Sadhguru on body based relationships: Keep it as simple as possible!
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- -Physical relationships -is it healthy?
-Your body remembers.
-body is an enormous amount of memory
-What you carry in your brain as memory is minuscule,
what you carry in your body - there is evolutionary memory, genetic memory, karmic memory,articulate and inarticulate levels of memory,there is so much memory.
-body is a repository of tremendous amount of memory
-runanubandha
-When there is a sexual interaction, or intimacy which involves thought, emotion and body, the amount of memory that is left in your system is very big.
- keep the body’s memory as simple as possible.
-If you unconsciously pick up enormous amount of memory it’ll become very difficult to remain peaceful and joyful in your life.
-because there is confusing memories in the system.
-body-based relationships
-if you try to squeeze joy out of somebody, after some time, you find when it doesn’t yield the same results as it used to yield in the beginning, some bitterness will begin.
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He always sees situations perfectly. Then explains it like we are 6 year olds. “If you can not explain a subject to a 6 year old, you don’t know that subject well enough.” -Einstein. This man understands very well.
Humanity is like a 6 year old unfortunately. Look at all the problems that atise. That is how we behave.
Absolutely amazing
Very nice observation
I agree. 👍👍 he's amazing
He explains it like we're 6 years old because we lack mental maturity🙂
Its true.. people who are casual with their relationships are usualy confused and unhappy compared to a person who is single and gracefull.
but shane warne looks happy n joyful ... so i'm not entirely sure yet ...
It’s all a state of mind and your own beliefs. You can create your own rules and not abide by anyone’s script. Do what you feel is in alignment with yourself ❤️
I always thought of it as their unhappiness and confusion is why they have casual relationships not vice versa. That’s how it was with me
Yes agree
Very true, it all depends of the kind of energy each person has.
Words coming out from this gentleman making me change. And I'm fond of him listening.
"Its not about morality, it's about living sensibly"
This coming from a young man in today’s world is promising … God Bless
Muhammad... apologize not to hurt you...try replacing the word man in your comments with the word human or gentle man, I feel it will leave you with a sense of pride and happiness
Be careful
@@swaminathank2717 Thank you for the correction. Appreciated
Yes
This made me think about the one time I made out with someone who I later found out had tons of problems and was unfortunately in a really bad place mentally, and it’s no wonder that after we made out I felt like my life force was drained in a very unusual way!! My body felt exhausted!! My mind has been blown!!🤯 and I guess the same works to eating meat!! Whatever state the animals were in when they were killed leaves that memory in their meat and that’s what we later consume!! Wild!!
Well I think any animal was in fear and or rage . So perhaps that's why humans are always in fear and rage and war. However when a lion hunts an animal for food isn't it the same thing ? Perhaps one day the lion and the lambs will sit down together in peace like it says in the Bible?
Tue, but this energy dosen't stay forever. How the memory came in it goe out as well. Its not genetic memory but picked up memory which is done away with when we are in Sunlight or firewash. Water, Wind wash or mud bath.
@@recyclespinning9839 i think animals like lions mirror the predatory mind state that humanity has been in for as long as we remember. we all try to comsume each other, gain from each other, but sadly not like a win win situation.
Yeah, eat only vegetables and you will have tons of health problems. Humans are omnivores in reality. We do need meat even if they are trying to go against the full community of experts in medicine in the world. People can't change the food chain and its reasons to exist! Many people end up in tge hospital when they erase meat from thrir diets.
Whatever you do, do it out of love and never sleep with anyone who isn’t yoked with your own vibration! You truly exchange everything when intercourses take place! Even happiness, sadness and anger or joy! It all just depends! 🥰
This becomes especially terrible for a woman very in love with a man who decides he doesn't want her anymore. She becomes tormented all the time longing for him,It's a living nightmare of sorrow
I am in a living in relationship with my husband we love eachother very much but couldn't get married due to family problem. Now he's married to his parents choice but he is not happy with his wife as he used to remember me during their intimate moments. Actually i don't know that he's married, he kept it a secret from both of us later on his wife found out about our relationship ran away from home and now she is asking for divorce. I don't want to spoil their marriage life. Now she is blaming me for spoiling her life, feeling insecure that i might come back into his life.
But he still wants to continue our relationship also. He is telling me that he regretmarrying her.
Before his wife knew the truth about us also every time they used to fight at home and this is the third time that she had asked for divorce, he is not happy whenever they get intimate (he told me all these when she left him)
I don't know what to do now. And I don't believe that I should be blamed for this problem. Of course I am wrong because he hide the truth from me. I think both of them they have to make effort to shape their relation once again.
It hurt me more when he is unhappy.
Or what is your opinion? Please help me...
If I use a condom, it will be ok right?
