I was laid off from my escrow Officer job with a huge national home builder last month. Thankfully I’ve been a barber for 10 years and was able to replace my income within 24 hours. Trades are truly a blessing when it comes to security.
That was so nice of your sister to come on. It really helps people because we just don't discuss money and as such people don't learn about it. Very generous indeed of both of you to share ❣️
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually code… I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista….
The cost of living in Utah is almost unbelievable. In Seattle, you would have to multiply every number she shared by 3 at a minimum. Regardless, respect to your sister for living within her means!
I was panicked when I got laid off but it actually was a blessing in disguise. Now I know, how to survive on the other side. It's not about avoiding failure but being adept at handling failure. Now if I lose my job ever again, I honestly would laugh because I know how to survive. I would not have known that about myself if I had never lost my job. I conquered fear, no fear is freedom!
@@mjohnson1741 that’s powerful, especially after becoming financially powerless. Those are some skills I’m still working on. I hope if the time comes, I’ll be as prepared as yourself 💪🏾
I have been laid off twice now and my approach is always be applying and respond to recruiters. Some positions will be worth going and putting in the extra effort. But you will get tons of practice on how to bullshit through interview rounds. The first round is always a drone round against the hr.
@Financial Failure also if you laid off, always put present on last job and say you still work there. When they want references have a friend be your reference and parrot the lines you give them.
I was in a similar situation laid off from my tech job but I was a little unlucky and found myself laid off for almost a year. I used these same tactics to cut off unnecessary expenses and didn't find myself needing to dip into my savings at all. Kudos to your sister for being able to do that with a growing family! I admit I was alone so much less pressure on how I spent my own money, but good to know it's possible even for families! Thanks for sharing!
@@asadb1990 that's a mystery to me, I interviewed every week sometimes getting to final rounds with big companies but they always went with someone else. I was receiving interview coaching, but I probably should have reached out to more of my network sooner to try and get that shoe in. In the end my first/only offer came from FAANG which I promptly accepted. Edit: a caveat that's important to mention is that I did not apply to any hourly positions, all full time, as I was luckily ok financially, but gruelling nonetheless
@Linda Says Things yeah i got laid off in construction management from the only province in canada thats pretty dead i.e. alberta. Their excuse was "shortage of work" while hiring 3 people after me. I came from a large GC after working there for 2 years. I luckily never updated my linkedin of the new job (only 6 months of experience which i tacked on to my old job) and kept applying as if im employed. Honesty is overrated.
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually code… I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista….
Jake your such a inspiration! Hey Carlie I was layed off 6years ago and I haven't been back on someone else's payroll since. 1099 has it's highs and lows but I know if I go back my various streams can keep me afloat if ever I were to be axed again before the holidays. These companies are trying to break even.
kinda curious how this went. do you mind elaborating? Im thinking of going to grad school for computer science(my bachelor is computer science) or go med school. my gpa for bachelor was 3.47
What type of engineer to what type of Medical career. I’m mechanical working as a Manufacturing Engineer in aerospace. But I’ve been thinking of jumping to Software
7:53 Yes, many people don’t realize unemployment benefit comes from a pool contributed by the companies like an insurance pool. The more a company layoff people, the more that company will need to contribute back to the pool in coming years.
It is straight up insurance. Your employer contributes at least 2.5% of your pay to unemployment insurance. You don't see it because it is deducted before you get paid but the unemployment insurance payments are a cost to a business to hire you. If you get laid off, don't hesitate to collect on the unemployment insurance.
Hearing the description of her expenses, especially with having a child, it's just not economically feasible for most people at most jobs to have a life without living with someone off of two incomes. We used to need only one, and not even a great job! What happened?! Our country is being robbed by the upper crust.
I remember when I was last laid off. Hurricane Sandy in 2012. 😆 First I went sailing in the Caribbean for six months, as I'd been living in my van for the recession. Then came home as my tenant was leaving, so rented rooms out and did gig work ever since 😄. It's wonderful not having a boss and part time work. Never go to restaurants, or paid concerts. Mint mobile for phone. Old car is paid for and low insurance. As prices go up I simply raise my gig work rate and housemate rent. I did do a spell of yacht work to pay down the mortgage and refi. So that helps $300/mo. What's going on now with the economy is nuts. Hoping for another recession so my daughter can afford a place.
Tell your sister she may also qualify for food stamps! I was able to eat really great thanks to EBT. I was able to shop at Whole Foods and the higher quality food helped me feel so much better as I looked for a new job.
@@sct4040 yessss girlll 😂 I wanted to eat healthy so that was literally my first try actually eating all those no seed oil, no gmo, etc type of food. It allowed me to start a really good habit.
You should not be embarrassed for being on unemployment. You pay into this system from your taxes. You’re entitled to use the services just like anyone else.
Man the lighting in this video is amazing not gonna lie. You guys look great. I got a Sony a5000 dslr for $400 recently to use as a webcam. It’s a big difference, but what seems to help even more is lighting and you have definitely nailed it here! It’s sooooo clear and clean!
Ok, for all the people in the US, getting laid off while on maternity is not normal. Fight for employee rights, I am shocked that people will fight for the right to own a gun, but not for the right to not be treated like trash by your employer
I was laid off during Covid. Was given three months severance, took four months to land a new role. Thankfully we had three months of expenses in the emergency fund as well. There’s options out there I’m sure she’s going to land a good gig.
