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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ค. 2021
- Father figure is an animation about the fate of a father who, being left to the snares of the probing system, must live with the thought that he will not be able to raise his child.
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Anon, did you know that 1 in 5 babies are taken from their mothers by court order in divorce?
I believe mothers should win these cases every time.
We live in the 21st century for God's sake.
There is no place for sexism towards women.
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true.
This is probably a huge r/wooosh moment but I think it's supposed to say men instead of women
Lmao
@@matthewhetes9965 hopefully
@@matthewhetes9965 Just FYI for those who didn't get it, this is just another way of saying 4/5 men lose custody of their children in divorce court, but it's painting it in a way that makes it seem like the women are the victims.
> "The daughter needs her father"
> Takes the child and leaves the father
Haha, classic...
Don't worry, she will quickly find replacement for him a better father. One will be a wallet for her schools and mothers meals, another will be a vibrator on the legs for mom, 3rd will be a stepdad for her. She is on that path. People in that society are well replaceable, that what this daughter learn from her family.
@@uneverknow8154 that is so fckin sad man, i still have future ahead and a lot of chanches but i dont think im gonna be able a partner that i can really trust since this is what mindset is our society promotes
Double binds or ,,lose-lose situation" is a common manipulation tactic used by usually narcissitic individuals to put targets in places where the target cannot win. The goal is to put the target (depending what the individual wants) either: into a fetchquest, state of learned helplessness, emotinal immobilization, gaslighting
@@uneverknow8154 reading this shit always gives me a sinking feeling in my stomach
@UCy2tFASi1RHY0CD-Sc5HvUw Chances*, but I have to agree with you, knowing this and still going through life is kinda stressful, you have to worry about who the hell is gonna be an idiot or not.
This is sad because I went through the same thing parents arguing at night. And the funny thing is that my step father cares more about me then my mom but the court always sides with the mom its fucking bullshit.
The court is always bias against men
@@mayorbeetlejuice4841 and I think its bs but you know what's funny feminist dont talk about this do they?
@@skylordthe1st Feminists say it's their revenge for the patriachay, and they're happy bout it
@@ayushsrivastava1672 lol if the patriarchy exists then how come we dont win the court cases lol
Its a tough life i went through it to but trust my things will get better you can make it through it
“We have decided it would be better for the child to stay with the mother”
Is a sentence I hope no loving father has to hear in their life
My dad did and I gotta say they really protect too much the mother. The cause is not even for the kid it’s literally and only the mother that they listen. And also, I am happy no longer living with my mom she was a b*tch I hate her.
sadly a sentence my dad has had to bear twice with me and my sister
@@vacc8069 Well but if the child wants to stay with the father no one is stopping her or does the slave owner (government) interfere in that?
@@mereen750 Nope, until they're 18 they have no choice.
@@youtubebannedmymainchannel Damn, so if they go to Dad, the nazi police will come and kidnap him back to mom?
I'm going to be honest, this one almost got me to cry. That was brutal.
I nearly cried when he was handcuffed when he just wanted to talk to his daughter
same. f-cking hell.
This is the life I have to live just like a lot of men , I don’t see my kids at all .
@All seeing Otto Man, that's rough. I'm sorry you have to go through that
@@HairyTheCandyMan Thanks bro , it’s absolutely heartbreaking, it’s been nearly two years since I have seen or heard from my daughter but I think of her all day everyday .
"Fathers are not second class parent" - Judge Judy
I love that quote
@@matt309 same
@@nuiadngnsdnge2673 Thats not based. Thats true
@@nuiadngnsdnge2673 not really, it's used when someone says something controversial and isn't reluctant about it. This isn't controversial, it's basic facts.
@@nuiadngnsdnge2673 god thats true and i hate it
"you were arguing?"
"no, we were just talking."
PARENTS SAY THIS SHIT EVERY SINGLE TIME.
AND I F ING HATE IT, parents please just be f ing honest with your kids
AND THEY GET AWAY WITH IT TOO
As someone who grew up around that, I felt that.
For some reason they aren’t divorced yet :/
As a daughter of divorced parents, I can relate
The fact that you’re coming to this obvious conclusion only now and also can’t understand why parents lie about these things
You’re too immature to be watching these kinds of videos
мой отец никогда не участвовал в моей жизни и окончательно ушел из семьи, когда мне было 11. он не был занят работой, я думаю, ему просто не было дела до меня. стать таким же отцом один из главных страхов в моей жизни, я хочу стать хорошим отцом для своих детей. в 23 я все еще не простил его
и вот после просмотра видео, я поставил себя на место этого отца. это правда одна из самых тяжелых вещей, которая может произойти, когда ты искренне любишь своего ребенка и пытаешься сделать все правильно, но у тебя его забирают. у меня от этого ком в горле. все отцы в подобной ситуации, держитесь, да поможет вам Бог
Ты на русском написал? Забавная ситуация у меня, попалось это в рекомендациях. Я уехал из России в лет 13 с мамой и сестрой, мой отец был козлом нереальным, продал квартиру, выгнал нас на улицу, хотел сдать в детдом. Мне 25 лет сейчас, звонил по интернету сегодня, впервые за много времени, он стал алкошом-банкротом, говорит приезжай перепишу квартиру на тебя, посыл такой ввтащи меня из говна я остался один, типо только ты у меня остался, хз что делать, манипуляция очевидная, этот гений ещё хочет чтобы я там жил с ним потенциально, пиздец.
@@user-obpk2g78hscrew him he wanted nothing to do with you then he still wants nothing to do with you now other than being a leaching asshole. My 1st wife left Russia under similar circumstances with her parents I dumped her ass in the gutter once she turned into what her parents are after 6 months. Married a Ukrainian with a good family background and still married after 18 years.
