Parents - 11 HARSH TRUTHS. | Ankur Warikoo Hindi
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- A lot of what we become as human beings is about how we were parented.
If your parents are the ones who made these mistakes, I hope these perspectives help you look at those mistakes objectively, and then make your choices.
If you are a parent, I hope you do not make these mistakes, and make sure your kids do not have to deal with this. This is the best gift we could give to our children, as parents!
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Sir can u please make one video on toxic people or toxic family or toxic parents. To understand what r the signs of them ..
Sir kindly make video regarding how many children we need that we can lookafter them perfectly and we can also live financialy free according to current situation
M exactly dealing with the 5th point. I feel useless that I can't to anything for my parents .
Sir ,one request , pls make such videos "entirely" in hindi..
ye video humare school k teacher ko dikhana chahiye jo is comparison ko justify krte rehte hai
Fun fact - WE DON'T HAVE ENOUGH COURAGE TO SEND THIS TO OUR PARENTS 😅
I didn't even think of sending this 🤣
iam gonna watch this along with my parents..😎
First thought
If we did, the further moments will be like, apne baap ko mat sikha🤣🤣
@@juileeshinde8933 If u are able to do this......U don't need to watch this vid😅
The fact is always a child changes their mind for Parents, but parents never 😣
Bro it's truly pointless to convince or talk to parents sometimes u just have to take the step and never look back 🙁
@@utkrishtchaudhary9657 It's sad but parents also need to understand and give up sometimes
Ye parents kbhi nhi smjhenge
@@meghakanchan2811 Chalo hamare generation ke parents ache honge 😌
This means none of you guys learnt anything from the video, sad that he tried to make us see pov of both sides but still you guys can't help thinking of your own pov..... They also sacrifice a lot and give up for our happiness we just need the wisdom to see it.
Breakdown
1:59 Comparison (Sharma ji ka Beta dekho ...)
3:52 Killing Curiosity (Let the kids ask question .. Curiosity creates geniuses)
5:53 Focusing on Society (Samaj kya kahega)
8:00 Looking at the world through their experiences
9:41 Emotional Blackmail (ROI)
12:00 Dismissing Mental Health (We are what we are, first in our minds isn't it)
14:02 Lack of Trust
16:10 Not discussing about money (beta abhi tum bhaut chote ho ye sab samajhne ke liye)
17:58 Ordering
19:19 Imposing Relations
20:55 Not making us accountable
Thanks for time stamp 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 literally love it
Thank you
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Thank you
Very nice topic .it will help a lot
How could you forget these???
1. Imposing their dreams upon their children or not letting their children follow their dreams.
2. Not letting their children choose their life partners.
3. Not accepting their children's decision to adopt a child, or have child through IVF/surrogacy.
4. Not allowing children to live as one from LGBTQIA+ community if they recognize themselves being from this community.
5. Not getting divorce despite being in abusive married life.
6. Patriarchy, double standards, discrimination between the female child and the male child.
7.Not discussing family problems with children or not involving children in family discussions.
8. Not letting their children make their own mistakes, experiment, explore and allowing them to learn.
9. Not unlearning with time.
10. Not discussing sex education, consent and sexual harassment, good/bad touch, male/female body, body positivity.
Yes, these are also important aspects which could have been discussed. But then the video could have been longer than one hour, probably that's why he discussed the most important points as per his understanding.
Underrated comment
Much appreciated!
Haha Indian parents have so many restrictions, if anyone starts, won't be less than 2/3 hours
This comments seems more relatable to me than the video!!
I wish I had parents who have the kind of mindset you have, Mr. Warikoo.🙃
Me too
Me too
Mee too brother😢
Then you need to be born in a diffrent universe
But these are the major problems :
1. Looking at the world through their own exp.
2. Focus on society
3. Comparison
Also, Order you to live your life according to thier opinion.
And not caring about child's mental health and emotions 🥺
Correct !!
