Hey Steve: Forgetting the Ex-Wife || STEVE HARVEY
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ย. 2024
- After his wife went behind his back, he divorced and is trying to move on - but can’t stop comparing women to her. What can he do to move on?
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Its gonna be a long awkward drive home I can tell ya that.
Right😂😂
Oh boy you are so right 😂😂😂😂😂
I know right
They took a plane
Shamar Thompson 🤣🤣🤣
My wife was my friend for years. She seen me go through hard relationships. Always was there. I always thought she was attractive but I never thought of her in that way until one day I realized that I liked her and she felt the same way.
U weren't attracted to her period. Ppl that friends for yrs etc... ain't into each other ...its only until nothing left or they alone ..they look see who left.
Fabulous I always thought she was pretty. Smh. It’s plenty people that are afraid to say something. Smh speak for yourself.
Fabulous and I wasn’t lonely by far
Wife and I were in separate states, both found each other attractive but when one was ready the other wasn't. We finally gave it a shot after about 3 years. 10 years and 2 kids later we still rocking.
Sir, you are telling lies, you have always loved your wife and i am happy for you. I have been down that road as well
They say the best marriages have a foundation of friendship. I hope it works out. They seem like they would be a good couple.
Wife and I were friends for 3 years in separate states. Finally gave it a shot, 10 years and 2 kids later we still rocking.
So true
Me and my ex were friends 2 years, decided to date, marriage did not work out. This is not always true. Takes more than just seeing them as a friend.
I love your positivity ! All the way from Eritrea , East Africa !
@@kalMHe
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Steve is a mad instigator hahaha... love you steve
No Steve please don't talk them into this! It's better they stay mutual friends forever than to start what will destroy them forever please don't accept this offer just go there and eat Food and stay friends forever!
Be honest and promise each other if you don’t feel the same to still be friends and you guys might be even closer!
"Bring them back, bring them back, bring them back" (crowd chants) he needs to prove he was honest
There’s one person in this “friendship” who’s not being honest about their feelings..but let the date be the eye opener both of them have been waiting for
Girl, I want a update... Steve read him so good!
Yes, indeed.
they ain't gonna need 2 beds no mo'
It's the lady
Right!!
Wow she went on a cruise with someone else while married.. Jesus people so evil. Just let me go and move on don’t play. So sad
What are you trying to say 😏😏
The Nightmare don’t go on a cruise with someone else while ur married. Make sense?
Yes, indeed. No need to be misery with someone when you can be miserable all by yourself.
I agree with Divine Rae.
K W 😎
SWEETIE...THREE SIDES TO A STORY...MY SIDE...YOUR SIDE & THE TRUTH!!!
How to kill a perfectly good friendship 🙄
Dibab why ruin a good friendship if they don’t like each other. Now its awkward when y’all run into each other.
@@G0Girt true
i dont believe in men and women beings friends only. neither does he
Right?! This was dumb
@Dibab i totally agree. We all would kill a friendship for love. U honest. Friendship is a beautiful thing but love is life.
I love this man ! I have been watching him for 2 days now , can not stop laughing . He is so blessed .
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Right??😊😉
I Too, Love this Man!! I Watch him, Every Afternoon, and At Night, before I Fall Asleep.
I Work, the Overnight Shift, and when I Come home, I'm Still very much Wired from Work, and I'm Always Watching a "Steve Harvey Show", on TH-cam, before I go to Sleep, for the Day!!😊😄😃😉
I Too, Cannot Stop Laughing.
This Man, I So Very Blessed, I Agree!
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Me too, I just started like within a week and now I’m stuck here hahahaha
“Just tell me that you thought of it”. Right there Steve broke him down. I think they need to be honest to each other.
@T C no, I think he really wants this girl that's sitting next to him... The problem is, she's looking at him as just a friend , he doesn't want to get his feelings hurt.
