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Questions to Ask Before You Marry

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ย. 2012
  • Jim Cantelon speaks with Clayton and Charie King about the questions we need to ask before we get married.
    Clayton and Charie King
    Founder & President of Crossroads Worldwide, NC
    www.claytonking...
    Book: "12 Questions to Ask Before You Marry"
    To Get Your Copy:
    secure.crossro...

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  • @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge
    @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge 9 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    This is why marriage should be between mature educated people who are able to honestly communicate important topics with each other such as goals, challenges, money, morals, etc. In fact, these questions should be asked when the relationship gets serious, not before deciding to get married because then you're too in love, too optimistic and addicted to one another to pull away even though you know better.

    • @marleyjanim5033
      @marleyjanim5033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why educated?
      And how do you define it

    • @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge
      @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Another Day In Space Oh no, did I offend you, low class bully? People who get offended by the truth are people who have to face the harsh reality that can burst their imaginary lies to keep them from having to improve themselves. "It's not my fault, the world is against me." No self-reflection at all, no wonder the average person is unhappy and poor.

  • @shantegriffin-christian8985
    @shantegriffin-christian8985 6 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Marriage💍 is about walking in love 💗

  • @marciajhn
    @marciajhn 11 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    i have been blessed by reading that book, and i've recommended it to many of my friends and family members. Without Jesus, relationships will not work. Only God can teach us to love our loved ones.

    • @GLORYBOUND
      @GLORYBOUND 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's the title again And the address to the estore please.

  • @see_the_journey
    @see_the_journey 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    great:) love when people celebrate Marriage .... These types of videos deserve more views on youtube

  • @jdouce6074
    @jdouce6074 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I'm 35 unmarried. This is good so good

  • @the_light_writer
    @the_light_writer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Starts at 2:04.

  • @lexijanke48
    @lexijanke48 10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love Clayton King and his wife they are the best.I love when Clayton comes to speak at NewSpring Church, he is funny but yet very encouraging.

  • @rowsdower12
    @rowsdower12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    personally I don't think I'll get married but this is spot on and good. there's so many lies and idealization of marriage. Especially in church

  • @jaytownsend4021
    @jaytownsend4021 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I have been saying the same thing for YEARS,,I am delighted to know that I am correct.

    • @nerdysuzcategui3811
      @nerdysuzcategui3811 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @mgtow6683
    @mgtow6683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Education before marriage.

  • @nforntanikevin2289
    @nforntanikevin2289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I enjoy this couple, getting married in Africa is all about the family.

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  • @billion86
    @billion86 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love the interviewer!

  • @sheambitious29lachelle17
    @sheambitious29lachelle17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This was a great great interview!

  • @roshunepp
    @roshunepp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I think it's important to understand maturity is not age dependent. The west is just immature at ages that we should be mature.

  • @shodapad07
    @shodapad07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Interviewer!

  • @Happey67
    @Happey67 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Toronto, I have been six times. Love it many immigrants like New York. It is cold in the winter.

  • @thedeekabides
    @thedeekabides 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Expectations only breed disappointment. My only expectation for marriage is that God keeps His word that the covenant He has prescribed is sufficient.

  • @acharich
    @acharich 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    4:50 - *This line alone should be repeated 10000x..!* 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊 - @Acharich

  • @ladynottingham89
    @ladynottingham89 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I am nowhere near ready for marriage, too selfish.

    • @godzshadow9001
      @godzshadow9001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's honest!!

    • @_lebz_M_TV
      @_lebz_M_TV 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @acharich
      @acharich 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      💀💀💀

    • @yudelleanlisatajirikenyana4519
      @yudelleanlisatajirikenyana4519 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ladynottingham89 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      wow!
      your lucky your honest with yourself 😍

    • @gregorymendoza448
      @gregorymendoza448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't want to ever get married. I am into myself, career and into freedom.

  • @pastorpricilalizardo
    @pastorpricilalizardo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing!!!

  • @acharich
    @acharich 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    8:18 - Her response.. *HOLY GHOST..!* 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 - @Acharich

    • @Yahashuaskid
      @Yahashuaskid 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @acharich here you are again....I keep finding you

  • @dalewinegarden5979
    @dalewinegarden5979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it’s interesting, do you realize that Adam and Eve never got to interview each other before marriage, yet were wed for hundreds of years? How did that marriage work, in relation to the subject of this book?

    • @ilai7893
      @ilai7893 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They're probably a unique case -- literally tuned in to God as He was with them and so I bet He spoke into different situations, plus they lived in literal perfection in Eden and were sinless. Outside of the garden they likely did struggle due to sin but there was nobody else in the world so they stuck together?

  • @noemipuguon9161
    @noemipuguon9161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is great

  • @codyolson3200
    @codyolson3200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So if a person comes from a home not bearing much fruit or a rough situation that automatically disqualifies them? Idk how much I agree with that

    • @zonkebellamkhomazi2977
      @zonkebellamkhomazi2977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly 💯. Whats the solution

    • @Varaidzo1
      @Varaidzo1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't recall them saying that...

