I'm a florist. Flowers get a pass. They make everyone happy. Whether you order them from me or pick up a bouquet at Trader Joes. They simply make people happy. Earth's mystery and beauty in a vase. Nothing better.
So true. I have a difficult time keeping plants alive, so I rarely buy cut flowers. However, I bought a bouquet of tulips a few weeks ago and it really brightened my spirits, as well as the room. Even if they don’t last long, flowers are so worth the purchase.
I’m a hobby gardener and I just put in a huge garden of antique and rare roses. It’s my passion. I adore it. Starting a cutting garden this year just for fun. ❤
I agree that quiet luxury has taken on a different meaning. I am in my 70’s and my business was interior design. I dressed in suits and dresses for many many years. I liked buying jackets that were finely lined, button holes that were are all finished, if you could turn the jacket inside out it would of be as fine as the outside. Dresses had all finished inside seams. I have silk dresses from the 70’s and those silk were true luxury. Even fine linens and fine cottons have been replaced. Too bad. Wearing luxurious fabrics gave me a great feeling. That is one of my luxuries still today but I have to shop my closet to find that quality. No matter what it is, you cannot beat quality no matter what item it is and it has nothing to do with logos.
I so agree with you! Luxury is about high quality materials and matching highly skilled manufacturing of garments and accessories. Quality has taken a considerably nose dive in "luxury" using ever cheaper materials while prices have gone up ridiculously. Looking at a lot of well known designers like Dior, Gucci and Chanel I see this especially.... Cheaper and cheaper materials, mass manufacturing, watering down of fragrances, products made to tarnish or come apart quickly while simultaneously prices have increased close to 50% in a decade for some. There is nothing luxurious about these anymore.. Just empty branding aimed at the masses
@@exomake_mehorololo It’s such a shame because I would still purchase items with good quality. The trend is disposable. Buy it cheap, wear it, on to the next item. I’m so happy that all the wools, linens and cashmeres and silks that I bought were classical styles still so much in vogue today.
Your post made me so wistful. I totally get what you mean about quality and craftsmanship. I used to work at a folk art store, back in the 90s. Even then we were seeing a diminishing of those things from the 1970s era and earlier. My boss was like me, she loved old things. We carried vintage quilts and they were so lovely I get misty remembering how they looked and felt. The old jewelry we carried was so special too. I used to wear a lot of vintage clothing during those years and I so loved the feel of 1940s cotton blouses against my skin, and old 1940s sheets too. The quality of that cotton was such that I haven't been able to replicate how it looked and felt nowadays, even shopping high end brands. Sad.
People presumed my mom had more money than she did because of the way she dressed and I fought that style for a long time but have come to better understand that having clothing with a fit and cut that makes me feel good reflects in how others perceive me. That's quiet luxury to me. Feeling and looking good.
Ssssooooooooooo True! Ive struggled with THISSSSSSS for such a long time ( still do) cuz I was shoot still an at some times, thee epitome of bright colored mismatch just thrown it in a& RUN INTO WALMART kinda GAL 😅😅😅😅😅 but I’m learning s& growing! You really really truly do look more exspensive when your polished and very minimalistic. Some nice beautiful well crafted pieces do a world of a difference. Thank you for sharing, also about your mom 😊😊😊😊 She’s a smarty 👖
@@liliabenavides4052Omgggggg yeassszzz my NANN use to say “ never leave the house without panties on , what if your in an accident ( car crash etc etc) and the ambulance & fire fighters get a show” 😝 😆 😂 Wise woman 😘
Couldn’t agree more! Flowers candles perfume and high quality skin care - such a luxury! And my rescue dogs- knowing I have given them a wonderful pampered life is a secret luxury I can enjoy 24/7
“Just dress how you dress” is so simple by logic but accurately direct to the point of - spoil yourself the way you want, focus on you, not with the intention of outdo others. I always like your perspective M.
I’m totally with you! Being classy doesn’t equate upholding classism. I think in the age of social media, we as a society are forgetting what was just the “norm” of good dressing etiquette.
no but that's where the word comes from and cannot be divorced from that context. I don't think anyone who casually uses it to describe a style aesthetic is somehow speaking on classes, but what we consider classy is definitely influenced by class systems.
Eloquently put Michele! You hit what real quiet luxury is on the nail head. I enjoyed hearing about your quiet luxuries. It is fun to see what people really appreciate in life.
As a painter a quiet luxury for me is purchasing art from local artists. Fragrance is becoming a big one too, I love using them depending on my mood to tell a story for the day. Also that lipstick you’re wearing looks incredible!
I've also embraced my own version of quiet luxury as I've gotten older. I'm a teacher, so I'll probably never be able to afford designer clothing, but I have quit buying fast fashion. So now, instead of buying 10+ items each season that may only last a year or two, I only buy a couple pieces that are well-made in quality fabrics that will last. I have fewer clothes now, but they all make me feel good when I wear them. I saved my pennies and bought myself a beautiful cashmere cardigan and I put it on over comfy clothes every day after work. It's such a simple pleasure, but it instantly makes me feel indulgent and ready to relax.
I think your take on quiet luxury is spot on Michele! We all have certain things that just give us joy really no matter our budgets. They are special to us, and make us feel good! That's exactly what it's about. I always love your insight and honesty. Wonderful video!❤❤
Mine is makeup, perfumes. I do have a story that is embarrassing. I was with some other women and one of them remarked about my makeup. When I told them what I was using they made a big deal out of how much it cost, and how they would never spend their money like that. Basically shaming me on spending so much and they would never do that. I was very embarrassed and I did feel ashamed. When I got home I went and looked at my makeup collection an came close to throwing it all away because of this. Then I remembered how much I loved playing with and testing new things and that fact that I work hard for my money and if that’s what I want to buy it’s no one’s business. I know this is off subject but when started talking about quite luxuries subject it reminded me of it. An those people who are treating quite luxury like it’s only for the wealthy are gonna give it a bad name. Everyone has a luxury item or items they buy that they consider a quiet luxury wealthy or not.
Tell the virtue signaling b*tches that spend endless cash on nannies, daily drive thru coffees and other dreck, that you believe in what you are buying and you love it, it makes you feel good and happy. They’re envious and low. Stay away from that type of negativity and toxicity.
I may have a tea problem. 🤣🥳 after working for Chanel cosmetics, I’m aware of the difference between wanting to live abundantly and wanting to appear rich. Always love your POV.
I've been a sewist since I was 10 years old, i was trained in couture techniques. Something that is made well, thoughtfully sewn and fits like it was made for you is worth buying. I dont care whose name is on it or where it comes from, it just doesn't matter what you pay for it, some things are just that good!
Everyone has a budget, to spend as you see fit. In the past several years, as I’ve gotten older, my clothing focus is on fewer, better quality pieces. And taking everything to be tailored. After that, I think there’s a wide spectrum in how people define luxury. I love indulging in luxury makeup.
I consider my books to be my luxury. I have a kindle for travel but it doesn’t compare to how much I enjoy taking a physical book and a cup of coffee or tea and spending a couple hours just reading. I have to start picking up flowers at the grocery store. They really do so much for a space. ❤great take on quiet luxury.
I’m with you! Totally agree with your understanding of what quiet luxury is. I’m 40 and was quite taken back when hearing teens I know talking about ‘old money’ and how some clothes were old money and those were most desirable. This led us to a talk about what old money entails history-wise.
I was honestly really confused hearing about yet another nonsensical Tik Tok trend 😅 and what clueless people think "quiet luxury" is... I'm concerned it could lead to hype and price increases by brands which we really don't need 😅
I agree with you! I can’t afford many higher end items, but I do treasure my pearls, wonderful scents for my home, and flowers. One clothing brand that is timeless and more affordable is Eileen Fisher.
Lately, I’m wearing Eileen Fisher nearly every time I leave my driveway. Wish my budget allowed for more pieces. Loving my summer Linen Délavé Blueberry shirtdress.💙 That’s my quiet luxury.
I love kitchen tools and kitchen gadgets. I could spend several hundred pounds on a good Japanese handmade knife and thousands on good pans and woks. I love good ovens and frequently upgrade my coffee machines, blenders, and air fryers. I love to spoil myself with great kitchen experience.
