Secret Service Agent Explains Psychological Tricks To Read Anyone & Spot A Liar
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Today, a secret service agent is teaching you how to read body language, master your emotions, and spot a liar.
In this one of a kind episode, agent Evy Poumpouras is unpacking proven strategies and psychological tricks to get what you want.
Evy is a former secret service agent who has protected 5 U.S presidents.
She is a “human lie detector” who has been specially trained in the art of lie detection, human behavior, and cognitive influence.
And today, she is giving you a masterclass of all of her best secrets from over 3 decades of training and experience.
Evy’s extensive and decorated career includes operating undercover, complex criminal investigations, and working as an interrogator for the Secret Service’s elite polygraph unit - and she’s here to arm you with information, tools, and strategies in this special episode.
Evy Poumporuas’s website: evypoumpouras.com
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TH-cam Timecodes:
00:00:00: Introduction
00:03:32: How does having confidence and reading body language change your life?
00:06:50: The biggest takeaways we can learn from presidents and foreign heads of state.
00:10:15: Do this to manage stress in a high pressure job.
00:15:11: This is how professionals detect if someone is lying.
00:19:15: How to detect someone’s baseline and when you can use this skill.
00:26:00: Does eye contact REALLY give away if someone is lying?
00:30:00: Do this to show a conversation matters to you through your body language.
00:33:20: Why it’s important to just let people be.
00:36:14: Is there anything people do with their eyes to indicate they’re lying?
00:39: 25: Do this to be more secure in yourself around other people.
00:43:00: Are there verbal cues to indicate that you aren’t being told the truth?
00:47:11: The importance of being less focused on just yourself.
00:49:37: How do you get the truth out of someone?
00:52:50: When do you know it’s time to call somebody out or back away?
00:56:45: What is paralinguistics and how does it impact how we talk to people?
00:59:00: Do this to make your voice come through to others with more authority.
01:05:49: Be clear about your own objectives before entering a difficult conversation.
01:09:45: Someone not answering you IS an answer.
01:12:27: The REAL reason we don’t trust our gut.
01:14:30: The first step to changing the negative situation you are in.
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I love Evy. I’ve watched her on several podcasts. It seems like they all pull the same info, ask the same questions differently. I’m 24 minutes into this interview and have already learned new things from her. The magic of Mel Robbins, y’all. Looking forward to the rest of this discussion and will be saving to watch again ❤
My Mother was so wise. She said " you can't make people do, think, or feel what they don't want to."
I believe EVY was chosen for the position she had in the Secret Service because of her personality was that,she wasn’t looking for power, she wasn’t trying to outshine everybody else, she didn’t want it. What better person to have it.
You are misreading her as a confident person. She is an intense person. When she knows what she's talking about, she is detailed and focused.
I observed that often we behave and act like we are on edge even if there is no reason for it... a habit of anxious mind. Confident mind looks for information not for a confirmation of itself being confident.
Best start with not trusting or believing anyone. Time and observation will eventually reveal their character.
Evy is amazing…I’ve watched multiple interviews & learn something new each time!
I saw Evy on the Diary of a CEO, it’s a pleasure to see her here as well ❤
Non verbal communication interpretation is more art than science.
I saw Evy on a Diary of a CEO. Evy is fierce. And Mel - thank you for showcasing your authenticity. I love the way I can see my favorite people from your perspective, from what inspires you.
I have adopted this mantra of “handle your shit” since in my early 20s. While it has been challenging to see it, clean it up and move on, it has propelled me through things I didn’t think otherwise I could move on from. Thank you for the reminder Evy and Mel.
My dad use to say….”Get your shit together!!!!” Another way of saying “Handle your shit!!” And it worked! Happy healthy whole at 63!!!!!!
I concur. When you listen to your enemies, they tell you what their real fears are and it aint even you
So much truth, even just about halfway through it. Politicians do that thing where they don't answer the question but speechify for a few minutes about distantly related accomplishments they want accolades for. And I love the advice to just pull out of the relationship without announcing it and without calling out the person. No need for that drama. Just go on and be happy. You don't owe them that, and they don't owe you whatever satisfaction you would get from calling them out.
Really needed that pep talk on bravery & confidence! Action first. You don’t learn from winning you ultimately learn from your losses 🙏
Both Mel and Evy are incredible. Such inspirational women. Thank you!
When she speaks she says everything thats aligned with what i learned about energy. Her energetic boundaries are impeccable.
These two women are not just smart and personable, but wise. Thank you for this interview.
There is not a minute of this interview that isn’t useful. This woman is incredible!!
My husband and I love to watch Survivor. We always laugh when people say, “you can 1000% trust me.” It’s such an overcompensating statement. When you mentioned people swearing to god, or on their mother’s grave, it reminded me of that. It also felt affirming:)