MISSING FATHER
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.พ. 2025
- MISSING FATHER is an animation about the fate of a young man who has to choose between straining his loved ones' generosity and discipline. Constantly encouraged by his colleagues to abandon important matters, he decides to act.
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Yeah I know I know anon, but still, at the end of the day, you have to choose.
2nd
Yes.
Yep.
"Yeah I know I know anon". _Nice spelling 👍_
@UC5kw3y_NO81ldUjJQxa4xnw Yes of course
"Let's talk tomorrow " this hurt me right in the feels man
And that boy will grow up to be a man that will sacrifice everything he has to go back to that moment and say "No, lets talk right now". Just so he could speak with his father one last time.
@@153ridzzzz how so? Time machines dont exist
@@vittocrazi Not yet, not until we go back in time to creat them for the futur.
@Dulanja Dayapriya I'm so sorry about your loss
@@153ridzzzz Pumping out units, I mean *kids, aka bringing innocent beings into this ‘heavenly’ dimension of misery, suffering, struggling, pain and DEATH, WITHOUT THEIR PERMISSION/CONSENT, is NOT the solution/remedy/cure for your personal problems/issues such as: boredom, poverty, selfishness, loneliness, low IQ, **megalomania, shallowness, emptiness, vanity, hero complex syndrome, narcissism, virtue signalling syndrome. Please find a more useful/constructive hobby. 😉
**obsession with the exercise of power
*’kids’, aka future: pharmaceutical/medical industrial complex’ life long clients/victims, prison/military industrial complex clients/victims, fascists, satanists, totalitarian single digit IQ nobodies, communists, marxists, bolsheviks, leninists, SJWs, BLMs, socialists, mercenaries, religious freaks wearing funny clothing and head coverings spreading ‘peace’, welfare/benefit queens/kings, cartel members, starving people, broke(n)/bankrupt people from all points of views, hitmen/hitwomen, murderers, witches/warlocks who curse others, murderers wearing uniforms-badges/white coats-stethoscopes/suits-ties, abused people, abusers/users, drunkards, drug addicts, drug dealers, alcoholics, homeless, gang/mafia members, suicide victims, bullies, bullied people, torturers, tortured people, mentally and physically handicapped people, orphans, victims of organ harvesting and human trafficking, single mother victims, dead soldiers, racist group gang members, prostitutes, residents of hell, debt slaves, suckers to participate in the rat race that enables the world wide criminal syndicate(royalty, bankers etc.) to stay rich and become richer.
Approximately 27 trillion pounds of chemicals were produced in or imported into the United States(same or more to the other continents/parts of the world) per year in the early part of this decade, which is the equivalent of approximately 74 billion pounds/day (nearly 250 pounds per person). This number does not include fuels, pesticides, pharmaceuticals, or food products. That yummy 'stuff ‘gets into our bodies. Flame retardants in gymnasts, 180+ toxic chemicals in the blood of newborns, the leaching of phlates from plastic wrap into our food, the list goes on and on.
So please keep marrying and reproducing. Keep the cycle of misery, suffering and death going, this only helps us the rich/wealthy stay rich and get richer?wealthier. ;)
With love,
The World Wide Criminal Syndicate: Royalty/Bankers/Industrialists/’Insuranceists’
Here is a cool reason/true story on why you should pump out more units(kid): ‘’It is a sad day as I watch grown people shove their parents into the grave to take their spoils. have watched my cousins kill their parents early by running up their credit, mortgaging their homes, and then having the morphine pumped in them and even one of my cousins even told his mom that she would die today, as he gave permission for the morphine.
She had a trake down her throat,s o she could not defend herself, but when he told her that… she looked at me and mom as her eyes got big as silver dollars with fear… my other cousin shoved her mom in a back bedroom for two years and gambled her 2400 a month away. My aunt finally got hold of a phone and called 911… and finally got out of her daughters hell… but then the hospess dropped her and broke her legs and hip and they finished her off with morphine.
My other aunt died with liver cancer as her kids fought over her funeral money, as they told her to go on and die.
My uncle had a son on crack that pushed him on in the box and these siblings all fell in one years time. Now my siblings are trying to push my mom in the box to get at her money and the sad thing is my mom knows it. I have tried to keep my two sisters off of my mom but they are constantly calling her and demanding that my mom buys them a house so they can leave their husbands. And my hands are tied. My ex and children robbed me a few years back so i know what’s going on but my hands are tied. This is a sad day that we have come to. My mom would fair out better if she had less money but the vultures are swarming. This is so sad and my sisters were raised better.‘’
There are a million statistics showing how single mothers are a scourge on humanity. Don’t perpetuate this cycle of single mothers raising single mothers and boys who end up in prison. Think of the misery you will be causing to an innocent child. While the potential is there to make barren couples happy, there is also the likelihood that you will be enabling a single mother to ruin another child. YOUR child.
As long as the government is fighting unwinnable wars, they will need bodies. Paying single moms to spit out children (through government welfare) while discouraging abortions is going to create more single mothers in poverty; Uncle Sam is hoping the men end up in the military while the women become knocked-up single moms just like their mothers did. If the men turn out to be useless, they can always be part of the industrial prison complex instead.
"It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adherents of the Party, the swallowers of slogans, the amateur spies and [hunters] of unorthodoxy.” ― Orwell, 1984
“The aim of totalitarian education has never been to install convictions but to destroy the capacity to form any. One of the greatest advantages of the totalitarian elites of the twenties and thirties was to turn any statement of fact into question of motive.
The ideal subject of totalitarian rule is not the convinced communist, but people for whom the distinction between fact and fiction and the distinction between true and false no longer exists”…
~ Hannah Arendt - The Origins of Totalitarianism (1951)
‘The technique of infamy is to start two lies at once and get people arguing heatedly over which is the truth.’ - Ezra Pound
The masses have never thirsted after truth. They turn aside from evidence that is not to their taste, preferring to deify error, if error seduce them. Whoever can supply them with illusions is easily their master; whoever attempts to destroy their illusions is always their victim. An individual in a crowd is a grain of sand amid other grains of sand, which the wind stirs up at will. - Gustave Le Bon
Dis-eases are nothing more than the body's inability to excrete morbid matter that we accumulate from what we eat/drink/inhale/wear/rub on ourselves. In other words: CHRONIC CONSTIPATION IN THE BOWELS AND ORGANS. This is known since adam and eve, since about 6000 years. Empty the body of morbid matter and you recover from ANY so called 'dis-eases' 100% of the time.
The constantly changing, self contradictory narrative(s) is(are) a psychological weapon they are deploying, designed to disengage and depress the populace, so they give up thinking and just accept whatever they are told.
They will fake the alien invasion. But this alien invasion will not be hostile, they will present this as the second coming of Jesus. And they'll have a fake Jesus, pseudo-Christ (what many, due to the loose translation of the original Greek, call anti-christ; in the original text the word is pseudo-christ, fake christ) and fake Jesus is gonna tell you to be good and take your vaccines and all that.
