Stop Wearing Pajamas! Why Men Stopped Dressing Sharp To Travel
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16:02 - Should men go back to dressing up when travelling?
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How can you have a "great time" with the top button of your shirt holding that collar around your neck like a lynch man's noose? And a sexist tie and suit taking away all rights of freedom of expression. It's like having a sexist job like male lawyer or male TV host or male news broadcaster where you have ZERO FREEDOM. If they still had their sexist dress codes on men, most of us would no longer fly the airline foolish enough to try it - and employers would avoid that airline too, since many employees are not paid for their travel time on business trips and would be seeking different employers.
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My opinion, men or women just look better when they dress up even a little bit. It makes them look more confident and improves your appearance and I don’t mean in snobby sort of way. It doesn’t take designer clothes or expensive clothes as long as they fit you and look good on you.
It’s just nice to look at someone that looks somewhat well, dressed up than sloppy T-shirts with a bad profanity slogan in jeans that are somewhat torn up and don’t fit, right.
Of course, if I was playing sports or hiking then athletic clothes are of course better
My father told me "You should always dress your best when you fly on an airplane for 2 reasons. 1 you never know who you're going to meet on the plane. And 2 you never know if you're going to make it off the plane."
Actually both really great points, and are still technically true anytime you leave the house.
Solid words. Will think about these points more often for sure.
Is reason no.2 to be prepared for cocktails on a desert island or in heaven? ( I bet it's purgatory if flying with the more economical aerolines).
Your father never saw a picture of what people look like after a plane crash I presume. 😬
Reason number three: if you're dressed well, your chances of an upgrade improve.
Airlines have dress codes for employees, when they fly "non-rev." The dress codes are stricter, if an employee is willing to fly first class, which is more expensive.
For one airline, it used to be no jeans in first for non-rev.
I feel like one major reason for the dress code nowadays is the TSA checks. Taking shoes and belts off to make that process longer for everyone has made a bigger justification for wearing sweats and sandals
Agree. Just went to Miami and I wore “elevated joggers” (not the sweat pant look - more like chinos) with a polo shirt and blazer. The belt was the main reason.
Not to mention the cramped seats scratching up your shoes and wrinkling your clothes
Loafers, pants with suspenders or no belt, layers...no excuse
Loafers for warm weather and Chelsea boots for colder weather take seconds to remove. So no, practicality is not the real reason behind sandals, flip flops and those kind of shoes.
Yet everytime I travel I see cluless idiots chugging gallons of water and removing a ton of cheap ugly jewelry and unnecessary clothing such as thick jackets clogging up the TSA check. Not to mention the fact that most people carry WAY too much hand luggage. Visiting an airport is one of the easiest ways to witness the stupidity of the masses. This is one of the main reasons I always travel in business
I've been wearing dress shirts and pants w/ties since I got my first job at 17. To this day I only wear T-shirts when I'm at the gym or traveling for extended times in cramped places. For reference, I was born in 1994, it's very apparent I don't follow modern fashion trends, and I love it.
All the advice about dressing in layers and dressing for versatility I agree with completely.
Love this!
Layers are key.
You wear pants with ties...... That is original.....
I wear a suit and tie to work in my garden. It makes everyone think I'm crazy and they're afraid to burglarize my place. 😀
@@SFVnative Good thinking!
In spite of the downward spiral of the standard of dress during air travel I always try to stay sharp looking. You'd be surprised how many people strike up conversations when you look like a pro and I've even met and talked to a few celebrities. You can stand out from the crowd. I'll let you in on a secret. When there are openings in first class the flight attendants have the discretion to upgrade people and they will always pick someone who looks better and acts like a pro traveler.
It's not s spiral it's a sharp drop xD
Because before only rich people could fly, and today every peasant can fly
That is indeed, very true.
That's really a problem...
That's part of it as the video mentions, but even rich people dress like slobs today. Look at Mark Zuckerberg always wearing Tshirt and jeans
@@huckberry17 it goes for everything architecture too
@@huckberry17 because there's a difference between people who got rich on their own merit and those who got rich because of old money society
When I was younger (HS/College), I would travel in sweats, hoodie, etc because I didn't care. These days, the confidence and energy I have when wearing nicer clothing is addictive. I find myself talking with others on the plane more frequently. It's fascinating hearing others stories. Thanks for the video!
