How To Look Elegant At Home

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  • How to look elegant at home and is it even possible? In this video I share my best tips and outfit ideas on how you can look good and feel good at home. Make style changes you’ve been wanting to make with my FREE workshop: nothingtowear.me/
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  • @dannigee3619
    @dannigee3619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5517

    By the time this quarantine is over I’ll come out greeting my friends "good evening my dear elegant ladies"

  • @anastasiamatsiushenka8630
    @anastasiamatsiushenka8630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1188

    Anna: “It’s all about how you treat yourself at home, even if you live by yourself” SO TRUE

  • @karimehendrix
    @karimehendrix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    Im a stay at home mom, and even though I have nowhere to go, I feel like when I get ready my mood is better and I don’t feel so gloomy. It really makes a difference. A lady is a lady no matter where you are!

    • @ellen823ful
      @ellen823ful ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Me too. Not fancy just put together.

    • @Devilishka7
      @Devilishka7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Not sure whom I watched, but she said something that stuck with me. Even as a stay at home mom, minding kids is your job. Dress like you would for work. You wouldn't go to work in sweat pants. Even if minding another person's child you'd still want to look presentable. Dress for the job.
      I have yet to change my mindset as well, but I'm slowly getting there as I'm working on changing my wardrobe and dressing better at home as well just to feel good in my own skin. I found out I hate jeans at home. Very uncomfortable especially when cleaning, so I'll be changing that to trousers.

    • @mirna.prasaja
      @mirna.prasaja ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Especially during lock down of pandemic. Even though I couldn't go anywhere, and just did house errands, I wore my good outfit and put on my make up 😍

  • @annafirth6738
    @annafirth6738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +657

    A tip for matching sets: remember to wash the bottoms with the tops, otherwise they will fade at different rates and the bottoms will likely end up darker.

  • @fabi0681
    @fabi0681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4741

    Never tought we would ever see Anna in sweatshirt and Mickey Mouse t-shirt😂😂😂

    • @Miljepilje
      @Miljepilje 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      fabi 0681 hahahah

    • @Lafemmefutile
      @Lafemmefutile 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Only for science lol

    • @lolitazavala1879
      @lolitazavala1879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @izzzzy_
      @izzzzy_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      She looks so cute though😂😩

    • @anyapi987
      @anyapi987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Even then she looks elegant

  • @nyanya9986
    @nyanya9986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3960

    When she said “throw out everything that’s from H&M that’s 10 years old” I’ve never felt so attacked 😂😂😂😂

    • @TheRealCrystalReid
      @TheRealCrystalReid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nya Nya 😂😂

    • @isabizzle
      @isabizzle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      For real!!! Lmao!

    • @TheRaychica
      @TheRaychica 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I just bought yesterday at H&M some clothes. I felt so bad🙈😬😭😞😏🤪😒🤷🏻‍♀️😂

    • @dzanastrabuna
      @dzanastrabuna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      My H&M clothes don't last for 10 years🤣

    • @florencemamu443
      @florencemamu443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣😓I know right?

  • @nosugarcoating9778
    @nosugarcoating9778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +920

    My mother always emphasized to us to look made up even when at home. She always told us to look like a lady even when lounging at the house. So many things she taught us that you teach in your videos..

    • @kchkaceha
      @kchkaceha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      totally oppposite to mine. My mother always told me to wear clothes (at home) that are not expensive and old. They might've been washed out, but she didn't care. It was about saving money . And she usually repeated to me "who's gonna see you at home?'.

    • @mog82777
      @mog82777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@kchkaceha Same with me.. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @kathyhartung6058
      @kathyhartung6058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Unfortunately my Mom taught me and my siblings very little. I was 19 years old before someone taught me how to properly cut meat. I was mortified and thought about all the un-etiquette things I did. She worked as a waitress in a very high class country club and you think she would have picked up on it and taught us. She was a good Mom, though.

    • @ida3400
      @ida3400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      My mom taught me to wear what makes me feel comfortable

    • @BuffyunaTV
      @BuffyunaTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ida3400 I'm so sorry

  • @daniellealexis5581
    @daniellealexis5581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    I love how brutally honest Anna is. It doesn't even offend me because I agree with what she has to say.

    • @-Unimpressed-
      @-Unimpressed- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's interesting bc nothing she said was offensive. It's common sense.

  • @Blondie727
    @Blondie727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1883

    Wow, this was an eye opener. I dress like a million dollars when I leave my house. However, when I’m at home, I dress like a homeless lady.😂
    Thank you for changing my perspective. I just now ordered feminine loungewear & cute nightgowns opposed to my stretch pants & t-shirts.😒

    • @shereetaylor232
      @shereetaylor232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Renee where did you order your lounge where from?

    • @Blondie727
      @Blondie727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Sheree Taylor Macy’s & eBay

    • @pratishasing8636
      @pratishasing8636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So did I. Exact same. Never thought about it like this. Thanks for inspiring

    • @user-tm6ij6gx7r
      @user-tm6ij6gx7r 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What brands did you ladies find the most success with for nice lounge wear & pajamas?

    • @shens2661
      @shens2661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same. On the street I dress in REISS at home I dress in target 🎯 Mickey Mouse 🐁🤣😂

  • @freakmeoutwillu
    @freakmeoutwillu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1015

    If you're at home with your husband and children, you should dress in your best outfits rather than going out and dressing up for strangers. You live at home with people who love u the most in the world, they're the ones who get happy looking at u. Your best outfits deserve people who love u the most.

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      This comment was very sweet. ...." The ones who get happy looking at you...". I love that!

    • @iamcom4ta
      @iamcom4ta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Nice perspective

    • @aren7138
      @aren7138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You are so right!

    • @freakmeoutwillu
      @freakmeoutwillu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      S. S. Cookies absolutely ❤️

    • @TheCelmap
      @TheCelmap 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      One of the best comment ever. We should truly respect our family as well as our significant other. They deserve all best from us..

  • @strange_aeons5636
    @strange_aeons5636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I started dressing acceptable at home and it has honestly increased my self respect! After all, every time you pass a mirror you are still evaluating what you see in front of yourself. 😌😊 Thanks Anna for this idea!

    • @staiculiana5183
      @staiculiana5183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are right

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes! Nothing like feeling a "looser" when not liking of what I wear. Even that nobody else sees it...but I SEE IT!!! 👁👁

  • @lisawhite-pagano3455
    @lisawhite-pagano3455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I am almost 59 years old and I am definitely guilty of wearing t shirts and worn out pajama bottoms around the house. When I was young I only wore silk pajamas and little silky slips to bed. Three kids later and I usually hit the bed in yoga pants and a t shirt. You have inspired to get rid of all of my bleach marked tops and years old pajama bottoms and to get a few nice things that I can walk around in front of my grown children and feel covered and classy.

