I know you probably notice how a lot of people view you attractive and say you mog and what not but I appreciate these talkative vids exploring a concept or viewpoint keep speaking your mind rain
@@Damien-s1m was saying I’m basically happy he’s taking the channel in his direction instead of just playing into the whole looksmaxxing spiff which he could’ve done
tbh i dont think videos like this do any help, like the dudes hes targeting with this vid really wouldnt care if anyone tells them not to do it, and the dudes who would watch this vid wouldnt be a worry in the first place
Only in the US... in many other countries, they are 18+.. like here in Germany. You wont like it, but in the end it's just a number... I'm not saying, that a woman can be 12.. but some are a woman at the age of 17... some other maybe at the age of 25..
As a woman watching this, I appreciate seeing a man make a video on this topic. I feel like a lot of men feel like it's weak or uncool (maybe?) to care or speak about topics related to this, so thank you:)
@@Blanktarnthe crime statistics and self disclosure interviews with teen boys and men would absolutely beg to differ! However, I honestly do believe the issue isn't that most men don't understand this, more the issue is that so many simply don't care and do not respect others and their bodily autonomy. They just want what they want and will justify it to themselves somehow
@@kiwiana444 yeahhhh....... yes, most guys have scolded for the past decade "nO mEaNs No," this is a tired out talking point. Women are only paying attention to him, and praising him because he is attractive, and they find him attractive.
Man, I wish we could hang out in real life; you seem like a really cool dude with your head on straight. Thank you for reminding me that there are good people left in the world.
@aussieglizzy6998 Most don't, especially online, most men don't respect boundaries or consent in general. Especially the type of men in this comment section, the bars in fucking hell. Again, none of you actually listened to what he said cos you're too busy crushing on his looks.
Your words are beautiful if we are talking about rejection in a neutral way. ... But people who hate rejection, hate it because of their inner world, their projections and their view of themselves, not because of the other person's personal circumstances. ... You are right. It is really dangerous not to respect the boundaries of others and to get stuck in our minds. Therefore, working internally to accept all the fluctuations of life is important.
It's a real thing. People will think a serious discussion off an attractive person has less merit than the discussion from someone less attractive. They see the pretty person as being less intelligent and deep, they also tune out and don't listen as well wheh distracted by their looks.
It's a dogScheiße message, that's been tired out for a decade at this point. If you've only learnt something like this today, you're either remedial, or 12 years old.
I think that men are not less emotional than women; I believe it's just that society has obligated women to be more responsible and controlling of their emotions since childhood. We don't have as much freedom in society. For example, fangirling is perceived as a stupid thing and mocked, but men supporting their favorite sports team is perceived as loyalty and joy or whatever. Even though these types of celebrations can lead to more accidents for the person and their surroundings, because they tend to be violent, aggressive, and spontaneous (mostly, I'm not generalizing). Even though it's objectively the same thing, this is just my opinion, but I understand your point of view.
Yes! 100%. When men like something it is acceptable, but that same thing, when liked or done by women, is not acceptable when they do it. This is seen in many cases.
Considering sports are often activities of physical might, and require one to be exceptional in some way, it only makes sense it'd be seen in a such a sense. Whereas "fangirls" cheer on and support "men"(many times being a certain type of attractive man, like Titanic's Leo, or the Twilight guy) for appealing to their fantasy of what he would be like, if they ever got into a relationship with him, which self-evidently exposes the differences in view between these two activities. And women being more emotional most likely stems from the fact that women are more neurotic, open, and agreeable than men which most likely leads them to being more and expressing their emotions more.
I wish I had the same vibe of look as you, dude. Keep it up, man. Also, I completely agree with this. you generally seem like a very great person and I’m all in for it. You’ve earned yourself a sub!
its really healing to hear a guy speak about this. makes me think that i dont have to be repulsed and feel threatened by every man. thank you…🖤 really love the way you talk in all your videos.
@@79mnq well respectfully i didnt ask you. im asking miamoonshine. and im only asking out of curiosity to better understand why she said that, not to be aggressive or be one of these guys she says she is repulsed by.
@@79mnq can you tell me why is it that a woman who is repulsed by most or all men is supported, but a man who is repulsed by women is an incel and weird? Not that we should normalize men being repulsed by women, that is absolutely terrible, but hate towards men is so normalized it disgusts me.
