the ultimate PICKME never gets picked + red pillers are trad dupes
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 เม.ย. 2024
- In this episode, Elle covers why the ultimate PICKME never gets picked because of the FREE BIRD THEORY. She also critiques "red pillers" who preach traditional values without having been raised in them and so they take the worst parts of tradition and pass it off as the real thing. This episode is part of the "spoiled girlie support group" series where Elle encourages discernment, choosing the best parts of various ideologies to navigate the systems women live under.
I love to tell men I'm 'very' traditional, and they get so excited. As their face lights up, I continue by saying, I don't believe in s3x b4 marriage and their whole face melts 😂
Im screaming 😂🤭
That's what I do
love that. it's the same for me as a girl
Omg that's literally what i do 😂😂
Yea cus a lot of them only like the fantasy lol once you come across a guy who is actually traditional and was raised in a family that way, he will wait. Or if he actually cares about you, of course
Pick mes not getting picked is so hilariously ironic
If they got picked then they wouldn't be pickmes. That kind of desperation comes from never being chosen.
@@MissKashiraWow! That was profound. I never thought of that 🤯
Its the best part about it!! LMAO
@@MissKashira SPOT ON!
They aren't a challenge to be broken. They already are.
If divorce is banned today, imagine the amount of women who would never ever get married. I would be one of them. 😊
That is exactly what would happen.
My cat house awaits haha 😺
Unless they also go back to the “good old days” when a woman literally needed a man to survive. If I weren’t allowed to have a credit card or have my own bank account, there wouldn’t be much choice
@@Mandy87Marie Everyone would go 4B. Who on earth would bring children into such an environment? Humans would go extinct in one generation
It would make it so that these guys actually have to be worth a damn convincing women to be marrid to him forever
I actually love that he called her out for basically insulting him and his wife then reminded her that she has no experience regarding marriage or childbirth. watching Pearl stutter and backtrack was pretty funny LOL
Right. Loved that part.
And he asked her… what happens after the man find spot the child isn’t his if divorce is illegal 😂. She had no comeback
That clip was soo painful to watch! She tried so hard to be "on his side" and he wasn't gonna let her no matter what 🫣
Second hand cringe galore.
@@AndreiFantasticthat’s what I’ve been thinking!!! To me, and this is my theory, I think Pearl just wants to lock a man down and erase any capabilities of leaving her.
No one respects Pearl because she doesn't respect herself. She doesn't just support the dehumanisation of women but she revels in her own dehumanisation with pomp and show. She is officially worse than a pick-me, she is a Skip-me. What irony!
Hmmm I’ve heard the phrase skip me used in two different ways now: to describe a female who is on the same side of the spectrum as a pick me but further gone, and to describe a female who is on the opposite end of the spectrum as a pick me - the female who chooses to not feed into the patriarchy by being child free and man free. Hoping the latter is true as the definition begins to mold within the public!
Right there was another decentering men channel where people were squabbling, "she's alone because she's masculine! Because she's unattractive! Because she's tall! Because she's loud!" Like baby it's simple: she is ✨️annoying✨️
More like skipped me😢😭😭
😂.
Idek what she's arguing for, there's so many holes in her arguments and she's obsessed with things that she herself hasn't even obtained 😂 (like does she even have children talking about paternity tests and whatnot, i just cannot 🤣)
Oh she crrrumbles when a man isn't backing up her nonsense. So good to see.
I think it was similar when she spoke to H3H3 Nate, and he was the rational one.
A Conservative man, which is so funny, I laughed a lot. She's so delusional
It was perfection
Doesn't that go directly against what she stands for
Amd a conservative tradition man at that. He has more respect for women than she does. She's eating herself alive
They always forget to mention that Traditional women normally take all their husbands money as they do the book keeping… & traditional men didn’t ask what do you bring to the table as they were too busy building an actual table out of solid oak 😅😊
This!! Traditional women are actually very financially literate and involved in the decision making for where money gets spent. And traditional men are too busy actually PROVIDING that money
Nailed it.
Not to mention, traditional women do not usually engage in physical relationships before marriage.
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Facts. My mom told me my grandfather worked 7 days a week for YEARS and always brought the money home and gave it to my grandmother so she could pay bills, buy groceries, etc. From
what I hear he never complained.
She’s dreaming of red pill guys, meanwhile they are dreaming of insta models 😂😅 And insta models are dreaming of their next vacation 😎
lol?!!!
clock it !!!!
Mmm… I like the vacation fantasy…. Let me start planning my next vacation, cause this hard work deserves!!!
And the rest of us humans are just trying to survive 😂
@@Kenny-AlphaNobody cares who you go for if everyone rejects you 😂
This is my issue with those "trad" women...
My mom was a housewife. Both of my grandmas were housewives. They still worked though. Yes, it was domestic work. It was unpaid. But it was work. And it wasn't easy at all. Oh, and none of them were submissive doormats.
Every single one of these trad women I see on the internet put on nice dresses, full faces of makeup, spend money on their nails...then film themselves looking pretty while cooking, doing the most minor chores, and giggling about how traditional and submissive they are. 😬 It's like watching a child play house.
I know alot of homemakers who work their ass off and in my personal experience they dont dress up at home for their husbands they dress up whenever they leave the house to go out. Ive never seen my MIL put on a full face of make up to make breakfast or frankly anything more than just roll out of bed. However there is an absolute respect in the house for her and her work. The home is considered hers and the kitchen is only hers. Back talk isnt acceptable and her word is as final as her husband's. They just have authority in different places and even if she is nunber 2 to her husband shes still number 2, the queen to the king on top of the rest of the world. Shes second to him only everyone else is still below her. He owes her money, hes not just a provider shes thankful for, its both their perspective that its reasonable for her to leave and find someone else if he cant do that. Im highly against the rewriting of women to constantly be weak underlings because they were hiusewives instead of recognizing what housewives have always been to society which is the backbone.
