Dating single moms is awesome, but you need to do it smart. Make sure to convey that you are not dad 2.0, you are her cool fun escape from being a mom.
One situation where a SM told me that she expects me to respect her ex too. I asked her if he respected her. Asked if he deserved respect, why wasn't he taking care of her kids. She got upset and told me if I couldn't handle that, I could leave. Left and on my way out I told her "He's not going to get back with you just because you simp over him."
It scares me how many people realize that this isn't a fictitious scenario. In fact it's about as far away from fiction as it gets. This is just the new normal if you are actively dating. Not that people who don't even try would know.
Played out almost word for word like one of my first dates. She had me come over and pick her up from her place and we dropped the kids off at their grandparents' down the street. Wretched, ill-disciplined little gremlins. What I have found to be abundantly true, both from personal and vicarious experience is that when there is inevitably a confrontation between you and the kids, say the child misbehaves to a degree requiring discipline, the mother will always side with the child. I can reason with the child how I have moral and legal authority to discipline him despite not being his real father but not if the mother continually undermines my authority.
Remember, she will expect you to take full responsibility raising and paying for the kids, but you will have zero authority when they screw up and require discipline.
There's a perception that single moms are victims, and some genuinely are, but understand that each and every one put themselves in a situation where they had sex with a guy who was a horrible person, he was a decent guy and she's entirely the problem, or both. Varying degrees, but all a poor reflection of her on some level; this doesn't even factor into having the foresight or common sense of using birth control. I could argue they deserve their fates, but I still feel for the kids. Given how messed up many of them turn out, I can see why ancient civilizations all adopted some form of enforced monogamy. Edit: Obviously the fathers shouldn't be off the hook either, plenty who are deadbeats, and the women should also be wary of single guys who already have kids.
Considering karen didn't parent her kids when they kicked him, I'd say he dodged one hell of a bullet. As hard as being a single mom is yu still need to instill discipline in the child.
@sirg-had8821 maybe it's different in other countries but, one of my friends is an absolute gentleman. His father divorced his mother when he was small but he was raised very well and is very nice to everyone. He is very polite and kind to people too.
@@KatsunaiIt's not impossible but it's still an outlier. A few well raised kids from single parent homes don't offset the usual result. Kids need fathers, they need both parents the vast majority of the time.
Ngl, matching with a single mom is the least fake thing about dating app stories. They all just wash up there hoping for some desperate guy to be suckered into it.
@@Spike2276 I told one guy I know "alpha fucks and beta bucks" regarding single mothers and he responded with "I know I'm a beta" which is one of the most pathetic sentences I have ever heard a human speak. Some guys just love to play "Captain Save-A-Hoe".
@@I_saw_that956 not necessarily, these marriages can work amazingly, here in egypt, there was this young man who gave lectures and was a bit of a celebrity, we liked him because not only was he extremely educated but he was also a very observant muslim, anyways he married a single mother (with one daughter if i remember correctly) and he treated the little girl who was less than 10 years old like she was his own, she'd sit on his lap in lectures etc, sadly he was thrown into prison as a political prisoner (criticizing government will get you that here) and to this day his wife is constantly trying to get him out of jail and has pleaded the government multiple times since his arrest in 2019 which was pretty much 6 years ago, it's not always so bad anons, western women are just unloyal lmao
I was engaged to a single mom. Found out she cheated on me with her abusive ex husband and I split. Except it was twice as hard on me because I not only loved her, I loved her kids and really enjoyed being in their lives. Never again.