There is a big difference about being a classy women like you and telling us you idea about quiet luxury and a tic toc creator who is trying to impress others because of their low self esteem. I agree on you ideas. Tea is so important to my peace of mind and calmness ❤❤❤❤❤
I buy high end make up for myself as a treat. I usually buy for my college daughters but I do make myself happy with a little high end make up . Love this video.❤
To me quiet luxury is certainly not a bank balance, but a state of mind. Dressing for yourself, with taste and quiet elegance. For me quiet luxury is ladylike etiquette, eloquence and a plethora of knowledge on a vast range of subject matter whilst being tactful but never gagged. Quiet luxury is also about knowing what you like, giving yourself time to enjoy those things or past times and finding quiet joy in the little rituals that spark joy and appreciation for life, be it skin care, hair care and using products that make you feel glamorous in your own life. I know when I go out, quiet luxury for me is dressing well (be that casual or formal), being well groomed and feeling confident, whether people notice me or not.
I truly enjoyed your rant and your take of what is quiet luxury. As much as I would love to have the quiet luxuries that resonate with you, I cannot afford your lifestyle. To me to be able to hear you and show how much you enjoy your lifestyle ( scented candles, flowers, beauty products etc with the things you love and is in itself an enjoyment. I remember when I was very young my late mum used to make dresses for me and siblings for Chinese New Year. She was a seamstess and make us clothes out of remnants material from her customers. Her workmanship is impeccable if I can say so myself. To me that is quiet luxury which I can relate to this day.. God how I miss her! Happy Belated Mothers day to all mums.
I agree with you..... I love flowers and have always wanted fresh flowers in my house and sometimes I go to local florist and get a bouquet of flowers for myself.....they make me so happy....🌷🌸🌹🌺🌻🌼
I agree with you on your take of quiet luxury. I think the way that it's being discussed on TikTok is completely far from my take on it. I just see it as understated vs. overstated luxury and I like both depending on my mood. I think quiet luxury focuses more on the quality of the materials and the fit, which is timeless and usually classic. It think "loud luxury" has its place because it's fun, editorial, creative and expressive. There's room for both. At least that's my view...
Completely agree. Flowers are so beautiful and I just love going to Trader Joe's and being able to afford new flowers every week. They bring so much joy, having such Beautiful mascots of nature brings me intense pleasure.
Flowers! How I adore flowers. My landscaping takes me back to my youth when my mom and I did our own gardening on our farm. Now in my 60s, I allow myself to have gardens full of perennials and annuals. My neighbors tell me how much they enjoy the flowers …which is sweet to hear. As much as possible, I bring cuttings indoors. Flowers, books, tea, candles, long cotton gowns, down pillows, great skincare, and fine perfume. These things mean so much to me, personally, but are nothing without family and friends.
I am growing 3 types of roses Red, white and pink It is so special! Sometimes I cut them and bring home! But I love to watch them blooming, feeding and taking care of them! Truly quiet luxury! Special thanks to my grown up son who initiated that 🌹
I have always been without until recently so my luxuries have always been in the little things, a bubble bath and candle. A new nail polish, perfume, a sweet treat or luxury lipstick. Now I can buy things I want I still try to see the value of simple luxuries that make me happy.
I saw your quiet luxury video and then other videos started popping up, and they were missing the point, LOL. For me, quiet luxury is those things you do for yourself and no one knows or most people won't notice. Can be Fashion, it can be household items, or activities even. I spoke about it for a couple of minutes in a video of mine, and I think im going to do another one cause alot of people are asking me about it. It's a subject people are getting more interested in. It's an intriguing subject for me and I'm glad you're talking about it. When I think of quiet luxury, I think Michele Wang ❤.
My millennial generation and now Gen Z grew up around social media saturated with a performative life style, often not authentic to oneself, so this quiet luxury emergence does not surprise me. I did not know half of the 'quiet luxury' brands being espoused were in that category since my grandmother always invested in many of these pieces and left it all to me. I see genuine quiet luxury as living the life you seek without the world being a spectator for it across social media. It's about moments I cherish with my little nephew, holidays with loved ones, camping and hiking with friends, a spa week, etc. ultimately, it's about what nourishes my mind, body and spirit.
You should consider trying a few statement houseplants! You have gorgeous light in your home and warm weather so a few beautiful already large statement plants would be breathtaking!
I equate quiet luxury to this: I have a pair of cashmere socks that I love to wear in colder weather. No one can see them, but I know I have them on, and I know how comfy and warm they are and I don’t have to tell as soul I have them on! I know and that’s good enough for me. They’re not better than your cotton or nylon socks, but I like them because they make my feet feel comfy 😊
I thought a lot about Quiet Luxury and Old Money after your video. I live in Europe, in Vienna the Austrian capital. Old Money over here basically means that your family committed the worst crimes during WW2. Only a few Jewish/Austrian Royalty families are left which survived and got their wealth back. So Old Money is not really what I am into. Quiet luxury is for me lush materials, often times Vintage and items I bought myself 20 years ago. Leather, linen, silk, cashmere ... you name it. And I love travelling. Exploring our world is the biggest luxury to me. Taking the time, appriciating other countries and cultures and feeling inspired even months from the last trip ... while working and living my ordinary life in Vienna. Of course I like luxurious make-up otherwise I would not know your channel but my collection is tiny. Another personal luxury is buying one piece of modern art per year. I love owning these pieces.
I realize I’ve been practicing quiet luxury ever since I could afford it without even knowing it. It’s more for a state of being and truly enjoying being alive and existing. I enjoy an expensive luxurious perfume on even when I work from home. I spend on my skincare and health and well being with my supplements and coffee and teas. I wear dresses that are from sustainable farms that will last years and years and I love their comfort and pockets 😊. I am wanting to purchase this silk satin nightgown just to enjoy sleeping every night. I think it is a plethora of things that are unique to each individual 💜💜
I have so appreciated your comments and video on quiet luxury, and could not agree more with the idea that quiet luxury is based on personal preference. Buying things/experiences that make you feel good for yourself that people may not know are "luxury".
I found a place in LA that refills candles and you can choose custom fragrances. Now I can reuse my fancy expensive jars. I don’t have to throw them away or try to figure out how to repurpose them.😊
As a fashion trend "Quiet Luxury" is a no logo, classic, high quality, subdued aesthetic. That's what it is. It is no different than the logo-mania trend of projecting an image of being rich. Both are just consumer marketing trends. You seem to be referring to a quiet luxury philosophy of living, which is something different. 💎
This ‘Quiet Luxury’ trend just has the labels on the inside rather than on the outer and it certainly is another way of portraying one’s wealth. I found these simply to be luxuries… except the Champion sweatpants. Although owning 10 pairs of the same pants probably is a luxury.
I remember going to the mall 20 or 25 years ago and the (primarily) Asian women in my area always had a talent for representing quiet luxury. I’ve loved the look ever since.
That bouquet is beautiful. Unfortunately if I had fresh flowers, my cats would eat them 😂. And of course lit candles are a no go with my rambunctious cats. I love your sense of style - so sophisticated.
I agree about fresh flowers and the tea. I use a diffuser in my house and I'm very picky about my essential oils. I would add very soft sheets. They are a gift every day.
Quality of craftmanship, respect for the artisan... a beautiful fabric, a superfine Swiss batiste cotton, a knit that is soft, well made, that gives you a hug and dare I say confidence when you put it on, that will look as good in ten years as it does today. A love of beauty, of the well-made, well thought out design ( not just for the sake of design). I have a Degrenne teapot ...bought at least 20-25 years ago, the original creme with silver cover . Well made clothing and objects last.
I love your definition of quiet fashion, that's how I've always felt about my style or about fashion. My mum used to be a fashion designer, so I've grown up to appreciate good quality fabric, to wearing clothes that looks good for my bodyshape, height and skintone and if it's worth the price 😆 I'm really glad that I'm in a place in my life that I know what I like and what does and doesn't look good on me. Trying to follow trends and caring about what others think is tiring.