Real, the women from my family which are morrocan and Muslim are housewife's, some of them not, but those who are, are normal women, they work really hard and serve their families, they don't put makeup or nice dresses. These influencers are only selling you a lie, that those red pillers love, they think that women look pretty 24/7
That's a contradiction. Is being a housewife hard work? Or is it"minor" chores?
@@missbrookes1143 It's quite a bit more than minor chores...
@@missbrookes1143she’s saying tradwife influencers don’t film themselves doing real housework, just light chores you can do without breaking their nails.
I can’t figure out if Pearl is a bitter jealous pick me or a closeted lesbian.
Both
😂😂😂😂😂
She's Door #1. Even when I was closeted, I wasn't spouting off this nonsense......
I think both 😂😂
I don't believe she's a lesbian, she gives bitter jealous vibes because she said in some videos that she thinks she's average looking, even said she's a 4/10, and thinks her height makes her less attractive to men (she's 6ft) 🤦♀️
When she said: "I'd rather be a Pick Me, than a Skip Me." I was like, the second one sounds great. Being skipped by men who hate women. I am a proud Skip Me.
What's weird is that she's both lmao
Me too 😂😂
Please do me a favor and skip me I’ve fulfilled my quota of terrible men
All pick mes are skip mes because men don’t like pick mes 🤷🏻♀️
When I was thirteen, my dad told me I didn’t want to be known as a ballbuster. I told him “I’d rather be a ballbuster than a doormat.” I live by that to this day in middle age, and that has never steered me wrong. Let’s see how Pearl fares on that axiom when age does to her what she fears the most. Meanwhile, I’m going to go get ready for my lovely partner to take me to dinner just because we’ve got a night off together.✌🏽
I honestly think that Pearl needs some volumizing shampoo and to put her money where her mouth is... quit her job, find a man to maintain her, and live what she preaches. Go ahead girl... live your truth.
Volumizing shampoo💀
girl not the VOLUMIZING SHAMPOO 😂😂😩
😂😂😂😂😂😂
She got dimonetized by youtube and instead of doing what she says women should do she was screaming on Twitter that now she won't get money
Like she is clearly loves making her own money but still says women should stay home and do the work that doesn't make money
Girllll!!!!😂😂😂
Watching Pearl's brain short circuit when she just tried to please him and realised that she doesn't even get his stance and the nuance of the argument she's putting forward was delightfully hilarious
@@amarjotsingh8455 but candace brain short circuits when she talks about Taylor Swift
@@amarjotsingh8455 well u find candace to be professional to which I replied that she ain't.
@@endisnear306 I still remember the video where she went off about Zendaya learning how to cook in her twenties, saying it's irresponsible or something to not know how to cook at her age (never mind the fact that Zendaya has been a working girl/woman for so long that it makes sense she never learned). It's crazy because I hate cooking, but found what Zendaya was saying inspirational, making me want to cook better. Candace really needs to work through her own pick me mindset.
@@malaikakhan28 candace failed to understand that cooking is a basic skill which should be learnt by both the genders and it can be learnt any time. I don't like candace at all cuz she ain't sensible and makes the Christians and other conservatives look bad.
Half of that interview is just pearl stuttering
😂😂😂
To be fair I have a huge crush on Micheal and I’d probably be an incoherent babbling mess too if I got to sit and chat one on one with him. 😂
All of Pearl’s interviews are half stuttering. The other half is bs
She has no real actual thoughts, she just regergitates red pill talking points so when she gets push back she can't debate nor articulate. When she goes on the red pill shows they just co-sign everything she says with no push back. She got humbled by friendly fire 😂
@@mommalion7028he's attractive and he just looks so kind and that's sexy (I have daddy issues, probably)😂😂😂
What’s even sadder is that the men defending Pearly would comment stuff like “Pearl is humble, her looks might be a 8 but her personality makes her a 10”. And this comment itself is so telling. This tells me that if she didn’t agree with them they’d call her ugly in a heartbeat!
Pearl said in one video that she's average looking and a 4/10 😂
@@t.78d How sad frl🤦♀️. I believe it’s okay to know if you’re “conventionally” attractive (which I think is shallow) or not but to even conform to that ridiculous scale and give yourself that rating is beyond me!
According to the red pill logic she’s masculine & old.
I tried to tell my misogynistic father that pick me women are not respected by the men that they support the ideas of… those men laugh at them when they’re not watching
They technically have a nugget of a point there, shitty personalities are a pretty good way to make someone less attractive
Micheal is super conservative so the fact that she’s not able to have a constructive conversation with him is crazy. I hope that was eye opening for her.
Nope! She has been on several podcasts the exposed her as ignorant and self-serving. In her earlier TH-cam days, her content was different. She's found a cash-cow at first with BM now she's hoping to continue her grift with her own. At some point even the manosphere will grow tired of her clout cashing.
Yeah that was my exact reaction. And he's also largely incoherent most of the time so if he's wiping the floor with her rhetorically that's a big L for her.
I watched Daily Wire and Louder with Crowder for awhile, and while I don't subscribe to their ideologies, I found them interesting. One thing I noticed with the DW hosts vs. Crowder is that the DW hosts speak so highly of their wives (she's an amazing mother, she's a doctor, I can't imagine my life without her) and Crowder spoke in a way as though he was better than his wife (if she doesn't like it, we're gonna have a talk). Guess which one was yelling at his pregnant wife to do her "womanly duties". Last I saw, he was having red pillers like Fresh and Fit on his podcast.
She can’t have a constructive conversation period. While Knowles has objectionable views it is clear that he loves and cares about his wife and children.
Cause she doesn't even believe what she says, its all a fame, thus cash ,job for her
She said that if you aren’t a virgin then you don’t deserve dinner dates. My ex said the same thing to me. I was assaulted before him and he was my first sexual relationship. It’s so sad. He never stopped slut shaming me and that man was married twice. It’s just sad people spread all this grossness around.
