The singer-songwriter, her husband, Swizz Beatz, and his ex-wife Mashonda Tifrere, who wrote the book "Blend," discuss their difficult but ultimately joyous journey to co-parenting together.
Thank you , and look how alicia look just sittn in the middle of them but wuts cold is this an exact depiction of how she literally came between husband and wife smh 💔💔
I’m sorry....but as a veteran when I returned from tour my spouse had an affair and moved out before I got home.....was I destroyed? Yes I was....but he wasn’t happy....neither was I....he made a choice.....not the best time I agree but everyone deserves to be happy....anyway, 13 yrs later we have a great family....we have a 4 almost 5 yr old grandson....we don’t live close but I try to send pics to keep them, keeping them updated and enjoying him the best they can....it took my grandson to truly accept them....the more people he has to love him as well as my children, the better.❤️
O Overlyloved I agree....I hope she doesn't love too much that she loses her life as an appendage of her ex. I hope she is able to have a fulfilling new relationship to replace the hurt she went through. She deserves true love.
deharleyva @deharleyva ....hell no...I prefer she finds a new billionaire man who's kind and attentive to make up for all the wrong they did to her ...lol.
She need to love herself she look a danm fool, being cordial respectful has nothing to do with looking like a dummy sitting next to the two people that literally betrayed you. You can respect their union and for the sake of the kids you behave respectful towards other but as an ex I don't need to be a part of your blending family... have some self respect
Wow Mashonda is so wise and has a heart of gold. This makes her even more beautiful. What a great mother she clearly puts her kids first and doesn’t want them to experience the hostility she experienced with her parent’s divorce.
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That’s Alicia Keys and Swizz, would she try to make the relationship work for her kids if it was ordinary couple?????? And that’s only because Alicia allowed this 3some
Well according to Kasim, the marriage was dead way before he met Alicia. He also said he and Alicia never got physical until after he ended it with Mashonda.
@@kwametenkorang2019 I know. I'm just saying that according to him, his feelings for Mashonda had long dissipated before Alicia came into the picture, cheating or not.
The hardest thing in the world is to take your hurt and insecurities out of a situation for the sake of living a better life for those involved. Cheers to them!
@@denisewilliams8708 it's not about money, it's about putting self to the side. I am a product of divorce and my parents did not display their angry, hurt or disappointment to me.
My parents divorced 13 years ago. I was only 10. My dad would always bring us breakfast before he picked me up on the weekends and ask my mom if she needed any extra money for the week. Seeing them still be friends (I’m sure they secretly wanted to kill one another) for the sake of us kids changed my outlook on divorce and how it doesn’t have to be the worst thing.
It doesn't have to be... the two people that is parenting children together should always be cordial but not with the new woman yea I get she is your wife and I can be cordial but we will never be friends...not in this circumstance
Now THIS IS EVIDENCE that African American women are capable of structured, positive, loving relationships and friendships!!! Congratulations you three. I LOVE IT
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Samoria Blackwood lol 😂 he’s into art! lol I mean that’s why I would like him 😆 he seems like he has matured a lot, and from his Instagram videos looks fun lol
It feels great to me. It shows emotional maturity , which includes a commitment to put the children in the correct position, which is first. I love it .
This feels right to me. You don’t have to be as close as they are they are obviously best friends I wish that I could just get along with my sons father that’s all they’re saying is get along for the children
One thing I know it's easier said than done but if a man don't want you if he's cheating on you baby the real strength and growth comes with the power to let him go inspite of how much it hurts you! Set that man free and watch & see who you will evolve and become!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽👏🏾🤗
Mashonda doesn't look better at all, she just has on a ton of makeup. Without makeup Mashonda is very average but at least she's not too dark skinned. Alicia Keys is choosing not to wear makeup which makes her look "regular" but still beautiful. Alicia doesn't need to impress anyone. She's got a loving husband, a beautiful family, and TONS of money!
@@tedtalk882 least she's not 'too dark'😑...wtf! get yo dumb no self worth colorist hatin ass tf up outta this comment section. Don't come under my comment with no stupid ass bullshit about complexion. Fck yo dumb ass opinion😑
I appreciate the fact that they were all able to be so open about a tough situation they faced as a family. I pray as a community we continue to normalize sharing our experiences and being able to walk with our heads high after hardship not shame.
It’s easy for alisha to sit in between them and agree nod and say everything is hunky dory but it’s all rashanda and her big mature steps that made it happen. I’m sure it’s hard pill to swallow. Good interview
People are here saying repulsive things regarding Alicia, when the very woman, they are cheering on- Mashonda, has graciously made PEACE with the ending of her relationship because she realizes how valuable and important it is for her son!!!! I applaud all THREE of them! They are ADULTS who can make a difference… Children doesn’t have to grow up to be dysfunctional or have a victim mentality, just because their parents are divorced. No!!! There’s another way… a healthier and happier way! 🦋🦋🦋
Well said, people would rather see them miserable together than happy apart. Makes no sense. No relationship is guaranteed to last forever. Maybe their love for each other was only supposed to be for a season. Clearly Swiss and Alicia love each other and Mashonda supports it.
@@alesiav.4114 Exactly…. People are here talking about Karma and all kinds of nonsense! LIFE OWES US NOTHING… some of us should consider ourselves very “fortunate” if the ending of relationships are the only pain they’ll suffer! There are so many other things in life that can go wrong…
Folks are entitled to their opinion, I don't understand what you mean by "people are saying repulsive things." Making public appearances that everything is dandy and sweet doesn't mean that's exactly what is going on behind closed doors. How many times have we watched celebrities including Presidents make public speeches not because they wholeheartedly meant it but because they were pressured to do it by their team? My mom use to say, "sometimes you can think you are so right about something when you are so wrong." The only word I trust is the word of God. Put not your trust in princes, nor in the son of man.
YAS! This interview which is so pure, plus the book they've written together, as well as the pictures they've shared spending time together over the years is MORE than enough evidence that they love each other, and are at peace with their past. ❤️❤️
When a man doesn’t love you anymore he just doesn’t love you anymore. And when you finally accept it and value your self worth, forgiveness comes easy.
What a WONDERFUL testimony. Only a matured person/believer can submit to the transformation of this. I was one who did and I praise God! So I applaud all 3 of you for your growth love and determination to be the parents and partners you have committed in your hearts to be. This is a GREAT example and it will witness and minister to many families and households to come. God-bless you all for sharing your testimony. Blessings/Care, LRC.