If you pick the right people, energy transference is amazing! I’m an energy healer so I’m connecting with others deeply, regularly. My heart sings! If there’s too much not-good energy, there are techniques to clear that. Most of the time, if you keep your own energy high, only the good energy stays around.
@Amanda Joy S
How much time can you spens on healing someone with negative energy? How much time do you need to rest?
@@felisiasilvestris2364 it depends on what’s going on. Don’t be concerned that you have ‘too much to fix’, if that’s what is in your mind. We ALL are learning, growing, making mistakes etc everyday. Once you experience what being ‘clear, free and joyous’ feels like, it’s easier to catch yourself from going back into the bondage of negative thoughts. You realise ‘oh, I don’t have to feel like this’.
@@amandajoys6665 thanks for your reply. I really expected something like 2 hours healing and than 12 hours rest without this person.
Thats exactly how I felt... when sleeping around and also why I stopped doing that. Felt like shit.
I respect you for admitting that. Great Job
I felt the same way. I stopped sleeping around many years ago, if I mention this to a friend they make fun of me and think I'm pathetic and weird.
You tried vr sex better. No bad feelings lol
@@santbr same here. As I've gotten older I've also have realized that our body is our " temple" we must keep ourselves clean and exclusive for the our future 1. Imo. I Wish all whom reads this have the love of your life ❤ and live happily n healthy.many many years of bliss .
@@santbr But you would've said the same thing when you were still sexually active... Depends on the group of people. Most people I've told I'm practicing abstinence have actually said "wow, good for you, I'm happy for you". So here I am, San, saying: I'm happy for you. 🙂
Sex without love makes the flesh crawl..Love without sex leaves the heart yearning ♥
100 % truth
Meh
That last part I know is true. I don't understand the first part wrote
True.
In my almost 24yo almost sexless marriage, it's pretty difficult trying not to longing for lust, passion, romance, and deep physical intimacy.
Our problem is our "rhythm" and level of desire and needs; one seeks for too much, the other seeks barely nothing.
😪
I'm a little late to give my opinion, I think 😅. I understand your point of view, if you have those desires it's normal to feel that way. however, I tell you that we also exist asexual people, and we don't feel that longing in our hearts. it all depends on how you feel about relationships. Not having sex or not having a partner does not make the experience less valuable or make you sad, or anything like that.
I apologize for my possible spelling mistakes, English is not my first language.
This is my experience, I have lots of different friendships and they are wonderful. I am already joyous and bring that into all my relatings. I am not looking for what I can 'get' from friendships, I am just being and sharing in the present moment in joy.
That's great, I'm happy for you. Did you have a happy healthy childhood?
Ah..thats beautiful☺
I would like to be friends with you
Great
@@cultivatemagic6240 Michael Jackson :)
I would like to meet this man, so lucky as a westerner to stumble upon this guru and also this beautiful culture.
Keith Berns, hi from Baltimore Maryland USA. Yes sadhguru has infinite amounts of knowledge. I to am extremely lucky to have found him.i share these videos with family and children.
@@charlottewhite1277 I'm from rhode island hope your doing well, how call would it be do go to an ishram event!!!!!!!
@@bullsdeepdish6982 absolutely 🤗
as a "westerner" it may be of interest to learn of a very long standing, beautiful shared history.
somewhere around 12,000 years ago.
Even the two most complicated languages meet, mesh and carry on.
It's on the maths, its in the stars (lore) it's in the poetry.
Read a the old books, and ask and listen to our elders 😉
You already hace
As a survivor of sexual abuse it has taken many years to feel trust 💞💫
Sending warm healing vibrations💛💌
Take more healing sessions... It simply did wonders to me...
More Power to U
Glad you are doing better.🕊
So..I was talking to my teen about a lecture I had caught of his..when my daughter calls all the way from Florida to tell me about 'this one guy'..shes been watching on youtube the past few days..and how his words really inspired her.. yes it was Sadhguru🙏🏽
Thank you. You inspire many..
That's good! He isn't selling any agenda, cult or organization. I've found him to be the most level headed Indian teacher and believe me I have heard them all.
I have always viewed sex as giving away a part of my soul. I don’t want to give it to just anyone. I don’t even want people touching me at all.
Abuse of children leaves devastating effects
Truth....it makes sense now
So true ... make sense
Yes
I am one of them. It is torment for lack of a better word
@@oneofodin6269 I’m sorry. My heart is with you. Much healing and strength to you. 💚
The wonderful thing about life is that we get a new chance at reality every morning when we wake up. A ‘choice’ to continue to identify with the our old truth (which is us living in the past), or let go of it and make a new fresh identity (as in living in the present). This often can mean changing our environment and the people in it who constantly remind us because they are too living in the past. This is coming from one who was also abused as a child it was my ‘choice’ to no longer let this define me.