I will repeat myself from last time in my quiet luxury is perfume. Although, thinking about it...another quiet luxury of mine would be quality undergarments (bras/underwear) I know, may sound a bit silly but no matter how I dress...if I feel good underneath all is good in the world! Thanks for another great video Michele, you're the best
My mom sews amazing dresses and that is my quiet luxury. No logos, no brands, just incredibly beautiful dresses that I can wear in important events. Luxury is how you read and wear something.
Quiet luxury is a label attached to a way of dressing whether it is high end or not. My mom is 95 and has always dressed in this way and it was her personal style and to this day still is. Her style isn’t labeled, it is the way she puts herself together, very unpretentious. She has never been a fan of logos. She had a marketing company and she always believed that she wasn’t going to be a walking billboard for a brand. It is all very personal but it is in my opinion a gift to be able to pull your self together and look amazing. I wish I had her gift.
Omg…your Champion pants/makeup towel. You’re too funny. I totally agree with you about quiet luxury. One of my quiet luxuries is organic food (I’m about 97% organic). I know some people might argue that organic is essential, but you can survive eating healthier and not spending extra on organic. I also pay up when traveling if I can. I’ve always loved fresh flowers all over the house and I’m really getting into perfume. Overall, I’m trying to buy less, but better quality.
I'm not very keen on flowers in a house. As a child, I had the greatest chance of living in a beautiful old house with a beautiful old garden. I spent there hours admiring all the different flowers, bushes and trees. I could never think of a better place for flowers to be: in the nature. The day I have a garden of my own, I will fill it with flowers!
I’m almost 30, and when I heard about quiet luxury and your perspective on it I was relieved! I find it so relaxing in a way knowing I can wear or have the items without the need for logos…it’s almost as if you don’t have the logo you can’t tell people you have “money”. Its a status that some portray and it never brought me a sense of peace or contentment. It just made me nervous as if I was on display and thats just not who I am nor my personality. I like the good quality pieces of a beautiful blouse or the perfect tailored pants etc etc. It’s a timeless way of looking and feeling in my humble opinion. My mom got me a beautiful floral porcelain tea pot…that is my luxury. I love pulling out my stunning delicate tea pot and doing a wind down self care ritual before I head to bed. 💕 And of course perfume. It’s my passion.
I love La Mer, I spent so much money on a rotation of expensive and nicely marketed moisturizers for many years as well as well reviewed drug store brands and never noticed anything all that different about them, which became a problem as I aged a bit and my skin dried out. La Mer is the only thing where I feel a noticeable difference every time I use it so it’s now been like 7 years that I’ve used nothing else. It’s actually nice to stop looking because I actually enjoy a product that much… skincare can feel like a hamster wheel of dissatisfaction.
Thank you. I wear what I wear. It's what I like. I care about comfort in fit and fabric. Luxury for me means what I wear around the house, especially..blessings to all!
Welllll….. one of my quiet luxuries is going to Trader Joe’s and spending hours shopping! Going down every isle very slowly and looking at all the amazing, wonderful, delicious food item’s! 🤤 I don’t pay attention to the prices, if it looks good- I get it. Seriously though, I really enjoy going there. Not only is their food delicious but the store staff couldn’t be more polite and helpful. Now that’s a place I don’t mind spending my hard earned money at. And of course my high end beauty products. That will always be a quiet luxury for me.
On the subject of a fragrance being discontinued: when I heard that Chanel was (incredibly, stupidly, short sightedly) discontinuing Cristalle Eau Verte, I went on a mission to purchase a few backups. It literally is my summer go-to scent. I put it on when I want to feel awake, when I want to be fresh for a workout session, after a bath in the summer, when i want to feel cool... it's a gorgeous default fragrance for me. I put my backups in a dark, cool cupboard and I'm pretty sure I have enough to last the rest of my life (phew!) 💚 Edited: Chanel are one of those companies that don't play when they say they're discontinuing something. Once it's gone, it's gone! 😩
@@heavenj7 I have, a while ago now. I'll pull it out, but from memory No 5 L'Eau didn't have the citrus-y freshness that Cristalle Eau Verte has. Good thinking though! always good to have options ☺
I also love face sprays though I’m into rose water ones-for overnight dry skin I occasionally sleep with Origins avocado + glacier water sleep mask and really like how it leaves my skin when I wake up!
There is nothing more luxurious than having a loving family, children whom to pass on your legacy and love them with all your heart. But first and foremost, the greatest luxury in life is to have an intimate relationship with Your Creator and be mindful you are here on this Earth for the purpose to serve Him by serving your fellow brothers and sisters. Everything else, your education, your university degrees, your job/ business/ house/ properties / wealth/ clothes/ travels are all true blessings than millions of people on this planet can't enjoy. Finally, but perhaps most important of all, being in good health is the most precious gift of all. Without it you can't enjoy anything in life. That said, take good care of your bodies, minds, and souls, ladies, and love your families with all your heart. ❤
@Michelewang I agree with everything you said 100%. I originally assumed "quiet luxury" meant exactly what I thought those words were. Not loud logo's all the time or expensive but horribly made luxury item's. I have always enjoyed luxury item's, for details..craftsmanship things that made it special. Then came the newness of younger generations having "designer" everything along with insane price increases. But not so much increased quality. And then I learned "quiet luxury" was meant to be "old money" This is laughable to me. Posing on socials and acting as if item's make these people look rich is ridiculous imo. "Old money" is 7 generations of wealth. Not OWNING a luxury bag. I could go on and on. But thank you for addressing that nonsense. It's obsurd. Love your channel BTW! 🤍
Your understanding of Quiet Luxury was mine also. I am 46, never watch Tik-Tok and barely ever Instagram. I do like my favorites on You Tube. As I've gotten older I don't mind a charm with a brand that's barely visible, however don't want to see initials or logos all over my handbag or on my clothes. Quiet luxury to me is "back to basics"...good quality silks, cashmere, even high quality cotton and linen, wool, or leather. Neutral colors that I can pair with many things and a "pop" of occasional fun color!! A sophisticated look! Two of my favorite purchases this past year were my long Lilysilk white nightgown. It's absolutely luxurious. Also bamboo cotton sheets from Cariloha. Amazing and wonderful quality fabrics. (And these items weren't even what I consider "super" pricey.) Where I splurge....it's always the top notch skin care, good coats, and good quality boots and flats for work. Considering that pillow spray!! 😊 That was my take away and I've seen other You Tubers talking about the sophisticated look...which is the only thing I had heard about prior! ❤
Love your take on quiet luxury and have many of the same items - beauty products (of course), facial mists, cashmere sweaters, perfume in an elegant bottle, etc. But my big personal indulgence is luxe travel accessories - I don’t love traveling much but must, so comfy slippers, a cashmere wrap, and high quality/highly functional luggage (my Rimowa train case is EVERYTHING) takes off the rougher edges. And all of these are for ME.
I loved your first video and didn’t have time to comment on it. I grew up around a mom and grandmothers who are/were quiet luxury. They taught me to find classic pieces that can last more than a season. They dressed very differently from one another yet they could buy each other very classic pieces. I have quite a lot of these “classic” pieces, not because I want to look rich but because I know they can go with anything or take me almost anywhere. And you don’t have to spend $$$$. Some brands that I see as “Quiet Luxury” is Celine(Phoebe Philo mostly), Goyard(because if you know you know), Faure la Page, Belgium Shoes, Akris, Loro Piana, Bernardo, Herno, Harris Wharf London, Brunello Cucinelli, Brioni, Alaia, Eskandar, the Row, Max Mara I feel like I could keep going but I think you get it. I agree that quiet luxury is more like First Class tickets, fancy soaps or candles, perfume(La Labo) it’s little things that you could find at a cheaper price but want to treat yourself. My car is my big Quiet Luxury. To brands though I usually go for bags that don’t have the large logos or they’re camouflaged into the bag. I’ve had someone ask if my Goyard was a wannabe LV Neverfull, which is too funny. I know many ladies who didn’t even know about Goyard until recently and these ladies are quiet luxury to a T. Skin care/ hair care is such a massive quiet luxury for me and I don’t feel guilty for the prices I pay. Edit: Sunglasses and Opticals. I have been obsessed with Celine glasses for years. Like Oliver Peoples there isn’t much on them to make them super brandy
I saw your first quiet luxury video and I could tell you hadn’t heard the growing shift from logonaina to quiet luxury and the overtones of “richness” and this idea of feeling superior imbedded in the shift. However, like all things there are folks who don’t feel that way and just enjoy luxurious items that are a bit paired back. Glad you show a different perspective and maybe one day people care less about what others think and focus more on what truly makes them happy.