Funny how us women has to hold everything down and make peace out of a man's mistakes. Now when Mashonda gets a husband let's see swizz reaction to new daddy.
Not all men are bad. My boyfriend’s ex wouldn’t let him see his daughter, so he had to take her to court. But she’s always been happy to collect the maintenance. I know it takes 2 to tango, but some girls purposely get pregnant to bag the guy & for money. Then when the plan doesn’t work they use the child as a weapon. Then play the victim.
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THIS IS SO REFRESHING!!! what a great way, another way to show each other as 1 unit while having your own individual experience. The old paradigm is falling appart thank you!!!
@ Lauren L. )What’s to talk about when you’ve got two beautiful wives in a society that legally allows for one. I guess there are just too many uptight critics.
The ex is prettier than Mrs keys and she got to feel threatened. U would be know where near those. to cheating MF is I was the ex I would let them have the plate form and I would go get a life and let them have theres. We could co-worker parent but that were the line would be drawn, and Mrs keys that half a man that you have carma is coming to you one day and for me sooner than later. Shame.
@Beatrice Smith- Stfu! U sound like a jealous DARK skin ashy female. Mashonda doesn't look better, she just has on a ton of makeup. Alicia Keys is choosing not to wear makeup which makes her look "regular" but still beautiful. Alicia doesn't need to impress anyone. She's got a loving husband, a beautiful family, and TONS of money!
You can still do every bit of that....while the ex lives outside the home. Im sorry its just not right. To have an ex live inside the home doesnt set a good example for the children either. Not ok.
Wow! I’m just seeing this and am teary eyed! This is just simply beautifully amazing! I thought The Smiths were doing an amazing job being a blended family…. But you guys have definitely hit my heart with your story! If only so many others would be able to do this just imagine how great life would be! I am a witness of how being blessed with 2 moms is such an awesome experience! They both sharing the same Kleenex at my wedding almost 30 years ago! That’s a joy I’ll never forget! 😊🙌🏾
Mashonda doesn't look happy. She's putting on a smile (you know what a fake smile looks like) for the sake of her son. She asked Alicia to stay away from her husband. People forget Alicia was also Mashonda's friend before she started sleeping with Swizz. So, let's make it very clear that Alicia KNEW he was married with an infant on the way cuz she attended the baby shower. This whole blended family BS is a carefully constructed PR campaign to restore Alicia's image and reputation. She and Swizz have the power to destroy Mashonda in the press so she plays along for the sake of her child. Imagine being bestie's with the woman who stole the love of your life? Mashonda is still in pain and anyone with EYES can see it. Instead, they wanna pat Alicia and Swizz on the back like they doing Mashonda a favor. Alicia took everything from her. Swizz let his dream home with Mashonda go into foreclosure while she was still living there alone with their child. He didn't keep up the grounds, pool, tennis courts, nothing and she had to move. It was a very sad episode of Love & Hip Hop NY, season 1. So, do I wanna see the pics he and Alicia splash all over IG of their lavish lifestyle after the way Mashonda was treated? Mashonda is keeping the peace for her checks and to co-parent with Swizz. Deep down she could care less about Alicia. It's all for show.
Alicia seems very controlling and self important. I've gone off her and her music is very average always has been despite the fact she is brilliantly talented. The London based singer who has a daughter with Swizz Beatz is Zhanna Adrianova who is Russian. Apparently Alicia flew with Swizz to London for the maternity test. Zhanna and Swizz have a daughter Nicole Dean.
I love how honest she is about what happened in the process to the end point people see. It took work, anger frustration and putting there ego aside to get there. Well done!!
It’s kinda sad that we live in a society so full of NEGATIVITY! they are so mature for being able to put their differences aside and just be a family but bc it’s not “normal” for grown ups to be this mature in our day and age, there is no way this is real, right?. life is too short to be mad forever and just bc you arnt the type to be mature about it doesn’t mean they can’t be. If they are genuinely happy then so be it. Y’all always trynna tear people down, and for what!?
Kryshon Day they explained it in the video. For the kids, and they don't see themselves as ex husband and new wife, they are a family. What's wrong with us, smh
It’s beautiful that they’ve found a middle ground to all this and come together. There’s no use pointing fingers, Mashonda went through a lot even whilst she was with Swizz, at the end of the day it’s about the kids, it is a true blessing and truly beautiful to see strong black people come together and do it for their kids. There’s enough hate and jealousy in the world to be part of that negativity. So good on them for putting their own personal stuff aside yet still work on themselves and their feelings/relationship but also be positive and unite for their kids. More power to them👌🏾✊🏾
Amen!! This is the effort made by parents who've divided when they truly love & care about their children's well being to ensure their futures are as emotionally healthy as possible. Beautiful all the way around!!
You obviously hold hatred in your heart but understand you may be a child of divorce or someone who's been abandoned by a partner. I cannot judge anyone else's path in life or waste time & loving energy to belittle adults who rise above anger for the good of their children. I'll pray you find peace in your heart at sometime in life because hatred robs time & happiness you'll never regain.
Then you must be an immaculate being incapable of sin, who believes you have the power to cast judgement on anyone who does not believe like you. I could make assumptions about you but it's not worth the effort to argue with someone of restricted intellect. Believe what you believe & know God or your higher power is watching your actions towards others of differing views and will have you answer to them when it's your time to pass. Have a wonderful day!!
I seriously love the love they put out towards each other so respectively. This is the epitome of being true to your word as co parenting should be. Respectively respecting each other’s boundaries and loving all in the process. God bless this family truly always, I’ve always been a huge fan of Alicia and swizz’ love! They are truly inspiring even without having to be so glitz and glam! They are truly gods work of the love, soul mates and a very inspiring couple. God bless them and their family always 💖🙏🏽
The Difference mashonda is a true black women. With true black women issues. I do feel that Swizz beat still has love for Mashonda but Alicia has the money. Money rules black men.
THIS WOMAN KEY AIN'T NO DAM SUPER STAR SHE'S A SUPER HOM WREAKER AND THAT JIGGALO SHE'S WITH WILL LEAVE HER ASS AND GO BACK BEGGING HIS EX WIFE FOR FORGIVENESS AND ANOTHER CHANCE, ALL UNFAIR GAMES PLAY OVER,
@@ascent8487 she slept with her husband while they were together..as SOON As they divorced those two got married and had a child..sweetheart she stung the hell out of those pockets THATS why shes being so sweet.
the superstar is the first wife....she did it for her son...only a real mom who loves her son above her feelings does that...The man looks guilty as hell....
