Anant Ambani's 'Low Cost' Wedding Celebrations - What India Needs to Learn from it | Akash Banerjee

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  • EVEN if you have been living under a rock - you would know about the grand Anant Ambani pre-Wedding celebrations where Anant and soon to be wife Radhika Merchant hosted an (estimated) 1000 crore pre-wedding bash in Jamnagar.... but they can afford to spend this much and 100 times more .... question is what lessons can an average Indian draw from this and what does an average Indian have to do for a wedding???
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  • @thedeshbhakt
    @thedeshbhakt  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +733

    How much of your own / your parents wealth would you want to spend in a wedding ??

    • @beastdoesrandom
      @beastdoesrandom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

      Not a lot especially if I know how hard they worked for it

    • @meheboobalam2127
      @meheboobalam2127 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Still waiting for druv rathee Farmer's protest video 😢

    • @komalji8155
      @komalji8155 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +166

      कोर्ट मैरिज 😂 सस्ता सुंदर टिकाऊ 😂😂

    • @muhammadjawad1569
      @muhammadjawad1569 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Less than 10 lac Pakistani rupees

    • @aperson9375
      @aperson9375 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      Not more than a lakh.. and for that I don't care about society or relatives.

  • @gagasarkar227
    @gagasarkar227 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3375

    Biggest lesson learnt from this recent Ambani wedding
    We should spend not more than 0.1% of our asset in wedding.

    • @fragergaming3714
      @fragergaming3714 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

      Bhai uske 0.1% Mey zamin aur aasman ka bhi nhi , blke, zamin or space ka farak h, basic maths. 😂😂😅

    • @shyamolkonwar
      @shyamolkonwar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhai uski 0.1% main tera 7 janme aaram se kha ke shaadi bhi kar lega...😂

    • @bopon4090
      @bopon4090 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +138

      0.1 wtf bro its 10k for me.😭😭😭

    • @findingmytruestself
      @findingmytruestself 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

      ​@@bopon4090bhai mandir me shadi kr liyo..wha hi bhog lga dena 😂👍

    • @bopon4090
      @bopon4090 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@findingmytruestself hahahaba

  • @mandeepajmani
    @mandeepajmani 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1117

    During my wedding my father was scared of society and kept repeating ki "Rishtedaar kya kahenge?" My simple reply was "Why are Rishtedaar even asking this question? If they are family, they will understand. If they are not family then it should hardly matter." This gave my father some strength and my wedding was done in mere 3 lakhs in 2018 in New Delhi. Food was one of our priority though, to be adequate, delicious, hygienic and vegetarian. At that time, minimum amount required for a average wedding was 10 lakhs.

    • @justtelescopic5187
      @justtelescopic5187 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      That's a wonderful statement 💯

    • @rishabhbhatnagar6795
      @rishabhbhatnagar6795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      How? Ornaments themselves would cost around 3lakhs.

    • @anupkumar-ng2xg
      @anupkumar-ng2xg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Hats of u set a good example for Sindhi community(presume seeing ur surname) which is known to spent hard earned money just to please rishtedaar and show off.

    • @mridds
      @mridds 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Very good! Proud of you for not getting carried away like the rest and wasting money

    • @sangramraje5667
      @sangramraje5667 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Mere 3 lakhs????
      Elite TH-cam public.

  • @6yearsleft
    @6yearsleft 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +267

    Indian media has enough time to telecast wedding ceremony of Ambani but they don't have time to telecast the protest of students, farmers and women

    • @asudani2611
      @asudani2611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand.
      th-cam.com/video/eHyyPfitg64/w-d-xo.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm

    • @sm-14987
      @sm-14987 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      +Wrestlers' protest.

    • @superkamiguru7985
      @superkamiguru7985 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      BJP media

    • @Dhatura1960
      @Dhatura1960 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      bhai media ya ye jo paparaji hain unpe aaakthu hai sale log bhikmango ki tarah inke darwajo pe ak photo ki bheekh mangte khade the ..magar yahi kutte desh me andar ki mahngai gareebi school ki fees andruninihabro ke peeche nhi bagte harami sale aaak thhiuinpe

  • @MistyRawat-l7g
    @MistyRawat-l7g 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +242

    Recently in our neighborhood a girl had a simple temple marriage without inviting anyone except her family members. I am really impressed by her move and it also conveyed a good message to our society.
    Thanks Deshbhakt for making this video and pointing out all the flaws in today's world.
    I pray for you and your well being. 🌱

    • @ImJustAGurl-st7
      @ImJustAGurl-st7 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She's a smart girl

    • @cinefile0075
      @cinefile0075 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Big wedding cost and social pressure is social in our society. Government and NGOs should take step for awareness in this field...

  • @meenaisaac1014
    @meenaisaac1014 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +407

    My mentor, college chaplain, showed me how he and his wife organized their wedding. His wife wore not a single piece of gold, no make up, simple low key hospitality. The wife is a gold medalist physician with no dirth of money. He showed me his wedding album to present it as an example for me to follow. This is what I respected, held in high regard and so found it quite sad how people look at how much gold is on display etc etc. But people are people, difficult to change, easy to get judgemental. I am so blessed to have had a mentor like Rev. Ninan Chacko.

    • @ASG_19
      @ASG_19 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gaand kyun jal rahi hai ....
      Indira aur Rajiv ki shaadi bhool gaye 😓

    • @ParthaYouTube09
      @ParthaYouTube09 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      If people like you emphasis on freedom of choice to a fundamental level, so why can't any individuals wedding to as grandeur as they wish it to be, as long as they can afford it 🤷🏻‍♂️
      Where's the issue for other people. They are successful, they spent money, they boost this economy
      If materialistic lifestyle is what you detest... Then that's also a personal choice in the end 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @ParthaYouTube09
      @ParthaYouTube09 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@suparnamaity284 definitely
      Also, we are now living in a capitalist society

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bollyood's Sanskari heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Celebraties and marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood PanditWood

    • @rukhsana1693
      @rukhsana1693 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hum 4, 5 lakh me shaadi nipta rahe hein bhai ki wo udhaar le kar 😂😅😢

  • @poonampal59
    @poonampal59 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +418

    I feel proud to say that I opted for court marriage which costed only Rs. 5000. I would suggest people to spend maximum money on education of their children rather than wedding.

    • @mrandroplaying
      @mrandroplaying 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Hahaha..maximum money on education...lol...baccha layak war hoga toh scholarship leke he padd lega..maximum money waste karke RAHUL GANDHI jesa he hoga...maximum money on education sirf PVT Schools ..pvt coaching mafia ko he faida dega ..jab shadi me kharcha hota hai toh kya lagta hai..insaan khud pe kharcha karta hai kya...kitne logo ko rojgaar milta hai ...