  • @patrycjaasies2632
    @patrycjaasies2632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1390

    My mother taught me to wear clothes around the house so as not to be ashamed to open the door when a boy who I fancy knocked on them

    • @bintahmad9295
      @bintahmad9295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      God bless your mother ❤She's elegant,so are you!

    • @adriananeagu609
      @adriananeagu609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      This is my opinion too...

    • @emmaculate6177
      @emmaculate6177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      That’s funny. When I was growing up I would clean as if a boy I liked was coming over haha

    • @momzilla7752
      @momzilla7752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I agree. Unfortunately do not practice as I should. There is an older lady in my town who still runs a antique business from her home even though she is in her 80s. She is a classic southern lady. She is always “ company ready”. And always gracious.

    • @AprilHarmony9
      @AprilHarmony9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      See! My dad taught me to be this way around the house but after he passed my mom was the influence and......yeah smh

  • @annacama8313
    @annacama8313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2279

    Manically throwing out my old clothes.
    *laughs in elegant*

    • @LangBellsChannel
      @LangBellsChannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Donate or sell them, throwing away clothes is bad for the environment.

    • @P1xie_D0ll
      @P1xie_D0ll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      omg😂😂

    • @salomegubat885
      @salomegubat885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anna Cama lol

    • @AC-iw5mv
      @AC-iw5mv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hilarious 😂

    • @Sakura.Beauty
      @Sakura.Beauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I dieeeeeeedddd 🤣😭😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣

  • @Raposodeb
    @Raposodeb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I was raised in European family and taught many things when I was little. I forgot so many etiquette manners. So grateful for all of your content.

  • @1975rozita
    @1975rozita 3 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    I love this channel. There's no need to keep up with the latest trends if they don't look good on you. Keep those classic pieces and incorporate new pieces that look good on you. I love how ladies dressed long ago. So classy, elegant and feminine. Thank you for your videos❤

  • @ceciliemadsen5823
    @ceciliemadsen5823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +668

    Honestly, I used to wear old, oversized commercial t-shirts to bed. Even though I woke up every morning, glimpsed myself in the mirror and though: "Ugh. I look like crap. This is the most unattractive thing I have seen - and this is me!"
    After watching some of Anna's other videos, I decided to go through my closet and sort out these old t-shirts and wash some of my finer nightwear (which I had laying around but never actually used).
    I felt amazing every night going to bed and every morning getting up wearing these things. Not feeling sloppy in my outfit even provided me with more energy.
    After about a week, my partner turned to me and said: "You know. I really like watching you in this new nightwear. Please tell me you have thrown out the old t-shirts!"
    Ladies, listen to Anna. It makes a huge difference what you wear at home. Both for your energy, how you feel and for your partner.

    • @saositi5851
      @saositi5851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

    • @cassey7532
      @cassey7532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree sis 😪

    • @misstelly2821
      @misstelly2821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you. There's too many haters in the comment section. And ppl if you're on a budget you don't have to go for 100% silk and cashmere materials. Get the lower end stuff just make sure u look well put together. If you don't want to let go of clothes because of emotional attachment, there are videos on yt on crafting. Im planning on framing this oversized shirt that I will NEVER throw out but would make Anna act unlady like towards me if she ever saw me in it 😂😂😂 just kidding guys, Anna is never unladylike

    • @Puty0urlipstick0n
      @Puty0urlipstick0n 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you please have a brand you recommend?

    • @lorenrenee1
      @lorenrenee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Get something that feels very good. I got a nice soft oversized flannel for winter, I love it so much, keeps me warm down to the toes. It doesn’t need to be super fancy but nice. Mine is plaid and I LOVE it. ( for cold weather) I’m not slim so I think silk would rip while sleeping ( I’m not concerned with wrinkles as much as tearing)

  • @sjorobinson3981
    @sjorobinson3981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +840

    I do have to say, I was curious to see if my fiancé would notice me changing my night clothes from old oversized t shirts into something more feminine. I ordered silk chemises and cami/short sets with lace detailing and lace and chiffon robes and he instantly noticed. Without me saying anything, he asked when I got it and played with my robe sash and said, “well I really like it.” So, listen to her ladies! My partner is a blue collar working man and still appreciates the finer things on me at night. I can say, I’m a registered nurse and there is nothing better than coming home and taking off my terrible scrubs and coming out of a hot shower to put on some silk and lace, completely worth the money

    • @damongirl66
      @damongirl66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Jen Lilysilk is good! I've been buying silk clothing from them for years.

    • @mollymae7069
      @mollymae7069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      They do notice a lot more than we realize! If I'm in something super frumpy he always checks if I'm okay, and says "go put something nice on, it always males you feel better" x

    • @Kristina2
      @Kristina2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Jen MYK Silk has the basic 100% mulberry silk pajama sets for 55$ (Lily is 135$) with free shipping over 50$. They also have some very basic silk chemise for 99$ (22 momme) along with robes, camisole tops($28), etc. I understand that Lily has way more options, colors, etc but if you are on a budget MYK silk has affordable luxury sleepwear at amazing prices. They start at 19 momme silk and go up from there. Have fun!

    • @BellyDancerDiaries
      @BellyDancerDiaries 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good inspo! Love the idea of silk at home too

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good job honey! Very feminine❤

  • @33quincey
    @33quincey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This video seriously changed my life. Sent it to all my sisters and girlfriends. I literally never thought of that before, if you spend most of your time at home, that’s where most of your wardrobe budget should be. Seems so obvious now! 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @33quincey
      @33quincey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I bought silk pillowcases a year ago after I first saw this video btw-no regrets. I get asked for my ID everywhere I go. I think silk works 👌

  • @kevinalachat4173
    @kevinalachat4173 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Very powerful video. I am 40 years old and spent my entire life dressing like a nobody. Thanks to your videos I feel inspired to live a fuller life. I started investing in clothes after watching this video and realizing that throughout my life I just resorted to joggers and everything that took away my feminine energy. I am looking at investing in more silk like night robes.

  • @doraineclarke87
    @doraineclarke87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1575

    "WE ARE ADULTS!"👏. Wow, I didn't realise how much I needed to hear that🤦‍♀️

    • @Gracekeys5
      @Gracekeys5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Ouch, that got me too. I needed to hear that one too.

    • @J_young_824
      @J_young_824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I'm on my 30's now and still stuck in this 12 year old body hahha still wearing animal printed logos and crazy pattern lounge wear yikes!!