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MY DEAR YOUR HUSBAND DID NOT COME BACK ON HIS OWN HIS MIND WAS MESSED WITH, ALMIGHTY GOD HAVE HIS MIRACULOUS WAY IN DOING HIS WORKS, HIS WORKS IS SURE,
Because she's glad she got that toxic man out of her life but she still has to live for her children and let her children know look I'm okay with your dad being gone and you can go see him when he want when you want to and he can come over here and at least she's going to come over she's doing this for her children and I think it's shows that there civilized and I think it's wonderful
Mashonda is taking her pain and making it into money girl is smart she has ensured she has not loose out on any benefits in the end. Swizz n Alicia fame will bring alot of attention to her than she would get on her own. Life gave her lemons but she used those lemons to make her some nice lemonade. Mashonda is a smart business woman I'm sure she had other motives for also making peace with them. Happy for her
kim rock ... exactly personal growth... & at same time her kid isnt mentally fucked up or slighted on what he needs. People in these comments are too close minded to see that this is why the black family is so broken. Need to check they fam histories lots of big families had members who were derivitives of kinfolk no blood but the bond was real.
I'm sure Mashona is getting plenty of child support and is probably using her connection to Alicia and Swizz Beat to open doors for her. She's beautiful, smart and extremely articulate. I have a feeling that as beautiful and talented as Alicia is, she's actually a bit of a downgrade from Mashonda.
Such an inspiration!!!! So blessed !!! Thank God for your BLEND!! VERY BIG OF ALL OF YOU!!! ONLY WISH AND PRAY MORE PARENTS COULD DO WHAT YOU DO!! SO HEARTWARMING!!!!
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Adults that work solely together in the absolute Best interest of their child as co-parents is Awesome. Parents responsibility, actions and behavior towards their kid(s) during a separation can either empower or mess up a kids journey. Glad these 3 adults worked it out to benefit the kid. Blended takes on a whole new light when done Well✅
I have always felt like this. It's about the little people that didn't ask for the drama. However, with that being said, all adults involved have to be mature and open minded.
Is it me or am I the only one seeing this differently. If your spouse cheats on you with a person whom you know, knew you were married; then somewhere down the line decides to say “hey, let’s just forget the past and be a blended family”, I’m not to sure how healthy this idea is for the children. I’m sorry but I’m not buying the warm singing and bright smiles. This is how television manipulates and influences. There is nothing more powerful for a child to see than his or her BIOLOGICAL PARENTS honoring their vows and staying together till death due them part. This whole inspiring blended families idea is not normal and can give kids the wrong idea as to the commitments they are to make to those whom they marry. If I’m not mistaken, the story goes Alicia Keys stepped into Swiss and his ex wife’s marriage and helped tear their family apart. The ex wife was hurt by that for years obviously. Now they are playing this role of happiness, smiles and blended unity. No way am I buying this. If I cheated on my wife and she stayed bitter towards me behind it for years, of course I’m going to want her to eventually just accept what’s happened and move on. I’m the one who cheated. However, that doesn’t take away from how my infidelity effected her. I feel the ex has somehow now given in to Alicia and Swiss’s celebrity and has simply decided to enjoy the ride. But don’t get on national television and attempt to make what’s happened or happening in your family seem normal. The gullible may buy into this but those who are wise can see right through this. I do believe in unique situations husbands, ex and current wives coming together in harmony may work out or fall into place in a good way. But pretending it should be a norm is just not a good idea.
Ms. Oyeogbe exactly, unless they have some other kind of agreement going on between the three of them. If you know what I mean. But who knows. Just seems odd to me.
You’re right, there’s nothing normal about this because the norm is to pamper the anger and bitterness ABOVE the well being of the children. What happened was wrong. Dead wrong. Does that mean though that these couples should not move ahead and try to do better. You age, mature, live and hopefully learn. Forgiveness is powerful. We don’t know the personal conversations these people have had. I’m sure apologies and confessions and complete honesty and ownership had to take place to get to this point. Would it be better for them to remain enemies and not come together for the sake of their children? If you’re going to put the children first, you have to go ALL the way. You can’t fake it. Kids are perceptive. Even Jesus offers redemption , who are we to withhold it?
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Y’all just expect her to be bitter about it😂😂😂the lady clearly stated they was working on a divorce and co parenting plus Alicia and swizz are soul mates they met when they were teenagers in NY and linked back up in the music business now that’s her soul mate and soul mates always find each other yall can’t be mad at that🤣you weirdos
Same, I'm not trying to judge her or swizz but I feel really bad for Mashonda, even though she seems cool with them, you can tell she is still really hurt. It's good there getting along for the kids sake but Adultery is up there with Murder-aint no coming back from that, I think mashonda should have told them, "I see who you are so therefore we will co-parent from afar". The way I see them though has forever changed. It's just truly sad. But I wish them all the best.
She knows swizz still in love 🥰 with his ex wife! She’s insecure about her u can tell and it all seems so staged at what they’re saying it doesn’t even seem real
@@breyachanel5647 come on y'all....BLACK PEOPLE??? Still didn't learn nothing from Mother Sarah and Hagar..... Abraham issue....SARAH kicked Hagar out....Go read the Bible.
@@TriciaRP the Bible has nothin to do with this situation whatsoever ‼️ ur trying to make it to that just so u can have something to say and comment 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ so just comment on reality of this video not bout the Bible and black peoples I get what u meant but yea that’s nothing to do with this situation I hate to tell ya but 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ yea ur wayyyyy off 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mashonda is an amazing woman so spiritual and loving. God bless this beautiful queen. I wish her all the best in her life ❤️❤️❤️ phenomenal woman that’s her.
Beautiful, I tell you people are really growing to come to a point like this. You don't see this happening. You see anger fighting and X husband and Xwife not getting along. This is really a beautiful thing to see them all happy like this. I'm sure it took alot of work to get to this space. Simply Beautiful and it makes me smile and proud to watch.
@classyt20f7 you are right this is not right and it is not normal to see a wife goes from being a wife to a x wife and getting a long with the current wife. It appears that they are getting along and it appears that they are happy now. Only God can judge them.
