Wait, so his daughter was in on it? "Wife and daughter go on girls' trip". That cover story would have fallen apart immediately unless the daughter was helping with the alibi.
@@zlozlozlo - it sounds like mother-daughter went on the trip, but mother left daughter with a friend so mother could be with Chad. it seems plausible. and daughter at 14 may not have the awareness.
@@danielk.english6004 Daughter is 14 and would have to be special to not have awareness. Average girl knows this before she turns 10. It won't add up either with dad asking 'how was your girls trip' and mom wasn't around for most/all of it.
For people going "He married a 16 year old" 1. Its legally allowed in some states with parental permission on both ends. A few states you don't even need parental permission either. 2. You just excused her cheating, thats what you just did and thats the real problem.
it’s not to excuse, it’s to point out that it was doomed from the start. legal or no, you really think a 16 year old possesses the life experience and understanding enough to engage in a lifelong commitment? get outta here.
@jonahclark859 yeah but she wasn't 16 when she cheated, you don't stop maturing once you get married and once again you just defended her cheating by trying to give her an out.
@@Literallyryangosling777Never walk in the hood w headphones on "Pessimist baby! Just bc things are likely to happen doesn't mean you're justified in avoiding it! Bigot"
@Literallyryangosling777 Marriage is still protected in some cultures, the goal of any sane man is to integrate into those instead of staying in the circus.
@Literallyryangosling777 Our legal system is built to incentivise divorce. We are signing a contract where the other party gets rewarded for breaking it. It's not "always give up", it's "refuse to play a rigged game".
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If chad knew he was dating a married woman he should be punished but if he didn't know then punish wife divorce her take full custody of your daughter there is enough evidance to support you
"hospital won't treat her because guardian isn't there to authorise it" Even the narrator paused in confusion because nobody thinks that's how it works Edit:Ok yeah the HoI4 difficulty mentions just hammered my point even further
This is why i preferred to adopt a kid from orphanage or something. In my younger days, I have experienced to take care of my nephews and nieces, it feels nice to be a dad. But to be responsible for a woman? I already had a fair share of trust issues on that, so no. Kids never betray me, their behaviors follow the examples of you and the environment. I simply need to keep track of their activities and make sure they grow up to be proper humans. But taking care of an adult who already has her own personality and tendency? Yeah that'll be harder, like painting an already painted canvas.
Kids can betray too. It's actually quite common in stepdad scenarios, where the bio dad who hasn't done a damn for them shows up and they show more loyalty to him than the guy who raised them for 10+ years. As the saying goes blood is thicker than water. Even in this situation chances are his daughter knew what was going on or suspected.
Hey, i'm really sorry that you ended up with someone you had to take care of instead of it being an equal relationship where you both support each other
Not a fun situation, but you gotta stand up for yourself. Divorce the wife, and if the daughter was also in on it, then don’t fund her private school and disown her. This isn’t a family worth busting your hump for. People these days mistake kindness for weakness, and it should be at their own peril.
@ You’re right, you don’t abandon your family. But these people aren’t his family. Family is a dynamic, not a title. The family dynamic doesn’t include cheating and lying.
@@steven1671 It's still not right to disown the daughter, no matter what. I'd understand if a woman would divorce her husband or vice versa, but not disowning their own child.
@Loterrach So what you’re saying is that there should be no consequences for the daughter lying, about this? He should pay for her school anyways? Idk man, the lack of respect shouldn’t be tolerated, even from your own kids.
@@steven1671 It's your kid, love for your kid is unconditional, no matter if a child is a serial killer, 🍇-ist, promiscuous or whatever. Who cares about the wife? A child isn't someone you can just throw away, someone who you've fed since their birth. You've probably never had a child to understand that.
I've seen some videos of dudes saying "I can't even be mad at you because you didn't even know." But considering how much women talk, there's a chance she told him and he participated anyway.
If you're not a complete douchenozzle, you should be able to detect quite early on if a woman is already seeing someone, especially if she's full-blown married with a kid. Just need to have some damn standards.
Especially if one partner (the male 90% of the time) is paying all the bills. That's just fraud, and at the very least should be punishable as a financial crime
@comebackqing8452 Nah, I don't care about the finances as long as the guy gets 90% of all the shared assets, including the house. What I care about is that cheating itself is a violation against humanity. It rips innocent people's souls in two. Many of them never heal from it for the rest of their lives. Law exists to protect humanity from harm. Cheating causes massive amounts of harm. Cheating should be illegal. There is zero cases where cheating should be acceptable.
This kind of thing is why sometimes dudes just go and waste the cheating wife and/or the other guy. If I was this guy, I would get a DNA test. That daughter might not even be his. Poor guy, his whole life was a lie. Divorce divorce divorce divorce.
