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  • @vaijoyantakundu9670
    @vaijoyantakundu9670 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    The content of these videos is so so unique...amazing clarity on an issue which no body will ever discuss..I really feel that these videos should be part of school and college curriculum of our country...priceless contents

  • @ritavaishnav6123
    @ritavaishnav6123 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Kitna sukoon milega aajke youth ko …they are lucky to get such videos ….we had to experience life the hard way as there was no clarity giver ….could have avoided so much heartburn…anyway umr ke saath maturity aa gayi …good for youth 👍 thank you for providing clarity ….God bless 🙏🏻

  • @vaibhavgautam4600
    @vaibhavgautam4600 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Just wanted to share... You can compare two salaries, two houses and perhaps two ages...
    But two lives (persons) are totally unique and incomparable. God bless all of us !!

  • @biswaMastAadmi
    @biswaMastAadmi ปีที่แล้ว +20

    ID, It took me 4 years of working to realise this fact. I was amazed how colleagues with same salary have better life than me, now I know the fact. Thanks sir, wanted to hear this from long. I feel good now.

  • @mohinderahuja8543
    @mohinderahuja8543 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    गुरु जी,
    जल्दी से किसी को मैं accept नहीं करता, महीनो सुन ने के बाद आज कमेंट डाल रहा हूं,.
    You are very good in Clarity for youth.
    However I am 53 and relate in almost in all, what you say.
    I haven't seen such content any where and the style and presentation.
    I am impressed and bow to you.

  • @profarvind
    @profarvind ปีที่แล้ว +53

    100% identifying. Thanks for making this video. This video should be played in school, college and corporate houses. It will save people from developing negative thoughts and getting depressed. In my own case, I could not make much in life for all the reasons you said in the beginning. But now, after hearing you my regrets have disappeared. Yes, but my son will definitely live better life that me.

    • @Hypocrite420
      @Hypocrite420 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is so funny that how we keep the baggage with us & someone says that it's a fuckin baggage you've been carrying since 10yrs & it looks so easy to drop it then n there n also looks foolish n painful to see that how we wasted so much energy for that

    • @DharmajBhardwaj
      @DharmajBhardwaj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Hypocrite420yes

  • @koustuvdutta
    @koustuvdutta ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I liked the starting line concept very much. I think "don't compare others to yourself at all' kind of advice never works. So, whenever we are about to get frustrated by this comparison, the starting line concept along with the idea to focus on our own journey of life can provide a rational way to stay calm and satisfied!
    Thanks for the content!

  • @shrutiranjan0511
    @shrutiranjan0511 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank You sir for this clarity. Mai ek student hu air mere mata pita gareeb hai aur mere kuch friends h jinke well settled parents hai. And I was always jealous of them kyoki vo log padhai me utne achhe bhi nahi h fir bhi unke mata pita unko padhne k liye bare seher bhej rhe hai. Dusri taraf mai hu jo ki studies me bohot achhi h fir bhi parents mere liye utna nhi kr skte
    Maine ab comparison karna chhor diya h bohot pehle se hi tab se life me kafi shanti aa gyi hai.
    Lekin fir bhi thora bura to lagta hi hai but I am working towards making my future with whatever resources I have 😊

  • @kalpanasriwastava3702
    @kalpanasriwastava3702 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Class bias is very true and real
    My in laws were from richer class
    They ill treated me always in life
    Now i am older ...
    So i am ok about it
    I am detached

  • @jdtalks24x7
    @jdtalks24x7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Frustration comes when parents knowingly don't earn more money and relax throughout life thereby making the children poor.

    • @AnkkitKumarr
      @AnkkitKumarr ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +1
      Mera baap to Kamata bhi nhi hai

    • @dshbhkt6186
      @dshbhkt6186 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnkkitKumarr mera baap hi nhi hai

    • @sakshamprajapati1023
      @sakshamprajapati1023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bhai sabse bhadiya agar tumhare baski kamana khana nhi hai to bacche paida mat kro bekar mai auro ki zindagi bhi kharab kerni

  • @akshatsharma2064
    @akshatsharma2064 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Sir so many languages but you always speak #facts.
    Huge respect!

  • @Ajayvijayraniya
    @Ajayvijayraniya ปีที่แล้ว +6

    बेहतरीन टॉपिक , सोच को नई दिशा देते हुए ।
    धन्यवाद अमित जी

  • @Quran_Vocabulary
    @Quran_Vocabulary ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aajkal aise bahot km log h jo itna clear baat krte h....Sahi me Apni apni destiny ko accept karna bahot mushqil ho gya h.... Truely all youngsters need to hear this topic🙏

  • @ravipato
    @ravipato ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ID. True.... Most of the people in my family do lot of comparision and feel jelois of others. Baselining of their position of current and past and comparing that with ourselves will give clean comparision. Starting line is very important.