He’s not that into her. And she’s not into him. Besides. He needs to heal and work on himself
He’s only been divorced a year. He needs another 12 months to himself first
I think Steve missed the point...the break up being a blessing has nothing to do with what's in his head... Sounds like he needs to clear his mind completely of that EX before he starts trying to be with someone else. Because eventually that exes name is gonna come out his mouth IF she is in the back of his mind. AND that's not gonna sit well with the new lady 🤐🤐🙄
So true.. he definitely needs healing... I was just like that after me and my ex broken up and I thought something was wrong with me because I could not not not say his name even if I were around my family and friends... his name always kept popping up to the point I kept calling my friends and family members his name... that's how you know the love that you had for that person was genuine.... but I so agree with you he's gonna need a whole HEAP of time... to get her out of his head first and foremost and then heal... like I did... you rarely hear stories about men getting cheated on... I'm glad he realizes that he needs time... but that doggone it Steve Harvey! Lord Jesus... tryna push something that he obviously cannot give to his "friend" until his head, heart, mind, body, and soul is clear.
hate to say it, but it seems like men don't take time to be alone.. they move on to the next person to help them get over last situation.
It also sounds like his ex broke up with him...which is also why he's still thinking about her.
This is why it is a blessing. His ex is causing him to chose another route without her knowing it herself.
@@dbigtime10bt but Is he really choosing another route if the Ex is still in his head 🤷🏽♂️? Seems like he is still emotionally stuck on her - or can't get over how she made him feel
being a good friend does not always translate to good lover....and does not translate sexually. they are just friends , the girl does not look happy at all........
But she was clapping and smiling. A man doesn't need to be told this, he should have realised a long time ago that the person who makes him happy is her and can be forever her if he makes the move. The lady is excited.
We cannot tell but I think they're just friends
Not “they” she thought that the guy is her friend but he was thinking about her that’s why he laughed
@@AkireMaru you hit it right on the head. Guarantee you HE didn't propose the idea of splitting a room. Shes giving him every opportunity and he won't take it. Come on, what woman is sharing a room with a guy that shes not interested in (unless she thinks he's just not into women period).
@@AkireMaru exactly Marriott isn’t cheap or the flights
Steve is right. Sometimes you are looking for someone and that person can be right in front of you.
Yup, hidden in plain sight :o)
I hope they find the truth in their love for each other. She's stunning and he's clearly a great guy!
When u view a friend as brother or sister, it's hard to get them out of that zone. My guy friends are handsome, but they're like brothers to me. Nope, can't do it 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
luvmifro1003 hurts like hell
I have such a Male friend as well. We have known each other for quite a long time and we have really been good friends and recently he told me that he loves me and he always had feelings for me. I was confused for a second, but eventually I just told him that I can't love him more than a friend. It's really hard to say.
@@saartiaipinge7347 I don't know you or that guy, but I have had that experience, and that's worse than you all just telling us no! Poor guy; but if you don't love him, you just don't love him.
Honestly wish every girl thought like that
Dream on, i am sure one of them would really love to have more than just a friendship with you.
sometimes break up is a blessing. true
why cant they be just friends!!!!
LVNCSR no such thing
Merely looking at them it was clear they were trying to suppress their feelings. I have a friend I like, whose been rocking with me for the longest and all our friends think we have something going we just keep saying we are just friends but we both know what's up, we are just not ready for it. Also the fear is usually because we don't wanna lose the friendship in an event that the dating doesn't workout
@@trammietrapgorilla5011 yes, there is actually such a thing. My best friend/brother is s male. I've been friends with him for 25 yrs. We met when he was a friend of an ex bf's mom. It's never been sexual, we've always just hung out. I don't have a relationship with my brother, and my bestie is the brother I picked for myself. He isn't too close to his siblings either (his brother and sister have addiction issues, so he wants no part of it Also they say that you have the family you were born into, and the family you pick for yourself).
So, in closing, yes. It is possible to have a best friend/friend with a member of the opposite sex.
@@David-lh5hx me too. My best friend/brother is a male as well. He has been more solid and shown more loyalty to me than my own brother. I call him "my brother from another mother", because he truly is ❤️❤️
My husband and I were friends for 7 years before we started to date. We didn't talk on the phone or hang out often so it wasn't apparent just how much of a bond we had until we hung out for an entire day.