Bro, the SAME thing happened to me. We weren't engaged but after 2 years she cheated on me with her baby daddy and got pregnant. I didnt just fall in love with her, but I fell for the kid too. When she cheated on me, I ended it right then and there cuz wtf, she got pregnant again with her man who had fled their lives once before and came back just to fuck her and knock her up again. We had the biggest, loudest, angriest fight a couple could ever have because of it, but the hardest part was having to leave the kid. She was an absolute angel, smart, honor roll at school, a pretty good sense of humor, and I gladly would have taken care of her as my own, idk what anyone says, but the relationship was unsalvageable and I didnt even get to say goodbye. She was at her grandma's house. I had no idea you could get your heart destroyed twice in one go but there I was. I would have been an honor to have been that kid's dad. Sadly this has destroyed me, and from what I see other men as well and I agree. Never again. As sad as it is that there's lots of good kids out there in shitty homes, I will not go through that again. Ever
And I get not giving or being a shitty person, but how can a lot of these moms bumrush into the relationships without making sure the dude is a good person first ya know? Why introduce your SO to your kid if you aren't for sure if they are a psycho or not? @@scribbles1424
I had a double lesson: Don't date single moms that are also your coworker. We hit it off at work and I finally asked her out, she said she would go on a date but told me she had a kid and wanted my opinion before the date. I said I didn't want kids, but I'm not going to stop talking to her because she had one. Fast forward to the date, she gets there before me, so I walk up to the table and THE KID IS WITH HER. She introduces me as "Say hello to your new dad!" THE FIRST DATE! I'm starving so I'm going to power through. I'm looking at the dessert menu while we wait for our food and I notice she's glaring at me. I look up and I'm like "What?" she proceeds to go nuts and say I'm trying to drink in front of her child (the desserts were in the same book as the alcohol). I won't bore you with the details, but I mention the coworker part because even after I broke it off she'd try sitting with me and scaring off other female coworkers, she'd send random nudes while I'm at work to try to get me in trouble, etc etc. Don't make the same mistakes I did all those years ago fellas.
It has to be a doesn't want to die alone and over does it response, obviously this is based on personal reflections but are people seriously not wanting to introduce new SOs to their kids???
@tonym.8069 I've heard about this from different friends of mine with kids, they vary on approach, sometimes they'll bring the kid/kids on a say, play date where both parties agree to bring their kids, or they wait a while to make sure the person is "worth" introducing to their kids because they don't want to expose them to someone bad or get their hopes up of another parental figure only for it to end early. None of them however have just brought the kids on the first date without mentioning it to the other party whatsoever, and introduced the person as "meet your new parent!" lol
Almost happened to me. I didn't even know she was a mom until the date, but I was nice anyways. She looked different from her profile, didn't really care about me, but wanted me as a dad instead of her life partner, and she was just... weird? I love weird, but this weird was just... uncomfortable. I want to be with a woman who values her chastity and doesn't have kids already. I want to start a life, not continue one.
Never date a single mom that wants to date or Is on a dating app, any girl that has children but wants to find a partner probably wants a bag of money/babysitter, unless the kids are 20 or sm, and out of the picture.
The only situation i'd consider a single mother is if she's widowed. If she had children out of wedlock or divorced that's her baggage to carry not anyone else
She also said "Two little angels." If her kids were actually well behaved and polite then you could probably assume the dad might just be a deadbeat. However looks like the dad wasn't the only problem.
Heres so.ething to also keep in mind for folks wanting to try this single mom stuff. You need to make sure she is on the same team as you in the long run. That way if misbehaving happens and you try to do anykind of repremand or discipline no matter how small that it doesnt backfire in your face. Telling a child to stop theowing food or stop destroying something could have some major backlash from the mom. If that is the case then she isnt doing her job very well and just letting the madness occur. Thats your cue to leave in most cases otherwise. Youll only be in last place in the family enviroment for a long time. Over time that just isnt good for a persons sanity...do t do that to yourself folks.
Never take responsibility for another man's semen. Those women took their decisions, now they have to live with them. Work on yourselves, and a valuable woman will eventually appear
So adopting is a no? Wow dude. Really shows the kind of person you are. I honestly hope for your sanity you take a break from the internet and get outside and surround yourself with positive people.
"Another man's semen" is terminally online dribble. The issue here is that mother having no sense of responsibility or priorities, not that the kids aren't his. Grow up, dude.