@@laharinitsurat492so trueeee🙃💔
Every Parent in India has to be like this man!!🙏👌👏
Yes every damn parent... Also the one telling you... You can do anything you like we are liberal is actually a facade that will fade over time. They think what they know is the best but it's the worst when you judge others with your lens
I literally cried while watching, such keen observation and so well put !!
My parents are typically orthodox indian but just accepting it makes me let go of how they are !
Hugs
i was crying like a baby 😫halfway through the video...i can relate to all your points😭....sir if you as a parent can understand this...then why cant our parents....happiness should be the priority for them...rather than society...comparison...or any such things....because of all these differences...we are drifting away from our parents💔
Don't worry dear..none of us received training to be parents. Best we can do is to not commit these mistakes
True, courage is to face all the ignorance and correct it in the society. That is the only way we grow rich in Mind and Heart.
Hold on dear
You are not the one. Every house has the same story
Hugs to you. You will be ok.
we can only understand their mistakes but can't share our emotions😔
Exactly
Exactly right
So true
Seemed as if my life is basically explained in 25 mins in this video 🙂
Our generation will probably churn out the best parents ever 💥
Lets hope that we won't make these mistakes when its our time. 😊
Same sir. But at least we learn that these was the mistakes and we will never apply the same on our future generations
Your kids are really really lucky to have a father like you.
Ap bhi vase baniyiye apne bachho ke liye ❤
Exactly yrr❤
I don't know if Indian parents are ready for this video, I'd still require huge courage to share this with parents
Need to send this to my gf, she is getting so much metally affected due to her family. I love her so much but told her to do what her family want but still they are emotionally blackmailing her. I am a strong person and she was even stronger then me but now she is very much fed-up with life. Hope she stays healthy and happy🥰
Its been 2 years so whats up with your life now.Did you got married to her or with someone else?
According to me what are solutions
1. Discuss with perents what you feel about them at least 4-5 times.
2. if they are still the same.
3. Take as much cash and move out of your home and start a new life.
3rd Step bruhh
😂😂
@@amit100 am gonna try
3rd step is 😂
I know I am being harsh on them by saying just take the cash and leave the home.
But I don't think my perents will ever understand. I am discussing this since 2-3 years.
Today I shared them this video so they called ankur a dumb human being.
Will it be right to take the 3 step ??
(The reason is they don't care about my emotions so why should I care)
You totally roasted Indian parent in intelligent way 🤣🤣
Agreed
I got 96%in 10 th boards .
My mother was not happy with the result .. She didn't even smile after knowing my result ... This thing has crushed me from within...
I don't know what she was expecting from me...
This really soo sad to hear !!! Trust me am sooo proud of you and am rooting for you !!! Please dont let their reactions affect you anymore, 96% is soooooo excellent and i hope you are doing well physically and emotionally!! As Indian kids we always crave for that validation and compliments from our parents but most of us rarely get it !! I got the same treatment multiple time ... But now am saving money to move out and start my healing journey. I hope you u heal soon and achieve tremendous happiness!! ❤️❤️❤️
Yes truly said and besides this the biggest problem I feel personally is “Expectations” - they put a lot and then end up saying- “I expect nothing from you, do whatever u like..”
🤣 true
Exactly 😂
True
Hello Ankur
I would like to highlight rather add one more point which is *Financial Dependency*.
Our parents are financially dependent on us (like we are their retirement pension plan). There is nothing wrong with this as they were raised with same mentality where children were considered as parents pension plan due to which they provided us with everything without saving anything for themselves. So this generation or new parents need to understand that we need to work on our future savings so that we are not burden on our children. Simultaneously we should provide for our parents because they have nothing to spend on themselves also please give them money upfront so that they don't shy away from asking for money for their personal expenses.
I hope my point is clear and helpful in some or other way. Thanks. ❤️
You have such a good knowledge, i appreciate you , this point is literally remarkable! 🙌
I can not explain in words, how much value this video has added in my life.
