I Cant Get It Up!

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  • @theperfectguy0998
    @theperfectguy0998 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +456

    I just want to say from the bottom of my heart, thanks for everything you do for your community, youre changing loads of lives.

    • @MLbeatss
      @MLbeatss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agree!

    • @Afonso.Goncalves
      @Afonso.Goncalves 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fully agree man

    • @Godly_Improvement
      @Godly_Improvement 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i agree, but something to remember is that he has an extension that makes it where you can't see comments, because he doesn't want the dopamine from comments like these.
      i too am grateful for what he has done for us, but he doesn't see our comments.

    • @trilljimigoat5709
      @trilljimigoat5709 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Give jeffrey viagra!💊

  • @fiat_ow7876
    @fiat_ow7876 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Quitting porn will solve half of ED cases.

    • @SexyBurrito219
      @SexyBurrito219 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How long does it take?

  • @Delilah_Nguyen
    @Delilah_Nguyen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    A woman watching this and couldn't agree more! This man is wise and true to this core ❤👏 🙌

  • @user-sv1dc6hv2f
    @user-sv1dc6hv2f 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1024

    MAKE SURE TO PUT YOUR TONGUE ON THE TOP OF YOUR MOUTH WHILE WATCHING THIS!!!!!!

    • @sjjdbfnbgbxx9920
      @sjjdbfnbgbxx9920 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      why

    • @telerakki69
      @telerakki69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

      Its just my natural tongue position at this point because ive been mewing for so long

    • @LxstScythe
      @LxstScythe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Thank you bro MEW GUYS

    • @xanderwindeymusic
      @xanderwindeymusic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I’m proud to say that this, mewing has become my normal tongue position!
      Stop reading the comments now

    • @kirbylepsychopat6345
      @kirbylepsychopat6345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sjjdbfnbgbxx9920 it's called mewing you will get a gigachad jaw

  • @tutakuazen7910
    @tutakuazen7910 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    32:04 - 32:17
    Man does this quote hit's deep. When I first heard him say this, it triggered a verse from the Bible in my head that I remember reading about. Matthew 16:26 - "What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?"

    • @Coral333
      @Coral333 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      AMEN

    • @Chris-iq5pr
      @Chris-iq5pr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mumbo jumbo

    • @Noah-xn5th
      @Noah-xn5th 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Chris-iq5pr Mumbo jumbo.

  • @nemesisundead_6999
    @nemesisundead_6999 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    Every-time I watch Hamza I am amazed that how much humanity can be in one person along compared to the whole world

  • @RamosCarlos-dv5bc
    @RamosCarlos-dv5bc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The reason why you get harder when you breathe and relax is because when you are stressed your pelvic muscles get tight and don’t allow blood to flow properly

  • @willvrtist
    @willvrtist 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I actually respect that Hamza doesnt just follow thr red pill shit and actually looks at the entire situation, breaks it down to its root and gives all the advice he can. This video doesnt apply to me yet coz I haven't physically dated yet nevermind done the deed 😂 but this makes people feel less weird about sex and helps guys and girls feel more alike in their struggles so thats really interesting

  • @Cam-re9pi
    @Cam-re9pi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I feel like something people don’t bring up enough is making sure you just get the right amount of food and water into your body every day. I had this problem with my girl for a while and thought it was so many different things. When I finally just started eating three meals a day and drinking 80 oz of water a day this problem completely disappeared. It got to the point where even if I wasn’t in the mood he would still get hard. I highly recommend trying this before any supplements or exercises.

  • @thewarrior658
    @thewarrior658 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thank u, man, u give me hope not only in my life but also in the lives of all the young men trying to do the right thing, God bless my friend.

  • @thedaggonator
    @thedaggonator 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Adonis is such a good guy. Hes just everywhere when Jeffrey needs him. Hes like the voice in those old 50s era psa's.

  • @AmericanVenom6
    @AmericanVenom6 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Hello Hamza. I’ve heard so much about what the right woman should be and about all the different attachment styles, I have been improving myself for nearly 1 year now, and am now 17. Nevertheless, I still struggle on finding and identifying good quality woman with feminine energy. A video on that would be greatly appreciated

    • @LostH3ro97
      @LostH3ro97 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Bro you are 17, calm down

    • @SJTheGiant
      @SJTheGiant 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are 17, you are not even a good quality man yourself yet not much of a man even. Calm down my friend

    • @mission2547
      @mission2547 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Keep going bro! Thats the energy.