Just looking at the title, my instant reaction was "Hell, I could have told you that." There's... any number of cons to single moms and almost no pros.
Single moms are the best. But what you gotta do is wait for the kids to be all grown up. You will have no obligation to them, and they can't be taken away from you if you bond, because they probably wouldn't care enough to even meet you. Also their mom would be much older and possibly lonely, since her kids left her. In the prime years of her life and not getting the intimacy she deserves. I live so that one day I may meet a cougar willing to notice me. But the older I get, the more the age gap closes and the less enthusiastic I am about this. Get it while you can.
I think dating in general is a nightmare, but now with stuff like post minors and age differences beyond a day being brought into question, unless over 60 then you can be nasty AF I guess with each other because most won't notice. I think it's worse than ever before because people for the worse don't have to just settle. They also have been losing empathy since like the 80s and people are acting invincible like teenagers until their 30s or 40s. It's causing a huge potterkeg that's about to explode in not the best ways. But hey it was a good run, can't wait for the filthy Brits to become a Republic proper and us some absolute monarchy like in the Last Man book by Shelley lol
I'm a decidedly childfree woman, and I don't blame men who avoid single moms because they scare me, too! I spent my entire adolescence having to help raise and pay for the kids of single moms in my family, and just like in the video, the moms all had a bad habit of "disappearing" and leaving me alone with their kids (with no prior notice) for hours, and sometimes DAYS, at a time. Now I refuse to date single fathers because I doubt the experience is and different, and I don't blame men for choosing the same against single moms. My peace and quiet are too precious.
Had this situation come up twice before, it sucks. Red flags always fly up when they want you to meet their kids after just a day or two. Like honestly its just kind of creepy and off putting. Just don't waste my time with that shit anymore, they're single moms for a reason
People that call themselves "dog mom", especially publicly, don't treat the animal like a pet, they treat it as a child. So you get the same issues arising.
If you have kids living at home yourself or she is very young with one small child and she wants more children or if you are both in agreement about not having more children it might work but else don’t do it. If you don’t want to have children try to find a woman who doesn’t want children, if you want to have children don’t sign up for anything unless she agrees and 31 years old is to old for a woman to start having more children 90% of the time, you should start to try to get pregnant minimum age 25 as a woman.
@@myhlanoelsalsa8690 They make a pill for that, surely a real rape victim would file a police report and then take said pill just in case, no one is stupid enough to just let it slide right? Right?
I have no idea why I was compelled to watch this, usually these stories are fake, but this one seems believeable. (Not sure how a kid bites a dog though)
Exactly. The way these guys are talking about women in the comments...no wonder why some of them are still single.. like they talk about women like they're objects or something..
@Sleepy_Monarch I mean single moms in my experience tend to be really nasty and mean spirited. Because the single moms who left because their husband was cheating, or just disappeared since he didn't want to be a father often remarry or reenter committed relationships fairly quickly. Perpetually single mothers are often really bad people even if they're a good mom.
Funny thing is, I actually WANT to be a stepdad and would love to pay her rent. But women don't want anything to do with me. I often regret divorcing my ex, because apparently 50 yr old guys are undateable, even when we have 6 figures and a house.
There's no scenario where dating a single mom makes sense. Best case: you love all of them, and all of them love you. Harmony. This means your a genetic dead end. Its sui-end.
Of all the fake greentexts I've seen, this one is probably real. I and a handful of my friends my age have been in this scenario before (twice as likely when you're in the Army).
Ah yes Generalise an entire category of people based on a singular experience. Anon got a bit in common with teenage girls -"I don't like being mistreated" -*-dates a "bad boy"-* "I don't like kids" *dates a mom*
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Dating single mother is like cleaning after party you didnt even visit, but somehow they expect you to pay for it.
When you're a man, everybody expects you to pay for everything, regardless.
That’s really misanthropic
@@Hypothetical-Beingbro what💀💀
Dating single moms is awesome, but you need to do it smart. Make sure to convey that you are not dad 2.0, you are her cool fun escape from being a mom.