I got to realise about my parents mistakes, some of the mistakes that I'd committed towards them and as a elder child, towards my siblings. Also, these pointers help me to become a better parent in future.
Thanks a ton from the core of my heart 💓
Yesss i feel same bro ❤️
You guys are lucky.
I wasn't
I am final year MBBS student, i felt in the emotional blackmailing/crying of my mother, that made me so shocked. (My mother cried alot when i got 60% marks in 9th class)i couldn't see that, so i forced myself to do hardwork, was ready to sacrifice all my goods and did only study. (As any child who care for there parents would do).
Today you might say- what is the problem bro, you have cracked NEET and going to be a doctor.
But,
Today, i am diagnosed with paranoia, and i can't figure out what are my hobbies, what do i like and don't feel like living any more.
This is sad😓
Today I even can't blame them and feeling very guilty.
My parents destroyed my life. I was selected for my undergraduation in Japan with 100% scholarship. Even Japan gov was paying me 1 lakh per month. But my parents didnt allowed me to go there. Now my life is hell.
So take your own decision. Otherwise u will regret
Bro please visit Karauli Sankar Mahadev dham atleast one time in your life and do Vedic one day hawan, after doing this you and your family members feel very good and all negatives energy will go out from you and your family members ( this process is called smriti chikitsa) vill- pipar, karauli Uttarpradesh.If you don't believe it first research your own and then go for it . Jai Radha Raman baba ki 🕉️🚩🌺🙏..
I feel you bro
Blessed to have a dad that taught me to live without caring about what others think of me.
True privilege
Lucky you
@@WittyScoop Im truly blessed.
In my Dad’s word” samaj hame khana nahi khilata jo hame accha lagta hai wahi hum karenge” 🙂
Same here
Excellent talk
Another perspective is that many kids are constantly comparing their parents affordability and assets to their friends parents or neighbours or relatives
I was sure enough to get this understanding on many subjects with my Kids. Teach my kids about.
1. Politics
2. Religion
3. Money
4. Charity
5. Education
5. Business
6. Food & Nutrition
7. Nature Living
8. Freedom to give Knowledge & Help other people
9. Do not Depend on the Fake Media & System
10. Importance of Environmental, Animal and Human rights.
I can teach my Kids Courage & Bravery to teach the world what is right.
Mistakes we do:
1. Comparisons
2. Killing curiosity - stopping to ask question
3. Focusing on society
4. Looking at the world through their experiences
5. Emotional blackmail
6. Dismissing mental health
7. Lack of trust
8. Not discussing about money
9. Ordering
10. Imposing relations
11. Not making us accountable
Halfway through the video but already crying.. I have worked really hard in life , when I was falling down i kept on climbing. After 7 attempts i still fought to complete the toughest exam to make them proud... My mother still don't trust me..that I can earn my bread well. They are not happy with my chosen partner who earns better than me only because they think he is not educated enough to marry a CA but a just youtuber and comedian. I cannot share my mental health problems with them..my anxiety and depression and constantly going through emotional blackmail. This hits me toughest...
This video literally crushes the argument "you have to be a parent yourself to understand us". Kudos to you for speaking on such topics as a parent and by being from the last generation. I wish more people were like you.
Sorry to see that lots of children had such parenting
I was lucky to have such lovely parents who made us feel special and we were given reasoning negative and positive points and we were allowed to take our decision.
I never pushed my kids to be top of class....
They decided their own journey of life
I am a mother of a young professional and what I am noticing that according to this video I have fulfilled all parameters of right parenting. Even discussions on finances too . Feeling elevated really .Me and my son have good compatibility and understanding . We discussed each and every thing under the sun without being judgemental. That is the imp key to keep transparency .
My advice for parents are start to believe in your kids , they are more capable than you think .
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Is he married, yet? Probably the scenario will change ...99% that is the reality!