@@user-obpk2g78h damn
Seriously, when divorce is portrayed so well, I always end up lost for words.
I'll just say, every kid deserves a mother AND a father. Don't remove either from their life unless it's absolutely necessary.
Yes. God bless the nuclear family.
they aren't going to listen, this is the exact reason i don't start up girl/ boy wars, always saying who suffered from what or this and that, because that affects that part of it A LOT. everyone thinks women do that delicate soul that kisses all the children boo boo's and give their children all the care of the world. That is why certain women get away with things like this (i know there are some good single moms out there but seriously it's 1-6 women that have children that are going to be angels). We gotta stop this quickly.
And that should be up to them, not a damn court system that could care less about the child.
This is the absolute saddest thing I've seen in weeks. 10/10
Man i love your videos!! ❤️❤️
@@asurasoul3088 Cheers!
You think this is sad? Lookup Mickey never came back by ethereal snake.
Your vids are so good!
@@Aliv3ToDi3 This video is about a prevalent issue in society so yeah, it may be a little sadder than the issue of Vietnam war drama.
“Dad do you love mom”
“Sure”
“Does mom love you?”
“Uhh yeah”
Shit hurt me far too much
Yeah the way his face changed made me sad
That's normal
Yeah this shit hit a liiiiiiittle bit too close to home
Hahahahahhahahahaahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahaahhqhqhahqhqhqhahabahahahahahahahahaha
I got hit extra Hard by a flashback
This sparked really bad memories
Basically me, my mother and father have broken up and tried to work it out, but my mom thinks he’s doing everything wrong, when she’s the one who always causes it..
My Dad left and never looked back. I have kids and I would fight to death to keep them with me. It rips my heart out to know others are suffering this.
you may be entitled to hate him, but you don't know the mental fortitude, spiritual strength, financial and health burden it takes to fight in family court. Most men will never recover financially, socially in terms of physical and mental health. The only logical choice is not to play. And missing your kids hurt to the bone. This man chose this path, not a glorious one (he's not the hero of the story). But is he the villain? I bet he's not. Just a normal man who chose self preservation.
The worst part about this is if child doesn’t understand what the father tried to do, they will just repeat the cycle.
Yes
They will assume that this is how love is and will have a few screw loose at a young age that will be unfixable
Taiwan is a country 🇹🇼
@@Polyglot_English Nope it's part of China
@@mustafaLY2631 you're a commie?
In the end one of two things happen:
1. She ends up hating her mom.
2. She buys into mom's bs and hates dad.
From experience I can straight up tell you, once the kids are on their own they will want to know, it's only about how indoctrinated they are and how long it will take to see the truth
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@@Laura-bq4uu Exactly. People aren’t getting this.
From personal experience, once kids have grown up into their own person, they'll reach out to their divorced parent to know "what happened?", they'll make their own judgement if they were wrong about their divorced parent or not.
@@ballsackschrader218 haha no.
4:21 and that, poeple, is why there are so many children who grew up without their fathers and why so many dads comitted suicide.
他遇到了一位壞女人
但是他的女兒是一位傑出的人
因為她有一位好爸爸
"You aren't spending enough time with her."
"You have a bad infulance on her."
Classic.
the next line was literally about how she's staying up really late waiting for him and her school work is suffering from it and that's the bad influence
@@kendrabraun309 That went way over your head, huh?
@Stolas well she's actually in her life sooo
@@kendrabraun309 Just stop.
Hum
he’s treated like a criminal simply because his wife had too many wants and not enough priority sad the world is
Let her goooooooooo. She is materialistic. When she is in her 50s she will learn or die.
@@mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 yeah its still hard when you have a child because he would be in the same position only more regret
@@mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 She is the type of woman to be viewed as cool and awesome for young girls, so those girls are likely to follow suit, not all, but a good amount.
He's treated like a criminal simply because he is a man
Thx god I am a Asian. If a father spend less time on work will be treated as not responsible.
as a child of parents who separated, this happened to me, my mom had always said that my dad never cared about me and my siblings included herself, but she lied to only believe he was bad too and so I didn't want to visit him, turns out he is a good dad, he always takes us to places, encourages us instead of yelling at us to do something, he helps us with chores instead of sitting around like my mom does, that's why I love him so much and look up to him a lot.
Same, my parents divorced
Same, my parents divorced we used to live in this little country like part of Arizona, the place was called camp verde the place was horrible because the the whole town was under law of the yavapai native reservation and diffrent laws under the county, anyway. My mom is a bugger, she blames and blames my dad for stuff he didn’t do and he will never do, calls him a bad dad, he is a lot like yours, he helps in a way every father should. Breaks my heart man, breaks my heart.
This is just depressing. I'm gonna try to be a divorce lawyer just because of this and way more cases of crap like this where theres a clear bias with the mother.
"She needs to spend more time with her father"
*divorces*
demands he works more to pay for all her things whines about not being home enough.
There are some women like that, the ones that gaslight their husband's into thinking they aren't doing enough when he's actually working his ass off for his family. It's so she can feel justified in cheating or leaving him
" logic "
@@1dingerr All. Not some.
@@hawhafunnyraffs5568 not all women are like that.
Damn his lawyer was a CHAD and they still lost in court.
Well, the wife used an eldritch entity to win the case, not even chad could win against that.
Meme King what’s eldritch entity?
@@petarzhelev1373 a being older than time Who’s origin is only know by itself and their devout followers holding special power and authority over the fabric of our reality.