Side note: I had to move away from my family and old relationships for this to happen. Then with a new look on life was able to reintegrate some of these people into my life later, once I became centered, and they understood how to respect boundaries.
Do you have social media?
@@briannamclenan5083 No. I try to limit and filter what type of information is able to reach me rather than be bombarded with beta. (beta = information that is typically not useful)
Hmm very true... The worst thing in a relationship is when a partner expects that his partner will perfectly fulfill his or her needs. That kind of a relationship becomes a turmoil for both. So the best thing you can do for your relationships is to became joyful so you do not need anyone and anything for happiness. You are happy in yourself and not trying to extract happiness from others like a vampire... That's not nice. Better to be alone than to be with a vampire who have a lot of expectations from you...
Oh no not turmoil for both. One feeds/gets fed and feels the relationship to be a source of joy and the other gives their personal power away (so no victims here!) and feels the relationship is a source of stress and frustration. The trick is the gaslight that the stress and frustration are the fault of the one giving their power away. In a way, it is. It's when the pressure is up and the giver/feeder really blames themselves and tries to give more and more (it is never enough) that the sh*t really hits the fan.
Watch Christina Lopes' video's on empaths and narcissist, she explains perfectly how it works. People think it is psychological, and when dealing with full blown NPD that part is not to be discounted, but in reality it is an interaction of energy. So an empath can actively activate narcissistic tendencies by giving their power away. It is too easy to point to 'vampires' only. It involves both people equally.
Absolutely! This is the point! The best you can ever give to your partner is to be a joyful human being.
You cannot give joy if you don't have it.
Joy must not be extracted from the other partner whichever way you look at it.
Both must share each other's joy.
He makes tons of sense....being 'joyful' is the key to life but being happy in your life, is very important I say. You are in control of your own life, your own destiny, your own decisions/choices and your rleationships....its all up to you how you live your own life.
Sort off we think we think we have this 100% control 😂😂😂😂😂we just think.... We make plans and God laughs about it.
@@astrostar7018 thats why spirituality comes in. to find out what is God or who is God and who am i.
Cleansing from all my encounters and it's been a ride. Emotionally, also.
In short, having multiple sex partners is bad for our own peace
I didn't hear him say that! I think he said it's all in our head and not who or how many you sleep with. To get what you think you need, you have to keep sleeping with someone to get it if that's the way you think!
Exactly ☺️
@@peggymicsky8607 But he clearly said its destructive for your own well being.
Sex is more than we know be careful
In my culture, we can marry up to 4.
That's if the Male can make the sufficient income to run 4 households and have each wife equally cared for.
Not many men can do that.
Now I am seeking a 2nd Wife myself, and here by mid next year will be making the income to do that, and care for each equally.
My motive is not sexual, though, of course there will be that, but as it is now, I am not that sexual, or at least do not express it.
The motive is, that both wives are cared for completely, and that i can have child/children of my own biology and seed, which my Wife cannot have due to an operation before we met, and married, 7 years ago.
And a whore will not suffice.
They must both be very virtuous, and have guarded their selves.
Be Exuberant...Don't have need-based relationship...If u r a natural overflow of joy...U can be happy with every kind of ppl...U can hold a joyful relationship with anyone ! 😇
Madhra AL o
Madhra AL
@@williamlouie569
Yes, I do 👍
I would not say anyone..
So true . I experienced recently the stuff you .
This is true..that is why relationships are karmic contracts. Be very careful on whose psyche you mingle with.
Funny thing...I've listened to this talk before, but how I missed it's profundity is unreal. Noowwww I get it🙏
This explains the detriment to an abused child that they always will have to deal with in their life.
That was my first thought. Even for those abused psychologically it effects the body.
Same thing i was thinking..how touch can be detrimental or uplifting!
I think im touch adverse because of neglect in childhood
The wonderful thing about life is that we get a new chance at reality every morning when we wake up. A ‘choice’ to continue to identify with the our old truth (which is us living in the past), or let go of it and make a new fresh identity (as in living in the present). This often can mean changing our environment and the people in it who constantly remind us because they are too living in the past. This is coming from one who was also abused as a child it was my ‘choice’ to no longer let this define me.
Side note: I had to move away from my family and old relationships for this to happen. Then with a new look on life was able to reintegrate some of these people into my life later, once I became centered, and they understood how to respect boundaries.
@@jareddahlseid551
Thank you for your comment Jared.
Now 61 and still dealing with issues of Childhood trauma and shame.
Very debilitating...
Apart from cutting off from negative relationships, do you have any other tips and any treatments or counselling that was helpful to you?
Thank you
@@kqueenkqueen1290 I am a huge advocate for the use of entheogens as tools for the discovery of mind and healing of body. Do some research on plant medicines, both in controlled therapy and self-microdosing, and see if this is something that calls to you to pursue. And remember that peace is always just a thought away!
