How A Man Should Dress Casual As An Adult

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  • @hespokestyle
    @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Many comments asking about the chocolate suede trucker. It’s from our own collection and can be found here: hespokestyle.com/product/suede-trucker-jacket/

    • @VanWelij
      @VanWelij 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I love the jacket, but it's sadly way out of my price range. Are there any alternatives you recommend that are slightly more budget-friendly?

    • @texarican_77
      @texarican_77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      $2,500? Waaaaay out of my range

    • @JP100AND1
      @JP100AND1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ahh I love that jacket, but just saw it's the price of something from Saint Laurent! Looks like I'll be sticking to my crappy clothes for now ha!

    • @sahilagarwal6601
      @sahilagarwal6601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@VanWelij yeah man the jacket was out of this world but the price, oh my god. 2295 usd. i live in India and u could get a branded one for like 5-7k inr which still be expensive for an average man but still be under 80 usd

    • @m.m4982
      @m.m4982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Wowzers. At that price the jacket doesnt look so good. Was thinking maybe 150 bucks.

  • @MyChiliIceCream
    @MyChiliIceCream 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Lots of misunderstanding in the comment section. The video was meant for people who wants to transition from a youthful look to a more "serious" look. He gave some good baselines and reference points. It's up to us to put our own little twist and character. Like any rule in fashion, nothing is absolute.

  • @stuarthb8900
    @stuarthb8900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +911

    I'm not the target of this video; I'm 23. But I have been working in an office environment since I was 18, and dressing in a classic style has helped me be taken more seriously and helps me be confident meaning I've progressed faster. For young people watching this I'd encourage you to pursue a classic style with your own twists.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Great advice, Stuart. Thank you for sharing.

    • @philipklink5406
      @philipklink5406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Good for you Stuart. If you present yourself well in the business environment good things tend to come your way. You're going to have a very bright future! Cheers! Phil

    • @fancynancy2888
      @fancynancy2888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Good for you! As the old adage goes, “clothes make the man”.

    • @australianpatriot
      @australianpatriot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      23 is your opportunity to wear a nike tech fleece tracksuit and some air forces

    • @chadwaite5418
      @chadwaite5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for posting

  • @ronanslattery1549
    @ronanslattery1549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    I have one strong opinion when it comes to a sports coat and jeans together, and that is that the sports coat needs to have a very coarse texture. I think this video has great examples of both doing it incorrectly and nailing it. The outfit when explaining the concept seemed too jarring to me with the very wide thread of the light wash jeans. However, the outfit in the lookbook portion was *chef's kiss*. My personal favourite sport coat to wear with jeans has to be in a Donegal tweed.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Spoken like someone who may have followed this channel for a while! 👍🏻👍🏻

    • @tonyherdina9142
      @tonyherdina9142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How about in warm weather or with a tee shirt? I thought a tweed was weaved from wool and therefore more appropriate for cool weather.

    • @OsHue-xq7nh
      @OsHue-xq7nh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tonyherdina9142 linen is a warm weather alternative. However, not all linen sports coats will pair nicely with jeans. Take it on a case by case basis.

    • @ShyGuy1066
      @ShyGuy1066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rockin the tweed sportcoat (or tweed 3/4 topcoat) with jeans and white tennis shoes since the late 70s!

    • @jakemeyer8188
      @jakemeyer8188 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My jeans are usually holy and ripped style, so I always go for the opposite with my sport coat...smooth and crisp. Otherwise I think I'd look like a giant hairball haha

  • @stephenmasciocchi1411
    @stephenmasciocchi1411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Just wanted to say that your videos have been very influential to me. Understanding how clothes should fit (I'm a smaller guy so that comes with it's own problems), the idea of having fewer, better clothes, and the idea of having a uniform really changed how I think about my style. Feel like I am finally hitting my stride, and people do notice! Thanks again!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're very welcome, Stephen. Appreciate you taking the time to comment and share that.

  • @eatabagel
    @eatabagel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    When I lived in a surf town in California, where everybody wore surf wear or hippie clothing, my uniform was super classic American prep, “dressed as an adult.” I often wore sport jackets and jeans as my casual look. I felt more confident a step or two more dressed up than everyone else in town. I moved to Boston recently and I sense myself going edgier and edgier, because I feel the more formal cues I get here are just so staid and sleepy. I see myself adapting more and more runway looks, both as I go more formal, and when I go casual. I think as a forty five year old, I find it entirely age appropriate to wear looser fits and more progressive Japanese inspired looks, leaving behind the more classic American looks I used to wear. Older men can be more fashionable and trendier without looking like a twenty year old hypebeast. The secret to not overdoing it though is paying attention to small details, wearing things pressed and unfrumpy, and as you say, showing power in simplicity. Just not necessarily classic.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks so much for chiming in!