Oh, it‘s because of experiences and cruel things you constantly hear happening all around the world including extreme sexual assault and r*pe, daily in every place in the world and as war crimes, as a woman you start to wonder if any man would be capable of doing these things in certain situations and that you never truly know. As a woman you never really feel safe, even when there is no sign of threat around. But yeah, there are a handful of men in my life who I trust my life with but Im extremely selective with the men I let close to me. So seeing a stranger talk about consent just felt really nice and that in fact not every man would assault a woman, no matter what situation or how vulnerable she is. So yeah I hope this helps to understand. Anyway Im not going to reply to further replies so yeah all the best to you 🫶🏻
OF such Obvioous Toppics s HOWeevveerrr I try not to feel s...dssuch Jealouu..ssyy... I am a MUSICIAN . NNoo t a Modeeeell I do not look like him Unfortunaa;..te
i think if u have a lustful attraction, u can write and try figure out why's that instead of split it off with an entertainment, so It'll come back later
Such a powerful topic indeed. High lust or testosterone individuals will be disrespectful once they don't get what they want they could even lose character. It is important to know the cause of evil, disrespect, manipulation, framing. This goes for a women or men never give mixed signals of consent unless if you are prepared to deal with the aspects of the dysfunctional behaviors.
Have you considered doing ASMR content? (or tagging these types of videos as such for the algorithm) not the gimmicky stuff, but serious topics, found this video relaxing.
@ why you replying to comments and his vids if you aren’t going to say something good? Respectfully There’s no point if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all
WHAT YOU’RE 25? BRO I WAS UNC’ING OUT THINKING YOU WERE 16 ACTING LIKE ME BEING 22 NOW. I was like, “Yup lil nephew you got it figured out. Me big strong 22 year old smiling at the wise babies.” Nope. Stay on point and comb that hair brother.
The comments on this video are insane! I absolutely agree with everything Rain is saying, but you can't convince me that if a 5'6" sub5 male were saying the exact same thing, the reactions in the comments would be the same.
I wish I could’ve seen this video years ago I was groomed at 15 and I’m 18 now and it still effects me…more people need to see this video thank you for saying this
@@blue_virgo7teen881 Uhh, then he's a pdf, and he's really fuckin weird if he decided to stay while knowing she's underage. Just curious, why are you asking this?
Bro you have 240p camera but your looks are 8k Beside your talking points meh You need to first let go of your morality then see what is objective which you not doing You want to be good therefore your argument is centred around that Get outside of that box of morality and see for yourself
consent is based off of respect. respect id based out off reality. if you believe in nihilism, the inherent lack of morality, you are free to not care about conaent
Since when does Nihilism associate itself with a lack of morality? Nietzsche by modern standards could be considered to have a mysoginistic and 'incelish' outlook but I don't think his example of nihilism nor its modern counterpart say that sociological constructs are outside of reality or lack importance.
@@DAREasinthecoffee Nihilism can be a complete disregard for morality. You're thinking of existential nihilism, which holds that life and the universe have no objective, universal meaning, purpose, or morality, but may still accept and hold some subjective morality as far as the individual existential nihilist is concerned.
@@lostzephyr2191 You're right in that nihilism holds the idea that their is no greater meaning especially in reference to the divine, along with no truth being certain. But I have never heard of a nihilist or any teachings around it discussing morality in a such a dismissive way, only that it is subject to its environment and shouldn't be treated without scrutiny. A nihilist saying respect is based out of reality and therefore doesn't matter within its teachings is the same as a pacifist saying self defense should never be practiced; its a complete misunderstanding of the source material and its modern interpretation.
@@DAREasinthecoffee doesnt matter lmao. youre being very bound by morality, which is the problem. youre just very autistic. you wont get what im saying because to understand it is to think abstractly and breach beyond the standard societal understanding, or your standard understanding, which you will never do because people like you are forever going to stay the same idiot for their whole life.
@@redlolitaawoo So many issues would disappear, theoretically you could eliminate sexually transmitted diseases with a sufficiently conservative government, but people demand the freedom to be degenerates. Also preventative medicine is less profitable.
@@Wenedimasturbating ends in orgasm and ejaculation. This is satisfying and regulates the sex drive. It also affects the production of male hormones and is an emotional stress relief. It's very healthy and prevents prostate cancer.