My notes:
The body preserves memory of each interaction, so if you have a sexual relationship with one person the body may raise similar responses to similar people. This may cause confusion, because you may not be seeking a sexual relationship with that person. This confusion may also be carried in genetic memory, so that your descendants will be more likely to repeat these same interactions. Now that certain dharmas (ie obligations of identity / chosen life paths) may flourish in such conditions. For example, if sexual expression has been repressed beyond a comfortable point, it might make sense that a person would want to spread a healthy sexual expression to a larger extent.
It should also be noted that sexual relationships are only a subset of all potential relationships (ie people can be friends for lots of reasons and do not necessarily need to sex). Also many sexual relationships arise from physical compulsions (ie being horny) and thus risk accumulating unintended karma (such as the aforementioned confusion in your descendants, or otherwise having to deal with the consequences like trying to keep the relationship secret).
For these reasons it is usually best to keep one's sexual life as simple as possible by following a good sexual diet, just as one follows a good food diet - ie one followed with intention and a desire for greater awareness. This probably means monogamy for most people - though not necessarily for all people.
Good elaboration
Thanks for writing this clearly.
Good response.
It can also be noted that a DNA imprint of every sexual partner a woman has ever had is stored in her memory.
Thereby affecting future generations.
Chastity is important.
@@mattfourfour4all856 - hmmm 🤔 Do you mean men AND women. As written, it sounds very misogynistic.
@@mdee860
If you have to ask
You dont deserve an answer.
It was right time for me to hear this message. I am grateful.
Yes 🙌
My goodness he’s so on Queue, makes so much sense on how he gives a very simplistic understanding.
If you close a door, another will open by itself. And this one can bear the greatest long lasting joy if you try to look at it with your inner eyes. This flow will never stop again.
Great explaination. Just the touch of the hand can create evolution in another person.
1 handdruk, blik, kan een evolutie in je leven teweegbrengen. Meestal blijft dit echter onbeantwoord omdat men al relaties heeft. We gaan het niet moeilijk maken, zoiets.
Het is me een aantal keer overkomen bij korte ontmoetingen of zelfs bij het passeren van die persoon. En dan ben je weg, je denkt en voelt iets, maar je weet niet wat dat is, een aantrekkingskracht. Je voelt dat die andere dat ook heeft. Een mooi moment. Ik denk dat bijna iedereen dat wel eens heeft.
Gnanadeep it means be very selective about who you touch or allow to touch you. If someone who can help you evolve touches you, great, if someone who would devolve you touches you, not good.
Mrs. Kathleen Antuna touch by the right person filled with the Love of God can also heal!
When a man and woman have sex, there are energetic cords that form between them, connecting their chakras, it takes an experienced healer to pull them out by the roots.
I'm going through this process now.
It why we miss an ex, long for them, even though they could be wildly inappropriate for us, or cheated on us. There's so much to this, great video here, thanks for posting it!!
“...be an overflowing expression of joy...”
All I heard was facts 👏🏼, I personally have never understood casual relationships/hookups .
Most people-especially when young-have a strong healthy libido and an irresistible urge to seek sexual fulfillment as a result.
@@darrylschultz6479 yeah I don't see anything wrong with it as long as you're safe
I don't understand them either.
This is a wonderful explanation Sad guru.......I want tell every people that please dont follow the western culture......to me they are very depressed.....listen to their songs full of sadness.......look at their marriage relationship full of divorce.....I feel their life style as a acting in society.......Whenever i see a hollywood movie that whole day of mine will be gone....but when i see good movies of south India(iam from kerala) or a good korean drama.......My heart is filled with joy....for the past 3 years i almost quit hollywood movies........Westculture(mainly american) is not good for us and it is not our culture..... LONG LIVE INDIA
God have send sadhguru to make world much good
Find peace and happiness inside yourself, not from other people. Otherwise, you become needy and relationships begin to fall apart.
It is not possible to find that anywhere else but inside yourself. If you try to you will always be disappointed and never fullfilled.
You should choose the kinda memory you want in your system. The way the person has lived their entire life must be known before even kissing or doing something more intimate. I've always had this inner knowing that it's wrong to even think about someone while touching yourself down there unless there is mutual love n respect. It's tried n tested. Even masturbating to someone's thoughts lets you download some energy from that person via ether n cords you to their chakras n hence their experiences n emotions n demons n entities. Most people don't realize the subtle ways energy works.. Controlling your sexuality for your true love is so very important if you don't want a complicated life. Because this shit is sacred n serious n deep n soulful.
GirlsLikeFairies how to recover from past memories in ur system
How can one disengage from this. Am so stuffed. I am experiencing the side effects of this
I am responsible for my acts, my thoughts. . So by practice I can bring into that place where I wanted to be always
thank you
Jhenghis khan impregnated thousands of women i dont see him getting any problem ..Infact he is one of the most revered ruler of all time
Fantastic, much needed, words of wisdom, in a world that is overly focused on the material and physical.