    • @trcs3079
      @trcs3079 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hypebeasts never looked good, and that's a possible contribution of their physical body. My theory is that they wear hype clothing to conseal their insecurity of their physical form, thereby percept their clothing as acceptable to their social community. Case in point, if you exercise, have a healthy life style that reflect your body, majority of clothes will look good on you. That's my blabbering tho

    • @Tee55118
      @Tee55118 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeans and blazer never worked for me. But yeah, the key is clean, tailored, attire. Jeans call for a leather or cotton jacket; woven pants permit a blazer or sport coat.

  • @xenofontzaras1112
    @xenofontzaras1112 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Danke!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You be! Thank YOU!

  • @danitrivedi
    @danitrivedi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I started watching this channel long ago to get ideas for gifts for my husband. I'm still watching because much of this can be translated into great tips in general. Classic, simple, timeless. Basically less can give more❤️

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks, Dani! Appreciate the continued support.

  • @JEL52863
    @JEL52863 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi. Could you give some examples/ideas on how to wear a seersucker suit? Shirts with ties and shoes. Neckties vs bow ties. Straw fedoras vs boater hat.

  • @algonzalez6436
    @algonzalez6436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Please put out more videos to dress casual. Most of us don’t live in the corporate world and want better tips to look good with casual clothes. Please put out more like this 😉!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Noted. And thanks for the comment!

    • @Brandon_letsgo
      @Brandon_letsgo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hespokestyle Hey Man, what do you recommend for those living in a very hot places like Brazil? It's 32C down here today...

    • @sonicccc323
      @sonicccc323 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@Brandon_letsgo linen shirts, polos/short sleeve shirts, shorts, cardigans, lightweight & zipped/buttoned outers, and 30s or light tshirts.

  • @mtcleric3275
    @mtcleric3275 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, great video. Can I request a video, on how to dress up & still look good for those of us that are in our 40's / 50's which have a bit of a tummy belly? I know we need to wear fit clothing, but fit can sometimes make our tummy even obvious & is not flattering. What kind of clothing we should wear in order to still look smart on a casual day? Thanks.

  • @iwantcheesypuffs
    @iwantcheesypuffs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Once I find a style that works for me. I buy 10X of that outfit and wear it for the next 5 years. It may sound boring, but it works

    • @toby9999
      @toby9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly what I do. I have about 10 t-shirts in grey, another 10 in black and so on. And when there's a jeans sale, I'll buy two pair.

    • @KunaiKrazy
      @KunaiKrazy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you get basics that work for you then all you have to do is add variety to the basics. Easy wardrobe building.

    • @iwantcheesypuffs
      @iwantcheesypuffs 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DM-ur8vc OK. That made me chuckle. I take my work cloths to the dry cleaners, and I wash my every day cloths in the washing machine.

    • @MC-hl2yx
      @MC-hl2yx 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you buy the exact same colors or different colors of that exact clothing, like when Steve jobs always wore a turtle neck?

    • @MC-hl2yx
      @MC-hl2yx 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@toby9999 any variation of the gray shirts? Any logos or different prints on those gray ot black shirts? Much like Steve Jobs or Zuckerberg?

  • @zaqwoodward8851
    @zaqwoodward8851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Huge inspiration for the way I want to start dressing. Haven’t changed my rocker style since high school and I’m almost 35.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad to help out! Thanks for chiming in.

    • @orlog3343
      @orlog3343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hey man you can still dress like that, just make it more mature if you want to 😉

    • @cheesesteakphilly
      @cheesesteakphilly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rocker style is still okay.
      Just lose the distressed jeans, wear a solid shirt colour and lose any chains and studded bracelets!

  • @localdude2979
    @localdude2979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am 23 years old and lately i have found these kind of videos quite great, ive always dressed in comfy and relaxed clothes, but now i opened my eyes to these amazing posivilities and how as an adult i can actually take care of my outfit, i care now and im happy its never too late

  • @MrUnknowne187
    @MrUnknowne187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Band shirts forever!!! I’ve collected too many to stop wearing them now 🤘🏼

    • @prettyllady
      @prettyllady ปีที่แล้ว +12

      donate them, because older men wearing band shirts is a terrible look! SMH 🤦🏽‍♀️ it looks like you're trying so hard to look cool & young again. LOL not even my teenage son wears them 😂

    • @aurin_komak
      @aurin_komak ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@prettyllady what's wrong with you lol

    • @majusmajode784
      @majusmajode784 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@prettyllady stereotype bullshit

    • @theman1526
      @theman1526 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@S Meh, There's a balance you can get away with wearing band shirts.

