What happened to that EMT that scumbag from the "newspaper" the New York Post exposed was just wrong. I honestly hope that scumbag can never find a reputable job again (assuming the Post ever fires him) after what happened to her. The story should have been that an EMT working during the hell that is this pandemic can't afford to live on her salary alone, not how she supplements it.
hi, you might be interested in the "fat funny woman" video where that trope (or at least the idea of a less conventitly atractive guy with a model-like woman) is touched on
And when people say they do, the "ugly wife" character is more often than not played by a conventionally attractive woman whose presentation is frumped down. I like King of the Hill for how they subverted it: Hank and Peggy look very similar, but it also shows how a pretty woman can be seen as frumpy for her clothes and hair (like Peggy, who really doesn't look different from when she started dating Hank) and Hank shows more the passage of time.
"You painted a naked woman because you enjoyed looking at her, put a mirror in her hand and you called the painting Vanity, thus morally condemning the woman whose nakedness you had depicted for you own pleasure.” - John Berger, 'Ways of Seeing'
@Osamudiamen Blessing she said she was treated like an object and compared Bay to Hitler. They destroyed her career for daring to say anything and not keeping quiet
It's kind of disturbing how they talk about the "most attractive" women acting like they're 5 years old, why would you find the characteristics of 5 year olds attractive. ew.
I think it's to do with the fact that it helps inflate his ego, and can make him feel more 'manly' aka dominant. If she is the dim-witted one in the relationship, it is easier for him to not mind, because then that just automatically helps give him a upper hand through his intelligence. As long as she brings symbolic womanly beauty and pleasure to the table, which he can't bring himself, for him that's a good enough equation.
I think this idea is all wrong. It’s the traits of innocence, optimism, fun, spontaneity, creativity, and theatricality that makes the women “childlike”, which are all attractive qualities. people like to be reminded of their childhood when things felt easy and less stressful, i don’t see it as a pedophilic thing.
@@kaseygrace1396 You have a good point! Carefree innocent playfulness can be appreciated by both genders, men just are conditioned alot to put on a tough front (which maybe worked to their advantage in evolution, like in fighting off wild animals, and hence it lasted so long). So they crave that balance in their women companion. I think the problem mainly arises when that ideal of innocence is enforced upon women so much that the woman is automatically assumed to be lesser and incapable. Women might want to willingly bring about that balance, but when men started to assume that's all we are and all we should be it started the problem, since it has often come at a dire cost for women.
@@arstans1777 see, that’s simply not true. That’s the way society portrays those women, but the truth is that there’s no correlation between looks and brains. Some girls are very pretty and also very smart.
@@depgabby yeah I agree! The stereotype is that attractive people never have to work on themselves internally (intellect, personality, etc) because they constantly get by on their physical looks alone. Which makes them all very pretty, but vapid through a lot of people eyes.
I love that while Marilyn Monroe was absolutely stunning, she was a lot more intelligent than she was given credit for, much like Elle Woods, who even gets compared to her! 💖
@@phoney2627 I think there are a lot people that collaborated in the help of creating Wi-Fi and bluebooth. These inventions are usually made from group effort and then greedy people cut off deserving participants.
You said, "Innocent bombshells are often punished not for their actions, but rather for the animal instincts they bring out in men simply by existing." I'm very sad to say, I think this might be art imitating life. The reason this particular story is told so often is that it is relatable. Sadly, a lot of women in our society end up being punished for being beautiful.
Women react and treat beautiful women badly, also. It's just a curse unless you have a personality of stone and dont GAF about others, and if you're VERY smart. All these added qualities make her unstoppable. Until then, someone will use and abuse her, by a male or female.
Just look at Megan Fox how she was treated by the industry and how women judge her after she started dating Machine Gun Kelly. People say she is too old and that she is a bad mother because she is dating smh🤦🏻♀️. Like how is 34 old? Are you supposed to expire after 30 and having children? Most of these comments are made by other women.
The movie Malena with Monica Bellucci literally has this plot to it too, where the women in her village literally want to ostracize her and beat her down for the fact that she's beautiful and their husbands are oggling her and treating her like she's a potential night in bed for them
Embodies the contradictions of being a women - She's a goddess and a animal, seductive and a innocent, God forbids her to have confidence and enjoy sex. On a Pedestal and Vilanyzed at the same time. That's so trueeee These women are always punished in movies, because beauty is power and women can't have power or became a villain. Like daenerys in Got.
@Sameer Sonawane No, they’re not. That’s the thing: society portrays them as if they would for wanting power in all forms: freedom of all kinds (yes, including sexual freedom and yes, veing able to act just like men, for ex they can also have affairs without feelings being involved and them dump men just like men do eith women when they have their affairs, they can also make men suffer by driving them crazy and then dump them, just like men can make women suffer by playing with their emotions), financial freedom, the freedom to enjoy expensive stuff without feeling either shame or guilt for wanting luxury (I never understood why is luxury percieved as the devil, especially when its related to women buuuut anyway), high social position/great careers. Society percieves this type of women as ‘bad’ because they really represent a threat. Stop expecting women to be ONLY innocent, for God sake
@@markstriker925 you mean rape that's a different thing however if you are talking about a girl sleeping with her boss then the next day giving her a promotion it's the same thing
The rich guy with a heart of gold trope. He's a complete monster until, you guessed it, love comes his way, in the form of a diamond-in-the-rough woman no one else notices. Then he becomes Mr. Charity, a Good Father, and a Respected Citizen.
I'm so ashamed of the film world's reaction to Jennifer's body. The men of that community make the mistake of thinking everything is marketed FOR THEM. It was made and marketed toward a specific demographic of women injured or damaged by American stereotypes and treatment of young women. It pulls at heart strings and reminds us of what it's like to be in a cutthroat society that tears your self esteem apart. Even the intricacies of toxic friendships that we ALL know too well.. That's why it is SUCH a cult classic. But of course men in film can't fathom the idea that things are not made for them and SLAMMED Fox in reviews, really hurting her self worth and confidence in her talent.
I honestly feel like that movie was ahead of its time. i do remember that movie being advertised to be a horror demon flick with a heavily sexualized teenage girl that has a lesbian make out session while murdering boys. at least that's how it was in my country. it was promoted to be a male fantasy and on that front it didn't really deliver I guess. I'm not sure about this but I think advertisers and the actual producers of a movie don't always interact? so the people making the misleading trailer weren't those who made the movie. I remember reading cristism back then about how that movie was boring or whatever, but thinking back people just didn't get the movie. It also didn't help that megan fox was starring in it and regardless of advertisement people, especially men, would have expected her to be sexualized and without actually character integrity. so people would have been disappointed either way. I'm so glad people nowadays are revisiting that movie and appreciate it's true story:)
Yes, but also men should learn how to consume media that isn't specifically designed for them the same way other audiences do. If everyone was able to sympathise/understand points of view different to their own, social progress would be much easier
@@mira-htm i remember an interview where the director said the advertising and marketing department kept gearing it toward the wrong people, despite her protests, and that's why it bombed so hard. They brought in college aged boys and boxed it into that category. It ruined both the director and meg's personal self esteem and convinced both of them they were untalented. To conclude, fuck that marketing team and their misogyny.
So many of these Bombshells were not only gorgeous but were intelligent and very talented too! It's really sad that they're often portrayed or stereotyped as bimbos. Marilyn Monroe and Megan Fox both had very similar treatment in the media and it's just so sad how badly Hollywood destroyed them. I'm glad people are waking up to the charm, intelligence and talent of Megan now because sadly, Marilyn didn't have much of that when she was alive. :'( Edit: Also, what's with all the messed-up references to children? It's really degrading and sickening.
They are mostly blonde and act dumb. As if a person can't look good and be smart at same time. But Elle Woods from Legally Blonde showed that you can be both.
I feel like Cassie from Euphoria would be a good study of this. It’s almost like the stereotypical bombshell character from the bombshell’s perceptive and the impact of being over sexualized and simplified by men.
Sexualized from a young age at that. Speaking of which, Cassie's sister Lexi being the Emotional Labor-y one. Reminds me of Sora from Digimon and many others
If they are blaming Jennifers body on Megan fox and not on the bad advertising. That’s was trying to force feed the movie to males, instead of what would’ve gotten them better box office sales the girls. Then that just shows how they aways have to find a women to blame even when it’s clear they are not.
It’s really weird how attractive women can’t speak their minds and own their bodies without extreme consequences...like death. It’s also sad that something as illusory and fake as cinematic movies have such a intense subconscious hold on how society thinks about and treats women. It’s rarely a balanced and truthful story. Actually it’s quite harmful.
Exactly! When I see an extraordinarily beautiful women my mind now goes "what nightmare behavior has she had to endure?". I bet everyone has some eye-opening stories to tell
My favorite trope is the bombshell having an unexpected skill or interest like being really good at Math or fixing cars and she's completely nonchalant about it when it's revealed. Or says "you never asked". I don't know if it's a good trope or not but I like how it reveals biases the characters and the viewer never knew they had.
Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries is just like this! Miss Fisher is a female private detective in 1920s Australia but she also has SO MANY SKILLS! She can drive a car, pick locks, fire a pistol, fly an airplane, detect a fake diamond, identify poisonous plants, cure diarrhea, and put together one fabulous outfit! And she never reveals how she knows any of these things!
When I was young and thin and "sexy", I remember several female acquaintances expressing their desire to be like me. As if looking a certain way gave me an advantage. It didnt. People (men) were nice superficially but almost all my relationship partners ended up treating me terribly. Being "attractive" may get you in the door but it certainly doesn't guard against the difficulties of being human. In fact the assumption that one is "blessed" because of their looks can contribute to tremendous isolation. We'd all be wise to stop placing so much value in appearance
so true. being pretty only gets u attention but seemingly for all the wrong things. i was surprised that even women want to be your friend only because they see u as attractive nothing more. then when theyre your friend, their envy kicks in and they want to take u down! even my own (beautiful too) mother was jealous of me when i was a young girl and thats because most women are very insecure about their looks and really idk why. average women actually do better in life than beautiful women, there was even a study done on it too, and part of it is because most people are average-looking and it makes sense. i observed even on Facebook, i have 2 friends: one is very pretty, the other one average. the pretty one rarely gets complimented on her looks and not much engaement; the average one, her friends are always saying she's beautiful, she should model and im like "what?" she's clearly plain but its just that women arent threatened by her whereas theyre threatened by the pretty girl and resent her..... even the movie "malena" was a cautionary tale against beauty. she was so beautiful that in her little italian village, men treated her like a whore they wanted to conquer and women hated her for the attention she got; it was a tragic story....but of course if u complain about ur beauty, nobody wants to sympathize w/ u either!
