Why it’s our shared responsibility to protect kids | Madeleine van der Bruggen | TEDxSittardGeleen

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  • 0.5 up to 3% of our male population has some pedophilic interest. That means that everybody probably knows a person with pedophilic interests. According to Madeleine van der Bruggen, most people don’t act out on it, because they know that it’s illegal. And although they never act out on it, they will also never ever be able to talk about it to anyone. But sometimes they do. Without justifying this, it seems a logical thing to happen. Madeleine argues that this is a public and mental health issue. A shared responsibility for all of us. Let’s acknowledge this problem exists and stop with hate and throwing rocks at offenders’ houses. That is not going to solve this problem! Let’s be a mature society and agree that only when we are open about this topic, people will find the strength to come forward, so we as a society can help. Madeleine van der Bruggen is a psychologist and criminologist and combines both in her work for the Dutch National Police. Working as an expert on sex crimes, she advises in local, federal as well as in international child pornography and child abuse investigations. She wants to fight one of the most serious crimes: one that concerns the dignity and safety of our children. Madeleine is also working on a PhD exploring child exploitation networks on the Darkweb, not only to connect the world of policing with the scientific world, but more importantly to gather more knowledge about this horrible type of crime, and to hopefully being part of making the world a safer place. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @klasspodcast4396
    @klasspodcast4396 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8935

    I came here for the comments.

  • @sarahj6995
    @sarahj6995 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4048

    If my husband, son, co worker turned out to be a child predator I would want them locked away from the public. Wtf is this woman talking about?!?!

  • @stephencolvin8079
    @stephencolvin8079 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6009

    It just gets worse and worse

  • @magnacatra7685
    @magnacatra7685 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9014

    This is what TED Talks has become

  • @TheOneTheOnly_etc.
    @TheOneTheOnly_etc. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5588

    “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” - J Krishnamurti

  • @taoforte8988
    @taoforte8988 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8132

    I can't believe what i'm watching

  • @karebear1775
    @karebear1775 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6848

    You are sick.

  • @andyschwarm
    @andyschwarm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5600

    And I must add the audience saw through her! Hardly any applause at the end of her sick talk.

  • @teegeemedia
    @teegeemedia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3607

    This is not good. Not good at all.

  • @Dr_Callidus_Corvus
    @Dr_Callidus_Corvus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7687

    Seems like you're blaming the victim :^)

  • @smileyattitude6807
    @smileyattitude6807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3087

    She said we can do soo much more in the end but gave no solution besides talking about it more!!

  • @lanciferwildwood9997
    @lanciferwildwood9997 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3267

    Is this for real? It seems like a spoof...If it is for real, wtf is this? I can't even watch it all the way through. This makes me want to puke.

  • @TheRealDarrylStrawberry
    @TheRealDarrylStrawberry 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3385

    this is what the Clintons have been waiting for

  • @whitelaw28
    @whitelaw28 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1907

    Rotten to the core

  • @Avenstorn
    @Avenstorn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1624

    >Sex offenders without psychological disorders
    Choose one

  • @AzamatoTheGreat
    @AzamatoTheGreat 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1624

    Oh jesus christ dude..

  • @ashygfriend6784
    @ashygfriend6784 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1386

    It's the most instinctual beliefs we have that we have to constantly examine, because they are exactly what they're named: instinctual; and thus not necessarily logical or scientifically compatible.
    We all want to protect the most vulnerable of the society, but preventing conversation isn't going to help the situation.

    • @jasoncharopos
      @jasoncharopos 6 ปีที่แล้ว +370

      Your comment makes sense but is not applicable. There are things where a social concensus must exist for the basis of a certain society. Nonetheless the west is dead already thus chaos is inevitable.

  • @skippythesupercat
    @skippythesupercat 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1026

    If you don't want Reichs don't give us Weimars

  • @Darkmausi
    @Darkmausi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +950

    Imagine, in case of emergency, you have to go to the hospital and the only person you can ask to watch at your kid are your friends, with this knowledge, what would you prefer, him or her telling you they can't do it because of their struggles or him or her being so very ashamed they will put themselves to the risk because they are too ashamed telling you the truth?

    • @peggyharris3815
      @peggyharris3815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +811

      ..what do we do? Assume the worst about everyone just to be on the safe side? Yes.

    • @Nightlose
      @Nightlose 6 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      +Peggy Harris Ask them. And when they tell you don't burn their house. That way others will see that they can safely talk about it.

    • @peggyharris3815
      @peggyharris3815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +176

      Pan2 パンツ ...what if I leave the house unharmed and just....🔫

  • @xdgxedge9294
    @xdgxedge9294 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1107

    Emotional?
    You must be new...

  • @aventura8491
    @aventura8491 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1155

    She (it) strikes me as something crawling out of a nightmare... !

  • @AB-hq6kw
    @AB-hq6kw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +950

    what

  • @smileyattitude6807
    @smileyattitude6807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +890

    She made no sense at all we already know all that they're working on the hardest cases

  • @Riemann_Zeta
    @Riemann_Zeta 6 ปีที่แล้ว +799

    Open borders for Israel.

  • @adriaticscarecrow2218
    @adriaticscarecrow2218 6 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    Open borders for isreal and give us back europe

  • @smileyattitude6807
    @smileyattitude6807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +635

    She says i can kinda understand you either do or you don't understand

  • @breadifish2143
    @breadifish2143 6 ปีที่แล้ว +920

    All according to plan 👏👺

  • @alexmercer936
    @alexmercer936 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1032

    Would you look at that nose!

  • @DarthDan16
    @DarthDan16 6 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    Open borders for Israel!

  • @nino71
    @nino71 6 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    NON PRAEVALEBUNT !!!

  • @IAMN0TGAY
    @IAMN0TGAY 6 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    HOLLAND YES!