    • @behindyou666
      @behindyou666 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Never stop wearing them, adulthood doesnt mean giving up your identity and personality!

  • @remyazharyyosef1811
    @remyazharyyosef1811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These depend on the region you're from. For temperate climates, these styles may apply but for humid tropical countries like Singapore, they're not applicable.

  • @mrchaudhary.07
    @mrchaudhary.07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I really feel your feelinga that you didn’t feel yourself after trying too hard to dress different. I have gone through the same feeling recently as I was trying to dress like influencers I followed and I lost my personal style and felt frustrated like what I’m doing because I myself didn’t like the adopted style and lost getting compliments also. Now I’m restoring my personal style gradually and feeling confident by wearing my own choices.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome. Thanks so much for sharing that!

  • @larryrichards3668
    @larryrichards3668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Very informative video. I'm 72 years old and trying to find my style. Thanks for sharing your tips.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome, Larry! Thanks so much for chiming in and best wishes.

    • @phildunne2632
      @phildunne2632 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good advice...taken on board thanks .

  • @liamcollins9183
    @liamcollins9183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My go to casual style (in winter at least) is brown chelsea boots, dark jeans (usually grey or dark blue) or chinos, a simple t-shirt and henley style jersey on top (I have several in different colours, such as black, burgundy, off-white, and blue), and for outerwear usually either a black bomber jacket or navy peacoat.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome. Thanks for sharing, Liam.

  • @jasoncabreros
    @jasoncabreros 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm slowly trying to build a capsule wardrobe and simplifying as you mentioned. The one thing I'm having a hard time wearing are my white leather sneakers. I have issues with my feet and a running shoe with athletic insoles just feels better for me.

  • @beninformato9040
    @beninformato9040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A sneaker that is most appropriate for a man is an 0xford sneaker where the eyelet tabs are attached under the vamp. This is much more age appropriate than a full eyelet derby sneaker. The original Sperry Top Sider company, now known as just Sperry, makes a classic oxford sneaker. Target has an affordable version at $15. A great outerwear option is a full zipper cardigan sweater, plain front in light grey or charcoal.

  • @crosisofborg5524
    @crosisofborg5524 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Why do people always assume the older guy is trying to look young? I’m in my 50s and dress the same way I did in my 20s albeit looser jeans. I never think about looking younger, I’m just used to dressing this way.

    • @PinkAsAPistol
      @PinkAsAPistol 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah I do the same. I just turned 40 and most strangers assume I'm 30 at most. People who know me tend to comment positively on my style and ask me for advice as well, but some of them say I dress "younger than my age" and assume I will have to change at some point. I don't see myself doing that in the foreseeable future. I don't think it makes me look younger nor do I care, I just dress as I like. Having spent half of my life as an adult, this "dress like an adult" thing sounds almost offensive to me. This dude is just pretty conservative with his style and likes a specific smart-casual vibe (nothing wrong with that, but still, there are other ways to do it) and he deems that "adult", as if everyone else looks like children. The 5.000 dollar watch suggestion - while he doesn't know how to wear any but the most minimal sneakers possible - killed me. Maybe he should dress a bit less adult after all.

  • @adirenaldi
    @adirenaldi 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi, currently in the market for sport coat. What’s the brown sport coat on look 4? It looks great

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The fabric is sold out, but this would be a solid replacement: hespokestyle.com/product/brown-solid-linen-sport-coat/
      If you sign up for our email list you can get 10% off and if you add on SMS messaging, you'll get a code for 15% off.

  • @mikecapalungan
    @mikecapalungan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree 100% with these style tips and follow them myself already being at 21 years of age. Though with the graphic tees I think whatever age you are you can still wear them as long as it’s not some crazy, over the top print. I think more simple graphic tees wearing it on the weekend with a flannel, jeans, and boots could be a nice look in fall let’s say.

  • @MaelstromGuy
    @MaelstromGuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good timing by the algoryth, ive been working from home for the last year and my style has suffered due to complacency on my part , just added to my shopping list a pair of white leather snickers and a new pair of black pants. Tysm

  • @joelo3346
    @joelo3346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Loved the summer looks!! Thanks for putting this together. Have been wrestling with this very topic being mid-30s.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're so welcome! Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for the comment.

