Dealing with overwhelm (busy mom of 4)

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  • @catharinabra
    @catharinabra หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    My favourite thing is to have a day to just ”putter around” at home, bake something, cook food, be in my garden. When I have the puttering around mindset I find I’m very relaxed but get a lot done, but completely stress free.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ah yes!!! I agree with this 1000x

  • @LauraLittlejohn-c4l
    @LauraLittlejohn-c4l หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you! This really encouraged and challenged me. I’ve found myself in a place of overwhelm. As you were talking it reminded me of Jesus’ words “Come to me all who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest.” ❤

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      One of my favorite verses of all time. Praise God for his rest!

  • @queenlu14
    @queenlu14 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is one of my favorite videos you have ever done. 💕 I too get very overwhelmed when I rush. Sometimes I can feel a sense of comparison or even envy watching how much other homemakers accomplish, so this was such an encouraging message.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so glad to hear that. Social media can be tricky as we want to uplift & inspire but it's so important to remember we're all I the same boat :)

  • @staciemurray514
    @staciemurray514 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You are such a solid, calming best friend to have in internet land😉💛

    • @orsiszlatkovszky4919
      @orsiszlatkovszky4919 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel the same about her ❤

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aw thank you Stacie!! I really wish we could all sit down and have coffee together, truly

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love you Orsi!! xx

    • @orsiszlatkovszky4919
      @orsiszlatkovszky4919 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@BeccaBristow that would be so amazing!❤

  • @snowcm135
    @snowcm135 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the scenes where you are working with your children. It's clear they are fully participating in the activities.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes love bringing them into the kitchen with me even if it takes 5x longer lol! So worth it

  • @livetochannel
    @livetochannel หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve been a follower since early Becca days in dietitian school! I’ve seen you live through so many seasons and this is by far my favorite. You have become so wise and generous with the way you give to yourself, family, and us. Your message made me tear up! I do believe it may be time to reevaluate my priorities and systems. Thank you Becca! ❤

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      And now I'm tearing up! Thank you so so much for being here all this time & growing along with me!

  • @brittly2292
    @brittly2292 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this video, Becca. I so often feel overwhelmed with all my responsibilities but as you've touched on before, being organized and doing the little things every time they come up helps so much. I've recently started a binder with tasks for each day like you suggested and it's helping so much!! When my house isn't in chaos I am a much happier Mom and Wife.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am sooo happy to hear this!! So glad the binder is helping you!

  • @henrysmama2874
    @henrysmama2874 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video brought me to tears a bit. Even though I stay home with my young kids, I feel constantly overwhelmed with the need to stay busy and have a perfect house. This video inspired me to make changes.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This just made my whole day. I feel you mama - we can only do so much! Sending you my love

  • @Mamalyssaa
    @Mamalyssaa หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ugh yes, I’m constantly in a rushing state and cannot turn it off. Appreciate this ❤❤❤❤

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's so hard!!

  • @SarahNottonson
    @SarahNottonson หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely loved this video Becca! ❤

  • @jennifermock3292
    @jennifermock3292 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this video. God’s timing is everything and I needed to hear this today. 😊

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm go glad you found it helpful!

  • @StrawberryFields-1
    @StrawberryFields-1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This spoke to my heart this morning Becca, thank you.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad to hear it

  • @DutchHillHomestead
    @DutchHillHomestead หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so good. It really resonated with me. As do most of your videos. But I love how short and sweet this was. Thank you so much for the gentle reminders.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad to hear it resonated! Thank you so much!

  • @justinea420
    @justinea420 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks Becca, I needed to hear this today 💞

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad it resonated

  • @ModernElegance-EJ
    @ModernElegance-EJ หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for being the light Becca and thank you for the encouragement! ❤ I’m also a mom of 4, so I get it! You definitely have inspired me to buy a flour mill and bake my own bread at home. Thank you for the videos that you put out, they are very inspiring! God bless you even more! ❤

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ah thank you so much for the kind words!! Truly makes my day :)

  • @kinseyjohnson4341
    @kinseyjohnson4341 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I needed these reminders! Thank you 🙏🏼😊

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching! xx

  • @camliu888
    @camliu888 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have kids the same age group as you and would love to see how you handle homeschooling and keeping the toddlers busy while you take care of household chores.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      My oldest is in school actually! I am doing homeschool pre-K with my 3 year old, but it's mostly just doing life together and occasionally sitting down with a pre-k book (good and beautiful) so I feel like I can't really speak to that!! Truly amazed by the moms who balance all of that though!