I know you probably notice how a lot of people view you attractive and say you mog and what not but I appreciate these talkative vids exploring a concept or viewpoint keep speaking your mind rain
Mogging doesnt mean that u cant have good talks
good thing he's attractive tho so you would never have made this opinion on him
@@Damien-s1mwhat is you talmbout
He’s defo not grey lol
@@Damien-s1m was saying I’m basically happy he’s taking the channel in his direction instead of just playing into the whole looksmaxxing spiff which he could’ve done
i am genuinely scared that these topics even had to be made this clear. like, I just thought that these were basic mindsets every normal person has
Cry more
no shit. however, as you know, not everyone is not normal.
tbh i dont think videos like this do any help, like the dudes hes targeting with this vid really wouldnt care if anyone tells them not to do it, and the dudes who would watch this vid wouldnt be a worry in the first place
@@thatguywatchingyou9549 yea, like, if they would, they wouldn't think that way anyway. So it is just a shot in the void basically.
I love how he mentioned women are 21+… it’s so refreshing to not see a guy online say a girl is a woman as soon as she hits puberty.
Amen 💜
🙏🙏
Only in the US... in many other countries, they are 18+.. like here in Germany.
You wont like it, but in the end it's just a number... I'm not saying, that a woman can be 12.. but some are a woman at the age of 17... some other maybe at the age of 25..
Maybe you should reconsider the place you visit online, cause I never saw someone say something like that
As a woman watching this, I appreciate seeing a man make a video on this topic. I feel like a lot of men feel like it's weak or uncool (maybe?) to care or speak about topics related to this, so thank you:)
wtf are you talking about? most guys understand this.
@@Blanktarnthe crime statistics and self disclosure interviews with teen boys and men would absolutely beg to differ! However, I honestly do believe the issue isn't that most men don't understand this, more the issue is that so many simply don't care and do not respect others and their bodily autonomy. They just want what they want and will justify it to themselves somehow
@@Blanktarn yeah... no
@@kiwiana444 yeahhhh....... yes, most guys have scolded for the past decade "nO mEaNs No," this is a tired out talking point.
Women are only paying attention to him, and praising him because he is attractive, and they find him attractive.
@ i agree with the last part but it’s still important to talk about
as a victim of sexual assault, with friends are also victims of sexual violence and domestic abuse, thank you.
Man, I wish we could hang out in real life; you seem like a really cool dude with your head on straight. Thank you for reminding me that there are good people left in the world.
i hope it gets better for you. there are good people out there. hope you meet some of them
youre exactly my type. not even jsut physically, but the way you think is great. I love a deep-thinking man. Keep posting
facts
you glow in the dark
Rito look at women's hear me out Videos you have nothing to worry about the ugliest men get girls
@@ritodaman Being physically attractive is important. I am a dude, and straight, and even I see that. Nothing wrong with that.
@@FromMahakamthey women don't accept it
That's the thing bro
The blue pillers lie and lie
Finally, a man saying this hopefully they will listen.... thanks for being respectful.
Yes 👏, he is so chill
You're praising him because he's attractive, you can't genuinely delude yourself into thinking most guys don't follow/can't understand consent.
@@aussieglizzy bruh
@aussieglizzy6998 Most don't, especially online, most men don't respect boundaries or consent in general. Especially the type of men in this comment section, the bars in fucking hell. Again, none of you actually listened to what he said cos you're too busy crushing on his looks.
@aussieglizzy6998 Missed the crucial wiring part of maturity huh?
I love when a person turns their camera on and starts talking, especially abt important shit. thank u
I genuinely feel so bad that people aren't listening to you😭🙏 everyone's just talking about your looks
Your words are beautiful if we are talking about rejection in a neutral way.
...
But people who hate rejection, hate it because of their inner world, their projections and their view of themselves, not because of the other person's personal circumstances.
...
You are right. It is really dangerous not to respect the boundaries of others and to get stuck in our minds. Therefore, working internally to accept all the fluctuations of life is important.
“Think abt playing Minecraft” 💀 this cracked me up
Yeah anything can teach us . And suddenly we realise, relate and die
@ huh?💀
starting to really adore your content
thank you so much for being respectful towards us women.