    • @dnegel9546
      @dnegel9546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here... Seems most videos like this its always oh put on a sports jacket or some type of jacket and layers..
      Like bruhh its 110+ outside.. Wth..

  • @martinetyvan9909
    @martinetyvan9909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! I recommend avoiding jeans made of cotton-elastan mix. I guarantee you the look of a straight / slim straight 100% cotton pair of jeans looks way better.

  • @ReihnerZufall
    @ReihnerZufall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love your style of videos. You create interest and with your positive rhetoric you make me want to dress better and learn to appreciate details. Thank you.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So great to hear that! Thank you for the continued support.

  • @westhavenor9513
    @westhavenor9513 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the black and tan outfit. Looks mature, yet still a bit fun and edgy.

  • @davidw5532
    @davidw5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fantastic video sir. I’m a firm believer in keeping things simple, clean and stylish.

  • @artflorez1568
    @artflorez1568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, I'm 58 and have always been very fashion conscious. I really liked the looks that you showed, and I'm especially interested in those jackets, did you say they are "trucker jackets" I want to start looking for them but want to know what I'm looking for. Also I'm surprised you are wearing the suede tassel loafer in the summer, I always felt suede shoes that weren't white bucks were strictly fall winter, has that changed and what are the rules for suede in the summer?

  • @julienholmgren1543
    @julienholmgren1543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice, this is basically what I do, or at least I think so. I'm 40, I dress in a workwear style, not at all the style usually presented on this channel (I don't wear suits at all; five years working at a funeral home will put you off suits). However, I look several years younger that my age and do not always get taken seriously. Anyway, I like this video whereas some videos here do not apply to me and my style.

  • @danielduggan5405
    @danielduggan5405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video, Brian. Totally agree about sport coats. Thanks again.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You bet! Thanks for watching and the comment.

  • @joeblack888
    @joeblack888 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    The key for adult dressing is reduce belly fat first.

    • @DatongLese-f6l
      @DatongLese-f6l หลายเดือนก่อน

      Second: a collection of very expensive watches

    • @Zax767
      @Zax767 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This couldn't be more true, when you have a gut, everything looks like garbage

    • @robertritchie2860
      @robertritchie2860 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Fat guys in ill fitting clothes... Is awful! Especially when they want to look cool 😂

    • @adultonsetwoodworking
      @adultonsetwoodworking วันที่ผ่านมา

      shoes watch abs done

  • @domb5513
    @domb5513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where's the suede jacket featured in the rock n roll look from? Beautiful piece

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks! It’s from our own collection: hespokestyle.com/product/suede-trucker-jacket/

  • @bradsmith4875
    @bradsmith4875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Great video. My biggest struggle is being myself but being age appropriate. You've given me some good tips. Thank you

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome!

    • @sihilius
      @sihilius 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Being yourself and being happy with yourself is more important.

  • @marcus51
    @marcus51 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I encounter issues with jeans, particularly with their length. Would it be acceptable to fold them or must I resort to cutting them since I often struggle to obtain the precise length?

    • @retrocloud760
      @retrocloud760 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just go back to 1989 or the early '90s when folding them was in style. You can always get them tailored too.

  • @windowshopper2374
    @windowshopper2374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the combinations!!! Wonderful video. 🔥

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Many thanks! Glad to hear it.

  • @himanshusainig
    @himanshusainig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved the video. if possible can you please share the link to the jacket at 10.41

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would if it was available. It’s 7 years old.

  • @stephenso3
    @stephenso3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love how you pair the outfits with the appropriate time pieces. Speedy , Sector dial, Spitfire and VC elevates the look. Think watches accentuates the look to a whole new level. Great video!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!

    • @nate2188764
      @nate2188764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Killer watch collection. Agreed. The VC is on another level, but those Longines sector dials punch way above their weight class.

  • @claudioklr
    @claudioklr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with all your recommendations!!! Great video, Brian.
    Those suede jackets are fantastic.

  • @nateF888
    @nateF888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm 18 but I prefer this kind of style compared to the typical flashy and oversized T's other people my age usually wear. I think they look great, but this kind of fashion looks and fits better with my taste and personality.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheers, Nathan! You've come to the right place.

  • @bobbymackey3809
    @bobbymackey3809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One issue: I live in Phoenix, where it was in the upper 90s in mid September. Layering (outerwear) is NOT an option. It's cools off between December and January, leaving 10 months of unbearable heat. Jeans do not work in 100+ degree heat! There was only one "Summer" option, dark Polo with beige/cream khakis. Can't wear that everyday.

