Shirley Eder tapes - Barbara Stanwyck and Joan Crawford

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  • These tapes consist on two interviews and three phone conversations (recorded without the knowledge of the two actresses) between newspaper columnist Shirley Eder and actresses Barbara Stanwyck and Joan Crawford.
    The first tape is an interview Eder recorded in the 1960s while the three women had tea at the 21 Club in New York.
    The second tape is a conversation between Crawford and Eder in which Joan tries to explain her behavior at a White House dinner. It took place in 1967.
    The third tape shows Stanwyck talking to Eder on the phone about Crawford.
    In the fourth tape, Joan (a bit drunk) and Shirley talk while riding a limousine.
    Finally, the fifth tape is a conversation between Barbara and Shirley about their now late friend, Joan.
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  • @sharrigarvin3348
    @sharrigarvin3348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    THIS IS ABSOULUTE GOLD THE 2nd part of Stanwyk talking to Shirley about Joan Holy crap. If Barbara knew she was being recorded I think Shirley would have gotten shot. These tapes are a Masterpiece of Dish. Wow!!

  • @kalebchavez3279
    @kalebchavez3279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I can't even imagine how Strong Joan Crawford had to be in order to survive in Hollywood in her Time.. she's absolutely a phenomenal Woman and Legend! ♥️

  • @jackiejns983
    @jackiejns983 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Pretty amazing recording. Both were hoofers. Neither one went to high school. School of Hard Knocks. And here they are, sounding like grand, elegant, ladies. Both great actresses. Thanks for posting this.

    • @waynegruber9122
      @waynegruber9122 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes Barbara did I'm from Brooklyn NY and it's a well known fact that she went to Erasmus Hall in Flatbush. Now, did she graduate no, but she went to high school.

  • @georgejetson3702
    @georgejetson3702 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    In my 47 years of life, I have never met a single woman that didn't participate in petty gossip from time to time. Come to think of it, I can say the same thing about every man I've ever met.

    • @jackiejns983
      @jackiejns983 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I always joke about my husband and male friends. You guys make fun of gossip, but you can't wait to hear all the dirt.

    • @brettthebad
      @brettthebad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey, Jetson, let's dish the dirt!

    • @loretta_3843
      @loretta_3843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely. Humans are social animals, we are all interested in the affairs of other people!

    • @Melody-ks7mo
      @Melody-ks7mo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There worse than us​@@jackiejns983

  • @sxippydennison3577
    @sxippydennison3577 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I wish they did a movie together in their careers, that they were friendly alliances through time is something that makes me happy. Too often actresses in their era are pitted against each other. I love both these women!

  • @storybellz
    @storybellz 11 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Especially from Joan, she was a loyal, and loving woman. I don't think a person would have to worry, having her as a friend. They only had to worry about her as an enemy!

    • @danielbisson8032
      @danielbisson8032 ปีที่แล้ว

      theey were individual agents they all gossips back then

  • @robjack2804
    @robjack2804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just watched, "Sorry, Wrong Number" again, Stanwyck as ever, superb.

  • @PurpleFlame3
    @PurpleFlame3 11 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I love Barbara & Joan's philosophy that you don't have to wait until New Year's Eve to get loaded as this is something that you can do on any day.

    • @grilledcheeselady8533
      @grilledcheeselady8533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @laure
      Yeah. Especially since Joan was loaded all day, everyday. She carried a bottle of vodka with her
      at all times.

    • @stardusth2o
      @stardusth2o ปีที่แล้ว

      @@grilledcheeselady8533 I I I just got home from church 😢😢 🎉 😢😮 I 😢 😢 😮 😢😢🎉🎉🎉😮😢 😮😢 and I

    • @stardusth2o
      @stardusth2o ปีที่แล้ว

      @@grilledcheeselady8533 😢 6:56

  • @foxvienna1
    @foxvienna1 11 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ms. Stanwyck was loved by co-workers and is/was a tremendous actress no matter what. Would have loved to meet her.

  • @cjqnsnyc
    @cjqnsnyc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    "Not me she won't, honey!" Gotta love Barbara! lol Whatever, they were and are 2 of the greatest!