I agree I don't buy this crap at all they are paying her to do this you mean to tell me marshonda not salty I know plenty of folks who will bend for the kids but the vacations and all of that crap alicia making that corny ass kumbaya blended family song is a load of crap
@@tanyaperry8174 ... Ok Sis😅😂🤣.. not buying this nonsense.. But.. If they want to think people getting bamboozled... Power to them... I think we are woke now... ✊
One thing about it, Swizz seems to love him some beautiful, black educated woman. They are impressive at any race or color, but seeing them makes a black woman like me feel even better about myself. I wish black woman would be celebrated more in this light and not so much for our hips and lips that others surgically try to duplicate on a regular.
This is what you call true forgiveness, a family who are able to push pass through all the hurt,anger ect..and are willing to make it work for the sake of their children.
That shows how much humility this mom has. One person can't break up a marriage; it takes two. It's about the children; as far as it depends on you be peaceable with all men; I think this is what's happened and the family is to be commended in cultivating peace for the kid's sake because they didn't deserve what was happening.
Yep she is definitely over him. In a ''been there, done that, I sure as hell don't want that" kinda space. Easy to do when you're completely over the person, you go girl!
The word Ummie comes from Islam Ummie means mother Alicia keys did not make that the word Umi is Arabic English is mother I am a Ummie Harvey Levin children and I am Muslim
Swiss was cheating on Mashonda for years and had a baby with someone else while they were married. While Alicia was the last, Swiss claims he was over Mashonda cause she wouldn't accept his daughter
Ain't no way I'd be sitting up with a floozy who messed with my husband. Wonder if they're paying her. But, no I wouldnt sell out to this mess. So, fake. They're sitting there looking like they're worried she might slip and say the wrong thing.
@@imgrateful7142 It's money and clout for these people. That's all it is. If they were nobodies with little net worth this would never happen. Of course you could make something like this work if you get attention.
Mashonda is amazing. They did her wrong and she rose above it. She's gorgeous and seems to have a great spirit. This is a mom that loves her child.
Thank you , and look how alicia look just sittn in the middle of them but wuts cold is this an exact depiction of how she literally came between husband and wife smh 💔💔
So Alicia had an affair with a married man?
Or she just decided not to allow them to forget her. She's haunting them to the end. She's calculating.
God bless her his ex wife she has a beautiful soul
I’m sorry....but as a veteran when I returned from tour my spouse had an affair and moved out before I got home.....was I destroyed? Yes I was....but he wasn’t happy....neither was I....he made a choice.....not the best time I agree but everyone deserves to be happy....anyway, 13 yrs later we have a great family....we have a 4 almost 5 yr old grandson....we don’t live close but I try to send pics to keep them, keeping them updated and enjoying him the best they can....it took my grandson to truly accept them....the more people he has to love him as well as my children, the better.❤️
Mashonda is the real hero of all of this. Mashonda is a beautiful woman, she deserves love and every blessing in life.
O Overlyloved I agree....I hope she doesn't love too much that she loses her life as an appendage of her ex. I hope she is able to have a fulfilling new relationship to replace the hurt she went through. She deserves true love.
deharleyva @deharleyva ....hell no...I prefer she finds a new billionaire man who's kind and attentive to make up for all the wrong they did to her ...lol.
deharleyva I believe in karma....lol
@@ninastar5285 I agree with you 💯
@@ninastar5285 Same here
Mashonda is a true example of a mother that loves her child. This is who she has sacrificed the most for. Wow. God bless her
FACTSS
She need to love herself she look a danm fool, being cordial respectful has nothing to do with looking like a dummy sitting next to the two people that literally betrayed you. You can respect their union and for the sake of the kids you behave respectful towards other but as an ex I don't need to be a part of your blending family... have some self respect
It's so beautiful to see how his ex-wife is glowing and growing after the break up!!
Of course she's glowing their throwing mad cash at her.
Makes me wonder...blended..hmmmm OK. If that is the new big love why not. Yolo. Just saying.
Big love girl...blended my.....
@@ivyc3500money isn’t everything that makes u glow it’s also peace less stress and inner happiness and being faithful to God
As someone who grew up without a family, I admire anyone who can make any type of family work
Agreed 🙏
EX wife is sooo beautiful!
She truly is. She reminds me of a younger version of Elise Neal.
She is. I hope she has a man who appreciates her now.
Inside and out, her beauty radiates...May God bless her richly.
Omg yes, that is all I kept saying through the entire video, she's so gorgeous!
Pearl super gorgeous 💎
Wow Mashonda is so wise and has a heart of gold. This makes her even more beautiful. What a great mother she clearly puts her kids first and doesn’t want them to experience the hostility she experienced with her parent’s divorce.
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That’s Alicia Keys and Swizz, would she try to make the relationship work for her kids if it was ordinary couple?????? And that’s only because Alicia allowed this 3some
You can tell when Mashonda is speaking that the hurt is deep. They really hurt her but its okay!!! God is still God. I pray that she truly heals.
Well according to Kasim, the marriage was dead way before he met Alicia. He also said he and Alicia never got physical until after he ended it with Mashonda.
@@RnBReworked cheating is not limited to only when it gets physical.
@@kwametenkorang2019 I know. I'm just saying that according to him, his feelings for Mashonda had long dissipated before Alicia came into the picture, cheating or not.
Agree
I was thinking the same thing like I see and hear the hurt.
The hardest thing in the world is to take your hurt and insecurities out of a situation for the sake of living a better life for those involved. Cheers to them!
Abbie Morris money helps
@@denisewilliams8708 it's not about money, it's about putting self to the side. I am a product of divorce and my parents did not display their angry, hurt or disappointment to me.
U said it perfectly
Abbie Morris you got move on it life you do what best for kids . It going for years. Even if happen way it did.
Especially for WOMEN!!!!
Mashonda (real MVP) 👌💕🙏👍 she found a way to forgive - heal and grow for her OWN sanity.....
Yes. It takes a strong woman to put aside her ego for the long term emotional health of her child. She has a great head on her shoulders.
Valarie Cole ...forgive who? They were done..divorced, people do move over🙄
Also true
@crushinsatan
Oh wow
Tru...and NOTHING ELSE
This is like someone stabbing you in the back and while you're bleeding out they're caressing your back saying, "There there, it'll be alright."
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Book Tour. $$$
Exactly!!!
TJ, you are speaking the sentiments of my heart!!! Backstabbers are the worst!!! Trust is hard to regain after it has been broken!!!
Right. Swizz got 4 baby mamas
My parents divorced 13 years ago. I was only 10. My dad would always bring us breakfast before he picked me up on the weekends and ask my mom if she needed any extra money for the week. Seeing them still be friends (I’m sure they secretly wanted to kill one another) for the sake of us kids changed my outlook on divorce and how it doesn’t have to be the worst thing.