  • @ManeeshSolankiYT
    @ManeeshSolankiYT ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I also noticed this when I was in services. Leave the senior juniors, Group A officers compared their savings, assets with me, a Group C soldier.
    My parents were both working and have achieved a lot which gives me absolute financial freedom. My officer IC used to say in informal gathering that he has more money in PF, i felt- why is he comparing apples to oranges!
    You were about to say that 'I have seen this in services also' 😁

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Intersting topic. It's better to maintain distance from these kind of jealous comparing people. You find them everywhere. It could be your siblings, relatives, neighbors or friends.

  • @ajaykumar-banker
    @ajaykumar-banker ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Excellent video. Always original, Always correct. Hard hitting and true. "Comparisons may be made only when the starting line is the same" Don’t compare yourself with people who are ahead by a generation as their parents have left them a fortune. Don't be bitter about your situation by comparing with them. Understand the difference.Dont be jealous. Accept your destiny and be at peace.

  • @apoorvchauhan4707
    @apoorvchauhan4707 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1000 percent you’ve hit the bullseye

  • @mysoredurgesha9712
    @mysoredurgesha9712 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dear Sir,
    FANTASTIC ANALYSIS. MIND BLOWING EXPLANATION.
    The statement "There is nothing great in being either poor or rich" and also adding bombastic metaphors like "Being poor I struggled a lot and made every effort to come up in life". Being poor it is quite natural for anybody to work hard in order to come up in life otherwise please accept the status quo.
    In the below mentioned book
    Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind - June 10, 2018
    by Yuval Harari (Author)
    Author makes a statement. If you find any rich person in any part of the world one thing is clear that he or she would have been born to rich parents. Because of this reason only "RAGS TO RICHES TO STORY" becomes sensational and it is a rarest phenomena.

  • @jirgis13
    @jirgis13 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Agree with you. I stand on the shoulders of my grandparents and father, so don’t just compare with me, I have 3 generations behind me

  • @ashitmukherjee5934
    @ashitmukherjee5934 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Destiny sets the starting line different for different people.What an original idea of yours sir ji.🌹

  • @rahulk948
    @rahulk948 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100% identify this as 45 years old. Thank you for sharing this. Hope younger people understand this & avoid unnecessary stress.

  • @tinathakur8698
    @tinathakur8698 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ID sir !! Amazing unique content you bring...no one talk about this. The best line was Garibi is not great thing. I don't understand why in india people glorify Garibi. You are truly blessing in my life sir 🌟🙏🙏

  • @jayantdrummer
    @jayantdrummer ปีที่แล้ว +30

    100% identifying. I think the art of comparing properly and effectively requires high-order thinking which majority of people (who can be otherwise smart) dont think about.
    Whenever my wife/friend shows some other person living a lavish lifestyle, the first thing I ask is how loaded are their parents. Agar loaded hain, tab mera brain ke andar ke comparison ka switch hi off ho jaata hai.

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right.Very wise thinking.

    • @ArvindSethi61
      @ArvindSethi61 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good morning from ottawa .you have punctured various minds .keep,these type of videos in future .

  • @skblabla
    @skblabla ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Everything that you have told in your videos, at some point of time my husband has told these things to me..he is a wise man no doubt.

  • @auiiem
    @auiiem ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maharaj jee
    Excellent sukoon giving video to avoid useless frustration faced by youth. Which
    many times leads to many serious health issues.🙏

  • @leowalia2263
    @leowalia2263 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Instead of options or variety, I really like the word buffet.....because clarity comes itself when you think about buffet.

  • @amitsharma2686
    @amitsharma2686 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ID sir, what a way to communicate such a grave topic. Hats off to you

  • @jayasoni5333
    @jayasoni5333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best content,thank you Sir
    Saaransh yahi hai,k apni life aur growth pe focus Karo
    Jo gadi mili hai wo chalao,audi, Mercedes se compare karne ki jarurat nahi.agar apki Tata Nexon hai to wo Khushi se chalo.

