Simple explanation: If you keep going on casual sex, sexwithout any emotions, you will lost your ability to feel sex- that is pleasure! So later on in life, when you settle with the final person, you wont be able to feel love with your partner. LUST will kill you LOVE.
This is so true....keep spreading such comments....this generation needs to understand this where making a century sounds more cool than staying focused in life / being loyal to someone.
"It's not the question of morality, it's the question of living sensibly." Very beautiful you've explained the things that I've experienced myself and I hope more and more people start living sensibly as it's going to make our life mote joyful and happy.
I was noticing for so many days in all the video it is Not tye question of morality or it it is not about morality, i want to ask what is morality then? In the video of adultery or extra marital Affair he said the same it is not about morality, how it can't be about morality ?? If a person don't feel happy he should break the Marriage instead of cheating. I really don't like theory without examples and single result. But i really like sadguru because the insights and opinion he give is really very good and meaningful
The less the distortion, the lesser the drama or the physical confusion. It's not about abiding to senses rather than mixing up with societies morals. Excellently explained by Saadhguru.
I have 'never' had a casual relationship. I am happy to be on my own in between important significant people in my life. I let 2 partners go by realising that we all have free will to make the best choices for ourselves in this one precious life. These choices lead us to our destiny. On that basis I must have amazing Runanubandha 😉🌞🌞🌞😊
This Youth and Truth program is a boon to the students.. I don't know how many of them take these answers to the heart but atleast if 1% of them truly implement this, this nation would be great!!!
This is 100% true and can easily experienced by people doing meditation everyday. Vipassana is meditation technique used by Buddha, which uses reverse process to remove memory from our system. Every memory has a sensation, by experiencing sensation again and completing incomplitions with that memory, you will remove that memory from system. It may be from past birth or this birth. Different paths and meditations use different techniques to remove memory to access the ultimate God particle inside us... which has been covered by 8 types of memory.
Our soul takes the memories of everything we come in contact with ❣️ Had never come across such complex things explained so beautifully...I love him❣️❣️
@@symphonimason8578 he is saying whatever we touch ,smell or see is stored in our mind as memory If we make physical relationship without emotions ( casual relationship) it'll make lots of memories Bcz he / she will too much closer by us than all other people, and if we create lots of memories we can't be peacefully live , We can enjoy that pleasure ( by physical relationship) but we can't be truly happy
@@symphonimason8578 what do you think... many people make relationship by saying lie & having no genuinely love/ emotions with each other they engage with each other just Bcz they attract/like each other,they enjoy each other company & they want to experience such a divine pleasure ( se x ) ... should they prefer casual relationship as a friend/ commit with each other? or what's your perspective towards casual relationship?
He has the wisdom that goes beyond the physical. We never get taught about these things that relates to conscious choices, how to deal with our emotions, etc. Such an important topic to talk about especially for the young. We get damaged easily relating to emotions which we fall in the trap where we get confused with reality. We don't know if we should look at a situation logically or emotionally which we lose control of ourselves and our inner world gets shaky and unstable. So we have to decide what we want out of life consciously and get a clear vision.
The reason why I always felt not make such intimate relationship and follow what most of the people are doing today is now being understood. Thanks to Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏 for making me and this society understand the reality ....♥
Omg, that salt thing is still followed in my home too, my mom used to blame me when I give salt container directly to her hand ,now I understood why she did that 😃
Love the way you explain to the present generation. Morality is definitely not the grounds which would satisfy the present generation. And honestly the way you tell that folding hands is better than a hug -is definitely a eye opener and makes us more proud of our Indian system n culture.
What is morality then ? He said in another video extramarrital Affair is not about morality or it is not about right or Wrong . How it Can't be right or wrong and how it is not about morality, it is clearly immoral to have extramarrital Affair. In this video also he said live sensibly But didn't answer anything clearly. I mean if i ask one night stand is right or wrong or it is moral or immoral then what will be his answer ?
exactly. now I am going through depression,anxiety,panic attacks. It would be great, If I listened to his at 16years. now I became the sexual super nova and its became hard to turn back.