They'll be able to project holographic images everywhere of jesus and alien angels and all that, and 5g network will help them out I think.
They've been building up the ancient aliens narrative and all that for a long time. It's all bullshit.
The churches will recognize his authority and sell out the humankind apart from a few preachers here and there. And that's it.
‘There are people that believe government, trillionaires, billionaires, big pharma, chemical giants are benevolent entities with only the sheeple’s best interest at heart. Then there’s the rest of us “spoiler alerters.’
"There will come a time when people will go insane, and when they see someone who isn't insane, they will attack him and say, 'You are insane; you aren't like us." - Saint Anthony the Great
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I lost my wife instantly in a car accident at the end of August. It's really amazing how we can take for granted that certain people will always be in our lives until they are not. I'm now a 36 year old single father of two. She left a hole in our lives that can never be filled. I wish I spent more time with her, I wish I didn't work so much and I wish I would have helped more with the kids. I really, really miss her.
Stay strong and take care of your kids
try to be a good father and teach your kids as much as possible, if you find someone new to be with take care so she doesn't become more important than your kids
t. mom died before I started school
sorry for your loss... there is really nothing anybody can say to make your situation easier. One can only hope she is in a better place now
My condolences man. I hope you're able to manage the grief of such a tragic loss while caring for your poor children.
Don't loose sight of the future - one day life will be good again. Scars like these never truly heal, but with time, they will become a smaller and smaller part of who you are.
All the best
Stay strong
My dad died a week ago, it hurts so much man. My mum and sister are absolutely broken and I just think that I have to be there for them, even tho I'm only 18 and the youngest of the family. I'm scared of the future.
Just keep moving. The future will come and it will be okay, just be kind to yourself and keep moving.
I'm truely sorry to hear that, i know this is just a rando, but i am hoping for the best for you
It will really be difficult to move foward. Fuck, I'm still at my mothers home but I try to find a job and move on from my fathers death. I really wish you to find a purpose that will drive you to do something.
I know that feeling man. My dad passed away a little over a year ago. I always have to be there for them to soothe them, but nobody looks after me. When I make attempts to talk to them, they aren't even paying any attention to me. And we are also in debt, which was planned to be payed off with my moms and dads income. So I need to go to work as soon as I'm done with school. I'm just 14 years old man..What am I supposed to do?
My dad died when I was 15, my sister was 18 and she and my mom carried me and my brother who was 13, trust me stick together and you can make it !
Both my parents are still alive, I feel like I don’t appreciate them enough because I see them everyday, but after reading the comment section I’m gonna try and cherish every moment I’m with them, I had no idea how lucky I am to still have my phone ring and show “mom” or “dad” on the screen.
Don't try. You will. Don't give yourself some excuse to retreat.
It doesn't have to be extensive. A simple 5 minute conversation each day (if you live with them) helps. Or a quick 5 minute phone call is also good
This comment was written 11 months ago... And 11 months ago that was true for me too... Lost my dad a month ago. I thought he would be here for at least another 2 decades.
@@someoneinthecrowd4313 hold out there brother, it sucks now, but time will heal your wounds
Ok
Are there any animators here?
Soon I will be replacing my old laptop with a new pc. Finally be able to work on more demanding programs.
Any suggestions for a easy to learn art/animation apps?
I use Krita and adobe premiere right now.
Not me, well, soon.
Hope you find an animator that can help ya, idk
Haha beans
Shotcut could be a replacement for video editing. As it uses less Ram the Adobe so its better for pc with low ram and does the same. So u can have more programs open at a time. I recommend it. For animation, there isn't much better other then krita
Thats already good software
sony Vegas, Adobe premiere
Dude you always coming here fucking me up. I was raised by my grandparents. Grandpa taught me how to be a man, a real man, unlike my father. When he passed away a few years ago it crushed me. I have endless regret about not spending more time with him as an adult.
Ayo ?
Wait a moment.. What the fuck--
Also, RIP to your grandpa.
Yo how tf did you comment 2 hours ago if this video was uploaded a couple minutes ago, also sorry for your loss. Your grandpa sounds like a great man.
@@frozendaffodil3272 maybe he is a donor in patreon?
Your grandpa was a good man,god bless him.
Damn, I used to get so annoyed when my dad would want to talk to me while I was gaming. But now, I don't mind the random phone calls from him. Funny how life is, sometimes
i wish mine was less toxic
Or when you were working you randomly call your mom or dad to just say hi or talk.
Especially when living or working alone.
It got less annoying when they actually wanted to talk, not talk about how bad your little gaming habit is
call him too!
@@unitempt7975 it's your job to have a better relationship with him
This hits way too close to home. I lost my dad in 2019 to a work accident. I was 19, about to turn 20 and my brother was 13 going on 14. The void he left has never really gone away,
My deepest condolences
My deepest condolences to you.
I’m sorry I know how you feel lost my dad 2 months after I turned 20 now I’m 21 and half
My deepest condolences to you.
@@Blesszd ur hawt
I'm gonna call my dad and try to hang with him this weekend. Thank you for giving me the push I needed to realize how important my parents are to me.
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Try to talk to him as much as you can, you never know when it's gonna be your last chance
Lmafffooo gay
@@hostileenvironment6107 🌞🦷🦷🦷🦷👄👅👄
@@hostileenvironment6107 damn username checks out
That hits a little too close at home. Back when my father died from a heart attack when I was 21 it was exactly the same... The pressure of being the main source of income, having to care for my grandparents who just lost their only child, girlfriend of 2 years breaking up and the guilt of having never valued the time with my father... tough times. I think I've aged 10 years in 6 months back then.
My dad died of a sudden heart attack when I was 22. Over the next year my grandpa would pass as well and my grandma would lose her house. My mom bounced and my brother and I lived with our grandma, we threw together enough with our part time jobs and her SS to get a small apartment across town. We watched her get sicker for a year and a half. Found out the last month of her life she had previously undiagnosed cancer.
Those times force us to grow whether we want to or not. Grow or crumble.
@@savagerockman That last sentence is a good summary of the lessons to be learned by dire times. Anyways I wish you only the best, dude.
@@streigl1935 Thank you, I sincerely wish you the same. It's been over ten years since then and my life has changed so dramatically that people I run into from that period now don't believe it. But the seeds for that transformation, they were sown during those hard times.
@@savagerockman You two brothers are legends for taking care of your grandmother as good as you could. You may not have done the perfect thing at that time, but you did not give up and gave your best and that's what counts first and foremost.
no dad squad
Many fathers are terribly under appreciated. Sometimes it’s hard to talk to your dad because of fear of criticism. However the best fathers always offer constructive criticism. Good fathers have a way of raising kids especially sons to become independent and strong. I’m blessed to have such a father. People that are important to you in general should be appreciated. Because non of us last forever…
I’m glad I have a great dad, we really need to appreciate our parents, siblings, and romantic partners because like always today maybe the last day we are with them.
I’m actually scared of having kids because I’m worried I’ll never match up to how good my dad is and how good a job he did raising his children. I think I’ll always be in his shadow. He’s an amazing man. His drive, how hard he works and how much times he spends training, working and studying is unmatched. He’s a doctor and he still does a new masters every few years. He’s my hero. I hope one day I can live up to him.