    • @NiceEyeballs
      @NiceEyeballs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      ​@@mrandroplayingBhai tu kehra hai ki education se jyada show off important hai. Bhai tu deshbhakt ki audience nahi lagra merko. Aur scholarship k liye bhi bacha ko basics aana chahiye. Aur wese bhi agar tere extra pesa pada hua hai, to ek do gareeb jese apni maid, driver wagera k ek do bache padhwa de. Education can never be held below showoff.

    • @AnonymousPhilosophee
      @AnonymousPhilosophee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Excellent❤❤🎉

    • @Name.exeNotFound-pu1qt
      @Name.exeNotFound-pu1qt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@mrandroplaying bhai, shaadi me bas 2 logo ko maza nahi aata, pati aur patni. Baaki sab moj maza karte he

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now Bollyood's $anatani heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Celebraties and Marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood BabaWood

  • @cyrilanand8527
    @cyrilanand8527 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1605

    That’s the reason I like TATA. SIMPLE, HUMBLE and CHARITABLE.

    • @proudindian2037
      @proudindian2037 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This amazing pre wedding event proved #Ambanis are Billionaires by Heart too ♥️ despite #Asia's richest family, #Ambanis are grown up by rich culture, traditions & values 👏 top of it they follow Santana Dharma's path 🚩 they put country on global map and provided employment to millions but they are more grounded than their employees, rare thing in corporate world 👏 #Ambanis always come for help when country needs, either during COVID wave, Reliance providing liquid oxygen in whole world, they stopped production in used oxygen for people of country and that without a single rupee charge 🙏 they built many hospitals, schools, skill centres, etc. and providing free services for betterment of common people so they are doing more for country than many political parties 🤐 country is blessed to have such a Big Heart Billionaire family, respect 🙏
      most people don't know who is #AnantAmbani because he isn't in business, his elder brother is in business and handling #Jio so people saw Aakash speeches and interviews but this man is come with a big surprise, he is unbelievable orator 💥 nobody thought that Anant is such a down to earth person and superb speaker 👍 his love for animals is pure, unconditional and amazing, this quality makes #anantambani a pure Gem of person ♥️ and his language commands in Hindi, English and Gujarati is best in ambani family 👍why Ambani family hide this gem of person from social media till now, he is doing great work for animals till 2008, #Vantara is a superb noble cause but we don't know about it, how? if any celebrity doing these type of noble causes, he should get attention because he or his family or his friend or relative promoted in media or social media but #Ambani refrained from this and this makes #Ambani family different from others 👏that they are doing so nuch social work, running many NGOs for girl education, women empowerment, tribal empowerment, underprivileged people and for poor people under Reliance foundation by Nita Ambani and Anant also doing great work for animals too and created biggest private animal sevalay called #Vantara in Jamnagar from 2008 but they never highlighted or promoted on media or social media despite they are billionaires and Asia's richest family but they are never doing paid promotion, when celebrities & media all over world came to Jamnagar, Gujarat for his pre wedding then people knew that this type of great work doing by #Anant and Ambani family, this is worth to be applauded 👏👏👏 this Great work proved #Ambani is billionaires by heart too ♥️

    • @Vincenzobiky
      @Vincenzobiky 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Yeh to sach hey pmcare fund bi bohot ache se handle kar rahe rey👍👍👍👍

    • @kgangavaram
      @kgangavaram 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ambanis are businessmen and the Tatas are industrialists.

    • @emailguy5151
      @emailguy5151 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

      Neither Rata Tata merried not he have any family to arrange any merriage
      No disrespect but har baar tata tata karna jaruri nahi
      Aj unke bache hote to vo bache thodi na simple rahna pasand karte

    • @powerit6319
      @powerit6319 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      This is exactly what I was thinking while watching all this shit on social media 😊

  • @hukkeri5576
    @hukkeri5576 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Covid lockdown time was the best. No wasteful weddings.😂

  • @H.e.I.m.D.a.L.L
    @H.e.I.m.D.a.L.L 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +301

    Azim Premji is i guess the most underrated and private industrialist of India, its only in such lists that i have ever seen his name, just read up on him now that his dad was invited by Jinnah to come to Pakistan during partition but they stated back in India, and now they are giving back to India.

    • @niranjanchavan8513
      @niranjanchavan8513 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      whats wrong in showing your health?

    • @srbasha74
      @srbasha74 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      ​@@niranjanchavan8513because it hurts those who can't afford it. Humility is a virtue in our culture

    • @mohdmustafaali5774
      @mohdmustafaali5774 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bc ye itna donation jata kaha hai???

    • @Rcxx29
      @Rcxx29 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@niranjanchavan8513 Reinforcement of feudalism and encouragement to debauched people....insult to poor hardworking people of India such as farmers...and drdo scientist, and a painful reminder that Indian rich are corrupt and uncivilized and toxic, compared to American self made entrepreneurs. Also fully explains why India remains an economic laggard....

    • @agnilthapliyal7470
      @agnilthapliyal7470 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So, because of them, nobody should enjoy their wealth ..how rubbish? Try to work hard to achieve that feat instead of being jealous. Idiot .. ​@srbasha74

  • @AbiLij-gr2ov
    @AbiLij-gr2ov 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    This is what the discussion should be instead of the fanfare the media is doing today. People should look at their own worth and spend accordingly

    • @yashpalchaudhary9752
      @yashpalchaudhary9752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do you expect mmai stream media to discuss such things in first place...they all r bikau to the core...left right centre all r same.

    • @saptaksarkar30468
      @saptaksarkar30468 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unforunetly, these people own the media and the people believe everything that they see on social media

  • @anshul.j
    @anshul.j 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +428

    Apart from Celebrities and Industrialists, media has a large impact on people to increase wedding expenditure!

    • @worldfrommyeyes16
      @worldfrommyeyes16 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Kyu Bhai yami Gautam me simple shaadi ki uska to koi impact nhi aaya society pr to koi Asia ka richest person apne Ghar ki aakhiri shadi me apni marji ka Paisa jo ki legal h kharch kr rha h to kya usse poori society Ambani bnne nikal padegi, kya bakwas hai

    • @INDIAN_CITIZEN27
      @INDIAN_CITIZEN27 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@worldfrommyeyes16 yes you are right

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now Bollyood's Sanskari heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Celebraties and marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood PanditWood

    • @anubhavshahi1326
      @anubhavshahi1326 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@worldfrommyeyes16 Bro, Boori cheezein jaldi attract karti hai insanon ko aaj ki date mein

    • @ank7027
      @ank7027 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      No, tv serials made a large impact on increasing wedding expenditure.

  • @SamyamBhagat
    @SamyamBhagat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    My wedding was just simple total expenditure 10,000 rupees. And happily married so far. Blessed with two children. We must get away from this "ki log kya kahenge?" Trust me they will talk anyway, even if u spend lakhs and crores on marriage. Simple marriage is the must blessed marriage.