It doesn't have to be... the two people that is parenting children together should always be cordial but not with the new woman yea I get she is your wife and I can be cordial but we will never be friends...not in this circumstance
Sometimes they just best being friends
I’m feeling claustrophobic just watching this interview, can yall spread out?!
CallMeCourt dead. Lmao exactly how I was feeling!
Hahahaha oh lord take the wheel
Ha!🤣 fo realz!!! A little creepy!
CallMeCourt 😂😂😂
Lol... it's for the camera frame...but I'm sure it's also to pull on heart strings...lol.. they are sooo close
Hopefully Mashonda will meet a guy worthy of her love
@human being seriously, had she had a spouse then maybe it wouldn't seem awkward.
I pray sis
Amen 🙏
Is it a polyamorous relationship? they all date each other? Im confused
Theresa Toomer she’s very beautiful
Now THIS IS EVIDENCE that African American women are capable of structured, positive, loving relationships and friendships!!! Congratulations you three. I LOVE IT
Why do you need EVIDENCE 😂
@@sametoyoutoo8509 😂😂😂😂
Only because big money is involved, if they was average broke people living check by check it wouldn’t look this cute
@@demetriuswilliams5620 I agree
That doesn't need to be said. The fact that so many people agree with you is sad because you all need convincing.
Alisha Keys get no praise here.The ex wife get the up most respect from me..
Same
She probbly sexing the ex wife too, lol...they weird
Straight up
❤️❤️
*+2348124002333 ... this is the number of a very powerful spell caster who helped bring me my ex-husband, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has come back to me, .....* 💌❤..❤..❤..❤..❤
Moshonda is so strong and so smart but I still saw a glimpse of hurt in her. To drop her to for her son...so mature.
Nothing is wrong about falling in love
Sometimes I wonder how amazing, compassionate, intelligent women like these two turn a blind eye to the mans narcissism
Exactly....what the he'll do they see in him??
Samoria Blackwood lol 😂 he’s into art! lol I mean that’s why I would like him 😆 he seems like he has matured a lot, and from his Instagram videos looks fun lol
Theyre desperate.
@@samoriab5999 right!
Empathy
Mashonda is the epitome of class. Just like Debbie Reynolds.
I’m an Alicia Keys fan but damn his firs wife is even more beautiful.
I agree with you, she's smarter and beautiful 😍
Haitian queen
There both equally beautiful
Right.... His first wife is so pretty...
@@godsgirl7201 they are both beautiful but not equally beautiful. Mashanda looks better.
They are sitting sooooooo close to each other.
MrsB, Right! Mashonda and Alicia did not need to rub shoulders and hips to prove how close they are.
Jenni Kai I know right. It was so cringy to watch.
I was just about to make the same comment!!! Down right weird.
They probably asked them to sit that close to fit in the frame
They gone end up together
This doesn't feel good to me but I am stunned by Mashondas beauty ,so down to earth she is a praying woman I can tell without a doubt.
True. She is beautiful just like you baby. I need you in my life
That's just for this interview she's very bitter and jealous. It aired in one of those reality shows she had a lil camera time in.
It feels great to me. It shows emotional maturity , which includes a commitment to put the children in the correct position, which is first. I love it .
This feels right to me. You don’t have to be as close as they are they are obviously best friends I wish that I could just get along with my sons father that’s all they’re saying is get along for the children
You need a strange woman based on her looks? 😂 Well hopefully she's single and it works out lol
They must’ve paid Moshanda a lot of money for this, cause they did her WRONG.
You dont know "what they DID". You only have read things from the media
They did here wrong she brought receipts before it was a thing… A Keys career suffered for it facts
One thing I know it's easier said than done but if a man don't want you if he's cheating on you baby the real strength and growth comes with the power to let him go inspite of how much it hurts you! Set that man free and watch & see who you will evolve and become!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽👏🏾🤗
@Celeste I would rephrase that and say, "Let him go and The Holy Spirit set you free in Jesus Majestic Holy name!"🙏🏾✝️
@@pamelahartfield7575 that part!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽👋🏽👋🏽
Mashonda serving Olivia pope vibes.... Gorgeous!!!
With our without makeup, keys ain't got shit on her!! She's a beauty😍
Mashonda doesn't look better at all, she just has on a ton of makeup. Without makeup Mashonda is very average but at least she's not too dark skinned. Alicia Keys is choosing not to wear makeup which makes her look "regular" but still beautiful. Alicia doesn't need to impress anyone. She's got a loving husband, a beautiful family, and TONS of money!
@@tedtalk882 least she's not 'too dark'😑...wtf! get yo dumb no self worth colorist hatin ass tf up outta this comment section. Don't come under my comment with no stupid ass bullshit about complexion. Fck yo dumb ass opinion😑
@@tedtalk882 fuck you and your comment
Swizz face looks like he was stressed out the whole interview like damn my wife and ex-wife are friends that's a double whammy 😂😂😂
He wants a threesome
She is the example of a real mature black woman
Yes- always bearing the brunt and pain of the conflict created by selfish, irresponsible people.
I appreciate the fact that they were all able to be so open about a tough situation they faced as a family. I pray as a community we continue to normalize sharing our experiences and being able to walk with our heads high after hardship not shame.
OMG! The Comments are more Entertaining then the damn interview....😂
LMAO!!
Riiiighht?! 😂😂
True
Aaagghhh!!! ROFLOL Bingo!!! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
True😂
I don't know if it's just me but why are they sitting too close 😂😂😂
Right!!! Gimme some damn elbow room!
exactly!! 😂
Alicia always gave me a lesbian energy
Fr like bihh all this muhfuccin room on the couch & yo ass wanna be snuggled up all close to me n shit 😒😤
Imagine the threesome 😍
It’s easy for alisha to sit in between them and agree nod and say everything is hunky dory but it’s all rashanda and her big mature steps that made it happen. I’m sure it’s hard pill to swallow. Good interview
💯
Also, money when you’re rich and you pay people off and you’re a celebrity you could do stuff like that😂😂
People are here saying repulsive things regarding Alicia, when the very woman, they are cheering on- Mashonda, has graciously made PEACE with the ending of her relationship because she realizes how valuable and important it is for her son!!!!
