Sir, I like the topics of your discussion. The topics are really different and helpful. The way you explain with your rich experience is also very nice and easy to understand. Thank you for such videos full of practical knowledge.
My MIL threw tantrums when my husband worked in kitchen with me. We both are earning and work together in home also. In my MIL's home men are not supposed to work in kitchen, and now her husband and other son are so spoiled that they both can't live without any women tking care of them daily. And now because she thinks she is old (early 60s) I am expected to become that free caretaker in her place. I am happy that my husband has been living in hostels, away from parents (for studies), he is not spoiled, but his brother is spoiled, jobless and demands everything from everyone.
I think jyadatar north india m aise ladke hote h jo kaam nhi krte ghr ka. M uttarakhand se hu, yaha maine koi ladka ya uncle log nhi dekhe jo ghr ka kaam nhi krte , even cities m ja ke bhi vo sb equally ghr ka kaam krte h. Im proud of pahadi men ❤@kunalrao1123
You are absolutely right Sir, Most of the parents haven't learnt parenting. For them parenting is only putting children to big schools and see how well they run in rat race. Even the well educated parents are not aware of the term 'personality'. They don't have any idea of developing the child's personality. They forcefully open the petals and then blame the child for not blossoming according to their expectations ,despite of their sacrifices. You are doing a great job Sir, Thank you, Our best regards to you Sir.
Children learn to walk only by falling. But, parents nowadays put their kids in Baby Walkers, to avoid falling and then keeps complaining about their lack of creativity and talent inherited from them. What you do is what you get. Nice point of view from Amitji regarding poor parenting and improper nurturing leading to under nourished and reduced clarity in kids.
1.Don't say NO in things unless & until it can cause physical,mental or pyschological harm. 2.Use NO as a LIFE - LINE 3.If you want to say NO say but with logic postponement. 4.Important point 3:30 5.Coach have knowledge 6.Raw energy in youngsters 7.Relationships mein guidelines dena par bolna ki mere time pe yeh sab tha isse tu sunle aur isse agsr koi learnings milta hai toh apne relationship mein modify karke use kar lena. 8.Important point 6:30 9.Important point 9:30 10.Important point 14:15
Would love to see 2M subscribers on this channel coz everything he teaches is what we're in dire need of. Especially teenagers should follow this channel so that the growth of our country is in a right direction. What an abundance of knowledge 🤩
Being on the receiving end as a child, i 100 percent agree that children of such parents are taking stupid decision later in life and has lot of resentment.
I had an upbringing like this. My parents took most of the decisions in my life and I leaned on them for their approval and opinion. Whenever things went wrong, I could easily blame them. But this resulted in lack of confidence while growing up, not being able to take even small decisions in life and selecting wrong people in close relationships. It took me several years and mistakes in life to realize who I really was and what I really want from life. I''m a late bloomer, but I'm happy that I'm figuring out stuff for myself.
My parents never supported me when I wanted to start my own business 😢 as my father was asking questions that 1st i need to get the confidence on him that i can do.... But still I started my own business as at one point in my life i realised that my father is so negative that he just made me feel like I am nothing in my family from my childhood & he always told me I was useless...but I won many awards not even one he congratulated me but if the same my sister would have achieved his behaviour would have been the opposite
@@Deeptivityhello I am mihir (18 yo). My dad has always made me feel like loser. But thank God, now I am getting wisdom through some youtube channels.
Yes you are right. Me and my husband love to see your videos, actually we wait for your new video. You discuss practical issues comically. Hats off to you
A lot of our parents had a very hard life and they were busy surviving. They had to take action and achieve things because they had to and there was simply no other way. My parents are like that too and they always have good intentions while giving me any advice but sometimes they're wrong. I learnt a lot of things on the internet which should have come from my parents but I will never blame them. I'll try to learn as much as I can and If I ever have a kid I'll try to remember all these things and be a better role model to them
Yes, truely agree and fortunately we being a parent never said NO to very small matters to children and the result is they are very supporting morally and financially to us with great sense of responsibility and even they don't want to go abroad like others for this reason. They feel living together is win win situation.