Its funny, I wish I could use th excuse that 'I'm not a virgin so I'm not going to date' as an excuse to get rid of men who bother me for my attention.
That's so shitty. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Like what crap
The hell, to hell with those kind people. I hope you are doing better now, and have actual trustful people around.❤️
@@katiteee thank you for the support. unfortunately it wasn’t the only thing along those lines. said. It was the worst 4 years and the worst part is that I’m still in love with him. A month ago before it all ended, he threw something out of my hand bc I didn’t want to chop wood for his friend despite having a hurt wrist that he was the one who hurt.
@@maevav5645thank you. I never thought I would be susceptible to verbal abuse but it can happen. It was shocking to realize I chose to stay/
One time she said on Soc media, she would allow HER man to cheat, and she’s STILL unpicked! 😮😢
God damn thats sad
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hilarious 😂
She reeks of desperation
Lololololololol
it amuses e that they wanna ban no fault divorce...we just gonna go back to rat poison in the soup i guess cause staying in abusive/toxic relationships ain't it
Aqua Tefana Aqua Tefana. Idk if I spelled that right 😂
Self-offing increasing or depressed mother not able to function staying in the bed all day and the men will be the ones wishing divorce.
@@neutraliserjanine
They will never vote for banning No Fault Divorce because too many men want to trade in their wives for a younger woman. If men can’t just trade in a wife then they will never go for banning it.
Or the best revenge the wife simply says ok No divorce and stops cleaning,cooking and serving him and just going out to visit her side dude right in front of his face and what can the husband do about it? Or the woman just leaves. They wanted No fault divorce so they can live with the consequences of it.
Ikr? Even if you stop people from legally divorcing..you can't exactly force them to act like they're married. There would be married people living separated, probably with new partners all over the place. And the inability to marry these new partners, would create a whole host of problems 😆. Like, what about children with new partners, for example?
Not to mention...in a multicultural, multi religious society like the USA...the whole idea is completely insane. Now, if your church tells you 'no divorce in the eyes of God', ok. That's one thing. Have at it. But the idea of making that a law is preposterous.
@@raraavis7782 right! I feel like death rates would go up a lot or marriage rates would be down significantly, similar to how the forced birth agenda drove more ppl to voluntarily sterilization
“We have to make marriage better for men” is the funniest thing I’ve heard in a long time. I literally did a spit take with my coffee. Thanks! 😂😂😂
I know right! Its already better for men 😂😂😂
Me too 😂😂
Marriage was made by men for men. At the start it was to protect women and children but now the modern men have hijacked it to live life on easy mode.
Then want to add a clause that husbands are free to cheat . And , wives are FORBIDDEN to complain or leave . That's the only way men can have it easier. 🤷
Best joke I've heard this year 😂
I also grew up around good men, but now as an adult I’m constantly being disappointed by the men I encounter.
Same!
? Where did the good men go?
@@amarjotsingh8455same and they wonder why im still single 😂
Same 😢 I have a big family and thought all men were as good as the ones in my family. That's why my standards aren't as low as dusties want them to be. I grew up surrounded by good men and thats why I'm not settling for less...
“Men I encounter” = TikTok men 😂
I honestly think Pearl is a scam artist -- she isn't a pickme herself, doesn't believe anything out of her own mouth, but will let other people for the sake of gains. Maybe clout, or she wants to sell something in the future.
I often think the same of Pearl. It's like she's trolling all of us and getting paid for it. She loves to induce women to rage and fury - for clicks and clout. She's an energy vampire and getting paid for it.
Same, she’s literally grinning while spewing her toxicity. It’s all for clout, but the funny thing is that it does seem to affect her in rl. She puts so much emphasis on being married, but I have yet to see a man claim her. Love that for her😂!
Yup. It’s all about the money!
She's a making millions by repeating redpill stuff. It's smart. She sells them false reality and they love to hear her lies.
I agree. Her pickmeism is just a farce to generate cash. She doesn't believe a word she says and doesn't care if she has a man or not.
"DNA testing should be mandatory but you could opt out". That makes it voluntary which is what we have now. If a man wants a DNA test nothing is stopping him now from getting one.
What she means is: “men should be able to request DNA tests without being socially condemned as assholes and divorced from for assuming their SO cheated on them”.
@@artemisia4718 and this happens to one male and now it's every male?
@artemisia4718 they're only assholes when they have no reason to want one. If he has good reasons as to why he suspects her of cheating, then that is understandable. But to just say he wants a paternity test out of nowhere with no cause as to why he wants one is what makes him one. That would be like checking your partners phone just to "make sure" they aren't cheating. If you don't trust your partner don't be in a relationship with them, it's that simple.
@@artemisia4718 Pearl went to college. She knows big words. If she meant men should not be ostracized for requesting a DNA test then she knew how to say that. What she said is DNA testing should be mandatory. Congratulations you score a 10 for your mental gymnastics.
@@artemisia4718 but the thing is... they are. If you are married you are supposed to believe in your spouse, if you honestly think they could be cheating that means that you dont trust them, and trust is the foundation of every relationship. If you ask for a dna test out of the blue despite having an amazing relationship that is a big break of trust, it tells your partner "i dont trust you".
It is too painful to watch Pearl humilate herself. "Pick me Michael! Pick Meeeeeeee!!!" ☠️
Agree
Even though Michael is married XD
sis is trying to make him think his wife is promiscuous and he is NOT falling for it hahah 😂
it is! I had to skip it, it was to much for me 😭
she's so hard to watch!
That was such a hard watch
Idk how anyone can find happiness by seeking male validation.
It's not about happiness; but perceived survival.
It only leads to misery and desperation, Pearl is the perfect example.
men don't even like male validation. I once told a boy in high school his shirt was a good color on him and he wore it every day for 2 weeks straight until his friends started calling him cute.
@@llamababiezhellyeah That's not validation though; they're taking the p--- out of him.