I applaud all THREE of them! They are ADULTS who can make a difference… Children doesn’t have to grow up to be dysfunctional or have a victim mentality, just because their parents are divorced. No!!! There’s another way… a healthier and happier way! 🦋🦋🦋
Most reasonable comment I've read so far here.
Well said, people would rather see them miserable together than happy apart. Makes no sense. No relationship is guaranteed to last forever. Maybe their love for each other was only supposed to be for a season. Clearly Swiss and Alicia love each other and Mashonda supports it.
@@alesiav.4114 Exactly…. People are here talking about Karma and all kinds of nonsense! LIFE OWES US NOTHING… some of us should consider ourselves very “fortunate” if the ending of relationships are the only pain they’ll suffer! There are so many other things in life that can go wrong…
Folks are entitled to their opinion, I don't understand what you mean by "people are saying repulsive things." Making public appearances that everything is dandy and sweet doesn't mean that's exactly what is going on behind closed doors. How many times have we watched celebrities including Presidents make public speeches not because they wholeheartedly meant it but because they were pressured to do it by their team? My mom use to say, "sometimes you can think you are so right about something when you are so wrong." The only word I trust is the word of God. Put not your trust in princes, nor in the son of man.
YAS! This interview which is so pure, plus the book they've written together, as well as the pictures they've shared spending time together over the years is MORE than enough evidence that they love each other, and are at peace with their past. ❤️❤️
When a man doesn’t love you anymore he just doesn’t love you anymore. And when you finally accept it and value your self worth, forgiveness comes easy.
Right
Very True......
It’s such a painful truth but you’re totally right.😢😢😢😭😭😭
True.
Exactly
Mashonda has dealt with this in such an honourable manner. As much as I love Alicia Keys I just couldn't.
I agree
@@mumamumpangwe9785 Chileeeeeeee..Me Neither Sis !!
Most beautiful thing I ever saw..."people are comfortable with being miserable" powerful words...im rooting for yall and damn yall all beautiful
What a WONDERFUL testimony. Only a matured person/believer can submit to the transformation of this. I was one who did and I praise God! So I applaud all 3 of you for your growth love and determination to be the parents and partners you have committed in your hearts to be. This is a GREAT example and it will witness and minister to many families and households to come. God-bless you all for sharing your testimony.
Blessings/Care,
LRC.
😂😂😂😂You will never find a man seating on the couch with his ex wife and her new husband
Amen
Jojo Saylor Vanessa williams
Exactly, trying to fool is lol
I'm sorry but me sitting next to my man ex or baby momma...WOULD NEVER EVER HAPPEN!!
Jojo Saylor that would be even more weird
Funny how us women has to hold everything down and make peace out of a man's mistakes. Now when Mashonda gets a husband let's see swizz reaction to new daddy.
AGREE. When men are done witj us they just move on. No faith in men.
Totally agree with you. Men mostly get away with their acts. I feel women are always at the receiving end.
That's why I choose the single life☺.
Not all men are bad. My boyfriend’s ex wouldn’t let him see his daughter, so he had to take her to court. But she’s always been happy to collect the maintenance. I know it takes 2 to tango, but some girls purposely get pregnant to bag the guy & for money. Then when the plan doesn’t work they use the child as a weapon. Then play the victim.
If she gets a new husband, that is adultery. Matt 5:32.
What a powerful story of forgiveness, healing and growing into the best version of a family! Wishing this family all the best. ♥️
They look like they're not believing the convincing they want us to believe.
*+2348124002333 ... this is the number of a very powerful spell caster who helped bring me my ex-husband, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has come back to me, .....* 💌❤..❤..❤
💀💀💀🥴🥴🥴I thought i was the only one
Lol I said the same thing!
@Far, couldn’t agree more !!!!!
Mashonda is so pretty! Such a pleasant presence.
Alicia seems sweet but Mashonda it’s just something about Mashonda that you see her beauty, her power so effortlessly.
True BLACKWOMAN Is what we all know
Mashonda is an "Earth Angel"
THIS IS SO REFRESHING!!! what a great way, another way to show each other as 1 unit while having your own individual experience. The old paradigm is falling appart thank you!!!
The guy did not open his mouth once LOL he looks terrified .
Lmaoo
Lol right
@ Lauren L. )What’s to talk about when you’ve got two beautiful wives in a society that legally allows for one. I guess there are just too many uptight critics.
Lapdog
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 your damn right about that! You too funny
Mashonda is so fine
She sure is
Yes ... She is gorgeous.....love her dimples ...so pretty
The ex is prettier than Mrs keys and she got to feel threatened.
U would be know where near those. to cheating MF is I was the ex I would let them have the plate form and I would go get a life and let them have theres. We could co-worker parent but that were the line would be drawn, and Mrs keys that half a man that you have carma is coming to you one day and for me sooner than later. Shame.
@@beatricesmith8607 Who knows...maybe its about the hair not the face.
@Beatrice Smith- Stfu! U sound like a jealous DARK skin ashy female. Mashonda doesn't look better, she just has on a ton of makeup. Alicia Keys is choosing not to wear makeup which makes her look "regular" but still beautiful. Alicia doesn't need to impress anyone. She's got a loving husband, a beautiful family, and TONS of money!
Parents will always do everything in order to provide a comfortable life for their children because every child deserves to have a loving family.
You can still do every bit of that....while the ex lives outside the home. Im sorry its just not right. To have an ex live inside the home doesnt set a good example for the children either. Not ok.
Wow! I’m just seeing this and am teary eyed! This is just simply beautifully amazing! I thought The Smiths were doing an amazing job being a blended family…. But you guys have definitely hit my heart with your story! If only so many others would be able to do this just imagine how great life would be! I am a witness of how being blessed with 2 moms is such an awesome experience! They both sharing the same Kleenex at my wedding almost 30 years ago! That’s a joy I’ll never forget! 😊🙌🏾
I’m teary eyed too… From laughing 😂 lol 😂. My sister these celebrities got y’all fooled. This situation is a train wreck of a mess
Mashonda doesn't look happy. She's putting on a smile (you know what a fake smile looks like) for the sake of her son. She asked Alicia to stay away from her husband. People forget Alicia was also Mashonda's friend before she started sleeping with Swizz. So, let's make it very clear that Alicia KNEW he was married with an infant on the way cuz she attended the baby shower. This whole blended family BS is a carefully constructed PR campaign to restore Alicia's image and reputation. She and Swizz have the power to destroy Mashonda in the press so she plays along for the sake of her child. Imagine being bestie's with the woman who stole the love of your life? Mashonda is still in pain and anyone with EYES can see it. Instead, they wanna pat Alicia and Swizz on the back like they doing Mashonda a favor. Alicia took everything from her. Swizz let his dream home with Mashonda go into foreclosure while she was still living there alone with their child. He didn't keep up the grounds, pool, tennis courts, nothing and she had to move. It was a very sad episode of Love & Hip Hop NY, season 1. So, do I wanna see the pics he and Alicia splash all over IG of their lavish lifestyle after the way Mashonda was treated? Mashonda is keeping the peace for her checks and to co-parent with Swizz. Deep down she could care less about Alicia. It's all for show.