My mother thrown me same tantrums ...emotional drama whenever I asked to resign from job.. in which I feel that its sucking my life... I have been continuously saying that m not fit for this job I dont want to do..I want to try some other field for my career... Since 4-5 years..bt she never understands me
A very critical analysis on an aspect of parenthood that is so so common in Indian culture....indeed a foundation of the path towards social reform has been laid by you sir...we wud do grt justice to our children and to ourselves as well if we understand and follow it...profound
Sir, You're 100 💯 percent right. May God bless you. You teach us on an excellent manner. We love you and pray for your health, happiness, prosperity and long life. You're a very great wise, intelligent man. Thank you very much. Hameed Jilani. Lahore, Pakistan. 20.11.2022.
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne..as usual... fortunately i have both parents lik this... they let me think live and speak my mind and always discussed and gave me reasons fr everything...
You are right absolutely but what to do some people are so adamant in their ways and unwilling to change. It's a big headache to explain argue and is better to give up.
Mag.. very practical n a little diplomatic to be to survive all this, Good parent children relationship. In today's educated n intelligent world is quite tough n challenging But worth it, our family is our world.
Sir Great as Always given clarity to both parents n kids n ur remarkable way as told of spreading it among society 👏👏👏👌💐ultimate Maza is in clarity about perspective of life🙏
MAG I think my parents have always taken decision for me and now as an adult i still feel like a child and unable to take my own decisions. Reason is whenever i try to make some decision for myself, my parents said NO. As a result i have low self esteem and unable to function properly in society.
Mag Absolutely correct sir my child is only 6 year old & most of the time goes in saying no ,no the whole day . Quiet Relatable and having a single child goes all the attention to him/her .
Aapne sahi kaha mera maa baap ya mante hai ka briliant baacha paida hota hai. Iss liya mera maa baap govt job hone ka baad bhi na koi mujha football ya cricket bhi khelna ka liya paise bhi nahi diya jab ke facilities available thee Jo costly nahi thee
Nafrat se nahi Second Order thinking learnt by you. 🙏🏻 Although somewhere i was following this but now have to show this to my other family members too.
आप जो बात कर रहे है वो देश के हर माता पिता को देखना चाहिए, बेहतरीन वीडियो बेमिसाल मजेदार ❤❤ आप ने हकीकत कही , हर बात का अपना एक नजरिया होता है वो आपने बताया😊
My father always tells you never listen to me, why should I when i have my own ideas in life & i have high ambitions in life...he was just working in a government office....what he will tell about business & no matter how I came up in my own business he never ever appreciated at all..my mindset dosent match with my family
I think parents should give freedom to their kids nowadays it's not about being a parent it's how friendly your with your kids...the old type thinking is my parents never use to allow me to fo outside with my friends and this was the time to enjoy in life & if parents are around how can one be free in the 1st place.. We cannot control somone else you can only teach them what's right or wrong
Sir ye same situation mere father ki h.. now maine ek ladka dhundha h apni caste ka for future marriage.. vo usko dkhne tak ko ready nhi hai.. aur NO bole jaa re hain Iss situation m kya karu M already 27 Unko iss baat se fark nhi pad raha😢
You connect very well to youngsters😮but Humare parents nahi sunenge. Itni age ho gai unki vo 10 saal se guruji ke satsang sun ker nahi badle ab kyu badlengey
Mere papa bolte hai kisi se baat mat kro dost mat banao bahar mujhse bina puche mat jaao jab maine unki khilafat ki kyuki nai dipression me jaa rhi or unke against jaake mai bahar chali gayi to mujhse sabne baat krna band krdia padhai ke lie v maine kabhi mana nahi kia fir v aisa krrhe mai 24 years ki hu still bolte hai har jagah maa ke sath jaa jabki mai comfortable nahi hoti
Sir I want your consultancy for my carrier just like u said in this video my parents said to me I am paying your bills so we decide what will you become into the future
Sir, I like the topics of your discussion. The topics are really different and helpful. The way you explain with your rich experience is also very nice and easy to understand. Thank you for such videos full of practical knowledge.