    • @Gracekeys5
      @Gracekeys5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      WhatJane Does you are not alone believe me. After watching this video I went to Soma and Vic Secrets and did a complete lounge makeover.

    • @PatriciaRoxana78
      @PatriciaRoxana78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That got me too!

    • @momina2424
      @momina2424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙂

  • @utahgirl1610
    @utahgirl1610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2360

    Our mothers taught us to dress poorly at home. At least, mine did. She taught me to take off my nicer clothes at home. As to preserve them and not dirty them. And to wear old clothes at home to work around or lounge around the house in. This was to save money and time in washing and iron. And to give nicer clothes a longer life.

    • @TheJwilb3
      @TheJwilb3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +262

      I’m late but I was brought up this way too. We had our good school clothes and then our play clothes. Even my nicer lounge clothes I take off when I get home.

    • @rabeekay
      @rabeekay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Your comment just made me feel like I'm teaching my kids to dress poorly at home too as I always dress poorly

    • @shanikpakeer
      @shanikpakeer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Same as mine. I was told not to waste money on home clothes

    • @luciadossantos7317
      @luciadossantos7317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I'm exactly the same. Because of that I have clothes that are over 30 years old.

    • @upekshad5765
      @upekshad5765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      yh my mom also taught me that. and now I'm teaching my mom to dress well at home

  • @sadiyed8511
    @sadiyed8511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I never liked fashion as a teenager because everyone followed trends and dressed the same. It made me believe that people who were into dressing up and looking good were superficial and shallow because it was all about having the latest pieces. When I moved to Europe i realized that most people cared way more about timeless pieces and what actually looked good on them, which was very interesting for me to see that the majority of people were very confident in that aspect. It made me realize that the effort you put in yourself says way more about your personality and self respect than people like to admit.

  • @beautywinsfails8867
    @beautywinsfails8867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    It’s crazy seeing you in a sweatshirt and hair in a casual bun - wardrobe, hair and makeup makes a huge difference! Thank you for motivating us to clean out our closets Anna.

  • @ms.x1669
    @ms.x1669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +730

    This channel gets better and better everytime I watch. Especially as someone who has been here since day one.

    • @cynthiacyn4012
      @cynthiacyn4012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Totally..

    • @cynthiahoyi3925
      @cynthiahoyi3925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed! I've been watching her ever since she went on this Morning. She gets better and better

    • @unknown-jd3dz
      @unknown-jd3dz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree! I remember I first clicked on her first video out of curiosity and now I’m so glad I did because her videos help me out so much and I just thoroughly enjoy watching them anyway :D

    • @user-to5jx4kz2j
      @user-to5jx4kz2j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree! The content getting better with every video.

    • @b.johnny369
      @b.johnny369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ms. X I agree!!

  • @Esther-ur5vi
    @Esther-ur5vi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2364

    According to this video I realized I need to throw everything out🤣

    • @katalinmcewan
      @katalinmcewan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I haven’t watched it yet, but I’m sure I will come to the same conclusion. 😂

    • @ariadnahernandez8656
      @ariadnahernandez8656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Esther Naomi 🤣🤣🤣

    • @lorenrenee1
      @lorenrenee1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Esther Naomi me too.

    • @Santababy86
      @Santababy86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @xolilemajola6043
      @xolilemajola6043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me too i need to go for shopping😂😂😂😂

  • @donnahyman3517
    @donnahyman3517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I totally agree. During the pandemic I still get ready for the day. Each morning I exercise, shower, put on casual makeup(with lipstick) style my hair and nice casual wear. I want to feel good about myself and look good for my husband when he comes home. I had deliveries at my door and heard, Wow you are so put together!
    Why not? feel good about yourself. It boosts your mood .🧘🏼‍♀️😊

  • @chrissyvang
    @chrissyvang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    In my thirties I started working from home, and having nice lounge wear has become increasingly important to me. My partner doesn't care much at all, so in the end its really for me and how it makes me feel. I completely agree with the advice to have matching sets and multiple silk robes! I still find it difficult to throw away my sweats or old t-shirts because I paint and work with plants a lot so I need things that I can afford to get dirty.

    • @tessltaekook8501
      @tessltaekook8501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Men (husbands, boyfriends) know what our bodys look like and it doesn't matter if you put on the sexiest loungeset or mickey mouse cotton set, you can't fool him. He already knows your butt size, waistline, bust size and so on and you can't "trick his eye" into thinking you have an hourglass figure or bubblebutt when you don't. But even if your body isn't perfect it's better to look decent and not show the flaws by wearing unflattering outfits at home. Especially if you're an at home mom. Your husband, if working in an office related workplace, will meet pretty ladies who are dressed nicely everyday and then he comes home to his wife who didn't even shower or put any effort for him except maybe the household. He won't stay long...

    • @tessltaekook8501
      @tessltaekook8501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This isn't an attack on you btw, just emphasized what you said, that it's important to look and feel good at home too!

    • @user-ex5gm2el4d
      @user-ex5gm2el4d 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The variety of textures in the amzrepo pack is impressive. From smooth leather to textured suede, there's something for everyone.

  • @ascendingsolong107
    @ascendingsolong107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1454

    thats sucha good question .why the hell do we wear our ugliest clothes at home?????????????

    • @wndrwmn3283
      @wndrwmn3283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      I think many were taught that you save your nicer stuff to go out in public & at home you can where the older worn things. It's probably about being frugal.
      I definitely think a beautiful woman can where just about anything & still have her beauty radiate from the inside out. Especially if you are in shoulder to shoulder activity with your man. Like watching him fix a car, fishing etc

    • @catalinafuster1251
      @catalinafuster1251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WHY?????

    • @Happy-vt4xv
      @Happy-vt4xv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Because you're not in public.

    • @xxsnxx0037
      @xxsnxx0037 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      BECAUSE WE ARE AT HOMEEEE

    • @valentina_melethiel
      @valentina_melethiel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Happy 5475 I’m a painter and of course I do not wear my expensive clothes when I do acrylic and oil 😁

  • @Diana__Simion
    @Diana__Simion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    I think we all needed this video during quarantine

    • @rosie5152
      @rosie5152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Diana S 😫👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @michellepackman1484
    @michellepackman1484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I actually find that dressing for work even though I work from home now actually does help keep me in a better state of mind. I just feel more confident and competent. My family always asks me where I'm going even if I'm just going to my home office. 😂I'll definitely think about the pajama set as my next clothing purchase, I think it helps go in the same mindset of elegant simplicity.