She was lying, I see you didn't mention his daughter with another woman in any of that
Alicia's bad but this 1st wife proves why she was THE first....straight gorgeous
Alicia seems very controlling and self important. I've gone off her and her music is very average always has been despite the fact she is brilliantly talented. The London based singer who has a daughter with Swizz Beatz is Zhanna Adrianova who is Russian. Apparently Alicia flew with Swizz to London for the maternity test. Zhanna and Swizz have a daughter Nicole Dean.
Most definitely !
What he has cheated on her and made a baby too , let's not forget he cheated on Mashanda with Keys .
Wait he cheated on Alicia???
But he didn't stay
Mashonda is a great woman none of this would be possible if she wasn't such a loving and selfless mother
I love how honest she is about what happened in the process to the end point people see. It took work, anger frustration and putting there ego aside to get there. Well done!!
I love this, this is how mature people handle things, put your own issues aside and let the focus be the your children
Why are they squished up on that couch like that?
Omg ur an asss🤣🤣... jajaja maybe they had to sit in that spot for the camera or to show the bond ...lol
😂😂😂
Because they're co parents. lollol
😆
😂😂😂 this Is awesome
It’s kinda sad that we live in a society so full of NEGATIVITY! they are so mature for being able to put their differences aside and just be a family but bc it’s not “normal” for grown ups to be this mature in our day and age, there is no way this is real, right?. life is too short to be mad forever and just bc you arnt the type to be mature about it doesn’t mean they can’t be. If they are genuinely happy then so be it. Y’all always trynna tear people down, and for what!?
Yes sis! Beautiful comment. I agree. This video shows so much love, growth, understanding, forgiveness and MATURITY!
Amen sisters 💞
This is nice to be coridial and forgive but why would i hang out with my ex husband and his new wife???
Well said .that shows a level of maturity some of us will never reach with that negative thinking.
Kryshon Day they explained it in the video. For the kids, and they don't see themselves as ex husband and new wife, they are a family. What's wrong with us, smh
I wouldn't let a woman who stoles my husband to enter my life and house.
He wasnt hers no man can be stolen of he was never truly meant for her. And Alice forgot there is somthing called Karma...
It’s beautiful that they’ve found a middle ground to all this and come together. There’s no use pointing fingers, Mashonda went through a lot even whilst she was with Swizz, at the end of the day it’s about the kids, it is a true blessing and truly beautiful to see strong black people come together and do it for their kids. There’s enough hate and jealousy in the world to be part of that negativity. So good on them for putting their own personal stuff aside yet still work on themselves and their feelings/relationship but also be positive and unite for their kids. More power to them👌🏾✊🏾
Mashonda gonna get her revenge
“Keep your friends close and your enemies closer” lolol
😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭
Yaaaassss
Pri, she don't need no revenge. She need to go on a date with my baby daddy Micheal Strahan.
Believe in Love..
Really ?? Continue to be petty.....
Amen!! This is the effort made by parents who've divided when they truly love & care about their children's well being to ensure their futures are as emotionally healthy as possible. Beautiful all the way around!!
You really understand the situation. His ex-wife does not want her child to suffer, so she buries her hurt. She is a very strong woman.
You obviously hold hatred in your heart but understand you may be a child of divorce or someone who's been abandoned by a partner. I cannot judge anyone else's path in life or waste time & loving energy to belittle adults who rise above anger for the good of their children. I'll pray you find peace in your heart at sometime in life because hatred robs time & happiness you'll never regain.
Then you must be an immaculate being incapable of sin, who believes you have the power to cast judgement on anyone who does not believe like you. I could make assumptions about you but it's not worth the effort to argue with someone of restricted intellect. Believe what you believe & know God or your higher power is watching your actions towards others of differing views and will have you answer to them when it's your time to pass. Have a wonderful day!!
I seriously love the love they put out towards each other so respectively. This is the epitome of being true to your word as co parenting should be. Respectively respecting each other’s boundaries and loving all in the process. God bless this family truly always, I’ve always been a huge fan of Alicia and swizz’ love! They are truly inspiring even without having to be so glitz and glam! They are truly gods work of the love, soul mates and a very inspiring couple. God bless them and their family always 💖🙏🏽
As much as I love Alicia & Swizz together, I felt for Mashonda …glad to see this instead of negativity and fighting which ultimately affects the kids.
Wow! Props to them! I know it was hard to get to that point. Congratulations.
I think it depends why a couple break up. If some one cheated on me with the other woman I would never be friends
EVER
EVER
Exactly. Its so hard
@Lali V right like where’s her man
Nobody cheated though...y’all really don’t do your research.
Their growth as individuals, and as a family unit, is so rationally beautiful 😍
She said pray! That we must do in every moemnt, mostly in most challenging moments: pray. Love this story
🙏🏾
Alicia is great but Mashonda on a whole nother level
The Difference nah Alicia is more stunning if that’s what you meant
The Difference mashonda is a true black women. With true black women issues. I do feel that Swizz beat still has love for Mashonda but Alicia has the money. Money rules black men.
@@nantashawheeler8942 I think it's more about vibe and looks than money.
@@nantashawheeler8942 Alicia has the money and the fame, but Mashonda is magnetic. He def still has love for her, they can't even look at each other
FACTS
Mashonda is in Love with herself now. That's the glow she has... self Love 😍
I’m really impressed by the fact the superstar in the room did not need the spotlight for this interview.
She Better not shes the one in the wrong🤷🏽♀️
@@kaylahbeard7206 wrong? What did she do?