@@llamababiezhellyeah because of the toxic masculinity in the culture, being cute basically equals being a woman/gay. That means he’s weaker than the others. This is why.
Pick Mes don’t get picked. As much as men say that they don’t like strong-willed, autonomous and independent women, they are actually really attracted to those women! Look up Trevor Noah’s mother’s quote about traditional men and independent women.
Great quote--thanks for mentioning. Here's Trevor, quoting Patricia Noah: “The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage.”
For those that don't know its: “The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage.”
@@marlabeard5352thanks for sharing. Ugh I’m not sure how to feel about this truth. I don’t want to be caught and caged 😶
I’m reading his book rn, so good. His mother is so great.
@@liabw05to be fair, she said the traditional man…so you just need to find an unconventional man who doesn’t want to cage you up! They do exist…a rarity though lol
The way she tried to stumble her way into an opinion he liked. It’s clearly harder to be a pick me.
I was born into a traditional family, generations of tradition. It’s so true that there’s a difference between those of us who were born into it vs those trying to obtain it when they weren’t born into.
Red pill is Temu traditionalism. No one wants that.
Temu trad, I'm dying. 😂
What is temu?
@truthseeker3967 temu is a site that makes extremely cheap knock off products such as clothing, makeup, furniture. Kind of like Wish back in the day or Shein.
Temu Trad😂 I want to like twice😅
@@truthseeker3967 an online shopping site, although the workers are said to be heavily exploited so the products are very cheap
“Traditional families” in most parts of the world are still huge extended families, not nuclear. Below minimum effort men would be the lowest of the low in the food chain if they lived in these societies.
And the networks are usually connected through older women, abuelas and aunties that these guys despise so much. Between neighbors too. You can't expect to have all the power and no responsibility as "head of the house". "Who doesn't work, doesn't eat" is usually a rule in traditional farmer families, lazy guys that want everything done for them are a laughing stock, village idiots. You serve to get served and do everyday chores that benefit family, basic survival. Wow, these guys are even failing survival mode. Humans are social creatures and these guys are not.
BME men in traditional families be 37 years old and still getting hit with a shoe
People blaming feminism for destroying the "family" when if anything it was the unholy matrimony of capitalism, industrialization and Christianity that steamrolled over most tribal customs and interlinked community etc.
Not trying to romanticise those previous social structures but it was rich aristocratic and industrial men that purposely, for almost 2 centuries made a constant effort to destroy extended family links and faith in lieu of individual family groups that can be split into labourers and consumers in single family homes. It also helps to prevent the poors from working together in big groups. Lots of reasons to intentionally destroy it. This exact split between working men and homewives emerged here too, people didn't do labour to sustain themselves, they did a "job" for a "wage" and domestic care suddenly was not "work".
"Traditional" guys like this are way more modern than they'd ever admit. Their mysoginy shtick is literally inspired by the "early modern era". Not by the varying imperfect relations that existed for millennia before and will probably end up existing again at some point.
Edit: doesn't even touch on how this was exported around the world at gunpoint
@@spiritsafe-ko4eechancleta!! 🩴
I live in the US, and my next door neighbor is a white guy married to a filipina woman. He’s not a peepeebro, and if he was, that illusion was faded many years ago. His sprawling ranch house and half acre property is home to her relatives, including both of their children, their daughter’s boyfriend, the wife’s aging mother and brother with cerebral palsy, and anyone else from the Phillipines who wants to come for an extended visit. He’s a truck driver, she owns a wedding dress boutique. They’re very traditional. And they’re great neighbors.
There is a saying in my country “the guilty runs away even when not chased”. I feel it is very applicable when it comes to men who want to ban divorce.
Love this
Thank you for sharing this great quote. Which country? :)
When Nick Fuentes has to finally choose between coming out and getting a beard, my money is on Pearl. Pearl needs and Abortion ban, so he cant leave her after he grows tired of her. [which already happened]
He destroyed her when he told her she has no real experience.
if Pearl was teleported in the middle of the middle East where women are oppressed and deemed less than human, she'd get a rude awakening.
I don’t know why you had to bring the Middle East into this? This is such a bad stereotype that you’re spreading. Misogyny exists everywhere, unless you’ve been to the Middle East you don’t get it
Or some places in Africa with FGM!!!
She doesn't seem to have empathy. She should marry a Saudi for herself and live in his country.
Islam allows women to file for divorce
@@Ri57490 They're not talking about Islam or a religion.They are talking about a place that doesn't treat humans as human beings.
“It’s not uncommon”. False paternity is less than 2% in most recent data. A man is more likely to cheat or beat a pregnant woman than she is to engage in false paternity. I love the guy gross pearl is arguing against
I mean that guy is pretty awful otherwise but he does manage to come out looking like the more reasonable and considerate one here, I guess because Pearl is just that awful
I dont understand what's up with the obsession of not having emotions. This is sociopathic. Every sentient living have emotions. Men just turn everything into anger and destruction then try to "rationalize" it by finding excuses for their violence.
Yep. The facts over feelings male conservative crowd is a great example of that.
Imagine a conservative man thinking Pearl is just ridiculous
I am a conservative woman and I think pearl is ridiculous too.
I'm a centrist and I think Pearl is ridiculous. There's no common ground there.
I'm progressive and I too love to hate pearl!
Fr
It’s one of those universally agreed on truths. Pearl is ridiculous
I love how when she feels she doesn't have anything to say and is losing the argument she'll throw random redpill quotes "But...but I mean, if we could...I mean, yes....I think...I... I.......it's...............WE SHOULD MAKE DNA TESTING MANDATORY AT BIRTH".
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And the whole world collectively shrugs and says “Yeah, sure whatever.”
taking a blood sample from a newborn is awful.😢 how common is it that men raise their wife's lover's child?? I feel like that's probably very rare (like 0.001%) scenario!