Have you seen "Ugly Betty"? The original story was written and aired in Colombia, and in one episode there was an special guest: Cecilia Bolocco, a beauty queen, supermodel and TV personality who was married to the notoriously ugly President of Argentina. In that episode, "ugly" Betty discovers his boss pretended to love her just to make her sign some documents that could make her get in prison. Totally heartbroken, she cries bitterly and then enters Ms. Bolocco acting as.. herself. She tries to calm Betty and shared her own story: how no one ever bothers to treat her as a human being, how other women behave agressively towards her, how most men see her as a prize to be win and to brag about... She added "I ended up getting married to the only man who really cared about my heart and my soul, the things that won't fade away when my beauty does."
There definitely is a sort of privilege to being pretty, let's not deny that. It's a disservice to the conversation. Heck, we're even more attracted to beautiful sunsets, full moons, pretty flowers, pleasant smells. It is our nature. Honesty
@@TheAfroGoddess why do people always deflect and say this? we know there is pretty privilege but its not as great as people make it out to be. usually its physically unattractive people looking from the outisde in who say this because they dont know there's def. a dark side to beauty
THIS. Some people: Shaming girls for monetizing their sexuality/looks. The same people: Ngl, if I looked like her I'd definitely do the same thing, tho.
Yes people who put down onlyfans people are either jealous coz they can't do the same or want to put them down so they can morally place them themselves above them
@@incharak1927 I don’t think it’s either. I think women get upset with their boyfriends or husbands that watch behind their backs those kind of “only fans” as though their women in their life’s aren’t good enough for them. That’s why they get angry with the men and the provocative women. At least for me, I don’t get involved with those type of men. Either you respect me or not.
@@incharak1927 i agree women shouldnt attack other women for doing things like onlyfans. But I disagree there are only two reasons they would, such as the ones you've given, e.g. jealousy or morals. There are women who fit the standard 'society' wants to see in the context of onlyfans, but choose not to engage in it. Those same women don't necessarily consider themselves morally above the women who choose to, either. Personally I worry that engaging in that is reinforcing the idea that a women's value is her body. And how her body can be posed/dressed/glamourised, in order to satisfy a man's body. Women who 'objectify themselves' (whatever that means), are victims of a society that tells them their body is their only value. The onlyfans women that are aware of this systemic belief, are then complicit in the system which oppresses them: they know what their 'power' is and think they're just benefiting from it. But really they're reinforcing what generations of women have gone through- do I objectify myself for men, for some kind of security? Or do I take the hard path, and work to develop my knowledge of different fields, and do a job which doesn't rely on a man's opinion of the appearance of my body? That being said, because this has been going on for so long, a lot of women (and men too) won't have access to the education that could give them life options, other than allowing themselves to be sexually exploited. So it continues. Sex sells because everyone has a body: adverts often tell a man "buy this, and you can have this", but tell a woman "buy this, and you can be this".
No woman has it easy. Either you have the looks and you get punished for not putting your body at men's disposition (unwanted attention or sexualization); you have beauty/sensuality and exploit it knowing that you have more chances if your body complies to the required standard, or you're not considered attractive and only get to pick the leftovers of a society that doesn't deem you worthy. Classifying people by their "attractiveness" is just horrible.
@@toomuchinformation I'm not sure. Maybe I'm biased, but I truly believe that justifying our behavior with instinct and biology is not helping us to recognize how responsible we are for thinking the way we do. We're not above biology but we do have an option to think differently than how our impulses tell us to think.
@@auramora I'm not sure. Standards of beauty vary in different cultures and societies (although with mass media, it's become more homogenised), but that basic human impulse is always there. We can't think everything away.
Attractive women can dial their looks up or down to suit the needs of the situation. If they want to go about their lives as if they weren't pretty they can. Everyone has problems (rich or poor, smart or dumb, pretty or ugly) but some people have more options for dealing with them than others.
Oh yes, that stereotype has always irked me. I hate it when he's reduced to being the overally campy Gay Best Friend to the usually female protagonist, and nothing else.
@@trinaq yup. The GBF (gay best friend). That's such a thing that a not so known movie was made with that as it's very theme, called, yup, you guessed it, "GBF".
Oh please. Great suggestion. I always despised how flamboyance has been reduced to a defining trait for gay men and how it makes him any less of a 'masculine' man. Masculinity is a beautiful thing and cannot be generalized for everyone. It's high time men(or even women) be taught to be comfortable and happy in their own skin and try not to conform to societal norms.
@@taylorfillmore4760 I get what you say, I lnow both men and women should not manipulate, play with others etc BUT welcome to real life. It’s nothing like a fairytale. And sometimes times require a certain way of acting in order to get ahead
because they ae different, most men are not going to cause any women to lose their shit by flashing some skin, your suggestion of treating both sexes the same even though they have completely different kinds of power/weakness is more messed up
A man is expected to go after money and status but when a woman does the same, she is materialistic and money+career obsessed. A man is expected to build a career but when a woman does the same she is not a good wife and mother because she spends too much time at work instead of cooking, cleaning and taking care of everyones needs but hers. A man is expected to keep himself in a good shape but when a woman does the same she is self absorbed, she should better keep her husband and kids in shape, not her, how dares she still care about how she looks after she got married, what, she wants the attention of other men? A man is expected to have a lot of relationships, that’s considered to be absolutley normal, but when a woman does the same, omggg, it’s the hell on earth. A man is understood when he dosen’t want kids, but when a woman dosen’t want kids, she is a bad woman, all women should want kids etc etc. So please don’t tell me double standards aren’t real🙄🙄🙄
Because you retain DNA of every man you sleep with and it damages you, that's why. Men can sleep around more freely and that is actually sad but true. We are not gatekeepers of sex. You decide who you ''let inside'' lol.
I'm sorry but when people say this about Poison Ivy i get pissed off. Is her cause noble? Yes Does that mean she's not a true villain? Fuck no I'm sorry but if you're going to brainwash the entire world (which by the way she did do that once.) That your noble cause is no longer an excuse I love Ivy don't get me wrong but she isn't a good guy. She's murder, tortured, brainwashed and manipulated a lot of people before. She doesn't give two fucks about anything but Plants and Harley. She wants to see the world burn. If that's not a true villain then I don't know what is
@@AmySwain03 Ha agreed. She's a great example of a villainous character that we can't condone their actions but love watching for being complex/interesting. Same with Harley.
This video was excellently done! I knew such a woman at the children’s hospital where I work; she was a fellow Medical Assistant who was GORGEOUS and could easily been a model if she had wanted. Unfortunately she was treated very badly by the rest of our staff: excluded, gossiped about, treated by both fellow MAs and the Doctors like she was stupid, and even got a complaint once from a patient’s family bc she was “distracting” (i.e. Dad looked at her and Mom got jealous) But if you took 5 minutes to actually TALK to her, you’d find she was one of the warmest, kindest, and smartest members of our team, and she worked harder than half our unit put together! She was only there a year before she left to take care of her ailing father but wherever she is I hope she’s happy and people are treating her w the respect she deserves 💚💚
It's because our society views attractiveness and kindness/hardworking as mutually exclusive things. I am considered attractive, and I have had similar experiences, being put down, viewed as stupid, and sabotaged constantly.
I remember hitting puberty and having my life turned upside down for how men and women started to treat me. Even in my own family. Suddenly people commented on my body all the time and it made me feel powerful but it was super isolating and made me pressure myself so much more to "'keep'' their fantasies alive. I think we should all learn to appreciate and enjoy our beauty by ourselves so we can learn to self protect from this disguting society standards.
@@mar6488 It was mainly the marketing team for jennifer’s body that did her dirty and not on the movie set itself, like you said. I believe megan fox even said herself that jennifer’s body was her favorite project she had ever worked on. It was a movie that was aimed at a more lgbt/female audience (bc it focused on toxic female friendships and the complicated feelings they can produce) while also having a female director. The marketing team misunderstood that focus completely and centered the marketing around “look how hot megan and her body is” to her straight male fanboys, who then proceeded to get Very Upset when the movie turned out to be, well, a horror movie, and not just megan showing her boobs for the entire runtime. I think one of the only ways megan felt bad during filming was the time she knew that the kiss scene (meant to represent the complicated feelings produced from toxic female friendships) was going to be used badly by the marketing team by having it in every trailer, which they did do.
What makes me angry that it is men’s responsibility to not see a woman as a sex object only. No one can help the way they look. Just because someone is attractive does not mean you possess them. I also hate, “they were asking for it”. The man has to realize that a girl does nothing for them. They wear what they wear. Also, the “guy talk” needs to stop at least when it comes to see women as a conquest and these stupid double standards. This is where it starts. Also stop pitting women against each other.
@@taylorfillmore4760 if im being sexual it has nothing to do with you, unless i give u consent. i dont want you to sexualize me. imagine you are wearing shirt which is marked as sexual by society and some dude starts to stare at your chest do you think its okay?
@@l3loodlu5t45 I mean if your twerking, putting yourself in sexual positions, and etc, EXPECT TO GET SEXUlIZED . DON'T BULID YOUR EMPIRE OFF YOUR BODY THEN GET MAD WHEN THAT'S ALL PEOPLE NOTICE YOU FOR.
