the rise of LOSER men - consequence of women’s liberation or men’s ENTITLEMENT to women?
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On this episode, Elle discusses the rise of loser men and how this phenomenon is less a consequence of women's liberation and more men's entitlement to women. Elle reacts to a video of a woman taking her baby father to a job interview at a fast food chain which he refuses to go to and how this scenario encapsulates the very real problem of men nowadays refusing to work. Elle shares a video of a creator who says "the real reason the modern young male does not want to work is because his paycheck no longer affords him power and control over women." This reminds Elle of the movie "Don't Worry Darling" which features an unemployed man who turns into a provider husband in a simulation. Elle closes the episode with reminding women to wake up to the world around them.
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A man who puts his ego before his family is one of the most dangerous types of men.
That’s the family annihilater.
And it's way too common than we as society would like to admit.
Perfectly said 🙌
@@beautifullEternal exactly, his family is just for show and just to prop up his ego!
Exactly
Too old to work at McDonald’s to sustain income for your family and yourself, but not too old to be a bum???????
the math aint mathing
Yes, because his logic is $0 is better than a paycheck of any amount. Insufferable 🙃
Yet older men with dignity that takes pride in being able to support themselves would take it if they lost their job and need something in the moment while waiting for an opening else where
Sure, he should get a job, but she did sleep with him, and is still in a relationship of some kind with him, rather than getting a better man
@bunnyboo6295 Agreed, a good man would have no problem working at McDonald's.
At first, yeah he might get little in his feelings because of his ego, but he would keep it to himself and suck it up for his family.
There are so many things on a daily basis that she has to "suck it up" in regards to.
Everyone compromises in life for the family they've created.
how is working at McDonalds "lower" than being a deadbeat?
Doesn't McDonalds now pay like $15 an hour at most places? It's not even terrible pay considering how low minimum wage is in some places.
@@AlliWalkeryeah that's the most laughable part of the story he didn't want to work at MacDonald so he figured living with his mom and panhandling in the parking lot for quarters would be easier I think it bothers them because some of these jobs really weren't designed for men because sometimes MacDonald has aprons the grocery stores have them too so he probably saw it as an insult to his manhood because his friends would laugh at him I'm not going to lie that was a pretty lame suggestion she made because i wouldn't want to work at MacDonalds either show them the local labor hall if they need work right away meanwhile you could be applying at a bar or dispensary anything to help you excel and just be holding onto your paychecks and take your name off his lease and it will lower his rent and eventually you will build up enough moneys to lease your own apartment dip out a month before the lease expires and if he loiter on the property they will haul him off to jail.
@@chronometer9931 No they didn't 🙄.
@@chronometer9931 mcdonalds is always desperate for employees. Always .
@@Discordia5 They ain't THAT desperate...I've applied to several McDonald's (even got an interview once) and never got hired.
If he didn't want his homies to see him working at McDonald's, he should have taken the steps in life to not have to only have that option as an adult.
He could just work a night shift, lol. He's just shiftless as the elders say
He could go get a line cook job 🤷♀️ just as easy, pays about same, not as "shameful"
Or recognize why these jobs are considered shameful and get radical to bring dignity to all humans and labor not being respected. But nah...
He is communicating he doesn’t want to work.
Going backwards not stepping up.
It's because he's mocked people for working at McDonald's and now has to admit he's not "better than" them anymore
This pair of highschool sweethearts I knew that had been together since 10th grade, were so cute together!
Everyone said they're "goals"!
I ran into him one day years after graduation and he said "I came home one day and she had packed up all her stuff and left! No note or anything!“
Seriously rough!
Then I ran into her sister one day and she said"oh she gave him several chances to get a job and help her with the chores and he just wouldn't! He'd work like a couple months or weeks and quit and lie about it!“
Well good for her!
It’s always like that. Men cannot own up to their mistakes but will talk talk talk as if she’s in the wrong when he could have just shut up and said we’re not together anymore.
@@spacebar9733 oh but he was just "blindsided" by her sudden departure 🤣
@@spacebar9733bro fr!!! My mom's old guy friends always complain about not seeing their kids but my mom asks if they went to court or go to pick up their kids and they say no because they don't want to deal with their BM.... Maybe just maybe go spend time with your kids legally and stop complaining that you get yelled at for being a DB
Had a guy who was taking care of his mother in law he whined to another male how hard it was to cook her 2 meals a day while she struggled to do the 3rd solo. he whined about having to take things to her room cuz she couldn't lift the items all that way she's over 70 and doing not well and this guy wanted the younger guy to bond with him in his self made pity party of how hard it was on him yet this woman gave him a free car she fixed up her car when his own died on him and instead of him having to spend thousands to get a lemon of a car she fixed her own up with her own money and gave it to him which he's now driving and when I pointed that out he got quiet af. He wanted the pity party not the facts he's getting repaid for his labor in other ways.
@@chronometer9931 i keep seeing you in the comments. Did you not get that your not welcome here, dude? The alpha bro podcasts are elsewhere.
If a man calls you “bro” you should be having a beer with him, not babies.
I'm sorry but you are right
🎯🎯🎯👏🏾 The "Bro-Bruh" epidemic is out of hand!😖😖
@@MrMoz32 These same type of men complain if a woman calls them bro though. I see it all the time.
Exactly! Like, you are upset about me, a woman, calling you, a man, "bro"? Fine, then... Imma call you "sis" from now on. Problem solved!
@@kalinaribic6383 It's not healthy for the man or woman to be calling their significant other bro. Maybe it's worse when a man does it to a woman, but neither is healthy. You are treating each other like buds, not an intimate loved one. That's the point. I'm a woman, I don't want that. Calling a man sis is more demeaning than calling him bro, but not if you're a couple, one is near as bad as the other.
Men feel entitled to women.
I was in a long term relationship with a guy who when we first started dating was doing to school to be an engineer and I was doing the same. As I progressed, he stopped going to school and just spent his time playing video games.
I tried to help me go back to school and motivate him and he just made promises about going next semester over and over again. When id had enough, he’d threaten to kill himself and I stayed out of guilt. This went on for years until I was graduated and a working professional engineer.
I felt like I could leave and I did. He stalked me for month, begging for me to take him back. It got to the point where I was afraid to go home. I blocked him from everything and all of a sudden it stopped, I didn’t hear from him and I finally thought it was over. 2 months later he ambushes me at my house, at gun point and tried to kill me. I fought back for the gun and when the police came he took off and deleted himself when the police closed in on him.
His family smeared my name, sent me threats and blame the situation ON ME. That I was this awful person, that I never treated him right. And for a while I believed it. I know better now.
That's horrible! I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Jesus
I am so happy you are alive. I don't wanna get banned so I can't say the other thing I'm thinking, just 😊
The family is probably why he turned out like he did. Don't let anything they say hurt you.