@@meerabakshi2676 Hahahaha, right you are . But here my concern is only parenting . Transparency and discussions are the only key there .
Ur child is lucky
I wish my parents could understand ma'am. Their first reaction would be their ego overpowering them. "Oh! So you know more than me huh? "
My tears are rolling down while watching this… This is what I am facing in my house. Now I am standing myself to select my choice whatever the situation may be I don’t want to leave my choice. And I am a mother to my 2 year old kid I want to be a toxic free parent to my kid. I have decided this when my child was 6months and Iam following it. Now i am facing this toxic with my parents.. Hope I can win my choice with all the strength.
Great words Mr.warikoo Ji.
This was the first video Iam watching yours definitely I will watch every video of yours from now.
Thank you thank you sooo much for making this video. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wish you all the best in your life 🤝
2:07 COMPARISON
3:50 KILLING CURIOSITY
5:50 FOCUSING ON SOCIETY
8:00 LOOKING AT THE WORLD THROUGH THEIR EXPERIENCES
9:40 EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL
11:58 DISMISSING MENTAL HEALTH
14:07 LACK OF TRUST
16:08 NOT DISCUSSING ABOUT MONEY
17:50 ORDERING
19:20 IMPOSING RELATIONS
20:54 NOT MAKING US ACCOUNTABLE
❤️
90 % kids that are watching this unable to send this to our parents atleast we'll be supportive parents to our kids
Thank you Ankur for highlighting these few points... As a parent, I do recognise our mistakes...we are raised up in a stereotype rigid manner...though I have tried to bring about a change for my child but I guess that is not enough...I do see the areas I need to alter them...hopefully I am able to do so...I will change it for my child... thanks again...take care
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Focusing on the society is a real issue because of which many kids who can't speak up for themselves have to suffer. I have seen that
I wish my parents could understand this
The '11 harsh truths' are entirely correct,especially when it comes to the accountability part.
But I think there are still many parents out there who beat their children, just because they did something which is not acceptable according to them.
Maybe this can comprise the 12th harsh truth.
I am a parent now but I feel I have gone through all this as a child and you are right, the effect of these mistakes is lifelong.
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This is clearly your most thought-out & true-from-heart video ever!! Sadly we can't even share this with our parents. They'll emotionally blackmail us even more! Gonna watch this video again & again!! Thanks team! Thanks AW
My parents are doing most of it... Nahi pata kya karu.... 🤦♂️
But I have realised ki that their intentions were never wrong..
Fun fact:- Everyone is not like warikoo and everyone (even if) they try cannot become like a warikoo😎.. Hats off sir🙂 ...u hv made our visions clear towards our parents....Hopefully, I pray to God that my parents and also all the Indian parents understand this fact and try to work on the same😀😊.We are thankful to God for getting an Entrepreneur, teacher, and Admirer like u....😇😇😇
Being a parent I'm listening this and I'm happy I have done less mistakes from the lists.
I am a father to a 3 months old son. Thank you for the gift. Couldn't have asked for a better gift than this. May the children and the parents watching this video be blessed and have positive impacts on your lives.
You've read minds! I've sent this video to my dad 'cos I lose my sanity sometimes due to his controlling behavior and interfering nature. Neither can we abandon them to fend for themselves at their age nor can we live independently. It's such a stuck up toxic situation!
Shireen it's Same issue with many people
Your every point is so true sir.
As a teenager i can relate to it.
And I will learn from the mistakes of my parents and would give my best to make the future generation better.💜✨
You missed the biggest mistake - making us invested in FDs/PPF and crappy insurance ulips/endowment plans, without understanding the impact of inflation.
Also, for many parents, raising a child is like 'bhudape ka Sahara banega', hence they try to control their children at every point of life, even when they r grown up.
And, if they have more than 1 child, they will pick their fav.
