly interested now 😋. Thanks!
I'm just so happy when I get a notification for one of your videos!! 😊👌👏❤
You should never respond with anger to the weakness of another person. Usually when people come off as an angry person they have personal problems. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
So people without personal problems are never angry ?
@@IRISD3 They are angry less.
I learn the most from MDs who are terrors. They are the ones who asked the toughest questions and instill accountability.
Thank you so much for your video. I needed it today. Been learning how to deal with these incidences.
actually seeing your face for the first time after just listening to your voice for 6 months is TRIPPYYYY
I remember getting humiliated at my first internal medicine rotation when after the history and examinations I missed the diagnosis by a mile and was pimped infront of the unaware patient who was having suspected lung carcinoma but that was also when I learnt the most in that rotations. Right now I'm happy to be pimped but I hope I have this attitude till I need it .
Hiii doctor
Love your channel
💓💓💓💓
PIMP is an acronym for "Put me In My Place". Commonly heard preceding a clinical grade dropping from "Honors" to "High Pass" from my own experience. Attendings tend to be exquisitely accurate at knowing the answers to the questions they ask.
Pimp- put in my place!!!
Hello Dr. Jubal, I was wondering since you left plastic surgery residency, what are you doing now to sustain yourself financially ? And what are your goals?
I like your attitude and willingness to roll with the punches so to speak. It occurred to me that the question about fish with high mercury levels was a bigger picture/thinking outside the box concept that might prove very useful for you or one of the people who you presented to in a niche setting.
I live in Northern California and have visited several lakes known to be near sites of mercury runoff leftover from mining operations. It always amazes me to see people out fishing. I sincerely hope they don't eat the ones they catch.
"Pimp" you out. That is essentially degrading residents to feel like shit. And he said"fuck you?" Wow! I can't believe the crap residents goes through to be doctors. All the power to residents who study their asses off.
Sending love ! Agreed ! some of those things that consultants say just make me laugh ! we can only control how we react ! Reg was like to me as I was reading what floor and bed the patient was on - I get "are you impaired? we're walking upstairs for a reason - 2nd floor is above 3rd floor.... duh..." but it was all light hearted :) just banter
You look so .. alive ? I don't know but man , you're just *Great* !
I hope everything is going the way you wanted ,
Wish you only the Best because you deserve it doctor ! ♥️
And Thanks for making me laugh too 😂❤️
This encounter sounds benign. There are a lot worse things that happen in medicine; truly hateful, malicious, and malignant behavior. There is a story recounted by Dr. Buck Parker, M.D. (general surgeon) on TH-cam of a CT surgeon who screamed at him (during residency) because he missed connecting two hash marks on a sternotomy by about 1 mm. It was obviously not called for and abusive. Although this kind of behavior is unusual, many incidents like these on a continual basis wears on a person's soul.
I agree it’s benign, and most of us, myself included, have experienced much worse (usually in the OR)
I just expect I’ll miss a lot of pimping questions 😂
Adnan A wow I’ve seen your comments before
Sun Sun Yeah, it’s a thing 🙌
More stories like this please
Good story bro!
Lol that's funny, thanks fo sharing this cool story
I have the biggest crush on you lol. you're so intelligent, charismatic, funny, etc. #perfect
lmao, no likes, no replies, you made him uncomfortable
That’s how 99% of medical professionals joke around with each other. Thought it was just my hospital.
Bro you gotta remove these naturopathic school ads it’s killing me.
Very funny story
Hey man Im starting my plastics rotation next week (in a program I'm applying to).. HOW CAN I KILL THIS ROTATION?
Not asking who you are talking about but who is one of the best plastic surgeons in the U.S 👀👀
Cameron Mahaffey Me
I bet he's talking about Pitt
"Pimps me" 😁
THIS IS FAKE!!
In the instance that you thought it was funny (the fish presentation), you said that not all people would interpret that jokingly. Isn't that an indication of them (that person) not having thick enough skin or unwillingness to take a joke, and is a reflection on them rather than the problems in the system of medicine? You seem to be at the forefront of this issue and have a good idea of where the line should be drawn (as you mentioned in the video) having experienced it so recently yourself.
Agreed. It’s a fine line between and I think too frequently people are easily offended and fragile, which takes credibility away from legitimate issues
Not all people have "thick skin." So, you are saying that all people should be born with thick skin, that medium or thin skin is not allowed in medicine, that it indicates "weakness?" And that weak people have no place in medicine? How about if I take the opposite position and say that people should be treated respectfully since not treating them this way can cause permanent psychological damage and even suicide, because it is obvious from physician suicides that this is a true statement. How about telling physicians that their decision to be decent human beings may actually save a life? How's about that, Samuel Smith "Med"? Also, if I called you a "man-whore" (if you were, in fact, a womanizer), you'd probably laugh it off. But, if I called, say, your sister - who happens to be a virgin and an otherwise normal person - a "whore," you'd probably beat the shit out of me (as you should). Whereas, I could come back and say, "Boy, this guy is thin-skinned!"
Enoch Brown people nowadays are too sensitive and easily offended . That’s fact. You don’t need to write this long comment.
I don't think the presentation was meant to be a joke. I do think your attending really wanted to know what fish had the highest levels of mercury. I imagine he hinted that the fish should be edible and consumed commonly here in the US, or at least in certain cultures.
How’s it enjoyable if you were working 18 hr days? 😂
I was looking for something to watch....
Dr.Salem go elsewhere then bitch