I Should Have Said This Years Ago. The Crockers Have Gone Too Far.

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  • @isaacturnerit
    @isaacturnerit ปีที่แล้ว +1046

    I’m sorry you had to go thru all this. I am glad you and Ember are with me now. Cyber bullying only seems to be a rallying problem when someone gets hurt like life with Lee. If we all stand up when we see it happening even if it’s with our own friends and loved ones we can stop things before someone else gets hurt. Bullies are not allowed around me or my family nor the people that associate with them.

    • @alexfreer8892
      @alexfreer8892 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      ❤. As I have said before. A wonderful human being you are.

    • @anna7118
      @anna7118 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Love to both you and Jaylena! Your love and care for Jaylena shines through the videos just as her love for you does. She needed someone like you in her life to help her find herself and not get lost again in being who another person wants her to be. I have watched her for years (through much of the time covered by the back story she shared here) and can see her growth as a person over the years and especially since she has come to Oregon.

    • @brendachristian-miller2157
      @brendachristian-miller2157 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      So much respect for you and your precious family Isaac.

    • @CCRider5312
      @CCRider5312 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      LOOK 👀 BRO U HAVE MY RESPECT ✊🏻! Jaylena can tell ya that I was the tail end of one of his cyber bullying vids. He’s darn lucky I didn’t take him to court and sue him totally outta his pants. I even talked to my attorney about it and he said let’s see if anymore is said first. But Issac Ember is precious and I’ve saw How you treat Jaylena & Ember and bro you have my total respect ✊🏻.
      Y’all keep doing what you do you’re doing a wonderful job. U guys do your own thing & dust your shoes 👞 👠 off of them drama creators and move forward. U have my full support. Peace ✌🏻

    • @Bobslady21305
      @Bobslady21305 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      ISSAC I’m so happy you n Jaylena have found each other. As many others I’m a long time viewer of Jaylena n I’ll never forget the glow from all the love from the gang at Bus Land on her bday. She was just so free n happy even after your deck broke lol. I could watch that video over and over cuz I knew she found a home and community where she was loved n respected n it was something I never saw in her before. Thank you Issac for taking care of her n helping her heal. I love you both u know I’m one of those TH-cam mama bears when it comes to u guys n hate to see anyone hurting you. Can’t wait to see the reunion video. I know how much you miss your ladies. God bless much love and respect ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @janettferrer5876
    @janettferrer5876 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Sweetheart you don’t need to explain anything… life goes on your happy, God has blessed you with a wonderful family 😇🙏💕 😊

  • @kellyslifeadventures274
    @kellyslifeadventures274 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Glad you stood up for yourself Jaylena! You handled it perfectly. Safe travels back to Issac and Oregon.

  • @peggymcclister1478
    @peggymcclister1478 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You don't let them do that to you Jason Crocker is not worth it he is sorry excuse to be called a man

  • @smm1583
    @smm1583 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Glad you spoke up for yourself, I think a lot of people don't realize how tramatic narcissist abuse can be until they've actually experienced it for themselves. Figuring out how to heal from it is quite a process.

  • @sidneywaddell7765
    @sidneywaddell7765 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Jaylena I hate to say this but I always thought you looked unhappy on the Crockers. You and your little family make me smile. You can see the respect you and Isaac have for each other. I’m in subscribing the Crockers right now! It’s been weird watching them any way! They do act very fake! Live your life forward and try not to pay attention to the past! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @tonyahenry5158
      @tonyahenry5158 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm happy your in a better place

    • @josephknowles5114
      @josephknowles5114 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Your a brave and beautiful soul,why explain when it is quiet obvious what they are,the trail they leave behind them is the bigger proof.

    • @Arthur-vv8th
      @Arthur-vv8th ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you simple or what all you tubers are money beggars to worthless and incompetent to get a real job.

    • @evelynholmes7105
      @evelynholmes7105 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My thoughts too it's like they are acting

  • @kellysexton722
    @kellysexton722 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Team Jaylena! You have a wonderful partner and beautiful daughter. Proud of ya Jaylena!!

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro ปีที่แล้ว +5

      #TEAMEMBERSPARENTS 😜💁🏼‍♀️

    • @lindamaskus5142
      @lindamaskus5142 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KenJ-61 what are you talking about?? You are a C groupie, so pedal your crap somewhere else!

  • @rrhutching
    @rrhutching ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I have not watched their last videos about being mad at each other, I feel family drama should be kept off public forums. I am done with their channels. You are so real and we love you guys and you are blessed in your relationship now! Love you and Issac and that precious baby Ember.

  • @sherryhowell9156
    @sherryhowell9156 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So sorry your past is haunting you. I unsubscribed from all the Crockers probably 2years or more ago. Got tired of the bad mouthing and rudeness to their followers and certain TH-cam's. You have a good relationship and lovely daughter. Be proud of yourself for turning yourself around. Good luck and ignore the Crockers.

  • @shirlymullis1699
    @shirlymullis1699 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your talking about how Jason is with animals, he's letting a bunch of the animals they have die off and all he says is oh well it's a working farm and animals die!!! They leave them there without food and water since Jarod has left. Some have said they were going to call animal humane society on him. You could verify this cruelty. Glad for you that you had the sanity to have run for the hills. You have a Beautiful family now, Treasure it.

  • @marymcintyre3006
    @marymcintyre3006 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    You go girl! I didn't stand up for myself and could recognize the narcissist in Jason when I watched that channel. You are stronger than I was (or still am). Congratulations to you on your strength, and precious Ember and the life you're making with Isaac.

  • @hillbillyvagabond1011
    @hillbillyvagabond1011 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I watched them before you left because of you. You have my 100% support love and prayers!! I am so very glad you were able to get out of that situation. Give sweet Ember all the love

    • @karenminckler4198
      @karenminckler4198 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Agree and I will continue to follow her. I am so happy she found a wonderful man that treats her really good. And they have a beautiful little girl.