Chad's not the one who screwed you over Anon that's the woman who is using both of you, doesn't care enough about you to stay loyal, doesn't care about Chad enough to go with him. She's the bad one, everyone in this story was hurt by this hole and he's out here insulting the moron who thinks she's happily with him for sex.
That's why never marry. Women simply do not care about you, there is legally no punishment to them whatsoever for cheating, AND they get to cry with the shit like "female rights" in the 21st century, where literally any girl can get you JAILED for simpy looking at her. Marrying a woman is a waste of time and money with no guarantees.
This is an old story that has been reworked into this format. The other versions are more like the regular story mode. Daughter had no clue of the affair. Mom's friend did. He divorces her.
revenge now also cut contact with daughter if she knew also you can easily sue her and win, you saved lives while she ruins them also the friend isnt sorry they kept this
Age gap shaming makes zero sense if you know anything about brain development lol A 16 yo and a 20 yo are both roughly in the same spot, infact if we used actual science to determine the age of consent it would be 23-25, not 18...
Don't go after Chad. Good chance he might be armed and that would end up being your final mistake. Also if you're gonna be mad, be mad at the woman who stepped out on you.
The friend isn't sorry, she is just trying to justify to herself that it was "right" for her to lie to your face. If his daughter had not got injured while his wife's friend was chaperoning her, the guy would have been none the wiser.
Throwing off a 23 year relationship is absolute bullshit, the wife deserves MINIMAL child support shall she get custody (highly likely cuz obviously + firefighters risks their lives). I PRAY to whoever that is that this is both gay and fake.
Age gap shaming makes zero sense if you know anything about brain development lol A 16 yo and a 20 yo are both roughly in the same spot, infact if we used actual science to determine the age of consent it would be 23-25, not 18...
No point being a hero for the community if you're not a hero at home. Dude married a 16-year-old and from the sound of it wasn't really around for most of those two decades. What did he expect?
Age gap shaming makes zero sense if you know anything about brain development lol A 16 yo and a 20 yo are both roughly in the same spot, infact if we used actual science to determine the age of consent it would be 23-25, not 18...
Top-tier greentexts right here 👉🏻 th-cam.com/play/PL4pRpbzNHf6CEUP8Qa4VSKSn0DDz288vO.html
Wait, so his daughter was in on it? "Wife and daughter go on girls' trip". That cover story would have fallen apart immediately unless the daughter was helping with the alibi.
Unless the daughter didn't know
@@roberttheronin9803 how does the daughter go on a girls' trip with her mother, and not know her mother's not with her?
@@zlozlozloprobably "hey daughter go do something fun yourself while i am talking with my """family""""
@@zlozlozlo - it sounds like mother-daughter went on the trip, but mother left daughter with a friend so mother could be with Chad. it seems plausible. and daughter at 14 may not have the awareness.
@@danielk.english6004 Daughter is 14 and would have to be special to not have awareness. Average girl knows this before she turns 10. It won't add up either with dad asking 'how was your girls trip' and mom wasn't around for most/all of it.
The friend isn’t sorry. If she was, she wouldn’t have pulled the lame excuse
For people going "He married a 16 year old"
1. Its legally allowed in some states with parental permission on both ends. A few states you don't even need parental permission either.
2. You just excused her cheating, thats what you just did and thats the real problem.
it’s not to excuse, it’s to point out that it was doomed from the start. legal or no, you really think a 16 year old possesses the life experience and understanding enough to engage in a lifelong commitment? get outta here.
@jonahclark859 yeah but she wasn't 16 when she cheated, you don't stop maturing once you get married and once again you just defended her cheating by trying to give her an out.
Criticizing him for marrying a 16 year old and excusing her for cheating are 2 completely different things.
@@a-buttonace I must have missed the part where she was forced into marrying him.
Finally, a reasonable person.
Never get married in a culture that does nothing to protect the sacred vows.
Always give up mentality
@@Literallyryangosling777Never walk in the hood w headphones on
"Pessimist baby! Just bc things are likely to happen doesn't mean you're justified in avoiding it! Bigot"
@Literallyryangosling777 Marriage is still protected in some cultures, the goal of any sane man is to integrate into those instead of staying in the circus.
@@Literallyryangosling777 I wonder if you'll be spewing this crap when you get destroyed in family court.
@Literallyryangosling777 Our legal system is built to incentivise divorce. We are signing a contract where the other party gets rewarded for breaking it. It's not "always give up", it's "refuse to play a rigged game".
loyalty is a male concept
exactly!!!
we got a man with a statue pfp, and a man with a wolf pfp. this can go one of two ways, folks
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If chad knew he was dating a married woman he should be punished but if he didn't know then punish wife divorce her take full custody of your daughter there is enough evidance to support you
Even if he knew the wife should be punished too.