@@BouncyBrown it's not common it's made up incel statistics
@@BouncyBrown depends on the socioeconomic status of the region. It’s about 1/5 in low income areas and much much less in middle class and above. Less than 1/100.
That interview proves you should never trust a person who has simple solutions for complicated issues.
I’ve found that to be so true
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Fr
2024 is a Yes Nuance Year!
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Much Love
I think it’s more like generalizations. Sometimes the solution actually is more simple. It’s just the implementation. How do we get there is very COMPLEX because there are roadbumps and hot button issues that can cloud the judgment
Pearl doesn’t believe anything that comes out her mouth lol she’s just regurgitating things she’s consumed
It's like she's stuck buffering while loading some AI redpill argument answers into her brain and failing because these guys are incomprehensible in the first place and shrivel outside their echo chambers.
Pearl should speak for herself and not for women in general. She sounds loopy. That's her issues and insecurities of being overly emotional herself. Not an issue with women in general.
And yes, all studies point to men as the ones who cheat the most in heterosexual relationships. Yet, all these r-pillers keep going on about how women cheat. I don't know one woman who has cheated on her partner. I know of several men who have cheated on theirs. All you have to do is go for a walk in a public setting and you'll see couples walking around. The woman focused on her partner while the guy's eyes are wandering around, checking out other women. Apparently, r-pillers aren't outside enough to notice that.
Women hardly ever cheat. Guys get dumped and see her with her new guy and just say that she cheated. These guys can't face the truth that they forced a good woman to dump them, and would dump them even without having a new guy lined up.
When she said that women shouldn't be allowed to vote, even the manosphere should have side-eyed her clout chase.
@@guinealove3744she’s so desperate, it’s embarrassing.
@@tinaelert2865 I agree. I've never had another guy lined up after ending a relationship. I've broken up with guys and stayed single for a while afterwards. I have exes who started dating other women a month or two after I've broken up with them though 🤣 the fact they found women to be with them that quickly shows they already had their cheating "radar" out there even while we were in a relationship.
Guys don't comprehend that some of them are so bad that women choose being single over staying with them. That's the punch to their egos.
@@guinealove3744 Let’s take her at her word. But “no taxation without representation” though. Only men vote and pay taxes, women get tax-free income, tax-free products, tariff-free imports, tax-free sales… Let’s see how this turns out.
In the past the pick me were like "I do everything that boys do!" and nowdaws they're saying that man are superiors??? Really???
isn't "I'm not like other girls, therefore I'm better" the essence of a pick me?
@@AngelCaroline9 Yeah, that why I'm confuse with this new type of Pick Me. In the past they're also misogynist but at lest they were something out of that.
Divorve: ❌
Firing your spouse: ✅
Read a comment the other day by a man who said in his view, a traditional woman is someone who has absolutely no say in the relationship, unless she isn't traditional and pays bills. It is shocking, because not only is he dehumanizing women, but it is also not compatible with human rights/laws nowadays. This men are extremely dangerous and are portraying a false traditionalism that never existed in this way.
I’ve read a lot about feminine and masculine energy in relationships over the past few years. No where did I read that a man is NOT supposed to listen to his wife’s input. That man is telling the world that he’s abusive. Hard pass.
@@tspencer661i read about this Muslim the other day that said in there country your husband money becomes your money but she would really enjoy it here because in this country his money still becomes your money if you get married and you can have a separate account for your business. This is the real reason men resent women because even though we make them think it's there world it's actually not because men need our help to be born.
People like him forget that the traditional stay at home women also work. They clean, cook, raise children. They don't have free weekends
Not to mention that "traditional" women also worked in fields. As soon as they recovered from giving birth they would go back to work
Also, the commentators are correct that genuine traditional people give a whole different vibe in their approach to marriage. Many many years ago I married into an Orthodox Jewish family, really old school people. Outsiders don't know -- every Friday night at the dinner table, every Orthodox Jewish man stands up, turns toward the mother, the wife, and they sing her 5-minute-long serenade of love and respect. They recite the entire text of the "woman of valor" Bible text, which (again, most don't know) details how a woman is a treasure, and how she runs her own business, making profit, and his her husband should praise her and value her. It also details how her support makes it possible for the husband to rise in the community. It tells the whole truth. They say it every Friday in every household all over the world. They would never say "women are just property."
@@angelikaskoroszyn8495Where traditional women worked on fields traditional men worked from sunrise to sunset, they worked on fields doing hard part of it, took care of animals, built real stuff, did wood stuff, hunted, earned money outside home, only richer city men could afford to be lazier and their women usually had maids anyway. Men are built for physical work and should work otherwise they become grumpy drama queens who distrupts family peace and starts to cheat.
Imagine how fast Pearl would change her stance if she got married to an abusive man. As someone who almost did, I am fortunate he revealed himself beforehand so I could get out. He literally changed into a completely different person when he thought he had me locked down-it was terrifying. I would NEVER marry without the ability to divorce now that I know the dangers.
Roma Army was abused and advocates for men's rights
"It's not giving traditional. It's giving... fatherless." Love the 😏
And motherless
They long to be in a trad family because they never had one😢it is heartbreaking. They really have no idea how is it like.
Pearl: Women aren't meant to lead
Whilst Pearl's mom is some kind of wealthy business leader
Thing is though, her mom isn't exempt from her bullshit either. CWHM pointed out the contradiction but also showed plenty of footage of Pearl seemingly doing everything she canto minimize anything her mother did as a career woman.
@@bigbearkat2010Who's CWHM?
@@gracepeterson4213 cruel world happy mind
I always thought that the lack of divorce in a society is dangerous for both parties, not only for the woman but also for the man, imagine a contract where no one can get out of the contract, it is unthinkable, it is slavery.
It always makes me think about the women who are now in the old age, confessing that they killed their husbands, I don't know if they really did it, but they really thought about it.
And how many women died and didn't know why or how?
You always have to know who you're messing with and have a plan B. And plan B is divorce
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Divorce is a prerequisite for monogamy to function.
