A beautiful baby girl from a toxic man - My bitter past!

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  • @rebeccanasiche8009
    @rebeccanasiche8009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Your mom's story had me in tears😢 You truly are a strong woman, may God bless you with total healing and peace.

  • @ejaybeauty
    @ejaybeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I can relate girl. But there's a bright future ahead. Im happy you are free from that toxic relationship

  • @floraigokiterah1642
    @floraigokiterah1642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Giselle,you are well spoken,articulate and absolutely beautiful

  • @lisakanyambu6565
    @lisakanyambu6565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very articulate and intelligent. Gaal never force love ,affection, attention from any man.you will never lack anything cz God's grace is sufficient. Don't give up.much love from kenya

  • @jlmchannel5579
    @jlmchannel5579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Sis , you are loved and treasured By the King of kings , therefore walk with you head high because God gotchu.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MelanatedQueen254
    @MelanatedQueen254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am listening to your story 4 days to your daughter's 1st birthday. I am sure you are looking back and are amazed at what God has done for you and your daughter in the past year. God IS a father to the fatherless; even when the earthly fathers are alive... Please know that you dodged a bullet when you and the sperm donor went separate ways. This is a healthier environment for your daughter to grow and flourish. Way to go mama! Protect your daughter, seek wisdom from God on how to raise her and never think that she is lacking because her earthly father is not in her life. She is better for it. Stay encouraged sis! God's grace is sufficient for you and your baby.

  • @antonetteamundson2300
    @antonetteamundson2300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for sharing. Your story has definitely been an inspiration and encouragement to me.

  • @claudiaorgill4785
    @claudiaorgill4785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Young lady count your blessings, let someone else carry his burden, you would be such a fool to take your life for this stupid man, get on with your life and live your best life, let people talk that you are a single mom, you are not the first and you will never be the last, life is like a mirror reflecting what you do, if you face it smiling it smiles right back at you. Take care of your precious baby life sometimes does not go as planned.

  • @honeydate
    @honeydate 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When the home-wrecker my weak husband was in an affair with was pregnant in South Africa, I enrolled to study for a degree in London U.K🇬🇧
    So when she was pushing - I was celebrating my achievements (1st class Honours Degree) and began a job earning pound sterling. I am therefore able to support myself, my two sons, mother and sisters through the pandemic and, God willing, beyond. I don’t need some mother’s failure to hold my head up when I have the determination and resilience of a Lioness! Best wishes to you and innocent little baby girl …you will survive!

  • @peninahwamuyu3349
    @peninahwamuyu3349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry for losing your mum. As far as the man is concerned, you dodged a bullet! Love and light to you.

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waaa such a brilliant polished lady.. Well spoken...gone thru challenging journey.. You are strong

  • @perfektpartners3140
    @perfektpartners3140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Little Marijan is a precious gift to you. Your mum's spirit lives on in her. Stay strong you are a beautiful young lady!💕

  • @Kakwasi
    @Kakwasi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Let us develop ourselves. So that whatever happens, whether there is a man in our life or not we can still take care of ourselves and pay our bills

  • @muluadammesfin1509
    @muluadammesfin1509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very touching story I admire your strength!!!your baby she will gonna be strong woman like you because she got raised by strong woman.God bless you and your baby girl.

  • @faithmulandi6401
    @faithmulandi6401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love that you picked yourself up and moved on 😍.That's the best thing

  • @kenalemangngube6116
    @kenalemangngube6116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    life goes on ccy, b strong 4 ur daughter, my mom was also my dad, but she never made us feel tht absence, my mom was a strong woman and i beleive so are u ccy

  • @queeniduaye726
    @queeniduaye726 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're amazing 👏. I am glad you learnt your lessons. Be careful in your next relationship. I wish you all the best

  • @dinkamika
    @dinkamika 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Insecurity in a man is the devil. They will turn it around to make you go crazy. I have been there so trust and believe it was all in his freakin mind...NEVER AGAIN!!! You are BEAUTIFUL and DEVINE. You will prosper in Jesus name

  • @constancekawira6089
    @constancekawira6089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh,no! So sad dear..May God give you strength,with time you'll overcome.

  • @hadassahgeneration752
    @hadassahgeneration752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Take Heart our God heals the broken hearted.. Obviously you were dealing with a narcissistic Individual

  • @user-mr5sd1qg3q
    @user-mr5sd1qg3q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very sad story nana what u went through is what happened to me my mom had the cancer too may there soul rest in peace it will be well u young beautiful god will see u through nana

  • @SharedMomentswithJustus
    @SharedMomentswithJustus  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Have you experienced any of this in your relationship? And how did you handle it?

    • @faithmaina1617
      @faithmaina1617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I moved on and I kept on hearing Les Brown's word play in my mind ' No matter how hard it is and how tough it gets am going to make it.' Those words gave me the courage to get out of bed and just smile and be hopeful.

    • @estherjosephine262
      @estherjosephine262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Saved by grace. These kind of people are psychos and cheats. always suspecting the other party and accusing, at times they get violent.

