Success is not built on success. It's built on failure, It's built on fraustration. it's built on fear that you have to overcome. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life
@@cal1b31 try not to look away from their eyes too much or down at the floor, look at their eyes when they're talking and switch looking at each eye. open gestures look confident. also take slow breaths through your nose to calm you down, you can even do this in the middle of listening to someone talk just don't make it too obvious. i also heard some people take ashwaganda to calm their nerves, i haven't really tried that but some people say it works well
@@aru-YT ashwagandha helps calm your mind, relieves stress and better sleep. One of the side effects is that it kills emotions, however, it depends on the person.
@@quanvo3883 I actually have been trying them for a few days to deal with stress and anxiety, I'd agree that it depends on the person with the completely killing emotions part, as of yet it just makes me feel less stress and a little bit calm, kinda like I don't really fear or stress about things even social anxiety.
Another fun thing Tommy does is always knowing the names and whereabouts of the love ones of people he is talking to. So if the conversation goes south he can always bring it up to lighten the mood. It’s very effective
Key Moments [square brackets= own thoughts] 00:20 He does not overreact. [Wow. It shows that he has leverage. You need him more than he needs you.] 1:19 Exposure Therapy 2:00 Ask a question you know you are in charge of. What is your dog’s name? [ Tom shows that he does not care what you have to say. He has leverage.] 7:40 Turn a bad situation into a great one. Tommy makes a bad situation better than if it never happened in the first place. 9:12 How can the thing I least want be valuable to another goal?
I've been binging a lot of Charisma on Command videos and then after a while I sort of realized, maybe we've been doing it wrong; just copying their behaviors don't result in the confidence portrayed by the exemplified characters -- they are the way they are because of the situations they were put in. I was about to critique it in the older version of this video and then you put the first point addressing exactly that. Bravo!
So the best way is to pretend you are in on the deal. then you go to the other party and listen to their proposal/threats too. And now, you finally can make a decision what to do.
Please tell me how can I deal with this difficult situation... How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Please reply
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob in this sort of situation, I personally would state that just as they have their own beliefs, so do you. Just as you have chosen to respect their religion and not to push your beliefs on to others, tell them that you also wish they would respect your beliefs. If they still pursue you on this issue, should ask them, if they were willing to leave behind their religion for yours. And once they reply they aren’t, you can inform them that you feel the same way.
@@kennethbedwell5965 That's why in addition to being calm, you also have to show that you know where you stand. You can show concern and insertion at the same time without losing the façade of tranquility and security.
That’s so true, being able to control your emotions and remain calm and steadfast is the hardest challenge for any male. Even in our Islamic faith the prophet peace be upon him said that real strength isn’t beating your opponent but to remain calm and grounded when you’re extremely angry, that requires real strength.
Another factor in exposing yourself to situations. When you resist using your money, looks, or status to get past a difficult situation, you take your strengths and weaknesses out for a ride. you learn more about yourself. You learn what you can handle and what you can't, because you left your comfort zone. "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" because you lose your fear of the unknown. Often, a leader we marvel at for "always knowing the right thing to do" has just guessed correctly all these times to make it this far. doing something beat doing nothing. "align your needs with others" is classic win-win scenario. sometimes you can do your research of their needs by listening rather than hearing. as the nuns used to teach, you have two ears and one mouth to listen twice as much as you talk. Let the other party fill in the silence. figure out why people do what they do. what is their ultimate goal?
You have the ability to survive anything that is why despite all the storm made of pain, loss and chaos that you've had to endure, you are still alive and going strong. Gone were those days when a problem shared was a problem half solved, but today, a problem shared is a topic for gossip and discussion. I know you keep a lot of things to yourself b'cos it's difficult to have a friend who understands. Lighten up, laugh more, and don't get so worked up about things. There is so much inside you, and you have what it takes to make the most out of life
Tommy Shelby suffers from shell shock, or what is known today as PTSD. A lot of people who suffer from that have that cold look in their eyes, it’s not confidence it’s feeling dead inside. I’ve had it and I know people who have it too. It’s nothing to romanticize, don’t try to be a fictional character, they will never live up to the potential of reality. Better a life well-lived with love then trying to cultivate respect through alienating behaviors. Trauma isn’t sexy.
I'm going to do what works, fck love it's a over rated emotion that gets you know where....I'd rather be respected then loved all day any day of the week....