JFC that's terrifying, I'm glad you are ok now
I was once told by a male friend: “women should let men help them, because men need to be needed.” Those weren’t his exact words, but the gist of his argument was that 50 percent of the population should pretend to be less capable so that the other 50 percent can feel better about themselves. 🤦♀️. The logic just… astounds me.
@redleeks6253
If you were smart you'd know all you need is to break the seal on the pickle jar to open it.
@redleeks6253
If you are physically weak you need to better yourself for a plethora of reasons, one of which is to have control over all the menopausal stages and prevent osteoporosis.
You don't need to be weak. It's in your control. Start working out .
@@redleeks6253
It's not a woman's responsibility to provide purpose for a man.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 Precisely. That was the part of that exchange that I found off-putting: the implication that men “needing to be needed” should determine a woman’s behavior.
@@redleeks6253don’t cater to a man needing to be needed. If they’re pathetic where they need women to cater to them then they need to be alone
He said "I ain't working at McDonald's, I can do more?" Then why aren't you, let's see it🧐
Most people CAN do more yet that doesn't mean they WILL do more. He's a perfect example of that. People like that will keep saying they're looking for better but won't actually do it while also selling their partner on the idea of their potential.
I think the "do more" he's referring to might be a SoundCloud rapper or coca slanger.
@@ZariDV If he won't work fast food or retail then demand that he gets a full time factory job w/benefits.
At this point, he might need to just join the military
Sheraseven put it best: when men gives you excuses instead of solutions, RUN 🏃♀️
Amen
Yes its a sign of poverty mindset
Applies to everyone
💯
Yup she said "is the man a problem solver or problem finder!!!?" ❤❤❤❤❤❤
the audacity that he asked if she would do the job. YOU'RE THE ONE WHO'S UNEMPLOYED
A normal man would not get fired from every place and would try to move up with every job. This dude could at least learn a trade, they pay you when you start working around the second semester.
@@user-dx2dm8oq8g If he would take a job at a fast food place and DO WELL there CONSISTENTLY, he could eventually work up to assistant manager then manager. He’s the type who wants a manager position immediately with zero experience.
A lot of CEOs started out in the “mail room”.
Well' if she has all the time to baby a man around to get his shit together ' then maybe she's not employed enough. She's also jobless
@@nataliesparks4829lol wut…Sit in the front Nellie!
@@nataliesparks4829 she is probably extra mad because she had to take time off work and get child care just to get him to the interview on time only for him to spit in her face by saying it’s bellow him at the place instead of before going to the place.
There are limits to when and where she can work that are compatible to her current job and obligations in caring for the kid.
Don’t act like she isn’t trying enough already because she isn’t working 98 hours a week and was somehow able to get him to an interview.
“Men gossip too, they just call it “golfing”” 😂😂😂😂
I mean paparazzi and gossip tabloid are mostly run by men sooooo...
or going to the barber shop
Male moment ☕
@@CheredaReneeShaw yess! That too
My ex was just like this. Let me run myself to the ground while being “too good” for a minimum wage job… while I went to school full time and worked full time.
Thank you for sharing 🥹🫶🏽
I'm severely mentally ill and at one point I was working two jobs to support my three kids and their Dad and it was getting to be overwhelming and really messing with my mental health and I came to their Dad crying and said, "I really can't keep working two jobs. I can't do this. It's too much." And he kept a blank face and said, "I need you to keep working these jobs right now." I was disgusted and pissed in that moment. I instantly stopped crying because my sadness turned into anger. Not just that but other times when I would complain about him not helping around the house and that I have to do everything at home after working all day he would claim I didn't even have a real job because I worked in an office and that's so easy 🙄 I told him if it's so easy why can't he do it? He had nothing to say. After 5 years of me being the sole provider, he got yet another job, he has had over 50 and just stops going after a few days or weeks, and he was promising me he was going to keep this one, then he fractured a bone in his ankle from jumping off a truck and never went back to work and that was 2 years ago. He no longer lives with me. I kicked him out two years ago but when I would bring up how he quit yet another job he tried to say he had no choice because his ankle and I asked him, "If I broke my ankle would I be able to stop working?" He was silent and I said, "No, I wouldn't, even if I became a quadriplegic, I'd have to figure out a way to work, because if I didn't the kids would be homeless and get taken away." And that's the truth because he doesn't care. We were near homelessness many times when I was still believing his lies and promises that he was going to come through and he'd attack me and throw tantrums when I tried to work more to keep our kids from being homeless until eventually I left him and when he begged and pleaded for me back I told him I am the main provider now and he needs to move his schedule around mine because I'm the only one that's responsible enough to make sure the bills get paid and after that he didn't even try to work...until that job where he broke his foot several years later.
Glad to see the word “ex” there, sis. Take care of yourself! ❤
What??? Literally my mom & dad
@@artemisia4718 unfortunately wasn’t an ex for way too long. But, I learned my own self worth. I guess that’s a bonus.
Him calling her bro was so gross 🤢
Exactly!! Disgusting! She risked her life to give him kids and he’s calling her bro smh
He acts so immature and incompetent, it is so embarrassing that he is over the age of 21. Mainly when it comes to that entitlement behaviour, they are just so pathetic.
Exactly, I know right…like for real…he needs to grow up and take some accountability instead of weaponising incompetence..
"no BrO bRo iM nOt DoiNg tHat BrO" 💀💀💀
Just as you !
My father is such the epitome of the negative Black Male stereotype that it is actually comical. He is a felon, a high school dropout, his greatest enemy is child support, a bad father and even worse husband, had a child on my mother, cannot keep a job to save his life, etc. Sadly, it took my mother 20 years to drop him, but she eventually got tired of the ride-or-die lifestyle. Honestly, I think the stress was slowly killing her. My parents marriage is a extreme example of how marriage benefits men more than women because who you think is struggling the most and begs the other to get back together?
Your daddy probably, now that he needs a nurse with a purse.
@@HIMpotter he'll just look for another desperate bw to take care of him
@@HIMpotterThat's called a hospice care wife/girlfriend. Some younger woman who'll take care of them in theor old age. Because their greatest fear is to be alone with no one to take care of them. It's why they're always projecting "have fun dieing alone with your cats" onto us.
I am happy your mom got out. I hope she is taking care of herself now and living her best life 💕
I'm just happy my mom left when I was a baby.... Though my dad wasn't genuinely a bad person just an addict. He's better now but IDGAF about having a father in my life now that I'm an adult... He has no fathering abilities those are things you're supposed to learn as your kid grows up not while they're grown
"Women will never win in a world where men count on us to always let them win." Flipping truth right there. The amount of surprised Pikachu faces I get from men (often men I barely know) when I put myself first before them is staggering.
I know, right?
