Should You Lend Money To Your Relatives Or Friends ?

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  • @sundeepjaisinghani7413
    @sundeepjaisinghani7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    Sir you are actually a Gem 💎

    • @ClarityForYouth
      @ClarityForYouth  2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thanks

    • @kapalbhatipranayam6345
      @kapalbhatipranayam6345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      मेरे पास....आपके लिए words नहीं है ....ecosychosociologist...great economist sociologist psychologist

    • @krsantoshskn
      @krsantoshskn ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@hulkhogan1630 support good content dont give useless coments

    • @MPatel84
      @MPatel84 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@ClarityForYouthpls highlight on the topic of lending money on interest to relatives who are in big businesses like construction

    • @laxmanCPWDJE
      @laxmanCPWDJE ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ClarityForYouth sir mere paise barbad ho gaye mera relative nahi de raha hai to ab mai kya karo ? paise mango ya fir bhul jawo ?

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    People borrow your money with a smile, and return it back with an attitude.
    No one tells a better story than someone wanting to borrow money

    • @NavdeepSekhonsekhonnavdeep
      @NavdeepSekhonsekhonnavdeep ปีที่แล้ว +1

      99% don't return they will fight . and you will loose your money as well as relatives

    • @philipdsa7907
      @philipdsa7907 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Over a period of time,it looks as if the giver has borrowed the money and plead for repay.

    • @manjular3678
      @manjular3678 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@philipdsa7907 True

    • @RavikumarRandhir
      @RavikumarRandhir ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right😂

    • @AvinashKumar-mh6si
      @AvinashKumar-mh6si ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😢 Kyunki paisaa lene k baad, wo Paisa unke baabu Ji kaa ho jaata hai

  • @festivevibes23
    @festivevibes23 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I have a suggestion to youth.
    Bookmark this video and watch it again after 1 year, 2 years, 3 years etc (may be after getting married, after having child, after spending good amount on house purchase, good amount for child ) Every time you may get a fresh perspective.
    I watched this video 6 months ago for first time. I was not convinced with some contents at that time. Now I get a new perspective and understand more clearly.
    You are true clarity giver 👌

  • @smilekapoor
    @smilekapoor ปีที่แล้ว +52

    "प्यार गया पैसा गया और गया व्यापार, दर्शन दुर्लभ हो गये जबसे दिया उधार 🙏

  • @yaduvendravikramsingh4008
    @yaduvendravikramsingh4008 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    An old maxim "Don't lend money to friends ; you will lose both"

    • @abhinaykesarwani2393
      @abhinaykesarwani2393 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dammn deep brother true that

    • @abhinaykesarwani2393
      @abhinaykesarwani2393 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@codingiscreativity yeah bro either or case it's a tough decision and end up losing both

  • @upendra6916
    @upendra6916 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    My simple funda... Naa kisi se lena..naa kisi se dena... My friend and relatives asked me for money.. i denied everytime... I am the king 👑👑👑

    • @sabitasahu3030
      @sabitasahu3030 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      kya bol karr mana kia?

    • @upendra6916
      @upendra6916 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@sabitasahu3030 nahi hai itna paisa mere account me bolke

    • @AbdulHameed-te9pw
      @AbdulHameed-te9pw ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@upendra6916 thank you for your suggestion brother.

    • @anandsingh4071
      @anandsingh4071 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      same here😂

  • @upendra6916
    @upendra6916 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    My one relative asked me for 25k .. i denied... Later on that evening...his son bought iPhone... Samajh rhe ho daya...

  • @knowledgeideas5738
    @knowledgeideas5738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Real video people not returning loan and going abroad for holidays and person that given money has not gone abroad till now

  • @anujdahiya1893
    @anujdahiya1893 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Problem is not losing money. I am more concerned that our morals values are decreasing day by day 😢

    • @amandeepshahuk
      @amandeepshahuk ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is what should be addressed first. If we address the declining moral values in the society, the other probelms arising out of it will get solved automatically.

  • @sumandhaka6106
    @sumandhaka6106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Most of the times person who is giving money know that he is being fooled but didn't know how to deal with this and communicate to family.