@@mae8920 I relate to you man
@@mae8920 you don’t have to be as good as your father it’s not a competition, you just have to do your best and be there for them. If you can do that then you’re gonna be a better father than a lot of other people had
@@mae8920 You will Ma e. you're father knows it and he will be proud of you no matter what.
2:25 That Violation💀
When a series of Wojaks are more human, humane and relatable than the real ones around you.
Censorship, not allowed to say anything. Emotion control, not allowed to feel anything. Government, not allowed to solve anything. Career, not allowed to make anything. Inflation, not allowed to hoard anything. Rent, not allowed to own anything. Fast paced life, not allowed to have free time. Minimum wage, not allowed any breaks. ADHD, can't hold a conversation for longer than a few seconds. This, and much more. There are no more humans on earth. Just Hylics. Flesh golems. Meat turrets.
For real, I've learnt way more about these videos than from the stupid people on social media and tik tok
@Logan Roof News As a troll, you are so bait
@@Sohelanthropus people on tik tok and social media aren't around you tho
maybe you just don't know the peple around you good enough so you think there is nothing to relate to
Man that kid was heartless. That kid insulted a guy's mom and when the guy said his mom is dead, the kid was like good for him.
That's normal in games i guess
@@praktarium wow. I know that toxicity were very common in games but I didn’t know that this behaviour towards one’s dead parent was that normal.
@@ShrekGKSPrivacy You encounter a lot of these while playing games online. I got insulted because I'm a girl, also I recieved death threats because I wasn't good in the game, someone wished my mom had covid to die... that was really bad for my mental health....
@@kusuossecretgf5401 ☹
@@kusuossecretgf5401 oh damn. But the the thing is that the guy who got maternally insulted has a real dead mother and the fact was disregarded when he revealed it while in your case someone only wished death upon your mother. But either way it is still horrid.
There's a difference between a widow and a single mother.
@Logan Roof News tf?
@Logan Roof News he just mething around TH-cam
@@JingleJohngle Ignore him he has no life and can only interact with the world through the internet, so he needs attention
@@zafiruzoma6234 I am just flaging his comment as spam rn. He posts it everywhere in this comment section.
@Logan Roof News Don't you have homework to do kiddo?
Lost my mother around 10 years ago when I was sixteen. For some reason I never stopped, so I just kept going on in my life. Lots of uphills and downhills, good relationships that have just withered away etc. Made me realize that nothing is permanent and we as people always should enjoy every moment as if it would be our last and treat people like it's the last time we're talking to each other.
10 years ago I couldn't even possibly imagine what my life would be like now. There are pieces missing from the puzzle but I'm collecting the remnants slow and steady.
You can do it, Anon.
My father cames back from work every month and I understand not having a dad, my mother breeds cocktails and goes cleaning houses for life so I can go to school, my father works at a mine, as an engineer, this video is inspiring me to read and learn harder
@@silvercorvidsmarketing I'm sorry 😔
If it makes you feel better your father is doing this for both of you. That’s what a man does, anything to support his family, even if that means only seeing them a few times a year
@Logan Roof News bruh moment
❤️
Breeding cocktails?
Losing my dad at 11 this is painfully real. Trying to fill a void for who was the primary bread winner. From being a kid to trying to imitate an adult to make ends meet. From a full plate to skipping meals. Now as a father doing my best to separate my kids from escapisms, trying to pass on real knowledge and create family memories. I know my time is finite and should I ever pass early like my dad did, they stand better chance than I did and hopefully get further than I could with my hopes and dreams. This is good content, keep it going as long as you can.
Fathers sometimes want their sons to achieve things they couldn’t. To do better than they did. It’s a scary thought, I don’t want to disappoint my dad. But I know it’s a huge sign of love and care. Good on you, may God help you and your kids. Sorry for the loss of your father too…
Good for you, that you had a good father, and trying your best to become an amazing parent figure. I wish my father had made me feel any other emotions, besides mix of pity and disgust.
Yis OK.
I lost my dad at 3-4 years old
Stay strong man, I'm sure you're a great father and your kids love you :)
This video legit made me feel bad for anon's father
@DarkErminia looking at their channel, probably everything. This is why i already miss the dislike button count on YT.
@Logan Roof News ok
@Logan Roof News wtf
@Logan Roof News try laughing at this ratio
@Logan Roof News ..........If you're going to troll then at least try to make it less obvious. Noobs trying to troll these days........
Man, I'm so grateful to have a father.
I saw many comments of people saying that their dads died when they were just children.
Sometimes you don't value what you have and I know from now on that I will miss those evenings when we watched football together, played football with friends and sometimes played CoD together.
*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”*
*―C. S. Lewis*
Lewis is always 10/10
This quote is inspiring me to keep going even doe life beats us down I gotta get up
Ar
Beautiful. Thanks.
if you've been keeping up with our corporate media and western elites, changing the beginning is also possible
We might not realize, but out fathers are just like us, but they try their best to do what they think what's best for us from their expiriences, which we lack of most of the times. So don't forget to listen to your father sometimes, it can help you and teach you lessons which you'll have to live throught otherwise.
@Logan Roof News get a hobby dude
True, but most of the time you will have your own opinion. Its different for each generation.
@@unitempt7975 true aswell my friend
Speak for yourself
Lmao biggest bs
"Young people are very interesting creatures.
They think that just because their parents
already made sacrifices for them, they don't
have to do the same."
- Bukowski
Guess it’s part of growing up
I don't see a lot of Bukowski quotes in YT comment sections.
Break the cycle
My father sacrificed my mental stability, his marriage, and liver for cheap booze. No thanks, I'd rather be sober, lol
@Tommy Gaming 🅥 man with the fake verified mark
I'm a firefighter and father of three. If any of my children responded to my death this way I would be so proud of them.
@jerisoneon9700becouse the children will be strong and can help him wife
Because they can accept the loss and choose to be a better person.
I wish i was a firefighter. It is very hard to get the good jobs
@@bobsacamano7653 How old are you?
Say no to drugs and you can work in the oil fields.
I like the way he baited people by making the thumbnail about single mothers, thinking this was gonna be a roast on irresponsible women but it turned out to be a call for young men to value and appreciate the masculine example in their lives. How this man hasn't hit a million subs, I'll never know
Really? That was your expectation?
Yeah, it wasn't what I expected. Still a good video though. Deep message to it.
@@cedar4539 Yeah but it isn't the author's fault he gets these kind of comments. Personally this was a wake up call for men to appreciate their fathers, or become a good one themselves.
@@cedar4539 I mean single moms are pretty bad if you look at the stats, but pointing that out doesn't absolve men of the responsibility of not having sex unmarried. or divorcing.
@@Roescoe yeah it's also the father's fault
Fun fact: The store that he works in is called "zabka" and its a small brand spread around in Poland. Its quite popular over there. Btw the word zabka means frog which is their logo as well.