  • @jessehernandez5392
    @jessehernandez5392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love it! can we get more summer looks with this concept? Here in the desert the scorcher does not take kindly to coats in the summer

    • @Sshooter444
      @Sshooter444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Linen!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great idea!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As mentioned, five looks for a variety of seasons.

  • @Alithia451
    @Alithia451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    for your last look you should check the new Roger Federer Uniqlo drop, was thinking of the monogram shirt and cap.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice I’ll have to check it out. Thanks for the tip.

  • @ChrisHonorOfficial
    @ChrisHonorOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just watched like 15 videos on fashion and finally came to the right one.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sweet! Glad you found the channel!

  • @towhee7472
    @towhee7472 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    High School.. Those were the days. Nike Air Force 1, Graphic Shirt, Baggy Pants, outfits were so easy.

  • @AxisCorpsRep
    @AxisCorpsRep 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I definitely am not the target audience, as I am currently just 20, but it puts into perspective that I've realized I'm currently navigating the more "youthful" side of fashion without even trying, you know, graphic t-shirts, sweatpants, I'm not a big fan of shoes but the ones I have that finally chose for myself have that sportier look while keeping a slightly minimalist and modern, almost futuristic look, I love them, but the paradigm I'm seeing is
    this video made me realize I wont love them forever, I'm all up for evolution, iteration and change, but all things I like now, are things that wont be passable in 10 years, and interestingly enough I'm subconsciously getting prepared for it as I've been getting a lot into watches, and looking to make my first "nice" watch purchase, a humble Timex Fairfield 41mm, yet its a first step, so I'm slowly leaning towards the more elegant and understated side of things
    the time when it becomes a necessity rather than a style choice is coming, and I'll be ready for it

  • @Waldemarvonanhalt
    @Waldemarvonanhalt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blue Owl and Selfedge are both good places to look for jeans. Both businesses have helpful staff and can recommend jeans to you based on measurements. They've got a lot of different high quality brands.

  • @Frasesdepositividad
    @Frasesdepositividad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love how even being a mature and classic option looks still fresh and youthful without being being tryhard or inmature like a emo

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Many thanks.

    • @ADCFproductions
      @ADCFproductions 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you have against Emo? what did we ever do to you? :(

  • @qarhsi
    @qarhsi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    - Great video, Brian!
    - but I don't think the navy sportcoat worked with the light blue jeans. If you get a super casual, unconstructed cotton jacket with patch pockets and a very casual fabric, in a lighter colour, maybe that would have worked much better!
    - Other than that, I'm a fan of the other looks!!

  • @Gilles-yn6np
    @Gilles-yn6np 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very informative thank you every much! I had one question for you : is it ok to wear a pair of jeans without a belt? In the case you are wearing for example a dark blue pair of jeans, a white shirt tucked into and eventually a business casual jacket?

    • @talavb9301
      @talavb9301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's pretty much always OK to not wear a belt, provided that your pants fit.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would say to go by feel. Does it look right? If yes, then it's okay

  • @garrettlundy3959
    @garrettlundy3959 ปีที่แล้ว

    The blue sportcoat with Khakis is also appropriate for any impromptu court appearances, wedding guest, or any opportunity you’ll be on TV without having to spend the money on a whole suit.
    If you are an American or can legally CCW in your country sportcoats are great for shoulder, OWB, and IWB (but not appendix) holsters with a tucked-in shirt.
    Plaids, tartans, and patterns also help to naturally cover any printing from your weapon

  • @theamarcord1332
    @theamarcord1332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I enjoyed this video and totally agree with you. Personally, as a man in his 60s, I try to choose my wardrobe that fits me ( luckily I wear same size as I did in my 30s), and I prefer good quality fabrics that have nice texture. I am not a fan of denim, so you rarely see me in jeans. I prefer European cut, which is more slender and it works for me better. In most cases, when I buy ready to wear, it fits me perfectly ( again, it’s mostly Italian brands). I prefer soft knitted jackets, as well as bomber jackets. My biggest weakness is sweaters, I just love them! I stopped counting at 70. I just don’t have anymore space! As far as sneakers, I prefer the ones in leather that are more shoe like, not as athletic looking.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much for chiming in and congrats on wearing the same size 30 years later!

  • @taylorbarnes7288
    @taylorbarnes7288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What are some good options for minimal low top leather sneakers?

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s your budget?