You dress nice guy ride in an airborne cattle car? I'd rather drive than pay for first class
@@c1a2t3a4p5i6l7l8a9r Good luck with driving when you have to cross the oceans
@@luca_salerno why would I have to cross oceans? I wouldn't if it meant I had to ride in a plane to do it. That's a shit experience.
@@c1a2t3a4p5i6l7l8a9r Maybe to visit places that are across said oceans? Like other continents? Also maybe you had a shitty experience, but generalising what has usually always been a good experience for most people is not that useful, most people I know (myself included) fly at least once a year and we all like it
For me it's kind of the other way around. I used to wear a suit when flying for business. These days I dress casual; certainly not sweat pants or pajamas, but T-shirt and slacks. Clothes that are comfortable and I don't mind messing up when awkwardly trying to eat a meal in a cramped seat. I make it a point when flying business class, the looks I get of "The hell are you doing here" are just priceless.
What determines my Dress Code:
• First things first- whatever I wear should be appropriate even during an emergency.
• Comfort is next. In this cotton is the best thing to wear.
• What I wear should get me past security without having to strip.
• I need lots of pockets to carry all those things which have clinged on us.
But yes, I agree that one should wear clean and crisp clothes. One can look sharp even in casual wear.
Good video.
Thanks
Namaste from India 🙏
As a woman I always dress nicely, but comfortably when flying. Too many people use the excuse that it's uncomfortable to "dress up" and fly. Well, it is very possible to look polished and be comfortable at the same time, as well as breeze through TSA! I really dislike the whole sloppy look that so many people have decided looks fine in public.
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I do agree to a degree.
To a degree, because people like me exist. I am comfortable wearing shorts and a t-shirt going for a jog in -10°C (14°F) (dependent on humidity). If it's above 10°C (50°F), I only ever wear trousers and long sleeved shirts if it's absolutely neccessary (funerals, weddings, playing with a band - wearing uniform, etc.). Because no matter what material is the clothing, if I move more than a couple meters, I will sweat through the clothing in minutes. Above 25°C (77°F), I will sweat even if I'm wearing shorts and a t-shirt, except when I'm just sitting on a spot without moving. I've tried a linen suit. Breathable they said.. You know what? Linen get's transparent if you sweat enough.. I wear athleisure (functional clothing) because the fabric dries up quickly and only get's stained with salt if you wear it multiple days in a row in hot weather. Not in a matter of hours.
So I'd like to ask you:
Is it more socially unacceptable to be unfashionable, or to be fashionable/sharp dressed, while sweating profusely?
@@inventiveowl395 You mentioned athleisure clothing. There are lots of brands of nice looking athleisure wear and I think you can look put together in a lot of those items nowadays. I have some Teck Gear joggers that look like dress pants and wear them anywhere!
It's really your choice to look kind of thrown together or to look put together. And I see nothing wrong with some nice pieces of athleisure wear being worn on a plane trip. Planes are usually fairly chilly so hopefully your sweating problem wouldn't be very bad with some well made and more expensive athleisure outfits. Pieces that can be mixed and matched would make looking put together very easy. 🙂
@@inventiveowl395 You need to see a physician, you may have some medical issues. It's unusual to be sweating like you are doing.
Antonio, you really hit it out of the park this time! This "comfort" rationale has always eluded me. Wearing a properly tailored suit or sport coat is scarcely less comfortable than sweats. (The idea of wearing pajamas in public would be inconceivable to me!) I can recall returning directly from a trade show wearing the charcoal pinstripe suit I wore while working the show. While I was waiting for my wife to pick me up at the airport, people were staring at me as if I were wearing George Washington's uniform! I am old enough to remember when air travel was an elegant, gracious experience. I now refuse to travel anywhere by air!
If I'm traveling to Florida for vacation why would I waste space to bring a suit if I'm never gonna use it on vacation
@@RMSUkraine if you wear the suit on the plane, it takes up on space at all. 😉
@@ThundermansThunder Why wear a suit to go an vacation on the beach? Not sure if you are serious . . .
The day you learn not to give a shit what people think enough to wear pajamas in public is a liberating day. My nicest outfit I own is jeans, a pair of vans and a flannel. Anyone who isn’t cool with that, or thinks less of me because of how I’m dressed, probably isn’t someone I have anything in common with or am going to be friends with, so I just don’t see any point in going out of my way trying to impress them lol.