Pepe is forever frens
@@luditukan2435 yes, indeed
"small brand"
Bro, that store is EVERYWHERE in PL
@@reallychadical It's even more dangerous than you think. We have that store in Bulgaria, too. Same name (just spelled in bulgarian) and same logo.
But it means toad(y) in russian
this honestly kills me, in the last 4 years of my life i havent spent a full day with my father. due to me being in the military. I hope to god i can make it in home in time to see him.
and that's unusual somehow?
When the dad said: "Am i bothering you?" And the kid answer: "Just a little" that broke me. I have identified with the kid, i dont know how to talk to my father and, sometimes, i dont even want to. His decision of get rid of the Xbox for help in the house house bills was very mature too.
Fathers are important... for any guys who are still young- respect your dad, he's the best guy you'll have.
Don't respect your father if he is a piece of shit. Acknowledge that he isn't who you want to become like and find a role model in somebody else , more worthy and capable.*
Imagine having a dad lol, actually I'm crying, mine abandoned me
not when he's a coward who let's the mother beat/molest her kids.
I'm sorry, some of us aren't fortunate enough to have loving families with healthy masculine/feminine role .models.
No they're not
Especially when your mom isnt as caring as normal parents
Guy selling his Xbox & finding a job instead of hearing little children fight with only words in a game it's an inspiration. Each time your content seems to be far from only animations & becoming an improvement to self aware. Great job! 🤘🏻
Getting a job for what?
@@chief8559 to support her mom bro did you not see she was working two jobs?
@@ulti8106 Meaningless
@@chief8559 it’s meaningless to support your mother?
@@marcusgabriel8365 Purposeful to support your narcissistic mother who punishes and shames your for every small thing?
It's weird and shocking to realise that a lot of people have the same problems as you but in their own ways.
For someone who lost his Dad I fell into video games but realised that It doesn't make the emptiness go away it just a temporary relief, I am now focused on levelling up the real me and not a virtual character.
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hahahaha OK
we all have our journey to go through, i'm glad you realized which one is yours
Being a dad and a Freelance Computer Technician (with a wife whose a Full-time Government Employee) is a blessing for me, I have time for my kids to guide them in this Crazy Modern World... Thanks for the great content anon... =)
your wife is a skinwalker
@@AmalekIsComing skinwalker?
@@risingdoom yeah, his wife works for the feds, she's a skinwalker
i fucking hate how you people claim the world is ''crazy'' an the past was some wonderful time full of prosperity or some shit, the modern world is the best humanity has ever been, your children will grow up in more comfort than any one of your ancestors, they have easiest access to education in history, so much food and water that they can afford to throw it away and on cherry on top they dont have to go die in some horrifying war 2 continents away because now is the longest period of peace in human history, the only think that has gotten wore is crime and even that is quickly decreasing world wide year by year (excluding war torn states) be grateful
@@kamovka2317 facts
Yeah this hits home hard. I lost my dad 2 years ago due to a heartattack. That same year he told how proud he was of me, for no particular reason. Just for being his son.
I would often go on a trip with my grandpa and my dad. Just cruising around, trying different new restaurants or bars. Joking around about life and telling stories. My grandpa passed away 2018.
Now I'm driving around the same roads alone. I never felt so lonely in my life.
There is always the Lord Jesus Christ.
Yeah, try finding a roast e to be your friend. You will inevitably start to hate them.
Dont mind the npc comments 😔
@@shinren_ Am I an NPC? I've always wondered that. I don't think I am. But then again, that's something an NPC would believe.
@@Reeeeeee12345 you made your entire account and rhetoric off hating other people, shits pretty pathetic and NPC-like
This video really hurts. It makes me so grateful to still have time to spend with my loved ones... to all that have lost them, I feel for you. And if you ever need to talk to someone, I’m here for you. I have already been crying thanks to the video
My father died when I was three and I never got to meet the man. I'm 19 now and I wish that I got to meet the man, my mother describes him as almost a exact copy of me. I picked up gaming at a young age and years later I found out he played games like me. I wish I got to play a game with my old man at least once. This shit hits kinda hard.
😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
Sorry to hear that, man. I’m sure your dad would be proud of you!
Similar situation, except I was 6. I played some games with him, he got me a ps2 for my christmas one year. It sucks man, I wish we both got to know our fathers.
Same thing happened to me when I was 13…now I’m 20 it sucks bruh…😔😔😔
Why you saying “the man” mf that’s your damn dad
I think the final sentence is to actually talk about wojak's dad. Even though he was not alive to see his son grow up, his affection to his son and his hard working for the family still affect wojak and make him care for his mother, make him take responsibility for the family.
I was struggling to understand the meaning of that. It now makes sense
This moment when life hits you in the ass. Only yesterday you were thinking which console or video card to buy and how you will play after work / study. And now you're crushed and wondering how could I be such a fool?
Thats called life
This happened to me when my aunt died.
I literally could not care less if someone stabbed me in the middle of the street. I was so numb to everything.
ye u realize how silly you are and reassess whats important
I feel that.
I wish he had a heritage flat from parents and lived on market rent money, and found happiness in simple thing without families or friends - imposed values of a violent society
I'm so glad to have a great relationship with my father, I couldn't imagine life without him. It's the same with my mother, such a caring women.
I wish we talked like this in CoD again
back then everyone knew everyone's mother
@@reeflash29 When you beat a kid fair and square and they start being toxic and calling you a hacker: "Good relations with your mother I have."
Can't have that in halp infinite either :/ can't talk with enemy teams.
@@vipergaming8746 the most toxic think you ever hear now days is EZ
I miss the mw2 toxicity🥴😂
Man this comment section has so many people who have lost thier family members at young age . Life was cruel for all of us. But your loved ones will always be watching you. stay strong guys , y'all gonna make it
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@generalscolarironfist7130calm down
after I saw this, I realized how great my dad is, I should appreciate this blessing and thank god before I lose it..
thank you
Same, I didn’t realize this until I was 16 turning 17. I have some regrets. We sometimes don’t realize we are making mistakes until it’s too late.
Must feel great to have a good dad
I’m actually scared of having kids because I’m worried I’ll never match up to how good my dad is and how good a job he did raising his children. I think I’ll always be in his shadow. He’s an amazing man. His drive, how hard he works and how much times he spends training, working and studying is unmatched. He’s a doctor and he still does a new masters every few years. He’s my hero. I hope one day I can live up to him.
It’s about drive, it’s about power
I'm also scared to be a father but bc i grown with a violent dad who leave my mother and my family when i was 11 and i want to be a father since i'm little , i want to have kids but sometime i'm scared of myself bc sometime i'm violent like my father , i'm scared of hurting my kids and i dont know if i can be a real father or if i'm gonna be like my father .
The feeling of being in your dad’s shadow is definitely something I can relate to. It’s difficult to tell wether I’m being too harsh on myself. Or I should because it will help me achieve great things. But I’m not sure if it will do more harm than good or not…
It’s difficult….being men…
definitely bro i feel the same
Dont make kids if you are a 'masky'...children deserve good parents
I grew up without a father because he did not want a child and got divorced. Little to zero contact ever. I now have two new borns and can fulfill my life‘s purpose of being a better father than my own.