Really is it hard..cuz i already suffer from depression n anxiety. I just entered this casual thing. Pls if this is true,tell me. I m ready to step back
Trust me it’s possible…..i’m in a spiritual path right after going through all that. First you need to come off medications if you are taking any by following a very good diet- anti histamine and anti inflammatory diet ( this is must to bring back right kind of energy into your body) and by making good lifestyle changes. It took me an year of dedication to do all this. Then you can start with yoga and meditations
@@akankshawarudkar4482 Thats probably one of the reasons why soo many people live with mental illnesses in the West, despite having a high quality of life, comparatively less pressures in life, mental health is down the drain in the West! They also find it difficult to build a stable family as a result
The Body actually has its own Memory.....I didn't realise it up until now. Romantics will really have a very difficult time trying to listen to Kyabje on these matters. 😶
hmmm, the presupposition of body memory is very interesting. However, I would form a different conclusion (except if one seeks to become a yogi possibly) - I would say it is not unreasonable to feed the body with memory. But it is important that what physically happens is aligned with emotions and spirit. If someone is basically meaningless to you, you haven't connected in any deeper way, or they have harmful energies - don't sleep with them. Going from Sadhgurus logic and combining it with my personal opinions, that would mean that a rift or dissonance is created and your body is confused then: being physically close to someone doesn't mean anymore that one is mentally and emotionally close to someone, even if the body wants that. And I do think closeness can be there in a short encounter, but not when you get to know each other in a club, hook up drunk and leave before breakfast to not see that person ever again. So, thanks, Sadhguru, you gave me a new insight!
He’s saying that your body remembers everything you allow it to interact with physically even more so than your memory built up in your mind. This is why you’ll experience touch from a new partner that jolts memory from a previous distant physical encounter that will create a rift in your stable relationship now. Nothing is ever forgotten even if you say you don’t remember it, parts of you never forget and this is why being proactive with interactions is best. Either way, best of luck to you through life’s journey and undiscovered adventures.
@@KPITGangsta What is your opinion for one night stand and casual relationship ? According to sadhguru or you but plzz tell answer in simply and conclusively
If there's a marriage they must bond by emotion. If the husband or wife doesn't understand or feel each other's emotions then there's no proper marital relationship..m
Yes sir it is not a question of morality, but it is a question of living sensibly but only a few people can able to live like this those who have mastered over their life energies like sadgurus sir and others gd ngt sir
thank god, finally an answer i can believe on, so many people gave their opinions about this but all were baseless. the explanation sadhguru gave seems to have weight to it.
I wonder, after listening to this man speak on this subject, if my panic attacks aren't the result of picking up way too many memories from what I've contacted.
🙏 I beseech each one of you to spread the wisdom, flowing through Sadhguru. We can do simple things like Increasing Twitter Followings by Requesting our dear ones. 🙏
satish kumar that body remembers!! And makes us more complex person...So keep it simple. Don’t go with flow..choose consciously, decide sensibly!We just say that these relationships are casual but internally it makes memory then create it with Only one person:)
🙏🏻Ha. I’m glad I’m fine with the depth and richness from being all in. And glad I didn’t fill my head n living with this vacant question. Your heads or tails🙏🏻
These topics are not so easy to discuss in so simple and profound way....Only a great yogi can do....
Why is anybody asking questions about multiple partners .such quedtions should be specialist or expetienved in such field
@@naynasheth1004 why
because the specialist does not know the answer
It is so beautiful to see our youth getting close to the truth finally.
Really so proud feeling
Simple explanation:
If you keep going on casual sex, sexwithout any emotions, you will lost your ability to feel sex- that is pleasure! So later on in life, when you settle with the final person, you wont be able to feel love with your partner. LUST will kill you LOVE.
True ❤️😌
This is so true....keep spreading such comments....this generation needs to understand this where making a century sounds more cool than staying focused in life / being loyal to someone.
It also not about pleasure but being more sensible and discipline rather than a hedonist like animal.
@@smritisaha8534 loyal :-)
nice
@@radhika4378 splendidly correct 👍👍
"It's not the question of morality, it's the question of living sensibly."
Very beautiful you've explained the things that I've experienced myself and I hope more and more people start living sensibly as it's going to make our life mote joyful and happy.
He is talking more on evolutionary basis, and consequences long term, up to us what kind of race humans want to end up as.
I was noticing for so many days in all the video it is Not tye question of morality or it it is not about morality, i want to ask what is morality then?