    • @kerry17
      @kerry17 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here. I've watched Jaylena about the time she wanted her bed and I've been following her since and I couldn't be more proud for her than now. Jaylena you are such a beautiful gorgeous woman and soul. I'm happy for you my ladybug. Stay cool. Love ya. Later gator

    • @usagirl4188
      @usagirl4188 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kerry17 Kerry that video of her wanting her bed was so so bad . Shows the extreme measures they will go to .

  • @celestialrvliving
    @celestialrvliving ปีที่แล้ว +92

    You’re right, and I was so glad to see you escape that situation/relationship. Your life today is a world of difference. Blessings

  • @MsVC-cs8ks
    @MsVC-cs8ks ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. I'm so glad that you found the strength to get out of that situation and stand up for yourself.
    As you stated, all of that led you to fulfill at least one of your dreams and create this wonderful family. Three cheers for Isaac, that you were able to draw in and allow love into your life is a blessing.
    Stay strong Jaylena, and God bless.

  • @anniest8803
    @anniest8803 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Some of us who have been in your position suspected the issues but just didn’t have your spoken truth. Congratulations on finding your way and speaking it! That’s a difficult yet wonderful accomplishment. It’s great to see you happy & enjoying your precious baby girl. I admire you so much for how well you handled not getting down in the dirt with them. You did a great job of sharing on this video.

    • @cyndilouadkins8758
      @cyndilouadkins8758 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤❤❤❤I love just you all three of you.

  • @terajarvie4368
    @terajarvie4368 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Everything I've seen from just the time of you from when you had your van. I'm very thankful that you are still here with us and that you have shared your climb up this mountain with us.
    Your true followers that have been with you on this journey, can tell how genuine you are and how strong of a spirit you have in you.
    With or without a TH-cam you would and are an absolute astounding person. Keep that fire in you woman and stay and grow as the good woman that you are. 💞🌞🥰🌻🌈 I love how beautiful your life is turning out. We are here for you!!!! 🌞🌈🌻🥰 And I thank God has got you to where you are right now in your life, and may God continue to bless you and yours. 💞

  • @shelleymccrory-martines9906
    @shelleymccrory-martines9906 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Hi Jaylena. As you know I’ve been following you since Terrell in the camper trailer. After all you went through…You did the right thing years ago by getting out. I supported you then and still do now. Your life now with your family is the Happiest you have ever been and it shows. I am Excited to continue on yours, Isaac and Embers journey in life. Always Stay Positive and Happy.
    Much Love ❤️ from Dallas

    • @CCRider5312
      @CCRider5312 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Good comment I agree

  • @peteletko9416
    @peteletko9416 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I watched how he treated Dutch, the Sawyers, Kevin @Hidden Heights Farms. He USED THEM ! He's a case for a Couch a Psychopath ! Thank God I NEVER SENT MONEY ! Canceled them LONG AGO !

  • @susanknight8961
    @susanknight8961 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It’s been along time since I watched you. I’m so proud of you. I believe you and I’m so glad you stood up. I always had a feeling that that’s abuse was going on. It’s nice to see you happy. God bless

  • @ChickasawScot
    @ChickasawScot ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Thank you for speaking up and for apologizing to Dutch (and others)! SO many people helped Jason and he crapped all over them. I commented on Jason’s video when he sold his original OK property and talked about how he was finally happy and sorry that he hadn’t been the nicest to the OK people, that if he was truly trying to mend fences he should give some of the profits to Dutch and Bo. He talks a good game but you never see any action. Just like now when he says he’s paid Jared and everything is fine and then Jared comes back and says he’s only seen a portion of the money and doesn’t expect to see any more. YOU and Jared (and others) need to speak out about Jason and let people know the truth! Dutch, Hidden Heights, The Sawyers and others just say things like “we agree to disagree” or “we just aren’t friends” and never tell what jason is REALLY like. He needs to be exposed! I’m sure that things with Danielle will turn sour at some point and Jason will blame it on her or others just he’s done with everyone else. SOOOO glad you are out of that and happy! SO glad you didn’t have kids with him…you infertility issues, at the time, were truly a blessing from God!❤

    • @gailmaree7719
      @gailmaree7719 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Danielle is the female version of Jason. She enables him and covers for his lies.

    • @T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan
      @T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Danielle is already starting to show that things are not going well. She's physically changed so much already from the stress. She has the same look in her eyes that our Jaylena had in her's during the last yrs with Jason. So thankful Jaylena got away. Hopefully Dan will save herself too.

    • @simplycrochet1430
      @simplycrochet1430 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan 100% Agree. Danielle is not the same girl. Pray that wedding / children don’t ever happen. Jason’s parents or brothers aren’t even talking to him. He needs to stop lying about everything and airing on YT. I agree with what Jaylena said, Jason is all about YT content. So hope Danielle is up to that for years to come.

    • @margiebrown7436
      @margiebrown7436 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes, after the community thing I predicted the split between brothers, I also believe that his girlfriend will be the next and yes… he will blame it on her.

    • @Bobslady21305
      @Bobslady21305 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan
      Yes I can c a change in her n Jason is making more n more digs towards her just like he did to Jaylena but u know he’s “JK”. I would feel sorry for her except 1st cuz even after Jaylena made this video they BOTH made Jaylena look bad n I was like B*TCH u don’t even know her why r u in her business n 2nd it’s not like pple didn’t warn her. I was invited to Gratis Cosas Ranch TH-cam channel n they all call out the BS. Even blamed a member for vandalizing the rain catchment water tote instead of taking responsibility for building it poorly. The lies just never end 😞

  • @loufarbus2330
    @loufarbus2330 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Good for you sister. You have class and integrity and nothing to explain yourself for. Those of us who watched you on your original channel saw it all for ourselves. You've blossomed since you removed yourself from that toxicity and I for one applaud you for having the strength to do it.