In this context a lawyer who’s old and experienced and can bring the judge to their side every time though costly they always win
Adam Notes Thank you for clarifying
@@deeznuts-kw6yv they could had called sal
This hits really close to home
my mom had always trashtalked my dad to me ever since i was a 4th grade student.
I never realized how much dad gave to make me happy because my view of him had been ruined by my mother, even now I can't look at my father without feeling disgust
I am mad at my mother for ruining my dad's image for me
Gringo nose si el traductor lo tradujo bien pero hermano de lo que deberias sentir asco es de ti mismo no de tu padre deberia desviar ese asco hacia tu madre
My mom did the same, and still does even when I’m an adult. Personal question, how did your dad contribute, do you mean financially, emotionally or both ? :)
Maybe now as a mature adult, you can realize that you were brainwashed and salvage a relationship while your dad is still alive
I’m just glad my parents have been together for me and my brothers through our whole lives. It’s tough to hear or read stories of people who didn’t have that
"The father is not able to raise his daughter properly..."
Okay Karen. Looking like you on your third glass of wine and your fifth husband.
Hello chancellor
Wtf just happened…
„Karen“ so cringe
@@obiwan9662 wait Cody failed?
@EyeOfOdin *I WANT TO BE A DICTATOR*
My mother pulled this on my dad. They never married so it was more easy for her. For a long time he was only allowed to see me once a month. Then it became a weekend every 2 weeks. Finally at age 11 I demanded to leave my mom and move to live with my dad. Im 24 and my mother still tries to guilt trip me about it, or guilt me about liking my dad more.
Stay strong Kings. Fight for your kids.
Damn that's so courageous of you to do at such an age, respect enclave soldier!
Don't ever listen to your mom
For the emperor
I feel blessed that my parents split up on good terms and me and my sister got to see both our parents because some people I knew either lived this or got thrown into bad foster homes.
@@necrothescistt8164 same. My parents divorced when I was 2 years old. I see my mom every week, and my dad the week after
Came here for memes and ended up remembering horrible memories
growing up with the perspective of the kid and watching this grown up, learning to reconnect with my father, nothing has ever felt like such a stomp on the heart- it's quite amazing how just 8 minutes worth of simple animations can bring someone to tears and Im honestly grateful i stumbled upon this channel, please keep up the stellar work.
I've only read about these child custody cases where the child is taken by the mother but this made me realize the emotional toll that it must have on genuine fathers that try to give the world to their children, only to be taken away by a faceless authority.
It is absolutely horrible how disgusting our societies government has become
Going through this exact thing right now bro , haven't seen my kids since April and the state is making it impossible to see them ,because you know , women don't lie .
@@jimjohnson394 you just had to put it a stalins quote parody lmao
thats the thing
most of the times minorities are always seen as the right ppl
if some guy divorce and his ex wife get the custody of the child
who will have to pay?
I might be talking sh1t but all of this just make me tired
ppl blame on majorities the thing our ancestors did
I'm just so tired of this thing
Mother: "she needs a father."
Also mother 5s later:
"I will taker her away to my parents house and divorce you."
W*men logic
@@pertys_socks yup
Oof, this is too dark
@@christianguidettikb96 censor*
usually dad leaves his wife bc he's too lazy to take care of the father
Christ! That look on her face @ 2:40.
3:27 love that absolute vodka censorship
By all means marry, if you get a good wife, you'll be happy, if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.
-Socrates
Poor socrates id say
At least he didn’t get NTRed and rejected in the most brutal way possible like Nietzsche. A lot of edgy kids think Nietzsche is about rebelling against a non-existent system, when, in reality, it’s about cope.
Damn
@@lars9168 Yeah... he was defintely a phiosopher.
@@arcturus4762 I need to learn about his philosophy, i haven't look into the Nietzhsce philosophy, so i don't understand what you mean with that comment, btw thanks for the reference. please explain the context if you have the time buddy, i am open to know what is the matter of Nietzhcse tragedy.
my father always says "maybe you wouldn´t get a perfect girlfriend, but if you want to have kids, dont seek a woman for you, search a mother for your child"
Thats some good ass advice
Explain? More
Wow best quote I've heard in a while
@@splat1gamer25 he means that first and foremost you should to pay attention to her mother’s qualities, not the face, fitness etc. immediately leave her if she’s a drama queen cuz when you will have children they will pay for your fault
@@splat1gamer25 you may be canot get a women for yourself, cuz may be you dont understand each other something like that, but if you wanna have kids, search a MOTHER for those child, a good women its not always a good mother and viceversa.
Edit: typo
Man this got a little too real. I feel like this exact story has happened to many men wrongfully... I am shocked and amazed how deep these are, truly award worthy content right here!
3:04 nah i laughed so hard at that taxi driver fr
I DRIVE
What is the greatest thing a father can do for his child?
be there
Mold her into a woman that a REAL MAN would want.
Never go to get the milk
I forgor 💀
Support them
She's the type of mom that does this kind of shit, then is completely baffled as to why her daughter hates her when she grows up.
call that karma
lol that's the ideal scenario. What makes you think she wont hate her father
@@InAnotherLife90 Because she will most likely come to learn that he didn't have much say in the matter. That the courts were bias against him. I guess his only mistake would be not fighting hard enough. But even then, in this scenario he didn't do anything to warrant hate unless her mother manipulates her
this is so accurate. my mother is like this, i don't even know how to explain my emotions/feelings to my friends everytime they ask me why am i like this. everytime i tell them that the reason why i hate my mom is because she did nothing when i need her help, she didn't even take care of me because she already found a new husband which also became my worst trauma ever. my step father used to bully me along with his son's (which is my step brothers), i also remember the time they duck taped my mouth and hang me on a tree because i acidentally pooped on my pants. and what's more annoying is that my friends kept telling me that 'she's still your mother'. i don't care if she's my mother, violence is violence and that's IT, why can't just people understand that and that's fucked up because me and those who have parents like these never receives any justice for our "abusive parents" actions.