Such a caring tender soul
ur voice it's so calm it makes me wanna become a softer person
where pretty privilege becomes pretty bias, and your message quickly becomes lost on the other end. what an interesting thing ive learnt today
it’s almost like … pretty oppression ? this is so bizarre
It's a real thing. People will think a serious discussion off an attractive person has less merit than the discussion from someone less attractive. They see the pretty person as being less intelligent and deep, they also tune out and don't listen as well wheh distracted by their looks.
It's a dogScheiße message, that's been tired out for a decade at this point. If you've only learnt something like this today, you're either remedial, or 12 years old.
@@aussieglizzyDo you have a calendar of the specific days you should learn things? I guess some people don’t learn new things as often as others
@m0rrk they are using hyperbole.
using your platform for good, I wish this was a more normalized conversation for all men to have with each other.
i agree! its sad to say, but consent should be a topic in school boys/ young men need to learn
Y’all keep talking about his looks but not peeping what he is saying! 😭✌️
If you think about it it boosts ego at first but it starts to be annoying in the long run. He mogs tho.
"Guys, don't rape, it is wrong" I mean, 😂
Emotional fallacy
Just be handsome theory
It's over for you
Just don't be a rapist, not that hard
jbw theory is action also
insane how being attractive is all it needs
This is the Blackill
woman here - love how the video is giving early youtube. Like 2000s vibes.
3:40 my guy this shit is common sense
Lotta guys dont care but im happy some people realize it is common sense
But a man with such attractive attributes Such as rain has said it But who hears it ?
yet there so many people who still do it 🤦 its sad
I think that men are not less emotional than women; I believe it's just that society has obligated women to be more responsible and controlling of their emotions since childhood. We don't have as much freedom in society. For example, fangirling is perceived as a stupid thing and mocked, but men supporting their favorite sports team is perceived as loyalty and joy or whatever. Even though these types of celebrations can lead to more accidents for the person and their surroundings, because they tend to be violent, aggressive, and spontaneous (mostly, I'm not generalizing). Even though it's objectively the same thing, this is just my opinion, but I understand your point of view.
Yes! 100%. When men like something it is acceptable, but that same thing, when liked or done by women, is not acceptable when they do it. This is seen in many cases.
Considering sports are often activities of physical might, and require one to be exceptional in some way, it only makes sense it'd be seen in a such a sense. Whereas "fangirls" cheer on and support "men"(many times being a certain type of attractive man, like Titanic's Leo, or the Twilight guy) for appealing to their fantasy of what he would be like, if they ever got into a relationship with him, which self-evidently exposes the differences in view between these two activities.
And women being more emotional most likely stems from the fact that women are more neurotic, open, and agreeable than men which most likely leads them to being more and expressing their emotions more.
I wish I had the same vibe of look as you, dude. Keep it up, man. Also, I completely agree with this. you generally seem like a very great person and I’m all in for it. You’ve earned yourself a sub!
You're so intelligent both emotionally and cognitively it's so refreshing after seeing all these weirdo potcast bros go viral
Lmao
Every man should watch this video
amazing wisdom. I especially loved "rejecting is redirection"
its really healing to hear a guy speak about this. makes me think that i dont have to be repulsed and feel threatened by every man. thank you…🖤 really love the way you talk in all your videos.
why did you think you have to be repulsed and threatened by "every" man to begin with?
@@Hughmancase because trauma makes people feel cynical, and rightfully so.
@@79mnq well respectfully i didnt ask you. im asking miamoonshine. and im only asking out of curiosity to better understand why she said that, not to be aggressive or be one of these guys she says she is repulsed by.
@@79mnq can you tell me why is it that a woman who is repulsed by most or all men is supported, but a man who is repulsed by women is an incel and weird? Not that we should normalize men being repulsed by women, that is absolutely terrible, but hate towards men is so normalized it disgusts me.