    • @mq2311
      @mq2311 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Bilkul sahe kaha ...zada lavish shaadi mein nazar bhi lag jaati hai...aur jaldi toot bhi jaati hai...

    • @luffyy8194
      @luffyy8194 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How in 10k?

    • @funeralhouse6280
      @funeralhouse6280 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🏆

    • @Devil..09
      @Devil..09 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@luffyy8194 arey bhai logic ko nahi emotion ko samajh.😂😂

    • @SamielBaskey-wb1co
      @SamielBaskey-wb1co 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@luffyy8194 May bhi yahi soch raha hun 10k main kese ho sakta hai.😮😮

  • @CHAITANYAJAGTAP
    @CHAITANYAJAGTAP 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    I did my wedding in the most modest way possible, then too found the expenses too high. I am happy that we (me and my wife) saved money for our future together.

    • @MOHAMMED-gi2uh
      @MOHAMMED-gi2uh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Most of the sensible things your family has done.

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now Bollyood's $anatani heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Celebraties and Marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood BabaWood 😂

    • @World_affairscloud
      @World_affairscloud 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂 very funny

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now Bollyood's Sanskari heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Celebraties and marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood BabaWood

    • @aaegatomondi
      @aaegatomondi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      aur karo modi modi modi. ab bhugto

  • @gsdhanjal
    @gsdhanjal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    Much needed topic of discussion. I fought with my parents and in-laws for almost a year. Still, I failed. Both families spent a lot on marriage (~20L) instead of my push to invest in a house/flat as I do not work in my hometown. Its 5 years now, and I am still on rent and couldn't save for a down payment. Now, it's much harder and more expensive because of the unrealistic property inflation in the Tricity. The same property that was available in 40L is going for 1cr nowadays. People realize this much later, and my family, including my wife, also realize this now.

    • @faultlady
      @faultlady 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Same situation sir. It was a fight in vain at our end too. My husband and I were against lavish weddings and we wanted it to be as simple as possible. Our parents and in laws were not in talking terms with us due to this fight.

    • @rimapir599
      @rimapir599 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Wow! What do u mean u failed? It is your wedding. How can they force u? Emotional blackmail? But you could’ve stood your ground

    • @pijushghosh4892
      @pijushghosh4892 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhai kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.

    • @AlleyTinker
      @AlleyTinker 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's why I will never marry 💀

    • @rimapir599
      @rimapir599 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      One should pledge to spend only 0.1% of parents worth.

  • @sakshamag007
    @sakshamag007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +283

    i have my opinion that middle class see wedding as social status but rich people like ambani see wedding as form of publicity and building good relations with others

    • @asudani2611
      @asudani2611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand.
      th-cam.com/video/eHyyPfitg64/w-d-xo.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm

    • @asudani2611
      @asudani2611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand.
      th-cam.com/video/eHyyPfitg64/w-d-xo.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm

    • @amkai2928
      @amkai2928 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      TRUE.

    • @FactsCountdown
      @FactsCountdown 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Rich people sell dreams of big fat weeding to middle class so that middle class spend lots of money on one day show off and stay poor.

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now Bollyood's $anatani heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Celebraties and Marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood PanditWood 😂

  • @sonalitripathy1410
    @sonalitripathy1410 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Much needed topic. It’s high time for the Indian families to reflect on these big fat Indian weddings. Indian family and friends’ circle is always big compared to western society. So one may invite a large number of guests, but cost can be curtailed on other extravaganza like variety and opulence of food, costumes, jewelleries, venue, useless return gifts etc.

  • @prabhjyotkaur724
    @prabhjyotkaur724 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +180

    I've my wedding this year and I so agree with everything you said. The problem is that we have stopped respecting people with high social and moral grounds. It's still tough to explain my parents why we need to stop burning money, but use it wisely to enrich our experience and also the lives of at least some people, we can.

    • @anandthakur4616
      @anandthakur4616 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      unka paisa unki marji ese toh is deshbhakt ko bhi bas 1 room ka bas chota sa ghar lena chiaye aur baki bachaye jitna bchana hai paisa jiske pass jitna hota hai wo utna khacrch karta hai isliye please ap log unhe gyan na de tohi sahi hai kyuki app uss paise ko bchakar akele amiri ka dhomg karogi but unke pass utna alredy hai jitna app log achieve karne ka sapna rakhte ho

    • @Nopeyes1
      @Nopeyes1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@anandthakur4616chup kar ja😂

  • @shahnawazAhmedshaqeeb
    @shahnawazAhmedshaqeeb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    Excellent analysis 👏
    "Moderation is the key everywhere"

    • @pijushghosh4892
      @pijushghosh4892 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.

  • @MegRRR
    @MegRRR 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Amazing episode! Hats off! A low-cost wedding is exactly what we did.
    4 years ago, me and my husband love-married intercaste in court (with parent's blessings). No pre-wedding ceremony other than an at-home mehendi gathering and went to honeymoon within India. Threw a reception later, but it was nowhere near a grand wedding. Saved money on firecrackers, ghodi, DJ, prewedding shoot, Mehendi ceremony, Haldi ceremony and overseas honeymoon, to say the least. We chose to do that because for us only being together was enough, not how costly the celebration party is.
    Occasionally and especially while attending other grand weddings, I do wonder what it would be like to have a grand wedding but definitely no regrets. Our networth is very thankful for our decision.

  • @vishalvikramsingh893
    @vishalvikramsingh893 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    The main Question lies why we spend too much, there can be two answers
    1- to celebrate
    2- to show off
    As far as it is too celebrate, it is okay because we earn to fulfill our emotional satisfaction along with basic needs

    • @MrAntonysimon
      @MrAntonysimon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They want to bamboozle indians and indian politicians.

  • @savageshreyansh
    @savageshreyansh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    I was stunned after seeing the first 5 minutes of the video, my whole perspective about celeb weddings changed after listening to that 0.1% statement. Thanks for making me aware . I will definitely share your message to as many people as I can, first would be my mom who is busy watching videos of Anant from the past 2 days🤣🤣

    • @agnescraig2912
      @agnescraig2912 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Brought a smile to my face about your Mum "who......past 2 days". Am Indian born and educated but chose to live in the UK. A Bulgarian friend of mine was invited by her friend to a Wedding in The Punjab. Her friend gave the brides parents her professional title Dr. I flipped and was solely responsible for her turning the invite down. I told my friend going to a Wedding in Punjab is free PR to all the Agents who are people traffickers and smugglers.

    • @plum_loco
      @plum_loco 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@agnescraig2912Can you elaborate on this. How does her professional title connect with trafficking and smuggling. Also why are Punjab wedding attract these "agents"?
      I am curious as I am naive about these things. Thanks

    • @aaegatomondi
      @aaegatomondi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ab ki baar 550 paar

  • @kdhd100
    @kdhd100 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    One of the best videos I have ever seen...... A topic that should have been covered by other media companies years back.....