    • @pamelawadegu2224
      @pamelawadegu2224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My story is so similar, my son and his other son are 6 months apart. These kind of narcissistic men can terrorize and make one hate life itself. His excuse waa not religion but tribe and suddenly the age factor because i was older than him. I am bringing up my son alone but atleast at peace not having to hear or experience another lie!

    • @kananu578
      @kananu578 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was the lowest moment in my life because i trusted him with all my heart

    • @IANA2030
      @IANA2030 ปีที่แล้ว

      They are called narcissists am at this time planing my way out of one am so done with this boy who doesn’t know what he wants in life!!!ever manipulative and controlling,my happiness troubles him so he has to make sure that am in pain.Byeee Clown it was nice meeting you my daughter and I will flourish in God’s Grace.

  • @saadiasheikh5744
    @saadiasheikh5744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You went through a lot in your life se as you are lucky not having him in your life because he would destroy you and your child. Some time is better to be alone and happy 😃

  • @lindahvusha3790
    @lindahvusha3790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mum's birthday is on 31st of July as well...God bless you and the little princess.

  • @nancykimani8427
    @nancykimani8427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a very touching story... And I thank God that she's overcome the depression and suicidal thoughts. May the Lord bless you and your baby. May the Lord bless you with a godly and loving husband

  • @Nancyahenda
    @Nancyahenda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh my goodness sorry my dear, Other men should just be denounced from being men because their characters are so weird. That's very bad

  • @sellysang7504
    @sellysang7504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi love u r not alone,,,, God will bless you,,, u will be 0k hugs

  • @Chiwoful
    @Chiwoful ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations Elle!! I am very sorry about your experience with the sperm donor. He is not worth the trouble of being sought out. You are doing great & having had a baby whose birthday matches your mum is a very strong mesage. You deserve to live and see yourself and Marie into greatness. It is well. I am a single mum too & wearing the hat with pride #Motherslove #Selflove

  • @KKE1978
    @KKE1978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are a beautiful mother. You will pull through and maybe one day your daughter and you will meet someone who will treat you guys as a queen and princess you guys are. Any man can be a father but not all men can be dads. Keep your head up.

  • @user-mr5sd1qg3q
    @user-mr5sd1qg3q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    believe me u beautiful my daughter u will get married and find someone who will treat you like queen don't mind him he will regret collecting stone while really men collect diamond like you it is well nana 💞💞💞💞💞💞

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461
    @phillipsidhojapap1461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys didn't take time to know each other before commitment. You rushed things through. Hope you have learned. But thanks for sharing.. it will help people

  • @3ccamp
    @3ccamp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sons of Adam how are you doing this evening

  • @kaylizwi7377
    @kaylizwi7377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hope one day God will bless you with real love, narcissists and also controlling people are the worst. Love and light to her, after the traumatic childhood she had Nkosiyam.

  • @lucysssesanga1165
    @lucysssesanga1165 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So connected to your story. Be blessed Gorgeous 😍 🙏

  • @reflections4me
    @reflections4me 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don’t make a man or any men a goal in your life. You are a queen 👑. Don’t let a man who is not elevating you an in way to be the center of your life. You are more them just worthed . Don’t be a pick me women, a mommy or a Barbarah the builder. A man is not everything.

  • @stevejstephens3591
    @stevejstephens3591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tuned in from Djibouti

  • @sarahsain2708
    @sarahsain2708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How can a CATHOLIC CHURCH give poor people EXPIRED FOOD AND CAT FOOD TO EAT?????????????????
    Clearly they are NOT of God!,Jesus gave fresh fish n bread,God rained manna,I am in shock!

  • @jotaya
    @jotaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching her on my tv screen as I comment this. What a beautiful,eloquent, blessed child of God.
    Girl, you’re perfection, God’s beloved, and blessed daughter. You’re such a light, a true meaning of inspiration! May divine Love, our dear Father-Mother God guide and guard you, and your little one.
    May your mama continue resting in power!
    God loves you!
    Justus Justus, what a platform you were inspired by the power of the Most High to help heal the world!! I’m so glad I found your channel many months ago. My hubby and I look forward to the new uploads as we go back to the ones we missed at the beginning of all these.
    Thank you!!!

    • @SharedMomentswithJustus
      @SharedMomentswithJustus  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much appreciated @Ng'wono Let's continue doing our part. Thanks for the encouraging words. God bless and keep sharing... Let's heal the world together

  • @hanifamulwa3963
    @hanifamulwa3963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hugs girl & your beautiful.

  • @crystaleyes4288
    @crystaleyes4288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One day at a time lots of women are going through this…stay strong beloved u r never alone. He will open doors u never thought existed.Bless u and lovely Marijan🥰

  • @Saidafoundation009
    @Saidafoundation009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Beautiful you are keep going 🥰

  • @jlmchannel5579
    @jlmchannel5579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Camping here ,sorry sis.❤️

  • @encouragementoasis33
    @encouragementoasis33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The relationship part had more red flags... So sorry though for the hard times. God's love to see you through

    • @TimothyOrwahOgutu
      @TimothyOrwahOgutu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of the red flags was the age of the guy

  • @tyrahadid7735
    @tyrahadid7735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If churches would only donate just a half of what they made in church none of this stuff would be happening

  • @kembabazimiriam709
    @kembabazimiriam709 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thats what my mum went through before dying of cancer

  • @lesedilight_
    @lesedilight_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GOD will strengthen you.