I don’t know if you had red my loooong comment on your previous video but that’s exactly what I meant with this labelling and misinterpretations of it being an aesthetic and linked to this “old money aesthetic” which is so shallow and likely just about driving more consumption rather than more conscious consumption. Principles and statements you put out here are on point! Thanks Michele!
I love Diptyque and smelling wonderful fragrances (flowers, candles, perfume) is such a treat. You have reinforced that love for fragrance I enjoy. On the other hand, I have to get rid of icky, artificially scented products. Watching you and having my coffee w hot whole milk on a Sunday is such a treat!
I'm definitely NOT RICH..I have always made the choice to wear clothing that are well made, timeless and the main thing is HOW I FEEL Daily with anything that brings me JOY & PEACE ❤ Yes I agree with you 100%. It's our OWN choice.
I think there are many interpretations of quiet luxury. Part of the issue is that old money folks tend to dress in classic garments and handbag styles but items of high quality (and expensive). And, for the most party, old money folks do not advertise their wealth with loud logos. My understanding is that quiet luxury has mostly or everything to do with fashion. I've been aware of "quite luxury" for decades, and it has always or seems to have always been related to fashion. Lately, it's just a trend. Every individual can call whatever they want quiet luxury. But I think (and I could be wrong) that the notion of classic quiet luxury is all about fashion. Thanks for your videos. Enjoy your tea and candles. It's a lovely joy of life.
My quiet luxury is being well groomed, enjoying my high end skincare as “me time”, and also having beautiful dishware to enjoy my desserts, tea and meals off of ❤
I can in no way afford anything close to luxury but i agree with you on having cosy and comfortable nightwear and slippers 🤗 Also, your mention of facial mists reminded me of a Modern Family scene with Cam and Mitchell talking about a 'calming mister' 😂
I so agree that there is something special about a facial mist. I have sent them as gifts to family and friends, especially those who are going through pre-menopause. My favs are from Fresh (citrusy) and Glow Recipe (watermelon). I'm always looking for new facial mists that do not smell like roses, so many do.
One could express quiet luxury even when wearing logos and bright colors. Quiet luxury is indeed an inner quality independent from things and objects and trends. One could wear understated fashion and look vulgar and loud. And, vice versa. Yes, you do you. And let's continue to enjoy what we love and acknowledge that this changes with the seasons and our moods. We are constantly changing and evolving. Thank goodness. Ohhhh and a huge yes to flowers everywhere!
Exactly Michele - the joys of small pleasures - scent, taste, feel - that let us pause and just enjoy. I've always appreciated the idea but I think your videos have encouraged me to explore more and find my own favorites. Fresh flowers. yes!, pausing for tea often feels like the ultimate luxury - I'm very partial to Kusmi teas, esp their Tchai. Nowadays I burn a candle on my desk each work day as I start up the zooms. And yes yes yes to mist - May Lindstrom Jasmine Garden to start each morning, Chanel No. 1 Serum mist midday so I look fresh for the second round of meetings but also feel fresh. And scent everyday even though I'm the only one here. Definitely a way of life ... and as you say, not tied to price but to sensibility.
I’m obsessed with the high quality fabric and patterns of Bedhead Pajamas. Soma also has some lovely pajamas with a cooling fabric for the hot flashes. They are called Cool Nights.
I went harrrrd on diptyque candles when the pandemic started, and then I noticed my allergies got a hell lot worse. Since I eased up on diptyque candles this past winter, my allergies are hardly present. It makes me so sad because I absolutely adore diptyque!
@@TheMocao I’m still tempted by all the new candles (especially when they release special designs) but I just can’t bring myself to allergy death again 😆😆😆
My favorite pj’s are high quality men’s v neck undershirts with cotton poplin pj pants. My current favorites are tshirts from Nordstrom and pants from old navy. My QL splurge is convenience. I pay to have my dry cleaning delivered, groceries delivered, seat upgrades on planes, etc.
I buy fresh flowers at my local Saturday market every week. Tea is also a quiet luxury for me. The whole process of making the tea and having it in a special mug. A luxurious ball of yarn on my favorite knitting needles is also yummy.
I absolutely loved your quiet luxury video and thought you described it perfectly! I don’t know where this snotty “old v new money” viewpoint came from but the quiet luxury look has always been around! To me it’s having really nice things and a clean minimal aesthetic without all the logos and branding , as in loud (hence the opposite of quiet???) Nothing wrong with logos but I suppose the “quiet” part comes from not being able to tell where your item is from as you mentioned in your previous video. BTW Your flowers are lovely 😍😍😍
I love flowers, tea and candles!! My quiet luxury is my make up and of course the peace I feel when I am at home❤. I love the way you are, dear Michele. You are the best! ⭐😀
My quiet luxury is definitely cold brew iced teas from my favorite tea house down in Tucson near the University of Arizona. I was shocked how often I was in coffee shop lines and in restaurants ordering tea…and now I make the perfect tea and have lovely water bottles to carry it wherever I go. I also enjoy candles and cologne.
I love love your take on it and that’s why I keep coming back The quiet luxury trend absolutely cracks me up: outsiders telling other outsiders how to (incorrectly) try to be a part of a “club” they will never understand and that doesn’t know they exist, or care about what they’re doing… and can pick them out as an imposter at one glance 🤷🏼♀️😂 It’s great entertainment though. Here’s some quiet luxury for you: using an Hermes saddle because both you and your horse should have the best. Buying art privately because you like it and who cares what anyone else thinks (just thought of Rose from titanic saying “someone Picasso” lol). Putting in a private rose garden so that you can see and enjoy it daily as you please. Love your channel so much❤
I have to say candles and books. Love, love my books.z I have candles everywhere in my travel trailer. It's my tiny home 😊 I know that sounds weird but I love going to the book store and coming home with a bag of books to read. I read a lot. I love the lipstick you're wearing today. So pretty and it highlights your face in such a pretty way. ❤
You should check out Skandinavisk candles and diffusers. My friend Sean started it here in Copenhagen, and they are wonderful. My faves are Øy, Koto and Lempi, but there are rose, sea and forest scents as well. And the containers are very chic, very scandi❤
Seems quiet luxury would mean anything you splurge on in your own home. 😊 The type of luxury i strive for esp since we have been working from home lately
I'm a florist. Flowers get a pass. They make everyone happy. Whether you order them from me or pick up a bouquet at Trader Joes. They simply make people happy. Earth's mystery and beauty in a vase. Nothing better.
So true. I have a difficult time keeping plants alive, so I rarely buy cut flowers. However, I bought a bouquet of tulips a few weeks ago and it really brightened my spirits, as well as the room. Even if they don’t last long, flowers are so worth the purchase.
Trueee, but its something i can afford only once a year without feeling guilty
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I’m a hobby gardener and I just put in a huge garden of antique and rare roses. It’s my passion. I adore it. Starting a cutting garden this year just for fun. ❤
I agree that quiet luxury has taken on a different meaning. I am in my 70’s and my business was interior design. I dressed in suits and dresses for many many years. I liked buying jackets that were finely lined, button holes that were are all finished, if you could turn the jacket inside out it would of be as fine as the outside. Dresses had all finished inside seams. I have silk dresses from the 70’s and those silk were true luxury. Even fine linens and fine cottons have been replaced. Too bad. Wearing luxurious fabrics gave me a great feeling. That is one of my luxuries still today but I have to shop my closet to find that quality. No matter what it is, you cannot beat quality no matter what item it is and it has nothing to do with logos.