  • @AzharKaz
    @AzharKaz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    What a unique way of looking at Ambani wedding. Congratulations, Deshbhakt team. You created an episode covering so many relevant issues related to wasteful spending on weddings.

    • @zdeenrdeen3278
      @zdeenrdeen3278 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I guess for poor's and middle class it's wasteful spending on wedding, but Ambani worked hard/smart to make money, and his most loved thing is his wife and kids and joy seeing and give them every thing and he might have spent about less than below 1/4% of his wealth for others it's big, how many % of your wealth
      you spend on your wedding or sibling/kids

    • @As-yg5vz
      @As-yg5vz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Haa Tera Paisa tha na 😂
      Kya yar

  • @paramadey2864
    @paramadey2864 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is a genuine problem in India. Thank you for making video on this topic. Your videos always have a huge impact on social media as you have a large number of followers. Therefore good to see you are bringing up such topics.

  • @hightablehierarchy9427
    @hightablehierarchy9427 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    You are a responsible citizen. Appreciate your concern towards society. Great video.

    • @skhasibulhossain2883
      @skhasibulhossain2883 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And we are responsible citizen, that's why we came to watch his video.

    • @responsibleali5490
      @responsibleali5490 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      And we should be responsible citizen by less budget wedding

    • @aaegatomondi
      @aaegatomondi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      we dont need NEET. We need Modi and Satsang

  • @biryanilogist
    @biryanilogist 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    Me and my wife ditched gifts by asking our guests for eye donation pledge. We set out tent with volunteers at our wedding venue to fill out forms on the spot. The amount of response we got was phenomenal. It was beautiful affair

    • @MotilalJ
      @MotilalJ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👍

    • @haseenahamdani11
      @haseenahamdani11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, what a noble idea. Loved it.

    • @sattwikmohanty3272
      @sattwikmohanty3272 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Bakloli band Kar.

    • @GuruGranthGovind
      @GuruGranthGovind 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@sattwikmohanty3272exactly 😂😂 ,
      Saadi kr rhe ho ki moral policing , itna hi tha to pati patni bhi saadi se pahle apna apna kidney daan de dete 😂😂😂

    • @sandysan177
      @sandysan177 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ye zada ho gaya. Eye camp to dispensary Wale lagaate hi hain.

  • @razazaveri557
    @razazaveri557 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    Your advocacy for a simple wedding truly resonates with me. In a world often defined by excess, your message of embracing simplicity is refreshing and meaningful. By prioritizing the essence of love and commitment over extravagance, you're inspiring many to focus on what truly matters. Thank you for reminding us that the beauty of a wedding lies not in its grandeur, but in the sincerity of the vows exchanged and the love shared. Your wisdom is a beacon of authenticity in a world often clouded by materialism. Here's to celebrating love, connection, and the joy of simplicity!
    Stay Blessed

    • @Joynikita24
      @Joynikita24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good English 👍

    • @wiseheadwise-head5331
      @wiseheadwise-head5331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why dont you stop wearing shoes, shirts and trousers...wear a khadi dhothi and rubber sandals....donate 80% your income to the poor....stop preaching and see if you can practice first...hypocrite...

    • @colorfulstories
      @colorfulstories 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      chatgpt bhai

  • @goldentunes4ever.
    @goldentunes4ever. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Wholeheartedly appreciate this video. Trust younger generation will try to understand, follow and start rational social trends. Would request Mr Banerjee to collect and share more such data and make interesting videos on these wasteful expenditures on different social occasions. Its more purposeful than making videos on party-based politcs.

  • @deepujimmyjoel
    @deepujimmyjoel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Great perception...right way to look at the issue...!!

  • @Rash1987nus
    @Rash1987nus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Good analysis done on Marriage expenses..,.
    If marriages are made simple, it will wipe the tears of many parents.....

    • @pijushghosh4892
      @pijushghosh4892 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.

    • @daphne3631
      @daphne3631 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In most cases, it is the very parents who refuse to listen to reason and spend less money because they think ki naak kategi

    • @aaegatomondi
      @aaegatomondi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ab ki baar 550 paar

    • @miniaturecreature
      @miniaturecreature 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Rash1987nus there are also these cases when both bride and groom opt for simple wedding but the bride is later harassed by the in laws for not providing them with lavish weddings or so called gifts to the groom, i have seen it around me a lot

  • @MaeBee66
    @MaeBee66 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The irony is that at such weddings people fall over themselves in giving lavish gifts to the bride & groom but wouldn't give a dime in a wedding where the families are financially challenged.

  • @tedtalk548
    @tedtalk548 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dada!! Best video!!🎉❤ thank you so much! Kudos to u😊🎉

  • @nishant_kumar839
    @nishant_kumar839 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    Am just 19 , But this made huge impact on the pressure that I thought I was going to face , i knew i had to grow rich to make family more special , paise kharch nhi honge shaadi mai to sahi nhi lagega , ye wala stereotype Tod Diya Maine aaj ❤❤ , Jitna budget allow krega utne mai hi Khushi Khushi krenege ❤

    • @praveendigari5972
      @praveendigari5972 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Han to bete unka budget ye allow krta h

    • @ChoddguruLive-nj8ly
      @ChoddguruLive-nj8ly 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      5 minute ki fuddi Marne ke liye Aadmi 40 lakh ka kharcha karta hai ye uski zindagi ki sabse kharab deal hai.

    • @Dontbebad321
      @Dontbebad321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😮Tu abhi s shadi k sapne dekhne lga!

    • @nishant_kumar839
      @nishant_kumar839 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Dontbebad321 ha bhai , 🏆

    • @daphne3631
      @daphne3631 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good for you

  • @achiever96
    @achiever96 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Absolutely great topic to look upon in the present time. Hats off to you that you took up this matter and made a beautiful episode on this.

  • @sumanication5649
    @sumanication5649 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    This is the most matured video on this topic. Hats off to the one who thought about it. Literally what the society needs today. You guys should celebrate the success of pulling this off. 🎉

    • @souvikkundu1996
      @souvikkundu1996 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly
      But one mistake from Akash Da in this video
      I think no one have authority to burn money 😁😁(Don't take seriously,I am also your big fan)

  • @AdityaRaj-kb1uo
    @AdityaRaj-kb1uo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Akash brings a different perspective on things that are commonly observed but in a wrong way. What a great work. The social status desease is not only limited to Shadis, it has penetrated almost every aspect of many people. I know some of my close people who opted for buying a car rather than renovating their homes. They are living the same life inside their home with many inconveniences but they think that they are upper class people because they have a car. I mean what kind of pathetic situation is it.

