What do they think we all do for work? Haven't they heard of job perks like pensions, vacations, paid sick leave, maternity or paternity leave, bereavement leave, personal leave, bonuses, company vehicles, expense accounts, health funds, health insurance, computer buying programs, scholarships, etc.? They only ever compare their "opportunity" to American entry-level customer service jobs.
I can't believe I've been following you, Julie Jo, and Erin Bies for ages now and never put together that you're the Eva they were talking about who edits their videos! XDD It wasn't until you mentioned that you edit videos at the start of this one that it finally clicked, hahaha. I love your chill energy, and you do a GREAT job with video editing!!
“I did a lot of internships for free” That tells me everything I need to know. She can pretend now that her life was sooo hard because her family wasn’t “wealthy” as compared to her college friends, because they always need a hard luck story to sell people on. But she clearly had and has family support and a safety net if she was able to do internships and not be paid. Most college students don’t have that luxury.
If a stranger sent me a voice note instead of a text, especially a lengthy one, that’s a good way to guarantee I won’t ever interact again. Especially leaving recommendations in a voice note rather than text so you have to go back and listen rather than being able to look and reference to make sure you found the right one
33:04 I don't want to make a blanket statement that it's bad all the time, but referring to women in your downline as "girls" is so infantilizing, so condescending, and so gross. Really shows how the higher-ups believe the people in their downline are just peons, pawns to be moved around and played to their own benefit.
I think it's more a term of endearment than condescension, but it's still problematic, in that it creates that 'girl's club' vibe of who's in and who's out, and so it's a funnel into cult-like thinking and BITE model programming.
I hate when women are constantly referred to as girls. No, I am not a girl or girlie. It’s incredibly infantilizing, even if meant as an endearing term it’s not, at least not for everyone.
As someone who experienced the struggles of breastfeeding-- I can't even imagine how difficult it must have been for her to try to do both at the same time. I mean thinking about it is genuinely depressing because breastfeeding successfully is so difficult for so many women and for so many reasons in the best of circumstances. Adding in extra layers of pressure and strain is awful. This one hurts my heart.
I'm so sorry this was hurtful and I'm sorry that you had struggles with breastfeeding :( and you are right, it's difficult for many women out there. thank you for sharing this
29:25 yep the cult is operating as designed. In times of intense pressure and hard times some leave but the ones who don't close ranks and cling tighter than ever. They become even more deeply embedded into their cult and block even more of the real world out. 😢
First, thank you for not posting a video about matching Christmas pajamas today. lol I have 4 PJ videos in my notifications in just a few hours. Keep up the great work
So she screams at her kids to get in bed as an example of her not always having it together… there’s still daylight outside behind her… then screaming kids proceed to interrupt her minutes later. The blatant and unnecessary lies to try to keep this charade going are just ridiculous.
If a hair care system was as ground breaking as Monat, it would be in dermatologist offices. Mlms are gross because the distributors are the customers and they have convince others to join. In the corporate world, employees don’t have to convince anyone to work for their company or give some weird testimonial how it’s changed their lives.
Another Monat leader wearing a hat during her presentation. Makes me wonder if the products aren't doing great things to her hair. If I was a rep for a company that sold hair care products, I'd want to show my hair so those on the call could see how awesome it makes my hair look. What are you hiding under that hat ma'am?
Did she really say she was breast feeding while on a call? I’m a guy but shouldn’t that be a great time to Not be on a call? Just be there with your baby lady!
Ideally, yes, but sometimes you're breastfeeding like 5-6 hours/day, so you definitely need to multitask some of the time, especially if you have additional children
Recognize that we can’t stop being adult humans just because we’re also moms! 3 kids, literally 10 years pregnant and/or nursing, didn’t stop being a person in those years.
Yes! A baby will seek momma’s eyes when feeding. I didn’t have a job outside of the home when I was a SAHM, so that was definitely a “be focused and present” moment every time. Women working from home, definitely get having to take calls while nursing. But did I ever feed while just chatting on the phone, no. I agree with you. ❤ They’re now 28 and 22, and I’m a grandma, and not one moment of that focused time is now a regret. I’d give anything to have them back as babies just for a day… 🥹
I have so much sympathy for people who get sucked into MLMs. I know that feeling of needing money and a support network. I get it. But the higher up you move, the harder to sympathize. At some point you have to realize that you're sitting on a house of cards build my people who are as desperate as you once were, people who you know for a mathematical fact are not going to get where you are ever. You crossed over from cult victim to cult leadership. You're officially on the dark side.
They are talking about themselves and not addressing the training perse. Give tips and actionable advice they can actually implement. She saying absolutely nothing of value thats going to help the downline sell Monat.