  • @beguiled10
    @beguiled10 10 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I don't fault Stanwyck for talking about Joan. She was many of the same things she said about her. Stanwyck didn't lie. Maybe it was wrong of her to talk about her behind her back, but she was still a friend. What was she gonna upset the woman by calling her a liar and all of those things? If you were friends with Joan Crawford for that many years, you'd have a thing or two to say about her as well. Still two of the best actresses of that era.

    • @gregrak9389
      @gregrak9389 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are a TWAT, a true friend wouldn't speak the way Stanwyck did, true friends keep secrets and generally mind their own damn business but not Stanwyck, not only did she likely pee standing up, she had no class.

  • @flipczech
    @flipczech 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    These ladies made movies during a time when everything was starched and prepped, so it's cool to listen to them being so candid. Joan Crawford in her limo... damn. Thanks for uploading this.

  • @bigbandsrock1
    @bigbandsrock1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    2 great ladies of the screen! Just LOVE them both~!

  • @miltsar
    @miltsar 9 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    so she had a few drinks....she's an adult...she's entitled to do what she wants with her life

    • @bobdownes162
      @bobdownes162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It was so easy and perhaps tempting ,that so many actors went to drink
      One 'Problem' was, they got the best booze.
      For example a fine Scottish whisky slides down the throat like cream

  • @shanecincy
    @shanecincy 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    HUGE fan of both of these women! Fascinating stuff! Thank you for posting.

  • @wholesomesweetness86
    @wholesomesweetness86 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for posting this! Always wanted to hear it! Thank you thank you thank you!!!!

  • @665kk
    @665kk 10 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    and remember Joan was the one who took care of Franchot while he was sick and dying

    • @fool4singing
      @fool4singing 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe she had a guilty conscience...

    • @carowells1607
      @carowells1607 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      fool4singing
      Maybe your a moron?

    • @FemNeuroSurg1
      @FemNeuroSurg1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Franchot also tasked Joan with spreading his ashes over his property in Canada, not his sons.

    • @meg2231
      @meg2231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He wanted to remarry her too

    • @hellomontana2318
      @hellomontana2318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The son was interviewed. Joan did NOT take care of Franchote when he was sick. They would both go over and eat at Joan's and after a while Franchote was the first one to leave. The son would stay behind and play a board game with joan late into the evening.

  • @KJ-xc6qs
    @KJ-xc6qs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is so juicy, great upload!

  • @SalGL
    @SalGL 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What people don't get, back in these fine actress's day, it was a TOTALLY different era, breed even. They were molded into these "women". It truly was a totally different time.

    • @SalGL
      @SalGL 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ***** I know what you are speaking of, and it did happen. Not so much in THIS time.BUT..I have watched so many biographies of the great actresses and actors of our time and no one put a bullet to these girls heads. I didn't say it was right, but they would do just about anything, that is from what THEY said.

    • @kennethwarner8186
      @kennethwarner8186 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      l

    • @Patrick3183
      @Patrick3183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sally Gentry exactly. Back then everyone aspired to be a lady or gentleman. Today nobody does.

    • @miapdx503
      @miapdx503 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Patrick3183 that part

  • @Countrygirltori24
    @Countrygirltori24 11 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    These interviews just make me love Barbara Stanwyck more. No bullshit from her.

  • @dsummer1
    @dsummer1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Both were the consummate professionals. I love them both!!!

  • @juliusmaloney
    @juliusmaloney 10 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    "There's a name for you ladies...but it isn't used in high society, outside of a kennel."

    • @Nougat2010
      @Nougat2010 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Great line! But isn't it "polite society"? Either way one of the best lines in the film and very apropos, on so many levels, for this interesting upload.

    • @juliusmaloney
      @juliusmaloney 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I pulled this off IMB to check Crystal Allen: "There is a name for you, ladies, but it isn't used in high society... outside of a kennel". :-)

    • @tsxtina2919
      @tsxtina2919 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Julius Maloney 1939's The Women ❤💓💕

    • @DutchessCottonPuff
      @DutchessCottonPuff 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Julius Maloney I even buy JUNGLE RED nail polish and lipstick too - I wasn't sure it actually existed but it does !