  • @rakeshonguitar
    @rakeshonguitar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Dear Aakash, Thank You.. for a Brilliant Episode on a highly burning issue in our country once again.

  • @kamalendrasinhchampavat103
    @kamalendrasinhchampavat103 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    This video is not about spenging too much, Its about setting up trend. Remember in india, majority of people are BPL and middle class. They tend to look up to privileg people. In india rich and poor both are suffering from a BIMARI called Show Off. Paisa he to show off banta he. Hat off to Mark for not wearing expensive watch and hats off to Nadar and Premji family for hand some donations. Love and Peace 🙏🏼

    • @v-rex3206
      @v-rex3206 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      who said 80 crore people are gareeb 😂. My neighbour have BPL card though having car and own house

    • @manishsingh7534
      @manishsingh7534 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Show off generates more jobs and employment than Tata and Railway combined , if middle class and rich people start becoming simple then no one can stop recession in this country . And Every big brands Start leaving this country like BMW , AUDI , Mercedes etc .

    • @Thesaten12
      @Thesaten12 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My neighbour owns a bungalow and a honda city which he bought last year and yet he is a BPL person.
      Most of the gareebs are only on paper

    • @daphne3631
      @daphne3631 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@v-rex3206 True

    • @v-rex3206
      @v-rex3206 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@awaken3d India is a land of scammers where politicians and people both are scammers 🤣

  • @imrankhan-yg1rz
    @imrankhan-yg1rz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Basically I watch very rare your videos but after this video I’ll subscribe & watch your all videos…
    Thanks for giving true vibes to india…

  • @sheejap8280
    @sheejap8280 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Really appreciate your perspective
    Good you are teaching ppl how they should approach

  • @GhazalaNaseem
    @GhazalaNaseem 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    In Islam, it's told to keep marriage as simple as possible, 4 witness & Khajoor after Nikaah , No dowry from girls side, in fact the Boy needs to give Mehar to his newly wed wife. But sadly due to wrong influence from society even Muslim weddings are extravagant these days with dowry in & Mehar at side.
    No point in wasting your hard earned money on Strangers for one or two events.

    • @SaadKhan-ii8ml
      @SaadKhan-ii8ml 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      👍👍👍

    • @mizanakhtarkhan3846
      @mizanakhtarkhan3846 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely true!

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Talak talak talak

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@bandhuroyniqah halala 😂

    • @TheeeAP
      @TheeeAP 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Tumlogo ko 4 bar karna hota to har baar lavish kaise karoge hmara ek baar hi hota hai !!!!

  • @Space_Odyssey37
    @Space_Odyssey37 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    आज आपने एक बड़ी सोशल इशू पर आज जो वीडियो बनाई है वो बहुत ही ज़रूरी है, सराहनीय है 👏
    लोगो मे awareness होनी चाहिए, unnecessary expenditure को कम करने के लिए । मुझे लगा ही था कि आकाश भाई की वीडियो आएगी इस टॉपिक पर।

  • @dr.ranjanasure2273
    @dr.ranjanasure2273 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Much needed episode.. Also i would like add that the importance of simple yet meaningful wedding was realised by kannada poet kuvempu way back in 1960.. And thaf why he has introduced a simle marriage ritual called "mantramangalya" which is a tradition that rejects any discrimination based on caste, religion, gender, location, or economic status. It emphasizes the freedom and equality of the bride and groom.

    • @raymonrodrigues2019
      @raymonrodrigues2019 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Simplicity is the key to finding solutions to age old malpractices in the garb of showing off one's social status and flaunting unnecessary hyped up activities. Marriages are one area where people go all out( without realising the social and economic bad effect it creates) to out do others before them.
      Your social awareness videos as usual are crisp and to the point. Hats off Sir for yet another smashing video castigating the ill- effects of a simple ceremony where Two persons come together to celebrate their union of body and soul.

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now Bollyood's $anatani heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Christen ✝️ Celebraties and Marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood BabaWood ,
      Bollyood's heroines don't want to Marry Brown lndian Boy

    • @whocares7939
      @whocares7939 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, many social thinkers have made it clear that marriage is between 2 people and not an occasion to waste years of hard earned money. Kuvempu was way ahead of his time, by a century atleast

    • @sachinshiremath9206
      @sachinshiremath9206 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes. And it also rejects a convention where one has to follow certain gods, prayers, inviting all extended family members. It emphasises that marriage is a beautiful bond between the bride and a groom, which can be done in a very closed ceremony with handful of members which is apt.

    • @sachinshiremath9206
      @sachinshiremath9206 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@suparnamaity284 I am sure there are better and more necessary jobs in this world than just cleaning a plate, lifting chairs, changing lights, bowing down to rich people etc, dancing in background etc.

  • @shreyanshkhanjire2336
    @shreyanshkhanjire2336 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    आपणे एकदम सही✅️ दिशा निर्देशों के साथ अपनी बात बतायी है👍🏽

  • @harendrapatelsyavari7992
    @harendrapatelsyavari7992 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    That is why India has the lowest divorce rate , because you to pay that much money again😂

    • @abishek_999_
      @abishek_999_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fr😂

    • @Aryan-xm5kx
      @Aryan-xm5kx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Alimony left the chat

    • @aanchalsx
      @aanchalsx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Aryan-xm5kx Alimony is pennies compared to dowry and stridhan .

    • @BhanuTrivedi-dk6pc
      @BhanuTrivedi-dk6pc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alimony is big business. Best way to get rich for spolied yet bechaari Aurat

    • @licht-san3148
      @licht-san3148 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@aanchalsx Most of the richest women on Earth are rich due to Alimony from rich husbands. Marriage these days is mostly a scam. True love is rare!

  • @alfrednavamoneyjebakumar1977
    @alfrednavamoneyjebakumar1977 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Best wedding must be conducted in front of God... In temples, Mosques, chruchs and Gurudwaras... Simple

    • @agnescraig2912
      @agnescraig2912 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sadly Indians can flaunt their wealth even in temples...

  • @jpg4774
    @jpg4774 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    An indian economist once said that as long as the marriage and festival celebrations continue, there can be no recession in India. The 75 billion dollar marriage industry gives a huge push to the economy. As long as the rich people organize grand marriage ceremonies within India, it's great news for Indian economy.

    • @Routofficial21
      @Routofficial21 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      True . Problem marriage & festivals me spend karna nahi he balki but amount jitne kharch kar rahe ho use dekhke apne hisab se karna chahiye.
      Same goes for vehicle buying too.
      Ham indians Social status ke naam pe Kuch jyada hi Kharch kar dete he.

    • @7vj7ik
      @7vj7ik 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Modi ka jub ashirwad hai toh Ambani ko kika durr 😂

    • @Routofficial21
      @Routofficial21 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@7vj7ik Kavi kavar sensational bate vi kar diya karo. Har jagah modi modi chilana band karo. Video Dusre topic pe he .