There is always a chance to make the best of it. Keep on going.
bruh your channel name is amazing
Same here, it's fucked up how i think peoples who have lost theirs are lucky.. but at least they'll always know their dad loved them. Here you have the feeling of being unwanted, of not even knowing what your father looks or looked like. You know that they're alive, somewhere, but can't even contact them, just to show that you exist.
I don’t know why child abandonment isn’t considered child abuse.
Same here. That's why i have so much respect for my mom. I can feel u, tho im not a father yet but i wish u will have a wonderful times with your childs.
@@simsportif same. My mom passed when I was 3, never really got to know her… my dad left and died far away after becoming a drug and alcohol addict. While I care little for him, I wish I had known my mother.
What a world we live in.
@Logan Roof News You are trying so hard to be edgy it's just cringe. Better luck next time
@Shroomer Yeah, Gutless Dolt lol.
This truly is a cruel world.
Hell on earth
Society
I lost my father when I was 14. Our last conversation was an argument, I regret all the things that I told to him that day, he just turned his back on me and said 'we will talk later, I love you son'. Later that night he passed away.
Now I'm a full grow man, and even now I still miss my old man and repent for not knowing how important he was to me.
If you have your father alive, treat him kindly if he's good to you.
At least the guy is willing to take Sacrifices to help his mother, even tho he didn't always have the best relation with his family in the past
My real father left when I was born. My step father abused me and now he's actively cheating with another woman in the open. He's almost driven my mother to suicide. He's forcing our family to be broken apart. The woman He's going with knows he has a family too. I, the son, am going to be forced to support my mother and my siblings because of him, the father.
How old are you, man? If I were you, I'd have a talk with my mother about who she keeps around the house. If it's too much for her then he shouldn't be around. If she feels she can't do it on her own you can volunteer to help support the family and get him out of the picture. Hell, I'd even say get the authorities involved if he wants to keep making problems and your mother can't make him leave.
@@roastbeef4918 hey, man. Don’t be rash.
I’m sorry, man. I’m hoping your situation improves although I don’t know how…
@@roastbeef4918 what have I done to you for you to lash out at me? All of your claims are false. Yes, I look to self improve but I don’t act with fake bravado over the internet and encourage violence as a first resort.
@@roastbeef4918 You dont even know how old these people are. If they are a teenager there isnt much he can do lol
As a firefighter myself, and coming from a family of firefighters, I can tell you that this depiction of late shifts, just waiting on calls, is both mentally and socially draining.
Please spend sometime with your firefighter parents, you just never know.
My father is a firefather and i think even a cheif, my dad and i don't do all that much together because he needs his rest since he also works night shift. But he picks me up from school everyday and ask me how it was, i see him do alot for other people outside of fire duty as well. I respect him deeply.
That's one of the things I worry about when I eventually have kids. Right now I'm in tech school learning how to be a firefighter
You Fire Rescue personnel have the hardest First Responder job at a general level.
You’re often the first on scene, and you watch people hurt, die, and lose everything. You are expected to stay impartial. Where I’m from, you’re the guy who picks bits of people off of the highway after a wreck while Cops watch and Paramedics tend and transport wounded (often assisted by a Fire Paramedic or Medical Responder, and more Pumps are dropping casualties off at hospitals now adays…Why hire more paramedics when you can give Fire another duty on top of their stress)
I trained along side a bunch of fire fighters for my medical response training, and I’ll never take that experience for granted. You’re proof that heroes don’t need capes, or guns.
I remember as a kid I used to worry how other people treated my dad because he was not socially inept. He was an introvert but I could understand why and only feel sorry for him. I was afraid people would beat up my dad sometimes.
This hits hard. I love you dad.
After I watched this video, I immediatly got up from my chair, went to check on my dad, saw him sleeping on the couch, made sure he was breathing (and that he was okay), and gave a sigh of relief and went back to my room. Sometimes it's easy to forget how quickly our loved ones can leave us, and this video reminded me of just that. We always take them for granted while we should be thankful for them being there for us everyday, for they can leave us without getting to say goodbye... Yet another video that made me aware just how good I have it in life, and for that I thank you MillenniaThinker.
@Dintget Buttmadd I'm 19 actually. And my dad has health problems. What's it to you?
Dad died when i was 10, my mom is incredible, but not having a father in my teenage years left a hole in me that can never be filled.
Exactly the same with me mate. At least we had amazing mothers. We need to ve grateful for that at least
As a person who lives with his mother and has to carry the entire house financially, this is inspiring. Thanks.
My dad wasn't a good father for me growing up, but as an adult I see now that underneath his mistakes and regrets, he's just a man. And both of us have a lot in common personality wise. Life is messy.
I relied on my widower father's generosity for a very long time due to serious mental health problems, but eventually I managed to find a job, and I haven't ever regretted it. I feel a million times better about myself, no longer being a burden and drifting aimlessly through life. Getting a job won't solve all your life problems, but it's a start, a necessary start.
Thanks for that, you gave me hope and confidence. It’s a necessary start indeed, best of luck to you.
work is freedom
Ora et labora. Pray and work. Humans need to do some kind of work to feel worth. It doesn't have to pay a lot - or even at all. It just needs to allow us to contribute somehow. Good for you, fren. God bless.
Personally getting a job was the most miserable and soul destroying decision I've ever made, I was days away from my head going boom because it was so fucking awful so it absolutely blows my mind when people talk about jobs in a positive light. Ever since I was blessed with the opportunity to stop working I no longer suffer from borderline insomnia, or night terrors, no longer feel sick 24/7 it's actually amazing I feel like life might actually be worth living.
@@knightacedia Maybe you just didn't find the job that fits you. My first job was what you described, it was miserable and I just wanted out. It was my second try where I found a job I can actually do without just feeling like my soul is being sucked out. It was still hard and I was eventually diagnosed in the prodrome of schizophrenia partly due to the changes the job made in my life, but I still personally don't regret having a job. I only wish I was better at it.
Friend 2:"Ive already read the plot summary"
Translation: *Epitaph*
engage
I lost my father while he was at work as a construction worker. I was 13 and my biggest regret is never being able to hang out with him. I don’t know anything about him and now I’m almost 30 and can’t remember what his face looks like. Or his voice. Even the smell is a faint memory.
Hang out with and cherish your dads, kids. You never know when they won’t be around anymore.
My deepest condolences to you my friend, stay strong
4:08 In Spain a lot of young people instead of studying decided to go to work for good money in construcction, that ended in the 2008 crisis, adults whitout a job and whitout skills maybe whit a family, not a good thing.
I remember my father looking for conversations like that while playing video games. Use to ignore him and think less of it. When he passed away I felt like shit for not being a better son . Appreciate your folks while you still can there the only ones that love you no matter what.