I am just thinking what I would think if someone messaged me and said oh I see you have dry hair. heres 2 options 1 is @150 and the other $250. my reply would be sorry these are things I discuss with my doctor/hairdresser/dermatologist not some random person I don't know. even if a friend quoted those prices I would look at them with raised eyebrows and say how much? Most people are struggling these days to pay bills and put food on the table. thats why they get conned with the "opportunity" not because they want to spend hundreds on products. They may join, lose money and are out that door quickly
So, she didn’t care enough about Sam to learn how to pronounce her name correctly but we’re supposed to care about what she has to say about how to run a “business”? Nah, I’m good.
G’day beautiful Eva, I hope you’re doing well and your fur babies are just loving on you with snuggles. Eva, just a quick one….I thank you for calling out your viewers as TROOPERS….However, I just want to remind you, that you too are a TROOPER!! Your video was grreat, and your look fantastic. I was already loving on what your head had on top, prior to you sharing about your bucket hat. I just LOVE it. I could see what appears to be a teddy bear? What do that words read please, I couldn’t see clearly. Dearest Eva, it was a great catch up this morning (Aussie time) You rock dearest Eva. THANK YOU
What do they think we all do for work? Haven't they heard of job perks like pensions, vacations, paid sick leave, maternity or paternity leave, bereavement leave, personal leave, bonuses, company vehicles, expense accounts, health funds, health insurance, computer buying programs, scholarships, etc.? They only ever compare their "opportunity" to American entry-level customer service jobs.
I can't believe I've been following you, Julie Jo, and Erin Bies for ages now and never put together that you're the Eva they were talking about who edits their videos! XDD It wasn't until you mentioned that you edit videos at the start of this one that it finally clicked, hahaha. I love your chill energy, and you do a GREAT job with video editing!!
hahaha I love that, I hear this often enough actually that it takes a while to click! 😆 thank you so much, I appreciate you being hereeee
“I did a lot of internships for free” That tells me everything I need to know. She can pretend now that her life was sooo hard because her family wasn’t “wealthy” as compared to her college friends, because they always need a hard luck story to sell people on. But she clearly had and has family support and a safety net if she was able to do internships and not be paid. Most college students don’t have that luxury.
If a stranger sent me a voice note instead of a text, especially a lengthy one, that’s a good way to guarantee I won’t ever interact again. Especially leaving recommendations in a voice note rather than text so you have to go back and listen rather than being able to look and reference to make sure you found the right one
Wow, she screamed at her kids so she can be on this mlm call!😡
yepp 🥴
When she describes her life- she sounds the opposite of “free.”
They hook you with the promise of flexibility and passive income then you find yourself breastfeeding during a call. No thank you.
33:04 I don't want to make a blanket statement that it's bad all the time, but referring to women in your downline as "girls" is so infantilizing, so condescending, and so gross. Really shows how the higher-ups believe the people in their downline are just peons, pawns to be moved around and played to their own benefit.
I think it's more a term of endearment than condescension, but it's still problematic, in that it creates that 'girl's club' vibe of who's in and who's out, and so it's a funnel into cult-like thinking and BITE model programming.
I hate when women are constantly referred to as girls. No, I am not a girl or girlie. It’s incredibly infantilizing, even if meant as an endearing term it’s not, at least not for everyone.
As someone who experienced the struggles of breastfeeding-- I can't even imagine how difficult it must have been for her to try to do both at the same time. I mean thinking about it is genuinely depressing because breastfeeding successfully is so difficult for so many women and for so many reasons in the best of circumstances. Adding in extra layers of pressure and strain is awful. This one hurts my heart.
I'm so sorry this was hurtful and I'm sorry that you had struggles with breastfeeding :( and you are right, it's difficult for many women out there. thank you for sharing this
29:25 yep the cult is operating as designed. In times of intense pressure and hard times some leave but the ones who don't close ranks and cling tighter than ever. They become even more deeply embedded into their cult and block even more of the real world out. 😢
it's really very sad :(
No hun if someone says “you have five minutes to check out” that is an automatic fuck no
First, thank you for not posting a video about matching Christmas pajamas today. lol I have 4 PJ videos in my notifications in just a few hours.
Keep up the great work
To summarize: The pajamas and the people selling them are of equal quality.
hahah you are welcome !
If there is a god, I don't think she cares about Monat!!!! 😅
So she screams at her kids to get in bed as an example of her not always having it together… there’s still daylight outside behind her… then screaming kids proceed to interrupt her minutes later.
The blatant and unnecessary lies to try to keep this charade going are just ridiculous.
If a hair care system was as ground breaking as Monat, it would be in dermatologist offices.
Mlms are gross because the distributors are the customers and they have convince others to join.
In the corporate world, employees don’t have to convince anyone to work for their company or give some weird testimonial how it’s changed their lives.