    • @AmericanVenom6
      @AmericanVenom6 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I know bro, but I believe that there is progress to be made and I am ready to take the next step. Especially at this age, it is hard to find high quality woman and starting as early as possible has no downsides at least in my opinion

    • @mission2547
      @mission2547 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@AmericanVenom6i dont think there would be any downsides at all too.For example, I am 16 years old and I am progressing slowly in this adventure, but at the same time I am learning a lot. Sometimes I feel like I am struggling in vain, but when I focused on meditation, everything started to change very quickly. It's not like I've just started. I've been dealing with my laziness for a long time, but while trying, I gained deep knowledge and now I'm dedicating myself to stoicism and mental health.

  • @MotivationforSucces-pt9rj
    @MotivationforSucces-pt9rj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is so true i wasnt getting hard and ofc i couldnt breath of the anxiousness when i got calm and breathed properly it started to grow without hesitation

    • @zeusor
      @zeusor 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you get erections from mental stimulation only? or you still need physical one?
      and for how long did you need to change your breathing habits?

  • @Gio-kx7el
    @Gio-kx7el 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m so happy to discover Hamza’s channel early, I’m 17 years right now and in a relationship which gets better and better each month. Thank you

  • @raynesispearl2650
    @raynesispearl2650 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I have always been someone trying to be better. And I have conquered some of the most lethal shits. But it took me a long long time. These days I'm grinding in gym and yes I do it even on days that I feel lazy. Consistency is challenging but possible. And these videos and information and content, this environment in YT just boosts ur capability to tackle the challenges related to Consistency and Self development arc.
    I also like going hard on myself and sometimes tell myself to stop being a btch or im thrash rn and gotta be better and all. And those are the kind of things that Hamza tells out loud towards his viewers. I love that reality check as well. Just another doze of some motivation booster.❤🎉

    • @Randommie
      @Randommie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m the exact same brother ❤️❤️

    • @raynesispearl2650
      @raynesispearl2650 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Randommie we shall be better

  • @simonlindstrom2041
    @simonlindstrom2041 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I have been in the exact situation as the guy from reddit, it happened around 7 times. It happened because I was always stressing about my performance and how long I would last. Eventually I just realised there wasn't actually anything to be stressed out by and the problem went away.

    • @anisvalimbe5480
      @anisvalimbe5480 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please, how did you do to just realize it? How do you do to calm yourself down and finally just get it up eventually?

    • @regorajczi
      @regorajczi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anisvalimbe5480hey, late reply here, hope it finds you.
      I’ve been there: couldn’t get it up about 10 times with 3 different girls. Absolutely disgusting feeling.
      Eventually - meaning 2-4 years passed - within focusing on my work, my calling, my mission I realized that my passion is way more important than sex.
      Sex is wonderful and when you get there after a day of fulfilled work, there is really not a reason to worry about.
      Finding a good, understanding girl is the bigger challenge, but if you believe in spiritual/religious stuff - you’ll attract the right girl when you are ready.
      So really just stop worrying. I was 17 when first happened and took me 5 years to cure it. Don’t feel the need to rush, discover yourself - who you really are, what matters to you and what ambitious goals you have for your life.
      I hope this helps, cheers

  • @warrior9923
    @warrior9923 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Absolutely CORRECT!!!
    Thanks for covering this topic buddy 💯🙏🏽👊🏽

  • @sebastianrasguido
    @sebastianrasguido 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Bro, i got so many valuable relationship insights from this video, and the video wasn’t even about relationships, please giving advice on this relationships theme.
    Thanks hamza

  • @thabompala6524
    @thabompala6524 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hamza “Breathe fully“ Ahmed..mad respect bro as always

  • @shrektheswampless6102
    @shrektheswampless6102 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    asking questions is so useful for every aspect in life

  • @Goolermanecola0000
    @Goolermanecola0000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This video so far (20 mins in) has been very good man, very grateful for you making this 👑

  • @sonounbravoragazzo8069
    @sonounbravoragazzo8069 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    hi hamza, I'm 16, I've recently been in a relationship and I struggle not to be jealous or think too much about how to behave with her, how to be a better boyfriend, and this takes away a lot of mental thoughts energy from school and feom self imrpovement l. I really hope you read this comment even though I don't normally comment much. You have made my life better and I am grateful to you for that.