I have amazing nice dress slacks, with slip on loafers and comfortable dress shirt. Id honestly prefer that over most "comfortable" clothing. lol
It's rare that I travel without a tie and jacket if I'm flying. TSA and other airport workers are a lot more polite if you look put together. Additionally (especially in the summer) my dress clothes are the largest clothing items I'm bringing on the plane. Wearing them in the airport and on the plane frees up extra space in a carry-on and can sometimes do away with the need for a garment bag on short trips. Personally, I've found that a worn-in pair of slacks is about as comfortable as sweat pants.
100%
I still dress up when I travel by plane or train. Yes it's a hassle sometimes but it builds character and shows that you respect yourself and those around you.
The primary reason why I stopped dressing up is dealing with security. You have to take off your shoes, then your belt, and then your jacket. Then you have to empty your pockets. It's just easier to where sweats with no pockets and carry everything in your carry on. Then you get through security super fast.
There seems to be no limit to the torture they put you through. I've often been tempted to show up in nothing but a pair of Speedos and dare them to get me to take anything else off. (Wouldn't be a pretty sight though!)
Get CLEAR and the TSA pre check…
Somebody I know suggested that airlines eliminate this hassle by all flying naked. Instead of first class and coach there's just sections for pretty people and ugly people.
LOL 😂
@@awalton9024 I’d be sort of cold flying to Iceland
Three letters. T, S, and A. The moment they give us our dignity back and allow us to wear shoes and belts (cause they haven't stopped a single attack enacting this b.s.) is the moment I'll dress sharp again. I routinely suited up when flying, until I was also routinely pulled to the side and got felt up. Once I started wearing sweatpants and sandals it magically stopped.
You are part of the problem.
Dont expect common sense from the government, it makes absolutely NO sense to take off the belts and shoes when we all are forced to be exposed to X rays which are supposed to detect anything illegal hiding in the clothes, so the point to remove the belts and shoes is the most stupid thing that only the stupid people in the government decided to order
I dress in a sport coat, dress shirt, comfy slacks and non complicated shoes for going thru security. I bring a book to read. I'm single and have been approached by a few women in my time. When I get to me seat, I introduce myself to the 1 or 2 people that are seated next to me. I usually end up having some good conversations. Lastly I apologize in advance if I happen to fall asleep and start snoring! LOL
If the plane goes down, whatever you are wearing will be your ghost outfit forever . . .
Something I find quite amusing about comfortable clothes is that, unlike the perception of most these days, decently made suits are extremely comfortable and practical: they allow to dress in layers by easily removing the jacket if it's too hot, they have plenty of pockets to keep all the needed stuff when moving around, and their trousers are softer and less tight than denim jeans if one has to be sitting and standing for hours. Maybe get a polo shirt under it if it's warm and it's a perfect combination of style and comfort. And even loafers are so much better for walking than flip flops, and for colder weather good Chelsea boots are super comfy and easy to remove if needed.
I realized that during my first business trips for work and started applying it to some of my leisure travels too.
I was surprised you didn't mention 911 and how much that changed the air travel experience. The extra hoops the TSA put us through since then was a major change and I believe contributes to less stylish dress. I actually was hoping for some tips on what to wear when traveling like loafers instead of Sandals for easy removal at security or specific types of fabric for comfort AND style yet less"casual", etc
Yes. After 911, the whole process of traveling by plane makes us feel like cattle being led to the slaughterhouse.
It is sub-human treatment at every stage. Dressing up will not help. Everyone is less than a number!
I'm 37, the first time I wore jeans on a plane made me anxious; still have never worn shorts. I have an upcoming 13hr flight and I have a nice pair of golf pants picked out for the flight. They look nice, breathable, and flexible. If you think outside the box, you can put together a comfortable, nice looking wardrobe.
Hi Antonio, here in Europe we have these economy airlines where their seats on some of these kind of aircraft are so tight and close to each other, wearing formal clothes makes it harder to get seated comfortable, additionally they have no option to 1st and/ or business classes, I know I had to do it cause of my work. Thanks for the video.
I used to travel wearing very stylish outfits, but the more frequently I flew, I dislike getting delayed in TSA security checks to take-off my shoes, belt, and coat, etc. Wearing trackies, a plain shirt, and a pair of sneakers just make security checks a breeze!
I think there's not many established security checks then which allowed people to travel more stylishly without the hassle of how things are now.
Came across your content a few weeks back and I've been catching up on all your previous videos. Appreciate the great content! Semper Fi!