Last week at work, a woman I've known for four years told me that I intimidated her when I first started because, to use her words, "You're this bombshell walking around the office". Then she told me that she stopped being intimidated because I don't realize how beautiful I am. Which is a lovely thing to hear but... First of all, I don't ever want people to feel intimidated or otherwise uncomfortable around me because of what I look like. It made me sad when she said that because do people assume I'm mean or something? But then the second part about how after she got to know me and I suppose discovered that I'm a nice person but decided that it's because I don't see beauty in myself was weird and made me think. Am I not allowed to see beauty in my own appearance? Did she think I was nice because I must have had a poor self-image? I don't! I had nothing to do with what genes I inherited from my parents just like everyone else. It's not my fault but also I'm not blind. And I've also been told my entire life by family, friends, and strangers that I'm beautiful. It's not the most important thing I care about but I would be lying if I said I was unaware of it. I'm aware, it's just low on the list of my qualities that I value in myself. I get it. A photographer can take a thousand photos of a woman and she's beautiful! It's art! But the INSTANT she turns the camera around to see for herself what everyone else is is seeing, the moment she snaps ONE selfie, she's stuck up, self-absorbed, shallow, and only cares about her appearance. Beautiful women are not allowed to say, think, or even be aware that we are beautiful.
do The Gay Best friend trope. that one is one we are tired of and done with. also do The Stoner trope or The Hippie trope. those would be interesting to explore
I keep thinking of Bridget Jones's friend Tom, who is depicted very shallow in the films. In the books, he still is shallow and he still peppers Bridget with positive comments on how she matches the convention of attractiveness but there is a point in the first book where Bridget and her other friends don't hear from him, get worried he was the victim of a hate crime and even giving a little history of 1970s/1980s British gay and anti-racist activism, before finding out that Tom went in for a nose job.
Jennifer Anniston is interesting. She's gorgeous but is usually dressed conservatively in her roles, and seems like a "girl next door" type. Girl Next Door must turn into wife/mom as they get older, which is what she tends to play now.
@@pastelmermage8883 , C is what I'd consider average, too. When I wore a C cup as a teen, running hurt already without the bra, so I would not have dispensed with the it. Perhaps I am extrapolating too much from my own experiences when I assume that other women would also prefer physical comfort. :D
I also want to add that most of these iconic blondes, like Jean Harlow, Marilyn Monroe, Brigitte Bardot, Pam Anderson etc. Weren't real blondes. Part of what made them exciting is that they seemed unreal and the obviously bleached hair contributed to that.
People don't want to hear that attractive people have the same struggles and sometimes even worse struggles than them. In my situation, I have very low and an unstable sense of self, because on the one hand, people compliment me and approach me, and want to get to know me, but on the other hand, my every flaw is picked on and magnified, especially by other women. Nice guys don't usually approach me, I guess because they feel intimidated, but I constantly get myself in situations with narcissistic and dangerous men. People assume I'm full of myself, but then when they find out how relatable I am, they tell me how unattractive my insecurities make me, and how confidence is sexy. I can't tell you how many times men in power have tried to sleep with me, and then try to sabotage me when I turn them down. The other thing that people don't realize, is that we are constantly feeling threatened by other even more beautiful women, and never being able to measure up. And having to always look our best because our value is in how others view us. I sometimes find myself having to apologize for having a bad hair day or gaining a few extra pounds.
You forgot that although you crave and love female company and friendships, other women often meet you with distrust and negativity. The ones that took the time to get to know me, told me often "wow you're actually really nice and funny" as if they weren't expecting you to be 🤦🏻♀️
You've described my experience exactly. I was neglected in childhood so for many years I looked in rough shape and was chubby from emotionally eating, so people considered me unattractive, but that bullying never got super bad. Comments were made, but people were more excited to bully me for other reasons. I had a glow up and suddenly no women want to be my friend, no man ever actually sees me as a friend, slut-shaming ensued, and nice men are less likely to approach me. I get catcalled and harassed all the time, so I can only go outside in baggy clothes and no makeup and it still happens incessantly, and I don't leave my house anymore for anything. I get constant negative attention from dangerous/narc men who see me as a sex object and fantasy, who do not want me to have a personality or be intelligent (and I have both) bc it threatens their ego. They want me to be a trophy and a vessel for their violence, not a person. It landed me in an abusive relationship. It's the main male attention I get. I don't bother to buy nice outfits anymore and only have athletic clothes now. I can't dress for me anymore. If I wanted to go somewhere fancy I'd truly have nothing to wear- if I can't wear leggings I don't go. I have strangers nitpick my appearance no matter how I look, but when considered pretty they say it right to my face to "humble me." Ironic bc I would/have never done that to someone else. They project on me that I must be very lucky and bitchy, but it's the opposite, I do a lot of community service and would take the shirt off my back for a complete stranger. I was 130 lbs. and have severe body dysmorphia, and people picked my appearance apart so much I developed a very serious eating disorder and I almost died. It gets super lonely and I spend all my time alone. Having been the hot friend and the ugly friend, I view pretty privilege as a curse. It's been super traumatizing. The main positive differences I notice is that store employees are much nicer to me and people are more likely to say yes to favors, but since I don't go out and just order everything, that doesn't come up a lot for me personally. I was much happier when my appearance wasn't triggering people left and right into treating me inhumanely. I miss the freedom I had in society when I wouldn't be harassed as much, people didn't always pretend to be my friend to get into my pants and then drop me immediately when their trick doesn't work, and when men wouldn't always view me existing in public by myself as an invitation to say whatever they want to me or touch me. I don't agree that all attention is good attention- it's scary and dangerous and I get targeted for violence A LOT more. I had a "friend" tell me I was lucky to experience SA bc it meant someone wanted to have sex with me. They say stuff like that and then wanna play the victim card. They're so mad at us they can't see we're on the same team. I'm queer and nothing I do is for the male gaze, but I'm feminine and therefore not allowed to exist for anything but men's horniness, so no one cares. It's a very dark and grave situation. Too many of us don't survive "pretty."
@@pflynn623 so sorry and truly heartbroken to hear this 🥺 experienced many of the things you mentioned myself although maybe not as badly. The "nitpicking" thing happened to me just yesterday 🤦🏻♀️people think to compliment you but point out your flaws while doing it. A male friend explained "Well I'm sure you hear being called beautiful all the time so they wana also huble you and stand out from other dudes by telling you something negative. They think it'll intrigue you more"... Fuck no! It's just mean and hurtful?! I hope you have people around you who support you. I wish you healing, happiness and serenity 🙏🏻✨
At 17:00 I've been reading a lot about Only Fans and the issues around it and what comes out very clearly is the anger and resentment some men have over the young female content creators. I think it's because the money is going directly to them and not a porn director/publisher. The "taking advantage of sad lonely men", doesn't apply to other areas of sex work either.
It's really interesting that you mention that Liz Taylor's character in "A place in the sun" showed how part of the bombshell's appeal is her embodying the American Dream. Marilyn Monroe's real-life bombshell persona, or what the public perceived as her persona, was impacted by her coming from a troubled childhood to make a success for herself. It's interesting how the American Dream and Bombshell troupe are so intertwined
@@rudy1999 contrary to popular belief, I am not obligated to show myself simply because I am pretty. And, while you do have a right to your own opinion, you do not have a right to my image. Therefore, nothing you say or insinuate will change me or my opinion of myself. For future reference though you really should be more kind to others. We've not done anything to harm you.
“You’re going out dressed like that?” “Why are you putting makeup on?” “Who are you trying to impress?” Are things I still hear and see other people say today that irritates tf out of me..
No mention of Betty Page and the fact that after a certain point she refused to be photographed so people would only ever remember her young and gorgeous?
Megan Fox deserved so much better. She was mistreated by her male director and then shamed by the media when she spoke out in the mid 2000’s. I’m glad to see she’s doing better, though.
Not to mention the constant torture with fame, recognition and money. Those poor, but super duper strong, Mail Gayzed women went through hell on the red carpet wearing those high heels. NEVER AGAIN!
I'll like more films which show attractive women from their own perspective and fully aware what society expects them to be a certain way. Megan Fox was treated terribly for her role in Transformers as if she's real bimbo rather than what Michael Bay wanted her to be
Thanks for the encouragement! Body recomposition takes the longest time, but it’s worth the wait. Apart from going to the gym I practice pole acrobatics and every week I notice how my body gets stronger and is able to do the pole tricks I never used to be able to. This is the best feeling ever!
I'm noticing that a certain bombshell was not mentioned. Asami Saito of Legend Of Korra. She is not only a bombshell, She's business savvy, she can fight, She's practically an engineer, and ... (spoiler) She gets the girl.
@@anamarte7547 I get you are trying to say something but I'm not seeing it. it sounds like you think that people only want to see two things... butch and moms... maybe we wanna see more? I mean we're as diverse as heteros and who says you can't be jocky and beautiful? who says all women want kids? I want kids but that doesn't mean some other lady does. why can't their stories be told?
Great video, as always. I do wish that colourism was acknowledged with regards to the "Black Bombshells" Dorothy Dandridge, Lena Horne and Eartha Kitt even Halle Berry, Rihanna etc, are usually of mixed ethnic backgrounds and much lighter in complexion than monoracial Black women. I am having a hard time thinking of a single Black woman with two Black parents who is darker than a café au lait who acheived bombshell status.
I am saddened by the term "black Bombshells" and "Bombshells of color". A Bombshell is a Bombshell regardless of her ethnicity. Putting sexy black women into a subcategory is seriously underestimating them. Having said that, I very much agree with colorism in what is considered the ideal black Bombshell! As a biracial woman, I feel stupid when I am placed as a black woman, as though being mostly European is the only palatable way for a "black" woman to be. I am not black. There are many truly black women far more beautiful than me, who would not be considered so by white people. I would like there to be more biracial and multiracial awareness. For one thing, people like me would not continuously be expected to ignore up to 75% of our heritage whilst standing in the way of actual black people. Also, real black beauty would be noticed, because white people could no longer pretend not to be racist by putting "black people" in power, on covers and on stage who are mostly white. The reason white people like "light black" people better is because we ARE white people as much as we are black people. However, there have been many mono-racial black women in the beauty and fashion industry: The classical Mounia, Duckie Thot, Beverly Peele, Alec Wek, 70s covergirl Naomi Sims, Maria Borges, Halima Aden, Naomi Campbell, Grace Jones, Leomie Anderson, and Iman is Somali (so mixed with Asian in most cases), to name a few
Saffron Sugar I think the world of fashion has always been more international and open minded than the world of glamour. It’s all so much more excepting of gender identity and sexual orientation. The fashion industry is not just aimed at straight white men.