@@ulizez89Lmao okay, dating coach grifter
One situation where a SM told me that she expects me to respect her ex too. I asked her if he respected her. Asked if he deserved respect, why wasn't he taking care of her kids.
She got upset and told me if I couldn't handle that, I could leave. Left and on my way out I told her "He's not going to get back with you just because you simp over him."
I could have been that the kids love their dad and are young and sensitive to it or separation was mutual.
@@saintsinningsword There’s a difference between having a mutual separation and expecting your new partner to respect your ex…
Respect her ex?! well at least she read the terms and conditions to you before clicking accept lol
It scares me how many people realize that this isn't a fictitious scenario. In fact it's about as far away from fiction as it gets. This is just the new normal if you are actively dating. Not that people who don't even try would know.
Played out almost word for word like one of my first dates. She had me come over and pick her up from her place and we dropped the kids off at their grandparents' down the street. Wretched, ill-disciplined little gremlins.
What I have found to be abundantly true, both from personal and vicarious experience is that when there is inevitably a confrontation between you and the kids, say the child misbehaves to a degree requiring discipline, the mother will always side with the child. I can reason with the child how I have moral and legal authority to discipline him despite not being his real father but not if the mother continually undermines my authority.
Normal on dating apps, maybe. Normal as a whole? Absolutely not. The world is bigger than cancerous american norms
now, imagine that not even ugly and fat single moms give you a chance. fml .
@billybob1831
A lot more normal when it comes to single moms
Where are all those single moms coming from?
If I write a letter, I ALWAYS take a blank paper.
sometimes, a letter can be so well written that you cannot stand to see it unfinished
@@OwnM3Z0 and that's how terrible sequels are created
@@OwnM3Z0 Stop meddling with other people's mail.
Write your own.
When I make toast, I use untoasted bread 🙄😂
When I take children I take the fat ones. Nobody ever comes looking. It's a buyers market out here bro.
Remember, she will expect you to take full responsibility raising and paying for the kids, but you will have zero authority when they screw up and require discipline.
So you get to be a slave to both the mother AND her kids too. That is the package deal she mentioned.
If she's a 10 but is a single mom with 2 kids, she probably isn't a 10.
10 is personal preference anyway so no, shes not a 10
A 10 with 2 kids can’t be possible. She’s a 5 tops.
@@Creater111no facts are facts. You saying that doesn’t make your girl better looking.
She's a 10, but every kid she has removes 3 points from that 10.
@@piouspigeon9327Not how it works. Gimme a picture of what you think is a 10, if you have any.
Bro was a hired BABYSITTER, not a stepdad 😂
Not hired, he would have to pay
If you want to take me out you have to pay for a babysitter for my kids 💅
@@BRAdriel10 hired babysitter who also gotta pay
There's a perception that single moms are victims, and some genuinely are, but understand that each and every one put themselves in a situation where they had sex with a guy who was a horrible person, he was a decent guy and she's entirely the problem, or both. Varying degrees, but all a poor reflection of her on some level; this doesn't even factor into having the foresight or common sense of using birth control.
I could argue they deserve their fates, but I still feel for the kids. Given how messed up many of them turn out, I can see why ancient civilizations all adopted some form of enforced monogamy.
Edit: Obviously the fathers shouldn't be off the hook either, plenty who are deadbeats, and the women should also be wary of single guys who already have kids.
Considering karen didn't parent her kids when they kicked him, I'd say he dodged one hell of a bullet. As hard as being a single mom is yu still need to instill discipline in the child.
Single moms actually raising their children lol 🤣😂🤣🤣😅🤣
@sirg-had8821 maybe it's different in other countries but, one of my friends is an absolute gentleman. His father divorced his mother when he was small but he was raised very well and is very nice to everyone. He is very polite and kind to people too.
@@KatsunaiIt's not impossible but it's still an outlier. A few well raised kids from single parent homes don't offset the usual result.
Kids need fathers, they need both parents the vast majority of the time.