  • @ThorSmith
    @ThorSmith 11 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'd like to add to my own comments about Franchot Tone. JC's friend Lawrence R. Quirk shares a story in his excellent book "Joan Crawford: The Essential Biography" that toward the end of Mr. Tone's life JC occasionally entertained him in her NYC apartment & helped pay some of his medical expenses. Whatever their problems were in their youth they still loved & respected one another 'till the end. The same with Stanwyck. Even with the gossip, there was still a love & comradery between the two.

  • @teeniebeenie8774
    @teeniebeenie8774 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    luv barbara's honest way of talking
    so real.

    • @teeniebeenie8774
      @teeniebeenie8774 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      imagine the tapes she has that never see the light of day that discuss various folks sexual preferance....

    • @carowells1607
      @carowells1607 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol she's gossiping terribly. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad to listen to it, but talking smack about people behind their backs while smiling in their faces is not necessarily all that "honest."

    • @Themanwhocameback2
      @Themanwhocameback2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Babs was a bit of a hypocrite. And in the final tape sounds drunker than Joan ever does.

    • @scotnick59
      @scotnick59 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me as well!

  • @hcombs0104
    @hcombs0104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love Missy's New Yawk accent! And do these ladies GOSSIP.

  • @roz805
    @roz805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If you’re listening with headphones for the first few minutes you can clearly hear someone is furiously trying to get a light off that lighter! 😆

  • @coreyristic9234
    @coreyristic9234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love both Joan Crawford and Barbara Stanwyck. ❤️

  • @CrissyRed
    @CrissyRed 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it is quite amazing to listen. thank you

  • @brentaudi9354
    @brentaudi9354 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So Interesting! Life as we know it. Don't trust too many. Thanks for posting this!

  • @57timmyb
    @57timmyb 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    These are endlessly entertaining. One has to consider they were both trained and indrocrinated in a Hollywood system that demanded presenting an image to the public that was beyond reproach. Both women, like all of us, were after all, human beings as flawed, to differing extremes, as all human beings are.

  • @goldenlass9488
    @goldenlass9488 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My two favorite actors! Both women exuded charisma 🌠

  • @lindasmilesrfree6067
    @lindasmilesrfree6067 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    In my opinion, Shirley Eder is the one not to be trusted. She was sort of playing two ends against the middle, trying to dig...especially towards the end. It was like she was trying to get Joan to say, she regretted her life, her decisions etc...but JC didn't go down that road of regret. Let the chips fall where they may. I think Barbara was being real and Joan as well. People like Shirley are what you call"frienemies". They are enemies wrapped up in friends clothing. I understand she was a reporter, but they know the right flattering words to get you to share your secrets. I'm sure BS and JC dealt with a lot of Shirleys in their life. Barbara and Joan, both fine actresses! Thank you for sharing!

  • @rosannacellini2158
    @rosannacellini2158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Both women were great actresses. Joan could be gracious and thoughtful, when things were done up to her standards. On the other hand, she could be mean and self centered. She thought she was royalty, and She was a heavy drinker, but inspite of all that, I always admired her acting abilities and loved her movies. Barbara Stanwyck was so believable in her movies, what an excellent actress!! She seemed like a real cool lady. I love how she talked. I think she treated people a lot better. Loved her in Stella Dallas! Any way RIP to both of them.

  • @karjayk88
    @karjayk88 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is without a doubt the most incredible posting on all of You Tube! Thank you so very much for posting this!

  • @teeniebeenie8774
    @teeniebeenie8774 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    awesome!!! much thx

  • @castalia60able
    @castalia60able 10 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Give Barbara Stanwiyck a break the commentator is asking questions for crying out loud. She is not gossiping. She just tells as it is.

    • @MrVidaeverdade
      @MrVidaeverdade 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At any moment she could have declined to comment out of respect for her "friend," but instead she went on and on in great detail, even beyond what she was asked. She won't shut up.

    • @SandySaunders9142
      @SandySaunders9142 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely!

    • @scotnick59
      @scotnick59 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      that's why I liked her so much.

    • @Spiderman7Bob7
      @Spiderman7Bob7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have just heard this as old as it is. I found it by accident through 'links'. Do I take it that Barbara Stanwyck and Joan Crawford used to be friends a long time ago and then later by Stanwyck's comments to the reporter that they diffinatley were not friends anymore. Barbara 'really goes off' about Joan Crawford.
      It really coincides with her personality on "Feud: Bette and Joan". Is this on the level? Can someone who reads this please reply. I have never heard anything like this before ! I have always been a fan of Barbara Stanwyck and like Joan Crawford in 'some' of her movies too.