Oh, it‘s because of experiences and cruel things you constantly hear happening all around the world including extreme sexual assault and r*pe, daily in every place in the world and as war crimes, as a woman you start to wonder if any man would be capable of doing these things in certain situations and that you never truly know. As a woman you never really feel safe, even when there is no sign of threat around. But yeah, there are a handful of men in my life who I trust my life with but Im extremely selective with the men I let close to me. So seeing a stranger talk about consent just felt really nice and that in fact not every man would assault a woman, no matter what situation or how vulnerable she is. So yeah I hope this helps to understand. Anyway Im not going to reply to further replies so yeah all the best to you 🫶🏻
im glad you're a good guy
We fw rain‼️
Just keep mogging us bro... Dont get better camera, because if you do, its over for everyone
The low camera quality is good enough tbh. Reminds me of early TH-cam.
i don’t think he has a clue lol
MssshaaahahahahahaAhahahahahaha
Thank you, finally an attractive and respectful man who understands women :)
Man sht up
Over
I know right he's such a dream🌌🤩
@@crystalcharofficial go outside
And sadly he only wants stacies not low tier beckies like you
Thank u su muchhh , im sooo obsessed with ur videos u have such a beautiful mindset ❤❤❤
Do you consent to me telling you how much of a handsome mf you are?!?!
This guys got all the low-tier poon simping for him in comments 👾
are you a homosexual?
OF such Obvioous Toppics s HOWeevveerrr I try not to feel s...dssuch Jealouu..ssyy... I am a MUSICIAN . NNoo t a Modeeeell I do not look like him Unfortunaa;..te
Why are you bothered though?
off-topic bro, whats the hoodie id? shit is fire.
xer voice is so calming and gentle
trve, xer voice is calming to me as a gentile.
i think if u have a lustful attraction, u can write and try figure out why's that instead of split it off with an entertainment, so It'll come back later
I love your way of thinking and your content! and I also wanna say from a guy to another guy that you look wonderful.
You have such an deep understanding of these real world topics and I find that so admirable, keep going your doing great and f*ck Mars.!❤
crazy a talk has to be made about consent but especially with all this red pill cancer, a lot of guys need it. crazy they do nonetheless tho
Such a powerful topic indeed. High lust or testosterone individuals will be disrespectful once they don't get what they want they could even lose character. It is important to know the cause of evil, disrespect, manipulation, framing. This goes for a women or men never give mixed signals of consent unless if you are prepared to deal with the aspects of the dysfunctional behaviors.
You seem pretty cool, I'd love to be your friend ^^
Halo effect kicking in
I’m sure you woul d
He don’t wanna be your frnd sleep on it
This is helpful for women too, women and men are different but women aren’t THAT different from men, very similar in some ways
This is such a good video. More people need to see it. Bump
actually pretty refreshing to hear your voice
Have you considered doing ASMR content? (or tagging these types of videos as such for the algorithm) not the gimmicky stuff, but serious topics, found this video relaxing.
You are amazing in every way.
Every guy needs to hear this truly
Naw I’m good
@ why you replying to comments and his vids if you aren’t going to say something good? Respectfully There’s no point if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all
@@Domi-o6u I paid for my phone to say whatever I want so I will pal
@@rain_M4V7 get a life instead on hating on people who don’t know you exist
@ keep crying brah
I love your content ❤
i did not consent for this video to be recommended
Bros recording with a microwave
Absolute king 👑
WHAT YOU’RE 25? BRO I WAS UNC’ING OUT THINKING YOU WERE 16 ACTING LIKE ME BEING 22 NOW. I was like, “Yup lil nephew you got it figured out. Me big strong 22 year old smiling at the wise babies.” Nope. Stay on point and comb that hair brother.
bro is attractive, he can shit his pants and people will come and clean for him and say he is amazing
lets be clear, only women are watching this lol
The comments on this video are insane! I absolutely agree with everything Rain is saying, but you can't convince me that if a 5'6" sub5 male were saying the exact same thing, the reactions in the comments would be the same.
They will never admit this
morals come from God, that’s how we know what they are
Do I have the consent to tell you how HANDSOME YOU ARE?!
Please be a model, it would be easy for you
what if he has no legs, never judge
This camera is WILD bro...
I wish I could’ve seen this video years ago I was groomed at 15 and I’m 18 now and it still effects me…more people need to see this video thank you for saying this
Do you know your mbti type/typology?
What type do you think he is?
Everyone of this handsome guys videos reminds me more & more of the film The Rules Of Attraction.