Another Monat leader wearing a hat during her presentation. Makes me wonder if the products aren't doing great things to her hair. If I was a rep for a company that sold hair care products, I'd want to show my hair so those on the call could see how awesome it makes my hair look. What are you hiding under that hat ma'am?
I guess we shouldn't buy hair care from Eva today, either 😅
@@susannahcyou sidestepped the point
damnit, I will never wear a hat in a Monat video again! 😂
@@evamateja Rookie mistake! 😄 That hat looked cute on you, though.
@susannahc haha thank you:))
So glad I found your channel. I love your Japanese bucket hat!
glad you found me toooo! :))
Did she really say she was breast feeding while on a call? I’m a guy but shouldn’t that be a great time to Not be on a call? Just be there with your baby lady!
@@gofast5501 This!!!👏👏👏
Yes, you are correct that there is a face to face connection with mother and child.
Ideally, yes, but sometimes you're breastfeeding like 5-6 hours/day, so you definitely need to multitask some of the time, especially if you have additional children
Recognize that we can’t stop being adult humans just because we’re also moms! 3 kids, literally 10 years pregnant and/or nursing, didn’t stop being a person in those years.
Yes! A baby will seek momma’s eyes when feeding. I didn’t have a job outside of the home when I was a SAHM, so that was definitely a “be focused and present” moment every time. Women working from home, definitely get having to take calls while nursing. But did I ever feed while just chatting on the phone, no. I agree with you. ❤
They’re now 28 and 22, and I’m a grandma, and not one moment of that focused time is now a regret. I’d give anything to have them back as babies just for a day… 🥹
This lady coming to the realization that she was targeted by someone her husband went to school with…then lovebombed her…wow😮
I have so much sympathy for people who get sucked into MLMs. I know that feeling of needing money and a support network. I get it. But the higher up you move, the harder to sympathize. At some point you have to realize that you're sitting on a house of cards build my people who are as desperate as you once were, people who you know for a mathematical fact are not going to get where you are ever. You crossed over from cult victim to cult leadership. You're officially on the dark side.
exactly!! I feel the same way!
They are talking about themselves and not addressing the training perse. Give tips and actionable advice they can actually implement. She saying absolutely nothing of value thats going to help the downline sell Monat.
I am just thinking what I would think if someone messaged me and said oh I see you have dry hair. heres 2 options 1 is @150 and the other $250. my reply would be sorry these are things I discuss with my doctor/hairdresser/dermatologist not some random person I don't know. even if a friend quoted those prices I would look at them with raised eyebrows and say how much?
Most people are struggling these days to pay bills and put food on the table. thats why they get conned with the "opportunity" not because they want to spend hundreds on products. They may join, lose money and are out that door quickly
Love the longer content!
thank youuu!
🎻🎻 for sob story at the beginning.
hahaha! I HEARD this comment😂
@@evamateja 🤣🤣😁
Ok… here’s my story. I have dark hair and it gets gray. I choose to color it. The end.
hahah!
2 bad the cult got this person
All these huns don't even know how to string a cord from a wireless router...yeah, your bosses for realz.
You look great in that hat! Way better than any Monet hun!
hahaha! thank youuuu 😁
So, she didn’t care enough about Sam to learn how to pronounce her name correctly but we’re supposed to care about what she has to say about how to run a “business”? Nah, I’m good.
You look really cute in bucket hats! Is that a teddy bear on it?
naw thank you, so sweet 🥹 and yesss it's a teddy bear, and the word ''free'', kinda random but hey 😅
I am guessing she was affected by hurricanes Helene and Milton as I think Chelsea said these boss babes are in Tampa bey Florida
Ma'am, if God is truly in control of what's going on here, then NOTHING you or anyone else does will make any difference. So this "training" is moot.
I think they say that in order to avoid taking responsibility for their actions.
Hhmmm she’s not her own boss…… #brainwashed
I like the hat!!
thank you so much :D
G’day beautiful Eva, I hope you’re doing well and your fur babies are just loving on you with snuggles. Eva, just a quick one….I thank you for calling out your viewers as TROOPERS….However, I just want to remind you, that you too are a TROOPER!! Your video was grreat, and your look fantastic.
I was already loving on what your head had on top, prior to you sharing about your bucket hat. I just LOVE it. I could see what appears to be a teddy bear? What do that words read please, I couldn’t see clearly. Dearest Eva, it was a great catch up this morning (Aussie time) You rock dearest Eva. THANK YOU
thank you so much for always being so kind 🥹 I appreciate that so much!
Every American should be enrolled in at least one MLM at birth.
That way, every American can become fabulously rich and eventually POTUS.
Whats the point of going to the park if you are mentally absent? You are physically there but not mentally. So much time freedom! 🫤
exactly!!