Same bro same😢 you king keep on rocking! I really need some luck shits so fking rough rn, i couldnt say or understand what my emotions are rn, its switching fast 0-100 @KingNez89
Ha, I've always done the off-topic question when someone's being confrontational, overly emotional, aggressive, or trying to flex authority on me. Never thought of it as confidence, more just me being weird. Even since back in school, just do it naturally. I'm quieter and somewhat smart but I grew up with dysfunctional people so I'm dulled to drama. I developed a "I don't care" type personality and maybe it's part of that. Just trying to level things down, but in kind of an awkward manner. Throws people off and I get mixed results - sometimes people just calm down, sometimes it pisses them off more, or confuses them.
I'm so glad you used Peaky Blinders, they are perfect demonstrations for this video. Tommy and Alfie are my favorite characters of any show ever, love seeing them featured here❤
When it comes to the actions of others, engaging in fake flexing is exactly what it sounds like-fake. Under pressure, those who adopt this behavior tend to crumble. I've encountered individuals who embraced the "fake it until you make it" mindset, and truthfully, it's quite discernible. Observing others interact with these individuals always brought a smile to my face, as it revealed something that many people failed to see objectively: the susceptibility of individuals seeking attention from those who engage in fake flexing. The moment their insincere acts were exposed, the fake flexers would swiftly and cowardly turn on people, revealing the absurdity of their actions.
I'm the optimist. I do it because the outcome is rewarding in spite of my expectations. Risk everything and lose it all? The loss is a great lesson for re-defining value. Experience will always equal material gain. Only perpetual winners can enjoy goodwill and blue sky.
Walking around the job site before an interview gets you into the field of the vibe that's going to be the routine you're going to be hard for if you walk in with that mindset you automatically get the job every time, trust!
Very interesting, subscribed. I have spent many years in customer service. About five years in I determined that the only successful people in this line were sociopaths. While that sounds harsh, it really depends on your motivation and sense of morality. I need to get what I want, at the same time convincing you that I know what you want, and how to get it. This is what I am missing in my current situation. I need to draw from that so that I may achieve success. Disclaimer, I don't what to screw anyone over. I just want things to work out my way once in a while. Maybe even help lift someone up along the way
I did this exposure therapy with women, always awkward and weird around women when asking for their number for a date or whatever.....the only way to achieve things in life weather it's money, talking to girls correctly etc ..is repeating failure until failure is no more, it's really the beauty of life you can mold yourself into anything you desire.
Step number 1: Be a fictional character played by a professional actor with 20 experts writing your every line, movement, thought and facial expression.
the best and quickest thing you can do before a fight or when a girl approaches you, is to keep your eyes relaxed and soft but focused and look both of their eyes very slowly.
Confidence come from results, you wanna get good at something, get positive feedback for every little step forward you take, that is how video games do it, you get addictive to things you are good at.
The thing about me is, I do pretty much all of these. I'm quite observative and idk if this will seem weird or not but I can tell how someone feels with their face expressions and tone of their voice really easily (I'm pretty sure a lot can do that aswell anyway). So ik how to behave around ppl to keep them comfortable or to fit in their moods. Not many ppl understand that from me and exclude me out of things
I developed the state of calm by being in a factory setting after being laid off from an engineering position. I was around guys who were Crips, some of them would get in my face or brandish weapons over minor offenses. I learned to stay calm, remind them of what they had to lose.
Another trick is speaking in a low voice where it’s not mumbling but hard to kinda hear u can control others by making them move to you drawing them in and when they do u know u have them in a way or interested for sure but what you say and the words you choose to say it in matter.
In order to achieve calmness in stressful situations l think you have to learn how to respect death and pain for those are the biggest punishments the world can possibly give. Once you learnt seing death and pain as a lesson instead of the end or a failure you won.
There are also the other fears a person needs to resolve within themselves; social rejection/ ostracization. It’s feels like actual pain and most people go to great lengths to avoid this outcome as well.
I've never heard of a state breaking question, but I realised I do this often when dealing with customers at work. 'what's your dog's name' I've said more times than I can count. Great video!
It helps to have a script writer that draws out your personal scenes for the camera, and to be a good actor, so confused men can idolize you like a fictional character badass in a Hollywood production and picture themselves as being the same, as they post Joker/Shelby/Reacher/Taxi Driver/ memes about pushing a good man to his breaking point, then go right back to doing absolutely nothing.
I am now 80 years old and when I look over my life I realize that my faith in God and adherence to my deep rooted Christian principles, never wavering from my core beliefs, has ensured my well being all along the way.
How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@yamz1156 Yes Exactly, it is true... How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
Thank you for teaching me to be the man. Btw I am gonna say 1 fact, if you struggle today, exercise today, feel pain today, etc., that would be the reason of your success tomorrow.
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
As the Stoics said: “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” - Epictetus Which basically means: Your response to events shapes your experience, not the events themselves.