Thats why in western countries when parents grow old their kids are not there, bhai India k ethics hi yahi hai budhate m maa baap ka sahara bano, unko apne fun, adventure k liye sacrifice mt kro.
True brother 😂😂😀🥲
I agree with you Sanjay.
Yess agreed
@@shivanshuoliyhan but the real problem is they become fully dependent on their children. I have seen our tenant family where Uncle has his own house, his own investment. His children has jobs and they lives together happily because Uncle never demands a single ruppee from his children, and they lives happily. Stop depending on your children and they will always be your "budhape ki sahara". When you forcefully make them to become this kind, they will never become your "budhape ki sahara".
Sir,thank you so much for this video. As a teenager I really needed this. I was always confused about whom to listen and what to do. This video gave a lot of clarity as u spoke from both the side or perspective. I request you to even make videos for all the teenagers like me who follow you and look forward to u for guidance and a better clarity on such issues which our faced by us. 🙂
A story I would like to share
A couple days ago I got my result of class 8th I scored 85% in it when I told my mother about my marks she told me that these aren't enough and wouldn't even stand in competition to other students who are scoring 98% marks it was heartbreaking for me like I understand she want me to score more marks and I will I am sure but rather than saying my marks rn are pathetic she could maybe encourage me
Be alert. Don't fall in your mother's emotional trap. I fallen.
Today it has made be paranoid.
Do what make you happy.
I'm proud of you, Aaryan. You gave your 100% and that's enough. 👏❤
You can also add this to list:
Between children, there is always a procrastinator and an active doer. The parents keep their hopes on the doer but keep pampering the procrastinator whose used to impulsive self benefiting decisions. The doer feels left out, less loved and the procrastinator never grows up to know the realities and accountability. Ultimately, the procrastinator’s responsibility is on the doer which makes him resentful of the parents and the sibling
Very first point and I'm already realizing the lasting effects of my parents comparing me to everyone else. I'm 25, yet I compare myself to anyone I see, and feel their life is much more colorful and happier compared to mine. Still trying to limit the comparisons to the Me from Yesterday.
Most important point , is giving more importance to male children
Indians have to start raising their sons to be more emotional available and more responsible
This is best, Ankur !
You touched each and every point that a child has to face in India !
i am so grateful to you for this.
You're really like a friend who always support us through your videos I've seen a lot of videos like these but this one was really close to my heart and very relatable as if you're speaking about me only. More power to you sir. Thankyou for making such videos thankyou for understanding us so well.
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4.The 4th Point in this Video - Extremely right
The Child Become the Replica of the Parents in All Levels.....and then Starts the Age of Depression and Frustration in the Child
The only thing i understand is positivity.A person can be anybody,rich or poor, educated or uneducated, intelligent or not,many things of that kind,if they are of positive mindset, there are less chances of troubles in life.But if a person has negetive mindset,than the life is hell,in any case.Thanks for this topic.I am a sr.citizen and have seen both worlds,I being child and as a parent of two children.
Hi Ankur & team...
Out of all the videos this one stands tall making much sense to change/ mitigate the prospective of generation gap. I am 34, not yet a parent standing in the middle where I can realise both sides of being a parent and a child. This content will run deep in the blood of both parents and children. I thank each of you along with Ankur for adding those eye opening examples. I hope this video will bridge the gap between a parent and a child.
I will go and hug my parents after watching this video as now I feel that neither the parents nor the child is wrong, it's just that time flies and change is a constant thing.
Kudos to Team Warikoo!
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Thanks for explaining emotional blackmail and thereafter, in such an unemotional manner. I have been trying to do the same in multiple ways. Kya baat hai!
Thank you sir for this video...I am so grateful for this lesson...I am literally argues with my parents for their wrong decisions and steps! But from today I never argue with them! I will try to understand them and try to make their understand! You are really a hero..Thanks a lot again sir❤️
How you speak to your children becomes their inner voice!