  • @bemydinosaur13
    @bemydinosaur13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1987

    “No Mickey Mouse, no Betty Boop, no Snoopy”... Americans, she’s talking to us 😂

    • @biasanto
      @biasanto 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Elizabeth Nanette 😂😂😂

    • @karenmiranda7587
      @karenmiranda7587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Indeed!

    • @karenmiranda7587
      @karenmiranda7587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      We’re big time offenders

    • @AprilHarmony9
      @AprilHarmony9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Not this American🙋🙋🙋 lol but I am the queen of tank tops and sweatpants (only at home tho, I never wear sweatpants outside of home) lmaoooo

    • @nekokitty90
      @nekokitty90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      As a Minnesotan, the Snoopy part hurts a bit 😂

  • @michaelmoore8834
    @michaelmoore8834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +672

    I’m a man and I watched your videos a few times and you’ve encouraged me to step up my Masculine elegance. Like the southern gentleman I am. Also will you do a video about Looking proper and country settings

    • @zenlife321
      @zenlife321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Well I would watch that ...do invite please..lol

    • @OracleofDelphi1111
      @OracleofDelphi1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Agree, wardrobe for the country estate and horsewoman

    • @khensk
      @khensk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You should watch the gentlemans gazette in that case

    • @BarbaraJDraper
      @BarbaraJDraper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      great, opposite sex need it too

    • @michaelmoore8834
      @michaelmoore8834 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@marcelofrmo me to sounds crazy but she sorta changed me. She has encouraged me to respect myself more as well as not be so Rowdy country Boy

  • @TimesWithTammy
    @TimesWithTammy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Low key, Anna Bey is out here not just saving Wardrobes but even Marriages!! You go girl!! Thank you for always being Honest and Genuinely You! I love it! 🙏🏾❤️😍

  • @awesomeness7543
    @awesomeness7543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    You know you are not elegant when what Anna wears at home is nicer than what you wear outside😂😂

  • @xoxoallieexoxo
    @xoxoallieexoxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2895

    "Throw out everything old and nasty"
    Me: Throws away the whole closet

    • @StromaPandrav
      @StromaPandrav 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Me.

    • @amina8048
      @amina8048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Haha

    • @muzamuza6282
      @muzamuza6282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Haha thats funny its me 😁

    • @BabyHannah05
      @BabyHannah05 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      xoxoallieexoxo 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @riymawest
      @riymawest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too 🤣🤣

  • @mahsasabouhi7404
    @mahsasabouhi7404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    I’m always amazed by how fast she say cheat sheet...😂

  • @librarybeasts3344
    @librarybeasts3344 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    When I dress elegant at home I feel like I’m on my A game 24/7. It has honestly made me proud of myself. Like I’ve finally reached adulthood.

  • @myjesusmysavior1000
    @myjesusmysavior1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have used your advice on selecting a new wardrobe. I get compliments on my appearance regularly. I notice people (men and women) looking at my outfits. Many women ask where I get certain items. They like the way I look, but can't put their finger on the fact that I am dressing feminine-not for other women.

  • @VI-cb7eu
    @VI-cb7eu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1227

    if you're embarrassed opening the door in your home dress, then you're not elegant.

  • @What___ever
    @What___ever 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5511

    If she saw what I’m wearing at home, she’d probably get me deported from this planet 🌎 🚀

  • @janecard2060
    @janecard2060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your linen dress is gorgeous both in style and color!
    My passion is to take super expensive styles that are out of my budget and re-create them on my sewing machine.
    Best of both worlds!

  • @tiffanymoody620
    @tiffanymoody620 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It does make a difference looking elegant at home I've always been taught and raised look presentable

  • @carnival30
    @carnival30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +558

    “Or you can get your housekeeper to do it”
    I am the housekeeper! That’s why im here! Because I don’t want to look like just a housekeeper anymore.

  • @ZannaKatoka
    @ZannaKatoka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    A couple of years ago, on the advice of Florence Scovel Shinn (LOA GODDESS), I decided to discard any clothes that made me feel poor. Now I only wear clothing, especially at home, that makes me feel luxe & beautiful. I also put on my jewelry, style my hair and wear perfume. EVERYDAY. Yes it's high maintenance and I deserve it. I radiate femininity. I aspire to be the kind of woman who has her life so in harmony that she greets you at her door in a Ralph Lauren dress, now that's an elegant lady.

    • @inesvetinparadise9715
      @inesvetinparadise9715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is important

    • @rivkastrom6685
      @rivkastrom6685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As long as it is not Lauren Ralph Lauren

    • @bonitabonita3431
      @bonitabonita3431 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rivka Strom why? Pretentious?

    • @bonitabonita3431
      @bonitabonita3431 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We’re living under a bioterror attack in NYC…ready to stop, drop & roll

    • @shereetaylor232
      @shereetaylor232 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rivkastrom6685 is there a huge difference? Just wondering? I'm on a budget so most time I shop at Ralph Lauren outlets and every now and then Macy or online.

  • @SleepyGothCat
    @SleepyGothCat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    She has a point. We are staying home longer these days, it's a good idea to invest in really comfortable and chic home clothes.

  • @tuyetle4846
    @tuyetle4846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You’re so right ! My husband always gets me lingerie or sleepwear beautifully as he likes to look at the nicer outfits indoors or outside.

    • @tuyetle4846
      @tuyetle4846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He also good at looking for the right size and style for my going out attire as well.

  • @GarmanyRachel
    @GarmanyRachel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    Anna: "Adults take responsibility for their appearance and they make an effort!"
    Me wearing my old, stained, mens scooby-doo shirt and cut off fuzzy pajamas: "You tell em girl!"

    • @amina8048
      @amina8048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha )))))

    • @jamainengubane7787
      @jamainengubane7787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Laughed so hard at your comment!

    • @dingisdongus7401
      @dingisdongus7401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol me af.

    • @tabithahedgspeth5579
      @tabithahedgspeth5579 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! me right now with sneakers and walmart clothes on. I match though! I feel like I need to throw everything away now. Little by little I guess.

    • @NaMiYummy
      @NaMiYummy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol i wear my husbands shorts and shirts more comfy at home

  • @TheGrunthal
    @TheGrunthal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    As a stay at home mum with 2 very young children I often lost my temper and raised my voice at my husband or children. But when I started wearing nice house dresses and little bit makeup and nice hairdo- I’m can be calm and relaxed so much longer. Any time I see myself in the mirror or reflection I feel like a million bucks- like a lady and I started acting like one all the time! :)

    • @simonam7255
      @simonam7255 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is sooo true! As a mom with small kids, you can easily feel invisible for adults (and sometimes for kids). But I too have found that dressing up in the home can be uplifting for my mood. I even have this weird thing when I dress up and put on nice shoes (with heels) when I need to clean and be in the house longer in a day. It just makes me feel better when I have menial tasks to do!