I can't imagin how this guy went this far with his channel by just taking a clip and just explain it as it goes, if an actor blink he'll say '' the guy blinked because he wants to show to the interviewer that he's not sleeping he's awake and attentive and this is how you show to the people that you are always aware of your surroundings blah blah'' and if the actor doesn't blink he'll say '' the guy didn't blink and kept staring at the interviewer this is how you show them that I am not just giving you an interview and answering your question I am giving you a warning that you should be careful with your questions and treat me respectfully or you'll be the responsible for the consequences, this is you let them treat you as you want'' Well done brother I must say
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 2 months ago about self development. Now I have 144 subs and almost 75 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
@@fatking2612 Thanks so much! I realized that the main reason for doing this is not about the success but the inspiration I've been providing some people with my stories while helping others do the same as I shared the lessons & experiences through making videos to have a sense of meaningful purpose. Therefore, I’m planning to quit nursing to pursue youtube full time as there are lots of issues in our traditional health systems as these don’t align with my values. It’s a huge learning curve but I love helping people through making videos. Also, as part of my video creation progress, I’m switching to a better editing software and a camera so the learning curve is much higher and slows down the completion speed of my next videos so please hang on tight! I do appreciate your support and kind words! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
@@katie3657 I am so thankful for each person who subscribed and engaged with my content and any other creators who silently work hard behind the scenes despite countless struggles that are not being shown in the videos. As long as someone gains value from our art and creations, that’s really what really matters at the end of the day. This really truly makes me happy. When I was a kid, all I wanted was to have a career that pays well so I can buy whatever I want but now that I’m grown up and went through tons of setbacks from losing tons of people in my life, getting lost in the world with full of life traps, being ridiculed for pursuing my dreams, and so on, I can say that long-lasting happiness can’t be bought or earned because it comes from within us. Continue to grow as a person and I’m so glad that you’re part of this journey! I’m hoping to upload my next one this month, which is more than an hr long. I’ve been working hard for many months now to present it in the best way I can. I hope that you’ll enjoy it! Thanks so much again for your support! ❤️
I roll my eyes everytime he use clips and characters from a hollywood movie or a show to back up what he's saying! i mean Cillian Murphy is one the most introverted and reserved celebrities in real life...
I'm curious. Well, actually this is really helpful on being confident - keeping a straight face, calm, witty and the power of eye contact, etc. But the thing is that i believe we are living in a society which values feelings of others so I think, it'll be better if we can balance the facts and the emotion to have more respects from others. You know, when people are trying to mess up with you, you'll try to argue with them about the rights and wrongs. And of course, you'll win, but don't you care on how it will affect the person? - they will be sad, depressed, and ashamed and these things will lead to hatred. Don't you think of that? They'll try to start a war with you endlessly. But what if you actually values the person's feeling (after they lose)? You try to comfort them by saying things like "you're not that bad", " be proud of yourself*, or "stand proud, you're strong"? I think this method will more likely to lead you to more respects from not just the person, but the world. Everyone have feelings, right? Nah, this is just my opinion abt how to gain respects from others but do take on what really matter most in this world. Heart.
How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@Wallace-rv1pi 😥Yesterday, I had a dialogue with a Muzlim👳... Like this 👳: *"Accept ezlame, otherwise you will go to hell."* 😓: No, I am not interested. 👳: Not interested in what. 😓: In changing my beliefs. 👳: Why? 😓: It's none of your business. 👳: How its none of my business? 😓: I don't wanna have a dialogue on this topic.. I will not accept islam.. That's all don't waste my time.. 👳: *Is that the level arrogance you have with Allah?* What would you have replied if you were there in my place? Please tell me.. Also tell me about some humours responses that can be given at such incidents.
Study psychology if you want to see what manipulators work with. I like to guide them toward truth and empathy until they end the conversation in frustration! I love being one step ahead of them! Also, The 48 Laws of Power is a book which explains the techniques of his machiavellian style.
The character suffers severe PTSD and has some serious issues with repressed emotion. There are many cases of people surviving war finding out it is over, they sit down and lower their guard and is overcome and straight up die from repressed stress or just have mental breaks. There is a time and a place to put your emotions to the side, but you always have to sort it out sooner rather then later, stress has a significantly higher interest rate than the bill you missed a payment on. Stay safe folks.
I have not seen the video but I agree. When you have PTSD or any mental illness, repressing emotions is probably the most counterintuitive thing you can do
I don’t have any mental illness and still it is very hard for me to show my emotions to others, I am just like this. In the beginning I never noticed this myself until I did theater at school and the teacher wanted me to show her anger, joy and sadness and at that moment I realized that I never really displayed these emotions an open manner, even though I still felt the emotions inside and the result was I didn’t know how I could possibly simulate it, I was completely lost and I didn’t do the exercise with the other students, which kind of pissed the teacher off 🤷♂️.