  • @RebeccaJackson-u1e
    @RebeccaJackson-u1e 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wonderful video, thanks for sharing how u r feeling. You r a up lifting person and u put a smile on my face. Have a great day honey bunny ❤❤❤❤😍😍😍

  • @jenniferrivera7606
    @jenniferrivera7606 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video was so beautifully done. Thank you Becca!!

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw thank you Jennifer!

  • @shannonandrews2649
    @shannonandrews2649 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! thank you so much for this video today! Felt like you were speaking right to me ❤️

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad to hear it resonated!!

  • @christinat.7264
    @christinat.7264 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts ❤

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching!

  • @Jasminebkennedy
    @Jasminebkennedy หลายเดือนก่อน

    This spoke to me so much!! Thank you for sharing this

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad to hear it!

  • @kimberlycarr6801
    @kimberlycarr6801 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Bec!

  • @TessaMarzulla
    @TessaMarzulla หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was great, thank you. For books on this subject I highly recommend "The Plan" by Kendra Adachi and "How to Keep House While Drowning" by K.C. Davis.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ooh yay thank you I always love book recs!!

  • @FAMOFSIX
    @FAMOFSIX หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trying not to stress and rush … thanks for the video 😊

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching!!

  • @courtneymarie8728
    @courtneymarie8728 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I get the opposite impression from our society- I think being NOT busy is deemed negative… I really lean into a slower lifestyle & I feel very much alone in my choice 😂❤😇

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh no I agree I think there's generally so much pressure to keep up

  • @777sunshine7777
    @777sunshine7777 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Something for every busy and overwhelmed person to think about is that God rested after creation. He didn’t do this because he needed rest. He commands that we do it as well. He knew how busy we would be so he COMMANDS that we rest one full day/night a week. It is truly a blessing that has unfortunately been stolen from the average Christian.

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ah, such true words!! Thank you for this. Rest is so necessary!

  • @amandayeates185
    @amandayeates185 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Becca, thank you for sharing! Where did you order your water kefir grains from? Thanks!

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      cultures for health! I got the endless ones so they were ready to go right away :)

  • @jamielaura8840
    @jamielaura8840 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Get your hands on (or listen to) “The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry” by John Mark Comer!

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh adding to my amazon cart right now lol thank you!!

  • @Mama.mindfully
    @Mama.mindfully หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm honestly rushing my daughter around bc my little baby is very demanding and needs my attention all the time. I feel like there is nothing I can reevaluate to make simpler when I'm barely able to vacuum the floors, dishes and shower. I just started working out after birth and that's been tough to find the time.. but there is nothing I can cut out to make room for priorities. I have no time to make my husband work lunch the next day 😢

    • @lindseybast2888
      @lindseybast2888 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just try to keep in mind it's a season... it will pass. I'm pregnant with my 5th ad believe it or not with each baby it gets easier. You are dealing with 2 babies for the first time it is hard work.

    • @Mama.mindfully
      @Mama.mindfully หลายเดือนก่อน

      @lindseybast2888 Thank you for your kind words!! I tend to put to much on my plate I barely have time to read my books. I'm praying my husband can support me through motherhood more, it's so tough

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes I agree, learning to juggle 2 babies is a whole new ballgame! It's a tough season but take a deep breath mama you are doing a great job

  • @orsiszlatkovszky4919
    @orsiszlatkovszky4919 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @ThisGlowingMom
    @ThisGlowingMom หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Becca, would you be interested in hosting a live workshop together so we can teach more moms who are struggling to find balance in day to day life ?

    • @BeccaBristow
      @BeccaBristow  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What a cool idea!

    • @ThisGlowingMom
      @ThisGlowingMom หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ Can we collab?

  • @BarbR-d7w
    @BarbR-d7w 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    All her content is a rip off of “Farmhouse on Boone”, go check that one out, it’s the real deal.