On one hand why have children when they are raised at a daycare ? Daycare can be very expensive unless you have a relative looking after that child. I stayed home for 9 years until the youngest was attending school full time. My income would not have covered childcare. Having an extra car ,insurance and so many expenses that occur. We lived on less and made due without but it was worked in the end.
Wish her the best in finding her next position! Even though some are laying off, I recently started a new job 2months ago (tech company) and got a 40% jump in salary.
@@DrBlackJack001 just saying, even though there are layoffs, there are still a ton that are hiring. I get text messages, calls, and emails from recruiters every day inviting to a new position. I'm in the tech industry, so although we see layoffs at FANG and larger companies, there are still many mid-size etc that are hiring. This gives hope to people who are laid off, they will surely find good work again soon.
Important message Jake! Thank you for that! I am working in IT sales and the layoffs has touched my company too, so I decided to quit and find another job before they take this decision for me. I keep my finger crossed for your sister to find a great job soon!
Were you perhaps filming "A day in the life of a Project Manager" style videos and going a grand total of 1h or actual work per day while enjoying snacks and boba tea?
Just got “furloughed” for 2 months from my tech startup. Tell your sis to be glad she doesn’t live in AZ! Max unemployment benefit here is $240/week vs. her $660/week. That cut makes for a rough transition with a stay at home mom and 3 kids coming from a salary of nearly six figures! 😅
Yeah but in AZ we pay little taxes, with more tax cuts coming. Those tax savings were supposed to be saved up for this reason. Compared to CA where everything is taxed. Plus in AZ the RE prices are much cheaper, meaning it's easier to pay for housing. Where as in CA, if you get laid off from your big tech job, a small tech job won't pay you enough to even cover the housing payment every month.
To prevent from panicking of layoff, I live a frugal life, paying off all debts (car, house, credits), having an emergency fund and investing in the stock market.
I’m a software engineer in Brazil got laid off too, American investors stop coming hahah, but I got another job at my previous company as tech lead, the work is more and pay is less but at least I’m an associate, followed jake advice and now I “own” a piece of a business
I am so sorry your sister has to go through this challenge of unemployment. The one thing I learned along the way in IT journey (30+ years) is to ask how long has my manager and other staff have been on the job. That gives me a better idea of the culture of turnover at the company.
These are NOT Tech Workers. These are people working low skill/overhead jobs in tech companies. There's a clear difference. The certified engineers and coders were retained in most cases.
I hope that Carly could find next job soon. I know it is tough, I have been laid off before in oil and gas industry during oil price crash downturn so I know how stressful it could be. In the process I learnt that everyone is replaceable, doesn't matter our performance was because that's how it works in corporate world run on capitalism. Thus we should never be dependent on our job as a single source of income. Best to diversify and create another source of passive income whether it is online business, shares, divident, renting out property, deposits interest, etc so you get peace of mind. Because there will always be fluctuation. In fact every 10 years we always have financial crisis so we need to be versatile at any time. Also see if your technical skill can be transferable to other sector that not so niche. Dont forget to be discipline with your expenditures. Anyway good luck on your next journey as I'm sure you will find something soon!! All the best!!
It’s weird seeing one of these where the person’s financial situation seems pretty reasonable, like no $500/mo for candles or anything. I’m glad she went for unemployment though, when I got laid off I knew people that were like “oh I’m not gonna go through the hassle.” Like dude you have $0 coming in, get that money it’s yours! Funniest part for me was getting the notice from the unemployment office where they were like “you NEED to come in we MUST discuss how to search for jobs and fill out a resume” so I just showed up with my (multiple, industry specific) resumes and they’re all like “oh… uh… okay, enjoy your day.”
Unemployment is taxed you must pay that and if you recieve a job offer and turn it down the unemployment stops She said also you must apply at 4 places a week They do not care is less money or farther to drive
I feel for your sister. I was laid off during the pandemic working as a Talent Sourcer for a top healthcare firm and felt my world was collapsing in 2020 after losing my well-paid recruitment and sourcing position. After re-grouping and making several mistakes (accepting low paying recruitment jobs out of desperation). I was fortunate enough to get back to my firm. Shortly thereafter less than year or so left, now work for the top healthcare firm and feel more stable. I suggest looking for non tech companies try to avoid start-ups or companies who are not well capitalized. Instead look for non-for-profit firms in needed such as governmental entities such as public hospitals college or universities, mainly public colleges if private ensure they have are well funded with large endowments, if not try to get an employment contract. Just my two cents.
This, I work for a company where their core service isn't tech, but use tech to complement the core service. We only laid off 4% of our total workforce and most core engineering functions are not impacted, mostly just contractors and problematic employees.
wow I live in the San Francisco Bay Area... each day, I eat out, and for one person, the total bill is any where from $60 to $80... but it is for 2 meals... I order 2 and eat half of each, and then take home the rest... so my monthly bill for food can be $70 average x 30 = $2100 per month
This is such a helpful and relevant video! I’m sure so many people are benefitting from it! Did she or anyone else you know receive a severance package? I’d love to learn more and why it’s taxed so high.
Im un construction management and got laid off in the beginning of December right before the holiday. Got another job in the states with roughly 50% pay increase.