@@artemisia4718yup. Otherwise you can cheat and just get away with it
✨Aqua Tofana✨
I read as a child that the traditional Navajo practice of divorce was when the wife would move the husband’s belongings outside of her house and declare 3 times in public, “I DIVORCE YOU!” And it was done. That was it. It was her house and he was out on his arse with no recourse.
Pearl seems inarticulate and aggressive in her interview with Michael. She's talking over him, stumbling over her words, not making her point...doesn't she go on and on about female subservience and being submissive and traditional?! She seems pretty loud, opinionated and modern to me. 🙄
Right?? She was literally arguing with this man because he didn't agree with her on certain points. Imagine if they were married 👀 Is this how she is advertising she would speak over her husband and refuse to submit to his point? 😲🙆🏽
She thought that dress would be enough.
Pick Mes can't handle it when men disagree with them, that is not supposed to happen.
They did everything right ... they betrayed their own, they shaved their legs and now they demand to enter the sacred boys' club.
Pearl was fighting for her life trying not to disagree with that man 😂
The cringiest thing ever.... 🤡
Just Pearly Things is 4B and childless, not by choice.
Is 4 what ?
@@di7787 4B movement
She could get someone if she really wanted but she is picky and want those "high value men" who don't want her or any other women. Men are not that picky, someone would love to have pearl, even if for her money to have easy life.
Also a 304
And a cheater.
My all-time favorite animated movie is The Prince of Egypt. It has some iconic women too, like Yochevid, being the ultimate mother, giving up her baby so that he could live and Miriam being the embodiment of hope and forgiveness. I'm reminded of Zipporah, though.
When kidnapped by the Egyptian priests and presented as a concubine to the elder prince, she insulted the royal family several times, made it clear she'd put up a fight if they attempted to SA her, and then put up said fight against the guards. She eventually escaped and crossed the Sahara desert alone back to her village. This woman is the penultimate strong independent woman. She needs the help of her fellow people, but she doesn't need a man specifically. One of her sisters even said "that's why father says she'll never marry."
My boyfriend didn't understand at first why she didn't have a fiercer role to play in the third act, but it'll be obvious to the spoiled girlies. Her role was a quiet fierceness, fiercely loyal to Moses. He won her over by being a good man, a hardworking man, and a self-sacrificing man. That's why he took the lead in the third act and she was his support...because he proved himself worthy of her trust and support. No one would ever force Zipporah to do anything. She left her family and followed him to the gates of hell, basically, because she CHOSE to. He was a man deserving of her.
She's who I think of when I think of a traditional woman.
You just reminded me. I need to watch prince of Egypt when I get back
@@ChichimaDrawssame😆
Love that movie! Thank you for reminding us of this classic ❤❤❤
Beautifully put!
Hey I didn't see all that background info in the Bible, where does it come from?
Literally the earliest I've ever been! I see a Manifestelle video, I click. Lol "conservative and redpill are apparently not the same thing" 🤣
As a happily married woman in a healthy relationship myself, I have to say that in abusive or toxic relationships, a divorced family is more stable than a married one.
Same ❤
Exactly. I’m also in a happy, healthy long-term relationship with my high school sweetheart and best friend. My parents were never abusive to each other but it definitely got toxic and it affected my little brother and I as kids. Staying together “for the kids” is not always right. My parents should have divorced when I was 11 instead of when I was 17.
@@nopenope9118I'm so glad to see u learning from your parents marriage and getting into a healthy relationship ❤
@@reginageorgetownuni Thank you! Honestly, I just got lucky with a good man. In the nearly 18 years we’ve been together he’s never raised his voice at me, he upholds his end of household chores, he’s financially responsible, we share the same interests and political views, he respects me, I could go on and on. Learning from my parents’ mistakes and things that happened to me when I was younger definitely taught me what I wanted in a relationship and I was lucky enough to find it in high school in 2006. It makes me so sad to see how much certain men despise women. I just want women to be able to find relationships like mine, but man, it’s scary out there sometimes!
Pearl's thinking is so murky. Her positions don't seem to be based on her own authentic arguments but rather on wanting to be perceived as an ally of men. And that's why she will appeal to no one, not even trad men, because she's not truly anyone, not truly even herself.
I love when Elle calls the podcast bros fatherless. These bros throw the word around so often to describe women, but it's actually them who lack a good, healthy depiction of the masculine.
Some guy called me fatherless when I said that my romantic relationships had been difficult, though I learned from them all, so I'm patient now and living my life knowing the right person will come along at the right time. Amazing how having a view as harmless as that can make them insult you. Funnily enough, I have a wonderful dad, I have a great relationship with him, and it's thanks to seeing how he treats my mother and me as his daughter that I developed standards for a partner.
And after I came by this channel, I'm forgoing the poverty mindset and embracing being a spoiled girlie c:
This is Pearl? I just heard about her. I have a lot to think about. I mean she's making them look so bad: she's proving why they're wrong in wanting a mute bang maid.
She also has a career for being a pick me
She honestly seems like a troll, like legit proving r-pillers wrong by talking all their points being as natural as they come and being absolutely skipped 💀 The desperation and embracing own slavery just makes everyone so uncomfortable.
@@InternetNonsense if shes a troll and she earned a lot, id respect her. but shes makes no money which makes me think, lack of benefits may point to her being honest.
@@InternetNonsenseyou may be on to something. I always suspected she didn’t actually believe what she was saying but I assumed she was a run of the mill grifter. I mean, maybe run of the mill grifters are usually trolls too; they laugh all the way to the bank. Supposedly Pearl’s mom is some c-level boss babe
@@26babil26I was wondering how much money she made doing what she’s doing. I sort of assumed it must be somewhat lucrative. I’m not sure how to verify her finances. I don’t even know her last name.
If they want to ban no fault divorce, they should be prepared for marriage to become mission impossible for most men.