    • @territn8871
      @territn8871 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Amen! I do too. And Jaylena is a stronger woman now. I'm so proud of her for the life she's built with a great man that loves her! And the two of them are so in love with each other that they were blessed with a beautiful baby daughter! Their love for each other gets stronger every day!

    • @bryansloesshillshomestead4523
      @bryansloesshillshomestead4523 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lou Farbus, those of us who watched the original channel have definitely seen it first hand. This girl has nothing to explain for herself as you said. I couldn't have said it any better myself. I hope she lets this pass and understands that people know with out being told as you and I both did.

    • @brenda9140
      @brenda9140 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The fact that she can talk about it if she wants, without getting bent out of shape, is a big sign that she is emotionally healing. But it is nice that you care, Bryan.

    • @carolschober8028
      @carolschober8028 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bryansloesshillshomestead4523 Very tried ❤

  • @ahernandez4216
    @ahernandez4216 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    We got you girl!! Stay strong and true to yourself.
    Your integrity speaks volumes.

  • @sharivanpelt5188
    @sharivanpelt5188 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I wondered how long it would take to get to you. I'm so proud of you for getting away from him when you did!

  • @SonomaMom2
    @SonomaMom2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    And one more thing Jaylena….DO NOT walk away from that property unless you get a portion of the proceeds. He needs to PAY you for your equity! He is trying to take what’s yours. He owes you, big time! Stand firm for your family!

    • @jgarcia7092
      @jgarcia7092 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I agree a thousand percent jaylena don't let them steal more from you than they already have. Even if you take that money and just put it in a savings for Ember's future. Or donate it to a battered women's shelter. Make them pay🤑🤑🤑

    • @GoodStuffForeverMore
      @GoodStuffForeverMore ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Totally agree! Get what you were owed Jaylena.

    • @crystalQHHT
      @crystalQHHT ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree with this!!!

    • @jgarcia7092
      @jgarcia7092 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@chava2421 did you listen to the video she thought there was a hope of reconciliation. Because he played her like a fiddle. And it wasn't about money considering she signed away everything on her divorce. She left with nothing. Go to the ex's channel and ask him why he didn't just pay for a divorce lawyer oh wait it's because HE did it himself cuz he thought he knew everything. Well it turns out he didn't know and it's his fault that she needs to sign. And if you would listen HE told her she didn't need her to sign and she was okay with it she said fine go do it yourself. He was the one that offered her a low ball amount. Because he knew 1. she needs to sign it. And 2. he knows she is entitled to some money. And if he's offering her three or five grand your darn straight it's a lot more than that. It's pretty obvious he's trying to swindle her out of money she's rightfully due.

    • @SonomaMom2
      @SonomaMom2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@chava2421 She went back because he asked her too…. After Melissa left him. Remember?

  • @12Daze
    @12Daze ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I unsubbed from that channel a long time ago. I was interested in the building aspect of it. But the dude literally talks nonstop (a clear sign of a narcissist). Like, I'm here for the cool projects.. I don't want to hear about all this shit that has nothing to do with what's going on in the video. That high school chatter mentality over-weighed the actual content. So, I peaced out and never looked back lol.

  • @catieandthebopeeps
    @catieandthebopeeps ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Much love Jaylena! ❤ Your vibration is just so high and so beautiful - I’m so glad you were able to escape a toxic environment.

  • @AR-dm7ze
    @AR-dm7ze ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Jaylena, I went through exactly what you described here and reacted to it the very same way that you did (trying to make it work and same attitude about divorce etc.). I even learned something about myself from listening to your message. Smile, breathe, love and continue to heal. I listen to videos on healing from a toxic marriage. He passed away since we split and it doesn't bring the healing that you would think it might. I stay alone (no relationship) because The Peace and my health are so valuable. I'm so happy that you found your new way and happiness. Continue to smile more every day and be blessed.

    • @connierifenburg9758
      @connierifenburg9758 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A R See my post, it is like your story and Jaylena’s story. I reacted like you and she has by staying away from toxic people. I never remarried (married @18 divorced at 21) and I remain alone now at 71. I hope your story ends more like Jaylena’s.

  • @LindaLesto
    @LindaLesto ปีที่แล้ว +119

    You never need to explain yourself Jaylena, I am soooo sorry they are putting you through this- you are strong and beautiful and such an incredible Mother- I admire you and Issac and all you are accomplishing - I also admire that you are apologizing to the people who may have been hurt while you were with this POS- I think you are a wonderful TH-camr because you are genuine, loving, brave and honest ❤

  • @picadilly3184
    @picadilly3184 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have felt for some time that Jason is a big loser who never finishes anything that he starts. I don't expect him and Danielle to last. It's already starting to fall apart. I think she will see what Jason is soon. I like Jerod a little better than his brother, but he is a little arrogant toward his viewers. You seem like a nice girl. I hope you have a happy life moving forward.

  • @katefinnegan8129
    @katefinnegan8129 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wow Jaylena. I didn’t know you went through all of that. I’m sure what you said was only the tip of the iceberg. Stay strong girl. You have a great man now. Keep loving your little family and don’t look back. You deserve nothing but the best in life. I’ll keep you in my prayers.

  • @mamabearchristine
    @mamabearchristine ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I'm proud of you for making this video!❤️ I will always support you and I'm happy for you and your family.

  • @pannis72
    @pannis72 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself. Things happen for a reason and God sent Issac to you. You deserve the BEST Jaylena❤

  • @darlenemiller6856
    @darlenemiller6856 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    I have been watching you since you were with Jason. I quit watching him when you left. I disliked the way you were treated by them. It was really obvious that it was a toxic situation for you. Leaving was the best thing you could have done for you.
    I have watched you grow and become stronger since you moved to Oregon. I love watching you, Isaac, and Ember. You are a beautiful, strong, hard working person. Keep up what you are doing. ❤

    • @caroldalrymple6421
      @caroldalrymple6421 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That's when I stopped watching too. I only watch Jaylena

    • @debbietorres9661
      @debbietorres9661 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Me, too! He was very cruel by what he said on the video about your leaving and his brother crossed the line by attacking each and every comment that were truthful about how mean he was. Both brothers acted horribly. My opinion is they only acted better to fool people into supporting their videos. You have moved on and have a better life and there is no valid reason for them to ever mention you again.