No way he's getting full custody.
why should he be punished ? He doesn't owe shiet to the firefighter
@@ahumanwhodoesntlikenoobs395 i said if he didn't know that wife was married he shouldnt be punished
@@SerbianSpark19Chad is just the winner here, and jealous people like you have to share the blame of their fantasized wife to avoid the harsh truth.
"hospital won't treat her because guardian isn't there to authorise it" Even the narrator paused in confusion because nobody thinks that's how it works
Edit:Ok yeah the HoI4 difficulty mentions just hammered my point even further
My Turing detector went off multiple times throughout the video
Came to the comments to say this. Fake incelbait
This is why i preferred to adopt a kid from orphanage or something. In my younger days, I have experienced to take care of my nephews and nieces, it feels nice to be a dad. But to be responsible for a woman? I already had a fair share of trust issues on that, so no. Kids never betray me, their behaviors follow the examples of you and the environment. I simply need to keep track of their activities and make sure they grow up to be proper humans. But taking care of an adult who already has her own personality and tendency? Yeah that'll be harder, like painting an already painted canvas.
Kids can betray too. It's actually quite common in stepdad scenarios, where the bio dad who hasn't done a damn for them shows up and they show more loyalty to him than the guy who raised them for 10+ years. As the saying goes blood is thicker than water. Even in this situation chances are his daughter knew what was going on or suspected.
Try being lgbtq its good
then dont u dint take care of your partner
Hey, i'm really sorry that you ended up with someone you had to take care of instead of it being an equal relationship where you both support each other
I hear you, but children need a mother and father
fake: anon has a wife
gay: anon wants to do cardio with chad
pedo: anon married a 16 year old
Not a fun situation, but you gotta stand up for yourself. Divorce the wife, and if the daughter was also in on it, then don’t fund her private school and disown her. This isn’t a family worth busting your hump for. People these days mistake kindness for weakness, and it should be at their own peril.
You don't just give up on family like that, he was married to her half of his life.
@ You’re right, you don’t abandon your family. But these people aren’t his family. Family is a dynamic, not a title. The family dynamic doesn’t include cheating and lying.
@@steven1671 It's still not right to disown the daughter, no matter what. I'd understand if a woman would divorce her husband or vice versa, but not disowning their own child.
@Loterrach So what you’re saying is that there should be no consequences for the daughter lying, about this? He should pay for her school anyways? Idk man, the lack of respect shouldn’t be tolerated, even from your own kids.
@@steven1671 It's your kid, love for your kid is unconditional, no matter if a child is a serial killer, 🍇-ist, promiscuous or whatever. Who cares about the wife? A child isn't someone you can just throw away, someone who you've fed since their birth. You've probably never had a child to understand that.
I never understood being angry at the guy they cheat with. If he knew is one thing, if he didn't then he deserves no hate.
I've seen some videos of dudes saying "I can't even be mad at you because you didn't even know." But considering how much women talk, there's a chance she told him and he participated anyway.
If you're not a complete douchenozzle, you should be able to detect quite early on if a woman is already seeing someone, especially if she's full-blown married with a kid. Just need to have some damn standards.
The fact he's angry at him of all people explains why she cheated on him in the first place.
Cheating needs to be made illegal with a jail sentence to those found guilty. These heartbreaking stories need to be stopped.
Especially if one partner (the male 90% of the time) is paying all the bills. That's just fraud, and at the very least should be punishable as a financial crime
@comebackqing8452 Nah, I don't care about the finances as long as the guy gets 90% of all the shared assets, including the house. What I care about is that cheating itself is a violation against humanity. It rips innocent people's souls in two. Many of them never heal from it for the rest of their lives. Law exists to protect humanity from harm. Cheating causes massive amounts of harm. Cheating should be illegal. There is zero cases where cheating should be acceptable.
This kind of thing is why sometimes dudes just go and waste the cheating wife and/or the other guy.
If I was this guy, I would get a DNA test. That daughter might not even be his.
Poor guy, his whole life was a lie.
Divorce divorce divorce divorce.
Chad's not the one who screwed you over Anon that's the woman who is using both of you, doesn't care enough about you to stay loyal, doesn't care about Chad enough to go with him. She's the bad one, everyone in this story was hurt by this hole and he's out here insulting the moron who thinks she's happily with him for sex.
That's why never marry. Women simply do not care about you, there is legally no punishment to them whatsoever for cheating, AND they get to cry with the shit like "female rights" in the 21st century, where literally any girl can get you JAILED for simpy looking at her. Marrying a woman is a waste of time and money with no guarantees.
Exactly this. Easy to blame the man. Hard to blame the wife
Wonder if daughter knew. Well this is the American marriage culture. It is what it is.
