How to deal with a difficult child?

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  • This is a video about how to deal with difficult children and how I transformed a child who was difficult into one of the most sweetest children.
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ความคิดเห็น • 55

  • @trinimama9539
    @trinimama9539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    God lead me to your channel to help me be the mom I want to be and to remind me of things I had forgotten. Thank you for your ministry. God bless you and your family

  • @dreamingwithgodtv
    @dreamingwithgodtv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "If we want to change them, we need to change us first." Powerful.

  • @ByCherS
    @ByCherS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I really loved this video! I remember feeling so overwhelmed as a young mother of 4 girls. I believe it’s never too late, even when kids become adults, remembering to soften our tone, listen, and treat one another with respect is so important. Thank you for sharing your story and giving us the tools to change our own hearts so that our children always feel loved and cherished.🥰

  • @roxannemcintosh9481
    @roxannemcintosh9481 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, God. I thank God for you. I broke down this morning praying to God, asking him to help me with my 8-year-old I feel so ashamed of myself. I am grateful 🙏 that God sent me to TH-cam, and there I got a video notification from you,videos I overlooked, and sent to me this morning . My biggest issue is shouting at my kids😢I will practice only using my inside voice.

  • @babybaby5893
    @babybaby5893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought only I have such strong willed child, I face challenges everyday. I am so glad I found your channel.

  • @beegenuine1478
    @beegenuine1478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was great information. I wish more parents practiced kindness and respect towards their children. I feel like a lot of people see kids as less than adults and treat them like so 😥

  • @TheCLou111
    @TheCLou111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just wow! ❤ pray over our children.

  • @steph13h498
    @steph13h498 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a newborn and a toddler. This is exactly what I needed 😭 thank you ❤

  • @tatianaavila4460
    @tatianaavila4460 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woooooooooow i love how God shows us things... I was exactly heeeeeere. And i prayed and God showed me he is just mirroring me... and i saw how horrible i was being and i felt my son... And i knew were i have to change... Big Hugs Jayde

  • @Babydoveslimes
    @Babydoveslimes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm so inspired by your video. I've been praying how to deal with my toddler who's just a month past 2 and your videos popped up on my feed . Thank you so much I will definitely be reflecting on this video for help. God bless you and your family!! Thank you for always giving god the glory

  • @vickieincalifornia7957
    @vickieincalifornia7957 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you. My daughter is so difficult. But these tools help. I feel like she was born on empty and needed sooo much more than everyone else. I guess the answer is in the question. She needs more, so give her more. Everyone tells me to just punish her and it never works. She just gets worse. Thank you for all you are doing Jady. I also hate spanking and think its detrimental. I pray. I love knowing there are mamas that live the lord and do His work. ❤❤

  • @margaritapina962
    @margaritapina962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love that you’re a person that follow God and you’re not ashamed to talk about Him

  • @marivicmunchalog5656
    @marivicmunchalog5656 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a mother of a child with authism and i relate with this topic very nuch and it help me a lot.Thank you so much for sharing this video and i love it.

  • @citaluv
    @citaluv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you and your family Ms.Jady.🙏🏼 This video was right on time. ❤️Thank you.

  • @molabolamikeeq.171
    @molabolamikeeq.171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm not yet a mom, I'm still far from there. I'm one of the care leaders in our church who entrusted by the Lord to take good care of His sheep. I subscribed to your channel Miss Jady A. because I am tutoring and your videos really helps me a lot. The Lord lead me on this video and made me realized that taking good care of children is not far in taking good care of souls. Through your videos God made me realized that though I am not yet a mom He reminds me that I am a care leader who have care members and an educator who have students to teach them about life. I'm thankful to God for your life Mrs. Jady A. May our God bless you, your family and your ministry thousand folds!

  • @juheenashaikh1913
    @juheenashaikh1913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are so so true mam..each and every word.. lovely...you are my favrite educator

  • @hillarybruns8649
    @hillarybruns8649 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't believe I found your channel. I am in true desperation with my 4 year old daughter. Thank you for the tips. Big changes are going to start immediately

  • @MD-zy9oq
    @MD-zy9oq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im sittong here at 130 am, totally breaking down. You just described my son to a T. I have been struggling so bad with him, and am just at my breaking point. He has always been difficult, bút when his father died 3 hears ago(he was 3 at the time) things spírralled out of control. Now hes 6, is a huge problem at school , wears down my patience and my ssanity like no other.. now i see the problem is me... Funny enough i always telling HIM "the only person you can control is yourself" -meanwhile í should have been taking my own advice and controlling my own attitúde, frustration , anger, grief, etc. ...This helped me so much, you really have no idea.

  • @anaanguiano6658
    @anaanguiano6658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you
    God continue to bless you and your precious family

  • @margaritapina962
    @margaritapina962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations you’re good example for all of us and specially your family.

  • @rochellemaegatchoalvizo5061
    @rochellemaegatchoalvizo5061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is really inspiring and encouraging... Thankyou thank you God bless you more

  • @heathercox5356
    @heathercox5356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful video, thank you so much!❤️

  • @sweetlilella1983
    @sweetlilella1983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a little foster child and I have gained a lot of ground with the nurturing our bond.