In real life it’s hard to do this, we are not move set we don’t have a director or anyone who remains us we are just acting it’s good to calm every time but sometimes you lose
Saw your talk on Destiny channel and i think you're a very nice human . I am stalking you now and my guts were right. You give valuable and entertaining content .
Success is not built on success. It's built on failure, It's built on fraustration. it's built on fear that you have to overcome. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life
@Carl Garza O' Yes I'm a living testimony of Mrs Victoria Alejandro.!
Victoria has changed my financial status for the best.!
All thanks to my aunty who introduced her to me.!
@joshua730thphilibus2 Victoria Alejandro has really made name for herself
I'm not here to converse for her but to testify just for what I'm sure of
Keeping a straight face in any stressful situation definitely helps you exude Confidence.
Can you explain what you mean
@@cal1b31 try not to look away from their eyes too much or down at the floor, look at their eyes when they're talking and switch looking at each eye. open gestures look confident. also take slow breaths through your nose to calm you down, you can even do this in the middle of listening to someone talk just don't make it too obvious. i also heard some people take ashwaganda to calm their nerves, i haven't really tried that but some people say it works well
@@aru-YT ashwagandha helps calm your mind, relieves stress and better sleep. One of the side effects is that it kills emotions, however, it depends on the person.
@@quanvo3883 I actually have been trying them for a few days to deal with stress and anxiety, I'd agree that it depends on the person with the completely killing emotions part, as of yet it just makes me feel less stress and a little bit calm, kinda like I don't really fear or stress about things even social anxiety.
@aru you was saying wise words until you threw in drugs smh
Another fun thing Tommy does is always knowing the names and whereabouts of the love ones of people he is talking to. So if the conversation goes south he can always bring it up to lighten the mood. It’s very effective
yes cause he is actually capable of doing something harmful to them unlike you and probably most of us, he is actually threatening them in a way
@@timossynodias4688 well yeah, that was the joke.
You keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
@@timossynodias4688 That was the joke man. You can be really not wise, can't you be?
😂😂😂
Key Moments
[square brackets= own thoughts]
00:20 He does not overreact. [Wow. It shows that he has leverage. You need him more than he needs you.]
1:19 Exposure Therapy
2:00 Ask a question you know you are in charge of. What is your dog’s name? [ Tom shows that he does not care what you have to say. He has leverage.]
7:40 Turn a bad situation into a great one. Tommy makes a bad situation better than if it never happened in the first place.
9:12 How can the thing I least want be valuable to another goal?
Thanks man
@@joshuaa9517 You are welcome
he literally made the timestamps in the video when he posted it
@@FroggyPrince no but this guy summarised it
00:00 how to be so lost you think a video showing a Hollywood star can improve your life 😂😂😂😂
I've been binging a lot of Charisma on Command videos and then after a while I sort of realized, maybe we've been doing it wrong; just copying their behaviors don't result in the confidence portrayed by the exemplified characters -- they are the way they are because of the situations they were put in. I was about to critique it in the older version of this video and then you put the first point addressing exactly that. Bravo!
So the best way is to pretend you are in on the deal. then you go to the other party and listen to their proposal/threats too. And now, you finally can make a decision what to do.
The ability to turn a difficult situation into a resource is difficult itself but very helpful.
Please tell me how can I deal with this difficult situation...
How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
Please reply
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob tell them you're not muslim and it would be an issue with your own religion if you went.
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob tell them you're not muslim and it would be an issue with your own religion if you went.
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob in this sort of situation, I personally would state that just as they have their own beliefs, so do you. Just as you have chosen to respect their religion and not to push your beliefs on to others, tell them that you also wish they would respect your beliefs. If they still pursue you on this issue, should ask them, if they were willing to leave behind their religion for yours. And once they reply they aren’t, you can inform them that you feel the same way.
@@focuspocus5236 Nice suggestion thanks..
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Mareska Manipulation on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
"He who remains calm in the face of adversity, while all others fall apart....is truly in control"
Or does not understand the gravity of the situation.🤔
@@kennethbedwell5965 That's why in addition to being calm, you also have to show that you know where you stand. You can show concern and insertion at the same time without losing the façade of tranquility and security.
Yep!
Fear is a perfectly normal to feel sometimes, it's what you do with that fear that can make you great
I use my fear as it is meant to be used for in the first place, keeping me from putting myself in dangerous or uncomfortable situations.