@@ZeonicZaku1-Zeon_Grunt_Suit It depends on the type of person the single parent is.
@@Katsunai Meanwhile the other 70%+ of kids raised in SMHomes: this post
This sounds like a nightmare, it's the first time a greentext story made me feel scared.
Be afraid.
@@EdwardEstacado I pray to the god of fear to spare me.
@@dingo23451 he won’t seek Jesus my brother he will set you free
Dating single moms is like playing another save file from another guy. This is just garbage
lol I like that analogy.
>ghost her because i value my sanity
That sentence hit me like truck kun even when i was half expecting it..... Certified chad
Not really chad behavior. Just tell her how it ist, no reason to ghost someone
@@derSchmartewhy? she didn't give him any respect.
Only because one person is rude doesn’t mean you should lose your manners as well
Had nearly the same experience. Dating a single mother made realize, there are worse fates than being single your whole life.
Fake: Matched with single mom
Gay: He actually installed Grindr
"We're a package deal"
or
"I have a big package for you"
Ngl, matching with a single mom is the least fake thing about dating app stories. They all just wash up there hoping for some desperate guy to be suckered into it.
@@Spike2276 I told one guy I know "alpha fucks and beta bucks" regarding single mothers and he responded with "I know I'm a beta" which is one of the most pathetic sentences I have ever heard a human speak. Some guys just love to play "Captain Save-A-Hoe".
Unironically gay relationships have the best happiness and stats. Lesbian ones have the worst.
I mean why would anyone even go for women with kids??
Desperation and inexperience. You learn quickly.
They’re hoping for a hallmark moment but get baggage and bad decisions. You’d probably win at the casino before finding one that isn’t a mess.
A) They like then
B) They kid(s) is/are >13yo
@@I_saw_that956 not necessarily, these marriages can work amazingly, here in egypt, there was this young man who gave lectures and was a bit of a celebrity, we liked him because not only was he extremely educated but he was also a very observant muslim, anyways he married a single mother (with one daughter if i remember correctly) and he treated the little girl who was less than 10 years old like she was his own, she'd sit on his lap in lectures etc, sadly he was thrown into prison as a political prisoner (criticizing government will get you that here) and to this day his wife is constantly trying to get him out of jail and has pleaded the government multiple times since his arrest in 2019 which was pretty much 6 years ago, it's not always so bad anons, western women are just unloyal lmao
Maybe someone who can't have kids but still wants to be a dad.
I was engaged to a single mom. Found out she cheated on me with her abusive ex husband and I split. Except it was twice as hard on me because I not only loved her, I loved her kids and really enjoyed being in their lives.
Never again.
Bro, the SAME thing happened to me. We weren't engaged but after 2 years she cheated on me with her baby daddy and got pregnant. I didnt just fall in love with her, but I fell for the kid too. When she cheated on me, I ended it right then and there cuz wtf, she got pregnant again with her man who had fled their lives once before and came back just to fuck her and knock her up again. We had the biggest, loudest, angriest fight a couple could ever have because of it, but the hardest part was having to leave the kid. She was an absolute angel, smart, honor roll at school, a pretty good sense of humor, and I gladly would have taken care of her as my own, idk what anyone says, but the relationship was unsalvageable and I didnt even get to say goodbye. She was at her grandma's house. I had no idea you could get your heart destroyed twice in one go but there I was. I would have been an honor to have been that kid's dad.
Sadly this has destroyed me, and from what I see other men as well and I agree. Never again. As sad as it is that there's lots of good kids out there in shitty homes, I will not go through that again. Ever
@DB8ed I'm sorry you went through that. I know it sucks but you will get through it stronger and wiser.
Yeah this happens a lot where the new guy bonds with the kids and the SM just drops the guy. It's traumatic for the kids but most SM don't care.
And I get not giving or being a shitty person, but how can a lot of these moms bumrush into the relationships without making sure the dude is a good person first ya know? Why introduce your SO to your kid if you aren't for sure if they are a psycho or not? @@scribbles1424
He would have actually had a better time if he'd downloaded grindr in the first place.