@@bellatrix9447 Because for some reason society gives abusive mothers a pass
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I'm not even a father and this burns me up inside.
This is a detriment and net loss not just to the children forced to be fatherless but also to society as a whole.
Future generations face suffering untold at the hands of dictator government overreach.
This began in the late 1960's and early 1970's and has been a regular occurrence ever since. We are several generations into this issue now.
@@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN
True but it's only become worse and more prevalent.
@@radfoo72 Oh yes, the ride is going strong and divorce laws are only one of the wagons on the roller coaster.
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With how much the world has changed since then, especially in the last few years, I wonder what things will look like by 2030.
Damn dude, that ending made me cry. My dad got violent w my mom when I was 12 and that was a wrap. Went through the whole supervised visitation. Left my mom, then she got him arrested, then it was back-and-forth. I was the oldest trying to keep it together for my younger sisters. Both parents had huge flaws. But I love them both. And I respect that my dad is still in our lives and has become a better man. But my relationship with them all is fragmented. At the end of the day, my father DID mess up by putting his hands on her. It really hurts, there’s things I can’t tell either because the relationship at least feels like it isn’t there from the turmoil. And while I know they love me, I wish I had that unwavering feeling of being able to go to them for anything at any time.
Thanks for coming to my ted talk
"She needs a father figure" *Proceeds to divorce her daughter's father.*
*Classic*
Subtext: "I want Chad and I'm using our daughter to get your money and his attention."
LOGIC
i honestly dont know whats worse, ignorant woman or you guys bitching about everything
@@Lawrance_of_Albania lol get over it
00:02
"You have no idea what I have sacrificed for you."
"Nobody asked you to."
I said the same and my ex replied the same on the day she cheated on me.
It been over 5years now, and Good Lord have mercy for my soul, everytime i remembered that moment. My heart hurts asfuck
It's kind of true. I have a friend whose father worked abroad for all her life. He was never there for her and her sister. They had his money but that was worthless. I think it's better to live a more modest life rather than grow up spoiled by wealth and with a big hole in your soul where dad's love should be.
one of the most selfish arguments out there
@@AngelSnowGlitch it's ok king. you got the trash out of your house
@@TheMelopeus I had both lol
I'm in this type of situation. my mum and dad had a fight and wanted a divorce from my dad, and right now I'm living with my grandma (Nan) she had full custody from me and my siblings after court. after my mum got divorced 6 years ago, she had two children (who are still a new born and a toddler) from her ex boyfriend, and right now im the only one who is taking care of them, because I'm the older brother who should be taking care of things, and should be the one who places order around the house... but I can't even do that my self tbh, it's hard for me to do things my self and I'm really slow when I'm told what to do. I just wish I wasn't lazy and fat, and soft.
As my parents were really close to divorcing (there good now thankfully) this hits hard.
Ah yes, the classic complaints, the "You need to make more money so we buy the stuff we need." and then the "You were never home, you were never here for your family."
The most stable relationship is one where the husband and wife works together in a family restaurant or small shop
@@valorzinski7423 I swear
@@valorzinski7423 my mom and my dad work in a company of plastic and my dad specifically works as the president of a bikes racing company and they two break theirs asses, i can’t be more grateful
Generations of girls (not women) have been told to believe four things:
1) that they should want a 'perfect man'.
2) that they deserve this 'perfect man'.
3) that this 'perfect man' is one who makes enough dough to give her a luxurious consumerist lifestyle while simultaneously having all the time in the world for her, while being very fit & witty & talented and supporting her in everything.
4) that if a man is not 'perfect', then he is faulty and unworthy because he isn't trying hard enough. "Do better."
These are asinine ideas that only a narcissist would agree with. Men are told something similar, although often reversed. The important question is though - who is telling us these things?
they mean a man who earns a lot and have lots of time, not your average joe
Husband: *Did everything to make her wife happy*
Wife: "Its not enough"
That’s why you don’t overprovide. Make the woman work for her stuff. I’m no ones ATM. You wanna disrespect? You’re on the streets clown 🤡 gtfo
That why OJ Simpson is the OG Chad .He killed his divorded wife and got away with it
If you work too much you dont spend enough time with her and if you dont work enough youre a bum.
Women amiritie
@@avgstreetshitter
Murder is not cute 😐
I am a child of divorce. I was just around 4. I only remember one interaction with my father. I had 2 stepdads, one in the past and one now. He is nice, but I don't see him as a father. He treats me like his child, but I can never feel like we have a real bond. My mom wasn't with me too when I was child always because of work. Now, when she shows affection, I feel weird and uncomfortable. I truly understand that mom worked for us, but I hate how I'm feeling this way, it's like I'm selfish.
I have accepted the things from the past, but I still wonder what would happen if I grew up in a safe environment. Would I be comfortable seeing my friends casually talking to their family? I don't know, but I'm sure I would. I became independent in such a young age.
"its just a video, why are you crying?"
The video
"Our daughter needs more time with you"
"You are not allowed to see my daughter anymore"
LMAO
The comment that broke the internet.
Probably one of the biggest fears of every man who tries building a family, maybe it happens to me...
This is why a lot of men, even myself opt out of marriages. You want a family, but you know in a blink of an eye, you can lose it all.