    • @onlinme7884
      @onlinme7884 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      There will also be a dad & brother(s) of the bride who would be debt ridden their entire life. Worst impact is on the middle class families.

    • @pijushghosh4892
      @pijushghosh4892 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@7vj7ik "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.

  • @siddharthapahari5774
    @siddharthapahari5774 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I feel that's why industrialists like the house of tatas, infosys, wipro and birlas should be more respected as they go for wealth creation of the whole community.

  • @SrizaBasak011
    @SrizaBasak011 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I am happy to decide that I am only doing registry marriage best for my mental health and pocket.

  • @sulemanpathan1473
    @sulemanpathan1473 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Akash Bhai.. Thanks for sharing such an important message.. Keep going... We all love you...

  • @siaagarwal2268
    @siaagarwal2268 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    A few days back two of my relatives got married (separately, jic) and i was talking with my mom about the lehengas and dresses from other functions of the brides and I questioned about this lavish expenditure and all other celebrations that take place before the wedding like haldhath etc.
    My mom said people(relatives and invitees) want to have that "shadi ka khana", click pretty pictures and enjoy. To which i said why to stretch it to 4-5 days then? Have a simple court marriage or a phera wala marriage and throw one day party to the people you want to invite. Take pictures dil kholke. It will be cost effective (depending upon how much one wants to spend of course) also will not require much of expenditure from the guests side on their dresses and orher stuff, also will not take up so many days. This party can be thrown after a few days as well.

  • @KenwayHay
    @KenwayHay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    As per reports money charged by top celebs to attend anant Ambani pre wedding-
    Rihanna- 72 crores (1 day)
    SRK - 15 crore
    Salman - 15 crore
    M Dhoni- 15 crore
    Sachin- 10 crore
    Amitabh- 10 crore (1 day)
    Rohit - 5 crore (1 day)

    • @TheSastrikal
      @TheSastrikal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      7:12❤❤❤

    • @TheSastrikal
      @TheSastrikal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      7:56❤❤❤

    • @TheSastrikal
      @TheSastrikal 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great social message❤❤❤

    • @Nopeyes1
      @Nopeyes1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aur mark ko kitna Mila bhai

    • @aaegatomondi
      @aaegatomondi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      aur karo modi modi modi. ab bhugto

  • @IamShashankMishra
    @IamShashankMishra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    “फकीर की भूख सिर्फ उसका जान खाती है मगर अरबपतियों की भूख पूरा मुल्क खा जाती है!” : कार्ल मार्क्स

    • @UpGamerz906
      @UpGamerz906 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Abe Andhnamazi,arabpati hi desh ko aage badhate hai
      Factory 🏭 Business me hi na noukri karega , ki toilet saf karega ajob pagal hai , achhi noukri chahiye to businessman jaruri hai har Desh businessman hi aage badhate hai

    • @AnilSharma-et8jp
      @AnilSharma-et8jp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Karl Marx ke Gyan ne to mulk ke mulk tabaah kar diye🤬

    • @soumenmondal3588
      @soumenmondal3588 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ajit bharti ko delho please bhohat accha pelaa hai 😂😂vampanthi agenda wale piddhi ko

    • @proudindian2037
      @proudindian2037 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This amazing pre wedding event proved #Ambanis are Billionaires by Heart too ♥️ despite #Asia's richest family, #Ambanis are grown up by rich culture, traditions & values 👏 top of it they follow Santana Dharma's path 🚩 they put country on global map and provided employment to millions but they are more grounded than their employees, rare thing in corporate world 👏 #Ambanis always come for help when country needs, either during COVID wave, Reliance providing liquid oxygen in whole world, they stopped production in used oxygen for people of country and that without a single rupee charge 🙏 they built many hospitals, schools, skill centres, etc. and providing free services for betterment of common people so they are doing more for country than many political parties 🤐 country is blessed to have such a Big Heart Billionaire family, respect 🙏
      most people don't know who is #AnantAmbani because he isn't in business, his elder brother is in business and handling #Jio so people saw Aakash speeches and interviews but this man is come with a big surprise, he is unbelievable orator 💥 nobody thought that Anant is such a down to earth person and superb speaker 👍 his love for animals is pure, unconditional and amazing, this quality makes #anantambani a pure Gem of person ♥️ and his language commands in Hindi, English and Gujarati is best in ambani family 👍why Ambani family hide this gem of person from social media till now, he is doing great work for animals till 2008, #Vantara is a superb noble cause but we don't know about it, how? if any celebrity doing these type of noble causes, he should get attention because he or his family or his friend or relative promoted in media or social media but #Ambani refrained from this and this makes #Ambani family different from others 👏that they are doing so nuch social work, running many NGOs for girl education, women empowerment, tribal empowerment, underprivileged people and for poor people under Reliance foundation by Nita Ambani and Anant also doing great work for animals too and created biggest private animal sevalay called #Vantara in Jamnagar from 2008 but they never highlighted or promoted on media or social media despite they are billionaires and Asia's richest family but they are never doing paid promotion, when celebrities & media all over world came to Jamnagar, Gujarat for his pre wedding then people knew that this type of great work doing by #Anant and Ambani family, this is worth to be applauded 👏👏👏 this Great work proved #Ambani is billionaires by heart too ♥️

    • @vijay-1510
      @vijay-1510 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jhant ke baal 😂😂

  • @meghnamehta7694
    @meghnamehta7694 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I got married years ago but now wish I had had a more eco friendly wedding.. There was no point having lot of plastic bottles and guests who I dont know at the wedding. You live and learn :)

    • @Rakshith-y9s
      @Rakshith-y9s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Harshad mehta ka daughter ho kya ?

    • @antriksh_1986
      @antriksh_1986 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Taking notes 😊

    • @dipendertripathi9744
      @dipendertripathi9744 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      jinke pass paise nhi hai wahi log eco friendly aur ajeeb bate krte hai. dont be jealous

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now Bollyood's $anatani heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood Christen ✝️ Celebraties and Marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood BabaWood 😂

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Now Bollyood's $anatani heroines want to Connect 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Christen ✝️ Celebraties and Marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood and make Hollywood BabaWood ,
      Bollyood's Sanskari heroines don't want to Marry Brown lndian Boy 😂

  • @ZincaFacts
    @ZincaFacts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Very very good video bhai, ankhen aur dimag dono kholne wala video hai really very informative, soch badalne ki jarurat hai, hats off to you..👍🏻

  • @aakankshaoswal9214
    @aakankshaoswal9214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    Such a great social message thank you for addressing it ❤

  • @AJEETKUMAR-py3ex
    @AJEETKUMAR-py3ex 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    That's why we love Ratan Tata Sir jee😊😊😊

    • @Raj_bhadani
      @Raj_bhadani 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      kyu bhai ?
      unhone esa kya kar diya ?
      Na shadi ki na koi family hai :)
      Andhbhakt mat bano

    • @billambani6743
      @billambani6743 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      we all love ratan tata but that doesn't mean we dont love ambani both are providing employement and increasing soft power of india(Due to this wedding Trumps and Clintons were on same stage along with bill, mark , rihanna Its shows India's wealth power) . For your kind information both are donating to charity. Although Ratan Tata ji donates more that's a fact.