I so agree with you! Luxury is about high quality materials and matching highly skilled manufacturing of garments and accessories. Quality has taken a considerably nose dive in "luxury" using ever cheaper materials while prices have gone up ridiculously. Looking at a lot of well known designers like Dior, Gucci and Chanel I see this especially.... Cheaper and cheaper materials, mass manufacturing, watering down of fragrances, products made to tarnish or come apart quickly while simultaneously prices have increased close to 50% in a decade for some. There is nothing luxurious about these anymore.. Just empty branding aimed at the masses
@@exomake_mehorololo It’s such a shame because I would still purchase items with good quality. The trend is disposable. Buy it cheap, wear it, on to the next item. I’m so happy that all the wools, linens and cashmeres and silks that I bought were classical styles still so much in vogue today.
Your post made me so wistful. I totally get what you mean about quality and craftsmanship. I used to work at a folk art store, back in the 90s. Even then we were seeing a diminishing of those things from the 1970s era and earlier. My boss was like me, she loved old things. We carried vintage quilts and they were so lovely I get misty remembering how they looked and felt. The old jewelry we carried was so special too. I used to wear a lot of vintage clothing during those years and I so loved the feel of 1940s cotton blouses against my skin, and old 1940s sheets too. The quality of that cotton was such that I haven't been able to replicate how it looked and felt nowadays, even shopping high end brands. Sad.
People presumed my mom had more money than she did because of the way she dressed and I fought that style for a long time but have come to better understand that having clothing with a fit and cut that makes me feel good reflects in how others perceive me. That's quiet luxury to me. Feeling and looking good.
So true. The advise I got from my grandmother when I was growing up was to dress like a lady even if I was just out to get milk.
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Ive struggled with THISSSSSSS for such a long time ( still do) cuz I was shoot still an at some times, thee epitome of bright colored mismatch just thrown it in a& RUN INTO WALMART kinda GAL 😅😅😅😅😅 but I’m learning s& growing! You really really truly do look more exspensive when your polished and very minimalistic. Some nice beautiful well crafted pieces do a world of a difference. Thank you for sharing, also about your mom 😊😊😊😊
She’s a smarty 👖
@@liliabenavides4052Omgggggg yeassszzz my NANN use to say “ never leave the house without panties on , what if your in an accident ( car crash etc etc) and the ambulance & fire fighters get a show” 😝 😆 😂
Wise woman 😘
Couldn’t agree more! Flowers candles perfume and high quality skin care - such a luxury! And my rescue dogs- knowing I have given them a wonderful pampered life is a secret luxury I can enjoy 24/7
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Definitely!! We have a sweet rescue pup too!! ❤❤
“Just dress how you dress” is so simple by logic but accurately direct to the point of - spoil yourself the way you want, focus on you, not with the intention of outdo others. I always like your perspective M.
If the world 🌎 could have this same energy and passion, it would be a Glorious World ‼️ 🤗🙏💜❤️
I’m totally with you! Being classy doesn’t equate upholding classism. I think in the age of social media, we as a society are forgetting what was just the “norm” of good dressing etiquette.
no but that's where the word comes from and cannot be divorced from that context. I don't think anyone who casually uses it to describe a style aesthetic is somehow speaking on classes, but what we consider classy is definitely influenced by class systems.
Eloquently put Michele! You hit what real quiet luxury is on the nail head. I enjoyed hearing about your quiet luxuries. It is fun to see what people really appreciate in life.
As a painter a quiet luxury for me is purchasing art from local artists. Fragrance is becoming a big one too, I love using them depending on my mood to tell a story for the day. Also that lipstick you’re wearing looks incredible!
I've also embraced my own version of quiet luxury as I've gotten older. I'm a teacher, so I'll probably never be able to afford designer clothing, but I have quit buying fast fashion. So now, instead of buying 10+ items each season that may only last a year or two, I only buy a couple pieces that are well-made in quality fabrics that will last. I have fewer clothes now, but they all make me feel good when I wear them. I saved my pennies and bought myself a beautiful cashmere cardigan and I put it on over comfy clothes every day after work. It's such a simple pleasure, but it instantly makes me feel indulgent and ready to relax.
I think your take on quiet luxury is spot on Michele! We all have certain things that just give us joy really no matter our budgets. They are special to us, and make us feel good! That's exactly what it's about. I always love your insight and honesty. Wonderful video!❤❤
Mine is makeup, perfumes. I do have a story that is embarrassing. I was with some other women and one of them remarked about my makeup. When I told them what I was using they made a big deal out of how much it cost, and how they would never spend their money like that. Basically shaming me on spending so much and they would never do that. I was very embarrassed and I did feel ashamed. When I got home I went and looked at my makeup collection an came close to throwing it all away because of this. Then I remembered how much I loved playing with and testing new things and that fact that I work hard for my money and if that’s what I want to buy it’s no one’s business. I know this is off subject but when started talking about quite luxuries subject it reminded me of it. An those people who are treating quite luxury like it’s only for the wealthy are gonna give it a bad name. Everyone has a luxury item or items they buy that they consider a quiet luxury wealthy or not.
Tell the virtue signaling b*tches that spend endless cash on nannies, daily drive thru coffees and other dreck, that you believe in what you are buying and you love it, it makes you feel good and happy. They’re envious and low. Stay away from that type of negativity and toxicity.
I think those women are envious or jealous of you. xx
I may have a tea problem. 🤣🥳 after working for Chanel cosmetics, I’m aware of the difference between wanting to live abundantly and wanting to appear rich. Always love your POV.
Thanks!
Your "quiet luxury" style and way of thinking is awsome! Way more up my alley!
I've been a sewist since I was 10 years old, i was trained in couture techniques. Something that is made well, thoughtfully sewn and fits like it was made for you is worth buying. I dont care whose name is on it or where it comes from, it just doesn't matter what you pay for it, some things are just that good!
Everyone has a budget, to spend as you see fit. In the past several years, as I’ve gotten older, my clothing focus is on fewer, better quality pieces. And taking everything to be tailored. After that, I think there’s a wide spectrum in how people define luxury. I love indulging in luxury makeup.
This has got to be my ultimate favorite EVER!!
Explaining quiet luxury couldn't be more enlightening & personal, at the same time❤
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I consider my books to be my luxury. I have a kindle for travel but it doesn’t compare to how much I enjoy taking a physical book and a cup of coffee or tea and spending a couple hours just reading. I have to start picking up flowers at the grocery store. They really do so much for a space. ❤great take on quiet luxury.
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I’m with you! Totally agree with your understanding of what quiet luxury is. I’m 40 and was quite taken back when hearing teens I know talking about ‘old money’ and how some clothes were old money and those were most desirable. This led us to a talk about what old money entails history-wise.
I was honestly really confused hearing about yet another nonsensical Tik Tok trend 😅 and what clueless people think "quiet luxury" is... I'm concerned it could lead to hype and price increases by brands which we really don't need 😅
What a beautiful quiet luxury and self care moment…that each one of us needs !
I agree with you! I can’t afford many higher end items, but I do treasure my pearls, wonderful scents for my home, and flowers. One clothing brand that is timeless and more affordable is Eileen Fisher.
Eileen Fisher is fabulous!
Lately, I’m wearing Eileen Fisher nearly every time I leave my driveway. Wish my budget allowed for more pieces. Loving my summer Linen Délavé Blueberry shirtdress.💙 That’s my quiet luxury.
EF is so comfortable, too. Just so easy to wear.
Nothing like a red lip. Classic and timeless.❤
I love kitchen tools and kitchen gadgets. I could spend several hundred pounds on a good Japanese handmade knife and thousands on good pans and woks. I love good ovens and frequently upgrade my coffee machines, blenders, and air fryers. I love to spoil myself with great kitchen experience.