You only grow confidence by doing difficult shit. When you won't be able to care less about what everyone else does; on the the day when you'll feel genuine respect for your past, for the fights you've fought, for having a character - on that day you will have have grown confidence and feel respect for yourself instead of love. You love is for other people. Alternatively you can keep trying the narcissist route of telling yourself life lies 24/7 until you start believing them one day, magically causing the world to surrender to your irresistible, completely unearned but super duper awesome self-love. Nothing more attractive than somebody who's full of herself for no reason at all, and who's grounded enough to expect a mass following because she's naturally way better than everybody else. Remember, girl: it's really super easy, you only need to love yourself, is all! Bypass the compressor NOW!
Shame that they treated Megan so poorly. She was truly ahead of her time and still too young to explore the political incentive of her position back then. I love Jennifer's body, btw. Its low rating doesn't seem realistic to me but is very likely a butthurt thing/campaign.
Great video, thanks for analyzing this! But you missed Princess Leia when speaking about aging bombshells. There was the unreasonable backlash when Carrie Fisher appeared on Episode 7.
Your content is so deep. I have to ask what is your educational background? Psychology? I love how this channel makes me think and view the world in different ways.
When i was a kid/teen-age i wanted to be a bombshell woman because of their beauty and because some boys in school used to bully me for not being "pretty enough" I wanted to be them without know the darkness behind that beauty,now i'm happy that i'm myself
12:30 killing off the explicitly sexual woman is meant to be comforting to normal women - a message that says don’t worry, everyone might be obsessed about the blonde but only temporarily.
Beauty gives power, they make it seem like men are allowing the Bombshell to have the power and then take it away at the end because she is either a villain or dumb, why can’t they associate beauty with intelligence or at least let her win.
They are different archetypes. Bombshell is Aphrodite that means her actions based on love and joy, she’s super sensual and sincere. For Femme Fatale beauty is a weapon to gain power, revenge, money, knowledge. It’s her way of surviving. Bombshell gets everything she wants easy bc she’s very likable and easygoing.
What I wanna say about the prettiest girl in the room syndrome I've had at least a couple is that it screws with a girl's/Womans head. They'll have a hard time aging gracefully for one. And two it can stunt their eternal feminine their deep maturity.
I wish you guys would include a list of all the movies and shows you used in the video, so I don’t have to keep pausing and writing everything down! I know you guys used to do this, and it was super helpful!
also on their duality (evil/naive or sexual/emotional) we can see how they are shown as crazy and chaotic like harlequin and even cheryl blossom (riverdale)
A perfect example is Cleo in Clone High. Also when Marylin said "Beauty for a woman is like wealth to a man, you might not marry a woman because she's pretty, but boy doesn't it help!" As a man that doesn't really 'go for looks' I laughed because it's still true.
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The angel and devil trope
Could we have the May - December romance trope please?
What happened to that EMT that scumbag from the "newspaper" the New York Post exposed was just wrong. I honestly hope that scumbag can never find a reputable job again (assuming the Post ever fires him) after what happened to her. The story should have been that an EMT working during the hell that is this pandemic can't afford to live on her salary alone, not how she supplements it.
They’re not size inclusive, so I’ll stick with my stretchy pants 👖
Do a trope on medical shows.
Please cover the "Ugly Husband, Attractive Wife" Trope, which is commonplace in sitcoms. The reverse very rarely occurs.
hi, you might be interested in the "fat funny woman" video where that trope (or at least the idea of a less conventitly atractive guy with a model-like woman) is touched on
Like the old men young woman. Never the other way around. Or the taller man and shorter woman.
Yeah I agree. This trope needs to be ripped to shreds.
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And when people say they do, the "ugly wife" character is more often than not played by a conventionally attractive woman whose presentation is frumped down. I like King of the Hill for how they subverted it: Hank and Peggy look very similar, but it also shows how a pretty woman can be seen as frumpy for her clothes and hair (like Peggy, who really doesn't look different from when she started dating Hank) and Hank shows more the passage of time.
"You painted a naked woman because you enjoyed looking at her, put a mirror in her hand and you called the painting Vanity, thus morally condemning the woman whose nakedness you had depicted for you own pleasure.” - John Berger, 'Ways of Seeing'
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Damn, finally gotta read this book after all. Thanks for sharing
The documentary done on the ways of seeing is incredible too, very eye opening
Deep!
People don't typically expect women to feel like pieces of shit for enjoying how a man looks
Everyone loves a beautiful woman but they don’t want her to know she’s beautiful
Because they don't want her to know her worth.
In a nutshell.
Mmmm hmm that's right!
What? Just... What?
@@arpitabrahmachari7649 alot people get jealous so they try to make the girl feel insecure or try to "humble her" usually by men by insulting her
it's sad that the industry basically destroyed megan fox for trying to speak her mind
@MsTecnofan agreed
@Osamudiamen Blessing she said she was treated like an object and compared Bay to Hitler. They destroyed her career for daring to say anything and not keeping quiet
@MsTecnofan Took the words right from my mouth.
@MsTecnofan definitely Bay, but critics and marketing teams did their part to tear her down, too.
@MsTecnofan that's seriously disturbing
It's kind of disturbing how they talk about the "most attractive" women acting like they're 5 years old, why would you find the characteristics of 5 year olds attractive. ew.
Because Hollywood is full of pedophiles.
@@goddessglow6996 ugh we need to stop putting predatory men in positions of power.
I think it's to do with the fact that it helps inflate his ego, and can make him feel more 'manly' aka dominant. If she is the dim-witted one in the relationship, it is easier for him to not mind, because then that just automatically helps give him a upper hand through his intelligence. As long as she brings symbolic womanly beauty and pleasure to the table, which he can't bring himself, for him that's a good enough equation.
I think this idea is all wrong. It’s the traits of innocence, optimism, fun, spontaneity, creativity, and theatricality that makes the women “childlike”, which are all attractive qualities. people like to be reminded of their childhood when things felt easy and less stressful, i don’t see it as a pedophilic thing.
@@kaseygrace1396 You have a good point! Carefree innocent playfulness can be appreciated by both genders, men just are conditioned alot to put on a tough front (which maybe worked to their advantage in evolution, like in fighting off wild animals, and hence it lasted so long). So they crave that balance in their women companion. I think the problem mainly arises when that ideal of innocence is enforced upon women so much that the woman is automatically assumed to be lesser and incapable. Women might want to willingly bring about that balance, but when men started to assume that's all we are and all we should be it started the problem, since it has often come at a dire cost for women.
She's admired and looked down upon at the same time....a clear indication of how men treat beautiful and gorgeous women in this society 😔
they look nice but often haven't got anything besides that
@@arstans1777 see, that’s simply not true. That’s the way society portrays those women, but the truth is that there’s no correlation between looks and brains. Some girls are very pretty and also very smart.
@@depgabby yeah I agree! The stereotype is that attractive people never have to work on themselves internally (intellect, personality, etc) because they constantly get by on their physical looks alone. Which makes them all very pretty, but vapid through a lot of people eyes.
@@arstans1777 Hedy Lamarr is side eyeing you
@@arstans1777 that’s a simple stereotype you can’t generalize people because there’s dumb people everywhere
That “she could be five years old” comment is gross af. Smh
I was looking for this comment. Yuck.
Chantel Carter yess that video was so good
yeah that comment did not age well
Manu Hailame I mean was that comment born well to begin with honestly? 😬
That made me cringe so hard
I love that while Marilyn Monroe was absolutely stunning, she was a lot more intelligent than she was given credit for, much like Elle Woods, who even gets compared to her! 💖
Marilyn Monroe in general is one of the most fascinating historic figures.
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Also Hedy Lamarr. She was literally an inventor and we can thank her for wi-fi and bluetooth.
@@phoney2627 I think there are a lot people that collaborated in the help of creating Wi-Fi and bluebooth. These inventions are usually made from group effort and then greedy people cut off deserving participants.
I absolutely adore her!
You said, "Innocent bombshells are often punished not for their actions, but rather for the animal instincts they bring out in men simply by existing." I'm very sad to say, I think this might be art imitating life. The reason this particular story is told so often is that it is relatable. Sadly, a lot of women in our society end up being punished for being beautiful.
Women react and treat beautiful women badly, also. It's just a curse unless you have a personality of stone and dont GAF about others, and if you're VERY smart. All these added qualities make her unstoppable. Until then, someone will use and abuse her, by a male or female.
Just look at Megan Fox how she was treated by the industry and how women judge her after she started dating Machine Gun Kelly. People say she is too old and that she is a bad mother because she is dating smh🤦🏻♀️. Like how is 34 old? Are you supposed to expire after 30 and having children? Most of these comments are made by other women.
And punished for not being "standard" pretty as well..
@@Mila-Nova Yeah, and she left her husband cause he was a lazy douchebag, but for some reason she is the villain.
The movie Malena with Monica Bellucci literally has this plot to it too, where the women in her village literally want to ostracize her and beat her down for the fact that she's beautiful and their husbands are oggling her and treating her like she's a potential night in bed for them
Embodies the contradictions of being a women - She's a goddess and a animal, seductive and a innocent, God forbids her to have confidence and enjoy sex. On a Pedestal and Vilanyzed at the same time. That's so trueeee
These women are always punished in movies, because beauty is power and women can't have power or became a villain. Like daenerys in Got.