A significant part of our personality and mental health issues have their roots in how we were treated as a child.
Very well said... I will write this down😄
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True
No doubt, par niyat ka hawala dekar galat faisle karna bhi jayaz nahi hai.....
Your points relate alot ,being a daughter the main thing I understood from your words is "Our parents might be our innocent well wishers sometimes so we need to forgive them and understand the reality".Your words show your positive mind set. THANK YOU
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This is your BESTIEST content among all I have come across. Bravo!!! Ton of thanks for putting it all together 👍👍👍
I'm not even watching this video directly sending to my parents I trust you ankur
I was hoping that this video never ends 😥. Worth every second watching it.
Totally agree with what you said. The part where you say that we need to understand them, where they are coming from, I feel that comes with maturity, when we try to understand ourselves better
19:19 This one is my current problem. I am 36 years old , working living in a city quite happily. Every now and then my parents send some random relative to my apartment if they visit my city. I am getting exhausted now. Last year I attended 4 relatives and 2 neighbours. I have told them not to give people my number and please don't send them to my home.
My home is not a hotel and I am not some tour guide.
They never listen to me.
Very nicely curated narration. I wonder how much time and deep thoughts have been put into to create this highly debatable video. Wonderful ways to explain how a parent should look into a problem, and how a child should look at the same problem. My heartiest congratulations to Mr Warikoo and his team for this awesome video.
Thanks for making this video. I have faced a lot of issues in my childhood but wasn't aware of the parents thinking. Hope this video came out 10-13 years earlier. If I am become a parent I will try my best to understand and support them. Thanks Sir 🙏 @warikoo. You have saved/encouraged/educated so many lives in future.
Oh! I don't think that "ye unki galtiya bhi nahi hai". My father is an expert in drinking. Right from my childhood(i.e. from the time when I started understanding things), I have seen my father's expertise in just two things:
1. Drinking.
2. Quarreling with my mother for reasons which make so sense(the quarrels usually last upto about 4-5days, or even may be longer). It sometimes gets to a point when my father beats my mother.
I have tolerated this behaviour for 20 years(am 22 years old now). Just imagine the IMPACT THAT IT HAD ON MY BRAIN.
I also had an argument with my father, which turned into a quarrel and do you know what he did?? He threw a stand fan at me, luckily it didn't hit me, the fan broke. My mother got between us, he pushed my mother and she fell. Such is his behaviour that he didn't stop even when my mother got in between us and didn't even have that sympathy to pick her up when she fell.
My father is 60. He still drinks and I can't convince him, because when my grandmother(who is no more now) failed to convince him to leave drinking when I was just a baby(my mother told me this), WHO THE HECK AM I TO CONVINCE HIM.
FUNNY! I don't even feel any remorse for him when I am saying all this.
FUN-FACT: He is well-educated man.
I didn't want to write this, but I am so angry that I can't stop myself.
Perfect timing ankur..can relate to the emotional blackmail point.. seriously it kills.. specially when you are putting so much efforts..almost as if you made this video for me..really thanks..👍
So so glad to have found you..ur videos changed my thought process in very very affirmative manner in so many walks of life..being a working mom of 2 sumtimes makes you commit these mistakes..dis vid made me so aware..plz make more videos on parenting(apart from investing 😅)
This shows how good of a parent Warikoo is
I promise if i ever be a parent i would be a good parent😊
Thank you tons for this video. This gives so much clarity on the confusion
Thankyou so much for this beautiful content. This will be a life changing vdo for many of the parents if they seriously understand this...
Very nice work.
I sent this to my dad with my mum phone 💀
Did you live?
Can uh tell me what was the reaction plz?
Rimmy this side
And I really agree with the fact of comparing our kids with others and really appreciate the way you put all that facts together and create a very helpful video.
Wonderful way of expressing all the minute things that happens to our life Thank you so much Sir it will surely be helpful for many families who actually want to let happiness enter onto it.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
If a kid falls down we can tell that you're becoming stronger and it's the part of process. This what I used to tell my younger brother and I advise everyone try the same.