  • @rishavbadola7357
    @rishavbadola7357 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I don’t have emi’s. Don’t even have a credit card. But i tell everyone I’m in debt😂

    • @ytubeyoutube-c6v
      @ytubeyoutube-c6v ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂 Thx ill try

    • @Unknown-n9y5q
      @Unknown-n9y5q 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Same thing I told people 😂 taki wo paisa hi na mage

    • @shrutiranjan0511
      @shrutiranjan0511 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      When I will start earning money I will do the same 😅

    • @waghejitechnical5023
      @waghejitechnical5023 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Shahane 🧠😂

    • @DatsNeha
      @DatsNeha 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And what if they read your comments😅

  • @haris1328
    @haris1328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    These lessons should be taught in schools compulsory

  • @MILINDNEWTON
    @MILINDNEWTON 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Don't tell your salary to your friends and relatives 😜

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Very correct otherwise they will expect from you too much unexpectedly.

    • @creativecorner4715
      @creativecorner4715 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Than they will ask u another time ...

    • @wowser2153
      @wowser2153 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Tell only half of your salary. Tell you are struggling to pay loans on house and car

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@wowser2153 right

    • @Fooddelicious_1111
      @Fooddelicious_1111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes we are not supposed to share it ..

  • @krishnauppar380
    @krishnauppar380 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I gave about 30 k to my GF to buy a two wheeler. After a month I asked her my money back. Eventually she gave but the relationship was about to end. So I thought it's all my hard earned money and took back every thing i have spent on her. Be it on food, shopping and trips. Now I got my money back and she'll not bother me anymore. I have a peaceful life now. Planning to buy health and term insurance for my family.

    • @dheerajmgm
      @dheerajmgm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😆😆

    • @Antimgupta16
      @Antimgupta16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Such a creep thinking🤬dnt marry ever

  • @sankyppp
    @sankyppp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    About 40 yrs ago, my father bought a bigger flat so that our then joint-family could have more space and a front-facing home, something he felt that his parents and siblings deserved. He arranged money from relatives and paid them back in a few years' time. One big blunder he made was, paying the money for buying the flat and putting his younger brother's name on it instead of his own, thinking that it was a common family asset and his younger brother was not doing very well. He supported them like a father to stand on their own feet, sometimes even taking loans on behalf of the brothers to help start small businesses.
    40 yrs later it was decided that the flat will be sold as each of the brothers had made their lives and their kids were also working now. However, now my father had to share the money received from the sale of the house. My uncles claimed that they paid some unrealistic amounts to my father every month so they too deserved a share in the property. My father lived with his maternal uncle till he completed his education and hence was not the most fav child of my grandparents, and refused to support my father. So in the end, my father just got 40% for a flat that he paid for fully. He struggled through the years to pay off the money he borrowed, sometimes even selling my mom's jewelry. Now he does not want to even look at the faces of his brothers.

    • @ravijeeverma876
      @ravijeeverma876 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Very sad. Aapki kahani se seekh mila mujhe. Always keep proof of transaction.

    • @shubhams2765
      @shubhams2765 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Iam facing similar situation with my real blood relations... Brothers uncle's ...

    • @gajendrakumar9166
      @gajendrakumar9166 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Where ever I go i heard similar stories

    • @Dilip1600
      @Dilip1600 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Moral of the lesson - If we are buying something, we should buy it in our own name

    • @sankyppp
      @sankyppp ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Dilip1600 Absolutely, now the banks require that anyone who is named as the asset share owner is responsible for the loan payments. This will make sure that the payer remains the owner for a long time.

  • @jagdishvenkatswamy7952
    @jagdishvenkatswamy7952 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    i remember both couples working with good salary and asking me for a loan without interest to buy a plot while myself being a single income with a balanced spending . after a lot of check facts i rejected the reason being they needed money for taking asset and not a do or die case

    • @BohoDevi
      @BohoDevi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      perfect logic

  • @funnlearnforkidshi5
    @funnlearnforkidshi5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Correct....its ok to become a villain for relatives and friends who are only there with you for money....because even after borrowing and when u ask for your money ( w/O interest) they will blame you that you are so cheap...

  • @antarabasak1055
    @antarabasak1055 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The worst case is they ask for money for emergency, you lend and you hear they are going on holiday. The worst ghatiya species that can ever exist.

  • @nishabharadwaj4960
    @nishabharadwaj4960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Every words of yours so true...parents doesn't care..they care for their own need

    • @anooptomar13
      @anooptomar13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes some parents are very selfish.