@@FlamePhoenix329 You won't just lose them - they would be taken by a faceless entity that only sees numbers and cares nothing for them. This is something that all men deeply fear on a primal level; having what he loves taken from him by a monster while being unable to do anything.
Modern society is an abomination.
Don’t waste your time bro
I was already really iffy on the idea but now I'm always gonna be safe. Fuck that.
My biggest fear is that evil influences my child to make a mistake and end their life. This is one of those evils. I am beginning to think it is unsafe to have children in this day and age because your child could so easily have their life ruined.
I knew a guy who this happened to to his parents divorced and he never saw his dad again kinda sad really
0:40 Do people actually argue like that cause I remember my parents were more like about to kill each other
The lady writing the notes and skewing it to look like he was a manipulative jerk was pretty spot on.
What about when the girl said she needed to pee but she had to wait, because he was arguing. Was it so hard to show her the toilet before continuing
Your average feminist turned into social worker.
@@Traigame2cervezas the very few cases where gender studies somehow lands them a job... sort of
Exactly, these evil feminist commies hold our very lives in their hands.
She even has a Karen haircut
As a father I feel so lucky to have full custody of my kids. Took two years of court and I didn't have a lawyer. In the end truth prevailed. Thank God everyday.
It's weird your country rank 5th highest in divorce rate. While my country rank 5th lowest divorce rank.
Stay strong king
@@AbdulKarim-ks2uf where you from ???
@@Trishlikefish99 my worthless country. The Bangladesh. But I don't live in that country anymore.
Didn't have a lawyer! Lmao you should play the lottery
No video had hit this close to home as this one has. Growing up without a father leaves a gaping hole in your heart- and as you grow you simply conform around the pain, but it never leaves. I can remember being in kindergarten, when they'd have the daddy daughter events and I felt so left out. My grandfather would offer to take me but it was not the same. Why didn't I get a dad? Did I not deserve him? I didn't quite understand at that age. I often pictured my father to be a tall man in a suit and tie who conducted business meetings and was simply away at the time. No one told me how growing up without him would affect me. In second grade I had a breakdown in class because it hit me he was never coming to see me. I yearned for that love- and wound up finding it in all the wrong places and getting abused as I got older. I made my way through school hoping that one day I'd meet him and hopefully, just maybe, he'd be proud of me. Waiting for that "Dad?" moment like at the end of this video. Hoping that on some off chance he'd find me. That he'd be different. That he'd want to look out for me. But as I'm graduating from highschool and he won't be at my graduation, I see how he hasn't changed. He couldn't give up his drugs or alcohol for his daughter. He couldn't get a job. And it hurts. But I know he still has love for me. He knows I'm out there- he knows that I have a love for him. And I guess that's enough to call him my dad. Thanks for the video, really shows the importance of a father. Men, be there for your children as much as you can. Fathers, never stop being a dad.
Bro this hits hard even though it's just a animation let me explain:
When i was 8 years old problems in the house we're starting to rise and honestly it was very traumatic to me see how My father are discuting each other while my father had to go to work and return to Home the money My father gives to My Mother instead of using it for me she uses it for her own use and not for me and i remember how My father and i returned From work to house at very late night and i Will never forget what i saw that My Mother was doing to My Father he opened the house door and saluted to My Mother for then she grab him from it's shirt and started yelling to him and punching him i Will never forget what i saw that day and still to this day My father tries to be relaxed with My Mother and it got the point where i have to choose to which live and it's a dilemma for me because i love both of them and it Will hurt me if i decided with who to live but the most appropiate thing would be live with My father
I hope You don't get the same experience that i had and stay safe whoever is Reading This thanks for Reading My life and here in the Comments You can tell me to who to choose for live i Say My Father but it's up to You Guys
-Manuel Aguilar Polanco
My Real Name.
As someone who’s parents are in the process of divorcing, this hits hard.
Hopefully it gets better🙏🙏 I send my condolences
I send my condolences too
Damn...
Hope you get better man, i send condolences.
Stay strong fren. It’s been 3 years since that happened to me & it still affects me
Heck, even Chadvocate didn't help him, that sucks.
he probably pump & dumped the judges daughter
Sometimes, chad lawyers are too assertive and that can mess with the judges self esteem
only guy i know that kept his kids over the mom was from work and ONLY because she was caught stealing from people'ss homes she house sit. She was pawning off all of their jewelry AND went to jail for it. literally only cause she was sent to jail he kept them and not the long list of BS and abuse she was doing.
Waiting for this channel to make a video about how women are expected to do every household chore, or more than men are, and take care of children or talked behind their backs about how they aren't taking care of their children, when they have jobs as well. If this channel doesnt do it, doesnt it mean it's mysoginistic?
@@whyareyouexisting7285 How is that even comperable to losing your child?
I've lost my dad several years ago when I was just a 13 y'o boy and I don't know for what I'm still alive. With all the other suffocations I'm suffering due to his loss (like how my family went from rich to poor, moved to another country), sometimes I think being dead is better than living a terrible life
Are you okay brotha?
I have a similar story. My parents divorced when I was 4 years old, and every year I moved away from my father. I have moved 3 times. At first I moved to another house with my father and mother, then I started living with my mother (it was possible to get to my father in an hour) and now, when I have to FLY by plane for an hour and a half. And it just so happened that I am Russian, and my father is on the other side of the country. There are no handcuffs and people, but I have not seen my father for 9 months or more. And the problem is that I have been constantly studying for these 9 months. (Yes, there are spring, winter, autumn holidays, but they last less than a week).Almost every day I have disputes, conflicts over trifles, at a time when my father and I understand a common language perfectly. If your parents are not divorced, or if you see them at least once a month, I envy you.