In the video of adultery or extra marital Affair he said the same it is not about morality, how it can't be about morality ?? If a person don't feel happy he should break the Marriage instead of cheating.
I really don't like theory without examples and single result.
But i really like sadguru because the insights and opinion he give is really very good and meaningful
What is your case ? You Said you have experienced it, What you experienced, would you Like to share it?
The less the distortion, the lesser the drama or the physical confusion. It's not about abiding to senses rather than mixing up with societies morals. Excellently explained by Saadhguru.
Viswajith Vijayan can you please explain this video to me?
@@symphonimason8578shall I explain
I have 'never' had a casual relationship.
I am happy to be on my own in between important significant people in my life.
I let 2 partners go by realising that we all have free will to make the best choices for ourselves in this one precious life. These choices lead us to our destiny.
On that basis I must have amazing Runanubandha 😉🌞🌞🌞😊
This Youth and Truth program is a boon to the students.. I don't know how many of them take these answers to the heart but atleast if 1% of them truly implement this, this nation would be great!!!
This is 100% true and can easily experienced by people doing meditation everyday.
Vipassana is meditation technique used by Buddha, which uses reverse process to remove memory from our system.
Every memory has a sensation, by experiencing sensation again and completing incomplitions with that memory, you will remove that memory from system. It may be from past birth or this birth.
Different paths and meditations use different techniques to remove memory to access the ultimate God particle inside us... which has been covered by 8 types of memory.
Such a logical insight to such intricate confusing human emotions.
Exactly 💯
@@ArchanaSingh-qf6vy .....
@@AnmolTheRationalist tu har jagah pahunch jaata h😂!
Our soul takes the memories of everything we come in contact with ❣️
Had never come across such complex things explained so beautifully...I love him❣️❣️
I'm so grateful that we have sadhguru to clarify all the complicated emotions 😘😘😘
Legend 🙏🙏
Aliza Shahi can you please explain this question to me?
I mean Sadgurus answer
@@symphonimason8578 i also don't get it ,
I also wanna find ans
@@symphonimason8578 he is saying whatever we touch ,smell or see is stored in our mind as memory
If we make physical relationship without emotions ( casual relationship) it'll make lots of memories Bcz he / she will too much closer by us than all other people, and if we create lots of memories we can't be peacefully live ,
We can enjoy that pleasure ( by physical relationship) but we can't be truly happy
@@symphonimason8578 what do you think...
many people make relationship by saying lie & having no genuinely love/ emotions with each other
they engage with each other just Bcz they attract/like each other,they enjoy each other company & they want to experience such a divine pleasure ( se x ) ...
should they prefer casual relationship as a friend/
commit with each other?
or what's your perspective towards casual relationship?
That's why break - up take such a big toll on you .
Lots of memory 😂
U didnt get what he said or was it intentional?
@@KIIXI he is joking 😂😂
@@KIIXI he has a point
He has the wisdom that goes beyond the physical. We never get taught about these things that relates to conscious choices, how to deal with our emotions, etc. Such an important topic to talk about especially for the young. We get damaged easily relating to emotions which we fall in the trap where we get confused with reality. We don't know if we should look at a situation logically or emotionally which we lose control of ourselves and our inner world gets shaky and unstable. So we have to decide what we want out of life consciously and get a clear vision.
The reason why I always felt not make such intimate relationship and follow what most of the people are doing today is now being understood.
Thanks to Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏 for making me and this society understand the reality ....♥
thanks to remember to us the MEMORY BODY ~ ...Karma memory,... MEMORY of computer too ~ thanks to tecnology
Omg, that salt thing is still followed in my home too, my mom used to blame me when I give salt container directly to her hand ,now I understood why she did that 😃
Salt container is OK but not salt. But to preserve knowledge down to generations, some customs becomes rules.
Yes still followed in my home...
I didn't understood this theory can you explain me ?
What is science behind this its sodium cloride right ? How dies that transfer memory?🤔
🙏 Living sensibly🙏 Namaskaram Sadhguru! You throw light on every nook and cranny of any subject. We are blessed to have you as our GURU🙏
Throw a Planet of questions at him & what remains might be just a pebble,...
Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Nice articulation
No Bish Bash Bosh for all of us anymore folks. Time to find that significant other permanently.
Most valuable knowledge youths can ever receive.