    • @isabeli3755
      @isabeli3755 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You dressed as the women you wanted to be and that is so commendable! I’m in that same phase in life right now 2 small kids and I’m feeling so much better now that I care for myself better

    • @Eirlys0104
      @Eirlys0104 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It makes sense that as women we feel better when we feel beautiful. And when we feel better we also act better. Self care is not compromisable for a woman. We need that little time to pamper ourselves. When we feel beautiful we are also more likely to want to be more intimate with our man. I certainly do not want intimacy when I feel worn down and overall messy. When I'm good with me I'm automatically good with others.

    • @aliciasilva8415
      @aliciasilva8415 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @yahaira1048
      @yahaira1048 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great point! I’m a mom of 3 month 4 and 5 year old boys and I’ve had to do most of the raising was yelling and scolding but I think this tip can go a far way, before kids took care of myself so much but now I can barely 😥 have nails done but this tip I think can be a game changer from the video and from an actual mom because it’s one thing to be without kids and another having to raise kids 100 percent of the time and mostly on your own. ❤

  • @chrism.473
    @chrism.473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    ". . . if he sees you wearing your rags. . ." 😄😂😅 I adore Anna ❤

  • @samanthabarron8481
    @samanthabarron8481 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am guilty of wearing my ugliest clothes at home BUT I think we need to take into consideration peoples’ different lifestyles. I do a lot of outdoor work like gardening at home, and I also live with roommates, so I can’t be walking around in sexy silk lol and I’m certainly not going to be gardening in cashmere… I feel that these tips are great for someone with the right lifestyle. And I’m sure there are still situations where I could apply these suggestions when appropriate.

  • @MJS.94
    @MJS.94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    I am so impressed 😮 Today I woke up and I decided I had to throw everything that made me look cheap and vulgar and I just kept few clothes that make me feel like an elegant lady. I just finished throwing everything and BAAAM! Your video is here! This is a sign that life wants me to be ELEGANT! ✨

    • @yaelrar.4460
      @yaelrar.4460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too! I'm with you!🌷

    • @booklover2404
      @booklover2404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My problem is I want this huge wardrobe like the housewives and I end up with a lot of what the hell did I buy this for. I will challenge myself to get rid of the "what the hells' and get quality clothing in my wardrobe. Less is more !

    • @sakenoway5590
      @sakenoway5590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl just binge watch her. She is so smart with this. There is also @alexandragirlytalk, particulary her video "the art of sexy". They both have amazing inovative tips

  • @massfractal8
    @massfractal8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Shedding the faded house dresses, tattered pajamas and sweats is really lifting my spirits. Pulling my look together distracts a bit from the difficult realities of physical isolation. Every time I looked down or passed a mirror, the sight of my frumpwear had been compounding the depression and anxiety I already felt. Who needed that? Not me!
    Also, as I video chat with friends, I've noticed that my improved appearance provides a positive experience--and example--for them. So, wins all around!
    Thanks for the video.

    • @katherinea.williams3044
      @katherinea.williams3044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mass Fractal I couldn’t concur with you more!
      You NAILED it!
      What’s funny is that at 5:47, she’s wearing palazzo pants- living in Miami, I ADORE long, loose, boot cut ‘pants’ (more like the bottoms from La Linge NYC) at home & out and about.
      This is the second video I’ve seen on this channel and so far, I’m enjoying it!
      Quite eager to see more of her content!
      Love & Light from Miami ✨✌🏼
      Stay safe

    • @roseroseroserose6958
      @roseroseroserose6958 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Masa, - totally totally, - same here!

  • @annacozac8202
    @annacozac8202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I absolutely love this video. Being a Mom of three kids under two really has given me a daily struggle with finding my femininity. I look forward to purging my closet and restyling my look. I think this will no doubt help with feeling my best when my husband is home too.

  • @EllenRocks
    @EllenRocks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So glad to have a big sister in you teaching me these things! 🥰 Came at the right time for me. Needed to hear these so I can prepare for my husband and my own family, as well as, to feel like a million dollars everyday! 😀❤️

  • @sammirage703
    @sammirage703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    I saw this video and immediately cleared my closet of oversized printed tees. I put on a plain fitted tee and nice long pants...and my companion complimented me 2 times in the evening! It was nothing new that I purchased, I just paid attention to what I was wearing and it helped me feel better about myself. Thank you!

    • @ellen823ful
      @ellen823ful ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Good girl. I’m proud of you!

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aaah...that is perfect!!! Even your companion noticed! That is a big thing 💗

  • @MA-wh2nr
    @MA-wh2nr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    I love this! 🥰 My mother always taught me to be presentable inside the home. Even if we were of humble means, we still made sure to have well ironed sets of home clothes for winter and summer. In my opinion, it’s not about vanity. It’s more about discipline. When you take pride in the way you dress, that almost sets the tone for the day. It has an impact on the way you feel and how productive you are; just like waking up early, exercising and having a scheduled routine. It’s part of it all.

    • @vishnumundhe6398
      @vishnumundhe6398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is such an elegant lady message. ♥️

    • @alishastewart8198
      @alishastewart8198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Definitely agree.

    • @betsyhazel
      @betsyhazel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Me too. Always look presentable especially when you come to the dining table. Till today I wash up, clean my face and comb my hair before sitting down to eat. Lol!!

    • @maythegirl2002
      @maythegirl2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @Cattitude369
      @Cattitude369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree. I think that is a big thing missing in today's society. The pendulum swings, I guess.

  • @maryrosebenesisto1301
    @maryrosebenesisto1301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Wearing “elegant” clothes seems like watching those kdramas living in palatial mansions with hundred of maids around. I can only wish to look like a goddess at home…meanwhile my dishes are all waiting for their royal highness to wash them. 😅

  • @lovely.freedom
    @lovely.freedom ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You become an elegant woman when you are elegant even in your most comfortable moments. Love it!

    • @KARINA29534
      @KARINA29534 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean "as long as it gets taken off"?

  • @Someone09938
    @Someone09938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1369

    “We dress like adults”
    Me looking down noticing I’m wearing a unicorn t shirt ☹️

    • @anejileactivated3461
      @anejileactivated3461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      GiovzPzt 😂😂

    • @lynettelove00
      @lynettelove00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂

    • @MzLeci
      @MzLeci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I will never get rid of my super hero shirts 😅

    • @freecountry3544
      @freecountry3544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol...she makes you think.