Thanks for the SUPER THANKS. Semper Fi!
last year was my first flight. I was starting to take care of my self-image and of how I dress, so I travelled in business casual style (actually it was the very same clothing wearing in my pfp, since it was the same trip) and I was shocked by how casual people go to the airplane nowadays. they travel in literal pajamas, sometimes even worse. damn
I'm torn between people returning to dress well by default and the extreme focus on comfort of today. On one side it is very aesthetically pleasing when everybody knows what they're doing but on the other it is so easy to stand out with minimal effort when most are just wearing pajamas even at restaurants.
Good point
Hey Antonio
Love the channel.
Speaking as an Australian - we are at least 8-14 hours to a hub, before we travel onto Europe or the US (or arriving Asia/Mid-East). Casual, even in Business Class, is the only sensible option.
Travelling nowadays are stressful already, thus wearing comfortable outfits are just no brainer. Now it doesn’t mean that I wear flip flops, shorts and torn shirts, but a comfortable shirt, jeans and sneakers are good enough for me.
My dad says this all the time!! He commented that I dress like people in the 50's when I travel. I hate looking like a slob.
One time I was on a red eye out of Las Vegas. Everyone was tired and totally quiet. I couldn't stand it so started telling joke's to the person beside me. Before you knew it there was about 8 of us interacting and enjoying ourselves. The flight went so fast I didn't want it to be over and we were all laughing when we deplaned. Great time.
I tried the dress up approach on my latest air trip. For various reasons with weather and airline errors, it was more of a hassle than average. I can say wearing a blue cashmere blazer, white turtleneck and double monk black shoes vs. my standard pullover sweater, cargo pants ( a guy has stuff to carry) and boat shoes made a positive difference. You have to present a positive frame of mind and cannot supplement it with your inner narcissist. Airline and other people paid attention and found the right way (did not make one up) to solve my issues. It is going to be my travel uniform henceforth.
My father is from Sierra Leone is from a different culture, when traveling on a flight or just leaving the house has a propensity of dressing up/ wearing a suit. It took my mom to persuade him to dress more casual in those settings to feel more comfortable. As I think about it to this day it was subconsciously to appease societal norms. But I respect style even though I’ll always my own tough on it. 😂
Thanks for the video Antonio. Always love how informative your videos are
For me, it's a combination of TSA rules, cramped seats, and air pressure changes.
I did a lot of long-haul flights (5+ hours), and I always wear utility pants and loose-fitting slip-on tennis shoes or cross-trainers with a tight-fitting hoodie and/or jacket. This gives me the max amount of pockets (to keep wallets, tickets, snacks, phone, headphones, etc.), no need to take off and put back on belts, with quick on-off shoes but comfortable for that sprint across the airport to make my connections. At the same time, the hoodie allows me to adjust for the different temp shifts from the airport to the plane, to the travel between home, hotel, and airport. Also, the tennis shoes/trainer allows enough room for my foot to swell and shrink as the pressure changes. If I need to, I pack a change of cloth in my carry-on so I can change before I travel to the office if I don't have time to stop by the hotel first. The light jacket (usually a waterproof/water resistant shell) will give me more options if the weather is unexpectedly bad at the destination.
Okay, I may have completely overthought this.
I always dress nicely no matter where I go or what I do. Even when I was a delivery guy at a local pizza shop I was dressed appropriately. Even phone girls were giving me compliments regarding my look. One even did ask "why are you dressed like you going out?" and I replied "I'm already out. Out of my house"
I agree with this. I used to dress down a little when I was younger. But as I’ve gotten older I usually wear a polo and causal pants (Wrangler ATG pants). How you dress creates a perception and you never know who you might meet.
I used to dress casual to board a plane, but in recent years, have moved to dressing smart casual. A dress shirt and a pair of jeans. It makes me feel much better and present myself better.
Great Video. Thank you for posting.
I usually ride on long haul flights (12+ hours), so comfortability is a must as you’d definitely go sleep with those hours.
I’ve been on a 16 hour non-stop flight (Asmterdam-Jakarta) and I did wear a pair of sweatpants, a t-shirt, nike’s and a seiko watch because it’s a long, boring yet stressfull event. I did talk to my seat-neighbour for a good hour and I did behave properly though
Such great advice, and very nuanced and well thought through!
I remember being a passenger in a good old DC-3 in the 1960s ( I'm in Australia). I don't suppose many people these days have had the experience of disembarking from a plane by stepping down an open staircase that was wheeled into position, and walking across a windy exposed tarmac in all weathers alongside the ground crew, with the sound of whining revving engines just metres away. You might have to put on a raincoat first before you left your seat and even get out your umbrella (although the ever-present wind usually made that option pretty unworkable)
I have got to say that these days, watching an immaculately dressed flight crew walking through any airport terminal, usually in a group and in full uniform, is like glimpsing royalty. Men and women, they always look so chic; and the contrast with the pyjama-wearing hoi-polloi only serves to make the crew look more dashing and attractive.