    • @Saagar_Sahu
      @Saagar_Sahu ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean payback their amount they spend on you at least

    • @nishabharadwaj4960
      @nishabharadwaj4960 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sometimes its need but sometimes its unreasonable

    • @captainsinghdevendersingh
      @captainsinghdevendersingh ปีที่แล้ว

      They care in their own wisdom. They will help their
      weakest with that money. Think it over. Life is not visible try understanding it that way. You will remember me then

    • @Fooddelicious_1111
      @Fooddelicious_1111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True .. sometimes parents become the broker and tell to give to the brother or sister ... Saying he or she is struggling no god has given you help him or her ... Very unfair

  • @investoengineer3811
    @investoengineer3811 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Relations are almost always dead once money transaction happens and there is no accountability.

  • @manudutta
    @manudutta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    thats true sir ... i have tata nano but my wealth is 1.5 crore and have 50k fix income ..
    all this happend after reading rich dad poor dad .....and investing and trading in stock market since 2015

    • @skycloud1401
      @skycloud1401 ปีที่แล้ว

      R u retired or still working

    • @manudutta
      @manudutta ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@skycloud1401 working on my own terms

    • @manudutta
      @manudutta ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rushiraul4084 yes.. Look at nature
      What they need.. Food, shelter, security...that's all i have .. Expensive car.. Other things.. Sab moh maya hai

    • @manudutta
      @manudutta ปีที่แล้ว

      @@B-W. mostly people's do same mistake..

    • @AnkitKumar-kk3iw
      @AnkitKumar-kk3iw ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manudutta Trading krte ho kya aap?

  • @amitsharma2686
    @amitsharma2686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    excellent clarity with examples, awesome sir, I am actually the one who started with negative because of this showbaazi, struggled a lot to become positive surplus after 15 years. All this emotional blackmail actually hits u badly in the long run.

    • @anooptomar13
      @anooptomar13 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here and i am still in negitive

    • @doodlemoodle699
      @doodlemoodle699 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @vijaysalian1452
      @vijaysalian1452 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do u believe in god..have u seen him.. why do drop money in boxes.. this world u have humans n needs r n will be forever.. all have it but some do not understand.. every family has a black sheep.. this is my side of the story.. u r master of your fate..complaining won’t take u anywhere.. find a concrete solution..Tc bro

  • @arkadipbasu
    @arkadipbasu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Hidden gem. Lots of respect

  • @bhaskarasarma8
    @bhaskarasarma8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Some relatives approach for signature of guarantee and the loan will never be repaid.They request you to do one signature simply but nothing else.That is a very big trap.

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true Yaar.

    • @yashgulave8366
      @yashgulave8366 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true. The bank exists to give out loans, and despite that if they are not giving loan to someone, then it's tells you a lot about the person's credibility and credit score.

    • @pranayprasoon
      @pranayprasoon ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You nailed it

  • @NeerajYadav-ed4wk
    @NeerajYadav-ed4wk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Sir very true topic 👍🏻On difficult path of wealth creation person has to face criticism and redicule as Thrifty by others as well as family members .

    • @aliyawaqar4172
      @aliyawaqar4172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do what you think will make your future comfortable

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aliyawaqar4172 Right

  • @خیراَندیش
    @خیراَندیش ปีที่แล้ว +1

    गर दुआ कुछ होती है तो आपको बहुत मिलेगी। बहुतों को सही रास्ता दिखा रहे हैं आप

  • @neetugrover9381
    @neetugrover9381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I have helped my friends but they took so much time to return

  • @attitude2012
    @attitude2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    As a family, we have gone and going through almost all the examples so far. As the youngest, I went through all the persuasion, cajoling, threatening and requesting favors for irresponsible relatives and ended up crying. However, I am laughing 😀now, listening to you. We need to abandon American/western materialism and consumption and get back to living the life of our ancestors with a modern outlook.

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

    • @attitude2012
      @attitude2012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aarvind3901 Live within your means, don't spend more than you earn in other words. Then we won't need to borrow whether from cards, family or friends and demean ourselves.

  • @abhishekshukla2745
    @abhishekshukla2745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thanks sir! I was about to lend money to my brother. I will still lend but with accountability.

  • @xumandutt
    @xumandutt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I lost my dad when I was 10. It’s been hard for me to grow up alone, but I did, with people like you helping me out with their life experiences and knowledge. Thank you for creating such quality content.

  • @shubhammanecr7
    @shubhammanecr7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Each advice you give has more value than gold price sir !