My dad was deported, like many Muslims after 9/11 and he wasn’t there for the first 7 years of my life. He couldn’t be there for my or my sisters birth in America. I visited him back in the home country, but it was just me, my sister and my mother in the US. My mom was turned down aide from all her relatives, and she was forced into horrible conditions to raise us. When my father came back he worked 7 days a week so we could live comfortably. My parents have done me bad some times, and they have taken out anger on me, but I thank them for all they have done. They’ve changed (ultimately) for the better, and are some of the most hardworking people I know.
My baby brother was born 3 years ago, and my father was there. That was one of the few times I saw him cry. My parents work so hard, they deserve the joy and comfort they worked for.
I hope all of you guys have wonderful life’s, and build a strong will and character. Whatever life throws at you, I hope you all take the high road and make the most of it. Life is temporary, and death is destined, so please value it.
sisters birth in America? Was he not deported?
@@nullsphix8382 she cheated on his dad
@@Ropewatch no lol my mom visited the home country
@@nullsphix8382 read my comment to the other guy
Glad to see in the final that he got a job and help his mother not to work all day and night , this video it's a masterpiece ! Keep it up
I lost my father 1 year ago and when I heard this "family" talk, i remember myself... I so sorry that i was talking with my father like this guy, but now I cant change anything. I only hope it never repeat in my life again. Thank you for this video
" 'Cause Mcdonald's never smoked."
Damn, he got roasted.
"God is a father to the fatherless."
There is always someone we can make proud...
Amen
God bless, friend.
Hmmm
Amen
god is a absent father
I had to stop watching the video at 4:58 . This slaps to me hard asf, and my heart got into my mouth. My dad works as a Special Forces prision Guard in a High level security jail . His job is pretty dangerous and violent. Every time inmmates has opportunities to kill each other or kill guards they do, and the guards can’t defend themselves or they will go into jail. I love my father and he’s my hero, I don’t know what i would do if he gets killed by an human waste.
I hope this channel gets even more views in the future.
My father used to work for the military. I’m just glad he is still alive.
I'm 23. Oldest of 4 kids aged 21, 18 and 16. My biological dad walked out of my life when I was 4 and I was raised by my step dad since I was 5. When I was 17 he took walked out, left me the man of the house. I wasn't able to finish high school because I had to get a job. Earlier this year before my birthday my mom passed away due to lupus and kidney failure. You never know when you'll lose the ones you love. Obey and respect your parents, know that they love you and love them back with all your heart, because the next day they may not be there anymore.
.... I have a friend whose dad actually died when he was in his 20's when we were in College in early 2000 and he and his 2 brother have to mature quickly and become the breadwinner for their mom. My friend nowadays work in a pretty good cushy job and married with two kids.
Happy ending 😊bro
@@DayyyumSon Well in a way, it is, he still feel guilty that his dad never get to see him settled down at the end.
@@cedar4539 she was a housewife
@@cedar4539 You don't know him and also I don't know him behind the scene either and also good for you and your mother then. Everyone is different and not everyone can do the same thing in your own terms. If your point stand. Good for you then. But I didn't ask for your specific advice because this story was a friend of mine and already gone 20 years ago when we were in our early 20. Just retelling what happened to him.
@@cedar4539 I guess so. But my friend story was supposed to be related to the video in a way. He lost his dad and his mom from what I remember was a housewife with not much specific skill add to that she lost her husband so sudden. My friend and his brother all chip in for the household daily expense in a way with part time job or working hard in school as he dont want to upset and disappoint his mom. And 20 years later, as I said he live pretty comfortable with the hardship he encountered.
i like how you evaded the "single mother" part by focusing it on the rest of the family, was a nice move to reduce some unwanted hate surrounding the issue
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I love these videos, infinitely more positive than what's inside of my soul. I feel like a sunshine after every watch.
im 24 and in my whole life, i cant remember talking with my dad for more than 5 minutes. he goes for work and comes back after 2~3 months mostly during holiday season, stay home for about 3 days and leave again. Even when he's home, he don't really talk to us, he just watch tv or play his acoustic guitar. he didn't care about me, once he said my brother is better than me in every way, which hurt me much. recently, i started making music and bought my first electric guitar. i never seen my dad get excited and supporting me before. he taught me basics, and got pumped when i recorded his play. never had this much bonding with him in my life and i love my dad now. he went for work, i can't wait for him to come home.
The game dialogue and the interaction with the Dad is spot on.
dad, that try to show he care but doesnt know how to do this
Hurts so much, my grandfather passed away suddenly this morning. I've never in my whole life seen my dad cry, he cried like a child, gasps, huge tears..I've never had such a rush of motherly instincts for my own parent. Even though he's a man and my mother is a woman. I think in their hearts they deserve to be treated sometimes the way their parents did.
As someone who due to circumstances lost his father at a very young age I could say the figure of father provides some kind of authority and respect that mother's can never provide. Father's just can educate you about issues that a mother , a single mother can never , it also creates an example to follow , someone to look up to. At a young age your father provides you with a sense of security that is so much needed for a young boy to develop confidence. There isn't a day when I don't think about my father.
It's the ancient symbiosis/synergy. Mother protects you from the world and father prepares you for the world.
@@luxuriousfir I agree that there are father's who exhibit toxic behavior , but I'm talking about the concept of the "father figure"not specifically any father. Also that happens because a father tells you the harsh truth and puts you the limits unlike a mother which duty is to nurture you. The father is more like a action/consequences figure.
@@badgoy1573 exactly
@@gillesderais2457 Why are people so hard on mothers? It’s always that they are inherently nurturing and can never be as good as a father. My guy, my mom was a soccer mom and single, and I turned out just fine
@@alexwilliams3765 excuse me but I'm sure you can make the difference between an example and a archetype.
Also by your name I'm supposing you're a female .I think a missing father figure affects guys and girls in different ways to be honest
I have a huge respect for every single or widowed mother out there because being a parent it's an art on itself. But I'm just saying that a father figure is crucial at some stage for a young man's life.
OML DUDE THAT"S PHANTOM FORCES ISN'T IT! 6:30 THE FRIKIN GRENADES GAVE ME MINI PTSD FLASHBACKS BUT NOW I"M SUREW
I became a man when I finally got out of the country, left alone to england with 1000 pounds in my pocket, a few clothes and an iphone 4. Worked alone, did everything alone, even had rats eat the clothes off me while I slept. But the hardest thing by far was... being alone. 8 years later, that one thing has not changed.
Honestly I’m so grateful for my dad. He was hard on my brothers and I growing up and he rarely ever showed emotion.
When I was younger, I had a lot of anger towards him for how he treated us and I felt unloved by him for him not being there emotionally but he did what he had to do as man which was to financially support us and as cold as that may sound to some people, that was his way of showing us he loved and cared for us.
Now that we’re grown now, my dad does try to talk to us now and I see how great he is with my nephews. Honestly I admire and respect my dad so much. Thanks to him I am the woman I am today.
1:12 if my father came after a long shift, i would throw away the controller and go talk with him. Family is the most important thing in the world.