Few people have said this out loud. WE know because WE listen, watch and feel.
Bravo friend, Bravo.
FEAR: the only way out...is through
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That’s so true, being able to control your emotions and remain calm and steadfast is the hardest challenge for any male. Even in our Islamic faith the prophet peace be upon him said that real strength isn’t beating your opponent but to remain calm and grounded when you’re extremely angry, that requires real strength.
I always take a deep breath and respond - I think that’s the difference - respond vs react.
Breathing deeply worsens anxiety. You should practice slow breathing..
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space”
@DonnieBrascoo usually deep and slow breathing are the same thing in this context
You want to know what's better than looking confident?
BEING confident! 😎
"I am my deeds and everything I do is a reflection of self" I think this fits what you said.
How bro felt commenting this: 😈
Vs
What bro actually is: 🤡
@@user-rz9bk4of7v So true though🫥
@@user-rz9bk4of7v and how did you feel when commenting that?
@@user-rz9bk4of7vBruh, your dull
Basically develop a mindset and show people that you are unaffected by their low-key efforts to put you down! And stay on your path
Another factor in exposing yourself to situations. When you resist using your money, looks, or status to get past a difficult situation, you take your strengths and weaknesses out for a ride. you learn more about yourself. You learn what you can handle and what you can't, because you left your comfort zone. "What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" because you lose your fear of the unknown.
Often, a leader we marvel at for "always knowing the right thing to do" has just guessed correctly all these times to make it this far. doing something beat doing nothing.
"align your needs with others" is classic win-win scenario. sometimes you can do your research of their needs by listening rather than hearing. as the nuns used to teach, you have two ears and one mouth to listen twice as much as you talk. Let the other party fill in the silence. figure out why people do what they do. what is their ultimate goal?
You have the ability to survive anything that is why despite all the storm made of pain, loss and chaos that you've had to endure, you are still alive and going strong.
Gone were those days when a problem shared was a problem half solved, but today, a problem shared is a topic for gossip and discussion.
I know you keep a lot of things to yourself b'cos it's difficult to have a friend who understands.
Lighten up, laugh more, and don't get so worked up about things. There is so much inside you, and you have what it takes to make the most out of life
Tommy Shelby suffers from shell shock, or what is known today as PTSD. A lot of people who suffer from that have that cold look in their eyes, it’s not confidence it’s feeling dead inside. I’ve had it and I know people who have it too. It’s nothing to romanticize, don’t try to be a fictional character, they will never live up to the potential of reality. Better a life well-lived with love then trying to cultivate respect through alienating behaviors. Trauma isn’t sexy.
Step 1: develop PTSD. Got it👍
I'm going to do what works, fck love it's a over rated emotion that gets you know where....I'd rather be respected then loved all day any day of the week....
@@KingNez89Damn who hurt you?
@@carsonbrown5366😂😂
Same bro same😢 you king keep on rocking!
I really need some luck shits so fking rough rn, i couldnt say or understand what my emotions are rn, its switching fast 0-100 @KingNez89
I used this in front of my boss. He fired me.
You must have not have had season 3 script writers for your life lol
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 sorry
Now you are boss
mine sucked me off, wild world
I recommend everyone to find the book titled Tate Mindset; it goes deep into all of this, and it changed my life
i try to find that ebook last week and finally. find it on your channel. thanks dude
Dog sht
I’d rather not read a book by a man who exploits 14-16 year olds on web cam business’s
It's by Andrew Tate
Ha, I've always done the off-topic question when someone's being confrontational, overly emotional, aggressive, or trying to flex authority on me. Never thought of it as confidence, more just me being weird. Even since back in school, just do it naturally. I'm quieter and somewhat smart but I grew up with dysfunctional people so I'm dulled to drama. I developed a "I don't care" type personality and maybe it's part of that. Just trying to level things down, but in kind of an awkward manner. Throws people off and I get mixed results - sometimes people just calm down, sometimes it pisses them off more, or confuses them.
It's a different vibe when the person going off topic is a reputable gangster that can have you killed at any moment because you ticked him off.
Same here boss
I'm so glad you used Peaky Blinders, they are perfect demonstrations for this video. Tommy and Alfie are my favorite characters of any show ever, love seeing them featured here❤
When it comes to the actions of others, engaging in fake flexing is exactly what it sounds like-fake. Under pressure, those who adopt this behavior tend to crumble. I've encountered individuals who embraced the "fake it until you make it" mindset, and truthfully, it's quite discernible. Observing others interact with these individuals always brought a smile to my face, as it revealed something that many people failed to see objectively: the susceptibility of individuals seeking attention from those who engage in fake flexing. The moment their insincere acts were exposed, the fake flexers would swiftly and cowardly turn on people, revealing the absurdity of their actions.