Lmao i always was flabbergasted at that face they make when youre just being a normal human and not their mother
Maybe you should put yourself first without being selfish? i mean theres a line^^ Nobody likes selfish people not even if they are female
Men liked Margot as Harley Quinn but not as Barbie. Cause Harley Quinn runs after joker and she suffered which made them feel special.
But Barbie is on women side. Barbie talked about womens right. That's why
Men when they realize the only reason they were thriving was because half the competition was suppressed and all his domestic labor was taken care of: 🤡
So true! They bullied women out of everything for century upon century and convinced themselves they are superior. Bigger muscles is all they have over women, and they know it.
Surprised Pikachu face like a mofo.😨😨😨
@@paolinopaperino8926the arrow of time only goes one way. no matter how hard you throw a tantrum the world is becoming more equal, more peaceful, more feminine etc etc and you can either adapt or die.
Over half when you think about it..
@@paolinopaperino8926And yet…Besides the cycle won’t begin anew precisely because these men refuse to work, and women are more than happy to fill these roles in exchange for independence. It’s just too bad you won’t live long enough to see your wildest dreams.
At the end of the day, men have to develop a thing called a personality and emotional intelligence. Money is no longer a tool of control over women. modern relationships ought to be centred around companionship and mutuality. Inflated ego and entitlement are not going to save these men
Very well said. How can we implant this in their little heads?
@@artemisia4718 it's not our jobs. those heads are indeed little and boxes of rocks.
@@artemisia4718 By leaving them alone to figure it out on their own. They can figure out how to beat a video game they can figure out how to be a good partner.
Modren relationships are centered around height neurotypicality hairline face race in that order
@@holographicwing yup, cut the supply ladies. Deny all access
Society has taught us that rich men are deserving of a beautiful wife but I have never heard a person say a beautiful woman deserves a rich husband
like are we supposed to settle for anyone that comes our way ? Lmao, no thanks
Or a beautiful woman needs a beautiful man. Show me a beautiful man
Its always beauty and the beast😂
@@blueberry4082 they exist, but too many of them are happy living the fboy life, thinking they'll get married and have children with a younger woman in their 40s. Gross.
Beautiful men all the way please. Money doesnt cut it.
When women are honest about their desire and what they look for in a man, they are told to stop being delusional and get a reality check. Even when she is a looker herself and has her own money, it is "wrong" for her to have desire and should be thankful for any man looking her way, apparently.
Grown men pouting is not the vibe
Your YT name just made me hungry 🤤 😂
Grown men pouting and acting like a baby is seriously so gross.
I'm so glad my grandpa raised all of us with the "no one is too "good" to flip burgers." mentality.
I was not raised like that and I wish I was.
Same!!
I don’t get how ppl think being broke is better than working at McDonald’s
Yep my mom was a whole teacher at a private school but would wake up every day to bake cakes and cupcakes to sell to her colleagues and students. She was never ashamed of it and even when people made fun of her especially some of her colleagues she'd tell us she had the last laugh with all the extra made she'd make
Yea same with my family. Nothing wrong with an honest job and a humble life
I am so “sorry” that we as women want a real man, but not a someone else’s son to take care of. 😂
😂😂
@@gregdenys7162 gladly I am ❤️
@@gregdenys7162most of you are duds so “choosing better” is becoming moot.
I swear all the men I dated who were jobless all had mothers who told me she would love to date someone like them 💀 and their moms all worked hard ass jobs and did all the house chores. I see a trend..
@@cleo1827 I am sorry to hear that. So ridiculous! It is time to set “the trend” You want for your life only, take care girl ❤️
Isn't it the same men who used to say they would rather jump and clean gutters for $100,000 a year than be a CEO for no money and shame women for choosing the opposite? Now they have a problem with working at McDonald's because of their 'dignity'?
A man with REAL dignity would get the hell up, work for his money and make something of himself.
What he has is laziness and entitlement. He is so far away from being a dignified man because men with dignity take pride in their hustle NOT run away from it.
His dignity was already in the gutters for being embarrassed to hold a job ad just roll with the punches for a bit to provide for s family he PARTICIPATED in making but doesn't want to participate in providing for due to the consequences to his actions. It would be a different story if women could have children all on their own but that's not how humans work now is it? Boohoo cry about itttttt🙄
Let's discuss eliminating "baby daddy". This provides men with further distancing from their responsibilities as *fathers*.
*Stop* calling him my "baby daddy". Start saying, "You are the farther of *our* child." Maybe that will help to provide a realistic context for expectations. I suspect that is wishful thinking on my part.
That term has grossed me out, from the first time I ever heard it. I'm so glad, we don't have an equivalent in my mother language.
Baby Daddy. Yuck. It's like you're not even really expecting the man to step up to his responsibility as a *father* right from the start. He's just the 'sperm donor' and possibly 'child support payer' (if lucky).
I'm glad I'm not the only one, who feels like that. I never see anyone discuss how harmful the concept of 'baby daddy' and 'baby mama' is to how we see people who accidentally create children and what we expect of them in regard to those children.
I agree. I am french and I don't understand where the expression "baby daddy" is coming from...
@@melchiorlise2466 I think it started within the black community. It's a way to say that a man is the baby's dad aka baby daddy
@@Remember_the_TimeSSHHHH!
I agree! And I hate the term bm. That is the mother of your children…why reduce someone who carried your seed, went through labor, breastfed….as to a derogatory label…
Women, we have to admit that men see us as pacifiers for their needs and desires. When men come for you, they want you to be a pacifier for a certain need or want in that period of time. When you as a pacifier get worn out or aren't what he romanticized you to be, they search for another. They compare women to cars but they treat us as pacifiers.
They’re always saying they want “women who bring them peace”, and this is exactly what they mean by that. They don’t want to learn how to comfort and take care of themselves. They want to dump that responsibility on women. Find your own peace like women do. It’s not our job.
@@chronometer9931 sexist is true. Lol
@@chronometer9931 I know you're referring to the puritanical concept of chewed gum representing secually active women, but OC is right.
Same goes for women!
@U-APPEAR-INNOCENT-WHEN-U-STARE Why is it when male behavior is put on spot, guys will say, "Women do it too?" But guys do this way more. If a woman does this, she is immature and cruel. The woman is also wasting everyone's time.
I think we will start to see a rise of men who live with their parents past the age of 30.
My ex-boyfriend at the ripe age of 30 still bragged how his mom does his laundry and cleans after him. However, he is dead scared of marriage because, in his words, "the family livelyhood would fall on my shoulders," that's when I got the hell out of there. It's funny because he said what he liked the most about me was that I had my shit together. I have my own place, car, pay all my bills and make good money.
Mothers exploitation from their grown sons will become a trend as these men child wont be able to attract partners to pass the domestic labor too.