If my father came after a long shift and saw me gaming. He will throw me out of the window
@@Mr_cheese.. xD
I didn't know what would happen but as soon as the dad said "I won't bother you anymore" I had a sinking feeling.
i lost my mom back in 2011, she decided to move out and honestly since then my dad and me and my brother all improved without her
she came back 5 years later and i freaked out cause i didn't even remember her, she recently disappeared in 2019 after a house fire and she had nothing to do with me anymore and I'm glad.
she broke 5 felonies and needs to see court honestly
I lost my dad when I was 13 about to enter high school. My mom had to work to keep a roof over our heads. She never took another husband. Only now at 30 do I realized just how much they both sacrificed to give me a chance at life. I'm glad I didn't waste it and am happy in a job I love doing.
I still have a loving father but a lot of people experienced this. These videos are relatable and realistic, even if it looks like a meme channel on the outside. It got some serious moral lessons, too.
How his dad wanted to connect with him, but didn't get the chance to absolutely breaks me to my core.
This one hits on a very personal level. My mom left my dad when I was very young and I havent seen him since 2011. Im sure my dad would love to take it all back. Love you dad ❤
My mother left my father before I was born and all my life told me he never wanted me. 25 years old now and just learned all of that was a lie. Spent all my life thinking I was never wanted. Shits hard man. Sorry for making it about me. Didnt know who else to share with. Hope you all find happiness.
@@2moreminutes don't apologize, be thankful to everyone who reads your story :)
@@LeicaFleury I appreciate you Franco. Thanks
Lol your mom left him why would he come back?
Dude, fucking call him, go see him
Do something, every day you hesitate is another chance that he's gone forever.
This video just made me miss my father even more. Bro...
RIP dad. I got lucky my parents didn’t divorce and actually loved each other.
In 2019, my dad had two strokes. Thankfully, he's still able to walk, talk and do things that require a lot of effort. However, it gave me a wake up call. I realized i needed to start spending less time playing video games and watching tv and crap like that and start spending more time with my family. I'm extremely grateful that my father is still alive and in good health. I have also gained a lot of respect for the work my mother and father do to keep our family afloat. Even when you may be incredibly angry at your parents, take a step back and think of all the things they have done for you over the course of your life, because life would sure be a lot different without them in it.
It's rough having to juggle work, school and helping raise my younger sister as a kid. Home repairs and car maintenance was another difficult task to tackle with no father figure to teach you. I remember from 14 to 19 I never slept a full night's rest, more napped between gaps of free time when I could. Never seeing my mom either because she worked 2 jobs. It was tough and my grades reflected it. My sister became something of herself and I'm proud of her for taking advantage of the opportunity she was given. I'm slowly catching up
I remember playing Gears of War with my pops one time. It was only for about an hour, but it was honestly one of the best moments in my life
My dad passed away over the summer. He had long term medical problems that would ultimately end in his death. I'm only 16, and he didn't teach me too much about what it means to mature and be a man. I have so much regret for the way I acted towards him, and so much fear about the future and that I'll never know how to live my life.
Don't blame yourself. We all have made those same mistakes as men. I lost my dad last year too, and I also regret some of the things I said to him and how I treated him. Know that the ghosts of our fathers are always with us, and just by the feelings you have about your father is energy felt by him. He isn't gone completely, just physically. Live your best to honor him.
Feel for you man :-/
I'm 31 and if I were to have kids the main wisdoms I would impart are:
-) Work out and watch what you eat.
As a kid it's rather easy to stay in shape with minor effort (avoid soda's, eating multiple pieces of candy in one go, ...) and just having a good figure will boost your confidence throughout your life. Furthermore it has been statistically shown that looking better improves the chances of getting the job you've applied for; also do people like you more simply because you look better.
Furthermore by being in shape the chances of getting a partner go up quite a bit.
And ... being healthy and fit when you're young means not being a feeble old man at 60 yo who needs a nurse to move a chair ...
-) You're 16 so you still have some high school and maybe college / university to go.
Try to interact a lot with the girls from your classes.
School is the only time you'll ever have 'real' and 'genuine' interactions with women over a longer period of time.
You simply both have to be there.
If you can find a girlfriend during these years, the chances are way bigger she's not been practicing hypergamy and is still long term partner material.
Furthermore school girls haven't been out in the big world yet so they've only got a small pool of boys to choose from; if you're in shape and pay attention ... you might end up getting an 8+ as a partner who will never be exposed to the toxic feminist WOKE bunch that otherwise will corrupt and condemn her to cat-lady at 30 yo.
-) The 'one' and 'romantic love' sadly are a myth nowadays.
At school focus on simply having fun.
The girl you ask out and the girl who asks you out doesn't need to feel like 'long term material'. It's more important to simply have fun with people of the opposite sex and learn to interact with them, not be intimidated, learn banter, ... .
If you manage to do that, the confidence and experience will allow you to interact with women your whole life way more organic and ... that turns many women on.
I myself was always a serious person and believed heavily in finding my missing piece ... as a result I myself never indulged in short term fun.
I've regretted that decision all my life. Multiple girls who I wasn't all that into, but who were sweet and who I would love to have as girlfriends nowadays ... gave a lot of signals that I nowadays know to have been subtitle ways of inviting me to interact with them.
I couldn't see that back then and no one told me this stuff.
So, do yourself a favour and assume that if a girl suddenly shows interest, she is doing it because she's open to having a relationship with you ... even if she only signals it with stupid indirect stuff like suddenly asking about something from class, wanting help with something, grabbing on to you playfully, grabbing on to you on prom night, ... .
To an introvert like me all of that registers as no hidden meanings ... but ... take it from a biologist with knowledge of human behaviour, women most of the time use these small cues in the hope you pick up on them and take charge.
They will rarely ask you in person directly ... even if she seems to pick on you, it probably means she's interested to see what first move you're gonna make.
If you let these opportunities go by you'll regret it. You'll end up like me at 31 yo still sometimes browsing Facebook and looking at the current life of the girls who showed me genuine interest.
Just don't be the kid who asks out every girl in short succession; girls talk and require approval of their peers.
If you're image get lowered in value, girls might simply be pressured into not interacting with you even if they like you.
Be yourself and AT SCHOOL girls will come to you; this will never repeat itself again in later life ... unless you're a Chad.
-) I graduated as a biologist with great distinction and never failed any test in my life ever. Yet, because even complex biotech jobs are so sought after ... unless you can count on nepotism or being part of a governmental approved protected minority that needs to be hired in quota, you will find it very very hard to get a decent job ... and you probably can forget about the fun jobs as well.
So ... if you have an interest in a technical job (I myself would start over as a technician), you're better off pursuing that and not even attending an expensive university.
That being said, go for what you want to go. It's way more easy to acquire extra certificates, training, ... when you're young and not yet working full time.
I would very much encourage learning to drive a fork lift. It's a short course but ... when you're looking for jobs ... you can fill the gap with warehouse jobs that require driving such a fork lift AND just having the certificate will land you that better type of job.