Always kamyab
My MIL threw tantrums when my husband worked in kitchen with me. We both are earning and work together in home also. In my MIL's home men are not supposed to work in kitchen, and now her husband and other son are so spoiled that they both can't live without any women tking care of them daily. And now because she thinks she is old (early 60s) I am expected to become that free caretaker in her place. I am happy that my husband has been living in hostels, away from parents (for studies), he is not spoiled, but his brother is spoiled, jobless and demands everything from everyone.
Do both of you earn the same?
Tu sab ko machine gun 🔫 say bhoon daal. Abay! Shadi krnay say pehlay tum log ko yeh sab nazar nhin ata . Tab to apna kaam chlana hota hay
Mai to bohot sharref hun🤡. Sari galti meri saans ki hai😡😂
I think jyadatar north india m aise ladke hote h jo kaam nhi krte ghr ka. M uttarakhand se hu, yaha maine koi ladka ya uncle log nhi dekhe jo ghr ka kaam nhi krte , even cities m ja ke bhi vo sb equally ghr ka kaam krte h. Im proud of pahadi men ❤@kunalrao1123
@@LoveMaze-kw1le inheritance/property/assets betiyo ko diye jate hain equally?
You are absolutely right Sir,
Most of the parents haven't learnt parenting.
For them parenting is only putting children to big schools and see how well they run in rat race.
Even the well educated parents are not aware of the term 'personality'.
They don't have any idea of developing the child's personality.
They forcefully open the petals and then blame the child for not blossoming according to their expectations ,despite of their sacrifices.
You are doing a great job Sir,
Thank you,
Our best regards to you Sir.
Children learn to walk only by falling. But, parents nowadays put their kids in Baby Walkers, to avoid falling and then keeps complaining about their lack of creativity and talent inherited from them.
What you do is what you get. Nice point of view from Amitji regarding poor parenting and improper nurturing leading to under nourished and reduced clarity in kids.
1.Don't say NO in things unless & until it can cause physical,mental or pyschological harm.
2.Use NO as a LIFE - LINE
3.If you want to say NO say but with logic postponement.
4.Important point 3:30
5.Coach have knowledge
6.Raw energy in youngsters
7.Relationships mein guidelines dena par bolna ki mere time pe yeh sab tha isse tu sunle aur isse agsr koi learnings milta hai toh apne relationship mein modify karke use kar lena.
8.Important point 6:30
9.Important point 9:30
10.Important point 14:15
Would love to see 2M subscribers on this channel coz everything he teaches is what we're in dire need of. Especially teenagers should follow this channel so that the growth of our country is in a right direction. What an abundance of knowledge 🤩
Being on the receiving end as a child, i 100 percent agree that children of such parents are taking stupid decision later in life and has lot of resentment.
I had an upbringing like this. My parents took most of the decisions in my life and I leaned on them for their approval and opinion. Whenever things went wrong, I could easily blame them. But this resulted in lack of confidence while growing up, not being able to take even small decisions in life and selecting wrong people in close relationships.
It took me several years and mistakes in life to realize who I really was and what I really want from life. I''m a late bloomer, but I'm happy that I'm figuring out stuff for myself.
My parents never supported me when I wanted to start my own business 😢 as my father was asking questions that 1st i need to get the confidence on him that i can do.... But still I started my own business as at one point in my life i realised that my father is so negative that he just made me feel like I am nothing in my family from my childhood & he always told me I was useless...but I won many awards not even one he congratulated me but if the same my sister would have achieved his behaviour would have been the opposite
Hi. Same is my situation. Can we please talk
Same situation of mine
@@Deeptivityhello I am mihir (18 yo). My dad has always made me feel like loser. But thank God, now I am getting wisdom through some youtube channels.