    • @sonounbravoragazzo8069
      @sonounbravoragazzo8069 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I feel like my mental health is getting worse because of this

    • @sonounbravoragazzo8069
      @sonounbravoragazzo8069 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@willywonka2825 yes when I'm in the throes of emotions I would really like to leave her, in fact I overthink this decision sometimes . When I'm jealous I'm the distant one, it comes to me somehow automatically because I don't want to show my jealousy. On the other hand, she always tries to reassure me when I tell her that I'm jealous but the fact of telling her makes me afraid that she thinks I'm insecure etc. I mean I don't know if I should pretend I'm not jealous or tell her. thanks anyway for answering me brother in these moments I feel alone because I don't have many friends to talk about it with.

    • @two_2oons344
      @two_2oons344 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@sonounbravoragazzo8069 the reason you are jealous is because you haven’t worked on yourself. There is nothing wrong with your loved one. Focus on improving yourself and you will feel better about yourself which will stop you from being jealous, that is stop making her your primary focus. Brother all I want is good for you. Trust me and for now just focus on being a better version of yourself, tell her that you need some time off, you need to make her understand that you still love her and you will comeback to her, but until focus on your goals. Trust me and you will see wonders.

    • @sonounbravoragazzo8069
      @sonounbravoragazzo8069 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @two_2oons344 thank you so much brother, I agree with you, the problem is that we go to the same school and then I see her practically every day. What do you mean when you say I should take time off?

    • @sonounbravoragazzo8069
      @sonounbravoragazzo8069 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@two_2oons344 should I breakup with her bro?

  • @user-vz7mr3fm1h
    @user-vz7mr3fm1h 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great episode Hamza really think nowadays it's more important listen to right people on a topic because so easy give advice but never stop learning because learning is superpower when is cultivated.

  • @frogery
    @frogery 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    people will break up over the slightest conflict and then wonder why they can't stay in a relationship.

  • @jazzy_gaming
    @jazzy_gaming 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was deep breathing throughout the video and it actually helped me relax and be more focused on the content.

  • @valentinocapra6844
    @valentinocapra6844 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hamza, I would love to see a whole day in your life since I am trying to make a daily routine and perhaps yours may help me. Always grateful for your videos and the impact they have on my life.

  • @ifdestate
    @ifdestate 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Men need to be more open about this. This is a serious and real issue! Your advice is amazing

  • @emin01
    @emin01 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Hey Hamza, just wanted to say that I love your vids and you're like the big brother I never had. Keep up the good work!💯💪

  • @meowraiu2
    @meowraiu2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    you have to make a video about conflict management in a relationship hamza.

  • @Civilliam
    @Civilliam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Ay man this hits hard(no pun intended) I was about to get wicked, some may seem devious and peculiar! But yea woodjamin was not working as i was overstressing the situation. She is a very attractive lady and my woodjamin could not get hard. My head was a mess and it kept me up for days. We sorted it and she was very respectful and understood. Hope everyone gets through this problem, it can truly truly mess you up

  • @patrickst7327
    @patrickst7327 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    always breathe fully when you are stressed. how to check if your stress level is balanced. check whether both nostrils exhale the same amount. and pay attention to whether you have any tension in your body. and if you have negative thoughts, focus on your breath again. do this as much as possible and it will become easier. and when you go to sleep, use mouth tape to breathe through your nose. you sleep 100x better. and always keep yourself positive especially before sleeping. I always say that your thoughts are just like the wind. and you can use your emotions as tools. anyone can act. You see it every day on TV and Netflix, so you can do it too.
    Thanks hamza voor you're truth 💯💯💯

  • @monstergamer3904
    @monstergamer3904 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thanks you for providing information for a friend of mine