Actually, a lot of them can't even get a date, let alone marriage 😂 that's why they are so angry on social media
One time this male feminist guy was so desperate, he waited over 2 years from the beginning to the end if a relationship I rejected him for just to try again. I was so weirded out by it that i just started talking trash bout other types of women and he finally disappeared never to bother me again. Being a pick me is so off putting that even pretending to be one can be weaponised to repel certain pesty guys for good.
I’m gonna keep this information in my back pocket just in case 😂
The interview is so hard to watch because Pearl is so desperately trying to pander to Michael and he just doesn’t GAF about anything she has to say (not that she even makes sense anyway). He’ll never respect her as a person 1) because he’s a misogynist and 2) she doesn’t even respect herself, nor does she have real opinions. The second hand embarrassment… 😮💨
To be fair it was hilarious seeing Michael stating he wouldn’t support his son divorcing his wife even in the event she cheated and the child wasn’t his lol she thought he would agree with everything she has to say when in reality based off her logic she should be agreeing with him lol
I think he's not really a misogynist. But in the fact, she is the true misogynist, just look at how she talk down about other women and herself 😂😂
Michael is not a misogynist
He is not a misogynist, Pearl is.
For all the people claiming he’s not a misogynist… huh? Do you not know who this man is? Also even if you don’t, being anti divorce is inherently anti-woman. There is nothing here to debate.
At this point we’re better off building up our own sisterhood and communities and not even give our time and energy to people like this… without our engagement they won’t have the platform! We ❤️ you!
Agreed. I’m out. I think it lowers my vibration at this point and it’s just not beneficial to me to spend time on them…instead of myself.
Same here we have a lot of work to do in this world and it’s better to not give that effort to something that wants to destroy the feminine and masculine at the same time
It's such a good analogy to use business partnerships to compare to marriage! Nobody would blame the partner who sues for breach of contract yet we blame women for filing for divorce...?
There is no breach of contract. Contract would be fault based divorce. We have no fault.
@@sunfish4095 then why is the happiest demographic single and childless women, and women's happiness increases DRASTICALLY after divorcing her husband and her work load decreases even though most women work?
@@fawnieee Over time I've realized it's better to question everything. Starting around 2010. It's one of those things where once you see it you can't unsee it. The messages you know. I realized that evil is complex and powerful force. The truth is we are both happier in love. The question is, will fear destroy it for us.
Pearl just says anything men want to hear.
Funny how quick she change her stance floundering around to get him to agree with something.😂
Talk of banning no fault divorce is dystopic.
I’m not sure she wants a man. That would get in the way of her grift. She wants the money and attention. Pearl loves her career. Having a man gets in the way.
right, she doesn't strike me as someone who's necessarily looking for a man
At 30, the Grift is Over.
Did she say at one point that she didn't want to date any of the men falling over themselves to be with her and they got *big mad* or was that something I dreamt about?
I’ve said this in another video and I’ll say it again: Men love, and more importantly, respect bitches. My sister who is a mechanical engineer and modeled professionally, was treated like garbage by her husband that she married at 21, despite making home cooked meals, doing all the housework, and being a proud ‘anti-feminist.’
I had my first boyfriend at 27. I would argue with him and win, I would threaten to break up every four months, I would only talk to him after I was done with my med classes (we were long distance). I’m celibate and he respected the fact and was willing to wait until we married. He happily paid for all our dates, sent me care packages, and offered to pay my expenses when I was traveling. He cared about me, but more importantly, he respected me.
Moral of the story? You are the person that creates your crown or your wounds. If you wound/debase yourself, there are sharks that will be attracted to that. If you create a kingdom of yourself, there are knights that will come to serve.
Girl, when i realised this my dating life completely changed. If you bend over backwards to be nice to men you get treated like trash and an option i think that's why older ladies advise us to be with men who like you more than you like them.
Yes ma'am 💓
Well said ❤
love your knights and sharks analogy
This is really good but what do you mean you'd threaten to break up with him every four months?? 😭
We need to stop assuming fatherless men are the toxic ones. Men with fathers are just as bad if not worse.
We're literally running households and raising kids solely yet we can't lead or is it men that can't lol
How do men lead?
Fantastic video again…😂did you all see the guy who said “Peal says all the right things but we won’t pick her because she is masculine“ …. I feel sorry for her .
She looks like long lost daughter of the CEO of TH-cam 😂
Don’t feel sorry for her! She’s dangerous!
How is she muscular???! Where do they see muscles on Pearl?
@@minachernobog it’s his nice way of saying that she’s broadbacked
*in her masculine energy* also
I am the exact opposite of Pearl, in terms of my personal beliefs about relationships. I actually have a wonderful, loving, and supportive husband. Real good men don’t want an object or pet human to lord over. They want a meaningful partnership, they can share the burden of existence with.
I love how Michael Knowles showed his indignity immediately 😂 he was like, "you calling my wife a wh*re? 🤨" call out her BS!!!
Pearl's existence forces me to acknowledge something about myself, which is even I, as much as I try to be a live and let live girlie, have my limits.
I cannot bring myself to respect a person like her. A person who crawls around in her hands and knees desperately vying for any scrap of approval she can get. Utterly shameless.
It makes my skin crawl and my stomach sick and I just can't handle it.
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Imagine how many women would be dead if divorce was banned. Two of my friends included.
When my parents were separating my mom gave my dad the engagement ring but not the wedding band. When he asked why she said “You broke your commitment to me, but I never broke my vows. I meant it and you didn’t.” My father never wore his wedding ring.
Pearl's mother is a super-successful businesswoman, author and philanthropist. Pearl's got mummy issues and is repellent to anyone with an ounce of sense.
Absolutely agree that for these types of men, it's not about "bagging" the one who's willing to be all that you want her to be. There's no fun in that. The challenge is changing a free spirit, free thinking woman to brag that not only did you get her, but you broke her. Women like Pearl will never understand that she should never listen to musings/ramblings of an emotionally unintelligent, strategically bankrupt XY. Their attention is fleeting. Be safe out there ladies!!