    • @taylorbarnes7288
      @taylorbarnes7288 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hespokestyle Ideally $200 or less. I’d like to find a pair thats comfortable but still stylish

  • @alb3926
    @alb3926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey Brian - this is a great video, maybe my favourite since your "25 essential items". Its useful for most of my day to day situations and shall take inspiration from this, I like the outfits which are really well thought out, and the filming seems to have stepped up to the next level. More content like this please!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great to hear! Hoped everyone would like this one.

  • @Chipchap-xu6pk
    @Chipchap-xu6pk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fella, you have superb taste in watches. The VC is a given, but the Longines Heritage Classic is going to be a classic once again. Even JLC's version of the sector isn't as elegant.

  • @charliesanchez1782
    @charliesanchez1782 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No dress code is at the mercy of someone’s age.
    It’s about preference,
    wear what makes you feel good, regardless.

    • @sihilius
      @sihilius 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah. Also I struggle to call someone mature, if they let others or society dictate their style/clothes.

  • @twu13
    @twu13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you share a link to the light brown trucker jacket? The “rock n roll” outfit

  • @stonyhorne6529
    @stonyhorne6529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m 50/50 on this video. This video has great suggestions, but I kinda mix my clothing , with casual and comfortable. As you get older who really cares what others think. Some days I like Jordan’s and jeans or joggers. While on other days I may wear chinos and some wingtip shoes, or some Chelsea boots. So as we age wear what’s more comfortable, as adults we should care less what others think.

    • @iFryTube
      @iFryTube 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree
      There are famous people in their 40s, 50s that dress with graphic tees all the time, even cuts in their jeans and people compliment them. It really should be about what fits your personality more than anything. Just dont be cringe and hold onto the past and if you're young, dont dress too old all the time because one day you wont be able to pull that off.

  • @oliverwiesemann5001
    @oliverwiesemann5001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could you share the name of the first jeans? A link to buy them on a website would be great as well. Thank you!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure thing. Here you go: rstyle.me/+LdOXYErt_CWyG93FFYmcrg

  • @omarfassifihri288
    @omarfassifihri288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s great to see that there is still a guy with a such good taste that can drive us to the good direction…..

  • @TheGalo97
    @TheGalo97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Link or similar option for the rack on your back ?

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Here you go: rstyle.me/+1id7LIc-u1NUjyoowypaaw

    • @TheGalo97
      @TheGalo97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hespokestyle thanks!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got it.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's pretty nice. Takes a bit to put together but it's worth it.

  • @javierhenao563
    @javierhenao563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm less than a month away from turning 50, and even though I agree that there are some things adults should avoid wearing such as ripped jeans or character t-shirts to me its more of dressing for the occasion rather than for a specific age, I mean if you are going out to walk your dog why not wear jeans with your gym sneakers and your favorite cap regardless of your age. Sometimes its more about feeling comfy. Now as far as your video goes, I like the recommendations!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're right -- dress for the occasion.

    • @jumpAmonkey
      @jumpAmonkey ปีที่แล้ว

      It's NEVER about feeling comfy.

  • @huntclanhunt9697
    @huntclanhunt9697 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I use a polo shirt with an old surplus green wool shirt as a sort of light jacket. Works great with a pair of slacks or cargo pants. Usually I throw a hat on too.

  • @orlog3343
    @orlog3343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Agree that a “uniform” aka personal style is the most important thing besides fit. From a younger guys perspective, I think older men who are wearing something that they would’ve always worn before looks fine as long as it looks *natural*

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much for the comment.

  • @tomharries847
    @tomharries847 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I started loosing my hair at 15. I am 43 now and although I have a bald head, I shave everything off, I have an awesome beard which makes up for it and get so many more compliments. Guys, If you are loosing your hair, shave it off and grow some on your chin. Trust me, it works.

  • @nukie404
    @nukie404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love it Brian! I do feel it's more difficult to dress casually and look age appropriate these days. I think one look people can also fall back on is the classic white/black t-shirt with jeans!
    Oh and that IWC ... 🥵 - Han

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’ll see more of that watch in the next video.

  • @gigilaroux762
    @gigilaroux762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A great video to make is how to pack for those special event trips 4-6 days which require a suit but then being able to style those pieces with the rest of your casual pieces for when the special event is over.

  • @Lassehansen3
    @Lassehansen3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Totally with you on the uniform idea 👍 I literally have dedicated sections in my closet with different formality with this idea in mind 🙂 I have my formal uniform, my smart casual uniform, my casual uniform and then my vacation/weekend uniform 😅 all in similar “classic” style and color scheme ✌️ some might think it is boring, but when you first find your style and double down on it, dressing just gets so much easier and you always know that you will feel good wearing what you do 😃👍

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks, as always, for the comment Lasse!