It's tough, I'm in Louisiana and max Unemployment benefit is only $247 per week. This number hasn't changed since I worked in a claims call center for them in 2010. At some point I switched to working with veterans - if a veteran finishes his contract and has his DD214 (was honorably discharged) - and wants to get Unemployment while he is looking for a new civilian job - they don't have to use the State that they lived in (grew up in). They can actually call up ANY state and file unemployment. So they can pick the state (back in the day that meant walking into one, but seems most are remote call centers now) that pays the most weekly benefit which currently is Massachusetts at $823 per week, or $3,292mth. So for all veterans - don't pick your home state! ;)
I don't know how I got to your video with your sister...It was brave of her to put all her expenses online...I'm sure it helped many people...I was just wondering how it worked out for her...did she get the job she was looking for??
It's because of the interest rate. Most of these companies were over leveraged and bloated during low interest rate, but now the FED has increased the interest rate to fight inflation by killing demand, if most people are unemployed they won't have money to buy things anymore, so inflation will come down, hence the layoff. Companies can't have cheap loans anymore.
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually code… I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista….
As a Swede, I appreciate the Swedish system where we pay higher taxes and get benifits from the government. Parents gets 480 days paid leave for their newborn and your employer can not fire you because you're on maternity/paternity leave.
My daughters income is the main in her family too. She left California 5 years ago and moved to Raleigh but still works from home for a California company. She had a few offers when she left and we together figured out what the best job and we picked the right one because she is still working there and makes good good money. Eating out, Starbucks, subscriptions all the crap will eat you alive. I am retired, make 75k a year, own two properties and still save 30k a year that gets mostly invested in Ecuadorian CD's at 8 percent interest. I spend more on food than your sister when I am in the USA and I am single but I cook everyday and have for many years and I only eat healthy. I tell young people all the time to live under your means and on a budget and save save save specially when things are good. In 25 years you will have so much money it will make your head spin. Even in the USA, you can get 5% on a CD and I think that will climb to 6% in the next few months.
Theis expense breakdown is so relatable! Honestly eating out for $400 a month seems reasonable to me. Frankly even grocery shopping costs quite a bit too.. If only money would go further!
Always best to like frugally. I like to think of life like the seasons in nature. Its not always going to be sunny in your employment. You have to prepare for the winters that inevitably crop up.
Congrats on the baby! I hope and pray for the best for yall! I wanted to say that I pay almost $400 to $500 in groceries in my state and month and my state is considered low income... there are 4 people living in my house, 2 adults (including myself l) and 2 children... how do I cut back? We can't even afford the good food. Thats all the cheap food... meat Is really where alot of that money goes but in order to have a decent meal you have to cook meats with your other meals.
I'm glad I was smart enough to buy houses when I was in the military instead of staying in base housing, now that I'm out I can at least count on disability and rental income if I get laid off. I also have a 1 year of living expenses emergency fund for this reason. Also, the costco pizza is good for the price, I get it all the time lol
Unfortunately it happens all the time even 20 years ago. The company does a "restructure" and change your job specs and proof your job is eliminated even on maternity or sick leave
I got laid off and have a disability. That’s also why. My brother in law was on sick leave when laid off. This is a crazy time. Then, everything happens. Things break down more it seems. Or maybe more noticeable. The simple life is easier for me. I’d rather eat good meals at home and have a roof over my head. If I spent a lot of time eating out and shopping for clothing, I wouldn’t be able to survive, now. I dropped my magazine subscriptions, doing my hair and nails. You do need at least a 6 month to year’s money, in case you can’t find a job. Unemployment is hard to deal with. People are losing their shirts. I’m lucky, other than the multiple repair bills, I have a place to live. However, my next door neighbor is having trouble making her dues to live in the condo. But, I can’t worry about everyone else. I have multiple repairs bills , right now and have to worry about myself.
I think these transparency videos are fantastic! The only question I have is how is she paying so little in taxes? I don’t make that much more than her but pay around $1k a month… what am I doing wrong 😅
Hi, are you taking advantages of all tax reduction strategies like deductions, 401k? Do you have any dependents? Do you own your home or rent? Any children?
I am sorry to hear about the lay offs, I have been told that there was a shortage in tech, is that still the case and if so. How could that be the case whilst there also mass lay offs in tech? I am not from the USA so I am not sure how that all works.
I got laid off from my job as well too which is a public business one so I'll have to wait until my boss gives me a call or a send me a text to rehire me back to my previous job. I can't move on to a next job not yet because I don't feel like moving to a better opportunity because my boss said him and the others would love to have me there.
Listen, I was once hired and going through my two week training when HR swept through and the entire team of 12 off, and that was AFTER being laid off my main job! I will never put down unemployment! Unemployment helps you find your footing and bounce back quicker, faster. You shouldn't have to lose everything because your job dumped you unexpectedly when you done nothing wrong to lose the job! Give yourself some room to know that IT WASN'T YOU THAT CAUSED YOUR SUDDEN UNEMPLOYMENT! Some people are so brainwashed to think they're living off Uncle Sam even if it wasn't their fault! You use it if you have to then move on with life!.... Life is a series of ups and downs. If you're living an entire ups life you are indeed blessed. Even Jesus had his bad moments, Hello!