@Sameer Sonawane No, they’re not. That’s the thing: society portrays them as if they would for wanting power in all forms: freedom of all kinds (yes, including sexual freedom and yes, veing able to act just like men, for ex they can also have affairs without feelings being involved and them dump men just like men do eith women when they have their affairs, they can also make men suffer by driving them crazy and then dump them, just like men can make women suffer by playing with their emotions), financial freedom, the freedom to enjoy expensive stuff without feeling either shame or guilt for wanting luxury (I never understood why is luxury percieved as the devil, especially when its related to women buuuut anyway), high social position/great careers. Society percieves this type of women as ‘bad’ because they really represent a threat. Stop expecting women to be ONLY innocent, for God sake
@Sameer Sonawane Nice bait mate. Now begone (∩ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)⊃━☆ﾟ
Isn't this sort of character now seen in like women ceo characters or successful business women? Like Jessica on suits
@@TheCherrykye speaking of Suits, I STILL have no idea why the writers made DONNA AMD HARVEY a couple. Ugh.
@@arpitabrahmachari7649 hehehehe haven't got to them being a full on couple but I don't like that they are getting them together.
How about we stop saying slept her way to the top and star saying men withhold job till sex
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that part.
Hollyweird. Just Hollyweird. You're speaking truth.
What if the men didn't ask for sex.
@@markstriker925 you mean rape that's a different thing however if you are talking about a girl sleeping with her boss then the next day giving her a promotion it's the same thing
The rich guy with a heart of gold trope. He's a complete monster until, you guessed it, love comes his way, in the form of a diamond-in-the-rough woman no one else notices.
Then he becomes Mr. Charity, a Good Father, and a Respected Citizen.
You just described every K-drama I have ever seen 😂
The reverse is also true plane jane walks in some bilionair falls in love look at 50 shades
Thats Nathan Scott 😂
You just described many...MANY epi stories..
The Jerkass with A Heart of Gold
I'm so ashamed of the film world's reaction to Jennifer's body. The men of that community make the mistake of thinking everything is marketed FOR THEM. It was made and marketed toward a specific demographic of women injured or damaged by American stereotypes and treatment of young women. It pulls at heart strings and reminds us of what it's like to be in a cutthroat society that tears your self esteem apart. Even the intricacies of toxic friendships that we ALL know too well.. That's why it is SUCH a cult classic. But of course men in film can't fathom the idea that things are not made for them and SLAMMED Fox in reviews, really hurting her self worth and confidence in her talent.
I agree with you girl.❤️
I honestly feel like that movie was ahead of its time. i do remember that movie being advertised to be a horror demon flick with a heavily sexualized teenage girl that has a lesbian make out session while murdering boys. at least that's how it was in my country. it was promoted to be a male fantasy and on that front it didn't really deliver I guess. I'm not sure about this but I think advertisers and the actual producers of a movie don't always interact? so the people making the misleading trailer weren't those who made the movie. I remember reading cristism back then about how that movie was boring or whatever, but thinking back people just didn't get the movie. It also didn't help that megan fox was starring in it and regardless of advertisement people, especially men, would have expected her to be sexualized and without actually character integrity. so people would have been disappointed either way. I'm so glad people nowadays are revisiting that movie and appreciate it's true story:)
I didnt know people felt this way
Yes, but also men should learn how to consume media that isn't specifically designed for them the same way other audiences do. If everyone was able to sympathise/understand points of view different to their own, social progress would be much easier
@@mira-htm i remember an interview where the director said the advertising and marketing department kept gearing it toward the wrong people, despite her protests, and that's why it bombed so hard. They brought in college aged boys and boxed it into that category. It ruined both the director and meg's personal self esteem and convinced both of them they were untalented. To conclude, fuck that marketing team and their misogyny.
So many of these Bombshells were not only gorgeous but were intelligent and very talented too! It's really sad that they're often portrayed or stereotyped as bimbos.
Marilyn Monroe and Megan Fox both had very similar treatment in the media and it's just so sad how badly Hollywood destroyed them. I'm glad people are waking up to the charm, intelligence and talent of Megan now because sadly, Marilyn didn't have much of that when she was alive. :'( Edit: Also, what's with all the messed-up references to children? It's really degrading and sickening.
Megan Fox isn't that talented tho
yesss!!!! that was so depraved! the pedophilia in beauty standards really showed there
Doesn't Fox even have a tattoo of Monroe?
@@cui8789 Yeah she did! I think she's removed it though.
@@vonhule shut up
They are mostly blonde and act dumb. As if a person can't look good and be smart at same time. But Elle Woods from Legally Blonde showed that you can be both.
Precisely my thoughts! Why choose between brains and beauty when you can easily have BOTH?! 📚💄
Also, Christmas Jones.
Love her 😍😍😍
A smart woman who is also smart and independent would drive a man who values sexist values absolutely insane.
It’s smart to act dumb to get what you want out of sexist men
"im not bad, im just drawn that way"
Classic👏
I agree, Jessica is a lot more affable than the Bombshell stereotype is normally known for, and she's pretty down to earth as well! 😍
@@edgytypebeat781 huh, I never knew that
I feel like Cassie from Euphoria would be a good study of this. It’s almost like the stereotypical bombshell character from the bombshell’s perceptive and the impact of being over sexualized and simplified by men.
Sexualized from a young age at that.
Speaking of which, Cassie's sister Lexi being the Emotional Labor-y one. Reminds me of Sora from Digimon and many others
she is definitely NOT a bombshell lmao. she’s way too insecure and vulnerable
If they are blaming Jennifers body on Megan fox and not on the bad advertising. That’s was trying to force feed the movie to males, instead of what would’ve gotten them better box office sales the girls. Then that just shows how they aways have to find a women to blame even when it’s clear they are not.
I'm glad that its a cult film now!
Well said! 💯💯💯
I literally saw the plaster for the movie and trailer and decided than i am not gonna pay for this shit.
That meghan is an awful radical rather.
It’s really weird how attractive women can’t speak their minds and own their bodies without extreme consequences...like death. It’s also sad that something as illusory and fake as cinematic movies have such a intense subconscious hold on how society thinks about and treats women. It’s rarely a balanced and truthful story. Actually it’s quite harmful.
Totally!!
The oldest example of that is Helen of Troy, beautiful but cursed.
@@sammyvictors2603 Don't some people blame her for causing the Trojan War?
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Gwhat did you say!!!! NOBODY TELLS ME HOW TO THINK!
@@kittykittybangbang9367 yup. She was.
When I was a teen, I use to wish I was the bombshell so I can get male attention until I started getting the wrong male attention in college.
same i wanted to be like my other friends who had guys who actually liked them.
True
Relatable. Ever since, I've been a fan of the sweatpants and hair in a bun look in public.
Exactly! When I see an extraordinarily beautiful women my mind now goes "what nightmare behavior has she had to endure?". I bet everyone has some eye-opening stories to tell
Wait til you start working 😭
Can we talk about the cheating trope and how it’s only okay when the main characters do it but forbids anyone else .
So maybe it's not REALLY portrayed as cheating
And how men cheating is a lot more accepted and normalized than it should be.
@@ana6975 I feel like that goes back a lot in time
Ooh 👁
Wicker Park is a movie that takes a fleeting look at the hypocritical “true love” that cheats and destroys lives... very fleeting. Great movie tho
My favorite trope is the bombshell having an unexpected skill or interest like being really good at Math or fixing cars and she's completely nonchalant about it when it's revealed. Or says "you never asked". I don't know if it's a good trope or not but I like how it reveals biases the characters and the viewer never knew they had.
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Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries is just like this! Miss Fisher is a female private detective in 1920s Australia but she also has SO MANY SKILLS! She can drive a car, pick locks, fire a pistol, fly an airplane, detect a fake diamond, identify poisonous plants, cure diarrhea, and put together one fabulous outfit! And she never reveals how she knows any of these things!
When I was young and thin and "sexy", I remember several female acquaintances expressing their desire to be like me. As if looking a certain way gave me an advantage. It didnt. People (men) were nice superficially but almost all my relationship partners ended up treating me terribly. Being "attractive" may get you in the door but it certainly doesn't guard against the difficulties of being human. In fact the assumption that one is "blessed" because of their looks can contribute to tremendous isolation.
We'd all be wise to stop placing so much value in appearance
People would like the get to "the door" easier i guess
so true. being pretty only gets u attention but seemingly for all the wrong things. i was surprised that even women want to be your friend only because they see u as attractive nothing more. then when theyre your friend, their envy kicks in and they want to take u down! even my own (beautiful too) mother was jealous of me when i was a young girl and thats because most women are very insecure about their looks and really idk why.
average women actually do better in life than beautiful women, there was even a study done on it too, and part of it is because most people are average-looking and it makes sense. i observed even on Facebook, i have 2 friends: one is very pretty, the other one average. the pretty one rarely gets complimented on her looks and not much engaement; the average one, her friends are always saying she's beautiful, she should model and im like "what?" she's clearly plain but its just that women arent threatened by her whereas theyre threatened by the pretty girl and resent her.....
even the movie "malena" was a cautionary tale against beauty. she was so beautiful that in her little italian village, men treated her like a whore they wanted to conquer and women hated her for the attention she got; it was a tragic story....but of course if u complain about ur beauty, nobody wants to sympathize w/ u either!
Have you seen "Ugly Betty"? The original story was written and aired in Colombia, and in one episode there was an special guest: Cecilia Bolocco, a beauty queen, supermodel and TV personality who was married to the notoriously ugly President of Argentina. In that episode, "ugly" Betty discovers his boss pretended to love her just to make her sign some documents that could make her get in prison. Totally heartbroken, she cries bitterly and then enters Ms. Bolocco acting as.. herself. She tries to calm Betty and shared her own story: how no one ever bothers to treat her as a human being, how other women behave agressively towards her, how most men see her as a prize to be win and to brag about... She added "I ended up getting married to the only man who really cared about my heart and my soul, the things that won't fade away when my beauty does."
There definitely is a sort of privilege to being pretty, let's not deny that. It's a disservice to the conversation. Heck, we're even more attracted to beautiful sunsets, full moons, pretty flowers, pleasant smells. It is our nature. Honesty
@@TheAfroGoddess why do people always deflect and say this? we know there is pretty privilege but its not as great as people make it out to be. usually its physically unattractive people looking from the outisde in who say this because they dont know there's def. a dark side to beauty
When everyone detests you but still wants to be you
THIS.