    • @scotnick59
      @scotnick59 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She was much more a "real" person than Crawford, who amazingly "manufactured" herself

  • @claroscureaux50
    @claroscureaux50 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing audio. Thanks for sharing it!

  • @kathy2trips
    @kathy2trips 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Carol Channing credits Shirley Eder with saving "Hello Dolly" with her good review of the test run of the show in Detroit.

  • @lanaturnered
    @lanaturnered 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    why did they ask them what new years means to them, as barbara said “what difference does it make” lmao

  • @miguelalvesmantero
    @miguelalvesmantero 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    amazing..two of my favorite stars..!!!

  • @ajt141
    @ajt141 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can't stop laughing. Thanks for posting the picture of Barbara in Sorry, Wrong Number.

  • @kathy2trips
    @kathy2trips 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shirley was one of the great pioneers in entertainment journalism. I sure miss her column!

  • @juliachild834
    @juliachild834 11 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I think Barbara Stanwyck made it all those years without being exclusive to a major studio. I think she freelanced, right? I read that was why she never got an oscar, because despite all her nominations the lack of consistent studio buildup kept her from getting sufficient votes, though she was very popular.
    LIstening to her conversations with this horrible woman taping them makes me like Barbara more. She seems real and direct, but definitely a survivor who managed to swim with the sharks.

    • @EYE_GOTCHA
      @EYE_GOTCHA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sitting here wondering why you called Shirley Eder a horrible woman.

  • @afton1955
    @afton1955 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the old B&W photos!

  • @lakevubud
    @lakevubud 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Priceless!

  • @MyChemicalCorner
    @MyChemicalCorner 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks!!

  • @TrangPakbaby
    @TrangPakbaby 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    JC is sloshed and Missy is spilling tea all over the carpets! Love it!

  • @StaunchComic
    @StaunchComic 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2 Hollywood Icons! Thanks for sharing!

  • @TheRAH14
    @TheRAH14 11 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The only reason we have evidence of Barbara "bad-mouthing" Joan is because a private conversation was recorded. There is no such recording of Joan (at least that the public knows about), so who's to say what she might have said off the record...there's no way of knowing. Also, what could Joan have said about Barbara that would be "MUCH worse"? You imply that you know that Barbara was a worse person than Joan.

  • @born2lateboohoo
    @born2lateboohoo 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is AMAZING, thank you so much!!!!!!!!!! I have been a huge Crawford fan for about 35 years and I thought I knew everythig there was to know. My gosh this is fascinatingly eye opening! Crawford really did have some iron tubes in her heart, now I empathize with her daughter Christina even more. Simply fascinating, thank you again so much for this!!

  • @paulkeefe2304
    @paulkeefe2304 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    People of JC's generation just didn't process childhood trauma or seek therapy. They just picked themselves up and put there balls to wall and DID IT! They may be "gruff" or "hard" but they would never get anyway without turning tragedy into success. JC had an awful childhood and was very unloved by her mother.

  • @bennyhill954
    @bennyhill954 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful!

  • @TheRAH14
    @TheRAH14 11 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Um, hate to break it to you, but Barbara Stanwyck will be remembered for many years to come. And everything she said that could be interpreted as mean about Joan (it wasn't really, but whatever), she thought she was saying in private. I'm willing to wager that Joan wasn't nearly so high and mighty when she thought she was off the record.

  • @fras2008
    @fras2008 11 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Shirley was a very nice woman. Those recordings were released after Shirley's death by a member of her family. Keep in mind that Shirley lived in Detroit and most interviews were done via phone. Those conversations were hardly secret from her subjects --- at one point she complained to Stanwyck that she was having trouble with her recorder --- but were begun when she worried about misquoting people. Barbara understood this and trusted Shirley's discretion.

  • @PatrickLHawkins
    @PatrickLHawkins 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So the interview at the 21 Club in New York was supposedly recorded without Joan or Barbara's knowledge? I find that hard to believe considering that Shirley signs off at the end of as if she's doing an official interview. If I were Joan or Barbara I would have thought it odd that Shirley would sign off that way if she weren't recording them.