Brilliant as usual, Marine.
Hi Antonio ,
This is one of my pet peeves! When I fly , I always dress at least smart casual, or better in cooler weather. To me , it's just laziness, and even when I fly business, I see people in t shirts and flip flops! If you can't make an effort , stay off my Fu%^ing plane..LOL.
Cheers Gregg
This is very informative video and great advice especially towards the end about dressing to be prepared for an opportunity or an emergency.
I flew every year to my hometown in Türkiye 🇹🇷 together with my family for vacation.
Last year I did fly on my own for the first time, so to make it a unforgettable memorie, I dressed up in my business suit to look good. ( For a 100€ flight at economi )
It wasn't uncomfortable wearing it on the plane, but what was really uncomfortable, was all the weird looks and faces I got from the passengers. I was the only one, who dressed up nicely.
What I found funny, was the way the flight crew talked with me ... Saying "Sir" and " Mr" even tho I was only 16 😂.
The crew even asked me, if I wanted to sit on a more comfortable place, with more legroom, because I am pretty big and tall. 😂😂😂
That was my best flight ever😂
I can understand dressing sharp for domestic (up to 12 hours of travel time) but for me, I have to travel international more often (22-36 hours depending on layover) so I stick to joggers and a light jacket. I usually take a shower and have a second set of clothes during the layover
Thanks for the upload! I liked it.
I do too!
Polos are my favorite to wear while traveling. They look nice (so long as they don’t have frays) feel comfortable on the move, and don’t feel so stuffy on a plane/ in the car. Pairing a polo shirt with some nice khaki/grey pants, dive watch, and leather boots is my go to
I travel between the US and the Middle East. It’s a 14 to 16 hour flights. I never traveled wearing a pajama but I won’t judge someone who does. It’s a very uncomfortable flight even on the most luxurious airlines.
Air travel is heavily regulated. And, I believe a big reason of not dressing up for air travel is all the TSA requirements and cheap, tiny seating.
Comfort and practicality are more important than some arbitrary idea of "style"
I came up in the 60s, and when our family traveled by car, we still dressed
We have lost our sense of occasion. It's not just you being comfortable it is making sure you don't make everyone else feel uncomfortable
I don't care to see anyone in their bedroom clothes. Finally, I am comfortable in whatever I wear
... if it fits, you will be comfortable
Dressing comfortably doesn't make everyone else feel uncomfortable, if it makes you uncomfortable get over it.
I watched one of your videos on what to wear while traveling and I started following that advice. These days, depending on the weather, I wear button-up shirts, pants, and some form of semi-formal shoes. Gone are the days of wearing t-shirts and shorts and running shoes while traveling. I have found that people treat me much better when I look the part of someone who is put together.
In this video, you touched on my sore subject, there are so few of us
People are waking up at 5 am tired as hell and the whole flying process is annoying and long so nobody wants to dress up they just wanna throw anything comfortable on and get it over with
I also would love for classy travel to make a return, but comfort on airplanes has also taken a nosedive compared to the old days. The lack of legroom and general comfort NECESSITATES comfortable apparel. Many people do take it too far though....
What you have said is the key point - smaller space for passengers must equal comfort as king, not dressing up.
my "dress up" clothes are as comfortable as any of my other clothes, if you choose wisely
Those CF Briefcases especially in coffe brown look amazing. Whenever I get the money spare I might end up picking one or two up using your link of course.
Every time I wear business casual on a plane, I get stopped by TSA for a drug swab. When I wear a regular t-shirt, I never get stopped.
What a coincidence, I have been watching old James Bond movies this week, and I noticed people were using suits at the airport.
Thanks for the video, always fun and informative.
Antonio another great video. Airport security post 9/11 certainly hasn't helped matters but agreed the movement towards more casual dress was already underway prior. The Art of conversation is being lost by a lot of people. Where I am from it used to be common to call to a neighbours for a few hours for a chat whereas now it's a chore.
Love the Chapter Headings. When people dress & are well groomed= you made an effort to show up & be a grownup.
This kind of thing always bothers me, and not just with air travel, but with going out in public in general.
For reference, I am a 24 year old accountant, and I was fortunate enough to be offered a fully remote work-from-home position.