    • @billambani6743
      @billambani6743 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you have money you will also spend. Ok whatever money you have spend and PLEASE ALSO DONATE TO CHARITY ALSO as you Admire tata ji more than others

    • @aaegatomondi
      @aaegatomondi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ab ki baar 550 paar

  • @roadclips2962
    @roadclips2962 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Maan ki baat bol diya apne. ❤❤

  • @DiyaKhobragade-f4e
    @DiyaKhobragade-f4e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Brother you are a gem.
    By the way veer das predicated it very early.
    Two India.

  • @shobhitsinghal7845
    @shobhitsinghal7845 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +197

    Kharcha karna galat nahi hai.. Is se inspire hona galat hai! Sabka apna budget, apna style hai!
    Never criticise rich for his enjoyments!!

    • @Fitnessclub427
      @Fitnessclub427 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right broo ,,lekin jab kuch jhantu aa jate hai comment krne neeche jalne baly log bo hote hai jinki gaand me dam ni hota kuch karne ka bc bo bhonkte hai dusru ki taraki pe

    • @yoyotarun
      @yoyotarun 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @sryuhgfcvsdggv4071 baniye army m jao

    • @yoyotarun
      @yoyotarun 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Anybody in limelight shoukd be open for criticsism. They could have spent much more but could have kept it low key in media.

    • @mnd7381
      @mnd7381 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@yoyotarun their money their choice. Khud kamao aur kharcha karo kaun mana kiya hai. Btw most Sc St in IITs are rich, they use Iphones and study for free. Criticism to banta hai. Garib ko free me padhao koi dikkat nhi. Ameer ko kiu?

    • @yatanisha
      @yatanisha 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@yoyotarun so what even if they spent more, they are billionaires even if they spend just 2% of they total money, it is going to be huge... but again they can afford it so they do it.

  • @Ya_Ali623
    @Ya_Ali623 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Nice Akash, really heart touching issue u raised....

  • @Darshan_p
    @Darshan_p 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Meaningful episode...... appreciate ❤

  • @arpanasinha9354
    @arpanasinha9354 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your choise of topics are excellent..keep doing the good work🤗😍

  • @avtar2640
    @avtar2640 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    There should be a bill to put cap on educational institutions how much they can charge

  • @shivangibhargava6312
    @shivangibhargava6312 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Now this video is an instance of what counts under the responsibilities of an Influencer. An impactful video. Thank you Sir!

  • @HijamaHouse
    @HijamaHouse 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    In a survey of more than 3,000 people, Francis and Mialon found that - across all incomes - the more couples spent on their wedding, the shorter the marriage. Alternatively, spending less than $1,000 on the big day was significantly associated with a decrease in divorce rates.

  • @medalshifha
    @medalshifha 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A Golden Heart is rare to find, but once discovered, it brightens up the world.
    You have Golden heart Sir ❤

  • @aniketmaity7237
    @aniketmaity7237 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I do not watch this channel often but this is such an important topic! Maximum people should realize there's actually no need of extravagant showoff!

  • @sindhinumber1756
    @sindhinumber1756 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Akash truly respect and love you ❤❤you explain in the best way❤❤

  • @mrvarunaneja
    @mrvarunaneja 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Bhai ji , your video is an eye opener for all the family members in our nation. 👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽

  • @creativeafreeda8928
    @creativeafreeda8928 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mash Allah
    You have given the right message
    Islam teaches us how to do a simple wedding on one date

    • @deepshikhasharma4367
      @deepshikhasharma4367 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahaha here also religion...one track mind...

  • @viralpatel5338
    @viralpatel5338 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I gotta say Aakash is different individual...i thought i only grew up mentally as i had chance to go out of india and learn to change my ideology...but hat's off to Aakash while staying in india you got the REAL admirable ideology...

  • @fatma5344
    @fatma5344 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    💯💯💯 Hats off to you sir!
    Hope our nation understands it and brings out a revolution & be the trend setter of simple marriage.

  • @machinerox_gaming2557
    @machinerox_gaming2557 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    HI, It is unrelated to the video, but sir I got actually inspired by you to take up arts and I showed my father your video on failures and he also supported my decision on taking up arts. I can't say much but, thanks for motivating this 16yr old kid. Hope I can be like you one day!

    • @thedeshbhakt
      @thedeshbhakt  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      happy for you - now prove it to your father that your call was right
      i did not motivate you - i just shared with you - what is possible
      you will still need to make it happen

    • @yogeshthakur9159
      @yogeshthakur9159 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@thedeshbhaktsir kahi toh credit lelo, ye ldka kal ko apka competitor bngya toh?? 😂😂

    • @asudani2611
      @asudani2611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Renowned & prestigious, high ranking, and rich are not trustworthy, as they do not possess spirit of life, in one way they are as good as dead soul (mrut kalp). : Swami Vivekanand.
      th-cam.com/video/eHyyPfitg64/w-d-xo.htmlsi=RCC0_--lhgwBx7wm

  • @Yash--2.0
    @Yash--2.0 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    The cost of nice quality cotton Tshirt at my local Dmart store is flat 99 and 129 rupees only, why spent 599 rupees (6 times higher cost) on buying Deshbhakt Tshirt. Hum kare toh chnga si tum kare toh danga si.

    • @asukehol5976
      @asukehol5976 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't buy.... If you spent 599 once to buy T shirt, your life is done.

    • @whittaker6969
      @whittaker6969 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He isn't forcing u to buy

    • @Yash--2.0
      @Yash--2.0 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Then why giving lecture to others.

    • @asukehol5976
      @asukehol5976 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@Yash--2.0 He is saying it's ok for Ambani's to spent 0.01% of their wealth for a celebration, but, it's not logical for a common man to spent all their savings on a celebration. That's what I understood. You watching the same video and commenting? 😂😂😂

    • @sandysan177
      @sandysan177 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U r so poor dat u wear a 99 rs shirt. Den u shudnt worry. U can't afford deshbhakt shirt

  • @premkr6694
    @premkr6694 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Wedding is an individual thing between two persons❤

  • @abizermasavi
    @abizermasavi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Love your channel 😍 keep giving us unbiased news. Just a small thing I noticed that in the philanthropist list you have not mentioned the Tata family and them being the largest doners😊😅. Overall I agree that excessive money shouldn't be spent on wedding and maybe a little too much people have focused ( that too with interest, even tho they themselves are still poor and doesn't add to their knowledge or money) on this particular event.