    • @lottaandgus
      @lottaandgus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seven years later 😄It just said that they didn't know the phone calls were being recorded, not the interviews.

  • @USAjock9
    @USAjock9 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Two legends. How devine!

  • @cleopatrabonz
    @cleopatrabonz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Barbara had a son whom she abandoned his name was Dion, he tried countless times to make amends with her and after awhile he just changed his name and no one ever knew what became of him.

    • @2dasimmons
      @2dasimmons 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This was her ADOPTIVE son, not biological.

    • @cleopatrabonz
      @cleopatrabonz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know..she treated him badly I wonder if he is still living

    • @SandySaunders9142
      @SandySaunders9142 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +cleopatrabonz Sounds to me, from what I know, it was a mutual problem between them.

    • @2dasimmons
      @2dasimmons 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's too bad.

    • @Riip2
      @Riip2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For all that I know, the boy was very difficult and addicted to drugs.

  • @frederickcombs8661
    @frederickcombs8661 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The biggest stars. Wouldn't it be great to sit in on one of their long chats?

  • @ThorSmith
    @ThorSmith 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THE BEST TH-cam POST EVER! The most fascinating discovery since the Judy Garland Tapes! Old Babs could dish with the best of 'em. LOL. Thanks so much for this. Where the hell did they come from?

  • @bartlesandjames612
    @bartlesandjames612 11 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not only was Barbara Stanwyck a great actress, she was also an expert with a knife!! Jesus!!

  • @jasbegs1258
    @jasbegs1258 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Fascinating listen- it does not make me think any less of the two great stars of Hollywood. From all accounts Joan was a very loyal friend- including to Bill Haines after his acting career was ruined for not conforming and refusing to hide his homosexuality and enter a lavender marriage. Even Christina Crawford gives Joan this credit [as someone who stood by Haines] in a documentary on him.

  • @Patrick3183
    @Patrick3183 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    fascinating!!

  • @rizzo3170
    @rizzo3170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Agree with the Ladies. I celebrate at home alone. Appreciate being alone - each to his own. Happy NY.

  • @edwardjames50
    @edwardjames50 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Five star rating! This is fucking amazing!!!!!

  • @frederickcombs8661
    @frederickcombs8661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I would just die to be with Joan and Barbara together.

  • @MrVidaeverdade
    @MrVidaeverdade 10 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    To those of you who think it's normal to talk this way about friends behind their backs, geez, I'm glad you're not friends of mine! No, I do not do that. Things people tell me in confidence stay that way. The rule I live by is don't say things about a friend what you wouldn't say to their face. Obviously, Ms. Stanwyck didn't live by that rule.

    • @jackiejns983
      @jackiejns983 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wonder if Stanwyck knew she was being taped.

  • @mikestevens7018
    @mikestevens7018 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joan Crawford and Barbara Stanwyck id have died and gone to heaven!!!!!!! My 2 favorite people on earth! 🌟 🌟

  • @iamismay
    @iamismay 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    First off I used to think well of Ms. Stanwyck, now my opinion is uncertain. You will notice in NY she and Joan seem more then cordial/friends. In the phone tape she proves she is a Hypocrite, and gossip. U will notice Joan isn't bad mouthing her. lastly divorced for more then 20 years Joan helped take care of Franchot Tone till his death. I still respect Joan. Guess u never know who your friends really are. God Bless u Joan.

  • @FabianWarren
    @FabianWarren 12 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is a WHOLE different side of Barbara Stanwyck THAT no one has ever heard! On Crawford, 22:45 "Hey between you and me I think she's going a little flaky between you and me!"

  • @apartmentsixeleven4093
    @apartmentsixeleven4093 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The Eder woman is clearly the lesser "lady" of the three. That is very clear.

    • @scotnick59
      @scotnick59 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I cannot stand Eder's "rubbery" New York accent: just awful.

    • @suzettelandau3898
      @suzettelandau3898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The questions are awful & down right stupid. I can't stand Eder & I find it hard to believe that she was a friend of Stanwyck's.

    • @scotnick59
      @scotnick59 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cannot stand her accent.