  • @DavidPutraØP
    @DavidPutraØP ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I straight away show the middle finger to anyone who asks me for my hard earned money. Good advice brother 💪💪💪💪

    • @doodlemoodle699
      @doodlemoodle699 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      bro learn denying humbly, no need to show middle finger 😂

    • @Shub9hamm
      @Shub9hamm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      sidhi bat no bakwas

    • @Shub9hamm
      @Shub9hamm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      bro jab insan struggle karta hain tab sab criticize karte hain fir insan kamane lagta hain acha toh fir paise mangne ate hain aise me mushkil hota hain humble hona@@doodlemoodle699

  • @gaurishankarp2848
    @gaurishankarp2848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Just started watching your videos. Its really great and practical. I also think on similar lines of urs and very happy got somebody who is explaining on the same. Thank you

  • @hameedjillani7708
    @hameedjillani7708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sir,
    You're right. We are learning a lot from you. We love you. May God bless you. You're a very great man. We love you.
    Hameed Jilani.
    Age 84.
    Lahore, Pakistan.
    13.11.2022.

  • @jawahardeshmukh5165
    @jawahardeshmukh5165 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Another thing I try to adopt is that if I borrow anything on an urgent basis, I endeavor to return the same with the same urgency once my need is fulfilled.

    • @imonyahoo87
      @imonyahoo87 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The problem is others are not doing that. If everyone does it, we would not have to see this video.

  • @rajeshkumarsharma5592
    @rajeshkumarsharma5592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir.....aap ke jaisi hi meri bhi soch hay.....ees liye log aur rishteydaar mujhe pasand nahi karte......Very knowledgeable video....thanks a lot.....for this valuable video....

  • @pushpabahuguna2442
    @pushpabahuguna2442 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I m a big fan of Ur sir, this is exactly my story, just because I live in Australia my closest family always ask for money.

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true about all.🌹

    • @Saagar_Sahu
      @Saagar_Sahu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well people ask money from only those whome they expect money , u can give advice n sgow them your situation they are close family member hope they can understand

    • @indian9632
      @indian9632 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Funnily, if the roles were flipped, you would have done the same. Humans😂

  • @shambhusharma2112
    @shambhusharma2112 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good !! Video ,I have lost lot of money by lending money 2 my relative ,never lend money to friends or relatives ,instead hear everything what they have to say or cry.

  • @meenupipat9974
    @meenupipat9974 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for making a video on this sensitive topic. This would help people who feel guilty for not lending money to relatives as they forget to take into account the sacrifices they had to make to have some spare money at hand. Thumb's up.

  • @learnnew4938
    @learnnew4938 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The video is an eye opener for many who r basically raja beta of their family. Reading comments r awesome and u got to know stories of others and can relate to yourself. Great 👍 to you sir ji, me n my wife have became your fan.

  • @hennykins3324
    @hennykins3324 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Its very true and i faced the same problem. I have been emotionally a victim card of my own relatives. My sacrifices nobody cares. The day i refuse to give money to my relatives i have experienced so much pain and bitterness and now i have cut such people in my life and believe me i have gained so much happiness and enjoying myself.

  • @Mbbs_in_veins_2000
    @Mbbs_in_veins_2000 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm mbbs final year student and I just love your videos especially what you told about kota is true.❤❤

  • @PeacePrevails1975
    @PeacePrevails1975 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good one !!
    Absolutely agree, the fun loving relatives are likely to be asking for help soon and specially from the wife’s family!!

  • @shakirm2807
    @shakirm2807 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rightly said, Jo paisa aap kamate hai, wo aapke parivar ka bhi hai.

  • @monashori1235
    @monashori1235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you Sir, you hv given me the guts to say no to give.

  • @vaidyasanjay1521
    @vaidyasanjay1521 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very right Guru Ji. I have started making note of what I have given to my family members n relatives.

  • @tejwanichander
    @tejwanichander 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sir,what you say is hard truth,but we must propogate to more , of us and more families

  • @arnavrai6866
    @arnavrai6866 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sir, u give pure content with no filters... Expose the naked truth of society.. Thats ur USP. Loved it. Keep going..

  • @sudheshsankarkk
    @sudheshsankarkk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for sharing Sir 🙏
    I watched it for 2 times and shared it with my family and people who borrowed money from me.

  • @peaceofmind-501
    @peaceofmind-501 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    100% true & practical, hat's off to you sir❤❤

  • @shejwalkarhemant3110
    @shejwalkarhemant3110 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sirjee I genuinely agree with your advise. It is simple, very clear and without any prejudice.

  • @rahulsen002
    @rahulsen002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    agar rishtedaari barbaad karni hai, toh udhar de do 😂

  • @manojpatidar7742
    @manojpatidar7742 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Real and experienced level content. It should be required for today's youth to take instant decisions👍

  • @krsantoshskn
    @krsantoshskn ปีที่แล้ว +3

    101% true these kind of vedios are needed for our people today. thanks a lot sir

  • @mrnobodyspeaks4u
    @mrnobodyspeaks4u ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Uncleji, Aapne ek baap ki tarha logo ko duniya daari sikhayi hai.