2:50 was hilarious to watch. The interviewer started off on the same boat as Pearl and then realized that she was even more misogynist than he was and was like "whoa whoa"
Listening to Pearl makes my teeth hurt.
Frm grinding your teeth so hard? I get it.
😂😂😂😂
Mines too 😮😮😂😂😂
Thank God she is not your wife!
Why are men so scared of divorces? If they have assets enough to be taken away, prenup your way through
Wake up bestie, new spoiled girlies lore just dropped!
Why not make it harder to people to get married in the first place (but maintain the current divorce laws so people can leave abuse, adultery, etc.), so people are more conscientious about entering into marriage? I wonder why this strategy is never proposed by these folks? Hmmm.......
An actual solution (which these red pill types don't want) would be to make prenuptial counseling and prenuptial contracts easier to obtain: if not mandatory, then certainly routine. If people had to spell out exactly what their intentions were in terms of how to divide marital responsibilities beforehand (along with consequences for failing to meet them; including what violations are strong enough to pay penalties in divorce - I don't generally believe in divorce, but if someone cheats or abuses their partner they should lose *everything* as recompense for damages) then each couple would still be able to set their own terms as they see fit without a one-size-fits-all framework and nobody could claim that they were wronged by a bad judgment in court because they would have already agreed to stipulations about child support, alimony, damages, etc. Even better, it would allow a preventative opportunity to clear up a lot of the unspoken expectations that, when unmet, lead to unyielding marital issues for people who are otherwise operating in good faith. The only ones who would lose out would be the bad faith operators, which these red pill types are, which is why they want to ban divorce and keep their marks trapped for life. They don't want marriage to be "better" as a relationship or foundational structure of society, they want it to be "better" as a tool for their own power/control fantasies.
no one would get married lol
Andrea Dworkin is having a renaissance and I’m living for it!
CONSISTENT, nuanced, and well spoken bangers from our Elle. This is my morning newspaper ilysm
Edit: Also PR! I see so many wives and mothers talking up their do nothing men as being great guys. Even my dear mother is far too publicly kind about her ex. So many men are seen as decent because their wives represent them too well.
Pearl seems like she would date a felon or a recently released inmate and really hold him down and be loyal to him with everything she has. That's nice of her but the sad thing is she doesn't believe in herself
She dated a homeless guy. He dumped her because she was a 304 and got with a better looking woman who was 4-5 years older than Pearl. thats why she rages against women over 30, despite recently being owned by a woman 10 years her senior.
That interview at the beginning is so cringe. Like Pearl could have an argument with an 8 year old and the 8 year old would win. Literally zero logic
Crowder was acting like his wife was threatening him with a knife........ absolutely crazy.
Pick me never getting picked. Ahh a tale as old as time. At least she wears makeup now.😂
It’s like she learning how like when a 13 yr old girl is learning how.
I agree, but the makeup comment feels like it's intended to bring her down, and it's unnecessary imo. I think that sooner or later she will find the right way to approach relationship and take care of herself, I hope for her.
She realized that when men say they hate makeup they don't actually hate makeup.
@@celeste3100 exactly 🤣, it's like she fell into a crayon box face first.
@@huare7946 Dooood!! I can’t but agree 😂😂😂
"I have been in this situation and you have not" he basically told her she knows nothing about life which is true 😂
Men want traditional women until you ask them to be traditional men (providers and protectors.)
In Micheal’s defense, he does believe in separation (living in different places) but because he is super religious and sees marriage as the twining together of two souls he doesn’t think you can ever get ‘divorced’ because it would be some sort of soul amputation. He also says marriage is for protecting women because men tend to leave to go chase high schoolers when they hit 40 and he thinks that’s wrong. He is a loon but I don’t think it’s coming from a malicious place.
the biggest pick me talking about divorce when she’s never been picked has me HOWLING
A onlyfans model would have an easier job finding employment then Pearl would. Pearl has destroyed her reputation in a way no sex tape could ever touch
4:46 Every time she’s in front of someone who can confidently intelligently fight back against her; she falls apart like wet toilet paper 😅
Watching her debate a man...and agreeing with him...yet unable to actually agree because he isn't woman bashing like she is, is truly a sight to behold.
I hate the way red pillers talk about traditional relationships. They have no idea what traditional means or how it really works.
Its fantastic to see pearl arguing with a man about how terrible her own species is and how great his is and not even winning, this is ludicrous
My parents have the same traditional marriage that elle describes: dad primarily works outside and provides for all of us completely.
Mom works from home, makes her own money and keeps it. She has invested part of it for future use and to pass it down, primarily does chores indoors.
I was just waiting for you to talk about her
Same here😆
@@Alexis-ul6zc lol ot was just a question of time haha
My parents are renewing their 20 year marriage vows next month. I had the privilege of growing up with two parents that truly loved each other. They’d hug, kiss, go on dates, tease each other. They argue sometimes like all couples. They always would tell us they were arguing, not fighting. My dad still buys my mom flowers and they make ways to spend time together. I’m educated and supported financially. Both of my parents work and make decent money. Our traditional household upholds the values of a proper marriage, not submission. Both do the chores and while they hold more traditional values like men working outside and women inside, they make it work. So when I see that, I know exactly what I want for myself and my own children when I have them.
3:30 There's something incredibly ironic about Pearl being talked over and interrupted whilst trying to explain why she thinks she shouldn't have rights.
Gotta love that "duper's delight" smile she has. She doesn't believe a word she's saying.
I love that you are quoting the OG Andrea Dworkin!! The Feminist thinker who famously said back in the 80's "give us one day without rape". One day. SMH 😡
Andrea Dworkin was such a hero to me in college! Her bravery and boldness to speak the truth felt shocking to me. (her ending was very tragic. but her work against sexual assault fueled my own work in college)