  • @Afonso.Goncalves
    @Afonso.Goncalves 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for all your help Hamza and for your continuous dedication, I can truly see the maturity you have just in this video, amazing and unusual advice

  • @DaveAndreas123
    @DaveAndreas123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve began self improvement around late 2022 and back then my mental health was very bad. It’s got good then very bad but now I’m on an upwards trajectory and feel great. Thank you hamza ❤

  • @samuelrichardson4451
    @samuelrichardson4451 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Porn ruined my life so much

  • @susanrana6022
    @susanrana6022 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m really grateful for the videos I get to watch from you hamza.
    #respect 💯

  • @MilAS829
    @MilAS829 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Damn honestly im loving this newer- reaction kind of style that you've implemented

  • @lieven4307
    @lieven4307 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this is creepy bc there are much things that are way too acurate

  • @randomvideos.5.4m35
    @randomvideos.5.4m35 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    finally someone raise this issue.😭😭

  • @danielmccarthy78
    @danielmccarthy78 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This changed my life

    • @lucabomba69
      @lucabomba69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      You didnt even watch the video

    • @ashwinsreejith4949
      @ashwinsreejith4949 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nigga this video is 45 min and u saw it in 2 mins?

    • @addz360deo
      @addz360deo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lucabomba69fr

    • @slothniel8881
      @slothniel8881 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lucabomba69he’s baiting u

  • @toosheet8493
    @toosheet8493 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    wished i would have heard this sooner..

  • @zoltanslayer4566
    @zoltanslayer4566 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hamza is a true life saver.

  • @yoopie5851
    @yoopie5851 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like this new kind of video, a lot of value and in a new format, amazing work hamza

  • @itachi_uchiha6550
    @itachi_uchiha6550 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Yo Hamza, I'm 16 Years old and I've been eating about 5-9 eggs a day for quite a while now. But now my parents have noticed it and they were quite angry because according to some "German health website" you should only eat a maximum of 4 eggs a week. Do you have any advice?

    • @anuragsingh4498
      @anuragsingh4498 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t eat too many yolks tho. That must be it

    • @itachi_uchiha6550
      @itachi_uchiha6550 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anuragsingh4498 aight, thanks for responding

    • @abuqadr629
      @abuqadr629 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahah, hab dasselbe erlebt. Mit 20 Jahren und wenn man sich die eier selber kaufen kann, ist das aber nichtmehr so n großes hindernis. Keine ahnung bro, vllt einfacg ma fragen woher sie das denn haben. Sagen dass du dich damit besser fühlst etc.

    • @abuqadr629
      @abuqadr629 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@anuragsingh4498u sure tho? Thats where the power is actually. The rest of the egg is basically just proteine.

    • @thezombros2607
      @thezombros2607 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ask them about the “study”
      That showed the information about eggs

  • @jaysoproductions7186
    @jaysoproductions7186 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    MAKE SURE YOU'RE BREATHING FULLY LADS!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @cnasr9992
    @cnasr9992 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey Hamza
    As someone who is in self improvement, it is hard to find a high quality girl, I thought that before making a video on how to treat your partner, maybe make a video on how to find the high quality partner who helps you improve in your daily life? I would really benefit from that

  • @Someone42527
    @Someone42527 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Remember fornication is wrong, the only moral place to have sex is in a healthy monogamous marriage

  • @marwanashraf8161
    @marwanashraf8161 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you man you really help me understand and better myself

  • @ptk6994
    @ptk6994 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for keeping me rock solid

  • @JosueTrains
    @JosueTrains 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOO LONGER VIDEOS LETS GO!!!
    Fucking love these shits!

  • @Frasesdepositividad
    @Frasesdepositividad 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I did the stupidiest thing of mixing vape, alcohol weed and coke all testosterone killers

  • @juann1948
    @juann1948 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had the sameproblem with my exgirlfriend, it happened twice, then we broke up and we didnt have the chance to do it, i feel so bad, i really wanted to do it with her

  • @dillanlimer4517
    @dillanlimer4517 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    One thing I’m struggling with a lot is quitting vaping. It’s got such a hold over me I hate it, but even when I notice the negative health effects it’s having on me I keep going back

    • @TogiStogie
      @TogiStogie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      just dont be a pussy man.. dont be like 50% of others be top 15% breathe air.