What a simple way of explaining life
Imagine being amassage therapist. I touch many people everyday. It has such an impact on me.
Yes, you come in contact with their energy field and usually people who are looking for a massage are stressed at least. There is always a energy exchange. So be careful to don't be burn out and if you can move in a no touch massage like stone massage. I used to be a massage therapist, I only do it to family and friends from time to time but it's not my main job anymore.
Whitehorse
Exactly. As empath it is tough. I even had to stop on most family and peers, because their energy was too toxic for my body to handle.
Until one learns the proper I’ll call “rate of exchange”, and how properly utilize one’s “release valve”, it is best to steer clear.
If one cannot, as with the professional in pain and turmoil (OP), that one *must learn to properly cut” (i.e. “cord-cutting”).
Healing, Wellness, Serenity.💎
♾☯️🧠⚖️💜☮️♾
U should smudge urself often.
Yes! I'm a massage therapist and about to qualify as an acupuncturist. This new tool will allow a less touchy work!
I had the same experience as a massage therapist. Draining. Couldn't do it, had to move on to new career
I've never come across anyone who explains complex things so simply and profoundly
Expression of joy > Extraction of joy
Sharing your overflowing joy rather than extracting joy from others in relationships.
Relationship will not be a “need” based if we are expressing our joy.
No.longer want to have any sexual interaction.i no longer want to have desires.having desires is bringing me so much unhappiness
True.. but as long as you say do not want, there is a want in it.. a hidden desire in even not wanting something. You cannot get rid of emotions like you can get rid of objects. Suppression of emotions is a crime.. even if you do it to yourself.. if you are able to get over it naturally then it will work for you. Eg. if you feel like eating and you don't eat and say that you are fasting, you will not be able to sleep, you will not be able to work, you will subconsciously keep thinking about food because you haven't eaten. Everywhere you will see food. Even if you are offered something you usually love to do the most you might get distracted for some time but you will come back to the thought of food. That doesn't help. Suppression is no solution.
How would have been my life with friends of his quality? I'm tired of hanging out with random guys without any grasp of the real importance of Life. This world is fucked up.
This world is not fucked up. The version of the world you choose to see is fucked up. If you want good quality friends, you need to embody what you want in them. Stop complaining and not appreciating the ones you have because the law of attraction will give you exactly that. Start thinking about how amazing it would feel to have friends of his kind and feel worthy of them, if you do not do this, nothing will change and your world will still be fucked up.
Go and do activities that facilitate this kind of positive thinking ie - gym,temples,yoga,jiujitsu,etc
@@esmeralda8305 We all know that the world is severely fucked up and its a shame... Especially in these times of pandemic. People have already lost their minds and live in zombie-survival mode, some are reacting violently to the slightest provocation. I hope that one day the light would open the minds of those who have closed them to avoid pain, avoid making a fool of themselves, etc.
@@albertomassari77 ok
@@esmeralda8305 I want people like you in my life. I hope I can adopt this energy that you share.
not about morality but living sensibly ( yes thx love it 🥰
the tarot witch GC morality is also good
so many people unfortunately live this life and maybe that's why there is such a lack of peace in the world and within people as well or lack of true love in relationships. Does Sadhguru speak of how these memories can also be cleansed? So many people both men and women have been married before and carry those memories into the next relationship. So many young people were never taught about the value of their body. It would be important for him to teach how to cleanse these memories as well.
प्रणाम सदगुरु। Now I'm wiser than yesterday.🤗
🙂
Best thing is to manage yourself in such a way that you are a natural, exuberant, joyful bering.
I love memories stored in the body though. Going hiking, running, diving...these are all memories related to the body and they’re the most vivid and enjoyable to call upon. He did say it’s not a moral issue it’s just a personal choice lol
It's for this reason, I believe, is the famous saying that illusion is sweeter than reality.Sadgurus explanation is wonderful and clear on its concept.
If we eliminate need based relation ships we will find natural over flow of joy ...then we will have a fabulous relationships with every kind of people...
Nice quotes
Yess
I am 22 tho I know we all have the impulsion sometimes... I swore that I would only have sex with my future husband! It’s not easy since some of men I liked could not stand that so left!
But what’s bothering?
Once you experience the ultimate happiness in LOVE, lust is just something bland.
Your grandfather's nose sitting on you is the evergreen dialogue of Sadguru.
What does is mean ? How do you get the memory of your grandmother's nose or ancestor's skin colour ? What does that have to do with memory ?
@@Sujeetpatharkar It definitely does
How ?
@@Sujeetpatharkar memories can passed down through DNA
Hahaha.. is there any research to back this theory ? Not just in modern science, but ever before ?