Some people: Shaming girls for monetizing their sexuality/looks.
The same people: Ngl, if I looked like her I'd definitely do the same thing, tho.
Yes people who put down onlyfans people are either jealous coz they can't do the same or want to put them down so they can morally place them themselves above them
@@incharak1927 I don’t think it’s either. I think women get upset with their boyfriends or husbands that watch behind their backs those kind of “only fans” as though their women in their life’s aren’t good enough for them. That’s why they get angry with the men and the provocative women. At least for me, I don’t get involved with those type of men. Either you respect me or not.
@@incharak1927 i agree women shouldnt attack other women for doing things like onlyfans. But I disagree there are only two reasons they would, such as the ones you've given, e.g. jealousy or morals.
There are women who fit the standard 'society' wants to see in the context of onlyfans, but choose not to engage in it. Those same women don't necessarily consider themselves morally above the women who choose to, either.
Personally I worry that engaging in that is reinforcing the idea that a women's value is her body. And how her body can be posed/dressed/glamourised, in order to satisfy a man's body. Women who 'objectify themselves' (whatever that means), are victims of a society that tells them their body is their only value. The onlyfans women that are aware of this systemic belief, are then complicit in the system which oppresses them: they know what their 'power' is and think they're just benefiting from it. But really they're reinforcing what generations of women have gone through- do I objectify myself for men, for some kind of security? Or do I take the hard path, and work to develop my knowledge of different fields, and do a job which doesn't rely on a man's opinion of the appearance of my body?
That being said, because this has been going on for so long, a lot of women (and men too) won't have access to the education that could give them life options, other than allowing themselves to be sexually exploited. So it continues.
Sex sells because everyone has a body: adverts often tell a man "buy this, and you can have this", but tell a woman "buy this, and you can be this".
Malèna
No woman has it easy. Either you have the looks and you get punished for not putting your body at men's disposition (unwanted attention or sexualization); you have beauty/sensuality and exploit it knowing that you have more chances if your body complies to the required standard, or you're not considered attractive and only get to pick the leftovers of a society that doesn't deem you worthy. Classifying people by their "attractiveness" is just horrible.
But entirely natural.
@@toomuchinformation I'm not sure. Maybe I'm biased, but I truly believe that justifying our behavior with instinct and biology is not helping us to recognize how responsible we are for thinking the way we do. We're not above biology but we do have an option to think differently than how our impulses tell us to think.
@@auramora I'm not sure. Standards of beauty vary in different cultures and societies (although with mass media, it's become more homogenised), but that basic human impulse is always there. We can't think everything away.
I see you
Attractive women can dial their looks up or down to suit the needs of the situation. If they want to go about their lives as if they weren't pretty they can. Everyone has problems (rich or poor, smart or dumb, pretty or ugly) but some people have more options for dealing with them than others.
Next up - the FLAMBOYANT GAY MAN trope.
Oh yes, that stereotype has always irked me. I hate it when he's reduced to being the overally campy Gay Best Friend to the usually female protagonist, and nothing else.
That be good the Gay best friend
@@trinaq yup. The GBF (gay best friend). That's such a thing that a not so known movie was made with that as it's very theme, called, yup, you guessed it, "GBF".
Oh please. Great suggestion. I always despised how flamboyance has been reduced to a defining trait for gay men and how it makes him any less of a 'masculine' man. Masculinity is a beautiful thing and cannot be generalized for everyone. It's high time men(or even women) be taught to be comfortable and happy in their own skin and try not to conform to societal norms.
YES
Society portrays as ‘bad’ women who do the EXACT SAME THINGS that MEN do. How crazy is that? Double standards much.
Personally I don't like anyway, someone can get hurt
@@taylorfillmore4760 I get what you say, I lnow both men and women should not manipulate, play with others etc BUT welcome to real life. It’s nothing like a fairytale. And sometimes times require a certain way of acting in order to get ahead
what the fuck! that's crazy true
I must agree with Taylor, no one should manipulate anyone. That being sad, your point still stands though
because they ae different, most men are not going to cause any women to lose their shit by flashing some skin, your suggestion of treating both sexes the same even though they have completely different kinds of power/weakness is more messed up
So basically she deserves so much better and shouldn't be treated as an object but male gaze knows no bounds
Exactly.
@@lilj362 nOt AlL mEn
@@lilj362 Not all men, but too many of them
MaLe GaZe lol. Wtf am I supposed to do if I see someone looking like Margot robbie on the streets? Put a helmet on? Maybe a knight's armor?
Just to clarify y'all I didn't mean every single men. I was just talking about how men being greedy is a big part of this trope.
A man is expected to go after money and status but when a woman does the same, she is materialistic and money+career obsessed. A man is expected to build a career but when a woman does the same she is not a good wife and mother because she spends too much time at work instead of cooking, cleaning and taking care of everyones needs but hers. A man is expected to keep himself in a good shape but when a woman does the same she is self absorbed, she should better keep her husband and kids in shape, not her, how dares she still care about how she looks after she got married, what, she wants the attention of other men? A man is expected to have a lot of relationships, that’s considered to be absolutley normal, but when a woman does the same, omggg, it’s the hell on earth. A man is understood when he dosen’t want kids, but when a woman dosen’t want kids, she is a bad woman, all women should want kids etc etc. So please don’t tell me double standards aren’t real🙄🙄🙄
Same goes the other way round. God forbid a man being a housewife!
This sums up a life of a women perfectly
Because you retain DNA of every man you sleep with and it damages you, that's why. Men can sleep around more freely and that is actually sad but true. We are not gatekeepers of sex. You decide who you ''let inside'' lol.
@@rudy1999 That’s the dumbest thing I have ever read but it’s coming from a male so I’m not surprised
@@abbya1707 Nah, it's proven. U just salty it's true lol.
It's funny how america always seems to love sexuality until a woman owns it.
The consent really turns men off, huh.
“Look at that face, she could be five years old”... does no one else think this is sick?
Yeah wth was that?
@@hareema4442 that’s Hollywood and the entertainment industry... watch an Open Secret documentary when you get the chance...
That was so creepy. Now we know why Marilyn hated Olivier
that creeped me out HARDCORE
right that’s so weird
“beauty is dangerous, but intelligence is lethal”
Ask the mistress of the richest man in the world
I love Uma's Poison Ivy, she actually isn't a true villain and just really wants an environmentally-friendly world!
She's exactly like that in the comics and animated shows.
I'm sorry but when people say this about Poison Ivy i get pissed off.
Is her cause noble?
Yes
Does that mean she's not a true villain? Fuck no
I'm sorry but if you're going to brainwash the entire world (which by the way she did do that once.) That your noble cause is no longer an excuse
I love Ivy don't get me wrong but she isn't a good guy. She's murder, tortured, brainwashed and manipulated a lot of people before.
She doesn't give two fucks about anything but Plants and Harley. She wants to see the world burn. If that's not a true villain then I don't know what is
@@AmySwain03 Yeah, she's like Thanos. Good intentions but bad actions.
by means of mass genocide? yeah no...
@@AmySwain03 Ha agreed. She's a great example of a villainous character that we can't condone their actions but love watching for being complex/interesting. Same with Harley.
Do the ‘rebel Asian girl’ trope, it’s literally everywhere and they always have this piece of hair dyed.
This video was excellently done! I knew such a woman at the children’s hospital where I work; she was a fellow Medical Assistant who was GORGEOUS and could easily been a model if she had wanted. Unfortunately she was treated very badly by the rest of our staff: excluded, gossiped about, treated by both fellow MAs and the Doctors like she was stupid, and even got a complaint once from a patient’s family bc she was “distracting” (i.e. Dad looked at her and Mom got jealous) But if you took 5 minutes to actually TALK to her, you’d find she was one of the warmest, kindest, and smartest members of our team, and she worked harder than half our unit put together! She was only there a year before she left to take care of her ailing father but wherever she is I hope she’s happy and people are treating her w the respect she deserves 💚💚
Karen should've talked to her husband 😒😤😑
I hate it when people let their insecurity mistreat blessed people like your old Co worker
@@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254 amen! 🙌
It's because our society views attractiveness and kindness/hardworking as mutually exclusive things. I am considered attractive, and I have had similar experiences, being put down, viewed as stupid, and sabotaged constantly.
@@pamsanchez2400 Thats really sad, and not something we would ever see in any movies.
@DeeDee I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal w that! I hope you’ve got lots of wonderful people in your life who appreciate you for you 💚💚
The exotic girl trope, explained.
yes FOR THIS
That would be amazing!
girl next door/vs exotic girl trope
Yessss
Ooh yes
Megan fox was truly ahead of her time
Say it louder for the people in the back
Overrated
especially Jennifer’s body. it’s considered a cult classic now but was shit on when it was released I hear
@@rozepyracantha5574 Yup!
wwx?
I remember hitting puberty and having my life turned upside down for how men and women started to treat me. Even in my own family. Suddenly people commented on my body all the time and it made me feel powerful but it was super isolating and made me pressure myself so much more to "'keep'' their fantasies alive. I think we should all learn to appreciate and enjoy our beauty by ourselves so we can learn to self protect from this disguting society standards.
I loved Jennifer's Body :/ always felt like they did Megan Fox dirty anyways, not only on the set of Jennifer's Body, at Transformers, too. :/
I don't think they did her dirty on the set of Jennifer's Body 🤔
@@mar6488 It was mainly the marketing team for jennifer’s body that did her dirty and not on the movie set itself, like you said.
I believe megan fox even said herself that jennifer’s body was her favorite project she had ever worked on. It was a movie that was aimed at a more lgbt/female audience (bc it focused on toxic female friendships and the complicated feelings they can produce) while also having a female director.
The marketing team misunderstood that focus completely and centered the marketing around “look how hot megan and her body is” to her straight male fanboys, who then proceeded to get Very Upset when the movie turned out to be, well, a horror movie, and not just megan showing her boobs for the entire runtime. I think one of the only ways megan felt bad during filming was the time she knew that the kiss scene (meant to represent the complicated feelings produced from toxic female friendships) was going to be used badly by the marketing team by having it in every trailer, which they did do.