There is a big difference about being a classy women like you and telling us you idea about quiet luxury and a tic toc creator who is trying to impress others because of their low self esteem. I agree on you ideas. Tea is so important to my peace of mind and calmness ❤❤❤❤❤
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I buy high end make up for myself as a treat. I usually buy for my college daughters but I do make myself happy with a little high end make up . Love this video.❤
To me quiet luxury is certainly not a bank balance, but a state of mind. Dressing for yourself, with taste and quiet elegance. For me quiet luxury is ladylike etiquette, eloquence and a plethora of knowledge on a vast range of subject matter whilst being tactful but never gagged. Quiet luxury is also about knowing what you like, giving yourself time to enjoy those things or past times and finding quiet joy in the little rituals that spark joy and appreciation for life, be it skin care, hair care and using products that make you feel glamorous in your own life. I know when I go out, quiet luxury for me is dressing well (be that casual or formal), being well groomed and feeling confident, whether people notice me or not.
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I truly enjoyed your rant and your take of what is quiet luxury. As much as I would love to have the quiet luxuries that resonate with you, I cannot afford your lifestyle.
To me to be able to hear you and show how much you enjoy your lifestyle ( scented candles, flowers, beauty products etc with the things you love and is in itself an enjoyment.
I remember when I was very young my late mum used to make dresses for me and siblings for Chinese New Year. She was a seamstess and make us clothes out of remnants material from her customers.
Her workmanship is impeccable if I can say so myself.
To me that is quiet luxury which I can relate to this day..
God how I miss her!
Happy Belated Mothers day to all mums.
I agree with you..... I love flowers and have always wanted fresh flowers in my house and sometimes I go to local florist and get a bouquet of flowers for myself.....they make me so happy....🌷🌸🌹🌺🌻🌼
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I agree with you on your take of quiet luxury. I think the way that it's being discussed on TikTok is completely far from my take on it. I just see it as understated vs. overstated luxury and I like both depending on my mood. I think quiet luxury focuses more on the quality of the materials and the fit, which is timeless and usually classic. It think "loud luxury" has its place because it's fun, editorial, creative and expressive. There's room for both. At least that's my view...
Completely agree. Flowers are so beautiful and I just love going to Trader Joe's and being able to afford new flowers every week. They bring so much joy, having such Beautiful mascots of nature brings me intense pleasure.
Thank fully we have a garefy so I don’t have to buy flowers!!
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Flowers! How I adore flowers. My landscaping takes me back to my youth when my mom and I did our own gardening on our farm. Now in my 60s, I allow myself to have gardens full of perennials and annuals. My neighbors tell me how much they enjoy the flowers …which is sweet to hear. As much as possible, I bring cuttings indoors. Flowers, books, tea, candles, long cotton gowns, down pillows, great skincare, and fine perfume. These things mean so much to me, personally, but are nothing without family and friends.
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I am growing 3 types of roses
Red, white and pink
It is so special! Sometimes I cut them and bring home! But I love to watch them blooming, feeding and taking care of them! Truly quiet luxury! Special thanks to my grown up son who initiated that 🌹
I have always been without until recently so my luxuries have always been in the little things, a bubble bath and candle. A new nail polish, perfume, a sweet treat or luxury lipstick. Now I can buy things I want I still try to see the value of simple luxuries that make me happy.
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I saw your quiet luxury video and then other videos started popping up, and they were missing the point, LOL. For me, quiet luxury is those things you do for yourself and no one knows or most people won't notice. Can be Fashion, it can be household items, or activities even. I spoke about it for a couple of minutes in a video of mine, and I think im going to do another one cause alot of people are asking me about it. It's a subject people are getting more interested in.
It's an intriguing subject for me and I'm glad you're talking about it. When I think of quiet luxury, I think Michele Wang ❤.
My favorite quiet luxury is having my clothes tailored. Many of my friends refuse to do this, but it makes all the difference.
My millennial generation and now Gen Z grew up around social media saturated with a performative life style, often not authentic to oneself, so this quiet luxury emergence does not surprise me. I did not know half of the 'quiet luxury' brands being espoused were in that category since my grandmother always invested in many of these pieces and left it all to me.
I see genuine quiet luxury as living the life you seek without the world being a spectator for it across social media. It's about moments I cherish with my little nephew, holidays with loved ones, camping and hiking with friends, a spa week, etc. ultimately, it's about what nourishes my mind, body and spirit.
“Dressing for oneself”. I love that. I have always felt that way. 😊
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You should consider trying a few statement houseplants! You have gorgeous light in your home and warm weather so a few beautiful already large statement plants would be breathtaking!
Agree! And some artwork!
I equate quiet luxury to this: I have a pair of cashmere socks that I love to wear in colder weather. No one can see them, but I know I have them on, and I know how comfy and warm they are and I don’t have to tell as soul I have them on! I know and that’s good enough for me. They’re not better than your cotton or nylon socks, but I like them because they make my feet feel comfy 😊
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I thought a lot about Quiet Luxury and Old Money after your video. I live in Europe, in Vienna the Austrian capital. Old Money over here basically means that your family committed the worst crimes during WW2. Only a few Jewish/Austrian Royalty families are left which survived and got their wealth back. So Old Money is not really what I am into.
Quiet luxury is for me lush materials, often times Vintage and items I bought myself 20 years ago. Leather, linen, silk, cashmere ... you name it. And I love travelling. Exploring our world is the biggest luxury to me. Taking the time, appriciating other countries and cultures and feeling inspired even months from the last trip ... while working and living my ordinary life in Vienna. Of course I like luxurious make-up otherwise I would not know your channel but my collection is tiny. Another personal luxury is buying one piece of modern art per year. I love owning these pieces.
I realize I’ve been practicing quiet luxury ever since I could afford it without even knowing it. It’s more for a state of being and truly enjoying being alive and existing. I enjoy an expensive luxurious perfume on even when I work from home. I spend on my skincare and health and well being with my supplements and coffee and teas. I wear dresses that are from sustainable farms that will last years and years and I love their comfort and pockets 😊. I am wanting to purchase this silk satin nightgown just to enjoy sleeping every night. I think it is a plethora of things that are unique to each individual 💜💜
Linen sprays, massages, fresh flowers, and brunch at the beach are my quiet luxuries.
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I have so appreciated your comments and video on quiet luxury, and could not agree more with the idea that quiet luxury is based on personal preference. Buying things/experiences that make you feel good for yourself that people may not know are "luxury".
I found a place in LA that refills candles and you can choose custom fragrances. Now I can reuse my fancy expensive jars. I don’t have to throw them away or try to figure out how to repurpose them.😊
As a fashion trend "Quiet Luxury" is a no logo, classic, high quality, subdued aesthetic. That's what it is. It is no different than the logo-mania trend of projecting an image of being rich. Both are just consumer marketing trends. You seem to be referring to a quiet luxury philosophy of living, which is something different. 💎
This ‘Quiet Luxury’ trend just has the labels on the inside rather than on the outer and it certainly is another way of portraying one’s wealth. I found these simply to be luxuries… except the Champion sweatpants. Although owning 10 pairs of the same pants probably is a luxury.
@@AnUrbanGypsy Champion rocks! It’s perfect.
Yeah, I have quite lots of high end items but it’s not to out there the brand. ;-)
I remember going to the mall 20 or 25 years ago and the (primarily) Asian women in my area always had a talent for representing quiet luxury. I’ve loved the look ever since.
That bouquet is beautiful. Unfortunately if I had fresh flowers, my cats would eat them 😂. And of course lit candles are a no go with my rambunctious cats. I love your sense of style - so sophisticated.
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I agree about fresh flowers and the tea. I use a diffuser in my house and I'm very picky about my essential oils. I would add very soft sheets. They are a gift every day.
Quality of craftmanship, respect for the artisan... a beautiful fabric, a superfine Swiss batiste cotton, a knit that is soft, well made, that gives you a hug and dare I say confidence when you put it on, that will look as good in ten years as it does today. A love of beauty, of the well-made, well thought out design ( not just for the sake of design). I have a Degrenne teapot ...bought at least 20-25 years ago, the original creme with silver cover . Well made clothing and objects last.
I love your definition of quiet fashion, that's how I've always felt about my style or about fashion. My mum used to be a fashion designer, so I've grown up to appreciate good quality fabric, to wearing clothes that looks good for my bodyshape, height and skintone and if it's worth the price 😆 I'm really glad that I'm in a place in my life that I know what I like and what does and doesn't look good on me. Trying to follow trends and caring about what others think is tiring.