What are we going to do without Him? Pls don't leave us alone Sadhguru
Beautiful! Such truth to behold and understand. Wish I would have known this thirty years ago.
My body has great memories with food! Since I moved to other country for living, I want same kind of food I used to eat in my home country so badly lol
I have always believed deep down inside that everything we have ever followed has a scientific reason behind it. Thanks to this explanation I understand, and people who thought untouchability was a crime. It's been science of memory. We humans are more complex than I ever thought we were.
If you do it with awareness a single time could be enough for a lifetime but without awareness you won't be satisfied with hundreds of partners.
And the joke he cracked in the beginning, it's Osho's.
a single time could never be enough actually!
however, a single person could be enough for a lifetime!
also I never heard that from osho, but osho's discourses are great! (and sadguru's)
@@LK56835 well said
@@LK56835 He said when AWARE a single time could be enough for a lifetime . When aware you do not need anything . You say" a single time would never be enough actually " that is the unawareness in you . Wake up . Shared with love brothers and sisters
@@karashkarash5922 When Is say "a single time would never be enough actually"... what I mean is in a single time you can bring awareness for that single time... but you can go about being aware continuously through such repeated acts with your spouse.... but you perhaps were unaware of what I was saying. Peace. love. sex.
Yep it’s common stories amongst spiritual gurus
That's the reason, I believe in emotional attachment more, then physical luv/sex.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Same herw
Same here🙏
@@shruti1339 👍Good morning. 😊
@Shivaji Bhosle Thank-U.🙏
Physical love/sex serves to enhance the emotional attachment(correction- connection), so not something to be seen as separate or inferior..
what he said about memory is true. our culture has visualized this and very cleanly passed the etiquettes to us...what we need to do is to follow them properly...this will help to shun from memories. physical touches promote memory is very true.
A relationship is either whole or it is not and only minds can join. Bodies cannot join. For minds to join, the agreement to be whole must be made.
It’s not a question of morality it’s a question of living sensibly👏🙌
ABSOLUTE TRUTH, I wish every persons who are desiring for frequent sexual relationship should see or hear this wonderful answer from sadhguru and i also thank the person who raised this question, God Bless Sadhguru ^^^
Also I heard from spiritual people saying that 'The Tulasi water given in temples is to reduce our longing towards worldly things'
@Steve A did you listen to the explanation? Perhaps you are not so sensitive to anothers energy.
@Steve A best wishes then
Steve A
That kind of life seems like a waste to me. I’ve had multiple women but. not 300. Your body must be “hungry” all the time at this point.
@Steve A at the time of death you will surely regret when you will find no close ones beside you... Life is not about getting only physical needs..we need emotional company too and None of those 300 women would come..
@@dibya8319 forget about death he is feeling it right now that's why he deleted his comment 😄
Sadhguru is a Divine Spiritual leader born to be this way. Emence intelligence Divinely guided No words can express the greatness of this Supreme Being.
🙏 Namaste 🦋
Inner curiosity, This man has changed my life and many more people like me. Ur negative opinion and comments mean nothing to people who have been touched by his wisdom. Don't knock it til u try it. He is teaching us about our bodies and the power we hold. What is there not to trust? If u mean he is in it for money.....so he is making India better with the money he makes. Ok. Again, what is there not to trust?
Well said
I'm a Christian and I believe this wholeheartedly, and have been taught in church that our bodies have been designed to accept one partner and the concept of body memory is correct.
For instance, cervical cancer etc...usually predominantly occurs in those who have had more than one partner.. Our bodies do not readily accept body fluids from another, whether it be blood, semen etc.. Can you imagine the confusion and turmoil going on in the body with the DNA imprint of several others inside?
I love when spiritual principles overlap!! Truly it’s all one 🙏🏽
@@marleeshore1387 Even better news. This isn't about morality but common sense and being conscious! You can test yourself: just by staying alert and conscious even shaking hands with someone starts to feel awkward let alone have sex.
I like his deep voice, he resonate wisdom and peace
Simple explanation about physical relationship. Thank you Sadhguru. Pranam.
Many Thanks to the Questionnaire.
Nice and truth are being speak. Thank you for the teaching. It's ease me. Whenever I listen. 👍🙏
So clear. So important. Life Transforming and freeing! Thank you for this! Divine Blessings and Gratitude. "Keep it simple." 😍🥰💖🙌🏻
This came to me during the PERFECT time
I very much agree on the suggestion or truth he says that eat only one type of meal a day. I had a lot of anxiety before writing my exam. I used to eat a lot of curd rice, so buttermilk with rice and less salt, helped me control anxiety the day I used to write exams.
Sadhguru reminds me of a light hearted Confucius, I delight in his deeply meaningful yet perfectly illustrated human philosophy. In this world of misinformation he is a delight although with a hint of mystery.