    • @ok_e3w
      @ok_e3w 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      try to replace it with something else like learning a new skill for ex and get rid of the vape

    • @rh7732
      @rh7732 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      replace it with a pen cap I know it sounds silly but it's the oral fixation you're addicted to so have a pen cap near you that you pretend is a vape trust me

  • @Coleman1212
    @Coleman1212 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I like the new healthygamergg style

  • @adamcintron6626
    @adamcintron6626 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Clear and concise more than ever. Seems those clean eating tips are showing their fruits. Well said.

  • @pekar3525
    @pekar3525 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Also one thing that very little amount of people talk about is that too low estradiol, which is type of estrogen can also cause erectile disfunction and low libido. Of course we don't want it to be high so we adopt feminine features but we shouldn't aim for low estrogen like we aim for high testosterone, but it should be in some kind of balance with testosterone for the best health. I'm not expert in this so if y'all are interested you should do more research.

  • @randomramblings7
    @randomramblings7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t have any of the problems that videos talk about now been better than ever for a long time but i just come here from time to time so i don’t get them ever again. 🔥

  • @beriltsumbu7426
    @beriltsumbu7426 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Make sure to always sleep before you wake up

  • @eduardo_nune3s
    @eduardo_nune3s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And in your life too guys, full accountability

  • @tenzinggaley9282
    @tenzinggaley9282 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hamza bhai 🔥 thank you I am grateful for a leader like you

  • @gigabashar9513
    @gigabashar9513 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    This guy is a gift for young generation

  • @Shm-tt3mo
    @Shm-tt3mo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just want to thank Hamza, I’m 23 and think his content is very informative, he speaks so clearly

  • @user-en3xn2jd5z
    @user-en3xn2jd5z 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i really like this style of content and i think it solves quite a big issue in the redpill space as many people end up not liking themselves being really judgmental even to people they love like their family when you learn about the trauma side and the struggles women have with this stuff to as well as a masculinity for men it makes you less judgemental and how your talking about some normal girls being nice people ,please push this more in all your content as withought it i become much more unkind in my mind

  • @nakatashi
    @nakatashi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you don't know how hard it is for a autistic person to bond with people

  • @Laz14
    @Laz14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks man.

  • @kaungkhant3760
    @kaungkhant3760 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    right on time bro
    i need this❤

  • @MixDontMiss
    @MixDontMiss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro I need a guide on how to get it down ☠️☠️☠️

  • @carlheinz1510
    @carlheinz1510 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't like watching long videos on TH-cam
    But when it comes to Hamza's ones...❤️💪

  • @JustinBellizzi
    @JustinBellizzi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Stay Hard!

    • @MiguelMartin-zp3fv
      @MiguelMartin-zp3fv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can't take you serious 🏃
      Out of all the videos you choosed this one 💀

    • @MythicqI
      @MythicqI 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What type of hard?

    • @JustinBellizzi
      @JustinBellizzi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MiguelMartin-zp3fv ??

    • @werrutkyupnext
      @werrutkyupnext 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay Hard around men not women erect cock

    • @MiguelMartin-zp3fv
      @MiguelMartin-zp3fv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JustinBellizzi yeah what type of hard 😭

  • @onionsurgeon7463
    @onionsurgeon7463 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey hamza, since the kind of guys that watch your content and stick around are likely the gentleman that you're talking about, I can't speak for everyone, but I'd totally be interested in seeing you make a full guide on holding relationships.

  • @PedroSilva-tk7in
    @PedroSilva-tk7in 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dudes this belly thing is real, I used to have urges to vomit too, but I didn’t cure it like this.
    I chose to establish a better connection with the girl and sex compatibility is also true. Usually u have second thoughts or u can’t trust this girl fully, u shouldn’t have sex with her if u can’t trust her or her past.
    Connect with her talk with her if this continues and she is worth it, she will calm u down and she won’t force u to have sex, things will be chill.

  • @unrealPolar1k
    @unrealPolar1k 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1 eat healthy be healthy dont overthink and dont watch porn

  • @Musay2341
    @Musay2341 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro it’s been a minute since I’ve watched one of your videos and this popped up on my fyp you good man?