    • @maryrankin9869
      @maryrankin9869 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zonkebellamkhomazi2977 Just be prepared. Get some wisdom and counseling.

  • @ilai7893
    @ilai7893 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello from the largest island in the world lmao, first time hearing Canada is an island 😂

  • @grafxgrl8030
    @grafxgrl8030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Did you two live together before marriage?

    • @Klassyhk
      @Klassyhk 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Grafxgrl. Sounds like they did.

    • @ifeomaabiandu7496
      @ifeomaabiandu7496 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No they didn't. He said so that she came over to "visit" in his home. So, meaning the home wasnt hers too

  • @brianmwita8946
    @brianmwita8946 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's about falling in love. Can I get this book in pdf ?

  • @ed000
    @ed000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very true!

  • @annebooyse1112
    @annebooyse1112 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This would help married people?☺

  • @ashleyandmicahenglish5587
    @ashleyandmicahenglish5587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Talking about "islands", that tuff of hair you got there on the top seems to be an island unto itself...

  • @catmenot7143
    @catmenot7143 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bear hunting? The heck...

  • @gitengeorge2424
    @gitengeorge2424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the questions is 'Do you have N iPhone?'

    • @dorettenguelefacktchiadze403
      @dorettenguelefacktchiadze403 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Giten George 🤣🤣🤣

    • @acharich
      @acharich 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙅🏾‍♂️🙅🏾‍♂️🙅🏾‍♂️🙅🏾‍♂️🙅🏾‍♂️

  • @JenniferRose-_-
    @JenniferRose-_- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why does the interviewer keep cutting her off?? Ew.

  • @TimWesley
    @TimWesley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if you been dating and living with your gf for 10 years??

    • @Protactiny
      @Protactiny 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You marry her bro.

    • @TimWesley
      @TimWesley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you so much for the advice. Thats my plan.

    • @lilianmukisa3291
      @lilianmukisa3291 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dating for 10 years, that's not realistic

    • @aura5944
      @aura5944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe they met when they were 15 years young.

    • @d.c.4706
      @d.c.4706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dating and living together since 15? Not likely. More than likely dating and living together later than that.
      My question sir (and no disrespect at all) why exactly would you all of a sudden to be moved to marry someone you’ve dated and cohabitaed with for a decade? What has she done as of recent that makes her so worthy of marriage that wasn’t done over the past ten years?
      If for NO other reason, you should marry her for staying with you for ten years because there is no WAY I would give a man that type of time without being his wife. She is a keeper! And I pray the two of you have a blessed union! ❤️🙏🏾

  • @codearabawy
    @codearabawy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are they still married though?

    • @keishakiger8541
      @keishakiger8541 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are they ?

    • @codearabawy
      @codearabawy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@keishakiger8541 you're asking me after 11 months? I don't remember why I asked this question in the first place 😂. Will let you know if I found out.

  • @miraclgal58
    @miraclgal58 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Who wants a selfish person anyway. I have been a widow since 1984. Most men are too self centered.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *some men & women

    • @thedeekabides
      @thedeekabides 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Truthfully, you have not met most men.

    • @KishawnReed
      @KishawnReed ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey yo....am here

  • @lifeiswhatyoumakeit5505
    @lifeiswhatyoumakeit5505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Or just go MGTOW guys.

    • @abm672
      @abm672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because it's easier to blame women rather than deal with your own issues..

  • @susanbuchser-lochocki20
    @susanbuchser-lochocki20 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    People are living longer.. life long marriage was created when we had a shorter life span ...having 3- 5 long term relationships is normal today..

    • @baileyjohn5010
      @baileyjohn5010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That literally makes no sense when there are ppl who are still alive in 40 year marriages

  • @lifeiswhatyoumakeit5505
    @lifeiswhatyoumakeit5505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    With marriage comes divorce. About 50% do you feel lucky. Flip a coin, no thanks.

  • @aowales3316
    @aowales3316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    IF HE REALLY WAS A CHRISTIAN HE SHOULD HAD SHARE THE 12 QUESTIONS , THIS LIERS JUST USE "THE NAME JESUS TO MAKE BUSINESS" HE WANTS TO SELL HIS BOOK.

    • @ReasonAboveEverything
      @ReasonAboveEverything 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, you got to make living. He ain't selling salvation prayer but his discoveries about marriage from biblical perspective.

  • @AlSilbs
    @AlSilbs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WHOOF. You give Americans a bad name.

  • @Clickybux
    @Clickybux 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If he came from a divorced family they would most likely be divorced by now...

  • @satulubinda5193
    @satulubinda5193 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the are only happy together cos there making money. ..lol

  • @esclarmonde1156
    @esclarmonde1156 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Marriage is not hard work !

    • @Bitachon
      @Bitachon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Are you married?