So a chunk of the dating pool will be a cross between the stereotypical Italian mama's boy and the Japanese NEET. *shudders*
Instead of looking for their own, they are waiting for their parents to die and then they just have the house bequeathed to them. Ive seen so many family’s wrecked when the breadwinner dies and the leftover kids fighting over the house, its sad.
I think that's cultural. In some countries it is common for the adult children to live with their parents since forever. Common in developing countries where job availability is scarce. There are man babies but there are dependable guys as well. The latter usually live with the parents because they grew up poor, are more family oriented and well, at times they are their family's breadwinner. The latter is also the type to save money to make their parents a house first. Living with the parents isn't always bad but it does tell a lot about the adult children if they are willing to contribute or not.
@@bmona7550 It's very different in cultures where the grown children stay home though. They still usually get married and live in multi generational homes, so they can be more affluent together. Plus they take care of their elder parents or grandparents, rather than ship them off to a home. It's a different cultural norm and the grown men that marry aren't necesarily dead beats. We are seeing a rise in grown men and women staying home longer, but it's a failure to launch, rather than a cultural binding like other countries..
Yup! When I met an ex at 28, he didn't have a driver's license, no car and still lived with his dad. Eight years later, he only has a driver's license because I helped him get it.
And men like this will still blame her after shaming women to lower their standards
It's giving *hypocrisy*
All men* know how to do is lie about who they are to trick women into relationships and be hypocrites
@@blessingsluckystars "YOU SHOULDVE CHOSEN BETTER ."
The fact that he keeps calling her bro shows how much he's forcing her into the masculine role!
Good point...
yes!!
The guy who called me dude was also pushing me to work when he knew that all my previous relationship was traditional. Girls, watch out for these signs!
It's normal for men to be loutish in a matriarchal culture though. Another characteristic is not knowing who the father of a child is. Government husbandry / government chivalry got the ball rolling. The thing is tye soviets already tried this experiment with male and female / family and it failed in the same way.
Wow
This was my ex. Just thinking that I dated him for a year makes me feel so foolish. He didn’t work, didn’t own a car, didn’t clean or even throw away his garbage, he wasn’t romantic, barely complimented me or bought me anything, he would get angry easy and always blamed me for his flaws, and he wasn’t very physically attractive.
I was young, naive, and had very low self esteem about my physical appearance, and he took advantage of that. Fortunately I had friends who made me see how stupid I was staying with him and I didn’t lose more than a year of my life or saw his anger turn physical.
We all make mistakes, particularly when we don't feel good about ourselves. I'm glad you are out of there and no longer burdened by that deadweight...
i was where you were, too. one year into seeing his attitude about stagnation and not being serious about growth in life, becoming better as a person and in their work, it made me so disgusted.
glad we cut our losses when we did. dead weight is not just weight but also stinks coz its dead.
You got out right on time
this is what scares me about all of the romance media glamorizing age gap relationships. maybe elle can do a vid sometime about internalized misogyny in media bc booktok has me wishing some women didn't have the right to free speech jfc (I'm kidding but the way female authors write about toxic men and booktok influencers promote it for teenage audiences is abhorrent)
@@en2336as a teenager who reads age gap books, I guarantee it is NOT the books setting some of the girls up for failure lol we are not all stupid, the ones who fall for it don’t have good families. I grew up around older people, older man’s bs does not phase me. This is the equivalent of the video games makes violent children.
This sounds like my brother. He is gay, but he always had the most disgusting sense of entitlement. He truly believes certain things and jobs are beneath him, so he could never level up because he thought he was too good for level 1, 2, and 3. He wanted be at level 10 out the box. Like, that's not how life works. Planes don't start in the air, they start on the ground 🙄.
Well said 👏
My brothers are the same ( except they aren't gay).
Not the 1, 2, and 3😂
An attitude quite common with people under 40 and especially under 30 today in general.
Many of them will not accept an entry level job or a temporary one till something better comes along.
They want top job, top dollar, and the boss better not give any orders.
💀
My "below bare minimum low effort male" coworker got mad at all the attention i was getting from men at work and took it upon himself to start picking at me "because somebody has to"
So when one of the guys brought me some coloring pencils he ran off with them to the restroom so I moved his backpack till he got back and handed them to me as he has the tendency to throw my things at me when he does things like this.... (I know it's been reported time and time again)
He proceeded to snap them in half "as a joke" and my leads refused to do anything more than have a conversation with him... currently applying to other jobs.
I would tell HR it's bad enough that you're considering quitting. If his job performance is worse than yours, they won't hesitate to fire him over losing you. Look into steps and having coworkers back you up.
If you're headed out the door anyway, contact HR and explain what happened. Start a paper trail for if/when he does it again.
Addendum: But if you can find better paying jobs, get your bag and let them know in the exit interview.
How are they not embarrassed still pulling the same “jokes” as a 5yo. They are the joke and it’s tragic.
I would lose it and yell at my coworker and anyone above us who is responsible for dealing with that behavior. After having two kids I have absolutely no patience for adults who act less mature than my kids did at the age of five. That's not a brag about how wonderful my parenting or my children are, they just literally never acted that immature and would have been swiftly corrected if they had. I just can't tolerate worse behavior in adults than from children. Being a mom has probably lowered my bs tolerance.
Our grandfathers were working 2 jobs while studying supporting their siblings because their father died during the war, and they were proud of the role and responsibility they took over, to help their single mother... then they got married and supported their wife and children the same way. My grandfather died at 80, he had a great life, not rich but generous, succesful at what he did, highly respected man in the comunity, loved and taken care of by everyone in elderly years until he passed
❤️ What better of a life could one ask for
That is your grandfather most was not like that
@@neo1053 I am 36 years old, my grandparents lived in Poland after 2nd world war, the country was destroyed, they had nothing, but they were focused on building, its about mentality, they could give up like men today...
@@judytamoongoddessTrue. It’s mentality. Most are so entitled. They want a lot, but don’t want to do the work necessary to get it.
Uuuuuuhhh. It’s those same dudes that traumatized the future generations. 🧂
“good men can always tell, they’re judgmental” this is 1000% true.
when i was with my ex boyfriend, the first time i introduced him to my brother he was scoffed at and later on my brother told me “i knew he was a fckboy and a bum when i first saw him” 😂 it turned out to be true and i dumped the guy.
years later, when i introduced my ex husband to my family, my brother was highly suspicious of him. later on the ex husband became abusive and violent.
my brother is a good, hardworking man and seems to have a highly accurate judge of character.
thankfully i no longer date and he’s very happy about it, lol 😅 i am too honestly. 4B movement all the way 🎉
Girl same, if my dad and brothers don’t approve of a man, I RUN 🏃♀️
We need more male leaders identifying and weeding out the bad men so we don't have to deal with them x.x
@@abcdfg4281 We as women need to accept red flags and our own intuition instead of giving the benefit of the doubt and move on instead.