  • @ahmedshaikh1513
    @ahmedshaikh1513 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hit like button on your video's even before it start thats the level of trust you had built, Guru ji 🙏

  • @sohamnarkhede123
    @sohamnarkhede123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Exactly sir my parents are regretting heavily almost 50 lakh given to close relatives over last 15 years and now ........

  • @twinkledubey6520
    @twinkledubey6520 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You take up topics which are so real , nd discuss them so easily.....you are indeed a reformer👍

  • @harishvashist559
    @harishvashist559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bitter truth well explained 👍

  • @dealwithruch
    @dealwithruch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    👌🏽 very nice Video and relevant for today’s millennial youths

  • @manjumoond7556
    @manjumoond7556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thanku very much sir for working of you on various topics and enlightening us with your knowledge and experiences. ..you are gem sir

  • @gaditya4625
    @gaditya4625 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ID. Very relatable video. There is lot of pressure from family and friends to lend money especially when they are unemployed.

  • @bhupenderpunia662
    @bhupenderpunia662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your words are cent percent correct sir..We are both working and have to sacrifice , struggle a lot.

  • @rahulshrama94
    @rahulshrama94 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just remember - Rule no. 1 don't trust blindly 💯😷

  • @sundeepjaisinghani7413
    @sundeepjaisinghani7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    शत शत प्रणाम प्रभु। जय माता 🙏

  • @kiranm2192
    @kiranm2192 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good idea not give money. They never return. I gave money to One of friend after 3 month never gave back. And he kept pushing on. Finally he gave back after long time .Just to make him understand I asked him money and did the same to him kept pushing around the date . And Finally gave back the money asking one question how does it feel now.
    Best thing what u can do while saying no is “come I will take u for lunch it’s on me. But I don’t have money to lend u”

  • @sadhna68
    @sadhna68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sir you answered my query which was a big issue for me
    Thank you for giving us solutions for such tedious problems 🙏🙏🙏

  • @kts6925
    @kts6925 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bahut sahi baat batayi aapne hamesha ki tarah....hum Saalo se yehi vichardhara rakhte Hain aapne TH-cam pe ye baatein bata di

  • @rambhajo4142
    @rambhajo4142 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    किसी रिश्तेदार को कभी पैसा उधार नहीं देना चाहिए। हां, मुसीबत में आर्थिक मदद कर सकते हैं, बिना वापसी की आशा के।

  • @kaushaliaf
    @kaushaliaf ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is the first time i m 100% agreeing to you as this is so close to my own reality...always expecting in-laws without seeing our sacrifice in life..we did not go on any foreign trip , do not always travel in plane. Take trains to places less then 20 hrs journey but they have not traveled in trains also gone on a foreign trip..
    As most of it we are financing ..moral of the story is no one feel the pinch if its not their own hard earned money getting spent even if its their own son's hard earned money..they are ready to splurge..

    • @drkk3199
      @drkk3199 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't understand how they can

  • @juhisingh8867
    @juhisingh8867 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Right said but I have 2 persons in my life who r giving their money to others even without asking.I feel very frustrated at times

  • @manjunath-hs4zd
    @manjunath-hs4zd ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir , Namaskar
    The information which you have provided was really fantastic and spoon feeding like clearly explained in simple words and helps those who have lack of knowledge and essential in todays life.
    We felt as if a father or elder brother advices to their younger once to upkeep and to aware how to protect ourselves rather safe guarding others intrest.
    Jai Shri Ram 🙏

  • @navinbhobhal7738
    @navinbhobhal7738 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I partially agree with you,,, अगर आपको लगता है कि आपका पैसा वापिस आ जायेगा तो जरूर किसी की मदद करनी चाहिए,, वहीं अगर आपको लगता है कि पैसा वापिस नहीं आ सकता और मांगने वाले को Bypass surgery करवानी है तो उसकी मदद करनी चाहिए न कि Medical Insurance का लेक्चर देना चाहिए क्योंकी इंसान की जान की कीमत पैसे से ज्यादा है,,,,,

  • @iamjuan007
    @iamjuan007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are my Uncle I always wanted but never had ❤

  • @sharmilaskitchenandvlogs
    @sharmilaskitchenandvlogs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We know a person who spent like anything,even on extra marital affairs,now he is short of money and expects his friends, relatives to lend him money

  • @himshikhabansal88
    @himshikhabansal88 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life mein first time kuch naya perspective dekha aur suna. I like it.