  • @Alex55455
    @Alex55455 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been watching quite a few men’s style videos over the last few days and advice on spring, winter and autumn outfits has been great for here in New Zealand. We are going into winter now.
    The interesting thing I see popping up again and again are the really stark differences in summer outfits in the USA vs here in NZ and Australia also. Americans have a very different way and ideas of dressing in summer. Americans would be shocked at how much jean shorts and flip flops are worn in summer in this corner of the world in summer. Jean shorts are also extremely common in Europe.

  • @sanderabell
    @sanderabell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i dig your style my man, that said - people should wear what they like and feel comfortable in. who cares how old you are , be yourself and express yourself through your clothes if you want to!!

    • @AndreiGeorgescu-j9p
      @AndreiGeorgescu-j9p 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No, you should dress like an adult and not whatever infantile bad taste you have. You're postmodern moral relativist nihilist viewpoint destroyed society

  • @mathiaspelo6460
    @mathiaspelo6460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where are the light wash jeans from? I have been out looking for a quality pair but haven't found one yet.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right here: rstyle.me/+LIpfKH3m7kWGpe4boqzeoA

  • @tungao2515
    @tungao2515 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Today I learn that I'm a 26 year old that dressed like a 40 year old. Man I'm boring.

    • @KIMKiKim141
      @KIMKiKim141 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're not alone man

  • @leeboriack8054
    @leeboriack8054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Respect your simple straight forward advice. Well tailored or fitted clothes in classic styles are easier to intermingle and add to the collection.

  • @Napukin
    @Napukin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is like an alpha male convention for clothes. Wear what you want, guys.

  • @miikke0
    @miikke0 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been in the process of slowly transitioning to a more "classy" or grown up look to go with my age. I'm 28 now and for about the last year I've been trying to put my finger on exactly what you've neatly laid out in this short video. Whereas I've put together my conclusions by trying to observe other folks who I "like the look of", you've quickly summarized the key points in a way that is going to DRASTICALLY simplify my next shopping outing. I can't thank you enough for this video.

  • @steamyrobotlove
    @steamyrobotlove ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As a new old 41 year old fresh out of his reckless youth chrysalis, I really appreciate these tips. Was constantly googling the past year, looking for “semi-casual tech office middle age fashion,” but your simple advice is something I’ll definitely remember from here on out. :)
    Also, video length is 13:37, and this advice is definitely 1337. :D

  • @Alithia451
    @Alithia451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Longines Sector is one of my favorites! Have you seen the new Polaris by JLC, blue dial?

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice! And, yes. I was actually able to test drive. instagram.com/p/CbXlCdKr-NJ/?igshid=NmZiMzY2Mjc=

  • @mariocontreras5293
    @mariocontreras5293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hey, Bryan, I've been following since a while. I'm 61 and overweight and have discovered it is not a problem if I wear the right clothes. I see many men my age wearing joggers and oversize sweatshirts, with baseball caps and they seem older and floppier. My style is very conservative but I always try to follow the current trends. I clearly understand that fit, quality, style and a careful grooming are my to-go rules. Your channel helps me with new alternatives to remain current without loosing elegance and for most of my friends I remain as a role model for style. Thank You!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So happy to hear that, Mario. Appreciate your comment and best wishes to you.

  • @sf2explus184
    @sf2explus184 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8:00 u simply need to switch that denim jacket to a one tone indigo jacket and the whole look changes. ofcourse the suede jacket is a nice option but if u really must wear denim go for a dark one tone colour with no fades

  • @walkerb1734
    @walkerb1734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Absolutely agree 1000% with the comment on fit. I see so many men in their 40’s, 50’s and beyond looking so sloppy. It’s just a horrible presentation.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for chiming in!

    • @orlog3343
      @orlog3343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100% but ironically nowadays it’s the opposite, young people wearing super baggy clothes and older guys wearing clothes that are waaayyyyy too tight thinking it’s a slim fit
      Everyone should just wear clothes that fit !!! 😂

  • @kebman
    @kebman ปีที่แล้ว +1

    45 yr here. I'm constantly complimented on my style. I just wear plain stuff that fits well most of the time. I have like one or two expensive items, jackets and shoes mostly. The rest is cheapo stuff. Ow wait I bought an expensive pair of pants for my dancing sessions. Cuz you gotta look cool when dancing.

  • @JackieMB92
    @JackieMB92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    Dudes you dont need to be boring after 40

    • @Gnefitisis
      @Gnefitisis ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, this guy's just a tool.