I hope you don't stay out of the dating game forever. You do have a great male role model in your life, and when you're ready to date again, make sure you run him by your brother, who will be able to warn you early on.
Men who cannot hold down a job are a serious red flag: it means that he might have a problem with authority bcz of his ego issues, he can't meet deadlines, he cant execute ideas, he cant be a team players cz often that may shift the spotlight away from him, he cant get along with people. Usually when people leave for the right reasons its bcz of a toxic work environment or a career change. There usually a specific issue that caused them to leave, make sure you ask them for the reason specifically. And usually they are already searching for a job already before leaving.
This woman is too lenient on him it almost feels like a mother-son dynamic. Most women won’t accept a man working at McDonald’s, but she encourages him and teaches him good morals. She’s gonna be an awesome mom, but sadly the dad is just gonna be a burden with his so called dignity and extremely toxic world views.
Agreed except an awesome mom wouldn't allow her kids to grow up watching her baby a man
You are doing the Lord's work!!! I'm 43 & I wish these kind of conversations were being had openly when I was in my teens & 20s. I am so proud of this new generation of women!!! You are speaking the inner thoughts of sooooo many women who couldn't speak up or didn't have the words. Bless you!!! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🗣️🎙️
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Yes, this is forward thinking. We got raised by boomers telling us to sett and submit
I think social media is the difference. Now we can all access these important words of wisdom from other women, expose toxic male behaviour and running game. And when I learned about narcissism…phew! I finally understood the toxic family dynamics I experienced growing up and the same predators roaming through society. Yes I wish I knew all of this years ago. Would have saved me a lot of unnecessary confusion and stress.
Here me on this, they say we don't date down...When you do they don't respect you. Then when you help them build themselves up, they hook up with the next chick and leave the loyal one...
Thiss
Once they become successful they forget the woman who supported them in their struggle which is why we shouldn’t even support them anymore 😂
My ex would complain about how his boss isn't paying him enough. Meanwhile he'd talk about being on the internet all day at work and taking long coffee breaks. He'd also spend his money on an expensive car and other materialistic things while complaining about how much groceries and utilities cost. Yes, those things are expensive but he could pay it if he wasn't wasting his money on other things. He was in debt.
I earned less than him and all my necessities were paid off and I have savings and investments.
Ego and entitlement is just a sign of immaturity.
It's ok to want to be paid more but you have to take action for that to happen. Get a cert, study part-time, job hop... I allow myself to complain once then I make a plan to change my situation.
Same w/ me and my ex. He made more than me, didn't have his own car (I did) and he had a roommate to make ends meet and I managed alone. It wasn't my norm to go out w/ guys like this, but I felt guilted into the thing of not caring about materialism. It isn't just about materialism. A man w/ no assets at our age (me 45, him 50) is trouble. As I figured out years later when I moved in w/ him. Let's just say I've never had a relationship end as badly as it did w/ him after 10 years and I'm still recovering from the lies, cheating, betrayal and carrying a house alone, that I never should have bought w/him.
My ex husband lost his job as soon as we got married. He then proceeded to get and lose 3 jobs within 5 months. He then asked me to continue working 2 jobs (while I was going to school full time) and he was gonna take time to go back to school (he wanted to switch careers, first degree was in underwater basket weaving essentially). I asked why he couldn’t do what I was doing and work while in school. He told me he wasn’t going to stress himself out and he wasn’t raised like “that”. I asked what “that” was. “That” was to overwork himself. Lmbo but he said it looked like I handled it well. Meanwhile I was stressed out with all the jobs, school AND having to come home and clean, grocery shop and cook because he literally didn’t contribute anything. So glad I left ❤❤❤❤
And glad You left him before he used You, My untie was exploited by a man like yours... He decided to study another career but withouth working while My aunt pay for everything... He FINALLY end that career and how did he pay her ? My leaving her ... Sadly is not the firts time i Heard that story, that men as soon they get better Jobs leave their wifes
Never show a man that 'you've got this' he will take full advantage and leave you to carry the world on your shoulders while he lays back and relax
Underwater basket weaving 😂😂😂 glad you’re in a different place now ❤
@@melissa-qe7fp 💯💯
@noirefit5954 So glad you made him an ex!! He's pathetic.
I hope he is reaping what he has sown!!
I have observed many young men 20 years ago that did not want to get their hands dirty on a job. The jobs that are so beneath them end up being done by women and peoples from across our borders and they complain about that too! Too many ego kings and not enough willing servants to pamper their existence in this country.
@internetmachine This, baby, this!!!!!!! When the jobs are open and waiting, 'they're to good for them', when people have the positions, "they're talking our jobssss"
@@B.Harper7 you guys realize the people south of the american border have a way more machismo culture and proclivity towards wifebeating, right?
I have always said that nobody hates DUSTY MEN like successful men.
Can you please do a video on family annihilators? A lot of women on tiktok are posting their husbands who either pretended to work for months while actually being unemployed or just complaining about hating their kids while posting them on social media. Apparently those are signs that they're about to carry out the annihilation. Some people have explained that it's because men view their wives and children not as people but as extensions of themselves and feel as of they can't provide a living, the family would unalive anyway.
THIS - this reminds me of the guy who drove his family off a cliff in the Tesla
Definitely wanna see a video on this too!
I’m so glad that you’ve made this comment because it’s becoming scary how family annihilation is becoming more common. Everyone talks about Chris Watts but since then there’s been a few more that has occurred and it’s always tragic.
What
I’m suggest everyone reads “I Want a Wife” by Judy Brady. It opened my eyes to all the invisible labor women do that men feel they’re entitled to. It’s only 2 pages and online.
@hulahoop027 this dude is spamming the comments. Too stupid to realize the irony of his actions
Just read everything. Just WOW ❤
Damn
I had to read that in 12th grade!
I just read it. Thanks a lot
This video just added a new standard for me. I will never, EVER have children for a man who calls me “bro.” That’s so childish how is that masculine at all.
You sound like you’re so fun at parties.
@@Bsilbs If a man is calling you bro, he's not respecting you, or even seeing you a woman.
They’re so entitled, I grew up in poverty with a single mom, she worked and worked to support us, I then got a job cleaning houses- probably the lowest of all jobs, but I worked hard, got clients and ended up turning it into a thriving business with staff etc.
You have to start somewhere, they’re so entitled they think they deserve status without warning it
Cleaning houses is far from the lowest of all jobs. It pays well enough, much better than minimum wage. There is always that kind of work. Good and trustable housekeepers are hard to find. If you can make a business of it, you can retire young if you want, if you get enough employees under you. Then you can work lightly and be a fill in, while running your little business. It's honourable work. I used to get housekeeping due to disability and I valued a good housekeeper, and they were always respected.