@@Phantaceles JB was way ahead of its time, unfortunately. Re-watching it nowadays just hits a lot different.
@@mar6488 Honestly tho. It says a lot about what audience it was reaching towards when they did, like, a hot-topic sponsored meetup back then lol
What makes me angry that it is men’s responsibility to not see a woman as a sex object only. No one can help the way they look. Just because someone is attractive does not mean you possess them.
I also hate, “they were asking for it”. The man has to realize that a girl does nothing for them. They wear what they wear.
Also, the “guy talk” needs to stop at least when it comes to see women as a conquest and these stupid double standards. This is where it starts.
Also stop pitting women against each other.
THİS
I agree, but expect to get sexulized if your sexulizing yourself
@@taylorfillmore4760 if im being sexual it has nothing to do with you, unless i give u consent. i dont want you to sexualize me. imagine you are wearing shirt which is marked as sexual by society and some dude starts to stare at your chest do you think its okay?
Thank you! I have been going through this and this why I’m still single and have a few female friends
@@l3loodlu5t45 I mean if your twerking, putting yourself in sexual positions, and etc, EXPECT TO GET SEXUlIZED . DON'T BULID YOUR EMPIRE OFF YOUR BODY THEN GET MAD WHEN THAT'S ALL PEOPLE NOTICE YOU FOR.
The lyrics to Diamonds Are A Girls Best Friend is a song of having to get a diamond because your station is not secure...it is a sad song.
Super sad. Imagine having to work for a living!
Last week at work, a woman I've known for four years told me that I intimidated her when I first started because, to use her words, "You're this bombshell walking around the office". Then she told me that she stopped being intimidated because I don't realize how beautiful I am. Which is a lovely thing to hear but...
First of all, I don't ever want people to feel intimidated or otherwise uncomfortable around me because of what I look like. It made me sad when she said that because do people assume I'm mean or something?
But then the second part about how after she got to know me and I suppose discovered that I'm a nice person but decided that it's because I don't see beauty in myself was weird and made me think. Am I not allowed to see beauty in my own appearance? Did she think I was nice because I must have had a poor self-image? I don't! I had nothing to do with what genes I inherited from my parents just like everyone else. It's not my fault but also I'm not blind. And I've also been told my entire life by family, friends, and strangers that I'm beautiful. It's not the most important thing I care about but I would be lying if I said I was unaware of it. I'm aware, it's just low on the list of my qualities that I value in myself.
I get it. A photographer can take a thousand photos of a woman and she's beautiful! It's art! But the INSTANT she turns the camera around to see for herself what everyone else is is seeing, the moment she snaps ONE selfie, she's stuck up, self-absorbed, shallow, and only cares about her appearance.
Beautiful women are not allowed to say, think, or even be aware that we are beautiful.
“On screen beauties in general are punished, not so much for what they do but for the animal urges they bring out in men, simply by existing.”
And that's where we come to the root of "incel" self-image...
"I guess it's better to be looked over than overlooked." Mae West
God Mae West is so ahead of her time
do The Gay Best friend trope. that one is one we are tired of and done with. also do The Stoner trope or The Hippie trope. those would be interesting to explore
I keep thinking of Bridget Jones's friend Tom, who is depicted very shallow in the films. In the books, he still is shallow and he still peppers Bridget with positive comments on how she matches the convention of attractiveness but there is a point in the first book where Bridget and her other friends don't hear from him, get worried he was the victim of a hate crime and even giving a little history of 1970s/1980s British gay and anti-racist activism, before finding out that Tom went in for a nose job.
I think they did it already
Other woman
with the stoner trope i always think of the guy from cabin in the woods, the idiot stoner was actually the smartest one lol
Stoner trope!!! 😎😎😎 Duuude hahaha 🤣
Jennifer Anniston is interesting. She's gorgeous but is usually dressed conservatively in her roles, and seems like a "girl next door" type. Girl Next Door must turn into wife/mom as they get older, which is what she tends to play now.
Except that she always had her headlights on, not what a “Girl Next Door” normally had.
@@Egilhelmson that was definitely normal for the 90s and early 2000s tho no one with perky, average size boobs would bother to wear a bra.
@@pastelmermage8883, I disagree on the "average", but that may be a question of what you expect to be the average.
@@g.strobl4458 like c cup and under
@@pastelmermage8883 , C is what I'd consider average, too. When I wore a C cup as a teen, running hurt already without the bra, so I would not have dispensed with the it. Perhaps I am extrapolating too much from my own experiences when I assume that other women would also prefer physical comfort. :D
I also want to add that most of these iconic blondes, like Jean Harlow, Marilyn Monroe, Brigitte Bardot, Pam Anderson etc. Weren't real blondes. Part of what made them exciting is that they seemed unreal and the obviously bleached hair contributed to that.
People don't want to hear that attractive people have the same struggles and sometimes even worse struggles than them. In my situation, I have very low and an unstable sense of self, because on the one hand, people compliment me and approach me, and want to get to know me, but on the other hand, my every flaw is picked on and magnified, especially by other women. Nice guys don't usually approach me, I guess because they feel intimidated, but I constantly get myself in situations with narcissistic and dangerous men. People assume I'm full of myself, but then when they find out how relatable I am, they tell me how unattractive my insecurities make me, and how confidence is sexy. I can't tell you how many times men in power have tried to sleep with me, and then try to sabotage me when I turn them down. The other thing that people don't realize, is that we are constantly feeling threatened by other even more beautiful women, and never being able to measure up. And having to always look our best because our value is in how others view us. I sometimes find myself having to apologize for having a bad hair day or gaining a few extra pounds.
You forgot that although you crave and love female company and friendships, other women often meet you with distrust and negativity. The ones that took the time to get to know me, told me often "wow you're actually really nice and funny" as if they weren't expecting you to be 🤦🏻♀️
@@smp6565 Exactly. It's always a surprise :)
You've described my experience exactly. I was neglected in childhood so for many years I looked in rough shape and was chubby from emotionally eating, so people considered me unattractive, but that bullying never got super bad. Comments were made, but people were more excited to bully me for other reasons. I had a glow up and suddenly no women want to be my friend, no man ever actually sees me as a friend, slut-shaming ensued, and nice men are less likely to approach me. I get catcalled and harassed all the time, so I can only go outside in baggy clothes and no makeup and it still happens incessantly, and I don't leave my house anymore for anything. I get constant negative attention from dangerous/narc men who see me as a sex object and fantasy, who do not want me to have a personality or be intelligent (and I have both) bc it threatens their ego. They want me to be a trophy and a vessel for their violence, not a person. It landed me in an abusive relationship. It's the main male attention I get. I don't bother to buy nice outfits anymore and only have athletic clothes now. I can't dress for me anymore. If I wanted to go somewhere fancy I'd truly have nothing to wear- if I can't wear leggings I don't go. I have strangers nitpick my appearance no matter how I look, but when considered pretty they say it right to my face to "humble me." Ironic bc I would/have never done that to someone else. They project on me that I must be very lucky and bitchy, but it's the opposite, I do a lot of community service and would take the shirt off my back for a complete stranger. I was 130 lbs. and have severe body dysmorphia, and people picked my appearance apart so much I developed a very serious eating disorder and I almost died. It gets super lonely and I spend all my time alone. Having been the hot friend and the ugly friend, I view pretty privilege as a curse. It's been super traumatizing. The main positive differences I notice is that store employees are much nicer to me and people are more likely to say yes to favors, but since I don't go out and just order everything, that doesn't come up a lot for me personally. I was much happier when my appearance wasn't triggering people left and right into treating me inhumanely. I miss the freedom I had in society when I wouldn't be harassed as much, people didn't always pretend to be my friend to get into my pants and then drop me immediately when their trick doesn't work, and when men wouldn't always view me existing in public by myself as an invitation to say whatever they want to me or touch me. I don't agree that all attention is good attention- it's scary and dangerous and I get targeted for violence A LOT more. I had a "friend" tell me I was lucky to experience SA bc it meant someone wanted to have sex with me. They say stuff like that and then wanna play the victim card. They're so mad at us they can't see we're on the same team. I'm queer and nothing I do is for the male gaze, but I'm feminine and therefore not allowed to exist for anything but men's horniness, so no one cares. It's a very dark and grave situation. Too many of us don't survive "pretty."
@@pflynn623 so sorry and truly heartbroken to hear this 🥺 experienced many of the things you mentioned myself although maybe not as badly. The "nitpicking" thing happened to me just yesterday 🤦🏻♀️people think to compliment you but point out your flaws while doing it. A male friend explained "Well I'm sure you hear being called beautiful all the time so they wana also huble you and stand out from other dudes by telling you something negative. They think it'll intrigue you more"... Fuck no! It's just mean and hurtful?! I hope you have people around you who support you. I wish you healing, happiness and serenity 🙏🏻✨
A Bombshells beauty is both, a blessing and a curse.
Society really failed them.
*The bald villain trope*
😂😂😂
This is a video I want to see!
Or balding
Voldemort 😂
At 17:00 I've been reading a lot about Only Fans and the issues around it and what comes out very clearly is the anger and resentment some men have over the young female content creators.
I think it's because the money is going directly to them and not a porn director/publisher. The "taking advantage of sad lonely men", doesn't apply to other areas of sex work either.
interesting pov
It's really interesting that you mention that Liz Taylor's character in "A place in the sun" showed how part of the bombshell's appeal is her embodying the American Dream. Marilyn Monroe's real-life bombshell persona, or what the public perceived as her persona, was impacted by her coming from a troubled childhood to make a success for herself. It's interesting how the American Dream and Bombshell troupe are so intertwined
"Where pretty people are asexual" ... I feel represented 😊
Omg sameee hehe made me grin to myself 🥰
Yep! 👍🏻👍🏻
So pretty that you are afraid to show your real photo xD
@@rudy1999 contrary to popular belief, I am not obligated to show myself simply because I am pretty. And, while you do have a right to your own opinion, you do not have a right to my image. Therefore, nothing you say or insinuate will change me or my opinion of myself. For future reference though you really should be more kind to others. We've not done anything to harm you.