    • @melarchuleta8886
      @melarchuleta8886 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      He is boring!

    • @YA-qg5hh
      @YA-qg5hh ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I am 25 and i dress very similar to him, just look at the jacket in the thumbnail.

    • @poohoff
      @poohoff ปีที่แล้ว +73

      You don't need to look like a clown to not be boring, there are other ways to entertain people around you

    • @boxerj
      @boxerj ปีที่แล้ว +71

      If you stay in shape and have a muscular/athletic build you can pull off just about anything. Build your temple gents!

  • @AchmedComedy_
    @AchmedComedy_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Got some good ideas out of it. Really been wanting to know how to dress up while not trying too hard either. Got urself a sub!

  • @Apocalipse1984
    @Apocalipse1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm almost 40 and still prefer jeans and metallica t-shirt. Screw what others think of me :)

  • @billmmckelvie5188
    @billmmckelvie5188 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    For me Jeans are now out! It is now Chinos either in beige or dark navy blue,. Then a pair of Cords usually in olive or forest Green, dark navy blue or colours that suit me!
    For summer it is dark coloured polo shirts and for winter check shirts.

  • @alextea1393
    @alextea1393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t need to look good, I just want to feel good with my cloths

    • @benjaminkrake4211
      @benjaminkrake4211 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The good news is we can have both. In fact, the classic style usually accomplishes both

  • @jrqv
    @jrqv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    11:23 Not namedropping "the watch"? If it's a genuine boutique traditionelle copying that outfit is outside my clothing budget :D

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol. It is indeed the real thing. I’ve never heard of fake VCs!

    • @jrqv
      @jrqv ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice! Oh there's loads of them, a passable replica of this model would be like $500

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jrqv never heard of such a thing! Fake Rolex, AP, Patek, RM sure!

  • @noyb-yb
    @noyb-yb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    good general advice. Just a comment, I am spending a few weeks in Milan and Turin right now. To my shock the Italians, men and women, all ages, are mostly wearing sneakers and most of those are the gym/running sneakers. They pair sneakers with practically everything. So dont discount funky gym shoes from smart casual outfits. Italians are some of the sharpest dressed people.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      All depends on the person, for sure.

    • @retrocloud760
      @retrocloud760 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cool. I like sneakers that match my pants in color mostly

  • @philipklink5406
    @philipklink5406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Bryan, Really like the suede trucker jacket look with the knit under it. Relaxed and stylish. Do you wear desert boots in summer? Cheers! Phil

    • @philipklink5406
      @philipklink5406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry mate, got the spelling of your name wrong.......

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No boots in the summer.

    • @philipklink5406
      @philipklink5406 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hespokestyle Thanks mate. Appreciate the advice.

  • @ByakkøGAMING777
    @ByakkøGAMING777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It was when I saw the style of Steve McQueen that got me to dress more like myself, all in the name of fit.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice. Can't beat the king of cool.

    • @ByakkøGAMING777
      @ByakkøGAMING777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hespokestyle At 24 years old from Southeast Asia, even the King of Cool reached his style spirit to me.

  • @UncleWill1957
    @UncleWill1957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are you fortunate that the length on t shirts and sweat shirts are exactly right for you or do you have those hemmed?

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I must be fortunate.

    • @willlevine9692
      @willlevine9692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hespokestyle have never tried Peter Manning but I hate buying online and having to return items. Might have to try them

  • @uniquehorn1480
    @uniquehorn1480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First time viewer of your channel...great video! I love your "keep it simple" take on how to dress! I learned about you from RMRS, who gave you a strong recommend.

  • @d444
    @d444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think it depends on how you define "adult", these looks make you blend into the background like the majority of the adults out there.
    Having one or two statement pieces per look will make you feel more lifely, unless you prefer being the uncle next door at your 30s/ 40s

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're already onto the advanced advice stage of this.

  • @nabeelz4977
    @nabeelz4977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with everything besides the Denim jacket !

  • @calvinripley9093
    @calvinripley9093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just wear what you want

  • @chineando8078
    @chineando8078 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the brand of your brown jacket in the beginning of the video? It looks great

  • @mrsmith8224
    @mrsmith8224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am 42 ,I dress as I feel
    Not what my age dictates
    From skinny jeans and leather jacket to oversize tops and Jordans
    Nothing wrong with breaking the rules in this case

  • @shawnmay3906
    @shawnmay3906 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is the suede trucker jacket from in the video? Any suggestions on where to get a good quality one?