Yes you are right. Me and my husband love to see your videos, actually we wait for your new video. You discuss practical issues comically. Hats off to you
A lot of our parents had a very hard life and they were busy surviving. They had to take action and achieve things because they had to and there was simply no other way. My parents are like that too and they always have good intentions while giving me any advice but sometimes they're wrong. I learnt a lot of things on the internet which should have come from my parents but I will never blame them. I'll try to learn as much as I can and If I ever have a kid I'll try to remember all these things and be a better role model to them
Excellent attitude
Yes, truely agree and fortunately we being a parent never said NO to very small matters to children and the result is they are very supporting morally and financially to us with great sense of responsibility and even they don't want to go abroad like others for this reason. They feel living together is win win situation.
This channel is not only clarity for youth but also for parents..keep up d gud work sangwaan ji..pls do more n more videos like this
My mother thrown me same tantrums ...emotional drama whenever I asked to resign from job.. in which I feel that its sucking my life... I have been continuously saying that m not fit for this job I dont want to do..I want to try some other field for my career... Since 4-5 years..bt she never understands me
Such a perfect analysis!!! So deep , no one can tell such things so beautifully clearly in words
A very critical analysis on an aspect of parenthood that is so so common in Indian culture....indeed a foundation of the path towards social reform has been laid by you sir...we wud do grt justice to our children and to ourselves as well if we understand and follow it...profound
Sir,
You're 100 💯 percent right. May God bless you. You teach us on an excellent manner. We love you and pray for your health, happiness, prosperity and long life.
You're a very great wise, intelligent man. Thank you very much.
Hameed Jilani.
Lahore, Pakistan.
20.11.2022.
Beautifully Explained
Very genuine and critical parenting issue explained in practical manner. 🙏
Completely identify with it ….hats off to you for bringing out this topic 🙏🏻
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne..as usual... fortunately i have both parents lik this... they let me think live and speak my mind and always discussed and gave me reasons fr everything...
Such an intricate issue to touch upon. Thank you for starting this dialogue sir. Much respect. MAG!
Sir ji hila deta ho aap... Very true words ❤❤❤
You are absolutely correct Sir !
You are right absolutely but what to do some people are so adamant in their ways and unwilling to change. It's a big headache to explain argue and is better to give up.
Mag.. very practical n a little diplomatic to be to survive all this,
Good parent children relationship.
In today's educated n intelligent world is quite tough n challenging
But worth it, our family is our world.
A very practical video applicable while dealing with children and juniors at office
Original & marvellous content😇 what a realistic perspective 👏 more power to you💫 regards
Sir please keep coming with videos 🙏🙏 really grate and wise perspective
Yes, your observations are correct
Jeevan me itna pain hai lekin Guruji to apni baton se hi kuch taqleefein kam kar dete hai... 😊
Superb
Great thoughts sir, we are trying to do same.
I really feel you are pioneer in questioning the concept of obsolete Indian parenting
Very true Sirji
Great sir..100% true...aise he parents ko behave karna chahiye..mag..
Most Greatest video till now.....
Should reach every household to attain peace at home
You are right sir ....this content is so valuable
Sir Great as Always given clarity to both parents n kids n ur remarkable way as told of spreading it among society 👏👏👏👌💐ultimate Maza is in clarity about perspective of life🙏
MAG
I think my parents have always taken decision for me and now as an adult i still feel like a child and unable to take my own decisions. Reason is whenever i try to make some decision for myself, my parents said NO. As a result i have low self esteem and unable to function properly in society.
I love to see your vedioes,Thank you Sir
MAG..... Thank you sir for this video. Forwarding this video is the best way to convey to our parents what we think.
Mag
Absolutely correct sir my child is only 6 year old & most of the time goes in saying no ,no the whole day .
Quiet Relatable and having a single child goes all the attention to him/her .
Aapne sahi kaha mera maa baap ya mante hai ka briliant baacha paida hota hai. Iss liya mera maa baap govt job hone ka baad bhi na koi mujha football ya cricket bhi khelna ka liya paise bhi nahi diya jab ke facilities available thee Jo costly nahi thee
Beautiful content sir
Thank you Sir aapse bahut kuchh seekhne ko mila🙏🙏
Every video is very useful👌🏻Thank you sir☺️
आपने बिल्कुल ठीक कहा है सर जी 🙏🙏
Loving you consent Sir , watching from very first video and going to finish all in a week 💓💓💓💓
Kamyaab sir 👌👌
Very good explanation sir
Seriously very sensible topic explained in very simple way thank you sir.