-) Also you're 16. Make sure to have fun during your school days. Go out, don't worry about getting a 10/10 on tests. Having more than 5/10 is enough and in the end the person who got there with 5 to 7/10 will get the same degree as you with 9.5 and 10/10.
But ... that person with the 5's will have had more fun along the way and ... the type of fun you can have as a teen, a student, a minor ... WILL NEVER COME BACK later in life.
During holidays and vacations don't be afraid to suggest going to an amusement park, swimming pool, ... with the boys and girls from your class.
The best times of my life were with my class mates from university, both male and female AND we still come together a few times a year; we even have an annual weekend in a cabin in the woods.
-) If you don't meet friends from high school outside school, be prepared to have them fade away afterwards.
If you do meet them, then they might well be there for life.
At school you can easily be friends with people from every class of society ... try to be openminded and easily approachable.
Sometimes the ones who seem weird at first end up being your best friends.
-) When it comes to dating.
Never obsess over 'when is she gonna respond to my text'.
If she doesn't, she wasn't into you and saved you both a lot of time.
You don't wanna chase a woman. Woman want to chase you.
If you two haven't texted a few days AND she likes you ... that is a very good thing. The more you are absent from her life, the more she wants and thinks about you.
The most fun women I had, were the ones who initiated contact themselves, those who replied fast, those who would resume contact themselves after radio silence (never be the first to break radio silence; she will AND if she doesn't (can take a month) she was never into you) (Yes, it is very possible that a girl suddenly contacts you again after more than 1.5 months of silence AND if that happens and you play it cool, she will be very attracted to you ... women are weird like that ;-) )
If a woman makes no effort, she isn't playing hard to get ... she doesn't want you enough to make it worth your time.
Don't have long conversations without physical interaction.
Don't be a pen pall ... you want to make suggestive jokes, touche her, make fun of her in a playful way, ...
Women mostly build rapport by doing things for you.
Don't ask them, tell them. But do it polite.
Something as stupid as on a date ask her to hold your coat and go pick out a place to sit while you're going to talk to the bartender, go to the toilet, ... is enough to trigger something in her.
Subconsciously her brain tells her: "I'm doing something for this person. Thus I must like this person to be doing something for them. Thus I must like the person. I like this person." Yup ... that is a biological fact.
Be a gentleman and it will blow up in your face during dating. You can be a gentleman in moderation when you're in a stable relationship ... but ... during the early stages be "mysterious and vague about your commitment to her". Girls love to chase and crave the drama and pains of uncertainty. They hate nothing more than that they know they can get you because you yourself told them what you felt for them.
If you like a girl and she does small things for you, that alone means she's interested.
Don't force things to quick.
The fact that she's talking with you and responds eventually on your messages is proof she's interested. If she wasn't, she wouldn't do anything on her own initiative.
If women have demands they make clear from the start; red flag. They don't like you enough and never will.
I know a lot more ... but for now that is a good set of tips ;-)
Take care! ^^
dw man... your future kids will be the same towards you
stop people there is no definition how to be a "man" its a toxic mindset from the past
@@timothyds7453his just sounds like major projection on your part. Thinking you were some loser when in reality, you couldve done literally anything else and have such are warped view on life. The only thing I do agree on is how "true love" isnt real, but that doesnt mean you should "slut" yourself whenever you can. Thats as retarded as the hypergamy you mentioned.
Edit: you also justed admitted you peaked in high school. L moment
Man I'm so lucky I got to spend a lot of time with my Dad. Loved it when he watched my play Donkey Kong Country as a kid, singing together, making homemade pizzas. He was a war vet, state champion wrestler, but completely supported my musical theatre and ballet pursuits. Wonderful dad. Miss him so much
I lost my father at the age of 9 years, but I do remember that sad day. He was a very good person
I wish I had a Dad...He didn't want me when I wasn't even born yet and I have a lot of step siblings who I don't know. When i met my dad for the first time i kept telling myself "he's an asshole, don't trust him". He was interested in my hobbies and we actually had fun it just felt so good to have someone who shared the same interests...He left again. My mom is taking the role of my father again and I can see her improving a lot. I'm so grateful for her.
Doesn't want to spend the $$$
@@adamdixon2257 Yeah he didn't pay Child Support but bought me a lot of stuff in the short amount of time I spent with him
@Boqudaass That's nice of you to say but we found out that he just wanted to get with my mom again
@@PotatoQueen_ That's great
@@jofx4051 not really since he basically just tried to buy my love..though I still appreciate the gesture since we don't have a lot of money
I watch these and there’s a message that I understand but there’s something holding me back from doing what I need to do. I know what the first step is, but I don’t know if I can take it to break out of my comfort zone.
Just do it
ur onto it! its now or ever tbh.
Do it. If being responsible is too painful after 5 years you can easily go back to being a perma-manchild and the rest of us will begrudgingly feed you to scratch the last itch of Judeo-Christian morality that we're desperately clinging onto to stop ourselves returning to monke. Only remorseless toil will set you free.
There is no easy way, you just need to take the first step. Inertia kills us. Push through, you can do it, anon.
I would say, adult life is losing 70%of your time of fun when you used to be a child. If someone doesn't become an adult when the time is here, they lose 100% of that time and live with a bad mental health until they move on. The question isn't whether life will become bad or no, the question is to what extent. Its better to grind for that 30% fun time than to just lose it all.
As an orphan child (my father died to kidney failure) this video hit me in the gut. I got bullied alot back when i was still in elemantary school and this video reminds of those damn days.
2:26 SHIIII THAT HIT HARD LMAO
This is a documentary.
Ever since i started my dream diary i've noticed that a lot of my dreams have my dad in them, or something that can be described as his presence. I hated him when he was alive - he was an alcoholic who didn't care about me. He just went to work, drank a lot and went fishing/foraging on weekends with his friends. I harbored such strong hatred towards him which is ironic because my mother was the monster who actually abused me in many different ways but i thought that it was just "love" since she told me everyone gets the same treatment everywhere.
Only a few years after his death i realised what a fucked up life he had. Had to support his family from when he was 12, had a bad first marriage and his first kid died in a car accident while his second marriage was to a blood sucking bitch with an added bonus of spawning a disabled kid who hated his guts. Now i think that if i had a way to go back to the past i would try to connect to him so he would have something to be happy about. He was a good man who broke down under the weight of life.
The spirit of the father is more than just your father. He is also a symbol of strength, sacrifice and endurance. It's eternal and it has characteristics that reflect on you. So I don't think it's that strange, I think it just means that you see yourself as him, which would make sense since sons behaviorally like to imitate their fathers. Perhaps this is an awakening that has been flourishing whitin you the more you meditate and contemplate your father's life. The spirit of the father is also a judge of your actions, which could mean you are seriously judging some of the things in your life too.
Sometimes major changes have to happen for realization to occur. Its unfortunate that your realization came after your fathers death.
I am not that wise, I'm pretty young actually. But I think you should be the best person you can be for him. Make him proud.
I'm glad you where able to forgive him.
He wasn't lying when he said the job was far away. Dude really had to go to Poland.
The kid in the video is such a strong individual, I hope things go well for him