Every age, we never stop learning
Thank you very much for asking such a wonderful question.👌👍
What a logical and responsible way of answer, bow down to u sadhguru.
Love the way you explain to the present generation. Morality is definitely not the grounds which would satisfy the present generation. And honestly the way you tell that folding hands is better than a hug -is definitely a eye opener and makes us more proud of our Indian system n culture.
What is morality then ?
He said in another video extramarrital Affair is not about morality or it is not about right or Wrong .
How it Can't be right or wrong and how it is not about morality, it is clearly immoral to have extramarrital Affair.
In this video also he said live sensibly But didn't answer anything clearly. I mean if i ask one night stand is right or wrong or it is moral or immoral then what will be his answer ?
Intellect at its best... no words to say. Such a logical response to such an sensitive question.
as a teenager, i do feel lost abt many things but istg sadguruji always has smth to say that helps me, thanks again guruji
Sadguru i bow down to your intteligence
Best moment of this video :D
2:02 The way she laughed 😍
2.06 her smile 😍😍😍
My teacher!
Thank You!🙏
exactly. now I am going through depression,anxiety,panic attacks. It would be great, If I listened to his at 16years. now I became the sexual super nova and its became hard to turn back.
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Hard but never impossible
Really is it hard..cuz i already suffer from depression n anxiety. I just entered this casual thing. Pls if this is true,tell me. I m ready to step back
Trust me it’s possible…..i’m in a spiritual path right after going through all that. First you need to come off medications if you are taking any by following a very good diet- anti histamine and anti inflammatory diet ( this is must to bring back right kind of energy into your body) and by making good lifestyle changes. It took me an year of dedication to do all this. Then you can start with yoga and meditations
@@akankshawarudkar4482 Thats probably one of the reasons why soo many people live with mental illnesses in the West, despite having a high quality of life, comparatively less pressures in life, mental health is down the drain in the West! They also find it difficult to build a stable family as a result
Very well explained... It's not question of morality but living sensibly
What a Profound understanding of such a complex issue of life which most youngsters go through.😍😍😊
I want to thank this girl who asked such a sensible question
Blessed to have such guru's in India.
The Body actually has its own Memory.....I didn't realise it up until now. Romantics will really have a very difficult time trying to listen to Kyabje on these matters. 😶
About salt same thing in maharashtra also.
these things are found in all of india
@@abhaysinghchauhan5579
Nice
Our duty is to keep it alive
Why dont they take salt ? What’s wrong with that ?
We can find these things all over india
Very simply and beautifully explained one of the most complex confusion in our young generation.Superb 👌
I would like to strongly convey this is Natural mechanics it's needed according to running age because physical emotion relate to emotional pleasure.
hmmm, the presupposition of body memory is very interesting. However, I would form a different conclusion (except if one seeks to become a yogi possibly) - I would say it is not unreasonable to feed the body with memory. But it is important that what physically happens is aligned with emotions and spirit. If someone is basically meaningless to you, you haven't connected in any deeper way, or they have harmful energies - don't sleep with them. Going from Sadhgurus logic and combining it with my personal opinions, that would mean that a rift or dissonance is created and your body is confused then: being physically close to someone doesn't mean anymore that one is mentally and emotionally close to someone, even if the body wants that. And I do think closeness can be there in a short encounter, but not when you get to know each other in a club, hook up drunk and leave before breakfast to not see that person ever again.
So, thanks, Sadhguru, you gave me a new insight!
He’s saying that your body remembers everything you allow it to interact with physically even more so than your memory built up in your mind. This is why you’ll experience touch from a new partner that jolts memory from a previous distant physical encounter that will create a rift in your stable relationship now. Nothing is ever forgotten even if you say you don’t remember it, parts of you never forget and this is why being proactive with interactions is best.
Either way, best of luck to you through life’s journey and undiscovered adventures.
@@KPITGangsta What is your opinion for one night stand and casual relationship ?
According to sadhguru or you but plzz tell answer in simply and conclusively
Seems like you're not that interested in spiritual pursuits
@@naraendrareddy273 i don't need to take his every word at face value I guess
Emotional security : one spouse
If there's a marriage they must bond by emotion. If the husband or wife doesn't understand or feel each other's emotions then there's no proper marital relationship..m
This man , has immense amount of *wisdom*
This was a needed lesson.