I will repeat myself from last time in my quiet luxury is perfume. Although, thinking about it...another quiet luxury of mine would be quality undergarments (bras/underwear) I know, may sound a bit silly but no matter how I dress...if I feel good underneath all is good in the world! Thanks for another great video Michele, you're the best
My mom sews amazing dresses and that is my quiet luxury. No logos, no brands, just incredibly beautiful dresses that I can wear in important events. Luxury is how you read and wear something.
You have hit this perfectly on the head, Michele! This is one of your best videos ever. I feel exactly as you do. Thank you!
Quiet luxury is a label attached to a way of dressing whether it is high end or not. My mom is 95 and has always dressed in this way and it was her personal style and to this day still is. Her style isn’t labeled, it is the way she puts herself together, very unpretentious. She has never been a fan of logos. She had a marketing company and she always believed that she wasn’t going to be a walking billboard for a brand. It is all very personal but it is in my opinion a gift to be able to pull your self together and look amazing. I wish I had her gift.
Agree! Classic styles that last years and are always in fashion
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Omg…your Champion pants/makeup towel. You’re too funny. I totally agree with you about quiet luxury. One of my quiet luxuries is organic food (I’m about 97% organic). I know some people might argue that organic is essential, but you can survive eating healthier and not spending extra on organic. I also pay up when traveling if I can. I’ve always loved fresh flowers all over the house and I’m really getting into perfume. Overall, I’m trying to buy less, but better quality.
I'm not very keen on flowers in a house. As a child, I had the greatest chance of living in a beautiful old house with a beautiful old garden. I spent there hours admiring all the different flowers, bushes and trees. I could never think of a better place for flowers to be: in the nature. The day I have a garden of my own, I will fill it with flowers!
I’m almost 30, and when I heard about quiet luxury and your perspective on it I was relieved! I find it so relaxing in a way knowing I can wear or have the items without the need for logos…it’s almost as if you don’t have the logo you can’t tell people you have “money”. Its a status that some portray and it never brought me a sense of peace or contentment. It just made me nervous as if I was on display and thats just not who I am nor my personality. I like the good quality pieces of a beautiful blouse or the perfect tailored pants etc etc. It’s a timeless way of looking and feeling in my humble opinion.
My mom got me a beautiful floral porcelain tea pot…that is my luxury. I love pulling out my stunning delicate tea pot and doing a wind down self care ritual before I head to bed. 💕
And of course perfume. It’s my passion.
I love La Mer, I spent so much money on a rotation of expensive and nicely marketed moisturizers for many years as well as well reviewed drug store brands and never noticed anything all that different about them, which became a problem as I aged a bit and my skin dried out. La Mer is the only thing where I feel a noticeable difference every time I use it so it’s now been like 7 years that I’ve used nothing else. It’s actually nice to stop looking because I actually enjoy a product that much… skincare can feel like a hamster wheel of dissatisfaction.
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Thank you. I wear what I wear. It's what I like. I care about comfort in fit and fabric. Luxury for me means what I wear around the house, especially..blessings to all!
Hanro nightgowns. Vintage silk scarves. Crystal glasses for everyday. Ironed sheets.
You are so right about the cotton pants. I've given this a lot of thought and trial and error. Thanks for the good advice.
You're welcome!
Welllll….. one of my quiet luxuries is going to Trader Joe’s and spending hours shopping! Going down every isle very slowly and looking at all the amazing, wonderful, delicious food item’s! 🤤 I don’t pay attention to the prices, if it looks good- I get it.
Seriously though, I really enjoy going there. Not only is their food delicious but the store staff couldn’t be more polite and helpful. Now that’s a place I don’t mind spending my hard earned money at.
And of course my high end beauty products. That will always be a quiet luxury for me.
On the subject of a fragrance being discontinued: when I heard that Chanel was (incredibly, stupidly, short sightedly) discontinuing Cristalle Eau Verte, I went on a mission to purchase a few backups. It literally is my summer go-to scent. I put it on when I want to feel awake, when I want to be fresh for a workout session, after a bath in the summer, when i want to feel cool... it's a gorgeous default fragrance for me. I put my backups in a dark, cool cupboard and I'm pretty sure I have enough to last the rest of my life (phew!) 💚 Edited: Chanel are one of those companies that don't play when they say they're discontinuing something. Once it's gone, it's gone! 😩
Have you tried Chanel 5 Leau? It’s not the same but very refreshing
@@heavenj7 I have, a while ago now. I'll pull it out, but from memory No 5 L'Eau didn't have the citrus-y freshness that Cristalle Eau Verte has. Good thinking though! always good to have options ☺
I also love face sprays though I’m into rose water ones-for overnight dry skin I occasionally sleep with Origins avocado + glacier water sleep mask and really like how it leaves my skin when I wake up!
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There is nothing more luxurious than having a loving family, children whom to pass on your legacy and love them with all your heart. But first and foremost, the greatest luxury in life is to have an intimate relationship with Your Creator and be mindful you are here on this Earth for the purpose to serve Him by serving your fellow brothers and sisters. Everything else, your education, your university degrees, your job/ business/ house/ properties / wealth/ clothes/ travels are all true blessings than millions of people on this planet can't enjoy. Finally, but perhaps most important of all, being in good health is the most precious gift of all. Without it you can't enjoy anything in life. That said, take good care of your bodies, minds, and souls, ladies, and love your families with all your heart. ❤
@Michelewang I agree with everything you said 100%. I originally assumed "quiet luxury" meant exactly what I thought those words were. Not loud logo's all the time or expensive but horribly made luxury item's. I have always enjoyed luxury item's, for details..craftsmanship things that made it special. Then came the newness of younger generations having "designer" everything along with insane price increases. But not so much increased quality. And then I learned "quiet luxury" was meant to be "old money" This is laughable to me. Posing on socials and acting as if item's make these people look rich is ridiculous imo. "Old money" is 7 generations of wealth. Not OWNING a luxury bag. I could go on and on. But thank you for addressing that nonsense. It's obsurd. Love your channel BTW! 🤍
Your understanding of Quiet Luxury was mine also. I am 46, never watch Tik-Tok and barely ever Instagram. I do like my favorites on You Tube. As I've gotten older I don't mind a charm with a brand that's barely visible, however don't want to see initials or logos all over my handbag or on my clothes. Quiet luxury to me is "back to basics"...good quality silks, cashmere, even high quality cotton and linen, wool, or leather. Neutral colors that I can pair with many things and a "pop" of occasional fun color!! A sophisticated look! Two of my favorite purchases this past year were my long Lilysilk white nightgown. It's absolutely luxurious. Also bamboo cotton sheets from Cariloha. Amazing and wonderful quality fabrics. (And these items weren't even what I consider "super" pricey.) Where I splurge....it's always the top notch skin care, good coats, and good quality boots and flats for work. Considering that pillow spray!! 😊 That was my take away and I've seen other You Tubers talking about the sophisticated look...which is the only thing I had heard about prior! ❤
Love your take on quiet luxury and have many of the same items - beauty products (of course), facial mists, cashmere sweaters, perfume in an elegant bottle, etc. But my big personal indulgence is luxe travel accessories - I don’t love traveling much but must, so comfy slippers, a cashmere wrap, and high quality/highly functional luggage (my Rimowa train case is EVERYTHING) takes off the rougher edges. And all of these are for ME.
I loved your first video and didn’t have time to comment on it. I grew up around a mom and grandmothers who are/were quiet luxury. They taught me to find classic pieces that can last more than a season. They dressed very differently from one another yet they could buy each other very classic pieces. I have quite a lot of these “classic” pieces, not because I want to look rich but because I know they can go with anything or take me almost anywhere. And you don’t have to spend $$$$. Some brands that I see as “Quiet Luxury” is Celine(Phoebe Philo mostly), Goyard(because if you know you know), Faure la Page, Belgium Shoes, Akris, Loro Piana, Bernardo, Herno, Harris Wharf London, Brunello Cucinelli, Brioni, Alaia, Eskandar, the Row, Max Mara I feel like I could keep going but I think you get it. I agree that quiet luxury is more like First Class tickets, fancy soaps or candles, perfume(La Labo) it’s little things that you could find at a cheaper price but want to treat yourself. My car is my big Quiet Luxury.