It’s really sad that this happened but imagine if you keep living like this when you find a similar job. You could be putting $2000 into savings or investing every month
Agreed. I earn similar to what she was making and manage to save 50% of my income. I chose to live in a very low cost area and live very frugal, I spend my money wisely cause I don't want freak out If I happen to lose my job. By doing that I have 6 months worth of cash on emergency fund and almost 300k in my investiments, I'm having 40% of my monthly expenses in profit due to investiments. Of course I keep reinvest them. I don't have children just yet and I'm considering get one only in 2025 when start getting 50% of my living expenses in profit.
The employer paid 50% and the employee paid the other 50% from your biweekly paycheck for the unemployment insurance to the state. Each state is different in the weekly amount paid to the recipient.
It’s really hard to feel sympathy for anybody laid off from the tech companies do you imagine how many peoples lives were ruined when their accounts were shut down from these companies. I’m sure things are tough at the moment. But with your work history and qualifications, I’m sure you will land on your feet.
When companies figure out the cost of an employee to the company, they include the unemployment insurance as a benefit. You pay it each month, so it’s not free money. Don’t forget you owe federal taxes on that $2,700 a month unemployment.
That's my question too. Where is her partner? First of, she just had a baby if she has a partner she would never stress out on looking for a job until feel confortable. I don't know her marrige dinamics but it's weird.
2700 a month in unemployment!!! Here in TX it tops out at 2000 (500/ week). Also that's gross so watch for taxes owed later. Your sis is in a dual income household?
Oh btw- congrats on baby number three! Just had our third (and final ✂️😅) two months ago. We bought that doona stroller you showed, it’s worth the $550. Trust me.
I just got laid off so im on a youtube binge. I worked in HR and process unemployment claims for former employees. Unemployment is NOT from the government. Your employer pays UI insurance and thats where you get the money from. So dont be ashamed to file people! esp when they lay you off
Unemployment should be citizens monthly stipend, this additional funding can help families or individuals living pay check to pay check. And provide a sense of ease after getting laid off to find the job they want to work instead of having to work. As far as the funds for unemployment, politicians need to take a larger cut from the taxes companies pay for unemployment. That would be sustainable for a city and state if done correctly.
This is crazy bro, 75.000$ a year, absolutely crazy money. In my country (Romania) if you get 7.500$ (yes 7.5k) a YEAR people will look at you like you are some God or something :))). Crazy how this world works.
I was laid off from my escrow Officer job with a huge national home builder last month. Thankfully I’ve been a barber for 10 years and was able to replace my income within 24 hours. Trades are truly a blessing when it comes to security.
how much did you make as an escrow officer?
@@1MinuteFlipDoc $60k in KY
She's so down to earth and real. I hope she finds a new job soon. 👍👍🤞
This goes to show why it’s so important to keep your debt down
Or even keep none of them. I had close to a screaming match with my husband regarding that... but at the end we recovered 50K of debt in no time
Your sister is so honest and forefront.
That was so nice of your sister to come on. It really helps people because we just don't discuss money and as such people don't learn about it. Very generous indeed of both of you to share ❣️
Thanks to both of you. I think it is good to hear how people are surviving when hard time hit!
Extremely brave of your sister. She is a hero ! I hope she gets the most awesome job she deserves
She is just being honest about her situation. I do not see how this makes her brave.
Not everyone feels confident to go on the internet and talk about their financial situation especially getting laid off.
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually code… I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista….
The cost of living in Utah is almost unbelievable. In Seattle, you would have to multiply every number she shared by 3 at a minimum. Regardless, respect to your sister for living within her means!
Love that’s your sister isn’t worried… I’ve never been on unemployment and kudos to her for not being as prideful as myself and taking the 💰👏🏾
I was panicked when I got laid off but it actually was a blessing in disguise. Now I know, how to survive on the other side. It's not about avoiding failure but being adept at handling failure. Now if I lose my job ever again, I honestly would laugh because I know how to survive. I would not have known that about myself if I had never lost my job. I conquered fear, no fear is freedom!
@@mjohnson1741 that’s powerful, especially after becoming financially powerless. Those are some skills I’m still working on. I hope if the time comes, I’ll be as prepared as yourself 💪🏾
I have been laid off twice now and my approach is always be applying and respond to recruiters. Some positions will be worth going and putting in the extra effort. But you will get tons of practice on how to bullshit through interview rounds. The first round is always a drone round against the hr.
@@asadb1990 exactly, if this isn’t the truth idk what is.
@Financial Failure also if you laid off, always put present on last job and say you still work there. When they want references have a friend be your reference and parrot the lines you give them.
I was in a similar situation laid off from my tech job but I was a little unlucky and found myself laid off for almost a year. I used these same tactics to cut off unnecessary expenses and didn't find myself needing to dip into my savings at all. Kudos to your sister for being able to do that with a growing family! I admit I was alone so much less pressure on how I spent my own money, but good to know it's possible even for families! Thanks for sharing!
Woah how do you manage to stay unemployed for a year?
@@asadb1990 that's a mystery to me, I interviewed every week sometimes getting to final rounds with big companies but they always went with someone else. I was receiving interview coaching, but I probably should have reached out to more of my network sooner to try and get that shoe in. In the end my first/only offer came from FAANG which I promptly accepted.