Very true Sadhguru it's best to be at a distance till u can commit to one person for life..so beautifully explained.
Real relationship is real casual person lived casual.Namaskaram Sadhguru
Wow such a profound answer, jaya jaya jaya gurudev
2:01 to 2:05
one would love to see again n again on loop..
Perfect sadhguru ji.
Love, Respect and honor,
Harkirat singh
Very intricate topic, explained in most impactful way, many mediocres like me could understand, though Sadguruji touched subtly. Immensely insightful.
This explanation of runanubhandha is extradinary.but some people across the India trying to break the some values.
Sexual supernova 😇🤣😂
But what makes sense is that it’s not question of morality but living sensibly.
Awesome 👏🏻 explanation
This man is a revolutionary.... no doubt about that
other than sadhguru who can give such befitting answers in this life time?
Yes sir it is not a question of morality, but it is a question of living sensibly but only a few people can able to live like this those who have mastered over their life energies like sadgurus sir and others gd ngt sir
Sadhguru 🙏you changed my perception about life..thank you so much for bringing enlightenment in this life
I agree. We have to ask ourselves why we do anything.
Sadguru 🌹जब आप के अंदर लचीलापन होता है तो आप जीवन को सुनने के लिए तैयार होते हैं
Everything we do clings to us like a million threads of spider web, it doesn't matter what it is, it will cling, it will bind and it will become.
🙏🏻wow O’m stunned! What darkness slipped in the back door as a friendly choice. It’s a black hole and gives u one of your own.🙏🏻
7:10 sexual supernova... sounds like a great name for a band xD
🤣🤣
😂😂
I bow down to u.
Namaste
ArkansasGamer
True .
Just say namaste ...it's meaning is same
Human is an Intelligent species. They have the quality of understanding things and does not live on memory alone !
Koti Namaskaram Sadhguru!
17 set 2018 from Italy ~
Controversial issue made so easy and factual to understand...!!!👏👏👏👏
7:13
I come here for this line!
thank god, finally an answer i can believe on, so many people gave their opinions about this but all were baseless.
the explanation sadhguru gave seems to have weight to it.
Om namha Shiva
Jai Shree Sadhguru
You are awesome
You rock
I wonder, after listening to this man speak on this subject, if my panic attacks aren't the result of picking up way too many memories from what I've contacted.
Woo man! Could be a possibility..
A person like sadhguru occurs in ages..
Wonderfully explained
He is iconic.
Beautiful!!! ❤️
The girl asked question is good as well 😀
Amazing that we have got a wise man
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 namaskaram Sadhguru
🙏
I beseech each one of you to spread the wisdom, flowing through Sadhguru.
We can do simple things like
Increasing Twitter Followings by Requesting our dear ones.
🙏
Long live Sadguru in our hearts minds and bodies
ನಮಸ್ಕಾರ ಸದ್ಗುರು 🙏😎
You have explained this topic in beautiful way!
Thanku so much!!! I was looking for this question as well :)
satish kumar that body remembers!! And makes us more complex person...So keep it simple. Don’t go with flow..choose consciously, decide sensibly!We just say that these relationships are casual but internally it makes memory then create it with Only one person:)
Don't connect ur positive energies into negative energies, it will only work for a time, but can't sustain!😊
A complicated question very nicely answered by sadhguruji....
Sadhguru is the Best 💝💝
He is a very great man.
Wat an answer 😇...Simply adorable🙏
🙏🏻Ha. I’m glad I’m fine with the depth and richness from being all in. And glad I didn’t fill my head n living with this vacant question. Your heads or tails🙏🏻
Excellent answer
Thanks for uploading! Sadhguru - RESPECTS!
Thank you Sadhguru for talking about Runanu bantha
Amazing.. He is a living legend.
Always namaskaram🙏🙏
I thik sadguru should talk on this topic more on how to excessively increase mind memory. ❤.
So very true.
"None of her children resembles him"...Does not this means she is cheating not he?
That was the joke
Brilliant explanation!!🙏🕉
Real reason behind why pal mostly in foreign countries have more crime and suicidal ratio's than in India.
YOUTH = Gioventu' => Gioventu' e Verita'
il commento italiano che non ti aspetti
Thank you Sadhguru🙏🏻❤️🤗
Enchantment