This happened to a buddy of mine, dude watched his kid in the parking lot when he got divorced. I always saw his car, and gave him a subtle thumbs up when we passed, just to let him know his son was doing well. We'd often talk over the phone, mostly about his son, how his grades are, and if he has any new friends.
I always recorded the sports events for him, put them on flashdrives, and left them in secret spots, just so he could watch his son play the games. I was honest with my friend, about me recording the games for his father, and every game, when it ended, he asked me to record a message to his father. It was usually the same speal 'I miss you, i'm doing well, I know this wasn't your choice, and I don't blame you, thank you for watching the game, and when I'm 18 I'll come find you.'
I probably broke the law somewhere, maybe the father did too, but knowing my buddy could still talk to his dad, at least through me meant a lot when they met up when he finally hit 18. It's like a day didn't go by, they knew each other, what they were doing, and how it was going.
When they booth felt okay and good wiyh it then it was a really good solution.You are a great friend
Damn your a good friend
It's a great story
You are the best kind of person in this sad world, this is something society shouldn't go against and its so sad that we don't allow a child and his parent talk to each other, even though both want to talk
Gigachad right here, everyone wishes they could have a friend like you.
It’s crazy how this wojak meme format has literally turned into a documentary.
Nice hellcat
It's not a boat, it's a war ship
Aye, car group
@@su-57_ ayeee
@@kwekumensah5642 I dare to call it a star destroyer
despite being an animation this video brings a heavy message, and to think that this actually happens is sad...
this not only happens but is so common now .
The sad thing is everyone knows it and no one want to change it. I see a lot of damaged children in the next few generations.
The only winners are courts , lawyers and social organisations that gain billions every year.
It's the legal way for the kids trafficking between different people in some cases complete strangers.
Esse vídeo me fez lembrar o divórcio de meus pais. 😢 até a metade foi exatamente assim. Porém quando fiz 12 anos decidi, por minha vontade própria, ir morar com meu pai. É uma situação muito triste, assistir esse vídeo deixou meus olhos carregados com lágrimas. 😢
Deus abençoe quem estiver lendo!
Unrealistic, there's no way he would have lost with the Chad lawyer
Unfortunately it’s that rigged 😢 not even Chad can save you.
Unfortuantly, it wasnt giga chad 😔
It can happen
@Barbz nation but what is "like this"? how I know if she will do this? Nobody says "that girl loves spending money and I don't trust her at all, perfect" they become this after the child is born and then comes the situation on the video, you want males to quit reproducing entirely? Because in fear of situation like this is what I'm doing and many other males with brains will do while this is a possibility
@Barbz nation right. We choose that girl we have to
face the consequences
Its scary how you can have your kids taken away at any moment you can just get accused of rape and you can say bye to your kids
Not even if you didn't do it .
Omg, yes the problem with over victimized women is so ridiculous
the worst of all often times when the mother is not taking good care of the children the law doesn't care
@@gilgrazina4342 something worst than this is men crying on internet about things that never will happen to them just for cope of being single.
@@Carekoso fake Chad. It happens to men who shared their stories with us thankfully
My mother had always told me that my father is the most hideous, terrifying person. In fact I was mentally abused by her for the 20 years of my life and then I left her and met my dad at the age of 23. I haven’t seen him for 20 years and he is one of the wonderful man I even met. This video… makes me hysterical. Literally my life.
99% of modern women are like this and I have seen it everywhere all women who are divorced are trying to blame there ex for everyting
Did anybody pay attention to the feminist custody propaganda at the background in 6:01
This isn’t even a meme at this point. Literally nobody here is joking in the comments.
This channel is more like a social commentary with wojak and dommer animations more then a joke.
Shit got serious fucking quick
To be honest. Yeah they all are heavy stuff that hit way close to home alot.
This is like a satire
Damn, it’s only been 2 days.
"She needs a father figure, that's why I'm taking her away from you, her father."
Ah yes, the smell of bullshit.
Lmao 🤣
Logic
ACHOO! *sniffle* "sorry im allergic to bullshit" -will smith
The smell of bullshit is stronger than a green stink bug
I went from sad to laughter
I get annoyed when people say "Fatherless people= cringe 💅💅💅💀💀💀🤔🤔🥺🙄😭🙄😭🙄😭🙄" like what the hell did the fatherless people did to them?? I know it's funny but it's annoying and every time I see a good ending about having a dad from people who has a dad makes me mad and now I was built to hate seeing people with dads
Why
I started to cry, i dont can imagine a world whitout my father
4:49 "you will become what you hated in the past". Man that's so terrifying..
I don't want to be gay
That shows he truly loved his daughter
@@saucelessbones5872 no joke, its true, some of them hide this on hate.
i don't wanna be a femboy furry NOOOOOOO
@@NovasNewGroove wat
My stepdad is paying child support every month, he sends presents and cards on Christmas and her birthday, despite all that he hasn’t seen or even talked to his daughter in 6 years, she’s graduating next year and he knows practically nothing about her. I just feel bad for him at times.
He probably doesn't want to know, but feel guilty and pays child support, that makes him free
@@pavelbelov9957 what makes you think that?
Waiting for this channel to make a video about how women are expected to do every household chore, or more than men are, and take care of children or talked behind their backs about how they aren't taking care of their children, when they have jobs as well. If this channel doesnt do it, doesnt it mean it's mysoginistic?