Maybe they're really just friends and they don't like each other like that🤷
Maybe
Yea...naw
With them snickerish laugh ohohoho no they have something
Lol Steve was like “Listen Benjamin!!!” 🗣🗣
*faint* 😄😄😄😄😄
we be looking for something we dont have and dont realise it's right there in front of you.
you better PREACH Steve.
Best friends in most cases have the best relationships. They pretty much know everything about each other. No surprises, no having to learn who he or she really is, because they know each other. I know of relationships like that, they turned out beautiful and longterm.
True
He trying to get someone's feelings hurt. These are usually one sided feelings.
"Sometimes the breakup is actually the blessing,"
--Steve Harvey
If someone did this with me and my best friend, I’d get mad. I’m pretty sure he would too. After a long day we can’t wait to part ways and go home... but we love each other, just not like that.
Sometimes we can't get out of the friend zone 😢
Awesome way to ruin a friendship and make it hella awkward Steve 👏🏾👏🏾
I know right
People gotta realize hes a comedian. And guests know that. Hes not a therapist.
Wasn’t necessary just respect their friendship uncle Steve
Yeah a guy and girl can be just friends. But to be honest, it's harder if you find the girl physically attractive. I can be friends with a lady if I am not physically attracted to her lol..it's a lot harder if she's beautiful. I like beautiful women.
Right? Some people are just better as friends.
See thats why i love Mr.Steve Harvey..i cant get enough of what he says..his thoughts his opinions..ESPECIALLY how he treats HIS WIFE ❤ cant go wrong with that ...ALSO the way he puts himself together 👌👋👋👋..💋 from CORPUS CHRISTI, TX
Don’t force things Steve, I have a lot of make friends and that’s ALL that there is.
Solja88 exactly
What will you do if one of them wants more than a friendship
That! I had the feeling he may have ruined that beautiful friendship they seemed to have
Solja88...sometimes a man need this sort of advise to give his urine direction...
Chew that till they get back from da date...
From them choose the best friend and make him your love.
Steve let us know how that date went!
Yes, indeed.
I think they are genuinely just friends. But then again, who knows!!! That date & a honest conversation may reveal some feelings. Either way HAVE THEM COME BACK FOR AN UPDATE‼️ lol
What are you doing Steve!!? They are friends, don't mess up their friendship!
Didn’t he say he was seeing someone in the beginning? 😅
I love Steve. He is so therapeutic for me.
How many times does the guy have to say "NO I've never thought of it" he could be telling the truth maybe she's not his type and he really only sees her as his friend strictly. 🤷🏽♂️
I agree
Cause dude is lying, he thought of her more then just a friend. You know if y’all sleeping in the same room, someone is gonna hop in the other bed 😂
@@mikejeezy06
The guy said he didnt hop into her bed and didnt even think about it.
Is it possible that he only sees her as sister? Do you really think that all men operate this way that every man will want to have sex with all or any woman just because she's next to him or enclosed in 1 room?
Do you not believe that most men have a type that they are strictly attracted to and that some men wont sleep with a woman who doesnt resemble what he's naturally attracted to?
I personally believe what this man has said more than once, which is that he's not into her like that!
Some men do have standards.
soluvlyxoxo I didn’t say that he did, I said that he thought about it. Thinking about it and doing it are two different things.
And I didn't say he did either lol
My whole thing here is why is it so hard to believe that he doesn't want to or has thought about having sex with his friend.
But what if she's not interested in him either?
Rich and Francesca Arriola Obviously not.
This was disturbing
Why would she elect to come on this trip and split a room with this man? Come on. She wants to make an opportunity for him but he won't do it. Even Steve see whats going on which is why he grills him on why he hasn't tried to get physical. Steve literally telling this dude to stop being stupid and approach her because she's into him.
@@geremymason5936 Exactly.
Man! STEVE You get em EVERY time!!!These are my most proud moments to be named Steve!😂🤣😂🤣
He’s so handsome! And seems so kind hearted and sweet.
Steve too damn much 😂
Yes, indeed.
Steve whatchu doing on the floor. 😂😂😂😂. Uncle Steve yow 😂😂😂.
The break up is actually the blessing! Best thing Steve ever said. So true!
Steve is a star
Break up is a blessing.Thank you again Mr Harvey.