Being calm is a superpower. Be super.
How to Win Friends and Influence People is a good book regarding this topic
Sometimes not doing anything is the most reasonable thing to do.
Very true 🙌
This is true.thomas is so confident that even it says in his eyes
I'm the optimist. I do it because the outcome is rewarding in spite of my expectations. Risk everything and lose it all? The loss is a great lesson for re-defining value. Experience will always equal material gain. Only perpetual winners can enjoy goodwill and blue sky.
How to be confident : always hold you’re pinky out when drinking anything. -Patrick star
When in doubt pinky out
Don’t forget those sentence enhancers!
What if you don’t have a pinky?
I thought that was for putting on airs
@@pinkyless That’s just fancy talk
Were so anxious to look weak so we avoid mistakes and slow our trial and error learning process.
Walking around the job site before an interview gets you into the field of the vibe that's going to be the routine you're going to be hard for if you walk in with that mindset you automatically get the job every time, trust!
Very interesting, subscribed. I have spent many years in customer service. About five years in I determined that the only successful people in this line were sociopaths. While that sounds harsh, it really depends on your motivation and sense of morality. I need to get what I want, at the same time convincing you that I know what you want, and how to get it. This is what I am missing in my current situation. I need to draw from that so that I may achieve success. Disclaimer, I don't what to screw anyone over. I just want things to work out my way once in a while. Maybe even help lift someone up along the way
I did this exposure therapy with women, always awkward and weird around women when asking for their number for a date or whatever.....the only way to achieve things in life weather it's money, talking to girls correctly etc ..is repeating failure until failure is no more, it's really the beauty of life you can mold yourself into anything you desire.
Step number 1:
Be a fictional character played by a professional actor with 20 experts writing your every line, movement, thought and facial expression.
😂
Exactly 😌
That’s what I was thinking. It helps when the other person has a script telling them how to respond. lol.
It helps a lot to maintain composure if you were a tunneled in WW1
this has to be the best video that i have watched all day, you earned a subscriber bro
the best and quickest thing you can do before a fight or when a girl approaches you, is to keep your eyes relaxed and soft but focused and look both of their eyes very slowly.
SOFT, RELAXED EYES... THAT'S GREAT ADVICE ! I CAN FEEL IT ALREADY !
Sounds like you have experience. 😂
Charlie! You have a way of speakin man. Thank you for the words.
I really recommend you analyse James Acaster... Most fearless person ever
Confidence come from results, you wanna get good at something, get positive feedback for every little step forward you take, that is how video games do it, you get addictive to things you are good at.
The thing about me is, I do pretty much all of these. I'm quite observative and idk if this will seem weird or not but I can tell how someone feels with their face expressions and tone of their voice really easily (I'm pretty sure a lot can do that aswell anyway). So ik how to behave around ppl to keep them comfortable or to fit in their moods. Not many ppl understand that from me and exclude me out of things
Fun Fact: David Bowie was a huge fan of the Peaky Blinders and gave permission for music from his final album to be featured in Series 3
The vato loco look and mad dog stare never fails, trust me and try it, practice and perfect it on that grandma that walks around the neighborhood
How to be fearless under pressure?
1. Step one be a sociopath with ptsd.
2. Step two read rule 1.
When someone is about to punch me i just block the shot with my face and look cool. Works just like in movies
I developed the state of calm by being in a factory setting after being laid off from an engineering position. I was around guys who were Crips, some of them would get in my face or brandish weapons over minor offenses. I learned to stay calm, remind them of what they had to lose.
Please make a video on how to protect self-respect while being calm and non reactive
Another trick is speaking in a low voice where it’s not mumbling but hard to kinda hear u can control others by making them move to you drawing them in and when they do u know u have them in a way or interested for sure but what you say and the words you choose to say it in matter.
In order to achieve calmness in stressful situations l think you have to learn how to respect death and pain for those are the biggest punishments the world can possibly give. Once you learnt seing death and pain as a lesson instead of the end or a failure you won.
There are also the other fears a person needs to resolve within themselves; social rejection/ ostracization. It’s feels like actual pain and most people go to great lengths to avoid this outcome as well.
I've never heard of a state breaking question, but I realised I do this often when dealing with customers at work. 'what's your dog's name' I've said more times than I can count.
Great video!
#1 be a WW1 veteran
Bro u be ded if ur a WW1 veteran
@@ThisIsCexary ???