    • @mk202
      @mk202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All the interviewers back then were so patronizing and smoochy.

  • @stevencraig2448
    @stevencraig2448 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Stanwyck was quite the cougar. She taught Robert Wagner the ropes.

  • @8angst8
    @8angst8 10 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    TO: Jezebel1960, re your: "Crawford DIDN'T backstab????? Do some independent reading or documentary-watching on how Crawford treated fellow actresses Norma Shearer, Jean Harlow, Janice Rule, Mercedes McCambridge, and Lucy Marlowe over a period of 30-odd years!"
    1) Joan, rightly, didn't like Norma 'cause Norma was married to the boss and unjustly got better roles than she deserved. (When Thalberg died, Shearer was done as a star.) Joan never "backstabbed" Shearer --- she was quite open with her disdain for her.
    2) Joan was jealous of Harlow 'cause Harlow was sleeping with Gable at the same time Crawford was. Not so sinister or mysterious reason for jealousy. Again, Joan never "backstabbed" Harlow --- she was quite open with why she was jealous.
    3) RE Rule, Marlow, McCambridge = all very minor actresses; they themselves hyped the "feuds" with Joan to make themselves seem more important.
    In her 50 years of film/TV performances, Joan was notably friends with many actresses and female co-stars: Constance Bennett, Dorothy Sebastian, Myrna Loy, Marie Prevost, Hedda Hopper, Barbara Stanwyck, Marjorie Rambeau, Rosalind Russell, Margaret Sullavan, Virginia Grey, Ann Blyth, Ellen Corby, Diane Baker, to name a few.
    I think it's YOU who needs to do some "independent reading or documentary-watching"!

    • @lanejones3176
      @lanejones3176 10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They all backstabbed- in those days it was stab or be stabbed.

    • @xfiler-gl7nc
      @xfiler-gl7nc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL so Joan was upfront with. Being a bitch. At least you knew where you stood with her😂😂 but you can't deny despite that book her daughter wrote Joan had the respect of Many people from Kraft service to executives. Because of the way she treated people.

    • @jackiejns983
      @jackiejns983 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Joan was right about cross-eyed Norma. Joan was the better actress.

    • @dtrn254
      @dtrn254 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow....well written rebuttal and defense of a person you clearly are affectionate for.

  • @gingerdances
    @gingerdances 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Best juicy bit of gossip? Barbara Stanwyck discussing Spencer Tracy's affair with Joan Crawford (and that he had a "slew" of others). I never can handle how media and so many authors portray Katharine Hepburn as having such a "beautiful" relationship with Spencer Tracy. Hepburn put up with a lot from Spence, especially when you consider that he never divorced his wife, so they could never be married. In real life Kate was far from her independent screen image when it came to men.

  • @flenif2247
    @flenif2247 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "leave it the way Jesus flung it" - Bill Haines (brilliant!)

  • @wadedavid4375
    @wadedavid4375 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonder how those Two would have been in Baby Jane? Stanwyck as Blanche and Crawford as Jane!

  • @oisindurkin
    @oisindurkin 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    fascinating insights! wonderful history! thank you, really. from ireland.

  • @unusualfeline
    @unusualfeline 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Heard both of them combined still had a hard time fighting Empress Dowager Bette Davis

    • @faithmitchell8310
      @faithmitchell8310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      of course. bette is the queen, i still love joanie though

  • @DutchessCottonPuff
    @DutchessCottonPuff 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is not fair to do this to the both of them without their knowledge . They one where they were together , Missy and Billie, fine whatever , but the single ones I didn't think that was right . They were both very strong, DETERMINED ,talented women .

  • @lakevubud
    @lakevubud 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Joan; "I feel you should celebrate whenever you feel like it." And she certainly did.

  • @MrCWells3000
    @MrCWells3000 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is f*cking fascinating….