Anna Maria 😎
SWEETIE...YES IF THEIR A LOSER ETC....KEEP IT MOVIN G 💃NEXT🏃
KNOW YOUR SELFLOVE & SELFWORTH 💕
Their friendship seems legit though nothing guarantees they'll be happier as a couple.
Steve, we need good men as friends also!!!! Shame on you 😂
doesn't exist
tigs93 you’re saying you all are really wolves and dogs!!?? No good men!’🙄
@@onychahunter1213 there's plenty of good men, but they dont just want to be your friend.. and if they are, they are straight lying to you
Know woman men are not to be your friend just to be your brother father and husband know shame on you not steve because G_d told us so,lm.jewish and black this is the very reason why she didn't what G_d create this world you people stupid and refuse to understand something and think you are right trying to convince yourself to be right.in Judaism women are not even allow to teacher a man or sit with them time after time.go read the right book that was given to you and your kind stop been stupid,men we are nothing we pray we teacher we take care of our wives and do everything she ask of us without complain only this exist for us in the material world nothing more.
Alex young ha well I had 4 kids with a white man and I’ll stick with them
I think its important to know the difference from friends and romantic friends with potential of becoming serious. I know a lot of guy friends that just don't cross that line and Im ok with that. I know a guy and a girl can start something new for simply being male and female. But in some cases its ok and normal not to want to date everybody who is just ok with being in your corner and nothing else. We need more people like that in our lives. When I was hurting from a broken relationship years ago, I will never forget this one guy in high school who held my hand sort of speak and kind of nurtured me back to my old self, wanting to have fun. And that was it. No relationship developed. When your hurting, we assume sleeping with somebody eases the pain, it just makes it worst. So if the two on Steve are just friends then they understand that. Sometime being just friends works a whole lot better than getting too deeply involved. You loose the great friendship when you do. Great story
I’ve been in this situation before where I can swear up and down that we were friends yet we had something else going on. So I think Steve knows what he saying
Peki! It seems that he is not over it and feels bad for the breakup maybe as he stated things didn't workout the way he wished. Now Steve didn't miss his point yet apparently he realised he needs to be helped being detoured on his attention direction as in how can he look around and give it a better notice.
There's always a reason why someone leaves you and I agree with Steve that sometimes break ups are blessings and an opportunity to start anew.
Steve!!! we need a follow-up on this one!!!!
Thanks uncle Steve for making this whole trip awkward. I bet he regretted asking that question 😂
This is HELLA AWKWARD and I'm just watching the video. I feel so bad for them!!! I would not want to b in their situation!
Steve got me dying!! OMGGG he really put them on the spot but it makes for good TV!!
We need an update on this
I married my best friend. Go for it man
I just loved his show. What ever difference him & management had they should come back to to table for the sake of ratings & the adoring audience that truly needed what he brought to the table. Could someone put their ego aside & just let us have this one, please? Even at this late date, I’m sure people would return to see & be part of something great. 👋🙂
This must have a "Hey Steve Update", can't wait!
What a great way to make your point, Steve. So touching- the girlfriend........
Steve Harvey is clean. I love them shoes and suit.
Friendzone has killed more meaningful relationships than anything else
Timi Adetona facts 💯
This is very awkward. I would be highly upset if I was forced to date my bestfriend. This was not right at all
it's not that serious. chill out. best friends make the best relationships.
Forced?! Did you hear the part where he said “ do you accept my offer?” Benjamin is a grown ass man and could have said “no”. They got a free dinner. Calm down. 😒
@@aybeedoll83 do you see how kindhearted he is? Do you really think he will decline and embarrass her national tv? The analogy Steve gave for him to crawl into her bed is creepy and cause a breakup for their friendship. Some female and male friends are just ment to be just friends
@@aybeedoll83 😒Please tell me you did not see how awkward Steve made him feel??? He basically forced him to either take his offer or say no and embarass his friend and make it look like he was rejecting her. That's basically forcing him. Steve really didn't need to go that far.
He knows how Steve is. He went on his show and asked him a question. He gave Steve the ball and he ran with it. And I do agree he is a great person. But seriously they just need to go out and have a free dinner. Not that serious. People are so freaking touchy. Toughen up butter cup.