@@thomaskunz3089 idk when i say men feel sad, want someone in life or can be compassionate and submissive lack leadership qualities ppl like you tell me NO NEBER BE ALE ONRY LEADEEERS
@@whyareyouexisting7285 lol, having to do house chores, what a HUMONGOUS sacrifice, when women have jobs they tend to take less good care of their kids, that is a fact because of another fact, the fact that they have less time to spend with their kids.
I do like how this guy isn’t afraid to tackle topics in such a casual way, I feel like making satire is a good way of seeing a situation. Is it propaganda? Maybe but the goal isn’t to fully sway opinions is it? It’s merely to start the conversation with something which makes you think. Also the pinned comment is a really good use of satire, showing how strange it is to say “there’s no place for sexism in the 21st century” and then also saying mothers should win 100% of the time, since it can be a botched thought process since language is limited and our brains think in an undiscovered language, at least that’s what I personally believe since it makes the most sense to me. As a sendoff I want to tell the one or two people who read this, that it’s important to care for the people around you to give them a shoulder to lean on, cause if we can’t do that, we end up making tragedies out of Shakespeare. Let’s just say it hits close to home, all my immediate family is alive while I’m posting this comment, and I think they’re all doing well, but if someone admits to you about something which scares you, you’ve gotta tone down your voice and support them so they don’t end up carrying it out.
This is a major thing I fear when it comes to parenting/being in relationships. What if everything goes wrong? What if my wife divorces me? What if my wife cheated on me, took my children, and I got the blame for it, with me having no evidence to prove the police wrong and my whole life, spent a huge amount of efforts in to becoming wealthy gets crushed to pieces by that one single woman? Might as well be single, get rich, and stay happy than be in risk of.. well.. "chaotic" women. AAAAAAAA REALITY SUCKS!
Yep, all correct. Happened to me although I never would have thought it beforehand. Don’t get married kids
A mother protects her child from the world.
A father prepares his child for the world.
couldn't be said better
Those are the most truest words I've heard in the world.
Very well said
That in theory.
Sometimes both parents overprotect their children.
*looks up
*scratches chin
*smirks
"That's a good saying."
Nothing has made me think more than these videos.
You might need to read more in that case
@@Nathanatos22 True, I'm pretty sure some of the things in these videos may be exaggerated anyway.
Not saying they aren't completely untrue. We just shouldn't take them as complete facts, but possible scenarios that may occur in real life and could even happen to you.
@@NachoXOfficial dude, tell me how that is not completely obvious. He just told a divorce story in an 8 minute animation with a lot of detail. Of course exaggerating is one of the tools to get the point across.
Taiwan is a country 🇹🇼 🇹🇼
You're not that much of a thinker then
This hurt. I wish so bad that I had such a supportive father figure.
Kids need fathers even more than mothers when they grow up, I often wish my parents would divorce because of the fighting and constant bad tension in our house. I would have preferred to stay with my Dad. Unfortunately I’ve never gotten to know him, he never once opened up to me or said something encouraging either. It’s complicated. Wish I had a normal dad and mom
The frightening thing about this is there are people who fully believe men cannot be discriminated against like in these situations, and they're often in positions of authority.
That saddens and angers me at the same time. This video is a great reflection of how many familys are torn apart.
it's basically doublethink at this point.
@@TJCombo2 why isn't family court banned yet
@@rahulk2633 the feminazi groups will lobby against such legislation.
"men and women are equal and gender is merely a social construct with no meaning" also them -- "only women can be discriminated against"
"She decided that it would be better for the child to stay with her mother"
"as always"
This bias has to be stopped
"In my opinion, the father is not able tp raise the child properly" was one such glimpse i got to the notes the probation officer is writting
There was also the "one hour every month is too much" bit, and "using the child as spy" (?)
"I believe mothers should win this cases everytime"
@@Someone-nt8wz not in every cases honey
@@sherueatyourbestfriend6791 really is sad.
I dunno how it works in another's countries, but in Brazil, where I live, mothers and fathers are responsible to work, but is common just the mom do all the hause works and raise de children... So, it's obvious how much this father love his daughter, but the video show to as that he wasn't present for her and probably would still not be even if the parents had stayed together
I legit crying. The fact so many people experiencing and relate to this is heartbreaking..
I love my father so much
My dad fought tooth and nail for my custody over my mom, she kept me out of school for a year and missed out on a whole grade, she forced me to keep quiet about it and to lie to my dad. From when I was 5, to when I was about 11. 6 Years it took him to fight for my custody. Fuck the court for siding with my mom under the premise that, "A father can't take care of a child." I'm now 22 years old, and I couldn't have been where I am without my dad, I love him.
We fathers would never, never ever put something before our children as we truly love them.
People like you should mount campaigns against those judges. Hit up the press and raise a stink. People tend to listen when it comes to children's welfare.
@@TM0TP then they're not fathers but adults living in the same house.
Good story man. I know in the future you will be voting for a smaller gov. after seeing the horrors it causes. 300000 Laws on the books and the government's state and federal are about to step up their enforcement to cash in those chips to get more labor and mindless drone that can only think about their own survival.
depends dude i know some dads that don't do anything and the mother is working and raising the family. it depends which parent had a good childhood but were not spoiled.
The mom is absolutely in the wrong, if she doesnt have a job or anything else to do in life, she needs to take responsibility
I agree
ok mr obvious
In her mind she is doing her job, AKA "doing what's best for the daughter"
-the parasite finds a new host if it has opportunities to find one-
It's called princess syndrome.
The man was stupid enough to marry a gold digger and now is a wage slave to the materials that owns him because he let his wife call the shots. I've known of woman like this and it will NEVER be enough for them until what they imagined in their adolescence comes true. They can't differentiate fantasy vs. reality. I've known some people like this before and some have went even as far as to cheat.