    • @mariaflorenciaalvarez1926
      @mariaflorenciaalvarez1926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Those are the best! Only add some clothes like she said! Et voila! 😂

  • @onepire9424
    @onepire9424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1029

    When her lounge wear is my going out outfit 😂

    • @11nica5
      @11nica5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me too, lol

    • @victoriajackson7061
      @victoriajackson7061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 same

    • @annymolina5292
      @annymolina5292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Crying 😭😂😂

    • @I_am_milan
      @I_am_milan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly 😆

    • @rebekamunitic3171
      @rebekamunitic3171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Even better 🙈🤣🤣🤣

  • @rubythalue3758
    @rubythalue3758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Anna: This morning i try it and wear some of my clothes and it works🤗. I feel that im the most beautiful wiffy around in our house😂. thank you i plan to do This as much as i Can❤️

  • @Fornothing_atall
    @Fornothing_atall 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I took your advice, and I donated all my old and animated clothes. My closet is sightly smaller, but it feels good not having childish clothes as an option.
    I’ve been following your advice about matching the same color, and fabrics; I’ve gotten so many compliments on how I look classy now. Thanks Anna.

  • @BunsBooks
    @BunsBooks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    I’m definitely leveling up my lounge wear, ladies we deserve to look and feel luxurious for ourselves too.
    But, I’m turning all my old clothes into quilts. My great great great grandma started our family’s quilting tradition by using worn out clothes (because she was very poor, she also made her kids clothes out of cloth grain sacks, she’d sun bleach the supplier stamp off of them and dye them with plants) and the tradition has just continued on that way. I prefer it to buying fabrics because it’s more environmentally friendly and it’s wonderful to have these gorgeous blankets in the family what were once cherished clothing pieces of my ancestors. I inherited an award winning quilt from my great great grandmother that she hand stitched out of old sheets and a house dress.

    • @MBA-pz6tu
      @MBA-pz6tu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      This is the best comment I've seen here. Doing something useful out of old fabrics and keeping a tradition alive.
      I don't know how to quilt, but you've inspired me to research. I don't throw anything away out of guilt (throwing clothes to landfill, gaining weight in the pandemic, or simply, If I bought something and looks old, it is my own fault for not taking more care while shopping. Also, I dye and repair everything as much as I can, as my gran would. She barely had money to buy clothes).
      Being Latin in a northern European country, for me, makes me always feel cold. So I can never wear trendy fashions. Always wearing jumpers, sweatshirts, jackets and jeans, even in the summer. And it is so frustrating not being able to show a nice collarbone, or arms in general because I'm cold. Which leads to not fitting in, feeling frumpy. Gosh! Don't know where all that came from, but I guess it need to be out. But I hope I find one day a fairy God mother who will understand and lead me to take care of myself and the planet.

    • @heidicheckettswest1091
      @heidicheckettswest1091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love it

    • @adriannehubbard3452
      @adriannehubbard3452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do you quilt with a machine or by hand. Also I suspect you have to make sure to keep same fabrics together? Say denim with Rayon? I am asking sincerely.

    • @mebcn5850
      @mebcn5850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How interesting! I even searched for the word "quilt" , since I did not know its meaning. There are si many things than can be done with old clothes , especially jeans. Some people do school bags for poor kids in África. I mean, as long, as the cloth can be used of course

    • @Teewriter
      @Teewriter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@adriannehubbard3452 think it’s okay to mix just don’t use stretch fabrics with woven.

  • @inndivideosdocumentales9495
    @inndivideosdocumentales9495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I wear all those lazy clothes at home and my husband doesn't care 🤷🏻‍♀️ he loves me the way I am

    • @kindaal4453
      @kindaal4453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      By that sentence, she showed how insecure she is..

    • @kekelwamunalula6668
      @kekelwamunalula6668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kindaal4453 who did?

    • @havanax8096
      @havanax8096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It is made to upgrade your lifestyle and if you want to be in rags at home you can don't criticize her with groundles statements lady

    • @nopeq7993
      @nopeq7993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      20 bucks says he’d feel more attracted to you if you wore those night dresses tho!

    • @tereseday4060
      @tereseday4060 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You think he doesn't care.

  • @mirandaddy
    @mirandaddy ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for all of your videos you really helped me upgrade my appearance and feel good about myself again and not blame my weight that I look bad! It’s really the clothes we were that can give us energy ❤

  • @Maya_Waya
    @Maya_Waya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    Seeing you in a Mickey Mouse t-shirt gave me whiplash

    • @carolynsekas717
      @carolynsekas717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2020 is the year of the Rat..
      Gucci is sporting Mickey..
      Just saying 🤩
      Make it a cut-off if you have the Abs.😏

    • @nancyinsc5102
      @nancyinsc5102 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I spilled my cup of tea. LOL

    • @cherylhenninger2988
      @cherylhenninger2988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The face she was making in the mirror said it all, heehee. Farewell, M-I-C, K-E-Y... M-O-U-S-Eeeeee

    • @Maya_Waya
      @Maya_Waya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolynsekas717 Mickey's a mouse, not a rat and Gucci sporting Mickey doesn't mean much to me

    • @Maya_Waya
      @Maya_Waya 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cherylhenninger2988 she looked like she couldn't wait to get rid of it.

  • @TZ2nd
    @TZ2nd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    I don’t know why but I hate wearing jeans at home😢

    • @mksmith1740
      @mksmith1740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not sure where you’re from but Talbots has the most comfortable jeans ever. They’re called Flawless Five Pocket and they feel divine. They come in a variety of colors, washes, lengths, waists, petite, curvy, and large sizes. I used to wear yoga pants around the house. Now I wear jeans-in cold seasons of course!

    • @cute_swiss1758
      @cute_swiss1758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

    • @andreacmcp2014
      @andreacmcp2014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That's me.
      I would rather wear shorts, dresses or skirts, I don't like wear jeans, specially if you live in Florida.

    • @harinisankaran897
      @harinisankaran897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      True they are not comfortable

    • @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama
      @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

  • @maria.1313
    @maria.1313 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you, this is so valuable! I'm learning so much about being a mature, adult, gracious and elegant woman which I haven't before, certainly not as much as I needed. And yes, I totally agree and it's crazy that I didn't realize it before - what made us think that wearing the worst clothes at home/being neglectful about appearance and how we feel at home. I am upgrading and elevating my feminine, elegant, feel good wardrobe! Thank you 🙏🤍🌹

  • @cindycandy1998
    @cindycandy1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Her loungewear is basically what I'm wearing outside LOL

  • @Lecercledelumiere
    @Lecercledelumiere 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Anna, I want to thank you for your advices. You remind me so much of my mother and my aunt, they are so elegant, raised by an elegant woman too. They are attached to manners, and I remember I was annoyed by all the rules when I was a child. Growing up I wanted to be more comfortable and lighter than my mother. But you reminded me how elegant she was and you explained the things so well, I am going to change and be more elegant and class like my mother and all the wemon on her family side. Thanks again.