True
Even if he doesn't want to sleep with any guys, at least the scene would be entertaining.
Speaking from experience are we???
Yeah but then the Greentext would be Gay by default (being gay is bad)
@@EdwardEstacadoI mean you have to try it for yourself. It’s actually not too bad.
I had a double lesson: Don't date single moms that are also your coworker. We hit it off at work and I finally asked her out, she said she would go on a date but told me she had a kid and wanted my opinion before the date. I said I didn't want kids, but I'm not going to stop talking to her because she had one.
Fast forward to the date, she gets there before me, so I walk up to the table and THE KID IS WITH HER. She introduces me as "Say hello to your new dad!" THE FIRST DATE! I'm starving so I'm going to power through. I'm looking at the dessert menu while we wait for our food and I notice she's glaring at me. I look up and I'm like "What?" she proceeds to go nuts and say I'm trying to drink in front of her child (the desserts were in the same book as the alcohol).
I won't bore you with the details, but I mention the coworker part because even after I broke it off she'd try sitting with me and scaring off other female coworkers, she'd send random nudes while I'm at work to try to get me in trouble, etc etc. Don't make the same mistakes I did all those years ago fellas.
It has to be a doesn't want to die alone and over does it response, obviously this is based on personal reflections but are people seriously not wanting to introduce new SOs to their kids???
@tonym.8069 I've heard about this from different friends of mine with kids, they vary on approach, sometimes they'll bring the kid/kids on a say, play date where both parties agree to bring their kids, or they wait a while to make sure the person is "worth" introducing to their kids because they don't want to expose them to someone bad or get their hopes up of another parental figure only for it to end early.
None of them however have just brought the kids on the first date without mentioning it to the other party whatsoever, and introduced the person as "meet your new parent!" lol
Nah I’ll win.
and for everything else in the bleeding obvious we've got Carl with "don't play in traffic and eat radioactive waste"
Almost happened to me. I didn't even know she was a mom until the date, but I was nice anyways. She looked different from her profile, didn't really care about me, but wanted me as a dad instead of her life partner, and she was just... weird? I love weird, but this weird was just... uncomfortable.
I want to be with a woman who values her chastity and doesn't have kids already. I want to start a life, not continue one.
A lifetime of never having to take accountability is the reason why women feel privileged to your time and money.
Character in pic is Sachiko Fujinuma from ERASED
Hello there local hero
If you don't like kids I highly recommend you date someone who also doesn't want kids.
Never date a single mom that wants to date or Is on a dating app, any girl that has children but wants to find a partner probably wants a bag of money/babysitter, unless the kids are 20 or sm, and out of the picture.
The only situation i'd consider a single mother is if she's widowed. If she had children out of wedlock or divorced that's her baggage to carry not anyone else
In fairness she said we are a package deal on her bio....
The package was opened up, torn apart, and taped back together poorly.
Return to sender.
She also said "Two little angels." If her kids were actually well behaved and polite then you could probably assume the dad might just be a deadbeat. However looks like the dad wasn't the only problem.
@@dhgmrz17 Lucifer was an angel.
That's common sense now. Young men won't fall for it. They understand the assignment.
Heres so.ething to also keep in mind for folks wanting to try this single mom stuff. You need to make sure she is on the same team as you in the long run. That way if misbehaving happens and you try to do anykind of repremand or discipline no matter how small that it doesnt backfire in your face. Telling a child to stop theowing food or stop destroying something could have some major backlash from the mom. If that is the case then she isnt doing her job very well and just letting the madness occur. Thats your cue to leave in most cases otherwise. Youll only be in last place in the family enviroment for a long time. Over time that just isnt good for a persons sanity...do t do that to yourself folks.
Fake:Matched with a girl named karen
Gay: "Not Grindr cuz im not gay"
what color are the kids?