    • @mollydolly869
      @mollydolly869 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Darlene…you saved me a lot of typing. Was gonna say the same thing. Unsubbed those guys before the divorce because I saw how Jaylena was treated. Love seeing her blessed with a family, growth, and strength.

    • @catherinegrace2366
      @catherinegrace2366 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ✋🏻 Same! I’m throwing my name in this as well.

    • @jeanmariesayre1378
      @jeanmariesayre1378 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Toxic is the right term and you go girl you chose the high road and it looks good on you

  • @melonie9605
    @melonie9605 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    You don't owe him any favors. You don't owe your subscribers an explanation either. You've held your head high through all of this, and haven't stooped to their level. But be proud that you've said your peace and stood up for yourself, and have moved on. ❤️

  • @pkfam6275
    @pkfam6275 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Jaylena Honey, I am an old lady (65ish). You are an amazing young lady. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE NEVER SIGN THOSE PAPERS!
    I really messed up with my ex. (Lost $500,000) because he threatened me with all kinds of things. So I did . I have regretted it every day. Please don't give him any help acquiring ya'lls property. It's NOT his it belongs to you as well as him. Don't give him what YOUR children are a part of. (because of you) . Hang in there Sweetheart. You got this. I support you just as I would my own daughter.🤗

  • @HughMadBro
    @HughMadBro ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Praying for you & your family ❤️ Ember is your greatest blessing! Idk why they keep dragging you into their stuff, you've moved on long ago & walked away with grace. Live your truth baby girl, you got this :D
    & we got you, Ember & Issac regardless!
    & I want to edit in for those of you just viewing & not commenting because these comments are watched & you may be here to watch, look at whom the common denominator is 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @wendyjo9267
    @wendyjo9267 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    So proud of and happy for you! I found you thru the other channel. I stopped watching when you left because I could see what he was. I was married to someone like that for over 20 years. The damage caused is incredibly painful. Love that you’re healing and putting yourself first such a strong woman you are!❤.

  • @paula...sister1of12
    @paula...sister1of12 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Wow this brought tears to my eyes. Anyone that has been through this knows what you are talking about. They make you feel worthless. I knew when I watched you back then that you were emotionally abused. I lived it or twenty years. I am so happy you have moved on and have Issac and Ember. God bless and always stand up for yourself even when other people don’t like it.

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯 I noticed the little things as well. I’ve been there. What I didn’t notice in the beginning of my last relationship I know notice instantly.

  • @SamanthaROlmsted
    @SamanthaROlmsted ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Ugh I can’t believe you are still having to deal with this so many years later! I’m so happy to have met you and to call you such a good friend! ❤ I’ve watched you grow and move on so beautifully and build such a wonderful life that is something to be truly proud of ❤

    • @LeaveHerWild
      @LeaveHerWild  ปีที่แล้ว +54

      You came into my life at such a pivotal time and I don’t think that was a coincidence. So grateful for our friendship ❤️

    • @peggsargent132
      @peggsargent132 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Amen

    • @chengcalaycay5054
      @chengcalaycay5054 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Huge respect for the friendship you and Jaylena have. I love you guys. ❤️🙏

    • @simplymeconnie4003
      @simplymeconnie4003 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I know why. Jaylena is truly happy, a Mom, living her best life. Narcissists don't like people being happy.

    • @usagirl4188
      @usagirl4188 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      A BIG AMEN

  • @debraholmes-swearinger2447
    @debraholmes-swearinger2447 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Good for you Jaylena, it's great to see you stick up for yourself. You do have to get to the point of protecting yourself. Many of us just went along with those narcissistic ex's to just get by. Bullying has to be stopped. Unanswered prayers are Gods way of protecting us. Have a wonderful life with Issac and Ember and teach her from a young age to always avoid people like that.

  • @shirleygibson3272
    @shirleygibson3272 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Much love and respect for you,so proud of you for standing up for yourself. You’re a beautiful person inside and out. Big hugs my friend. ❤😊

  • @charlotteb6808
    @charlotteb6808 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Stand tall Jaylena! Wonderfully said about the past and how you are healing from it. Stay close and keep building what you have with Issac and Ember you are heading into a wonderful life filled with love and adventure. Just what you were made for! Stay strong

  • @jeannettaboyden2298
    @jeannettaboyden2298 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Jaylena.... I am so proud of you. When you went to Oklahoma just before buying the van.... I wrote a scathing comment in great detail about Jason. I so admired your willingness to take the high road during that time. I've literally watched you re-create a new life for yourself and I love what has happened because of it. You have ever right to be proud of yourself for purging such pain from the life you had with Jason. It has been obvious that both he and Jared have seriously unhealed wounds that they project their pain on others. I hope this is Jared's and Danielle's wake up call to do as you have done.

  • @mountainsage02
    @mountainsage02 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I felt really bad for Melissa. Supposedly he paid her to come work for him. He exploited her. Pretty sure he convinced her to be videoed in her bathing suit. I mean he was behind the camera. He controls everything. She outworked him. She decided to stop going to his property - for whatever reason. She was too classy to disclose. He was furious and set his followers on that poor woman. Even to the point of calling her out for the bathing suit shots. IT WAS HIS IDEA. He is repulsive. And Jared is a piece of work too. Belching, farting, swearing, talking horrible to ppl. Its no wonder there is no woman in his life. I hope Danielle is protecting herself financially Jason is an opportunist. All the crap he has built - all the money he has spent on materials could have gone into one good house. His builds are just for views. His latest house is just weird.Tiny houses are supposed to be about clever solutions for storage. His lacks that. Meanwhile he lives comfortably in Danielle's nice house. I hope she doesnt sell it for him.