Most of sad guys just need a good man by their side also. You know.. 😂
They hate women so why are they obsessed with us???
They love being entitled to us!!!!I saw a video all the males were whining and crying that women aren’t sleeping with them 💁♀️
Exactly!!!
@@isabella6075Those are not men, just little boys and on behalf of men we do not claim them.
Better they get sugar daddies then
7:45 THAT is the core of it!!!
If he actually likes you, he'll actually act like it, and treat you like you really deserve!
Instead of crap way he treats you, because THAT is how he actually feels about you!
When he treats you like crap, it's because he doesn't give a crap about you!
Period
Yes, but mostly no! A good person doesn't abuse no matter if he likes his woman or not. It is not the responsibility of the woman to be likeable to be treated with respect!
He Treats his gf\wife like crap because he doesn't like HIMSELF.
@@sarahlpwBecause he doesn’t like himself AND he doesn’t like her. I seriously doubt that should the day come that he likes himself he’ll stay.
Because what men do is look at the person they could get when they had nothing as less than the type of woman he can get once he’s built up his esteem and his bank account.
@@sarahlpw yeah that too
@@sarahlpw oh absolutely!
If he doesn't like you, that's all the reason you need to leave!
A lot of these guys try to convince a girl he's only joking or pranking her for funnsies and there's something wrong with HER if she doesn't like it and laugh along!
NOPE!
It's not her sense of humor that's the problem!
It's his!
I think there's a second conversation to be had about not wanting to work a low-paying, no-benefits job in our hypercapitalist system, but yes - in this case letting pride dictate whether you can earn some extra money to support your family is really selfish and irresponsible.
Western countries aren’t capitalist - they’re mixed economies. Also a lot of jobs provide benefits: you just have to work longer than a year, and full-time.
@@artistrg3487 I agree with the second half of your comment but saying that (especially) western countries aren't inherently capitalist is nuts.
Yessss
In most instances there is never an excuse not to take a job if that job is the only one you can get and are qualified for.
Some money is better than no money. Who is going to pay the bills while they wait around for a job that is “good enough” for them? Not me. Not ever.
Getting on the first stepping stone is better than standing still.
If someone told me they wouldn’t work a job based on the principle of “low paying no benefits in a capitalist system” I’d laugh long and laugh hard…but only after I ran so fast in the opposite direction all they’d see is the dust from my high heels.
A good paying job isn’t going to just “pop up” for a person like that.
A lot of people with degrees (depending upon the degree) but no work experience (at all) find it tough to find employment after graduating.
And who can blame those employers. I don’t want to hire an entitled person with little work ethic for my team either.
Because that’s what it looks like to employers.
Bye. Just. Bye.
@@deejames1st I agree, Ive done some shoddy stuff to get by until a better job came along. This person has a baby on the way? And he is still not being urgent about it ……. 🚩
Your partner calling you bro unironically = 🚩
Won't work at McDonald's until something better comes along, but will make his baby momma work 3 jobs...
Unfortunately this young lady will probably have another baby with this dude… we as women need to hold ourselves accountable. No way I would be arguing with a grown man about getting a job
let's not curse her like that. hopefully her putting this online means she's seen the light
Some women will watch this content, smile, nod, and continue with their actions. Its the definition of insanity.
Exactlyyyyyy I don’t feel bad at all
I think caring for the child is taking accountability
she’s obviously struggling through the process of dismantling her own patriarchal conditionings while clearly reaching out to the internet for support, it would have been just as easy for you to leave a comment of support. we are all worthy of our chance to wake up from the nightmares we once thought were our dreams.
I am so relieved women are realizing that we do not mother grown “men”, our care and nurture for a “child” should be for OUR CHILDREN. No more mothering, no more community service and no more volunteering! I love you girlies, you all have my support! 💖✨
Maraming salamat Elle for sharing your knowledge, bless you gorgeous and Happy AAPI month! 🇵🇭
This reminds me of the time my ex’s brother sent me a video saying that more men than women drop out of college because women can now also study. Apparently men can’t handle seeing women on campus and in class…
No on campus or in class, is thats most women are Best students in all carrers... Always.
Is funny how men bring engenieer and Say men are better there ans then You check and out of top 5 bst student 1 is a woman and the class has 45 students 😅 hahahahahaha
I thought they were smart, if 98% of the class are men and still one woman is top 5, isnt that prooving My point ?
I've heard similar things, where men no longer pursue higher education. Now women are filling those roles, and now more women than EVER are pursuing a higher education
Something that is very uncomfortable to discuss for many is that historically a large portion of these types of men would be sent off to die in battle. In the US the promise of an 'indian princess' waiting out west for them was advertised to get them to go west. These types must go forth and conquer and ruin somebody's life and if they happen to knock somebody up and strike gold and bring that back to their home town then good for them, right. At one point having aggressive and violent men was pure defense against the village next door who wants to raid your stuff and kill you, but now they are a looming danger to everyone.
@internetmachine Yes!!! Everything started getting worse when men didn't like the 4B movement-- proclaiming they won't protect us anymore.
They DID NOT LIKE that unanimous answer of "y'all have NEVER protected us, women protect each other first and foremost".
'Men haven't been long suffering protectors, they just liked to choose to level of violence they are comfortable with exposing you to."
This! The idea was brought home to me in my 20's when I read "The Gate To Women's Country" by Sheri Tepper. Spoiler alert - basic premise is that aggression is gradually being bred out of males.
This! I am understand that male loneliness pandemic is sad. But blaming women as a whole for that is bad move for men 😂😂
Funny how fast they went from “fatherless” to “you did this!”
@@alwaysyouramanda LOL! Right!
Yeah these men have been programmed to think women owe them everything for nothing
I feel so bad for women n girls who have to deal with losers like this😕
Highly contraceptive example of a crappy couple. That poor child. I grew up with fighting parents CONSTANTLY ever since I can remember over money. My relationship with money is pure trauma. I don’t know why ppl think it’s a good idea to have kids when it’s beyond expensive. Just delusional
I always say I'm not beneath ANY job. I may have preferences, but financial responsibility comes first. If you NEED money, check ur ego at the door and take care of business
First, I’m so thankful this comment section is a safe space for women. I was on the comment section in Tom Bileyu’s podcast with his wife and I was completely disgusted by all the BBMLEM in the comments believing they are entitled to women. Second, Elle you are killing it with these videos!! It genuinely makes my day better. Thank you.
@chronometer9931 Boy BYE!
@@chronometer9931 Cry harder...lol
@tayla3934 Yes!!! I The people under her videos that are actually discussing, are great!