  • @salmahussein3583
    @salmahussein3583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tuned in kama kawa

  • @samuelokumu4610
    @samuelokumu4610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But your high intellect, civility and rationality carries it all....... lesson to ladies is to always put your emotions on the backseat n use your brains. I like the term 'sperm donor' LOL

  • @judymoraa4849
    @judymoraa4849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Right on time

  • @nosim7440
    @nosim7440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Never fall in love with someone who is yet to know who they are...when they know who they are, you might not know them"

  • @millicentonyango7807
    @millicentonyango7807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you with your kid💝💝💝💝💝

  • @margaretanyiso481
    @margaretanyiso481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My sister you are not alone. God loves you and has a good plan for you and your daughter. Remember Sarah in the bible. God is going to change your life from nobody to somebody 🙏🙏 continue believing in him. He is everything.

    • @SharedMomentswithJustus
      @SharedMomentswithJustus  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're right @Margaret and she's a hardworking woman. So she's definitely going places

  • @elizabethwacira2561
    @elizabethwacira2561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hugs dear

  • @ceciliaogola5597
    @ceciliaogola5597 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What your Mother said is true

  • @haworoblay9327
    @haworoblay9327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey there I wanted to start by saying how beautiful you are, please don't waste your time with how and why, the sperm donor appears to me he is an empty man with nothing to give to him self or others around him, forgive your self and him and move on you are young and beautiful and have a lot to live for.

  • @emmahmaepa7071
    @emmahmaepa7071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    woman go THROUGH nonsense in the name of love or belonging🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

  • @betsy5889
    @betsy5889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    how can a grandfather let his grandkids to live on the streets

  • @samuelokumu4610
    @samuelokumu4610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blame the drugs....... it's a disaster everywhere

  • @92Kandee
    @92Kandee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Not to knock her story but sis ignored obvious red flags.
    1. Age - her being 31 and him, 25. Man's was too young for her & wet behind the ears.
    2. Religion - she had fasted & prayed for a man, why would God send her a Muslim man? Marrying a man of a different religion (i have nothing against other religions, btw) will eventually cause trouble in your relationship. However, I will not deny that other couples have managed to make it work but it's tricky.
    Tbh, sis played herself. The desperation of wanting a husband & a child led to her judgement being clouded. He didn't value her.

    • @pamelawadegu2224
      @pamelawadegu2224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jesus was tempted right after He finished fasting for 40 days and nights,

    • @92Kandee
      @92Kandee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@pamelawadegu2224 exactly, she was tempted & fell into the trap.

    • @ummywite
      @ummywite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why wouldn’t God not send her a Muslim man ? What’s wrong with Muslims???

    • @92Kandee
      @92Kandee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ummywite because of the same reason her boyfriend left her; she'd need to convert in order to ensure the marriage is peaceful & that the couple prays together, thus abandoning her religion.
      Nothing is wrong with Muslims. 🤷🏾‍♀️
      Like my initial comment said, I have nothing against other religions & some marriages of people following different religions have worked; it is however DIFFICULT & CHALLENGING.

    • @magnam6807
      @magnam6807 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You've got the nail on the head🎯

  • @multifariousgemini
    @multifariousgemini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen to what she said here! 1:04:34

  • @Qeenpop
    @Qeenpop 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was never meant to be.Its good you ve moved on.

  • @IANA2030
    @IANA2030 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Narcissists all over this world.Ladies ones u discover u have a narcissist in ur life ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun

  • @karugumureithi5169
    @karugumureithi5169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Greetings from Ndenderu.

  • @allenngandu17
    @allenngandu17 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    very sad story, you still a rose keep your head up

  • @Kakwasi
    @Kakwasi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Again just because you are in a relationship with someone don't give them that level of control over your life. Eti smell your sheets, keep your life in fear are they your God? Or are they giving you the kingdom of heaven or something

  • @floraigokiterah1642
    @floraigokiterah1642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He was a narcissist

    • @nickynn5532
      @nickynn5532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes , he had narcissistic personality disorder

  • @nemaembenimuofhe7480
    @nemaembenimuofhe7480 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    when i started i knew i saw her somewhere #centTV

  • @user-mr5sd1qg3q
    @user-mr5sd1qg3q 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i mean diamond

  • @SharedMomentswithJustus
    @SharedMomentswithJustus  3 ปีที่แล้ว

    To share your story with us, kindly send an email to sharedmoments.tv@gmail.com

  • @janetogutu4972
    @janetogutu4972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry girl,men men men

    • @azamtn
      @azamtn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what do you mean men men men. who told you to try all men?

    • @Cochabamba37
      @Cochabamba37 ปีที่แล้ว

      She obviously ignored numerous red flags.

  • @abenakiki5309
    @abenakiki5309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🇬🇭🇬🇭

  • @lavingash1392
    @lavingash1392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪sem shoe i was

  • @sabrinataylor562
    @sabrinataylor562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stop giving it upppppp yall get in bed too quick!!!!!