  • @kimcharper9153
    @kimcharper9153 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's a soul-shattering experience: falling for a narcissist. I'm very proud of you for getting out of it alive! ❣️
    The following quote from Edmund Burke has made me voice for myself as well as others. I hope you enjoy it...
    "The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing."
    You DID something about it. You are my hero today, darlin'. 😍🤩😍

  • @ilenepayne
    @ilenepayne ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Yes Girl! Speak out LOUD AND PROUD. You have come a long way. The strong mama bear that you are. You are on a greater journey way past that drama. More blessings and love to you and your beautiful family! 🫶🏽💜🫶🏽

  • @aprilcoulter-latorre6913
    @aprilcoulter-latorre6913 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    YOU are a Queen. I saw Jason’s video before yours and he’s an expert narcissistic. Isn’t it amazing and wonderful where you are in your life now! Girl, you’ve got this! Love is on every point of your star! Shine and shine and shine! ❤

    • @Arthur-vv8th
      @Arthur-vv8th ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry queens don't raise children in a bus on welfare, because their unemployable.

  • @sandylea6159
    @sandylea6159 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    So glad you're on your way back, Isaac and Levi have been outta control haha 😂...kidding, they've been cracking us up lol ...safe travels for you and Ember 🙏💕😉

  • @markholmes1346
    @markholmes1346 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I remember when you were in that place! You look so much better and you are shining now, I’m happy for you and your family! ✌🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @DavidSSmith-bk6vv
    @DavidSSmith-bk6vv ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you for making this video, it explains so much and I have been a fan of both channels since you were in Texas and when Jason first went to Oklahoma. Glad to know your doing well and this channel proves you do have what it takes to make it. Best Wishes to you and yours.

    • @bendaves77
      @bendaves77 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wouldn't watch another one of Jason's videos ever. Doing so your giving money to a pos

  • @CustomPortraitArtist
    @CustomPortraitArtist ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Jaylena, thank you for posting this! ❤ I’m so glad to hear your truth! You go girl! You’re right about the common denominator. The list of people he has offended, abused and defamed is long! Thank you for being a voice of truth. The list needs to stop!

    • @mszbdog1
      @mszbdog1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree. They make me SICK!!!
      I believe they completely screwed over Dutch.

    • @bebs428dlj9
      @bebs428dlj9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Her “truth” operative word

    • @CustomPortraitArtist
      @CustomPortraitArtist ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@bebs428dlj9 history proves a lot about him and jaylena’s ‘truth’ is proven to be more of the truth then his story or bubbas story. That family is severely deranged!

    • @CustomPortraitArtist
      @CustomPortraitArtist ปีที่แล้ว +16

      FYI - I was the person that ruffled his feathers telling him he’s an ‘I’ Guy. This makes me chuckle that it apparently bothered him soooo much because he made a video about me calling him out as an ‘I’ Guy…. He knows it’s the truth and that hurts him.

    • @catherinegrace2366
      @catherinegrace2366 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CustomPortraitArtist he’s a bozo. I’m glad you got under his skin. 😂

  • @thruanaquarianseyes8187
    @thruanaquarianseyes8187 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Healing is allowing the tears to fall as the memory energies are purged out. By the end I saw your eyes Sparkle you released a big load by saying and standing in your TRUTHS. Bless you Jalena and your beautiful family you and Isaac have created. LEAVE HER WILD. Live Long and Prosper
    From Australia 💛💜💙💚💛🧡❤️

    • @lesleyhughes3174
      @lesleyhughes3174 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      From another Aquarian, absolutely 👍💫

  • @brendahaire8824
    @brendahaire8824 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Glad that you have a peace of mind now and you have a beautiful little family

  • @jrreed3360
    @jrreed3360 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I wish I could give this video 1,000,000,000 thumbs up! Hats off to you. hopefully he has changed for his new relationship but as a father of three daughters I don't think guys like that change. Glad you made it out and been so blessed with Isaac an the BABY GIRL!

  • @legaleagle308
    @legaleagle308 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I know this was made months ago, and I’m saying something now anyway. I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself. I noticed in videos from the Texas property of his family’s that you worked on together, that I didn’t feel like things were okay. You’re just confirming what I thought way back then. The shaming is another form of control, and that’s what’s not okay no matter what. You obviously have enough supporter’s who have your back, and I’m so glad to see that. I have loved seeing yours and Isaac’s relationship grow, and as I try to catch up with you, I look forward to seeing that relationship grow more. I love Isaac’s positive and chill personality. I wish when I was a lot younger that I could’ve found that in someone. You’re so blessed to have that now. I love your channel, and I can’t wait to catch up. Much love from Nevada. 💕

  • @deborahmitchell6387
    @deborahmitchell6387 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    You were def in an abusive relationship. So glad you got away!❤

  • @genevievegreene1595
    @genevievegreene1595 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Good for you standing up and speaking up for yourself.
    I don't watch any of their videos either.
    None of that mud can ever stick to you no matter how hard they drag.
    Have a safe trip back to Oregon and Isaac. He will think Ember has got so big that he wants to go along on the next trip.

  • @debrafelix4419
    @debrafelix4419 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Jaylena I'm proud of you your a lot happier God bless you always and safe travels 🙏❤️🥰🥰🥰

  • @colleenrumsey9348
    @colleenrumsey9348 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I quit watching them because I could see that they had to many problems with other you tubers. And I believe it was Jason running other people down. Not the other way around. I'm glad you are speaking up and confirming my thoughts on this matter. Thank you.

  • @cinandrews
    @cinandrews ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Get a lawyer, settle the property, cut that last tie, and never look back. I have been with you all from the beginning. I watched you break free and start to heal and have a wonderful family. Keep on moving forward girl. You are strong. You are beautiful. You are smart. You are empowered.❤️

    • @darlaballenger2357
      @darlaballenger2357 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ❤️❤️❤️ 💪💪💪 keep healing but do cut that last tie.