  • @suriya5318
    @suriya5318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    When my dad was alive he tried to teach me etiquette as a young kid Anna is helping me become that classy woman I should be. ❤️ I truly love your content.

    • @becuteforme
      @becuteforme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Suriya Ali that’s sweet!

    • @sheilam5248
      @sheilam5248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Deepest condolences for your loss. You must have loved your father very much.

  • @SoftTangerineDreams
    @SoftTangerineDreams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1270

    Anna: Adults don't wear cartoon characters, Snoopy or Betty Boop on our clothes!
    Me: *sweating nervously in my Betty Boop pyjama set in my 20's*

    • @camis.1347
      @camis.1347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Little Darling lmbo!!!!

    • @cassey7532
      @cassey7532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂😂

    • @donelle560
      @donelle560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m dying laughing here. 🤣

    • @Wolfiie95
      @Wolfiie95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Little Darling am wearnig monster cookies and i am 25 😂

    • @sarahmk2966
      @sarahmk2966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol...same

  • @ashledashnaw5279
    @ashledashnaw5279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for your videos. My grandmother would tell me these things all the time, but I never really listened, and forgot about most of it. I wish I would have listened to her much sooner in life.

  • @jessicablakemore5290
    @jessicablakemore5290 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think just the practice of dressing to feel my best, for myself regardless of who sees, will be life changing. Thank you for this!

  • @mariaflorenciaalvarez1926
    @mariaflorenciaalvarez1926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    Now we need "How to look elegant at the Gym" 🏋️💪🤸‍♀️🏋️‍♀️

    • @nicolalblushi9830
      @nicolalblushi9830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You've gotta me on this one...LOL

    • @ManifestOptimism
      @ManifestOptimism 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Please and thank you!

    • @hansgans9311
      @hansgans9311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes

    • @valeriatykhonovska4350
      @valeriatykhonovska4350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      With the COVID it's going to be a loooooong while before any one of us gets to look elegant at the gym though

    • @mrvgstyle2442
      @mrvgstyle2442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No one is going to the gym for the next six months with the case numbers doubling by the day. You should look up the World Health Organization on TH-cam. Everything at the gym is contaminated. They will have to sterilize for awhile.

  • @ML-dj8fq
    @ML-dj8fq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    That should be more emphasized: we want men to look good too. Many of them think they can look like crap as long as they have money.

    • @blessall8856
      @blessall8856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Totally agree! Men who have money and those that don't, are both careless with their hygiene, grooming and clothing. Though the lower class man tends to be far more disheveled and very bad hygiene all-around: body, home, car! Ugh!😲😷

    • @BravoMentoraAmerica
      @BravoMentoraAmerica 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True.

    • @mariannaoz
      @mariannaoz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Grooming is my main issue with men

    • @davidemascia3432
      @davidemascia3432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Technically, they can lol. And speaking about not elegant clothes, I have to admit that grey sweatpants provide a great... view

    • @selectiveoutrage6617
      @selectiveoutrage6617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@davidemascia3432 Yes, they cling to men's bodies more than those hideous baggy shorts

  • @beautyforumbyangela
    @beautyforumbyangela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well said & true. I am home all of the time. I feel sloppy & frumpy. This video is exactly what I needed to hear. I want to elevate my lounge wear & sleep wear intentionally. Thank you for the cheat sheet. You look amazing. Cheers 😉 🌷

  • @alenenoknov
    @alenenoknov ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Rewatching this video every time I buy home clothes and I find myself at a loss! This video is a great inspiration and a great reminder that you should be dressed elegant all the time!

  • @bettydeelee
    @bettydeelee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Everything we’re not suppose to be wearing is what I wear 😭😭 definitely gonna invest in new elegant home outfits, thank you Anna ❤️❤️

    • @ForAJoyfulWorld
      @ForAJoyfulWorld 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah! Same here! For me you’re an eye opener Anna... Thank you so much! Feeling good about yourself is more important and you can do this by treating yourself like that! I will absolutely do what you said. Thanks very very much! More power to your channel Anna! ❤️❤️ from the Philippines

  • @cassidyfossum8196
    @cassidyfossum8196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    When Anna said, “I don't know who came up with wearing raggy clothes at home” I heard her! During this quarentine I have been wearing sweatshirts and leggings because I’m at home, but with Anna’s help I have started wearing more camisols and cardigans! It's just as comfy and I feel more put together! Thank You Anna!

  • @ourhomeadventure1522
    @ourhomeadventure1522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Your comment about throwing things out with holes, juvenile, tattered etc. this is important. (I donate those items) but i do it every few months to keep things fresh!! Love your vids ❤️

    • @michellechouinard4958
      @michellechouinard4958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would suggest not donating things with holes. No one wants to purchase secondhand things if they're ruined. Just toss it in the trash, otherwise Goodwill will have to do it for you.

    • @singeileen
      @singeileen ปีที่แล้ว

      Please don’t donate things that are too ragged to wear yourself, or that you’d be embarrassed to give to someone you care about

  • @Mrs.lacysmith
    @Mrs.lacysmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Absolutely Loving all your videos! I wear anything that I'm comfortable in... but guess what, thanks to your videos I'll be elevating myself and style♡

  • @RealMevelleRealMevelle
    @RealMevelleRealMevelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2861

    TBH it's extremely hard to be elegant when you're broke AF

    • @mostbeautifulgirlinthemorgue
      @mostbeautifulgirlinthemorgue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      yes omggg

    • @sophietopham8822
      @sophietopham8822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      I would look into law of Attraction to help boost financial situation and also remember I think it was Coco Chanel who believed the most stylish elegant people where in poorer parts of the world. I think bea johnson looks pretty elegant and she lives very low budget and sustainable.

    • @shanteekah
      @shanteekah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sophie Topham I look up to Gabrielle 💕

    • @lialialia3156
      @lialialia3156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's why the mens

    • @casta9172
      @casta9172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same 😖

  • @texassweetgrl
    @texassweetgrl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    I've just started earning enough to be comfortable. I now own my house and I'm not struggling to pay any bills. However, I realized that besides one wool winter coat, I still have a poor woman's wardrobe. I've decided to go through as many videos on channel on elegant clothing and upgrade myself. My first outfit has been picked, as I have always wanted a matching tweed skirt and jacket set.