Edit: a caveat that's important to mention is that I did not apply to any hourly positions, all full time, as I was luckily ok financially, but gruelling nonetheless
@Linda Says Things yeah i got laid off in construction management from the only province in canada thats pretty dead i.e. alberta. Their excuse was "shortage of work" while hiring 3 people after me. I came from a large GC after working there for 2 years. I luckily never updated my linkedin of the new job (only 6 months of experience which i tacked on to my old job) and kept applying as if im employed. Honesty is overrated.
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually code… I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista….
Learn to weld
Jake your such a inspiration! Hey Carlie I was layed off 6years ago and I haven't been back on someone else's payroll since. 1099 has it's highs and lows but I know if I go back my various streams can keep me afloat if ever I were to be axed again before the holidays. These companies are trying to break even.
Lost my engineering job when the pandemic came and enrolled in medical school. Best decision of my life.
kinda curious how this went. do you mind elaborating? Im thinking of going to grad school for computer science(my bachelor is computer science) or go med school. my gpa for bachelor was 3.47
ya elaborate we'll be waiting
What type of engineer to what type of Medical career. I’m mechanical working as a Manufacturing Engineer in aerospace. But I’ve been thinking of jumping to Software
No one just "enrolls " in medical school.
You both are remarkable and your sister is wonderful. I hope she finds her next opportunity soon. They will be lucky to have her!
7:53 Yes, many people don’t realize unemployment benefit comes from a pool contributed by the companies like an insurance pool. The more a company layoff people, the more that company will need to contribute back to the pool in coming years.
It is straight up insurance. Your employer contributes at least 2.5% of your pay to unemployment insurance. You don't see it because it is deducted before you get paid but the unemployment insurance payments are a cost to a business to hire you. If you get laid off, don't hesitate to collect on the unemployment insurance.
I moved to NJ before the 2008 crash for the $600 max weekly unemployment benefit.
Hearing the description of her expenses, especially with having a child, it's just not economically feasible for most people at most jobs to have a life without living with someone off of two incomes. We used to need only one, and not even a great job! What happened?! Our country is being robbed by the upper crust.
I remember when I was last laid off. Hurricane Sandy in 2012. 😆
First I went sailing in the Caribbean for six months, as I'd been living in my van for the recession.
Then came home as my tenant was leaving, so rented rooms out and did gig work ever since 😄. It's wonderful not having a boss and part time work. Never go to restaurants, or paid concerts. Mint mobile for phone. Old car is paid for and low insurance. As prices go up I simply raise my gig work rate and housemate rent. I did do a spell of yacht work to pay down the mortgage and refi. So that helps $300/mo.
What's going on now with the economy is nuts. Hoping for another recession so my daughter can afford a place.
Tell your sister she may also qualify for food stamps! I was able to eat really great thanks to EBT. I was able to shop at Whole Foods and the higher quality food helped me feel so much better as I looked for a new job.
Ebt at Whole Foods? How bouggie 😂
I thought you had to have a job to get food stamps
@@sct4040 yessss girlll 😂 I wanted to eat healthy so that was literally my first try actually eating all those no seed oil, no gmo, etc type of food. It allowed me to start a really good habit.
@@modifiedjaymill maybe it depends on your district. Where I live you don’t have to be employed but you need to be seeking work.
You should not be embarrassed for being on unemployment. You pay into this system from your taxes. You’re entitled to use the services just like anyone else.
Here for this. Was surprised they were unaware
Man the lighting in this video is amazing not gonna lie. You guys look great. I got a Sony a5000 dslr for $400 recently to use as a webcam. It’s a big difference, but what seems to help even more is lighting and you have definitely nailed it here! It’s sooooo clear and clean!
I appreciate how open people are on this channel.
Ok, for all the people in the US, getting laid off while on maternity is not normal. Fight for employee rights, I am shocked that people will fight for the right to own a gun, but not for the right to not be treated like trash by your employer
I was laid off during Covid. Was given three months severance, took four months to land a new role. Thankfully we had three months of expenses in the emergency fund as well. There’s options out there I’m sure she’s going to land a good gig.
On one hand why have children when they are raised at a daycare ? Daycare can be very expensive unless you have a relative looking after that child.
I stayed home for 9 years until the youngest was attending school full time.
My income would not have covered childcare.
Having an extra car ,insurance and so many expenses that occur.
We lived on less and made due without but it was worked in the end.
Wish her the best in finding her next position! Even though some are laying off, I recently started a new job 2months ago (tech company) and got a 40% jump in salary.
40% a huge. Nice work. Yeah she'll find something soon, I'm sure.
Weird thing to say but okay
@@DrBlackJack001 just saying, even though there are layoffs, there are still a ton that are hiring. I get text messages, calls, and emails from recruiters every day inviting to a new position. I'm in the tech industry, so although we see layoffs at FANG and larger companies, there are still many mid-size etc that are hiring. This gives hope to people who are laid off, they will surely find good work again soon.
@@JakeFerrin And you can not refuse a job offer or the unemployment stops!!
Being down to earth like her is a sign of being actually smart and intelligent. Love from EastAfrica...
Important message Jake! Thank you for that!
I am working in IT sales and the layoffs has touched my company too, so I decided to quit and find another job before they take this decision for me.
I keep my finger crossed for your sister to find a great job soon!
Probably would have been smarter to find another job first then quit...but you do you.