This is so true 💙 i wished I have known this earlier in my life 🙏🏻
I am this king of person. I am always feels joy somehow. I don’t expect from anyone.
This lesson doesn't come in an easy way.☝️😄
The facts you shared were so real that even I have started realising it on a daily basis and I have started a observing things a lot...
Perfectly said, Thank you Sadhguru for your presence 🌹🙏🌹
Intimacy or (into-me-i-see)
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Simultaneously: In ti (latin for "you") I am, see/ See that I am in you!
The intertwined observer/observed
Wow
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@@josheoXD yes sir 😁
I have PTSD now. And not from multiple ppl. But from the assholes I was with that left me in trauma. Now I don’t want to be with anyone and when I do I go into trauma mode and ruin the whole thing. Now I just want to avoid completely. Pretty sad since all I ever wanted was love.
What are you doing to heal it? I hope you can move thru the Trauma and find love.
I belive you will heal...i am on that eay too
All human experience comes from within. If you take charge of your body, mind and emotions then you will always be happy
@@kkb2687 Life is 10% what happens and 90% how you react to it. Plus it's better to respond instead of react.
This however does not mean people can't be victimized. Children can't escape and as an adult reenactment compulsion can unconsciously play a big part where the adult thinks they have chosen their partner carefully only to later discover they were in a hot mess to begin with, they just could not see/were unaware. If you were raised in a dysfunctional entanglement trauma bond kind of marriage how in the world would you recognize what a healthy partner healthy relationship looks like? And if you do, have the proper skills to manage one? Since no one showed you.
What is familiar feels safe and safety is a big one for people.
Happy people have happy relationships so IMO it would be wise to not get into one until wounds from childhood are healed.
Animals can be great healers and teachers. I wish you the best of luck with healing your wounded trust and reclaiming your personal power so you can trust yourself to always have your own best interest at heart first and foremost.
Me pasa algo muy extraño. Cuando veo a una persona , siento toda la información de ella. Además siento que me llega información de todos lados pero en calidad de un sentimiento.
Sé de lo que hablas
Such simple explanation to such complex questions....yet we all came here to experience and grow our souls
The harder the experience, the greater the learning.......🎈
I've always thought that the more memories the wiser you get... can't understand why would it be a bad thing, as memories give you knowledge, and knowledge makes creativity flow
If you simply accumulate memories then it will definitely harm you. But if you process memories deep enough then it will transform you totally & permanently & irreversibly. Every experience whether good, bad or ugly must be used as raw material for yr learning !
@@dharmashekhar1047 interesting thoughts! but why would the memories harm you? is it because it wouid be too much information around your brain?
@@macroscopes
Please use google to research the theme of brain stilling vs brain storming. Brainstorming is a western approach to creativity. In post covid world, the effectiveness of this approach is doubtful. To achieve flow, one must be able to contextualise our memories (individual parts). Connecting these parts,to formulate new creative permutations & combinations comes,later.
Instead of having superficial surface sexual relationships with 100 females/males , focus on big data , focus on establishing an evolving sexual relationship with 1 female/male. Sex is union of 2 bodies, then 2 minds & finally spirits. A single lifetime may not be enough to reach these,levels. But maintain the right direction.
@@dharmashekhar1047 ahh sorry I thought you meant memories in general, not only sexual intercourses. But what about touching people as a way to express affection or support (not sexually related), would that be considered harmful to the body?
Awesome, meaningfully articulated. Many married life is left with sour taste for the reason that people understand the meaning of married life when they grow older. Larger crowd thinks that getting wedded is to enjoy personal intimate relationship, rather than giving a thought life is beyond that, and only each individual can make it meaningfully. Choice' is their's
Sadhguru is the man.
Understanding is always knowing ENERGIES 🌅
Misunderstanding of self is Chaotic energies
How do you cleanse yourself after being in a relationship with someone who slept with several people while you yourself remained monogamous? I can feel all their trauma.
Thats a wonderful question i hope someone can answer. There is someone on TH-cam named RC Blakes he talks about soul ties and the danger of it
@@heymisswest thank you for referring me to RC. I have only been able to find meditations, frequencies and affirmations to help with the healing process since the comment. However, I have also read there maybe reiki healing available. I will keep researching and share :)
First of all understand INNOCENCE, this is something that adults should not get rid of. The western world has confused the word innocence. Innocence during intimacy is important because it gives us the ability to respond to goodness! Most people who lost Innoncence, how can they feel and experience goodness? All of this "hyper-sex" culture is all hatred. Promiscous people are people who carry alot of hatred. In marriage we dont have sex out of lust or because we are going to see each other private parts we do it because goodness counts and it is so much different than the sex people are used to seeing. Promiscuity means hatred, disregard for the other person, a prrson who cannot respond to goodness, a petson who does not have the ability to maintain a relationship. Remember in order for the physicsl world to exist there has to be pleasure, and for pleasure to exist there has to be creation. Marital act or sex gives us the ability to maintain the earth alive promiscuity does not.