  • @AyushSingh-me5si
    @AyushSingh-me5si ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its a great video, I've spent years of my life feeling depressed because of this. Thankyou sir

  • @amansinghrajawat8258
    @amansinghrajawat8258 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aapki khoob videos dekhi hain... Bahut acchi video hai ye sir

  • @prakharsarkar691
    @prakharsarkar691 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great clarity Sir

  • @ganesh_gp3177
    @ganesh_gp3177 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sukoon mila sunane ke bad

  • @You_Only_LiveOnce
    @You_Only_LiveOnce ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100 percent identified
    I am working as a junior Engineer in IR but one JE can have less liabilities and better life than SSE or Grade A officer who is staying in Government accomodation if JE's wife is working and have ancestrial property and support from family and if he has good finance acumen and critical decision making skills he will always be ahead

  • @rohitshastri3593
    @rohitshastri3593 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bilkul Sahi baat hai Sir👍👍

  • @arjunsworld205
    @arjunsworld205 ปีที่แล้ว

    ID
    Sir you are genius because you discuss things which ppl think in their hearts but are embarrassed to discuss !

  • @shrutisingh5339
    @shrutisingh5339 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so wish your videos were there when i was 21-22. I could have been in much better place than today. Maybe its just my destiny.

  • @parthamp4751
    @parthamp4751 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sir, this is actually one of your deepest and most meaningful videos if people do self analysis. I realised these aspects when I looked back in life that my classmates or colleagues who had even some backing from parents in the form of property or land were more confident and stress free. They were bolder and able to take risk because they always had a fall back option. With that they leaped ahead. Even my Gp A batchmates, those whose parents were also Gp A, they were already confident in career and environment. They also had the right guidance from their parents and the network. First timers like me took few years just to understand the operating environment.

  • @manjurajput3946
    @manjurajput3946 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes sir.. fully identifying.

  • @lovenishberiwal7622
    @lovenishberiwal7622 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great view point you have presented here, I would request you to make video for people who don't have guidance and end up doing something that was really meant for them. How can they get back om track and leave their past behind?

  • @anujbhardwaj5753
    @anujbhardwaj5753 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Enlightening video

  • @parthodave123
    @parthodave123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pure content. No bakwas

  • @swethaanthony4958
    @swethaanthony4958 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it is good point for marriage also..

  • @pgentreprise3079
    @pgentreprise3079 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I understand in summary: don't get dissatisfied with looking at others, try to get satisfied with what you have achieved .

  • @supriyabajaj9822
    @supriyabajaj9822 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes identified. This gives lots of clarity and sukoon.

  • @sahilsrivastava17
    @sahilsrivastava17 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes we are identifing❤

  • @greedskith3020
    @greedskith3020 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ill be definitely applying them...aur.. comments me meko uncle aunty sb apne kahani likte dikh rhe... Acche gajah pe aa gya mai thanks!

  • @realtimequickie
    @realtimequickie ปีที่แล้ว

    Making total sense. Unfortunately people tend to compare unfairly

  • @BlenderXpert
    @BlenderXpert ปีที่แล้ว

    Everyone is traveling in their own timespan , you are great sir

  • @surindercheema5663
    @surindercheema5663 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very much appreciate your directness Phaji 🙏

  • @rushikesh.chaubal
    @rushikesh.chaubal ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely brilliant and much needed for today's times!! ❤️👍🏻

  • @sakshi23927
    @sakshi23927 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Last 19yrs.se is type ki jeaoulsy tolerate kar rahi hoon. My inlaws think why my myaka is fortunate & priviliged with money & family????
    They torture me mentally & curse my siblings also. 😔😓

  • @undiyos
    @undiyos ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very right. As said by you in the nepotism video, the difference between a struggler and a protégé is one generation.
    ID

  • @Trisamika
    @Trisamika 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sir for making such video... Making us realise these things... The rush to earn more and show off is increasing.. There is large difference between the previous generation and current generation... In thinking... We are heading to more of materialistic and superficial world...

  • @puneetbasson5901
    @puneetbasson5901 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Moment of Truth... 👌

  • @sahilgarg2487
    @sahilgarg2487 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    id
    Sir totally identifying with your content 🙏

  • @prajaktakumbhar5194
    @prajaktakumbhar5194 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ID I knew these facts but somewhere was not able to understand or realise the implication. And specially never thought of explaining them to kids, but now I do. Thank you for this video

  • @rajje1827
    @rajje1827 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ekdam original content hai siir apka, original content 👌

  • @Official_OmSharmaVlogs
    @Official_OmSharmaVlogs ปีที่แล้ว

    Guruji,
    One of the best content ever which i heard on TH-cam till yet..

  • @shahnawazpatramor6981
    @shahnawazpatramor6981 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent sir, it's wisdom what you preach, hats off

  • @anuanu2337
    @anuanu2337 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% identify sir. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and guidance.