They are the complete epitome of a human garbage.
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When a man love his daughter/son, the mother see it as a weakness and the first thing that she will take it's the kids (even when she has 0 intention of rising them properly).
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This sounds too calm, this Is the only unrealistic thing
This fucked me up man I’m crying, too close to home
Im there with ya brother
oh uhm...
*pats back*
there there
life was never fair my brother. may god be with you
I know that feel... strength my friend.
I almost cried, I can totally relate because its similar to my story
The worst part in my opinion is, that this system screws kids over too, probably even more than the father.
It's only the mother who benefits doesn't it
@@amartyapandit ultimately no, because theres no way a mother can be happy after doing something like that, they can resort to hedonism to obtain so called "happiness" but it will never fill the bottomless void that is in their heart, i don't believe a woman can actually be happy after doing that, as she gets older she will get more and more miserable.
@@happycockatiels a fitting punishment for being stupid, greedy and selfish. Dying alone and forgotten.
💯💯💯💯💯
@@dangazobiton9774 damn don't we all die alone and forgotten
i have heard these kind of arguments with my parents so much.. yes my dad loves me and my mom does too but i hear argues every night.. I'm scared they will relate to this video, i don't know what to do, i barely know my father since i only lived with my mother until now.
every child needs a guardian.
I hate it when people jokingly spits out the "your dad left you" insult like it wont harm anyone..as a guy who grew up without a dad nor mom its painfull..even if im already past it i still cant stop blaming them for neglecting me like that they just simply divorced and i just lived with my uncle and grandma..my uncle was great he would do everything he could to provide me with the stuff i need but i never got any help for my assigments, mental health or anything from him and my grandpa wasnt exactly a father figure neither he wasnt on the best of terms with my other uncle and so the house was always chaotic and for a child to experience all these things and never be able to do anything about it just traumatised me. i wish i hadnt been borned i wish i was in a different family..at a very young age me and my brother was basically the care taker of the house while taking care of our school responsibilities..the people at that house was absolutely disgusting..they were all pridefull except for my brother and especially my grandpa..he had no dignity at all he would ask for money from my uncles friend when they were having a chat and he even stole from my friend when my friend was staying over at our house cause we were having a graduation ceremony and my friends house was far away cause they just recently moved. i absolutely despised them for being old yet still unable to take care of themselves and the house. But i needed them too so i never told them about my problems with them and i never got to take care of my mental health. This would greatly impact me on my high school years as my social skills was slowly decreasing and my grades too for lack of participation. I never exactly went through a depressed state or so i think? I just decided to put up with it until i got to move out. After that i started going to therapy and yeah. I didnt wanna search for my parents since im not exactly one to be mad at something that happened years ago. I wish they could have atleast seen or heard of what i went through cause of their negligence though. I never went back for them but my brother visits once in a while and i would sometimes visit my grandma since she was the only one who taught me manners.
I remember driving a friend of mine to see his daughter for the first time as a favor. He's usually a very optimistic and funny guy, but as soon as he returned after maybe only 30 minutes of playtime, he broke down at about a mile away after leaving her house.
It was disturbing to see a man like himself break down the way he did, I remember it like yesterday.
Hug him
Actually depressing, your friend deserves to have full custody of her
@@Alicapy sadly family court is the most sexist group to have ever exist
Why aren’t people getting married and having kids? It’s a mystery….
Yeah, let's make an advertisement package trying to persuade people to have sex (Danish reference)! It's not like they have instincts to do that lol how dumb it would be, haha!
@@redactedcanceledcensored6890 India & China : 3 B people .
Well ,we don't need any advertising for that
@@cbicommentbureauofinternet5290 yep, they probably have different divorce laws and cultural perspectives towards family and marriage
@@cbicommentbureauofinternet5290 They will own the future. As well as Africa. The US and Europe will die.
@@redactedcanceledcensored6890 sadly, here in Asia , people are becoming more Western and ruining their own culture. Slowly they are becoming like America / Europe
How can this channel make me emotional with wojaks?
wow this made me cry. When I was 10 years old my parents divorced, he went to another city, I could only see him once a month for 5 hours. My mother got a boyfriend who treats me and my younger brother badly. When I was 13 years old, my mother started a lawsuit against my father so she could take us back to her country of origin, denouncing him for every little thing he did. It was very difficult for me. I am currently 14 years old and my mother won the lawsuit, my father does not have money to travel to my mother's country.
P.S. my mother tongue is not english, sorry for the mistakes.
That’s okay, your English is good. I’m sorry you went through that. What country are you and your mother from?
"Can you promise me something?"
"Please never argue with mom again."
Damn ... That hit hard
I'd be lying if i didn't shed a tear
Hit hard for me because I said the same thing to my dad before
@@cherrybomber3328 Well look at Mr Functional Family over here who has parents he can ask not to fight. Just a regular white picket fence dwelling nuclear family boy over here.
@@bunnieskitties293 it’s not like they actually stopped lmao, he shoved my mom into a closet in front of me. Maybe think before you speak my guy.
@@bunnieskitties293 why would you type that out and send
There are some women with whom it's simply impossible not to argue. And some guy ends up with them.
As a father of a girl, this hit hard. This is more or less the story of my life. It's true, the system hates a father.
I hope you are okay
Stay strong, you got this bro
Stay strong m8
Then leave the System. Look up legal name fraud. See: Strawman - The Nature of the Cage
(Public, private, commerce)
its targeted to make the men weaker and woman "stronger" weaker men create harder times
this was emotional