  • @Lookismsimplified
    @Lookismsimplified 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You're a great guy Hamza and I respect you a lot. However, calling your boyfriend pathetic for not getting hard is not something a "nice" girl would say no matter how bad her insecurities are. We shouldn't project our insecurities on others and maybe we should actually heal from them to a point or get to the point where they're not a problem anymore before getting in a relationship.

    • @NameNik223
      @NameNik223 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. It's good to think from this perspective: probably, it is the trauma, probably, it is insecurities. However, would you want to stay with a partner who, in your most vulnerable moment, not just accuses you or gets upset but straight-up insults you? Even if there are some deep reasons for this, you still need to think whether you want to have this partner in your life for years or decades, because if the partner doesn't show any remorse or even basic self-awareness about it, it's only gonna get worse.
      Edit: I want to mention though that I support Hamza's point of view that just the redditors' advice to "dump her" is pointless and doesn't contribute to anything. In my opinion, the best advice would be to just tell her: "Listen, I like you, but you really hurt me. I don't think I can stay with you". This way, you both address the partner and set boundaries, and I think that's quite a masculine approach to this.

    • @grubbyarmadillo9863
      @grubbyarmadillo9863 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@NameNik223 saying you can't stay with her shows that you are not ready to tackle problems in a relationship, then don't bother having a relationship in the first place. Even in the best 10/10 relationships, there are still gonna be problems, so you can't just abandon ship. Sorry, your approach is quite wrong here.

    • @NameNik223
      @NameNik223 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@grubbyarmadillo9863 Maybe I am wrong. I just feel I wouldn't be able to stay with a partner after such situation. There are almost always some problems, of course, but this situation is a limit for me. But again, my approach can be wrong.

    • @marcaaron1890
      @marcaaron1890 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well girls aren’t ‘nice’ and boys aren’t either. You can’t really deal with these issues being triggered without actually being in the situation. That would be like getting fit so you can join the gym etc…
      There are always these moments in relationships where people just go unconscious at times and it takes a lot to bring awareness to that

  • @EAM_E20
    @EAM_E20 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks for your help my guyI'm finally done watching your vids you helped me a lot couldn't leave without saying thank you

  • @Ashvin404
    @Ashvin404 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks hamza, lost my channel with over 1k subs but started a new one knowing i gotta continue

  • @krustybuster1615
    @krustybuster1615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks bro

  • @xanderkt478
    @xanderkt478 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Did you make a video on how to hold down a relationship?

    • @gabrielascensotomas
      @gabrielascensotomas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Watch LFA he makes videos explaining modern women and relationships.

  • @YouTube_rohan.
    @YouTube_rohan. หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks bro

  • @haardnayak8499
    @haardnayak8499 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes we need these kinds of videos

  • @xanderwindeymusic
    @xanderwindeymusic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m making music and I’m thinking of conveying the message of self improvements in this music. Is that a good idea?

    • @yggnggv3519
      @yggnggv3519 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If u want

  • @Eric-bl8lp
    @Eric-bl8lp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just can’t really agree with hamzas advice about trying to work through that. I understand she’s insecure and she said it because of that but she called him pathetic. She insulted his manhood just because of something he couldn’t really control. Thats not really someone I want in my life. Don’t accept someone who feels a certain way and starts insulting you because of it. Thats a horrible way to deal with that and shows she doesn’t respect him, it also is very unlikely to be an isolated incident

    • @grubbyarmadillo9863
      @grubbyarmadillo9863 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You cannot just abandon her without working out the problem with her first. If she still doesn't want to contribute, then yes you can leave her.

  • @kubersx4420
    @kubersx4420 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know that it's the least important part of the video but that Jeffrey and Adonis edit at the beginning was funny as hell XD . If someone is new to this channel , it's easier to entertain them for sure

  • @lethabokarondo4270
    @lethabokarondo4270 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's a coincidence that this video dropped after the same thing happened to me 4 hrs ago...

  • @reid2006
    @reid2006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As the other guy said, make sure your tongue is on the roof of your mouth. But don’t press it. Swallow a few times and engage the back third of your tongue upwards.