Seee
thanks for this video brodie
make a video on your thoughts on aliens & mushrooms
Bro got godeslesded with the best genes
You're so handsome
do you have any social medias? you're so well spoken.
thank you rain
refreshing
nu age church of zyzz
Woke zyzz?
bro your beautiful
One thing - some cheap mic closer to mouth would make wonders. No hate. Just saying
what are you on about the mic is perfect
@Carter9007 its bit silent. Thats all
That's what I like,sounds nice to me
great video
What if the guy ask her age and she says 18 but later he finds out she's 16 she he dump her? or stay with her till she turns 18 (opinions anyone???
Obviously dump her, if you're an adult that puts you at a serious disadvantage and minors are not emotionally mature enough to date adults.
@ShashaVaquitas what if he stayed with her anyway?? And he's 4 years older than her??
@@blue_virgo7teen881 Uhh, then he's a pdf, and he's really fuckin weird if he decided to stay while knowing she's underage. Just curious, why are you asking this?
@@blue_virgo7teen881 he should dump her and date within his age range
Why would you want to stay with anyone who lied about their age? Starting off the relationship with lies, and more are going to follow.
O.T. seems the previous video disappeared...🙄 it was interesting... ah, ok, none of my businness, this is about 'consent' as well 😁😊😉
please marry me
uh is your name Rain Argus?
ily bookie
A smart attractive man I hope I get a man like this one day not lustful
Thanks 👍
So I don't believe that you are also socially isolated and non-binary... 😱😭😭😭😭
...
Response video coming soon, if that's okay.
I think I am in love
3:35 Arguments?
Ew
gotta watch breaking bad to understand this one
rain & wind
sooo true... thankyu ♧
Are you single? 😅
Bro you have 240p camera but your looks are 8k
Beside your talking points meh
You need to first let go of your morality then see what is objective
which you not doing
You want to be good therefore your argument is centred around that
Get outside of that box of morality and see for yourself
consent is based off of respect. respect id based out off reality. if you believe in nihilism, the inherent
lack of morality, you are free to not care about conaent
Since when does Nihilism associate itself with a lack of morality? Nietzsche by modern standards could be considered to have a mysoginistic and 'incelish' outlook but I don't think his example of nihilism nor its modern counterpart say that sociological constructs are outside of reality or lack importance.
@@DAREasinthecoffee Nihilism can be a complete disregard for morality. You're thinking of existential nihilism, which holds that life and the universe have no objective, universal meaning, purpose, or morality, but may still accept and hold some subjective morality as far as the individual existential nihilist is concerned.
@@lostzephyr2191 You're right in that nihilism holds the idea that their is no greater meaning especially in reference to the divine, along with no truth being certain. But I have never heard of a nihilist or any teachings around it discussing morality in a such a dismissive way, only that it is subject to its environment and shouldn't be treated without scrutiny. A nihilist saying respect is based out of reality and therefore doesn't matter within its teachings is the same as a pacifist saying self defense should never be practiced; its a complete misunderstanding of the source material and its modern interpretation.
nihilism is for edgelords only and using it as an excuse to rape someone is dogshite
@@DAREasinthecoffee doesnt matter lmao. youre being very bound by morality, which is the problem. youre just very autistic. you wont get what im saying because to understand it is to think abstractly and breach beyond the standard societal understanding, or your standard understanding, which you will never do because people like you are forever going to stay the same idiot for their whole life.
Bro chsnge that haircut
thx dawg
A man ❤
He don't want you bro
bro did you get hit or something
How about... no sex before marriage.
How about... no drunkenness.
How about... returning to traditional religious values and this would disappear
We would be way too hard to control and extract resources from if this were allowed to happen, unfortunately.
How about... don't be stupid and let people make their own decisions.
@@Carter9007I don’t think he’s being stupid I think this might be one of the ways that would fix our society not that most people would agree
@@redlolitaawoo So many issues would disappear, theoretically you could eliminate sexually transmitted diseases with a sufficiently conservative government, but people demand the freedom to be degenerates.
Also preventative medicine is less profitable.
I agree where are self destructive society
W video
Fed
federal agent is when handsome guy talking about consent
Just rub one out you’ll be okay 😂
... how does that solve anything?
@@Wenedimasturbating ends in orgasm and ejaculation. This is satisfying and regulates the sex drive. It also affects the production of male hormones and is an emotional stress relief. It's very healthy and prevents prostate cancer.
Woke. Bias.
Explain how this is woke
@@Lethalvampire The weirdos and creeps won at the ballot box. We're going to do whatever we want now.