  • @Sharvin87
    @Sharvin87 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. Full of practical wisdom

  • @ShivdeepModi
    @ShivdeepModi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent analysis. This should be shown on national TV

  • @kamalbamrah3958
    @kamalbamrah3958 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My in laws have raised my brother in law in such a way to ask money from older brother and never return back. The loan is 25 lakhs and counting His wife doesn’t work and then here we fight with each other . Gajab hai duniya.
    Sir your video curse of good boy was also so apt. We work our ass off and there those people enjoy their life. But some people will never open eyes.
    Isska zimedar mil n fil

  • @chaitalivaidya6845
    @chaitalivaidya6845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Very Nice topic. Sir you are working hard for bringing these types of topics.

  • @shashwatsangal5801
    @shashwatsangal5801 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolute Clarity of Thought from Clarify For Youth. 👍

  • @AshokPanda-jh5zl
    @AshokPanda-jh5zl ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Practical Analysis Thanks 😊 🙏 👍

  • @shubham-wv7ks
    @shubham-wv7ks ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir gajab aadmi ho bas continue rakhna series

  • @amarkshirsagar2509
    @amarkshirsagar2509 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent Message from this Video for all common people.

  • @dineshrana223
    @dineshrana223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sir I am thankful you came in my life

  • @captainsinghdevendersingh
    @captainsinghdevendersingh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sangwan Sir,
    Most of the times emotionality is harmful. But sometimes it’s a part of a healing process. Emotional requirements of many people will be used against them to milk them.
    It has been happening since centuries.
    Sir,
    Living against the basic nature is highly dangerous for own health, that is other side of the facts
    You will notice healthy people in our villages at 80-90-95-100 years of age they’re doing good without diabetes no problem with blood pressures
    Etc etc
    Reason is they have lived their whole life according to their basic nature
    Human doesn’t need to live according to others because slight changes in their own lives against their natural instincts is so harmful that creates havoc in their lives.
    Health is wealth don’t we know this simple fact of life
    Cheers

  • @amritanurie4885
    @amritanurie4885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Valid and practical points.

  • @sudkrishna5703
    @sudkrishna5703 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much dada ji
    Apna bhut bdiya baat boli es or moodo per boliye jo bilkul barik or satik he

  • @digvijaysingh3794
    @digvijaysingh3794 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'll show this video to all my close fellas, thank you sir.

  • @deepakmalhotra4264
    @deepakmalhotra4264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent thought process

  • @rosymonis175
    @rosymonis175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are awesome sir. Thank you for the motivation 👍

  • @jagatdave
    @jagatdave ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ask those boys whose parents have passed away and boys have become rich after the passing away of parents....parents cultivated boy and benefits are taken by future generation(wife and grandkids)...so many boys thought for their wife and kids rather than their parents ....finally india had to choose leaders like modi and mamta.....to balance the society

  • @dangershah2464
    @dangershah2464 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In my opinion before lending to anyone we should know about the person financial background and paying capacity of the particular individual bcz I believe lending money bridges the gap between the close relatives.

  • @sundar111111
    @sundar111111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir, you are very courageous and your videos have helped many people to grow from a narrow mindset to a growth mindset. Thank you very much and wish you great health. You are an awesome person. I really would like to see such topics which we people of age group 35 really need.

  • @veenakumari47
    @veenakumari47 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My own brother doing nothing asking money n support from me...he has kids n living his life from my mother pension, to test when I said divide the property he strictly refused...how clever 😮 now we are not in good terms

    • @ninii394
      @ninii394 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Court jao he is no more your brother now

    • @myview6899
      @myview6899 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No if you are able please forgive him❤

  • @kedarlingswami6686
    @kedarlingswami6686 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very good video based on reality &practical situation . I agree with you 100%❤

  • @Indian-er6li
    @Indian-er6li ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got shocked when a friend asked me a huge amount when he his wife brother parents are earning 😮 i politely refused

  • @jaswinder0796
    @jaswinder0796 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    one of the best video on finance.....

  • @7teenseventeen
    @7teenseventeen 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sir
    Thanks for clearing my thoughts
    This is the real advice a senior can give to juniors 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @NitinKumar-pc2no
    @NitinKumar-pc2no ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mom's already know all you make video about
    Most topics , you and us agree
    Feels good that i already know what you're telling