  • @noillaxe9918
    @noillaxe9918 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    DONT FORGET TO BREATHE FULLY WHILE WATCHING THIS VIDEO!!!!

    • @bigsam1036
      @bigsam1036 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What does it do?

    • @Aurora-bv1ys
      @Aurora-bv1ys 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bigsam1036 keeps you alive

  • @byzentrix-.9965
    @byzentrix-.9965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Real Hamza 🤝

  • @hundy6521
    @hundy6521 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude very eye opening video thanks bruv

  • @rahulcw_
    @rahulcw_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hey hamza
    my parents keep on fighting and it makes a negative impact on my mind . this time their fight got really toxic and abusive. i couldnt help but cry. my brother doesnt live here. what should i do man. love from india please help me🙏

    • @Women-hate-short-men
      @Women-hate-short-men 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ek gun Kharid le dono ko raat me.......samjha?

  • @suviharan2039
    @suviharan2039 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How to balance love and self improvement

  • @MartinPienaar-nv5ik
    @MartinPienaar-nv5ik 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My ex was very supportive and extremely attractive. I think I was faking my confidence so much and I was so much over my head. She was also my first. Now, imagine having a 1% girl in terms of looks for your first. My privates never wanted to work and the few times it did, I could not fit and I was hurting her because of size difference. This killed so much of the romance. She was very supportive, but if you are out of your league and faking everything, you will be full of anxiety.

    • @fighter500mx3
      @fighter500mx3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your very lucky Man Inleast you have a girlfriend who supports you I hope you 2 are still happily together. Mine broke up with me because i couldn’t get hard at the moment and even accused me of being gay. After that she lost respect over me and our relationship didn’t last that much and after that I found out she cheated on me. It completely destroyed my mental health and confidence. Right now I’m just picking myself up from the shame and making sure I don’t make the same mistake with another women.

  • @xanderwindeymusic
    @xanderwindeymusic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m 17 years old and I’ve been struggling with going to bed on the right time. I end up texting too many people or watching too much TH-cam. What should I do?

    • @Shinji_ikari_69
      @Shinji_ikari_69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Try to set boundaries with people
      Don't be shy to tell them "i will sleep rn" everyone tells u stuff so jus set ur boundaries with them and you'll be cool

    • @prash7776
      @prash7776 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro if u r 17 then just try to understand when to turn off the screen even when u feel to text them or smthg distract urself and do smthg else other than that and try to go to bed early and dt watch TH-cam keep a 10am bedtiming so dat the phone changes to grayscale and then u can remind urself u have to go to bed or smthg

    • @Shinji_ikari_69
      @Shinji_ikari_69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@prash7776 yea thats too advanced , let him start with sth relatively easy bruv

    • @myppissmallbut2534
      @myppissmallbut2534 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sleep therapy. Wake up at the same time everyday, and eventually your body will sleep more to accommodate.
      Sleep at 1:30 AM? Wake up 7.
      Sleep 11:30 PM? Wake up 7.
      Sleep 9 pm? Wake up 7.

  • @jonathan85306
    @jonathan85306 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This advice really helps remove some shame that is attached to some of the degenerate advice you're talking about.

  • @craftygaming5927
    @craftygaming5927 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hamza is a purple piller, the best quality of the blue and red pillers

  • @Goolermanecola0000
    @Goolermanecola0000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do enjoy these videos, would love more

  • @Yuuichi399
    @Yuuichi399 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    finally our jefrey got a problem that someone faces after getting a girl
    and we all agree that hamza is the big brother we all wanted in our lives

  • @XavierTerrell-jv7dk
    @XavierTerrell-jv7dk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have the opposite problem around my girl 😂 go hit a nice workout after we hang, best workouts of my lift right there

  • @KarolisBabarskas-xu5hy
    @KarolisBabarskas-xu5hy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hamza, please, make a video for night shift workers on self-improvement. For those who cannot get natural sunlight. Thank you

  • @miwxg
    @miwxg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dont forget boys, desensitizing your brain watching porn doesn't help your case . Don't bust, restrain from lust

  • @BondTheOGYT
    @BondTheOGYT 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy thanksgiving to all Americans