During my time in school I worked at 3 different accounting firms, all of them in-office. From the first day of sophomore year when I knew I wanted to be an accountant, I started dressing the part. Not suit and tie, but at a minimum I wore golf pants that looked like khakis, a 3 button shirt, dress boots or sneakers if I was sore from a leg workout, and a watch.
I dressed this way for several years, but now I WFH, and I wear gym-shorts and a t-shirt with comfortable shoes all day while I work.
BUT anytime I am gonna be on camera, I change the shirt to something nice. Anytime I go out in public I put on khaki shorts or jeans, and wear a plain shirt or something with a collar.
It’s insane to me that people don’t want to appear like a mature adult that makes good decisions when they go out in public.
You don’t have to “dress up”, but at least choose something you would not be ashamed of seeing yourself in if you happened to be on camera and it shows up on the news, or in an advertising photo, or even a video that goes viral on social media.
Just be PRESENTABLE, it’s not hard, and it’s not uncomfortable.
I'm all for dressing nice when I need to but where did this idea that because someone doesn't look presentable to you = they don't look presentable to themselves?
They stopped in the 80s, and it looks like women stopped wearing dresses/skirts in the early 90s
We may have to go back to it. Kids need to see it
I work at DFW Airport in an exclusive lounge and I had the same thought. This is a very good topic of discussion.
because of the airport and travel mishaps. if you are traveling like in the Philippines, you never know when will you get onboard or how long will you stay in the airport. you better dress comfortably than wear slick and elegant in the 1st 1 hr and than feel sweaty and grumpy for the next 12 hrs at the airport.
Hi Antonio. For starters, I am a big fan of Carl Friedrik.
I live in Australia, and everywhere is at least 8 hours away (NZ does not count :) ). I am not sure I would put on a formal attire on an international flight but I would not put on clothes that I wear at home. I generally put on a pair of well fitted jeans, T-shirt , a jacket/sportscoat and a leather chelsea boots (very useful to when dealing with US TSA). To be frank, I always put on a pair of jeans, T-shirt and my nice pair of sneakers (not runners) even when pop over to the supermarket.
I do wear relaxed clothing at home but I was taught to put on at least a reasonable attire in public. This is merely a sense of respect for your fellow citizens.
This is mostly explained by what classes could afford flying then and now. Also, I once flew to France and I felt like I was in the middle of a fashion show. Everybody looked so great!
Love your content and information, keep up the good work .. Respect from India 🇮🇳
Just wear anything that’s comfortable yet presentable 🙏🏽
Absolutely brilliant video. Being so thorough when the sources are this bad is commendable. Well done
Clean and comfortable - I agree this will go a long way to making the whole air travel experience better.
There are several reasons why people have stopped dressing nicely when flying:
Comfort: Traveling by air can be tiring and uncomfortable, and many people prioritize comfort over fashion when flying. Casual clothing is often seen as more comfortable for long flights or layovers.
Changes in Air Travel: Over the years, air travel has become more accessible and affordable, and as a result, more people are traveling by air. This has led to a less formal atmosphere on planes, as travelers come from different backgrounds and have different expectations of what is appropriate to wear on a flight.
Changes in Fashion: Fashion trends have also shifted towards more casual and comfortable clothing in recent years, making it more acceptable to wear relaxed clothing in many settings, including air travel.
Time Constraints: Many people are traveling for work or on tight schedules, and they may not have the time to change into more formal clothing before boarding their flight.
Security Procedures: With increased security measures at airports, travelers are required to go through screening procedures, which can involve removing shoes, belts, and other items. This can make it more inconvenient to wear formal clothing, as it may need to be removed and then put back on after the security check.
Overall, there are many factors that have contributed to the shift away from dressing nicely when flying, including changes in fashion trends, air travel norms, and personal preferences for comfort and convenience.
All true and all reasons why I'm good with it.
Fantastic, informative video! No pajamas for me - I'm definitely dressing up for my next flight! 😉
last example is so good
Personally reasons:
1) the airplane is filthy. I’m not too keen on wearing all my nice stuff to the airplane where someone is just going to spill tea, coffee, or coke on it.
2) security checks. I’m not going to be wearing my nice shoes, belt, and jacket just so I can take it off and put it back on at the security checks.
3) comfort. If I’m going to be stuck in a box for 12 hours, the last thing I want is to be wearing clothes that look nice, but will make me sweat or otherwise uncomfortable.