Swarthy
This is 4chan if they were brown that would have been included in the story multiple times
If mom was a POC those kids would've been a lot more disciplined
@@benjaminolsen2381 not anymore jannies 404 threads
You know, i know
"remember i don't even like kids"
those *things* are kids?
Yeah having someone reschedule dates for no reason and hearing "my kids will always be my first priority". Okay then good luck with that.
"Quirky means feral"😂
100% real. This was me in my 20s. Thank God I didn't date her.
Never take responsibility for another man's semen. Those women took their decisions, now they have to live with them. Work on yourselves, and a valuable woman will eventually appear
"Never take responsibility for another man's semen" buddy, put down the internet for a minute
So, no to addoption then?
incel ass comment
So adopting is a no? Wow dude. Really shows the kind of person you are. I honestly hope for your sanity you take a break from the internet and get outside and surround yourself with positive people.
"Another man's semen" is terminally online dribble. The issue here is that mother having no sense of responsibility or priorities, not that the kids aren't his. Grow up, dude.
Dating a single mom is like playing someone else's saved game file, why the hell would you do that.
New game+?
Just looking at the title, my instant reaction was "Hell, I could have told you that." There's... any number of cons to single moms and almost no pros.
Unless the X is straight up dead, the dad is still very much in the picture and even if he is, don't date single moms.
A lot of people are having a similar experience. Be careful who you like.
"Anon finds out why single mom is single"
Fake: not grindr
Gay: "not grindr"
Tbh this sounds like a situation I had, my mom had a boyfriend, bonded for 3 years if I remember, then ghosted her because it wasn't working out
Single moms are the best. But what you gotta do is wait for the kids to be all grown up. You will have no obligation to them, and they can't be taken away from you if you bond, because they probably wouldn't care enough to even meet you. Also their mom would be much older and possibly lonely, since her kids left her. In the prime years of her life and not getting the intimacy she deserves. I live so that one day I may meet a cougar willing to notice me. But the older I get, the more the age gap closes and the less enthusiastic I am about this. Get it while you can.
If you need someone to tell you that, you might not be to smart.
Never work for someone else seed
Real: Dating over 30 is a nightmare.
Gay: Anon has sworn off women and is now on Grindr.
I think dating in general is a nightmare, but now with stuff like post minors and age differences beyond a day being brought into question, unless over 60 then you can be nasty AF I guess with each other because most won't notice. I think it's worse than ever before because people for the worse don't have to just settle. They also have been losing empathy since like the 80s and people are acting invincible like teenagers until their 30s or 40s. It's causing a huge potterkeg that's about to explode in not the best ways. But hey it was a good run, can't wait for the filthy Brits to become a Republic proper and us some absolute monarchy like in the Last Man book by Shelley lol
I'm a decidedly childfree woman, and I don't blame men who avoid single moms because they scare me, too! I spent my entire adolescence having to help raise and pay for the kids of single moms in my family, and just like in the video, the moms all had a bad habit of "disappearing" and leaving me alone with their kids (with no prior notice) for hours, and sometimes DAYS, at a time. Now I refuse to date single fathers because I doubt the experience is and different, and I don't blame men for choosing the same against single moms. My peace and quiet are too precious.
at least this one had a happy ending
Her "demon spawn"!This got me laughing really hard!😂😂😂
Glad Anon specified he wasn't gay. That was vitally important information.
*Sighs*
This one is real.
Another lucky one that managed to NOT get roped in. Thank God.
Honestly, "dog mom" ain't so bad, if it's a decent dog. Bonus points if she can't handle the dog, but you can.
After living with my niece, I definitely don't want kids either.
your almost there to give karen a 4th feral then leave
Had this situation come up twice before, it sucks. Red flags always fly up when they want you to meet their kids after just a day or two. Like honestly its just kind of creepy and off putting. Just don't waste my time with that shit anymore, they're single moms for a reason
doees blud know having a dog doesnt equal having kids? i mean they are family and require atention and care but still.
Yeah but it indicates other problems.