I don't think you can apply for unemployment...Duh!
I really hope Carly gets a job asap. Wish you all the best, Carly.
She should learn to weld
Very interesting video, thanks for sharing!
i'm proud of you jake, 2 videos uploaded in less than 7 days!!! it's gonna be a great year ahead!!
I just got laid off from my tech job while on maternity leave and made about as much as your sister. Thanks for this video!
Learn to weld
Were you perhaps filming "A day in the life of a Project Manager" style videos and going a grand total of 1h or actual work per day while enjoying snacks and boba tea?
Interesting video about the tech layoffs currently happening. Thanks for sharing.
Just got “furloughed” for 2 months from my tech startup. Tell your sis to be glad she doesn’t live in AZ! Max unemployment benefit here is $240/week vs. her $660/week. That cut makes for a rough transition with a stay at home mom and 3 kids coming from a salary of nearly six figures! 😅
Yeah but in AZ we pay little taxes, with more tax cuts coming. Those tax savings were supposed to be saved up for this reason. Compared to CA where everything is taxed. Plus in AZ the RE prices are much cheaper, meaning it's easier to pay for housing. Where as in CA, if you get laid off from your big tech job, a small tech job won't pay you enough to even cover the housing payment every month.
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Thank you for being so transparent!
Fantastic video. Thank you both!
Very interesting. I appreciate her sharing these details with us. Please update us later when she finds a new job.
Thank you for sharing this info! Super interesting and informative. Wishing Carly the best!
Got laid off yesterday! Pretty excited to explore other options!
I'm so sorry that you got laid off. I know what that's like, been through it myself. I wish you much success. I hope you find a new job soon.
To prevent from panicking of layoff, I live a frugal life, paying off all debts (car, house, credits), having an emergency fund and investing in the stock market.
I’m a software engineer in Brazil got laid off too, American investors stop coming hahah, but I got another job at my previous company as tech lead, the work is more and pay is less but at least I’m an associate, followed jake advice and now I “own” a piece of a business
This video is epic, appreciate yall so much, needed to hear this!!!
Hope everyone will able to survive through. All the best.
I am so sorry your sister has to go through this challenge of unemployment.
The one thing I learned along the way in IT journey (30+ years) is to ask how long has my manager and other staff have been on the job. That gives me a better idea of the culture of turnover at the company.
These are NOT Tech Workers. These are people working low skill/overhead jobs in tech companies. There's a clear difference. The certified engineers and coders were retained in most cases.
I hope that Carly could find next job soon. I know it is tough, I have been laid off before in oil and gas industry during oil price crash downturn so I know how stressful it could be. In the process I learnt that everyone is replaceable, doesn't matter our performance was because that's how it works in corporate world run on capitalism. Thus we should never be dependent on our job as a single source of income.
Best to diversify and create another source of passive income whether it is online business, shares, divident, renting out property, deposits interest, etc so you get peace of mind. Because there will always be fluctuation. In fact every 10 years we always have financial crisis so we need to be versatile at any time. Also see if your technical skill can be transferable to other sector that not so niche.
Dont forget to be discipline with your expenditures. Anyway good luck on your next journey as I'm sure you will find something soon!! All the best!!
It’s weird seeing one of these where the person’s financial situation seems pretty reasonable, like no $500/mo for candles or anything. I’m glad she went for unemployment though, when I got laid off I knew people that were like “oh I’m not gonna go through the hassle.” Like dude you have $0 coming in, get that money it’s yours!
Funniest part for me was getting the notice from the unemployment office where they were like “you NEED to come in we MUST discuss how to search for jobs and fill out a resume” so I just showed up with my (multiple, industry specific) resumes and they’re all like “oh… uh… okay, enjoy your day.”
Thank you for sharing. I was there before. Unemployment is an amazing benefit when used properly.
Unemployment doesn't pay out though
Unemployment is taxed you must pay that and if you recieve a job offer and turn it down the unemployment stops She said also you must apply at 4 places a week They do not care is less money or farther to drive
I hope things go well for Carly.
Wonderful sister! Thanks for sharing!
I feel for your sister. I was laid off during the pandemic working as a Talent Sourcer for a top healthcare firm and felt my world was collapsing in 2020 after losing my well-paid recruitment and sourcing position. After re-grouping and making several mistakes (accepting low paying recruitment jobs out of desperation). I was fortunate enough to get back to my firm. Shortly thereafter less than year or so left, now work for the top healthcare firm and feel more stable. I suggest looking for non tech companies try to avoid start-ups or companies who are not well capitalized. Instead look for non-for-profit firms in needed such as governmental entities such as public hospitals college or universities, mainly public colleges if private ensure they have are well funded with large endowments, if not try to get an employment contract. Just my two cents.
This, I work for a company where their core service isn't tech, but use tech to complement the core service. We only laid off 4% of our total workforce and most core engineering functions are not impacted, mostly just contractors and problematic employees.
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Your taxes was only $369 on $5700 gross paycheck?! ..And unemployment is $2700 per month?!...WOW...Utah for the WIN!!
I noticed she didnt mention any debt
wow I live in the San Francisco Bay Area... each day, I eat out, and for one person, the total bill is any where from $60 to $80... but it is for 2 meals... I order 2 and eat half of each, and then take home the rest... so my monthly bill for food can be $70 average x 30 = $2100 per month
Super relatable. Just found your channel. 👍🏼 keep it up.