From Uncle Steve to Dr. Steve!
Yes Steve. Sometimes we look outside when answers are right in-front of us
Steve is a comedian first and foremost but he also has good instincts...so perhaps they will come back and share where it went from there.
I had to rewind to check.. he DID tell Steve he’s seeing someone..
I honestly feel like they were friends but both wanted to be out of the friend zone. That’s why she sat down. She was scared or embarrassed to admit her true feelings just like him. I think they deserve each other and would be a great, strong couple.
If he thought of her as more than that he wouldn’t have skipped over her and dated a new person after he left his ex. It’s wishful thinking but he clearly out Trish in the friend zone. And Trish is doing things that will cause her to remain in the friend zone.
Uncle Steve is the best!!!!!
Steve is so silly❤
I have a super super close male friend. We’re there for each other for everything…sometimes I wish I was attracted to him but I would be heartbroken if we had sexual chemistry and then didn’t work out and lost our friendship. It would never be worth it. Not every male/female relationship has to be sexual…sometimes it’s just two good people being there for each other and enjoying each other’s company.
Totally agree
Love me some Steve!! He's hilarious!😆😆
Yes!!! This made me tear up a little, I truly hope they made it.
Steve is as real as real gets.
Love you to the moon and back Steve.
If I were Trish, I would be offended. 😕
Why?
Hey Steve, your wisdom is out of this earth....LOVE YOU MANN
Benjamin is a dorky weirdo. And he keeps saying “recently” lmao. Boy a few years ago is NOT recent goofball 😂
Lmmfao 🤣
I like that Steve just said have a conversation and be honest and if that honesty leads them back to their original friendship, that's great and if it goes further than so be it. :)
wtf is steve doing? he explicitly said hes not into her several times then implied that he is stupid. very disrespectful and a violation of their boundaries. he didnt even give this man the advice he asked for.
His is an amazing man. I've been praying since childhood for a partner thats truly kind hearted and a kingdom partner.
Poda sunni
Sooooooo..... How does the date go!?
Magic TH-cam algorithm. My wife was a friend for 8 years before we started “being honest” and started dating. Today; we’ve been married for 4 years. I love how Steve switched this around.
Uncle Steve you are crazy funny!!!😂😂😂
This is the best Steve segment ever
Ahhhhh man!!!! I really love uncle Steve!!!! This is so sweet!!! And funny!!! I love you Uncle Steve
He needs to be honest with himself. Give himself time to heal. Moving on to a new relationship with old feelings can ruin things. After eight (8)yrs of marriage. It takes more than (1)yr to recover. Past pain can ruin ur future.
steve is too stupid to give this advice.
Amen.
never speak to her again. block her from all social media, remove all her pictures, remove her number. delete her old texts. hit the gym and eat healthier. travel. read masculine oriented material that will help develop mental and emotional strength and resilience. develop a new skill, competence, or goals and track your progress. develop male friends that you can hang out with. see a therapist. have a mission or purpose outside of women. think about what you did wrong or what you allowed during the relationship and fix it.
Steve's suit is beautiful 🖤
Steve you just annoyed the mess out of me. How you just run over them like that, especially HER?? IT'S NOT THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. My gosh!
How can you move on?????? SHE WAS ON A CRUISE WITH ANOTHER GUY GETTING HER BOAT ROCKED!!!!! That’s all the motivation you need to get over it.
I really want to bring my crush to Steve show😆
Lol!
Yep!
Steve will ask her out on your behalf, since you’re too shy to do it all on your own.😂
the matching socks with the suit
The secret is to stay alone forever 😁
What about her feelings, when she said just friends she didn't seem interested in anything more. Guess they'll have a good dinner on Steve and discuss the new girl in his life!
That's the kind of friend I want. One just to go out with and have a good time.
friendship cannot turn into a relationship by force! you might lose a lover and a best friend at the same time
Steve is a legend...
Steve knows how to kill perfect relationship
This clip is giving me life during the lockdown 😂😂
They both needed this!!!!
The never ending cycle...the pain...he wasn't the first and he sure won't be the last...
I think Steve is forcing something that doesn’t exist
You could tell Steve caught Trish in her feelings.