@@kwocci3049either by war or old age
It helps to have a script writer that draws out your personal scenes for the camera, and to be a good actor, so confused men can idolize you like a fictional character badass in a Hollywood production and picture themselves as being the same, as they post Joker/Shelby/Reacher/Taxi Driver/ memes about pushing a good man to his breaking point, then go right back to doing absolutely nothing.
Is that what happened to you?
This video will upgrade your standard of living
It's a really neat method even mentioning your own loss, then finish with what the other person's gain is.
I really love Tommy. He is so cool and inspired.
I am now 80 years old and when I look over my life I realize that my faith in God and adherence to my deep rooted Christian principles, never wavering from my core beliefs, has ensured my well being all along the way.
You are practically dead
Thank you for reuploading!
You can't ever be fearless but you can mask your fear as if you're unaffected
Facts, fear is felt through the entire body. Wether you accept it or not
How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
@@yamz1156 Yes Exactly, it is true...
How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
TH-cam, the great protector of our feelings and safety.
Thank you for teaching me to be the man.
Btw I am gonna say 1 fact, if you struggle today, exercise today, feel pain today, etc., that would be the reason of your success tomorrow.
Yikes🤹🏻
Stay far from weak 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻
Cillian Murphy is living proof that there's such a thing as Too Handsome.
The fact they blur the weapons, but not the most deadliest, which is Tommy Shelby himself.....
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
As the Stoics said:
“It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” - Epictetus
Which basically means: Your response to events shapes your experience, not the events themselves.
I find the allaining your needs with the other person's usually doesn't work because most people don't want to be happy and like having problems
Your probably reich
I can't imagin how this guy went this far with his channel by just taking a clip and just explain it as it goes, if an actor blink he'll say '' the guy blinked because he wants to show to the interviewer that he's not sleeping he's awake and attentive and this is how you show to the people that you are always aware of your surroundings blah blah'' and if the actor doesn't blink he'll say '' the guy didn't blink and kept staring at the interviewer this is how you show them that I am not just giving you an interview and answering your question I am giving you a warning that you should be careful with your questions and treat me respectfully or you'll be the responsible for the consequences, this is you let them treat you as you want''
Well done brother I must say
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 2 months ago about self development. Now I have 144 subs and almost 75 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
Wish you have success 🙏🏻
@@fatking2612 Thanks so much!
I realized that the main reason for doing this is not about the success but the inspiration I've been providing some people with my stories while helping others do the same as I shared the lessons & experiences through making videos to have a sense of meaningful purpose. Therefore, I’m planning to quit nursing to pursue youtube full time as there are lots of issues in our traditional health systems as these don’t align with my values. It’s a huge learning curve but I love helping people through making videos.
Also, as part of my video creation progress, I’m switching to a better editing software and a camera so the learning curve is much higher and slows down the completion speed of my next videos so please hang on tight! I do appreciate your support and kind words! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
Just subscribed!!
@@katie3657
I am so thankful for each person who subscribed and engaged with my content and any other creators who silently work hard behind the scenes despite countless struggles that are not being shown in the videos. As long as someone gains value from our art and creations, that’s really what really matters at the end of the day. This really truly makes me happy.
When I was a kid, all I wanted was to have a career that pays well so I can buy whatever I want but now that I’m grown up and went through tons of setbacks from losing tons of people in my life, getting lost in the world with full of life traps, being ridiculed for pursuing my dreams, and so on, I can say that long-lasting happiness can’t be bought or earned because it comes from within us.
Continue to grow as a person and I’m so glad that you’re part of this journey!
I’m hoping to upload my next one this month, which is more than an hr long. I’ve been working hard for many months now to present it in the best way I can. I hope that you’ll enjoy it! Thanks so much again for your support! ❤️
Could u plz make some videos about dealing with a job interview??😊😊
I love ur videos tho, learning a lot
I roll my eyes everytime he use clips and characters from a hollywood movie or a show to back up what he's saying! i mean Cillian Murphy is one the most introverted and reserved celebrities in real life...
Hollywood vs Real Life right?!
Good information right here, thanks man
2:19 break frame
honestly who is disliking dis videos bro dis is a w
"Whats your dogs name" 🤣
He developed this trait by reading the script. He's an actor.
I'm curious. Well, actually this is really helpful on being confident - keeping a straight face, calm, witty and the power of eye contact, etc.
But the thing is that i believe we are living in a society which values feelings of others so I think, it'll be better if we can balance the facts and the emotion to have more respects from others. You know, when people are trying to mess up with you, you'll try to argue with them about the rights and wrongs. And of course, you'll win, but don't you care on how it will affect the person? - they will be sad, depressed, and ashamed and these things will lead to hatred. Don't you think of that? They'll try to start a war with you endlessly.