    • @Pocketrose3
      @Pocketrose3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Get it girl!!!

    • @adriannaeiber9604
      @adriannaeiber9604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I have enough now,,,, at 63! But my life was the poor girls life. What I have learned is second hand can be AMAZING! Look for cashmere, silk ect ect,,,I buy beautiful clothing for a fraction of the price. You see, women that have „more“ spend more and they don’t wear clothing out, their clothes end up on second hand platforms or even Goodwill . For instance a cashmere sweater I have found for $10. Even a cheap Walmart sweater sells for $10🤷🏻‍♀️
      You don’t have to spend a fortune to look great . My 82 yr old mother practically dresses herself in Goodwill, she’s a seamstress and can spot quality across a room 😂 ( she lives below her means, can afford the best, but still has the poor girl mentality) she gets so excited when she finds a gem,,,,call me right away ( we live in different countries). It’s a competition between us,,,,,who’s going to be the thrift queen of the year 😂 I won in 2020 👸🏻 because I found wool blazers from Moschino , Gant, Ralf Lauren, Mexico and several cashmere sweaters each for under $10💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼 happy thrifting ladies.

    • @scarlettkhan9667
      @scarlettkhan9667 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lucky you

    • @jaylaw.7660
      @jaylaw.7660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😍😘😘

    • @epoulos108
      @epoulos108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great! Inspiring!

  • @sebumpostmortem
    @sebumpostmortem ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My self respect, my self esteem, my beloved feminity, my elegance, how proud I feel of myself and my achievements or the responsable adult I am reside in my brain, my heart and my soul. The external layer that covers my body while I read a book laying on my sofa cannot modify anything. Attatching all these deep foundations and self perception to a certain type of clothing happens to be such a curious anthropological mental mechanism.

  • @pallabinaik3686
    @pallabinaik3686 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank You Anna for such a descriptive video on homewear. It really helped. I am glad I watched it ! 😍

  • @jamiehasenfang8562
    @jamiehasenfang8562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I've already re-evaluated my whole wardrobe two months ago and did just this, throwing out everything I don't love to wear and obviously with holes, not feminine ,etc. I work from home as a dressmaker and seamstress. I have client visits regularly. So I know how important my appearance is and to make an effort and as well as feel attractive. All of what Anna is saying is relevant. I want to attract a man as well as look attractive at all times(even at home and doing what we do around our community) , its a direct reflection of WHO YOU ARE and how you VALUE yourself. For me it reflects how I approach my business as well as my personal life.

    • @yazosoyo
      @yazosoyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jamie Hasenfang what a cool job!

  • @reallyrho1101
    @reallyrho1101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I get up and shower, do my hair and makeup, albeit not as much makeup, and wear nice clothes everyday. This past week has been hard but looking my best helps.

  • @sansagolo4901
    @sansagolo4901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video! I really enjoy watching your videos because they always seem to remind me of the way that I would like to feel and see myself. And also: you make me want to get up and get out of the rut I’m in. So thanks! I’d love to see more quarantine/ at home videos, since I’ve been home for months and probably will be home for a while. Thanks!

  • @michelleharper7020
    @michelleharper7020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! This was a bit intense but much needed. I was always saying that I need a new wardrobe but I am so encouraged to begin the journey. Thank you so much. I always wanted to do better and some people thought was crazy but now I know that I'm just diffrent. I needed this !

  • @bettya86
    @bettya86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    When i was younger i used to wear h&m pyjamas at home. Now that i am past 30 i feel more and more sexy and that is reflected in my homewear too. I want to feel lux even when at home. It makes me feel good. And now that i am earning more i spoil myself with lux loungewear and sleepwear as well as beddings too

    • @alexagg7640
      @alexagg7640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do you have any suggestions? Brands? Stores? .

    • @majah5322
      @majah5322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@alexagg7640 Intimissimi does really nice silk negligees and silk cami/shorts sets. Oysho usually has some great cheaper alternatives in satin that can work fine in my opinion.

    • @alexagg7640
      @alexagg7640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@majah5322 thank you! I'm in my early thirties and feel exactly like you , more and more sexy lol.. which is a good thing I believe. Anyhow, thank you for the suggestions.

    • @majah5322
      @majah5322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alexagg7640 You're welcome. That is a good thing! wearing things like that really make you feel feminine and empowered.

    • @Mywatercrystaltv
      @Mywatercrystaltv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ Betty-- H&M? That's such an upgrade! Try Walmart!! 🤣🤣

  • @NanNan-bz7qh
    @NanNan-bz7qh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    i feel like she would look at me in disgust when she sees what i wear daily at home lmao

    • @MsSecretbitch
      @MsSecretbitch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂

    • @Kloe-fu1ci
      @Kloe-fu1ci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Literally same

    • @muniratshehu6717
      @muniratshehu6717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😄😄

    • @NanNan-bz7qh
      @NanNan-bz7qh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Susel yes ofcourse she wont do something like that, im just jokingly exaggerating. She is a really classy and a kind lady! :)

  • @rscampbell3
    @rscampbell3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like this video so much. It is already a habit for me to always attempt to look my best, however it's great to have examples of higher standards to aspire to. There is always room for improvement! Thank you School of Affluence X

  • @alitohamiamara6288
    @alitohamiamara6288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I started to dress nicely at home since I watched ur video two days ago. Thank you, as a wife and mom I feel so awesome now. I see my self in the mirror with little make up n dress my self.. oh yes. I feel great! Thank you Ana. I am new, but I follow u.. to be elegant lady.

  • @miriamfrayle5322
    @miriamfrayle5322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    Please please make a fragrance video!!!
    -Love
    One of your “elegant ladies” 💛

  • @ashleewithanee
    @ashleewithanee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I have been watching your channel for about a week now and I wanted to let you know that watching your channel is really helping me regain my feminine energy back. I am a twenty three year old college student and I work in a warehouse currently; I feel like I've let myself become comfortable living in leggings and oversized sweaters with a messy bun and no makeup. I hardly feel feminine anymore and it's really begun to take a toll on my mental health, as well as my marriage. You've reminded me that self maintenance is a form of self love and I have begun taking steps towards improving myself and holding myself to a higher standard since watching you and hearing all of your tips. Thank you for sharing your tips and personal standards with us--you really are helping women everywhere to become the best versions of ourselves ♥️

  • @sannajohanna5579
    @sannajohanna5579 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You give good points! Dressing well, even at home, is not about superficial outlook. It is about how we feel about ourselves and also respecting other family members!

  • @Agualev
    @Agualev 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please do a part 2 about this, is so useful and inspired me so much!! All I needed to feel good again!