To brands though I usually go for bags that don’t have the large logos or they’re camouflaged into the bag. I’ve had someone ask if my Goyard was a wannabe LV Neverfull, which is too funny. I know many ladies who didn’t even know about Goyard until recently and these ladies are quiet luxury to a T.
Skin care/ hair care is such a massive quiet luxury for me and I don’t feel guilty for the prices I pay.
Edit: Sunglasses and Opticals. I have been obsessed with Celine glasses for years. Like Oliver Peoples there isn’t much on them to make them super brandy
I love Jo Malone’s grapefruit too. Another beautiful scent is Pomelo by Jo Loves.
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I saw your first quiet luxury video and I could tell you hadn’t heard the growing shift from logonaina to quiet luxury and the overtones of “richness” and this idea of feeling superior imbedded in the shift. However, like all things there are folks who don’t feel that way and just enjoy luxurious items that are a bit paired back. Glad you show a different perspective and maybe one day people care less about what others think and focus more on what truly makes them happy.
I don’t know if you had red my loooong comment on your previous video but that’s exactly what I meant with this labelling and misinterpretations of it being an aesthetic and linked to this “old money aesthetic” which is so shallow and likely just about driving more consumption rather than more conscious consumption. Principles and statements you put out here are on point! Thanks Michele!
I love Diptyque and smelling wonderful fragrances (flowers, candles, perfume) is such a treat. You have reinforced that love for fragrance I enjoy. On the other hand, I have to get rid of icky, artificially scented products. Watching you and having my coffee w hot whole milk on a Sunday is such a treat!
I'm definitely NOT RICH..I have always made the choice to wear clothing that are well made, timeless and the main thing is HOW I FEEL Daily with anything that brings me JOY & PEACE ❤ Yes I agree with you 100%. It's our OWN choice.
I think there are many interpretations of quiet luxury. Part of the issue is that old money folks tend to dress in classic garments and handbag styles but items of high quality (and expensive). And, for the most party, old money folks do not advertise their wealth with loud logos. My understanding is that quiet luxury has mostly or everything to do with fashion. I've been aware of "quite luxury" for decades, and it has always or seems to have always been related to fashion. Lately, it's just a trend. Every individual can call whatever they want quiet luxury. But I think (and I could be wrong) that the notion of classic quiet luxury is all about fashion. Thanks for your videos. Enjoy your tea and candles. It's a lovely joy of life.
My quiet luxury is being well groomed, enjoying my high end skincare as “me time”, and also having beautiful dishware to enjoy my desserts, tea and meals off of ❤
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I think you look amazing in this video!
I adore fresh flowers I don’t get them enough!
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BRAVO 👏 Your take on what Quiet Luxury is spot on. ❤
I agree flower are the best.
I can in no way afford anything close to luxury but i agree with you on having cosy and comfortable nightwear and slippers 🤗 Also, your mention of facial mists reminded me of a Modern Family scene with Cam and Mitchell talking about a 'calming mister' 😂
I so agree that there is something special about a facial mist. I have sent them as gifts to family and friends, especially those who are going through pre-menopause. My favs are from Fresh (citrusy) and Glow Recipe (watermelon). I'm always looking for new facial mists that do not smell like roses, so many do.
One could express quiet luxury even when wearing logos and bright colors. Quiet luxury is indeed an inner quality independent from things and objects and trends. One could wear understated fashion and look vulgar and loud. And, vice versa. Yes, you do you. And let's continue to enjoy what we love and acknowledge that this changes with the seasons and our moods. We are constantly changing and evolving. Thank goodness. Ohhhh and a huge yes to flowers everywhere!
I appreciate this about you! Wear and buy what you love!
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Exactly Michele - the joys of small pleasures - scent, taste, feel - that let us pause and just enjoy. I've always appreciated the idea but I think your videos have encouraged me to explore more and find my own favorites. Fresh flowers. yes!, pausing for tea often feels like the ultimate luxury - I'm very partial to Kusmi teas, esp their Tchai. Nowadays I burn a candle on my desk each work day as I start up the zooms. And yes yes yes to mist - May Lindstrom Jasmine Garden to start each morning, Chanel No. 1 Serum mist midday so I look fresh for the second round of meetings but also feel fresh. And scent everyday even though I'm the only one here. Definitely a way of life ... and as you say, not tied to price but to sensibility.
I also love a good cup of tea. Fresh flowers and candles! All the above. I buy quality skin care.
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There is a few influencers that you should watch about quiet luxury! They have a much different outlook.
I’m obsessed with the high quality fabric and patterns of Bedhead Pajamas. Soma also has some lovely pajamas with a cooling fabric for the hot flashes. They are called Cool Nights.
I went harrrrd on diptyque candles when the pandemic started, and then I noticed my allergies got a hell lot worse. Since I eased up on diptyque candles this past winter, my allergies are hardly present. It makes me so sad because I absolutely adore diptyque!
Ditto here 😒😂
@@TheMocao I’m still tempted by all the new candles (especially when they release special designs) but I just can’t bring myself to allergy death again 😆😆😆
My favorite pj’s are high quality men’s v neck undershirts with cotton poplin pj pants. My current favorites are tshirts from Nordstrom and pants from old navy. My QL splurge is convenience. I pay to have my dry cleaning delivered, groceries delivered, seat upgrades on planes, etc.
I buy fresh flowers at my local Saturday market every week. Tea is also a quiet luxury for me. The whole process of making the tea and having it in a special mug. A luxurious ball of yarn on my favorite knitting needles is also yummy.
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I absolutely loved your quiet luxury video and thought you described it perfectly! I don’t know where this snotty “old v new money” viewpoint came from but the quiet luxury look has always been around! To me it’s having really nice things and a clean minimal aesthetic without all the logos and branding , as in loud (hence the opposite of quiet???) Nothing wrong with logos but I suppose the “quiet” part comes from not being able to tell where your item is from as you mentioned in your previous video. BTW Your flowers are lovely 😍😍😍
I love flowers, tea and candles!! My quiet luxury is my make up and of course the peace I feel when I am at home❤. I love the way you are, dear Michele. You are the best! ⭐😀
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My quiet luxury is definitely cold brew iced teas from my favorite tea house down in Tucson near the University of Arizona. I was shocked how often I was in coffee shop lines and in restaurants ordering tea…and now I make the perfect tea and have lovely water bottles to carry it wherever I go. I also enjoy candles and cologne.
I agree with you about the pajamas. My favorite, softest pair are a gift from my best friend….they came from Walmart. Have had them for years.
I love love your take on it and that’s why I keep coming back
The quiet luxury trend absolutely cracks me up: outsiders telling other outsiders how to (incorrectly) try to be a part of a “club” they will never understand and that doesn’t know they exist, or care about what they’re doing… and can pick them out as an imposter at one glance 🤷🏼♀️😂 It’s great entertainment though.
Here’s some quiet luxury for you: using an Hermes saddle because both you and your horse should have the best. Buying art privately because you like it and who cares what anyone else thinks (just thought of Rose from titanic saying “someone Picasso” lol). Putting in a private rose garden so that you can see and enjoy it daily as you please.
Love your channel so much❤
I have to say candles and books. Love, love my books.z I have candles everywhere in my travel trailer. It's my tiny home 😊 I know that sounds weird but I love going to the book store and coming home with a bag of books to read. I read a lot. I love the lipstick you're wearing today. So pretty and it highlights your face in such a pretty way. ❤
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You should check out Skandinavisk candles and diffusers. My friend Sean started it here in Copenhagen, and they are wonderful. My faves are Øy, Koto and Lempi, but there are rose, sea and forest scents as well. And the containers are very chic, very scandi❤
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Loved this video. Flowers are a favorite of mine. Thanks for sharing ideas for other quiet luxuries.
Seems quiet luxury would mean anything you splurge on in your own home. 😊 The type of luxury i strive for esp since we have been working from home lately