I am 21 and i can say for sure my parents trust me and i am proud of that
U r too young to be distrustful dear 😃
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Such an amazing smile sir Ankur Warikoo has , and it's fascinates me so much that i sometimes forget the pain of my past experience, as I have expected this video is worthy ,in the ends it really does and also has reminded me of the time how bitterly we were dictated by our parent's desires ...This video deserves to be watch by every Indian citizens as quick as possible to create awareness on them 🔥
I literally cried and smiled while watching this. I have seen 9/10 of these situations but am happy now I have regained the faith of my parents. I wish everyone to stay strong, love your parents and love yourself. You'll come through such times as a new and improved person.
Thanks for making this video.. As a parent this video is a blessing, as we also are doing many of these mistakes.
Now I'm gonna share this video with my parents and I'm sure after watching it they will understand my perspective towards world 🌎.
Thank you so Much Ankur Warikoo for making this awesome video 💥📸.
Love From Gujarat Ahemdabad ❤️🤩
Ghanta smjhney walley h ulta blame karengay 😂
Also they forget that the environment they put us in will also affect how we perform in academics because u cant be ranker when u are torn apart with their words everyday and them treating you like a unwanted weight on their shoulders . Sharma ji ka beta ka parents eesey nahi hote 🥰
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It's a really really needed video of every parent and children.
Thank u sir, I needed this video very much. I cannot thank u enough for this help🙏🙂
Ankur, thanks for this wonderful video.. My growing up years were terrible. My parents made all these mistakes. But instead of learning something from them, I repeated the same mistakes with my children. How I wish I had seen some thing like this when my kids were small.
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Loved every second of the video... I wish and pray that the next generation doesn't face all this issues... Sir I literally lived my entir life in this video... Could relate to each and every point some how... God bless you... Keep making videos like these because we really need it
Sir, this is what looking for.....thank you so much for opening my eyes.
I am watching him for the first time. What a powerful speaker. Ankur Sir, every word is worth its weight in gold.
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I wish 🤞 my parents could understand my decision of marrying by my choice and trust me. But koi nai. I will believe in myself sir. Thank you for this video sir🌻
Great video. You covered almost many things. Basically, give them Independence from very beginning of their life, start with letting them choose color of toys, clothes ( give them choices, if they are not able to decide). Start with small things then going to bigger things. Guide them but let them make mistakes don't scold them for every mistake but teach them to let go and forgive and tell them to learn from their mistakes.
I am happy that we did what Ankur is suggesting. We never forced our kids to do what we anted them to do. And whenever we differ, we used to tell them that yes, you can do /act what you like but then be ready for whatever the consequncies arise with your action. Of course this discussion was a nice discussion, not a threat! Many a times it happened that after thinking over the matter our sons would do what we had suggested, but it was with their understanding, not taking that as our command! :-D
One of the best videos on TH-cam. Kudos to the content. - Thank you Mr. Warikoo :)
THE TRUTH!!!
THANK YOU FOR SHEDDING LIGHT ON THIS TOPIC WHICH IS NOT DISCUSSED BY ANYONE!🙏🙏
I can relate every single bit of this video with my life. Sometime I wonder if parents really do things out of love. Because whenever I discuss something with my parents, they say it's their responsibility. Despite having a succesful career, I get to hear from them is that I m their responsibility.
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I love my parents and I have a huge respect for them 🙏🏻🙏🏻 They never forced me for anything, always be my guide and my best friends and respect my decisions and somehow I knew what were their expectations from me so I always tried to be a good child and never hurt them for silly reasons…I am 45 years old dad and I try to do the same thing with my kids 😊
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So apt and true. This was perhaps the best video yet.
Warikoo sir exactly knows what we people really want...
Hats off to you sir🙏🙇♂️