Practical perspective nicely explained
EXCELLENT for your new IDEAS. THANKS 😊
V clear view 👌 and so true 🙏
Grt efforts to show the truth of parents n parenting.nd more over the behavior of today's youth too...MAG 🙂
Sir aap kamyaab hai, Thanks
GRATITUDE
Pl guide us to be more productive as Defence Offrs.
Regards
Brilliant Sir 😊
Nafrat se nahi Second Order thinking learnt by you. 🙏🏻
Although somewhere i was following this but now have to show this to my other family members too.
Behtareen Amitji! Ek duvidha dur karne ki disha dikhayai hai. 👍
आप जो बात कर रहे है वो देश के हर माता पिता को देखना चाहिए, बेहतरीन वीडियो
बेमिसाल मजेदार ❤❤
आप ने हकीकत कही , हर बात का अपना एक नजरिया होता है वो आपने बताया😊
My father always tells you never listen to me, why should I when i have my own ideas in life & i have high ambitions in life...he was just working in a government office....what he will tell about business & no matter how I came up in my own business he never ever appreciated at all..my mindset dosent match with my family
My father was never my support from my childhood so I never discuss anything with him coz he always fights....so I do whatever comes to my heart
Mind blowing guru g, keep it up. Loving your videos
Super 👌 sir
Thankyou sir, i always liked ur video n I always learn new things from your advice...
I totally resonate with this pov... I have become this kind of person due to my father's no no attitude
Same😂
Great perspective
I think parents should give freedom to their kids nowadays it's not about being a parent it's how friendly your with your kids...the old type thinking is my parents never use to allow me to fo outside with my friends and this was the time to enjoy in life & if parents are around how can one be free in the 1st place.. We cannot control somone else you can only teach them what's right or wrong
MAG....Amit Sir....as usual great content 👍👍
Thanks sir
Mostly, yehi h, but people are hesitate to say
thanks for making video on this topic
आपने बिल्कुल ठीक कहा है 🙏🙏
Nice, well said👍
U r absolutely right sir.... generally 80 to 90 percent parents say No No for everything
Sir ye same situation mere father ki h.. now maine ek ladka dhundha h apni caste ka for future marriage.. vo usko dkhne tak ko ready nhi hai.. aur NO bole jaa re hain
Iss situation m kya karu
M already 27
Unko iss baat se fark nhi pad raha😢
amazin genuine content
Super Kaamyaab 🙏🏻
Kaamyab
Excellent video.
I wish I could find one flaw.
MAG.
ye dil pe lag gya videoo
Ek number
You connect very well to youngsters😮but Humare parents nahi sunenge. Itni age ho gai unki vo 10 saal se guruji ke satsang sun ker nahi badle ab kyu badlengey
Kamyab 👍
U r right.
Very true, but yes krte krte hum no krna bhul jate h
MAG🔥🔥😅
Mere papa bolte hai kisi se baat mat kro dost mat banao bahar mujhse bina puche mat jaao jab maine unki khilafat ki kyuki nai dipression me jaa rhi or unke against jaake mai bahar chali gayi to mujhse sabne baat krna band krdia padhai ke lie v maine kabhi mana nahi kia fir v aisa krrhe mai 24 years ki hu still bolte hai har jagah maa ke sath jaa jabki mai comfortable nahi hoti
Well said
Sir I want your consultancy for my carrier just like u said in this video my parents said to me I am paying your bills so we decide what will you become into the future
I agree with your views.
true sir
I love you sir....
आप सही हो सर
Agree. ✅
As usual excellent video
1000%agree
Very nice video.
Today I feel myparents have done the best parenting.
Maza aa gya
Sir please i am totally confused and my parents not understand 😢sir can u please be my mentor