    • @Sessionsjc
      @Sessionsjc ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agree. The fact that he's willing to pay her makes me think he's trying to trick her into signing property rights away. I'd lawyer up and have them review the divorce settlement around the property ownership and sale.

    • @jgjg3848
      @jgjg3848 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Sessionsjc Yep, offering $5k to not have to drive to Texas? I smell a fraudulent liar.

    • @hattiebailey9464
      @hattiebailey9464 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, you are smart,!!!

  • @DREWSLENS
    @DREWSLENS ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Glad you got it off your chest sorry your still being drug through the mud 😕 We know who you really are Jaylena 💚

    • @TundraJason
      @TundraJason ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Glad I said what I said, when I said it.

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She's an amazing mother, fiancé & friend 🤷🏼‍♀️😂 Can't nobody say any less.

    • @CCRider5312
      @CCRider5312 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Amen 🙏🏻 to that.

    • @RobertasArtisticAdventures
      @RobertasArtisticAdventures ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truth! Glad Jaylena has your support!

  • @donnavanfossen7146
    @donnavanfossen7146 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Watched your video and both the Crockers. Thank you for your grace and truth. So happy you have come through the storm and found yourself. Never give up. You have given me the strength to make changes in my own situation. God Bless you and yours.

  • @laurieg673
    @laurieg673 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Well that was an accurate portrayal of living with a dysfunctional ADHD/personality disordered spouse & family.
    Been there girl. I'm glad you finally cleared the air. I hope it's been therapeutic for you to release that.
    I personally think the narcissism starts at the top and the boys mimic dad's behavior. They all have ADHD/ADD and have unhealthy bonds leading to everyone looking like narcissists.
    I'll pray for you because I know what you're working through. The trauma is real.

    • @debbietorres9661
      @debbietorres9661 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree.

    • @catherinegrace2366
      @catherinegrace2366 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don’t know the parents very well but their sons were obviously abusive to Jaylena and they were so involved, they should have been able to be a better and stronger influence. I was mad at them.

    • @lindamaskus5142
      @lindamaskus5142 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@catherinegrace2366 they took up for the son's regardless of anything the boys did.....still do! Ughhh

    • @Patty747
      @Patty747 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not all people with ADHD/ADD are narcissistic and unfeeling like these boys are. My 3 children all have some form of it and are caring human beings. I believe we had it in our own childhoods as well. It's how they are raised. I had a very loving mom, although my dad worked a lot he was very fair with us. We were not abused and raised well adjusted children of our own. Did we have it harder growing up than others, absolutely! But that didn't make us mean or foul mouthed like these two seem to be.

    • @laurieg673
      @laurieg673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Patty747 you are correct however ADHD/ADD do have traits that SEEM narcissistic. I don't think any of the Crockers are narcissistic. I think they all have varying degrees of ADHD which is why they are hot headed, verbally abusive, critical, hard to communicate with, etc..
      These boys were not raised with the awareness of what was going on in their heads and they weren't taught how to control their emotions, or taught how to communicate effectively when they are filled with negative feelings.
      As you said, there are varying degrees and it's obvious these guys have issues controlling their mouths when annoyed.
      ADHD is no excuse for bad behavior but it doesn't get better if they aren't aware that is why they have so much drama.
      They all have accepted "this is how I am" because they haven't been confronted by those that should be confronting them about how they treat people, especially women.

  • @louisianacherokee5949
    @louisianacherokee5949 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When you left the final time I unsubscribed from his and Jared’s channel, I can’t take his winning voice.

  • @davetate2932
    @davetate2932 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So proud of you for finally stepping up to show the truth and that you were not the blame GOD BLESS YOU GIRL

  • @lainebajanie
    @lainebajanie ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Good thing you got away from all that! I could tell back then you were in a bad place there especially during the "ranch rescue". So happy for you and your new life and that sweet baby!❤🥰

  • @julih2674
    @julih2674 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I watched long before the ranch. I saw a change in your eyes there. Like you were smothering. The morning journal you tried, the little decorations… Saw it all taken over. Then, followed your journey, remodels, art - your van travels… to Issac and now Ember. Sweetie, you have become an amazing woman, mother … so proud. You keep takin the high road, you’ll be good. I will soon be 70 been thru a lot. Proud of you.

    • @Arthur-vv8th
      @Arthur-vv8th ปีที่แล้ว

      Really 70 and you are going to praise a child raising a child in a bus on welfare.

    • @julih2674
      @julih2674 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Arthur-vv8th Yes. I prefer to see good in people who try to better their situation and not be bitter and judgmental.

  • @cmrpeach3470
    @cmrpeach3470 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Texas property:
    It should be sold & split 3 ways.
    Period. The 3 of you contributed to it.
    One of the conditions of that settlement should be that there's an ND agreement & Jaylena should be free of any further slander /blackmail, etc from that entire family.
    Let the Crockers destroy themselves if they choose.

    • @QueenAyeee
      @QueenAyeee ปีที่แล้ว

      Also get a life time restraining order. That BASTARD!

  • @garypollard9770
    @garypollard9770 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You need to stand up for yourself! Anyone that knows how to read people know what Jason is. So sorry you had to put up with this crap for so long. One day he will get what is coming to him.

  • @myrnaedmisten599
    @myrnaedmisten599 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Oh Jaylena, After this telling of your story I hope you can turn completely toward your wonderful new life with Isaac and Baby Ember and let all this sickness reap its rewards. I think you are very brave. You have a wisdom that only comes through living through hard things and I do hope this will be the end of giving that any headspace. Blessings on you. ❤️

  • @RealTalkwithSLR
    @RealTalkwithSLR ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Sending You Nothin but Love from all of us on the 41.36 Jay.
    Youre one of the strongest women I know, you have always been. Have a beautiful day sweetness.