  • @jessicacambo8666
    @jessicacambo8666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your Channel. It was nice to stumble upon it this evening, on a day I was needing it the most. Thank you Jesus! I appreciate your soft kind words, very easy to understand.

  • @vlogwithminha2782
    @vlogwithminha2782 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have no words for this content....m speechless.... just awesome

  • @shifatferdous7569
    @shifatferdous7569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Currently I am facing same problem with my 4 year old. He doesn't want to listen anything. InshaAllah I am going to follow all of your advice and guidelines.

    • @yakiralovesall
      @yakiralovesall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josie9583 hey that’s your child and he’s learning how to do things while you’re the adult and you know better. Just be consistent and encouraging.

  • @briannabrown42890
    @briannabrown42890 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this video!! God bless ❤️

  • @southernsaintjamie
    @southernsaintjamie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! 🙏

  • @Lidia1312
    @Lidia1312 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sis!

  • @HS-pc3wq
    @HS-pc3wq ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your advice. Even though I'm a different faith your wise words are so beneficial and beautiful ❤️ thank you for helping us mothers,!

  • @snejiyordanova5463
    @snejiyordanova5463 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!

  • @Aneelainkitchen
    @Aneelainkitchen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks alot
    Very informative
    Well said
    Thanks

  • @bettytube2593
    @bettytube2593 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you!!! Yes we are nothing without God's help

  • @margaritapina962
    @margaritapina962 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you🙏🏾

  • @aishauroos7756
    @aishauroos7756 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative video for childrens

  • @TrangNguyen-ko9bc
    @TrangNguyen-ko9bc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you. From VIETNAM

  • @venusiandesigns
    @venusiandesigns 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen

  • @genetzeyede9454
    @genetzeyede9454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks, i am in challenge with my son's challenging behavior at school. I am in training many things, Please God be with me

    • @thriftshopprincess
      @thriftshopprincess ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ll be praying for you and your family! In Jesus name amen

  • @enebolanta
    @enebolanta ปีที่แล้ว

    I have learnt many valuable insights from your channel. Thank you so much.
    Please could you reshare the link to the book on boundaries you spoke about?
    I would also love to have the link to your mailing list.
    Thanks.

  • @scaj76
    @scaj76 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @stephaniekirkland6046
    @stephaniekirkland6046 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do think would be a fair consequence for back talk and disrespectful attitude for a seven year old? I take away her tv time in the afternoon but it doesn’t seem to help. I think she needs an immediate consequence. Great video!!

    • @gisellesuarez6893
      @gisellesuarez6893 ปีที่แล้ว

      That depends I think..Maybe there will be a moment in which you can have a bond with her..More time with her...I feel TV is not necessary if you have more activities with her...

  • @timothyrodriguez3159
    @timothyrodriguez3159 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have twins so it’s hella tough we need a twins channel lmao

  • @anumafzal941
    @anumafzal941 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My child have adhd n i m working woman. I m also lost , what to do. I realy need help .

  • @muzzamilamaqbool2154
    @muzzamilamaqbool2154 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi hello I loved your video that how you enjoy with your children I have a issue my child of 5 years he always crys a lot he gets emotional in very small things he says the tears do not stop when he starts crying how can I help him and he is not so good in studies he does not remember what he learned plz help me

  • @user-rw5it6iq1z
    @user-rw5it6iq1z 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think this video has great information, and as other videos has been very helpful. But I personally believe that putting a believe into a child that God will help them is too much for that child, because if they feel they are struggling even after all of the prayers, it makes them feel they are not worth it and not enough for God to listen to them. And puts a believe of worthlessness way into adulthood. In my personal experience, I prayed I could do math and be able to focus. It never really happened. As an adult, I discovered I have discalculia (math dyslexia), and ADD and the nuns never figured it out, they would just tell me to pray. To me, asking a child to pray to God to be "good" is child abuse.

  • @msmagnificent807
    @msmagnificent807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If i take away the buildingblocks when she is throwing it, and then she starts crying alot what shud i do after that?

    • @lucinda6416
      @lucinda6416 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tell them firmly but kindly that what they did was not nice, so you had to take it away. Wipe away their tears and ask them to sit gently besides you for a moment. When they are calm, you can give them back their blocks or replace it with bonding time or another activity. Hope that helps, it’s easier said than done. Rely on the grace of God.

  • @amiewood2769
    @amiewood2769 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this. I am currently dealing with this kind of child. I pray that this insight you have shown me can be the God given remedy I have been looking for.

  • @celestemathebula2822
    @celestemathebula2822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Play therapy 😄😀

  • @timothyrodriguez3159
    @timothyrodriguez3159 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I’m a little bit to tough with my timeouts

  • @pppalande20
    @pppalande20 ปีที่แล้ว

    😪 my 3kids give me hard time
    9yr 6yr 3yr.

  • @soSANTACRUZcal
    @soSANTACRUZcal ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my kids do not want to do anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They r so mean to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!