WHY NOONE IS POINTING OUT THE HOI4 REFERENCE?
ironman mode mentioned rahhhh WTF IS SANITY
HOI4 enjoyer and noticer!
It's not just HOI4, other Paradox games have ironman. Ck2/3 for example is more my style. And ironman actually originates from RuneScape.
It's not exclusive to Hoi. Even Stalker Anomaly has it.
"riskinf life as usual" hahahaha ok
after Ironman dificaulty it all became clear as a nightsky
This is an old story that has been reworked into this format. The other versions are more like the regular story mode. Daughter had no clue of the affair. Mom's friend did. He divorces her.
revenge now also cut contact with daughter if she knew also you can easily sue her and win, you saved lives while she ruins them also the friend isnt sorry they kept this
But doctor, I am Pagliacci
Nah bro this is a sign to exalt Aizen style revenge.
Dude married a 16 year old...
He was 20 and they were likely in an area where it's legal to marry at 16.
probably fake
@Knobsmacker And gay.
Okay and he was 20 ?
Age gap shaming makes zero sense if you know anything about brain development lol
A 16 yo and a 20 yo are both roughly in the same spot, infact if we used actual science to determine the age of consent it would be 23-25, not 18...
Don't go after Chad. Good chance he might be armed and that would end up being your final mistake. Also if you're gonna be mad, be mad at the woman who stepped out on you.
How they always want to beat up chad but the onbe actually deserving it is the wife...
I don't understand. This firefighter sounds like the real Chad to me.
The friend isn't sorry, she is just trying to justify to herself that it was "right" for her to lie to your face.
If his daughter had not got injured while his wife's friend was chaperoning her, the guy would have been none the wiser.
Fake: anon has a wife
Gay: anon plays HOI4
Real: anon gets cheated on with chad
Straight: anon married an underage girl
so they got married when he was 20 and she 16?
These bait greentexts are getting wild.
and this is how we know its fake
@@AaoriBoss that's how we know the shit is real. How many guys wanna be caught with that shit?
Depending on the country that is not only possible but legal aswell, my mother married her first husband at 15
@@tethbal2731 writing 20 instead of 23 on an anonymous internet post seems like an easier solution tbh
DNA test the daughter. She most likely belongs to Chad too.
Throwing off a 23 year relationship is absolute bullshit, the wife deserves MINIMAL child support shall she get custody (highly likely cuz obviously + firefighters risks their lives).
I PRAY to whoever that is that this is both gay and fake.
The wife deserves nothing. The kid Is probably not even his.
He himself married a younger woman expecting her to treat him like a king and now is disappointed, well can't say I feel sympathetic towards him....
Personally id divorce
OP had a tracking app and did not see anything?
Fake.
Why would you get mad at Chad, like lets just say if im in that situation someone might be buried deep in the ground and its not Chad
He can always divorce the wife and find a new 16 year old.
😐
Wait 2 years and go for daughter. That'll show her mom.
@@larion2336wtf😭
justifying cheating huh?
@Pbcvl its fake
Age gap shaming makes zero sense if you know anything about brain development lol
A 16 yo and a 20 yo are both roughly in the same spot, infact if we used actual science to determine the age of consent it would be 23-25, not 18...
“legendary Ironman mode” fake af😂😂😂
Bro whoever wrote this story is extremely insecure
Wait a damn minute
You are married to 39F for 23 years
You married her when she was 16 and you were 20?
IN 2001?
NAH THIS IS FAKE
Nah. You don't know how vast and wide the world is.
Even places in the US where you can do this with parental approval.
Its legal where I live
@@roberttheronin9803I’ve seen much worst things lmao
Tell me you haven't left your own state, let alone the country without telling me.
39 - 23 = 16, 🙁
So are we going to ignore that, according to the ages and the time they have been married, he marry her when she was 16 and he was 20.
daughter not his
Typical
No point being a hero for the community if you're not a hero at home. Dude married a 16-year-old and from the sound of it wasn't really around for most of those two decades. What did he expect?
It's legal in plenty of places and fire fighters can be home plenty even while doing overtime
He expected loyalty. What's wrong with that? Are we to assume every woman is a ***re?
so he married a 16 yo??
When he was 20.
Age gap shaming makes zero sense if you know anything about brain development lol
A 16 yo and a 20 yo are both roughly in the same spot, infact if we used actual science to determine the age of consent it would be 23-25, not 18...
@ i saw you like your own comment
Ngl marrying a 16 year old at 20 he deserves prison
Wait until you hear about what the rest of the world does lol. Check the laws in UK and most of Europe. Let alone Asian, African and middle eastern.
Your ancestors would all have a prison record
Nah
Just cause it isn't illegal doesn't mean it's right 16 is a sophomore in highschool being 20 and getting with a school child is pretty weird
@@jinsengtea6362 it seems weird to ya but it isn't wrong either