    • @UpGamerz906
      @UpGamerz906 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ratan TATA sir , Ambani sir bestfraind 🤝
      Jaise hindu ko jati me batate ho vaise hi enko bhi bat rahe ho

    • @thedeshbhakt
      @thedeshbhakt  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      that is because the list does not take into account company trusts - but tatas would be giving away much more.

    • @abizermasavi
      @abizermasavi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thedeshbhakt woah can't believe you replied

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bollyood's Sanskari heroines want to Join 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Celebraties and Marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood

    • @kuldeepchang7453
      @kuldeepchang7453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bollyood's Sanskari heroines want to Join 🇺🇸 Hollywood White Celebraties and marry to 🗽 Hollywood White Actors and enter Hollywood

  • @MrSibu3168
    @MrSibu3168 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    First time I saw a good analysis / advice.

  • @Sashwatrao
    @Sashwatrao 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    Ambani be like- bhakt banarjee ko bhi bula hi lena tha

    • @shaheensiddiqui6983
      @shaheensiddiqui6983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂

    • @UpGamerz906
      @UpGamerz906 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Andhnamazi hai ye AAP, khangress ka chamcha

    • @parthbansal7708
      @parthbansal7708 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Aur Andhnamazi aur pappu bhakt koo bhi😂😂

    • @srath1477
      @srath1477 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

    • @Shantbalak_099
      @Shantbalak_099 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      BILKUL..
      Inhe chull mch pri h pichhe😅😅

  • @dimpigoswami7046
    @dimpigoswami7046 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am so glad you addressed this issue. This has always been one of the recurrent issues in my mind..I agree with you completely.

  • @shubhadaparanjape9799
    @shubhadaparanjape9799 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Very very nice message. I always love simple weddings with good food good dance good music good gentry.

  • @mohitkumar4218
    @mohitkumar4218 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really Great Information🤩 thanks for sharing ☺️

  • @Amirrkhann83
    @Amirrkhann83 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Brilliant !!!!a discussion that certainly needs to happen ....
    1)The main emphasis should be on "celebration" because you are happy when such an occasion is there rather than pleasing people who will join you in your celebration but won't help when you will face finanacial burden afterwards ...

    • @pijushghosh4892
      @pijushghosh4892 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's once's wish how much to spend, 3rd part not have right to judge it. kuch jalne walo ke liye, ek bat fit hei, "Ambani" Hati chale bazar, "jealous-Bhikari-Librandu-kutta-Kutiya" Bhowke hazar. His money , his wish. Dog cultured living relationship belivers, not understand value of marriage.

  • @MilanKantariya
    @MilanKantariya 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Very well explained... And this is sad truth of society 👍🏻❤️

  • @lashhhhh
    @lashhhhh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Such a amazing vlog. Nobody realize how it will impact poor people and specially middle class households. Giving fame to such function will increase gaps between dfrnt classes of india

  • @optimisticasif
    @optimisticasif 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your video will change the mind set of many parents. Best video really appreciating

  • @economicswithkusummaheshwa926
    @economicswithkusummaheshwa926 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great job. Loved it. Completely agree 💯

  • @khusboopradhan5722
    @khusboopradhan5722 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    10:52 very truely said sir

  • @yourmine7376
    @yourmine7376 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +226

    Never be jealous of rich people
    If you do
    You will not become rich

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      Even if we don't become jealous we will be still poor

    • @10xFOREX
      @10xFOREX 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@nimfall Hahaaaaaa....u r fire

    • @Karan28432
      @Karan28432 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Vohi tumari aukat hai​@@nimfall

    • @Rajendra2800
      @Rajendra2800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Never Jealous is ok, but never copy them before becoming one of them 😂

    • @smarthingsofficial
      @smarthingsofficial 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is rich u am also rich soo😂😂

  • @sillysaint2390
    @sillysaint2390 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bahut badiya topic liye hai bhaiyya...bade khoob bole bhi..

  • @ignorasmus
    @ignorasmus 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    It is a great pain in my life that my father in law had to spend more than 50% (About 13 lakh rupees 14-15 years ago) of his retirement money on my wedding.
    Additionally, being an extreme introvert, all that dramebazi was a big discomfort for me.
    I had to give in to the pressure as my primary goal was to marry this smart, lively girl who according to society had a "defect" in her body. Her father was happy to see his daughter being married at all.
    Seeing his joy for such a wrong reason was breaking my heart even more 💔💔🤦‍♂️
    I have sufficient money now but giving them money back would feel more like an insult to the elders now. I try to do little things for them whenever I can.

    • @nandinitripathi8304
      @nandinitripathi8304 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Atleast aap samjh rhe hai ye hi bhaut badi baat hai .. u wife is very lucky..... Aajkl toh ladke samjhte hi ni hai .. aur vo bhi alag dahej maangte hai ki car toh de hi sakte hai itna cash toh bnta hi hai... Hatsofff to you.. all the best dear ❤🎉

    • @aaegatomondi
      @aaegatomondi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ab ki baar 550 paar

  • @Nxsine123
    @Nxsine123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Finally I got one more video to save in my playlist.
    Bhaiya thanku for opening eye of person who just living fake lifes

  • @thiswillalsopass
    @thiswillalsopass 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Great work brother! Marriage is seen as a way of spirituality in all religions but the people made it a stage to show off and ended up in loans and life long labourers for financial institutions. Proud of your work brother.

    • @daphne3631
      @daphne3631 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is indeed a spiritual bond! Thanks for saying that. We marry to enrich our lives not to satisfy societal expectations

  • @prajwolshrestha7290
    @prajwolshrestha7290 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So wonderful information sir.. thank you from nepal.🙏🙏🙏

  • @haseenahamdani11
    @haseenahamdani11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Very well said!!! We as individuals need to think logically, to make judgement wisdom fully, and act meaningfully.

  • @hoopoe_
    @hoopoe_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    The upshot is that we should live within our means.

  • @devbisht4230
    @devbisht4230 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great 👍 to you sir... people always see the millionaires life...but not saw dark side truth ..tnx to you sir.. for people are like you who spread reality n information..

  • @suanonghatak5493
    @suanonghatak5493 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very nice topic, well explained ❤

  • @dmop5071
    @dmop5071 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    What we never expected
    Shah Rukh Khan ka "jai shree ram"
    Shah Rukh Khan ka idli vada sambar remark
    3 khans dancing
    Arijit Shreya pritam trio performance
    Ambani serving to guests
    Thala playing dandia😂( ye to bilkul expected nahi tha)

    • @amittribe7614
      @amittribe7614 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Money power

    • @dmop5071
      @dmop5071 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@amittribe7614 Paisa kuch bhi karva sakti hai insaan se