In my 70's now. My dad wore always wore a dress shirt and tie for most occasions away from home, even to Sunday dinners at relatives. And my parents made sure I was well dressed. I have a photo of me at age three wearing a little suit and hat for an outing. Family moved from Iowa to California in late 50's and all that fashionable costuming for day to day going in public was a thing of the past. We were an affluent family, however and made trips on airlines from the mid-50's and on. Always wore dressy clothes and I continued to do this well into my aerospace career until going casual in the 80's. Yes, air travel was a very special occasion until seemingly suddenly it wasn't when the airlines went into cattle car mode. I can't imagine flying today without wearing ultra casual, comfortable attire.
It reminds me of the movies that were shown at those times. I look at old Cary Grant moves, even Abbot and Costello movies, and every one wore a suit and tie as everyday wear. Not even going to work, but just every day wear. I am trying to look nicer all around. I may wear jeans, but nice jeans with a nice shirt.
My mom is a former flight attendant and travel agent, and she complains about this all the time. Honestly, I can’t blame her, I wish I was around during the old days of looking good.
I flew from Japan to Norway this summer. Total travel time was 21 hours. Me and my seven year old son. I wore a suit, with suspenders. No big deal. Pretty comfortable I have to say.
Layering and choice of fabrics are so important. I'll wear either a thin black roll-neck or crew-neck sweater in merino wool over a teeshirt, with dark jeans or chinos. Keeps you comfortable over a huge range of temperatures. Packs down small and light too. I'm a photographer. Just got back from a four day / three night trip to London with camera, two lenses, small tripod, laptop, 2 x merino sweaters, spare teeshirts, requisite changes of socks and underwear and toiletries - all in a Ryanair-standard "under the seat" backpack.
I remember seeing a "fly on the wall" documentary about British Airways from the '90s. They were discussing how to deal with an overbooked flight and watching the passengers checking in on CCTV. One guy got rejected for an upgrade to Business because they spotted he was wearing shorts - and that's not too long ago.
I constantly travel for work. The vast majority of the time in first class. I wear jeans, tennis shoes and a "tour" t-shirt. My hair goes down to my elbows. I sometimes get some double takes, but my favorites are the people who finally get up the nerve to approach me and are disappointed that I'm not famous.
I used to wear a two piece when I traveled for work, but now with the high security, delays and traffic it’s more convenient to just dress down and be comfortable IMO
Finally, someone said it. Preach, brother.
Great advice Antonio. I've been amazed when people comment that I am very well dressed and all I've done is wear a jacket/blazer, proving that your appearance does matter- like it or not. In relation to TSA/security checks a jacket offers at least 5 pockets to store passports, boarding passes or phone for electronic tickets etc. When you are in that long security line simply take anything in your trouser pockets and put them in your jacket pockets including your belt and watch. This way you only have to remove your jacket and everything is safe. When you're through security move away from the people gathering immediately after security, move to the wall (giving you and your fellow passengers more space) and return the items you removed prior to the security check. How you feel and act when properly dressed I completely agree with e.g. your bearing and confidence. Some people have commented that slip on shoes/boots/loafers can speed up the security check process, good advice. You can usually hang your jacket on the hook of the seat back in front of you when you sit That way everything is accessible. Have a look at George Clooney's advice on travelling in 'Up in the air'. Final advice 'Ranger Roll' and pack in large freezer bags, then compress taking the air out before closing. You'll be amazed.
While I usually agree with you with your other videos... This is one topic I have to disagree with. Airlines today make it imperative that you dress comfortably. Security pat you down, ask you to take off your shoes and belt. I'd rather wear flip flops and jogging pants/shorts/cargo pants.
PS. They also pack people in smaller spaces.
More like people have generally gotten fatter and less fit so it appears the spaces are smaller.
@@victordonavon292 I haven't gotten fat but have noticed planes have gotten smaller. A 2 second google search shows Boeing and Airbus both have shaved 2-5 inches from their seat width over the past 30 years.
Dressing up in my case means: an ironed shirt and a waistcoat. Nothing complicated.
But people notice and treat me with a bit more respect. A genuine interest in your fellow passengers and officials is also an edc when travelling. Or really always.
How about something on fragrances while traveling or none?
Good idea! I'll add this to my list.
6:04 "More people were flying by air than by train". I've never been on a flying train !
My flight go to is Marino turtle neck/long sleeve polo, solid colour jeans (with some stretch) tan/black and sports jacket/Harrington with smart leather trainers - ready for anything!