Yes, we have a bunch of trolls to ignore; but the support, information sharing, and comradery is incredible! ☀️😍💖💖
@@user-gu9yq5sj7c Hi, yeah it’s just really disheartening to see negativity from people like that knowing they lack empathy and trying to suggest otherwise is like fighting a brick wall :/ and bbmlem is below bare minimum low effort men.. it’s just a term Elle uses quite often and I didn’t type it all out
what was the name of the video?
The man not stepping up for himself and for his family is the key. My Aunty had this experience where he moved IN to HER HOUSE, lost his job, didn't want a job and would fail the interviews. HIS kid from another marriage, not hers, would stay also once a fortnight. He is disgusting
Is your still with him?
@@52sreshtasamanvitha15 No. She dumped him three years ago and he made it very hard on her when she kicked him out. He used all the money in the shared bank account and took her furniture, but he is gone for good. Be safe
My favorite is when I dated a guy who shamed me for wanting to apply to end school (he knew before it was my intention) because the best mothers stay home, but then also weaponized me not owning a home or “accomplishing anything” like him as a consequence of being 10 years younger and having been in school. He even said because I had less money I couldn’t theorize about parenting. You see it’s all about power.
@loveswintertrees Yup!! We are no longer betting our entire lives not being wasted, because a dude wants to sleep with you the rest of his life.
Our well-beings are not resting on whether a fickle man is attracted to you till he dies.
My favorite thing is men saying they're the prize while at the same time complaining that they don't want to work anymore because what's the point of anything when women are not interested in relationships anymore?
My friend, you CANNOT be the prize if your will to live depends on women's validation.
This reminded me of when my now married sister was about to get married and she was searching how to be a good wife(we don’t date here)and she told me a good hack that she found is to ALWAYS make sure that u make your husband feel good about himself, always act like you NEED him as this is what men like because of their “provider, instance”
I didn’t think much of it as I don’t subscribe to her preferred style of relationships any way but I think it’s very interesting to know that women have always acted weak and needy to keep men’s self-esteem up.
where u from ?
So essentially, toddlers.
Ironically you don't have to ACT like you need the man when you found a very well-rounded, mature, physically strong and reliable man -- because the moment something slightly inconvenient happen, I am calling him! 😂
No you....make him better and he makes you better...at the same time
You should always hold him accountable and he should do the same 😭
On the street you couldn’t work for McDonald’s, that’s beneath you. But in prison mop the chair for a dollar, this shit is lethal.
I worked in a supermarket for 8 months when I was between jobs and I won't lie when people I knew saw me I could see how they looked down on me and I was embarrassed.
But I believe in being the change I want to see and I always speak of my jobs with pride and you know what? I added to my savings and pension while I was there and smoothly got into a better job
Gratefulness pays double❤
I had a second job as a pizza delivery driver and I saw some people I knew, and I refused the instinct to tell them about my “better” job. I want to resist that shame internalized in me. It’s actually a really chill enjoyable job, and I can listen to music and drive around on nice days, and I get paid. It isn’t shameful. Plus, pizza discount lol. I want to live in a way where I don’t shame others either for doing what they need to do to get by.
"I won't lie when people I knew saw me, I could see how they looked down on me" - I never understood why people feel the need to look down on others during a low-point in their lives.
Things happen and people have to make do with what they have. I've been there. It isn't pleasant but we do what we have to do.
@@jazwhoaskedforthis Pizza guys are the best! They can drive, they have a stable income and pizza discount.
Would be well pleased to date a pizza guy!
This is a hot topic. I remember when I had my account on Tinder, there were a lot of men who were pitiful, they were broke or unemployed, involved in some scam stuff. And they all tried to find the perfect one who will almost “lick their toes and say how great they are, how talented they are”. It was embarrassing to see.
This is one of the reasons why I will never fully rely on men. Because enough of them are pretty jealous when a woman is more successful than they are, and they can easily mistreat her.
I would never ever date a man who would deny to provide for my family, kids. He can take his stuff and leave
Agree! If he refuses to step up and provide for the family and look after his wife and children then why do we need this kind of hassle as women?!
Another note if women aren't necessarily a prize or status then why on Earth are they plastered on magazines and advertisements with a fancy car or sports stuff or anything extra expensive that entices a man to buy something - there is an attractive woman with said item?
@@user-gu9yq5sj7c if men were "the prize" then gay strip clubs would make more money than regular strip clubs. a strip club is one of the most extreme expressions of how a woman has an ability to pull money out of a mans pocket without saying a word or even touching him, she has invisible gravity that a man simply does not have and it makes a beautiful woman a prize for a man. but women dont have any strength to speak that which burns like a fire, that is what men have and that is what makes men a prize to women. whenever i read the opinions of the supreme court justices, there is a sharp contrast between the way they write, and its not along partisan lines. for anyone thats into law, go try and read some ketanji jackson right now. just lmao and wtf have we done to this society
The dusty arguing with his baby mama in the car was starting to age me through the screen! Lord have mercy! Girl, you’re way better than me. That man couldn’t get so much as a “Good Morning” from me, let alone a whole relationship and baby 😮
I found out this week that my cousin is in a WhatsApp group with his friends to gossip about another man who is a big liar 😂 they love a gossip.
Yes, they do, but pretend not to.
Everytime you upload a video I RUN to see it alone and I am just generally very happy. Thank you for your work you helped me improve so much ❤❤
Thank you too bestie 😭😭
Same girl!!! I'm always waiting for your vedio!! Even watched your previous one's multiple times@@therealmanifestelle
@@therealmanifestellesame girl, I always wait for your vedio!! And even watched the previous one's multiple times 🥺!! Loooobbbb you girl!!!!
bro ain't it be more embarrassing to be unemployed while my girl is working, he ain't making excuses because his ego hurt, he's just lazy
and she has the baby on top of that...
@@milkbread5036 the shame I would feel, I rather go and stay at a red light so I can wash some strangers car for some cash than being at home doing nothing and being taken care of by my baby mama like I’m the baby
“They recycle the the hurt, the disadvantage, the abandonment they were dealt as children.”
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For them, gossiping is "networking" 🤣
I almost wish that us woman could take a Sharpie and write BBMEM on their forehead so that the rest of us can see him coming.
Would it be illegal to make a Pininterest where women could that very thing?
I feel so sorry for that couple's child :( I hope the mother has a strong support system in place because it's clear the father is not reliable.
Introduced my bestie to you and we both love you sm your content changed my life and raised my self esteem sm i hope you have a lovely day 💕
🥹besties 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
My last boyfriend had a job for six months out of the seven years we were together. He lived off me the entire time. And for the six months that he actually had a job (PART TIME), he kept getting mad at me for wanting him to spend the paycheck on our bills instead of on video games for himself. Kept saying that it was HIS money, and he should be allowed to spend it however he wants. He seriously saw our financial dynamic like I was his mother and he was my teenage son with his first summer job. He was older than me, btw. lol
How on Earth did you stay with him for 7 years?