Say these words alone out loud multiple times once your done wait 10 minutes with closed eyes. You will feel an angelic presence.
Ritual of Transformation:
ELL
ELL-GAH-LEE
EE-AH-EH-SEH-EE-AH
AH-NEE-YELL
AZZ-ARE-EE-AH-WHO
REH-HAW
@@gustavobarajas6155 thank you. This is eye opening to say the least. It helps to let go of a one-sided relationship. One who poves and one who hates. I would like references if possible to literature woth this knowledge.
Yes how
This is so powerful and makes a lot of sense 💞💞💞 thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
10:41 be joyful yourself ... then your relationship is about expression if joy not extraction of joy; not stepping on each others toes ... thank God I saw Sadhguru seriously now otherwise mind unnecessary thoughts were coming against him
11:05 which is what sexual activity actually is
As a result of which love relationships which start with such a activity don't last longer.
few questions-
1. the body remembers body replication and colour /shape also changes , because of union of two different ppl . when body can hv memory , why minds cant hv ?? though not limited to boundaries ... like body has fixed boundary giving it fixed shape .
2. casual sex does not hv " guilt " factor in west and in most of men , all over world . only when there is guilt factor of any kind and % , it becomes burden for indidual to carry throughout life but also helps in various ways to uplift that individual's capability to differentiate quality of ppl .
3. i hv seen many ppl who kept their bodies clean in god's path or due to religion , their minds hv become venomous . is it because of too much suppression of basic natural body needs ?? that too for generations together ???
in such cases the bodies are more or less perfect , how come their minds hv picked up so much of resentment ?? is it guilt factor or hatred for such a waste of life . ??
4. no relationships can ever occur which are not need based . even friendships . ppl do look for freedom , coziness , comfort , company , or exchange of knowledge /views , to expand their understanding of life . correct me plz if i m wrong .
It's hard to answer these questions when you seem to answer some of them yourself... are you really curious to know the truth? If so you might consider dropping your assumptions, I see you have a lot here, especially #4, why don't you have a nice long hard think about that one and see for yourself if it's really true
HonestInquiry thanks for reply . i did not mean to hurt anyone by saying that all relationships are need based . even ppl who help others without any expectation , they satisfy the excess kindness /concern / knowledge to flow to needy . this particular idea depends on my understanding of different kinds of moksha . we naturally give what we hv extra .. with good education /experience .. we learn to give it to needy .
the ppl who dont know how to distribute energies .. find it easy to generate only goodness and volunteeer help . i guess the real beauty must be knowing the art of distributing all types of emotions to respective deserving recipients .
regards .
Thanks.. And true on number 3. Its does make people venomous esp the religious ones. And very judgemental too.
Hi Rajni! Great rebuttal! Loved it! I like it when people question propagated thought, or a thought that’s the product of someone else’s mind.
I agree with you, that excessive deprivation and unrealistic standards lead to more mental and social dysfunction.
However I think the point he is simply trying to make is that, to be content, one needs to know little and want little :). A variety of experiences from the past can hinder with you truly focusing on the relationship that you have at hand. Just because one’s mind and body have been there in a different way in the past.
@Rajni Rao
I can say one thing that is in Bhagvad Gita - Desires / needs are the starting point of all the attachment"
I can surely say that the necessity that "the Baghvad Gita writer has felt to write this( Desires / needs are the starting point of all the attachment") can hold an answer to the point #4 you mentioned
I say this with all due respect......LIFE IS TO BE LIVED, TO BE ALIVE!! IS TO BREATHE, AND SAVOUR ALL THAT IS """GOOD""" THAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER.......THE MORE WE REMEMBER THE RICHER THE LIFE LIVED..........
Thank you for the wisdom and insight .
never liked shaking hands. Wonderful talk.
Sathguru teaching these young people the need for Spirituality in their lives by just taking to them like their friend.
Interesting.
Bhakti Tirtha Swami told his disciples that if they must touch the material nature, touch it VERY lightly.
Wonderful message.And I don't want to share my views in these comments section and waste my time and yours as well. I just don't have to prove myself that my views are better than others. Thank you
Nice response. Truth🌸
Lol
Each and every word with deep meanings......so peaceful speeches🙏🙏
Hi,can we become friends
"when it doesn't yield the same results as it used to yield in the beginning, some bitterness will begin"...this is the law of diminishing marginal utility,LOL....though great insight
I was bad I Economics but that, I got it.
Amen Brother...that message alone can bring World Peace
I love me, casual isn't my thing