This is such a helpful and relevant video! I’m sure so many people are benefitting from it! Did she or anyone else you know receive a severance package? I’d love to learn more and why it’s taxed so high.
Im express " show love "to your sister she is smart and will get out of this ...right away what am i going to do now. no time for pity.
Not many people do these kinds of videos. Wishing the best for Karly!
I am just happy to see such good looking people are re-producing!🤰🏼
Thanks! I’d be curious to know more about how she cut her food budget so drastically
Im un construction management and got laid off in the beginning of December right before the holiday. Got another job in the states with roughly 50% pay increase.
🤣🤣🤣"Time for dinner " and we all hop in the car, love it! ❤️ God will provide please don't stress out!
That was funny 😆.
It's tough, I'm in Louisiana and max Unemployment benefit is only $247 per week. This number hasn't changed since I worked in a claims call center for them in 2010.
At some point I switched to working with veterans - if a veteran finishes his contract and has his DD214 (was honorably discharged) - and wants to get Unemployment while he is looking for a new civilian job - they don't have to use the State that they lived in (grew up in). They can actually call up ANY state and file unemployment.
So they can pick the state (back in the day that meant walking into one, but seems most are remote call centers now) that pays the most weekly benefit which currently is Massachusetts at $823 per week, or $3,292mth.
So for all veterans - don't pick your home state! ;)
Back to basics, when the fed cuts: whether interests or QE then accounting comes into do the layoffs/cost cutting to meet numbers.
I don't know how I got to your video with your sister...It was brave of her to put all her expenses online...I'm sure it helped many people...I was just wondering how it worked out for her...did she get the job she was looking for??
It's because of the interest rate. Most of these companies were over leveraged and bloated during low interest rate, but now the FED has increased the interest rate to fight inflation by killing demand, if most people are unemployed they won't have money to buy things anymore, so inflation will come down, hence the layoff. Companies can't have cheap loans anymore.
Great video, thank you both!
Ayo, wtf is her husband actually doing? I know I’m not the only one that picked up on all that, right?
Bro to be honest you were a bit harsh with the question
I was kind of thinking the same though
Stay at home Dad perhaps? What do you think?
They're doing pretty well for themselves though
Exactly I was thinking the same thing with the “we”
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually code… I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista….
As a Swede, I appreciate the Swedish system where we pay higher taxes and get benifits from the government. Parents gets 480 days paid leave for their newborn and your employer can not fire you because you're on maternity/paternity leave.
Costco pizza is delicious and it’s only $10 for a whole pizza. My wife and I treat ourselves to it every couple weeks or so.
I love Costco pizza too!
My daughters income is the main in her family too. She left California 5 years ago and moved to Raleigh but still works from home for a California company. She had a few offers when she left and we together figured out what the best job and we picked the right one because she is still working there and makes good good money. Eating out, Starbucks, subscriptions all the crap will eat you alive. I am retired, make 75k a year, own two properties and still save 30k a year that gets mostly invested in Ecuadorian CD's at 8 percent interest. I spend more on food than your sister when I am in the USA and I am single but I cook everyday and have for many years and I only eat healthy. I tell young people all the time to live under your means and on a budget and save save save specially when things are good. In 25 years you will have so much money it will make your head spin. Even in the USA, you can get 5% on a CD and I think that will climb to 6% in the next few months.
Theis expense breakdown is so relatable! Honestly eating out for $400 a month seems reasonable to me. Frankly even grocery shopping costs quite a bit too.. If only money would go further!
Always best to like frugally. I like to think of life like the seasons in nature. Its not always going to be sunny in your employment. You have to prepare for the winters that inevitably crop up.
You are awesome, thank you so much for your videos! 😊
Congrats on the baby! I hope and pray for the best for yall!
I wanted to say that I pay almost $400 to $500 in groceries in my state and month and my state is considered low income... there are 4 people living in my house, 2 adults (including myself l) and 2 children... how do I cut back? We can't even afford the good food. Thats all the cheap food... meat Is really where alot of that money goes but in order to have a decent meal you have to cook meats with your other meals.
I'm glad I was smart enough to buy houses when I was in the military instead of staying in base housing, now that I'm out I can at least count on disability and rental income if I get laid off. I also have a 1 year of living expenses emergency fund for this reason. Also, the costco pizza is good for the price, I get it all the time lol
In Ontario, Canada unemployment is paid by you. Unemployment insurance comes from your paycheque while you’re working. It’s basically your own money
I have never heard about a new Mom being laid off on maternity leave. That company has no class.
Unfortunately it happens all the time even 20 years ago. The company does a "restructure" and change your job specs and proof your job is eliminated even on maternity or sick leave
@@auntlalanyc wow, I guess I was lucky to work for a company that didn’t do that.
I got laid off and have a disability. That’s also why.
My brother in law was on sick leave when laid off.
This is a crazy time. Then, everything happens. Things break down more it seems. Or maybe more noticeable.
The simple life is easier for me. I’d rather eat good meals at home and have a roof over my head. If I spent a lot of time eating out and shopping for clothing, I wouldn’t be able to survive, now. I dropped my magazine subscriptions, doing my hair and nails. You do need at least a 6 month to year’s money, in case you can’t find a job. Unemployment is hard to deal with.