But what if you actually values the person's feeling (after they lose)? You try to comfort them by saying things like "you're not that bad", " be proud of yourself*, or "stand proud, you're strong"? I think this method will more likely to lead you to more respects from not just the person, but the world. Everyone have feelings, right?
Nah, this is just my opinion abt how to gain respects from others but do take on what really matter most in this world.
Heart.
he's almost similar to reddington.
need to start watching this show, seems promising.
I like this one so please re up every 6-8 weeks
Things you will learn at acting school and playing your part in a movie, after 50 times doing it wrong than suddenly it is successful ❤❤❤
How can a non Muslim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muslim come to our mosque, leave everything."*
How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?
Hi dear how are you doing?
@@Wallace-rv1pi 😥Yesterday, I had a dialogue with a Muzlim👳...
Like this
👳: *"Accept ezlame, otherwise you will go to hell."*
😓: No, I am not interested.
👳: Not interested in what.
😓: In changing my beliefs.
👳: Why?
😓: It's none of your business.
👳: How its none of my business?
😓: I don't wanna have a dialogue on this topic.. I will not accept islam.. That's all don't waste my time..
👳: *Is that the level arrogance you have with Allah?*
What would you have replied if you were there in my place?
Please tell me..
Also tell me about some humours responses that can be given at such incidents.
@@Wallace-rv1pi Hi Wallace I am doing great thanks, wrong foto not trustworthy, doing body language now 😎
Are you a man or a woman?
im just like tommy shelby
Hi! I love your videos. Thank you for motivating me to start my own TH-cam account.
Thank you i view the world in Steph curry's perspective and it makes me more confident :)
Best way to be cool under pressure is to become a psychopath. Jk 😂
He pretty much is a sociopath is he not lmao? It's been that long since I watched it lol.
Study psychology if you want to see what manipulators work with. I like to guide them toward truth and empathy until they end the conversation in frustration! I love being one step ahead of them!
Also, The 48 Laws of Power is a book which explains the techniques of his machiavellian style.
The character suffers severe PTSD and has some serious issues with repressed emotion. There are many cases of people surviving war finding out it is over, they sit down and lower their guard and is overcome and straight up die from repressed stress or just have mental breaks. There is a time and a place to put your emotions to the side, but you always have to sort it out sooner rather then later, stress has a significantly higher interest rate than the bill you missed a payment on. Stay safe folks.
I have not seen the video but I agree. When you have PTSD or any mental illness, repressing emotions is probably the most counterintuitive thing you can do
@@Superhero-MotivationAbsolutely. Self-isolating is horrible if you have ptsd. You’ll simply get worse and worse.
I don’t have any mental illness and still it is very hard for me to show my emotions to others, I am just like this. In the beginning I never noticed this myself until I did theater at school and the teacher wanted me to show her anger, joy and sadness and at that moment I realized that I never really displayed these emotions an open manner, even though I still felt the emotions inside and the result was I didn’t know how I could possibly simulate it, I was completely lost and I didn’t do the exercise with the other students, which kind of pissed the teacher off 🤷♂️.
Outstanding summary clearly translated for real-world applications. Thank you.
Do a video on how to combat getting roasted or bullied
What a great show. Loved this. Rip Pauly
In real life it’s hard to do this, we are not move set we don’t have a director or anyone who remains us we are just acting it’s good to calm every time but sometimes you lose
I should have downloaded your previous Tommy Shelby video........ please find a way to make it available to us❤
I can’t stop thinking how many people will fail in life trying to act this way😂
@@seyiesetuosopfii3153 nope, but you most definitely are. 🤣
If you lack understanding
@@nosisckymusic I’m sure some 5ft 2 8 stone guy is going to benefit from this🙄😂
Its really easy to say but actually doing it is another thing trust me
Marine corps boot camp was my “exposure therapy”
0:07 holy crap I have that exact haircut. Now all I need is a long coat and a flatcap, oh, and a pocket watch to wear on my coat
Saw your talk on Destiny channel and i think you're a very nice human . I am stalking you now and my guts were right. You give valuable and entertaining content .
What??
Fun fact- the intro may or may not have been an AI generated Charlie voice👀
(Podcast listener here!)
*Charisma On Comand:* I'm going to teach people how to be better as individuals.
*YT:* Gotta knock that shyte down hard before it ruins the narrative.
What if there is no way for "exposure therapy"? It's either the situation or avoid the situation.
Meditation is the only way. It helps keep your emotions flatline as well as a heap of other benefits.
Thank you
can you do a video on how to break rapport
You build to success with each failure.
But you should try to make as least errors as possible
so as we say.. *"Dont mess with Peaky Fooking Blinders"*