@@trustmaker1014 Yeah I can be a fat dwarf and call myself pretty, doesn't make it so.
This reminds me of that Italian movie Malena a role of a beautiful woman played by Monica Bellucci
Yresß
“You’re going out dressed like that?” “Why are you putting makeup on?” “Who are you trying to impress?” Are things I still hear and see other people say today that irritates tf out of me..
I always wanted to the bombshell, she seemed so interesting and fun.
No mention of Betty Page and the fact that after a certain point she refused to be photographed so people would only ever remember her young and gorgeous?
Gotta keep it under 30 minutes
Sissy refused to go out in public, too, when she was old.
+1
People should remember her old and ugly.
Mmm, the Hays code. Where knowing you’re beautiful and benefiting from it get treated the same as criminal acts.
The Wise Old Sage Trope. Yoda, Gandalf, Master Roshi, Uncle Iroh and many anime characters. Somebody needs to do this.
Dumbledore too
Mr. Miyagi
Chiron too
how could you forget: Obi-Wan Kenobi, the Trope embodiment!!!
I’m endlessly impressed by how the take is able to craft such amazing videos on so many tropes like this content is top tier 😭😭😭
Megan Fox deserved so much better. She was mistreated by her male director and then shamed by the media when she spoke out in the mid 2000’s. I’m glad to see she’s doing better, though.
Ugh ! That meghan is an awful radical rather.
its such a shame how society vilified these women for simply being beautiful and sexualised them at the same time
They signed contracts to be in these films themselves?
Not to mention the constant torture with fame, recognition and money. Those poor, but super duper strong, Mail Gayzed women went through hell on the red carpet wearing those high heels.
NEVER AGAIN!
I'll like more films which show attractive women from their own perspective and fully aware what society expects them to be a certain way.
Megan Fox was treated terribly for her role in Transformers as if she's real bimbo rather than what Michael Bay wanted her to be
Thanks for the encouragement! Body recomposition takes the longest time, but it’s worth the wait. Apart from going to the gym I practice pole acrobatics and every week I notice how my body gets stronger and is able to do the pole tricks I never used to be able to. This is the best feeling ever!
I'm noticing that a certain bombshell was not mentioned. Asami Saito of Legend Of Korra. She is not only a bombshell, She's business savvy, she can fight, She's practically an engineer, and ... (spoiler)
She gets the girl.
@@anamarte7547 I get you are trying to say something but I'm not seeing it. it sounds like you think that people only want to see two things... butch and moms... maybe we wanna see more? I mean we're as diverse as heteros and who says you can't be jocky and beautiful? who says all women want kids? I want kids but that doesn't mean some other lady does. why can't their stories be told?
The damsel in distress trope and her evolution through ages might be interesting too
the trope is almost “too easy” - she’s the perfect paradox and they can use her to accessorise a movie without giving her too much importance
Great video, as always. I do wish that colourism was acknowledged with regards to the "Black Bombshells" Dorothy Dandridge, Lena Horne and Eartha Kitt even Halle Berry, Rihanna etc, are usually of mixed ethnic backgrounds and much lighter in complexion than monoracial Black women. I am having a hard time thinking of a single Black woman with two Black parents who is darker than a café au lait who acheived bombshell status.
I am saddened by the term "black Bombshells" and "Bombshells of color". A Bombshell is a Bombshell regardless of her ethnicity. Putting sexy black women into a subcategory is seriously underestimating them. Having said that, I very much agree with colorism in what is considered the ideal black Bombshell!
As a biracial woman, I feel stupid when I am placed as a black woman, as though being mostly European is the only palatable way for a "black" woman to be. I am not black. There are many truly black women far more beautiful than me, who would not be considered so by white people.
I would like there to be more biracial and multiracial awareness. For one thing, people like me would not continuously be expected to ignore up to 75% of our heritage whilst standing in the way of actual black people. Also, real black beauty would be noticed, because white people could no longer pretend not to be racist by putting "black people" in power, on covers and on stage who are mostly white. The reason white people like "light black" people better is because we ARE white people as much as we are black people.
However, there have been many mono-racial black women in the beauty and fashion industry: The classical Mounia, Duckie Thot, Beverly Peele, Alec Wek, 70s covergirl Naomi Sims, Maria Borges, Halima Aden, Naomi Campbell, Grace Jones, Leomie Anderson, and Iman is Somali (so mixed with Asian in most cases), to name a few
Saffron Sugar I think the world of fashion has always been more international and open minded than the world of glamour. It’s all so much more excepting of gender identity and sexual orientation.
The fashion industry is not just aimed at straight white men.
Diahann Caroll but you are correct
In response to the trope that beauty x brains = a constant, I offer: Hedy Lamarr
Truly!
I'm doubling down: Rose Tico.
when you learn to love yourself you grow confidence in yourself, and everyone comes running after.
You only grow confidence by doing difficult shit. When you won't be able to care less about what everyone else does; on the the day when you'll feel genuine respect for your past, for the fights you've fought, for having a character - on that day you will have have grown confidence and feel respect for yourself instead of love. You love is for other people.
Alternatively you can keep trying the narcissist route of telling yourself life lies 24/7 until you start believing them one day, magically causing the world to surrender to your irresistible, completely unearned but super duper awesome self-love. Nothing more attractive than somebody who's full of herself for no reason at all, and who's grounded enough to expect a mass following because she's naturally way better than everybody else.
Remember, girl: it's really super easy, you only need to love yourself, is all!
Bypass the compressor NOW!
@3:45 "Red-Headed Woman"
(Movie is in black and white) 😆
The bombshell usually has a troubled childhood, child abuse, etc she learns that attention “love” is through sexual enticement.
Shame that they treated Megan so poorly. She was truly ahead of her time and still too young to explore the political incentive of her position back then. I love Jennifer's body, btw. Its low rating doesn't seem realistic to me but is very likely a butthurt thing/campaign.
Great video, thanks for analyzing this!
But you missed Princess Leia when speaking about aging bombshells. There was the unreasonable backlash when Carrie Fisher appeared on Episode 7.
Your content is so deep. I have to ask what is your educational background? Psychology? I love how this channel makes me think and view the world in different ways.
Honestly I don't know but I think genders studies, cinematography, sociology, women's studies, are good studies for this type of video
+1
Educational background, I'm guessing professor or something at least!!!
When i was a kid/teen-age i wanted to be a bombshell woman because of their beauty and because some boys in school used to bully me for not being "pretty enough"
I wanted to be them without know the darkness behind that beauty,now i'm happy that i'm myself
Megan fox deserves so much better
"The body of a woman and the emotions of a child." I've been told something to that effect 😒
Those kind of men have one of them
eww
stay away from men like that
"I'm a bombshell, so I'm going to do me. If I want to go platinum, I'm going platinum."
Lil Mama
Yes, I love that quote, why go big when you could go even bigger?! 💖
@@trinaq I agree
Bestest quote ever! Mail Gaze check and mate, booomchill Lil Mommy style! Whooooohooooo!
thank you so much for this video, it is so resonating and eye opening to watch the deconstruction of a trope we strived so much to see
12:30 killing off the explicitly sexual woman is meant to be comforting to normal women - a message that says don’t worry, everyone might be obsessed about the blonde but only temporarily.
Bruh, I haven't been *This shook* since the strong black female trope.
Beauty gives power, they make it seem like men are allowing the Bombshell to have the power and then take it away at the end because she is either a villain or dumb, why can’t they associate beauty with intelligence or at least let her win.
Absolutely loved this! Just one little correction: Rita Hayworth wasn’t Latina, but Spanish
Katherine from under the tuscan sun has to be one of my favorites she's just so gorgeous and elegant ugh😌
What are the nuances exactly between the Bombshell and the Femme Fatale?
Was just thinking that
Same question
The Femme Fatale is a sub trope of the Bombshell
They are different archetypes. Bombshell is Aphrodite that means her actions based on love and joy, she’s super sensual and sincere. For Femme Fatale beauty is a weapon to gain power, revenge, money, knowledge. It’s her way of surviving. Bombshell gets everything she wants easy bc she’s very likable and easygoing.
@@alisa_hanes They're essentially foils of the promiscuous and pretty privileged woman.
she's kinda similar to the mermaid trope
What mermaid trope?
@@beethovensfidelio from the Mermaid Trope video, from this same channel
Great insights into the way bombshell characters are portrayed, glad that there’s more ownership and less judgment of it now!
It depends on the interpretation
There are selfless and compassionate takes on Aphrodite
Yap, but Hollywood it isn't as compassionate with women.
It depends on the moon cycle.
I'm a huge movie historian and I had NO IDEA about Rita Hayworth. Thanks!
Me neither! Fascinating
You never saw The Shawshank Redemption? It's a great movie.
I use to think I'm not beautiful enough, but now I know that I'm beautiful.
What I wanna say about the prettiest girl in the room syndrome I've had at least a couple is that it screws with a girl's/Womans head. They'll have a hard time aging gracefully for one. And two it can stunt their eternal feminine their deep maturity.
the mexican novella teresa (2010 is my fav) has a great “villanous” bombshell as the main character... watch to see how her story ends
I wish you guys would include a list of all the movies and shows you used in the video, so I don’t have to keep pausing and writing everything down! I know you guys used to do this, and it was super helpful!
Your channel is so important to me. Never stop making these videos.
also on their duality (evil/naive or sexual/emotional) we can see how they are shown as crazy and chaotic like harlequin and even cheryl blossom (riverdale)
A perfect example is Cleo in Clone High. Also when Marylin said "Beauty for a woman is like wealth to a man, you might not marry a woman because she's pretty, but boy doesn't it help!" As a man that doesn't really 'go for looks' I laughed because it's still true.
PLEASE DO A TAKE ON JUSTIFIED AND ROMANTIC CHEATING
The fact that “the love witch” by Anna Biller wasn’t in this I’m not surprised but disappointed
That movie fit the femme fatal trope.