People are losing their shirts. I’m lucky, other than the multiple repair bills, I have a place to live. However, my next door neighbor is having trouble making her dues to live in the condo. But, I can’t worry about everyone else. I have multiple repairs bills , right now and have to worry about myself.
I think these transparency videos are fantastic! The only question I have is how is she paying so little in taxes? I don’t make that much more than her but pay around $1k a month… what am I doing wrong 😅
Hi, are you taking advantages of all tax reduction strategies like deductions, 401k? Do you have any dependents?
Do you own your home or rent? Any children?
I am sorry to hear about the lay offs, I have been told that there was a shortage in tech, is that still the case and if so. How could that be the case whilst there also mass lay offs in tech? I am not from the USA so I am not sure how that all works.
I am a Salesforce Consultant and was laid off this week
I got laid off from my job as well too which is a public business one so I'll have to wait until my boss gives me a call or a send me a text to rehire me back to my previous job. I can't move on to a next job not yet because I don't feel like moving to a better opportunity because my boss said him and the others would love to have me there.
Listen, I was once hired and going through my two week training when HR swept through and the entire team of 12 off, and that was AFTER being laid off my main job! I will never put down unemployment! Unemployment helps you find your footing and bounce back quicker, faster. You shouldn't have to lose everything because your job dumped you unexpectedly when you done nothing wrong to lose the job! Give yourself some room to know that IT WASN'T YOU THAT CAUSED YOUR SUDDEN UNEMPLOYMENT! Some people are so brainwashed to think they're living off Uncle Sam even if it wasn't their fault! You use it if you have to then move on with life!.... Life is a series of ups and downs. If you're living an entire ups life you are indeed blessed. Even Jesus had his bad moments, Hello!
It’s really sad that this happened but imagine if you keep living like this when you find a similar job. You could be putting $2000 into savings or investing every month
Agreed. I earn similar to what she was making and manage to save 50% of my income. I chose to live in a very low cost area and live very frugal, I spend my money wisely cause I don't want freak out If I happen to lose my job. By doing that I have 6 months worth of cash on emergency fund and almost 300k in my investiments, I'm having 40% of my monthly expenses in profit due to investiments. Of course I keep reinvest them. I don't have children just yet and I'm considering get one only in 2025 when start getting 50% of my living expenses in profit.
@@TheCelmap WOW - you are killing it!👏🏼
@@davisholman8149 thanks so much. I rather be frugal and savvy then live on the mercy of employers.
@@TheCelmap You're very smart. Great job on saving and investing.
@@shayemoore thank you so much. It takes effort and lots of sacrificing, but it's worth it.
75k is pretty low for a tech job in CA. I pay 3k monthly. My wife got laid off while on maternity leave as well.
Sorry about that
We're y'all double income family?
They are in Utah, most likely Provo, 75k is enough to live on there.
The employer paid 50% and the employee paid the other 50% from your biweekly paycheck for the unemployment insurance to the state. Each state is different in the weekly amount paid to the recipient.
what a sweet sister
It’s really hard to feel sympathy for anybody laid off from the tech companies do you imagine how many peoples lives were ruined when their accounts were shut down from these companies. I’m sure things are tough at the moment. But with your work history and qualifications, I’m sure you will land on your feet.
When companies figure out the cost of an employee to the company, they include the unemployment insurance as a benefit. You pay it each month, so it’s not free money.
Don’t forget you owe federal taxes on that $2,700 a month unemployment.
Great video. Very informative
during pandemic my friend got laid off and made almost the same amount of money on unemployment in pennsylvania, like 85% or something
is it correct to subtract all of the mortgage, utilities, and other expenses all from sister's take home pay? Her partner doesn't contribute anything?
That's my question too. Where is her partner? First of, she just had a baby if she has a partner she would never stress out on looking for a job until feel confortable. I don't know her marrige dinamics but it's weird.
Can they do a 3 month or 6 month update? How are they covering med bills?
2700 a month in unemployment!!! Here in TX it tops out at 2000 (500/ week). Also that's gross so watch for taxes owed later. Your sis is in a dual income household?
I have the same question
The good news is she gets more time with her newborn 🎉❤
Oh btw- congrats on baby number three! Just had our third (and final ✂️😅) two months ago. We bought that doona stroller you showed, it’s worth the $550. Trust me.
Thank you! Yeah the Doona seems awesome. So useful to not carry around a heavy carseat or load up a huge stroller.
I just got laid off so im on a youtube binge. I worked in HR and process unemployment claims for former employees. Unemployment is NOT from the government. Your employer pays UI insurance and thats where you get the money from. So dont be ashamed to file people! esp when they lay you off
Thank you for sharing.
Is there a severance package? How much is it?
Unemployment should be citizens monthly stipend, this additional funding can help families or individuals living pay check to pay check.
And provide a sense of ease after getting laid off to find the job they want to work instead of having to work.
As far as the funds for unemployment, politicians need to take a larger cut from the taxes companies pay for unemployment.
That would be sustainable for a city and state if done correctly.
I pray she gets a job making more!!!
This is crazy bro, 75.000$ a year, absolutely crazy money. In my country (Romania) if you get 7.500$ (yes 7.5k) a YEAR people will look at you like you are some God or something :))). Crazy how this world works.