Doesn’t want to work yet _still_ managed to con a woman into risking her _life_ to bear a child for him.🤦🏾♀️ These dudes have neither the education nor the skills to do the jobs that they feel _so_ entitled to.😒🙄
My ex husband. He was too good for everything while I was putting in the long hours while pregnant, while we had a newborn and toddler. Now he lives like a bum while I’m making over $200K. Oh.. and he has an ivy degree that I paid for 😣
You are way better than he will ever be hun❤
Seeing these women with below bare minimum men makes me sad for them.
It also makes me appreciate my wonderful husband that goes above and beyond everyday. I have no problems making dinner, and bringing him tea, making sure his clothes are clean. Because I know he does the same things for me.
I was sick as a dog this past winter, he made sure our place stayed clean, made us dinner everyday for over a week. He is such a kind and hard working man and deserves all the love I have.
Men need to know that it’s easy to get a good partner if they themselves are good partners. I know most men are capable people and can get so much more out of life if they work on themselves and pour into the people around them ❤
Can u talk about these low preforming men who think their average when they are below
Well that's the thing. They want to lower what is considered average so that they, with little to no effort, can technically be above average.
I really dislike the "if he liked you he would" narrative. If you were good enough he'd be kind to you. Not true. A man is good to you and makes your life easier BECAUSE HE'S A GOOD MAN. Not because "he actually likes you".
I get your point, i think based on my understanding men treat you better when he likes you whether he's a good man or not. So as women you should be with people who like you as a precaution.
It's not about you being good enough or not. It's about the way he sees you.
You could be the ripest, sweetest strawberry in the world, but if someone doesn't like strawberries or is even allergic to them, he will not value you.
That’s not the point of this advice, the point is not to strive to be liked to be treated better, or that you don’t deserve to be treated better as a human right, it’s to dispel any illusions, (that himself could be spewing onto you), that he likes you when he treats you like shit, because a lot of women will stay in abusive relationships because they believe they are loved, that the guy just has some issues of his own but he does have her best interests at heart and how could you turn your back on somebody that loves you so much? Etc, etc… When this type of behavior is an indictment of a lack of seeing you as a fully realized human being, there’s no liking you and simultaneously abusing you. Yes, he is also not a good person for this type of behavior, it is about character, but that’s beside the point, but you can add “he doesn’t like you + he’s not a good person” if you want
I really appreciate the saying, "if he wanted to, he would" expression. I've been hearing it more lately and it's an eye opener. Concepts that are so simple, yet when you're in a long relationship, and you kept rationalizing his behavior for years, thinking you should cut him some slack on this and that, but failing to see that, well, if he wanted to, he would. You didn't need to rationalize all the getting the short end of the stick. You were being played.
You're right about good men getting ick from losers.
I'd probably get banned if I repeated what my husband says about them. 😄
My brother literally makes less as a mechanic than he would at McDonalds but his pride refuses him to make the switch.
No kids, no girl, lives at home with mom, car not even under his name…. He’s 38.
“Then YOU go work at McDonald’s.” She’s not the one out of work, dude. 🤣 so McDonald’s is beneath his dignity, but being unemployed isn’t? Excuse you? 🤦♀️
My loser father relies on my mother to make money to make ends meet, and he resents it that she's successful which makes him look like a loser. Then both of them tell me to do the same thing, get with a loser and dominate that loser, according to them, it's good because my loser husband will 'listen to be in everything'.
this dude make everybody suffer for his PRIDE
If you're not ready to work in McDonald's when the times are tough don't have kids, like at all.
When they start calling you ‘bro’ … 🙄🙄🙄 over
My bf started as a grocery bagger in high school and was a GM with the same grocery chain less than 10 years later. I went back to college in my late 20's and worked at starbucks on the side for their scholarships. Was it a huge hit to my ego? Absolutely. Did I do it because it needed to be done. Absolutely. He's not too good for McDonald's. McDonald's is too good for him.
motherfestelle is feeding us really well this week😩😩🙏🙏
HAHAHA LOVE THIS!! I’ve been eating good 😭
Embarrassed to work at McDonald’s but not embarrassed to be a jobless bum that can’t take care of his innocent, defenseless, hungry children? Babies that didn’t choose to be HIS children? There is no word for how sad and gross and enraging that was to listen to.
The bar for men might be low but the bar for your videos keeps getting higher and higher 💅🏻 You should consider making a video on the rise of AI girlfriends and the market for fembots/sex robots - might be an interesting video.
I wonder how are they going to pay for their sex robots if they don’t work 😂
Yes I would love to hear her thoughts on the porn industry
I somewhat look forward to male bots. A.I boyfriends already exist.
Hearing stories like this makes me so grateful for my spouse. When we had money trouble and he was the only one working, his first suggestion was that HE get a second job rather than ask me to work. I didn't let him do that, obviously I went out and got a job so I could help, but we don't even have kids and his first thought was to take more of the burden onto himself. I can't imagine tolerating someone who wouldn't even work to support our children.
Had an ex who needed help with his resume, me driving him everywhere since he had no car, no license and no job.
He even ended up being violent. Women, run from these lowlifes, you can do better
My ex always worked part time jobs and I had to push him to ask for full time pay from his boss, despite the amount of hours he works a week. Now he gets paid for 35hrs/week no matter what and all he had to say to me was that he "didn't care about the money". No nice thank you message or anything. I'm done pushing for bare minimum things.
@@moastray5093 He didn't work more hours, just ended up getting paid more. I'd hardly call that against their will. Besides, being in a committed relationship requires both people to pull their weight, not have one partner take advantage of the other financially because they are too lazy to work.
I worked at McDonalds from 16-19 putting myself through college. Would I have rather been an artist, a muse, or have any other high paying job? Yes, but sometimes you have to use the thing in front of you as a stepping stone to something better. If you can skip to the top of the pyramid, it's always worth a try but if you can't, work at McDonald's until you can take another step up, then another step up, and another step up.
This dude who makes tiktok about working at Papa John's is hella talented and passionate when he is making pizza. A commentor asked him :" Aren't you wasting your talent away working at Papa John's?" . He made a tiktok, in response to the question. He said :" I've worked here for 4 years. This job got me through college. I could pay for my college tuition, buy my first car, BECAUSE of this job". And I thought :" Wow, he doesn't have an ego. He genuinely is thankful for this job".
There is nothing wrong with working at Mc Donalds.
If you started working there early 20s and worked hard, you could move into management. Upper management makes 6 figures.
Almost everyone starts at or near the bottom.
Women are status or men wouldn’t brag to their friends about the pretty girl they are dating…
I am genuinely curious what is so bad about working in Mc Ds ? We now disrespecting people for their jobs ?