@@torquemada2 what other problems. All sorts of people own dogs. this guy has plenty of red flags and hypocrisy. who casts the first stone?
People that call themselves "dog mom", especially publicly, don't treat the animal like a pet, they treat it as a child.
So you get the same issues arising.
@@DH-xw6jp not really. only if ur daft asf. ong. if you think a human and a dog are the same commitment ur legit not fit to be a parent XD
People stopped treating animals as pets. They treat them as substitute for having kids. And I tired to pretend it's normal.
Kids are not the problem her lack of discipline is the problem
Not even once.
If you have kids living at home yourself or she is very young with one small child and she wants more children or if you are both in agreement about not having more children it might work but else don’t do it.
If you don’t want to have children try to find a woman who doesn’t want children, if you want to have children don’t sign up for anything unless she agrees and 31 years old is to old for a woman to start having more children 90% of the time, you should start to try to get pregnant minimum age 25 as a woman.
If she's a ten but a single mom, then her personality is dragging that rating down to a 3.
what if lil bud finds someone else if he even can just he a 4chan mf
Welcome to singlehood bruv 😸👍
damn it started well but had a bad ending
To be fair, single moms aren't always bad. The lady in the story was just a really awful parent.
The only single moms that aren't bad are all widows
Single moms are always single for a reason
@@Teladosnot just widows, there's also sa victims
@@myhlanoelsalsa8690 They make a pill for that, surely a real rape victim would file a police report and then take said pill just in case, no one is stupid enough to just let it slide right? Right?
@@Teladossounds like you are blaming all divorces on women, that’s really misogynistic
I have no idea why I was compelled to watch this, usually these stories are fake, but this one seems believeable. (Not sure how a kid bites a dog though)
Come on, this has both FAKE and GAY written all over it
you're never alone as long as you have Jesus. You don't need all this problem bullsht
Go home im WHAT
I can get not wanting that life but don’t ghost the girl. That’s just plain rude!
Fake: he didn't install grinder
Gay: he installed grinder
HE DEF DOWNLOAD GRINDR BROTHER
why date a mother if you dont even like kids, tf lol
Tards gonna tard
Exactly. The way these guys are talking about women in the comments...no wonder why some of them are still single.. like they talk about women like they're objects or something..
@Sleepy_Monarch I mean single moms in my experience tend to be really nasty and mean spirited. Because the single moms who left because their husband was cheating, or just disappeared since he didn't want to be a father often remarry or reenter committed relationships fairly quickly.
Perpetually single mothers are often really bad people even if they're a good mom.
Fake: Far too many cliche tropes
-The moment you say "It wasn't grindr" it was grindr
Gay: Anon really met and dated a single dad
Honestly, you'd have been better off with Grindr. It might mean taking the odd chub, but at least they know how to have fun and can't get pregnant.
Congratulations anon,your crippling social ineptitude has somehow saved you from being miserable...
Funny thing is, I actually WANT to be a stepdad and would love to pay her rent. But women don't want anything to do with me. I often regret divorcing my ex, because apparently 50 yr old guys are undateable, even when we have 6 figures and a house.
Fake : Anon dated a single mom
Gay : Anon dated a single dad
Fake: 4chaner tried to fix there life
Gay: "Grindr cuz im gay"
Maybe date a woman with older kids?
If she's a voracious cougar sugar momma I'm down
There's no scenario where dating a single mom makes sense.
Best case: you love all of them, and all of them love you. Harmony.
This means your a genetic dead end. Its sui-end.
An old woman?
Is the age of the kids written in her bio?
Single moms are for recreational purposes only, not for long term relationships.
If you're gonna make up fake stories at least make them interesting
Of all the fake greentexts I've seen, this one is probably real. I and a handful of my friends my age have been in this scenario before (twice as likely when you're in the Army).
Ah yes
Generalise an entire category of people based on a singular experience.
Anon got a bit in common with teenage girls
-"I don't like being mistreated" -*-dates a "bad boy"-*
"I don't like kids" *dates a mom*