  • @SSrominRuby
    @SSrominRuby ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have watched you for a long time. So glad you are finally standing up for yourself. ❤️❤️

  • @dianapollex3266
    @dianapollex3266 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In my opinion, and the reason I stopped watching his channel, is because he was/is cocky.. Couldn't stand him!!

  • @alisonarrowsmith2064
    @alisonarrowsmith2064 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im still in shock about Jared calling you horrific things in front of Jason and the family and apparently did it to Danielle too. You kind of acted like that was not a big deal. It really sounds like he is as bad as Jason. The mask only stays up for so long with eqch of them before they show who they really are

  • @ruthfore8249
    @ruthfore8249 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am so very proud of you for all standing up for yourself!!!! You know what I think of you!! You are my sweet girl ❤️ I cried with you but am so happy you answered to the accusations!!!

  • @elenalemanski155
    @elenalemanski155 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    For you to finally speak your truth makes me so happy! The day you finally left him I was praising you behind the scenes.
    You have grown so much and you and Isaac are meant to be! He’s a great guy and you made a beautiful little girl from this blessing! ❤️

  • @sinbads.4189
    @sinbads.4189 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Oh, Jaylena! I just can't help but see with every video you share what a grand door the good Lord opened for you. You have Issac and Ember and the freedom to do anything your heart desires. Talk about blessings, galore 🙂 I think God did indeed answer your prayers. He knew then and knows now what is best for you. God bless you ☺️

  • @katherineking1361
    @katherineking1361 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The smartest thing you did was too leave. When I began watching the Crockers, it was to see the building of a "homestead", not drama. What I saw when you appeared on the videos, was an intimidated young woman. I'm good at body language and I just couldn't understand why you were treated so badly....never a word of praise or encouragement? . When the bad mouthing about Dutch started, I'd had it.. I don't tolerate bad manners, ego's and selfishness to well. I unsubscribed.
    I think Jared is berated by both his brother and the girlfriend. They don't seem to realize they can be heard talking in the background. I do watch Jared's videos because I see a sensitive, young, hard working person and i liked the work he did on the "shed to house" (unlike some that dont finish what they start). I wasn't surprised to find out he left Oklahoma. Sooner or later people's personalities come through. Whether it's negative or positive will determine who will stand by them. There's the biblical quote: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." With that said, I wish you all the best. You seem to have found a good relationship and your beautiful little girl....oh my! Learn from the past and go forward. May you stay safe, healthy and happy....God bless.

  • @jent1437
    @jent1437 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I used to watch you on that channel and omg the difference in you now, you seem alive, your eyes are shining and the smile u have now is just fantastic, please don’t sign anything without an attorney, but please get what you deserve, don’t let him take anything else from you like he did for years, now is the time to stand up to this bully, much love to u and your little family from uk 🇬🇧

    • @justLori530
      @justLori530 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I 100% agree Jen T .

  • @Dlcltv817
    @Dlcltv817 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Much love Jaylena. I’m so glad you are out of that toxic relationship and were able to find someone as caring as Issac. Put your ex in the pass and live the beautiful life you deserve. Hugs to both you and Ember.

  • @sharonc.cooper9367
    @sharonc.cooper9367 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm very proud of you Jaylena and you have such a better life now. Stay strong girl.

  • @joancorbett9625
    @joancorbett9625 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You should be really proud of yourself for speaking out about what you went through jaylena, no one has the right to put you down or speak to you like that , your a beautiful young woman with a much better life ahead of you and a beautiful family to keep you smiling and happy ❤

  • @reneegriffith2375
    @reneegriffith2375 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I am so glad you shed some light on this. I couldn't imagine that you would not sign papers. I have followed you since you created your own channel. I wondered how long it would have gone on before another bomb exploded, and boy did it. Let them fix their problems if they can. I am glad you got out of it and of course took care of you to get where you are today. I love watching little Ember and watching her grow.

  • @catherinegrace2366
    @catherinegrace2366 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jason absolutely needs Jaylena to sign those papers. I listened to the video and Jason can not get the property without Jaylena signing. Jared won’t leave the Oklahoma property for less than $150K and Jason wants him OFF. The whole family is mad. Jason could and SHOULD pay Jaylena $45K. He offered Jared $45K to LEAVE. 😂 Now Jason is saying he will just walk away from the Ok. property. He will lose his shirt if he doesn’t get nice and work with Jaylena. Whoopsy! Jason didn’t think that far ahead.

  • @bannergirl8666
    @bannergirl8666 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m so happy for you that you’ve got a good life now ! Not to mention a beautiful baby !! ❤️

  • @rose77778888
    @rose77778888 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh Honey! I wish I could just hug you and pray over you!
    I remember being happy that you escaped from him in the van. I haven't watched any Crocker's since then.

  • @retrieversrock8797
    @retrieversrock8797 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You rock the free world! Life lessons are so hard but you do come out the other side. Put the lesson in your tool box and that is how you become wiser as you get older. Here is my favorite quote for you, "There’s a reason the rear view mirror is so small and the windshield is so large. Where you’re headed is more important than where you’ve been." 💗💗💗 Much love....

  • @randamcfadden2020
    @randamcfadden2020 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Please don’t delete this video. Jason, Jared and Matt have taken their videos down dealing with all their recent problems. Stay strong.

    • @jennifermckeen7422
      @jennifermckeen7422 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes they have. I saw on fb Jared made a post that he has paid Jared to move off his and Danielle’s ranch. Disgusting

  • @rebeccapettifer6553
    @rebeccapettifer6553 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jaylenea I know this is late to the table but just want you to know I quit watching all of them some time ago. I could see the truth in you and they... I don't even know how to describe it but it seemed there was so much angst with them and I couldn't go the distance with them. Too much fighting all the time. I love your baby and your Isaac! Keep on doing what you're doing. You are going to come out all right.