I don't even know anyone who wears a suite except for at funerals. I'm going to go buy me a suite and start wearing it on Sundays.
Flying for me often entails making a first impression. New to-be friends/colleagues in a foreign land, or just family I haven't seen in years. Sometimes there's last (hopefully not forever last) impressions too, saying goodbyes before/after. I'm not about to cement my image as "pyjamas-in-public guy"
I like to travel in wingtips, micro wool pants and a button down shirt. Sometimes a zip up jacket or sports coat. I drive that way too, love driving in wingtips
You are a true class act.
True story @RealMenRealStyle -- back when i was traveling quite a bit late 2013 ( 40 weeks a year by air) and this happened at -- i was Dulles Airport. I was a corporate instructor and flying home -- Dulles airport was a regular on my route and was there 3 times a month usually as we had a corporate office in Reston VA.
So here I am dressed nice business casual as i came straight from work. In security, i was I was behind a 20 something Goth wearing and Anarchy Tee Shirt -- the Goth was sent into the traditional metal detector, So I asked if i could go though that too as (jokingly) i was starting to glow from the xrays -- BAM! that triggered me getting detained and a complete search of all my belonging (and whispering that might ask for a body cavity search -- which didn't happen -- they just tried to scare me).
When i got home, i told the story to a friend who was in gov intelligence field -- he said I was profiled by TSA and my comment put it over the top --- Terrorists & mules wouldn't be a young guy like the goth kid -- - they would be someone who would blend in and not look like a threat -- a middle aged guy in business casual.
Then he told me -- you ride a motorcycle , you should go into the airport wearing gear that makes you look like you're in a biker gang. I was shocked he would suggest this -- then he added, Bikers are usually ex-military, very patriotic, and start fights when pushed by TSA . With that, TSA usually doesn't give them a hard time and gives them a wide berth. His logic seemed to make sense to me.
So, I took his advice and started doing just that- the muscle that showed off my tattoos, head band or dew rag & leather vest with the colors & biker boots. And guess what -- it worked exactly like he said and i flew thru TSA security after that -- And there was side benefit I soon discovered -- those annoying people in the plane -- you know the ones--- those who kick or put their knee into your seat when you recline , of constantly chatter at you, or push you off the armrest etc -- well they all stopped doing that. .. So when i fly -- i still dress like that and it still works great.
We should dress well and appropriate in any circumstance, period. It is about self respect and respect for others. No one should be wearing their pajamas in public. Thanks for another great video Antonio 👌🙏
That wearing pajamas in public would be greatly reduced if businesses create and enforce strict dress codes, just as many stores have the NO SHOES, NO SHIRT, NO SERVICE, many places should also say: PAJAMAS, NO SERVICE
Nobody is taking my tracksuit bottoms away while flying!
I like to travel w/ just a carry-on and a backpack, so wearing my heavier outfit (usually my best pieces) to the airport, allows more items in my luggage.
This could’ve been a good opportunity to try and get a tumi ad. They are top notch luggage but they also have a line of fragrances that are pretty solid.
Unless otherwise dictated by formality, Smart Casual, always. Happy travels everyone.
I'll usually wear nicer jeans and a button-down shirt (or golf shirt if warmer). At worst clean sneakers, preferably nicer casual shoes. If an overnight flight I might bring decent sleepwear, but not until after meal service (e.g. bedtime) and I'll change before starting out descent to the destination. If I've purchased or upgraded to business class I'll probably make a point to dress a little nicer than in economy.
I’m not going to wear dress clothes if there is no reason for it. It’s literally a waste of time. I’m always going to wear my PJs. Unless you really want to look nice and impress people go for it. Im confident in myself and I’m trying to get stuff done. I know what I want and can accomplish it with whatever I wear. I don’t need to dress nice to talk to people. My opinion of course. If you cant do this then yes dress nice to help your confidence.
I think the reason why people stopped dressing up for travel and in general is:
1. Because flights became such a frequent and regular way of travel, they are no longer seen as something rare, luxurious and exclusive hence people from lower class can afford them and they simply don't dress up frequently. And because they are now a regular way of travel people don't feel the importance and formality of it. It's like if people would dress for getting on a bus.
2. Because in the 20th century life was much slower, less stressful, less bloated with media, job pressure, social networks etc. so people then had patience with clothing and the importance of it. Nowadays I think people just release part of everyday pressure with more casual clothing, they feel more like at home, stress free environment.
wearing a jacket is actually useful and comfortable if you ask me (but being small might bias me)