  • @thekrantimanch7880
    @thekrantimanch7880 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gazab ki teaching h. Very nice

  • @akhild69
    @akhild69 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guru Tatva,
    Very true, well connected and very well explained.
    There is no point in being envious, accept and move forward

  • @annsgal2025
    @annsgal2025 ปีที่แล้ว

    ID. Everyone has their own unique starting line. Its not just the financial status but even health, good looks, fitness, and most importantly Intelligent Quotient which can give a huge head-start to anyone launching their adulthood.

  • @Sketchmaker101
    @Sketchmaker101 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir I was facing the issues with you told in this video. Thanks for wonderful guidance. Seriously this kind of content is not there on net. You use to observe real problem or society and give us proper solution.

  • @wtkc1290
    @wtkc1290 ปีที่แล้ว

    Apki videos dekhane k baad life main bohat sakoon h.

  • @saikumarravula
    @saikumarravula ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes sir, your videos are very much relatable and thank you for speaking hard facts without any filters.

  • @priyanshtalan4343
    @priyanshtalan4343 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good msg for youth
    Absolutely ✅️

  • @mshoaib9531
    @mshoaib9531 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MAG , mind-blowing 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Swan-rb4jq
    @Swan-rb4jq ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow wonderul explanation about this topic which is never discussed👍

  • @ranibandhu
    @ranibandhu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very true 🙏

  • @ashalatadhone
    @ashalatadhone ปีที่แล้ว

    Most fantastic....sir ji, behatareen content....

  • @rahulsinghjosan10
    @rahulsinghjosan10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent concept and content, makes life easier

  • @rishabhchaudhary5126
    @rishabhchaudhary5126 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kya bat kehte ho sirji.. Gazab

  • @ganapatihegde1024
    @ganapatihegde1024 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, what you are saying is true.

  • @princijain9609
    @princijain9609 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very unique perspective sir.. i m very happy listening to you

  • @dean_dinesh
    @dean_dinesh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ID,
    Everyone can relate to it.great topics.
    No one discusses this

  • @sandypearls5276
    @sandypearls5276 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice content.. Great work!!

  • @Raja_aur_rudra.
    @Raja_aur_rudra. ปีที่แล้ว

    सही बात कही है सर जी आपने

  • @jasmitsingh3197
    @jasmitsingh3197 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant content
    Will be sharing in my channels

  • @DebjyotisGaming
    @DebjyotisGaming ปีที่แล้ว

    Very aptly said, can co-relate this in today's time

  • @jaisriram2530
    @jaisriram2530 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice video sir 👌👌keep making these kind of video 👍👍

  • @karla7765
    @karla7765 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing video. Bring more like this

  • @dhirajzope4433
    @dhirajzope4433 หลายเดือนก่อน

    true 👏👏

  • @travelwithmanish7847
    @travelwithmanish7847 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your analysis and thought process is remarkable

  • @akankiagrawal3313
    @akankiagrawal3313 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, I identify with the issues & advice you bring

  • @amaantalha1036
    @amaantalha1036 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great analysis and teaching sir💐💐

  • @juniorpratap
    @juniorpratap ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Abs correct and well put

  • @healthshield499
    @healthshield499 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very valuable ideas
    Pure gold.

  • @meenalpande2868
    @meenalpande2868 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is 💯 % true sir.

  • @saumyapunekar8625
    @saumyapunekar8625 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good one , nice topic need of the hour 😃👍❤️😇🙏

  • @cuddle484
    @cuddle484 ปีที่แล้ว

    man ko shanti dene wala video tha...

  • @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785
    @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my opinion, the comparison should be with peers of your father's/mother's professional friend circle. Not even relatives.

  • @rajatkumarmishra3805
    @rajatkumarmishra3805 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love U GURU G what U teach us is Priceless

  • @sandeepdehury1236
    @sandeepdehury1236 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Iska part 2 please banaiye..same topic pe

  • @aashayjoglekar591
    @aashayjoglekar591 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    an eye opener for all who r in Rat race 👍🙏

  • @ABUSINGDEMOCRACY
    @ABUSINGDEMOCRACY ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Comparison har jagah hai eg same height people become friends, toppers have different groups, same class people become friends.

  • @AartiYadav-nl8vt
    @AartiYadav-nl8vt ปีที่แล้ว

    You are real guru so thanks for velueable knowledge

  • @sourabh3540
    @sourabh3540 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ID sir..ek ek chiz ID sir..👌😎 Aap vo CONTENT laa rahe ho Jo AAMAR ho gaya ab..🙏😊

  • @PremiumOOO7
    @PremiumOOO7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great sirji