  • @CCRider5312
    @CCRider5312 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    SO GLAD YOU’RE LONG OUT OF ALL THAT DRAMA JAYLENA!!!! Your life has become so much better and I’m proud of you to have a strong backbone to get out. This allowed you to give your heart peace & solidarity!!! I’m happy for your life now! Proud of U
    😁👍

    • @AussieWife3746
      @AussieWife3746 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@mrsgennyann she’s not demanding money, LISTEN!!! She’s told him multiple times, go to Texas and show the divorce papers.

    • @AussieWife3746
      @AussieWife3746 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Jaylena: I would demand they PUBLICLY admit they verbally abused you and then you’ll sign the papers.

    • @CCRider5312
      @CCRider5312 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@mrsgennyann no she didn’t put herself back into it either they made a video talking about her Not signing the papers on some land in Texas. Which is nobody’s business and they should not have even brought her up in their drama with Their own family! So therefore she’s justified in setting the record straight!!!!

    • @CCRider5312
      @CCRider5312 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@KenJ-61 she’s not lying !!!

    • @alisonscurr4395
      @alisonscurr4395 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@KenJ-61 Did you watch this? If you did you would know you are wrong.

  • @carolinagirl3896
    @carolinagirl3896 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    So proud of you for taking a stand. Don’t worry about what they say about you we all know who you are. You’re a beautiful person inside and out, and a wonderful mom to Ember. You and Isaac have a great relationship so concentrate on your love for each other and move forward. People like the Crokers will never change , it’s sad but true. Love you Jaylena, keep doing what you’re doing. ❤❤❤

  • @MimiMcWil
    @MimiMcWil ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Jaylena, I have so much respect for you. You came through that and made it!! I started seeing Jason for what he is quite some time before you left the ranch. You hit the nail on the head when you said they end up having drama with about everybody they have anything to do with. Imo the entire family as a whole are narcissists. I never understood the family dynamics of the C family. They all bow to Jason and I just don’t understand where that comes from. The truth is I don’t need to understand it, I realized that by the time I finished watching one of their videos I was stressed every time so nope I quit that! Narcissists can show empathy, it’s psychopaths that cannot show empathy. I truly believe the whole family is afflicted with it. Anyway, good for you for having the grace to handle this like the well-rounded adult you are. From where I’m standing you’re much better off now! You have a lovely family and you deserve that happiness! As far as the papers…imho a simple trip to Texas doesn’t cost anywhere near $5000. Something is not right about that deal!! I think you’re 100% right to stand up for yourself!! You’re not wrong for making him deal with his own bad judgement! Anyway, thanks for sharing what really happened, that clarifies things for people who aren’t paying attention! Much love for you and your family! You have my respect!

    • @Arthur-vv8th
      @Arthur-vv8th ปีที่แล้ว

      Losers respect Losers! All you tubers are social welfare users. Raising a baby in a bus while you condemn others is rich.

    • @robineast6446
      @robineast6446 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why was my comment blocked?

    • @jandavis2494
      @jandavis2494 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MimiMcWil Your whole post is rude. You don’t personally know any of these people. Stop diagnosing them. All these youtubers are putting their lives on display. Do you know any of them past their little videos?? I doubt it. To me they all have narcissistic tendencies.

  • @DavidJones-hl5om
    @DavidJones-hl5om ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jaylena you took the Hard road to get to the Beautiful road Issac.Your life will be Beautiful from here on.
    God Bless you and your Family

  • @julieyoung1706
    @julieyoung1706 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have unsubscribed to all of Jason's and Danielle's channels. I have never seem two so Very very immature people in my life. I do like the Jared i see on TH-cam I'll keep watching him if he ever films again since Jason and her put everything out there
    How embarrassing and cruel. I think Jason is the problem myself he doesn't get along with to many people and from the sounds of it lost his family because he's just a mean, hateful, cruel bully of a person.

  • @Lindsay-uo2rp
    @Lindsay-uo2rp ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Amen sister! Thank god for unanswered prayers!!!!!! And thank god for the van and you finding friend for life Amanda Olmsted on that random Florida trip!!!!!! Love the woman and mom you have become! Excited for you to never mention them again and for the future adventures with a real man Isaac and your baby girl Ember! Keep growing Jaylena success is the best revenge!!!!!!! You already won our hearts!

  • @dianesisneros8811
    @dianesisneros8811 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Love you Jaylena. Praying for complete healing in your life.

  • @bossgrandma3487
    @bossgrandma3487 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    yea for you!! As a very old lady who has been around that corner a few times I know what you are speaking about and you are a wonderful mom and you are healing. What you are doing right now, speaking out, It is important for your well being . Much respect sister.

    • @ruthfore8249
      @ruthfore8249 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen, good vibes!! Bless you boss Grammy

    • @donnalutheran6335
      @donnalutheran6335 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a grandma too . The good Lord spared me from some of the hurts she is going through. I'd like to get my arms around her and give her a great big grandma hug.

  • @juniperwildflowers
    @juniperwildflowers ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Never blame yourself for someone else's behavior, especially when you were stuck in an abusive situation. This sounds exactly like what my own family did to me. I wish I could go back and stop them, but the truth is, we did the best we could with what we knew and what we had at the time. It's so wonderful you got out and I hope you get nothing but peace from now on!

  • @tnt6715
    @tnt6715 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I unsubcribed from all of their content after their last drama! His gf better take heed - and move on. God bless you!

  • @infotoons212
    @infotoons212 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You probably know this already but PLEASE don't sign anything without going to a lawyer first.
    Anyone offering you thousands of dollars to sign something that they "don't need you to sign" is lying. It sounds like he's on the hook for a lot more should you decide to take legal action. Besides the divorce it sounds like you also have a cut-and-dry defamation case with evidence of financial loss.
    I don't know your backstory but I know you got a guy in Oregon that can't wait to see his girls again. Safe travels.

    • @bernapadilla7716
      @bernapadilla7716 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dont sign with out legal advice

    • @parriseingram4065
      @parriseingram4065 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes get a lawyer get what belongs to you for Ember!