I'm a therapist been working in an outpatient clinic I'm transitioning to private practice. I'm trying to get to his level, his expertise, his finesse. What is so impressive is his ability to get others to disclose with doing almost nothing more than a nod.
He is using hypnosis technique by speaking rhythmically and you just have to be a born psychopath narcissist and play therapist and you will achieve the same smooth result.
@@modernmariorc First, you clearly dont know how hypnosis works. Second, you don't know what psychopathy or narcissism is. And if you do, then you didn't apply your knowledge in your comment.
@@dialoguspodcastmx True, I don't fully know what each term means, but each one is a scale from zero to a full blown diagnosis, and my point is that I'm seeing qualities that are higher up on that scale in the individuals populating the professional body of teaching and administering group psychotherapy. The narcissism creates cognitive dissonance that draws people and solidifies the services they provide. The hustle of how to attract and retain a group of psychotherapy clients is taught from one practitioner to the next and it is taught in between the lines (if you repeat what the psychotherapy textbook and manual say to the patient, the lines are worded in such a way stay as to draw the patient in and sell the practitioner and practice as a long term service).
This looks like Yalom interviewing Yalom 😁 in the first interview...all kidding aside im reading his existential book and its really helping me get over my issues...
I'm not knocking Dr Yalom, but I'm really not sure about the way he changed to focus to himself and his own dreams, nor am I convrniced that gareths 'wow, interesting' was genuine.
It is obvious Irvin does not see the therapy as a mechanism. That is why I interpreted his reaction to his son's explanation cold for he does not think it that way. For him I believe and for me aswell therapy is a whole.
Jundishapur Journal of Chronic Disease Care (JJCDC) is the official peer-reviewed research journal of Ahvaz Nursing & Midwifery School and is devoted to a wide range of research that will contribute on the chronic disease of the caring professions.
Yalom is a bad therapist, there I said it. It baffles me beyond belief why he is so popular. Why does the patient need therapist self disclosure? The patient does not need self-disclosure, no matter how certain therapists reiterate this belief. The patient needs a space where they can express themselves, be themselves with no regard for the needs of the therapist. And a patient needs transparency in every moment about the proceedings and interventions in therapy, as to how it serves the interest of the patient. That's it. When Yalom tells the patient a dream, what he implicitly saying is "I want you to listen to my dream, because I want you to listen to me." Why? Is it in the interest of the patient? A patient can experience the therapist as a real person without the therapist taking space for themselves. When patients have to take over functions FOR the therapist in the therapeutic setting, such as the interested listener or the "good, cooperative, receptive" patient, that's when therapy is over and it's not much more than a sharade. It's called transference baby, and if you can't handle it, you're not made for that job.
Yalom as his finest. The amount of space that he holds for the other. Incredible
Maybe we arnt watching the same video.
G-d I would have loved to have Irvin Yalom be my therapist
I'm a therapist been working in an outpatient clinic I'm transitioning to private practice. I'm trying to get to his level, his expertise, his finesse. What is so impressive is his ability to get others to disclose with doing almost nothing more than a nod.
He is using hypnosis technique by speaking rhythmically and you just have to be a born psychopath narcissist and play therapist and you will achieve the same smooth result.
@@modernmariorc First, you clearly dont know how hypnosis works. Second, you don't know what psychopathy or narcissism is. And if you do, then you didn't apply your knowledge in your comment.
@@dialoguspodcastmx True, I don't fully know what each term means, but each one is a scale from zero to a full blown diagnosis, and my point is that I'm seeing qualities that are higher up on that scale in the individuals populating the professional body of teaching and administering group psychotherapy. The narcissism creates cognitive dissonance that draws people and solidifies the services they provide. The hustle of how to attract and retain a group of psychotherapy clients is taught from one practitioner to the next and it is taught in between the lines (if you repeat what the psychotherapy textbook and manual say to the patient, the lines are worded in such a way stay as to draw the patient in and sell the practitioner and practice as a long term service).
@@modernmariorc Holy cow what an incorrect statement xD
This looks like Yalom interviewing Yalom 😁 in the first interview...all kidding aside im reading his existential book and its really helping me get over my issues...
whic book?
hey can I buy it off of you? message me
@@apurvasinghai7224 Most likely "Staring at the Sun". I'm going to buy it and will start reading it soon too.
I'm not knocking Dr Yalom, but I'm really not sure about the way he changed to focus to himself and his own dreams, nor am I convrniced that gareths 'wow, interesting' was genuine.
His self-disclosure was certainly in line with his presenting issue.
It is obvious Irvin does not see the therapy as a mechanism. That is why I interpreted his reaction to his son's explanation cold for he does not think it that way. For him I believe and for me aswell therapy is a whole.
Why does this whole thing plays out like an Oblivion NPC conversation?
Just excellent!
Jundishapur Journal of Chronic Disease Care (JJCDC) is the official peer-reviewed research journal of Ahvaz Nursing & Midwifery School and is devoted to a wide range of research that will contribute on the chronic disease of the caring professions.
sounds honest psychiatrist
is that Marvin?
😍
Yalom is a bad therapist, there I said it. It baffles me beyond belief why he is so popular. Why does the patient need therapist self disclosure? The patient does not need self-disclosure, no matter how certain therapists reiterate this belief. The patient needs a space where they can express themselves, be themselves with no regard for the needs of the therapist. And a patient needs transparency in every moment about the proceedings and interventions in therapy, as to how it serves the interest of the patient. That's it. When Yalom tells the patient a dream, what he implicitly saying is "I want you to listen to my dream, because I want you to listen to me." Why? Is it in the interest of the patient? A patient can experience the therapist as a real person without the therapist taking space for themselves. When patients have to take over functions FOR the therapist in the therapeutic setting, such as the interested listener or the "good, cooperative, receptive" patient, that's when therapy is over and it's not much more than a sharade. It's called transference baby, and if you can't handle it, you're not made for that job.
Read his book,
‘Love’s Executioner’ 1989. 👨🏻🎓
Charade is spelt with a ‘c’. 🤦🏻♀️