    • @RJT80
      @RJT80 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      MrWells3000 Yeah. Both of these women had crazily similar childhoods and paths to stardom. So they saw that in one another but they had vastly different belief systems in worldviews and politics, and I think you hear that come out. Hollywood is still just as divided but now conservatives don't dare speak. The days of blacklisting aren't over. It just happens for different reasons. And people have forgotten how to even be civil and tolerate people with different views. You can always tolerate them and then get back at them years later gossiping on the phone with a girlfriend. Joan was a vocal supporter of the Democratic party and supported very liberal positions while Barbara would have hated the idea of entitlements. Carole Lombard was almost militant in her liberal beliefs. She believed that any disposable income people made should go to others. Joan was just very charitable. A lot of which was anonymous. She was troubled but had a good heart. She seemingly treated strangers better than she would ever treat her friends of family, on the whole. She wasn't terribly great with personal relationships outside of public life.

  • @DayByeDayChristine
    @DayByeDayChristine ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Joan Crawford took care of Franchot Tone in the end of her life and his. She could be very kind and hard. As most people are.
    I understand where Joan was coming from.

  • @brkitdwn
    @brkitdwn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Weird conversation dissecting how they do things and interact with each other. Then Joan making reference to the "little people" she sees in Central Park while she's in front of her fire place.

  • @grabitt.4013
    @grabitt.4013 9 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The comments here are more catty than anything Crawford or Stanwyck ever said combined.

    • @niney59
      @niney59 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Grabit T. .

  • @paulj0557tonehead
    @paulj0557tonehead 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome! My two favorite actresses...and I hate mainstream!

  • @delisafields7902
    @delisafields7902 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shirley Eder! 👏👏👏👏

  • @gmaureen
    @gmaureen 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hear three very driven, competitive, women. Each of them trying to stay on top in male dominated professions. Both Barbara and Joan had rough beginnings and their insecurities/vulnerabilites show through those tough exteriors...which is precisely why we loved their movies. Shirley had her own agenda. None of them were saints.

  • @cappylady1
    @cappylady1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If a best friend of mine spoke about me like this, they wouldn’t be a best friend. I know Joan wasn’t perfect and perhaps maybe even not an exemplary mother who knows but I feel defensive of her having friends like this, if nothing else she seemed like a really loyal, loving, genuine friend, but what do I know just a feeling

  • @helenthorpe1494
    @helenthorpe1494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely adore Joan and Barbara and women bitch, too and about each other. FACT. I've done it and I don't know any woman who hasn't. Barbara was simply calling Joan out. People make too much of this recording.

  • @mitchg7809
    @mitchg7809 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    36:04 “$2300! That’s just to get on the fucking boat Missy”

  • @paulj0557tonehead
    @paulj0557tonehead 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Barbara Stanwyck is my favorite no doubt, but Joan Crawford was an awesome actress if you haters can get past it. Funny so many hate Joan, and maybe it's justified, but there was Barbara Stanwyck's undying love for her friend. It's obvious that the little Brooklyn tough Ruby Stevens was able to transcend so much adversity that the raving beauty from Texas could not! If anything Joan needed Barbara, but damn it they were both smart women!

    • @blancheshenosky1034
      @blancheshenosky1034 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love them both! What always impressed me about Joan is that she appreciated her fans and answered their letters personally.

  • @bobdownes162
    @bobdownes162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LISTEN to THIS and LEARN !

  • @thomstephens
    @thomstephens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Joan???? Drunk??? No!

  • @aflamwkalam
    @aflamwkalam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @djoi0901
    Where did you get these tapes???? Whats or who is your source

  • @flenif2247
    @flenif2247 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Joan loved being a star. Starts at 26:00!

  • @ChicagoLove95
    @ChicagoLove95 11 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lmfao I can't breathe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jimrick6632
    @jimrick6632 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    TWO TALENTED LADIES WHO HAD TO BE TOUGH TO SURVIVE IN A TOUGH BUSINESS....BUT IT IS SAD THAT THEY WERE TAPED WITHOUT THEIR KNOWLEDGE....

  • @HollyGoLightly1978
    @HollyGoLightly1978 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    BEST THING EVERRRRRR. OTP. Always.

  • @djbethell
    @djbethell 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That's pretty pissed right there.

  • @steventhomas6672
    @steventhomas6672 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dames! Love ‘em!

  • @nojunk4me2
    @nojunk4me2 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't think it was all that uncommon for reporters to tape conversations as a way of covering themselves in case a celebrity claims something they say that ends up in print was something they never said and by having it on tape the reporter can prove that they in fact did say it.