THIS WOMAN KEY AIN'T NO DAM SUPER STAR SHE'S A SUPER HOM WREAKER AND THAT JIGGALO SHE'S WITH WILL LEAVE HER ASS AND GO BACK BEGGING HIS EX WIFE FOR FORGIVENESS AND ANOTHER CHANCE, ALL UNFAIR GAMES PLAY OVER,
@@ascent8487 she slept with her husband while they were together..as SOON As they divorced those two got married and had a child..sweetheart she stung the hell out of those pockets THATS why shes being so sweet.
the superstar is the first wife....she did it for her son...only a real mom who loves her son above her feelings does that...The man looks guilty as hell....
I think this is beautiful it’s not about the adults and their mistakes it’s about the children’s.
*+2348124002333 ... this is the number of a very powerful spell caster who helped bring me my ex-husband, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has come back to me, .....* 💌❤..❤..❤..❤..❤
MY DEAR YOUR HUSBAND DID NOT COME BACK ON HIS OWN HIS MIND WAS MESSED WITH, ALMIGHTY GOD HAVE HIS MIRACULOUS WAY IN DOING HIS WORKS, HIS WORKS IS SURE,
Sleeping with someone other than your spouse isn't a mistake it's an all out betrayal.
Mashonda looks really ridiculously good here. Like...better with age.
its been done forever just not discussed only time it is a problem is when the person can't move on.
Because she's glad she got that toxic man out of her life but she still has to live for her children and let her children know look I'm okay with your dad being gone and you can go see him when he want when you want to and he can come over here and at least she's going to come over she's doing this for her children and I think it's shows that there civilized and I think it's wonderful
This is super awkward I’m sorry! I can’t I just can’t
I feel the same
Why not??? It's beautiful
Emcstea bless your miserable heart!
you can't why.The children comes first.I was once in this position had to forget pride for my daughter sake.I never regretted it worked out well.
@Emcstea I'm black I'm not miserable I'm happy....quite catorgize all of us....
Mashonda has such a beautiful voice. I love January Joy, I hope she releases another album as brilliant as that one day.
Wow! Great interview. Loving her and her positive energy.
Mashonda is taking her pain and making it into money girl is smart she has ensured she has not loose out on any benefits in the end. Swizz n Alicia fame will bring alot of attention to her than she would get on her own. Life gave her lemons but she used those lemons to make her some nice lemonade. Mashonda is a smart business woman I'm sure she had other motives for also making peace with them. Happy for her
kim rock ... exactly personal growth... & at same time her kid isnt mentally fucked up or slighted on what he needs. People in these comments are too close minded to see that this is why the black family is so broken. Need to check they fam histories lots of big families had members who were derivitives of kinfolk no blood but the bond was real.
I'm sure Mashona is getting plenty of child support and is probably using her connection to Alicia and Swizz Beat to open doors for her. She's beautiful, smart and extremely articulate. I have a feeling that as beautiful and talented as Alicia is, she's actually a bit of a downgrade from Mashonda.
Well every woman can't be like you, Alicia and her are godly period.
Marry someone that builds your family not break it😊😍
How is she breaking it, if anything she's making it work and still keeping the family work.
@@alejandracfina6431 It happened through infidelity.
@@pinkcashmeres they were separated
Such an inspiration!!!! So blessed !!! Thank God for your BLEND!! VERY BIG OF ALL OF YOU!!! ONLY WISH AND PRAY MORE PARENTS COULD DO WHAT YOU DO!! SO HEARTWARMING!!!!
This is so BEAUTIFUL and more families need to take notes of this
*+2348124002333 ... this is the number of a very powerful spell caster who helped bring me my ex-husband, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has come back to me, .....* 💌❤..❤..❤..❤..❤
The relationship between Alicia and Mashonda seems outshines the relationship they have with Swiss Beatz in this video.
Maybe they're lovers now
That's exactly how it's supposed to look like, u know...smile for the camera...smile like you mean it!
MAYBE IT IS TOO MUCH FOR YOU BUT THIS AIN'T OUR CIRCUS SO WHO CARES WHAT THEY DO.
I'm so happy for them
K Music c
Adults that work solely together in the absolute Best interest of their child as co-parents is Awesome. Parents responsibility, actions and behavior towards their kid(s) during a separation can either empower or mess up a kids journey. Glad these 3 adults worked it out to benefit the kid. Blended takes on a whole new light when done Well✅
I have always felt like this. It's about the little people that didn't ask for the drama. However, with that being said, all adults involved have to be mature and open minded.
Nothing to do with 'maturity', and everything to do with perversion.
Mashonda is soooo Radiant 😚😙😚😙
Is it me or am I the only one seeing this differently. If your spouse cheats on you with a person whom you know, knew you were married; then somewhere down the line decides to say “hey, let’s just forget the past and be a blended family”, I’m not to sure how healthy this idea is for the children. I’m sorry but I’m not buying the warm singing and bright smiles. This is how television manipulates and influences. There is nothing more powerful for a child to see than his or her BIOLOGICAL PARENTS honoring their vows and staying together till death due them part. This whole inspiring blended families idea is not normal and can give kids the wrong idea as to the commitments they are to make to those whom they marry. If I’m not mistaken, the story goes Alicia Keys stepped into Swiss and his ex wife’s marriage and helped tear their family apart. The ex wife was hurt by that for years obviously. Now they are playing this role of happiness, smiles and blended unity. No way am I buying this. If I cheated on my wife and she stayed bitter towards me behind it for years, of course I’m going to want her to eventually just accept what’s happened and move on. I’m the one who cheated. However, that doesn’t take away from how my infidelity effected her. I feel the ex has somehow now given in to Alicia and Swiss’s celebrity and has simply decided to enjoy the ride. But don’t get on national television and attempt to make what’s happened or happening in your family seem normal. The gullible may buy into this but those who are wise can see right through this. I do believe in unique situations husbands, ex and current wives coming together in harmony may work out or fall into place in a good way. But pretending it should be a norm is just not a good idea.
Ms. Oyeogbe exactly, unless they have some other kind of agreement going on between the three of them. If you know what I mean. But who knows. Just seems odd to me.
Thank you..I'm in totally agreement with you
Ms. Oyeogbe money helps a lot
Hell noxi will not blend with her
You’re right, there’s nothing normal about this because the norm is to pamper the anger and bitterness ABOVE the well being of the children. What happened was wrong. Dead wrong. Does that mean though that these couples should not move ahead and try to do better. You age, mature, live and hopefully learn. Forgiveness is powerful. We don’t know the personal conversations these people have had. I’m sure apologies and confessions and complete honesty and ownership had to take place to get to this point. Would it be better for them to remain enemies and not come together for the sake of their children? If you’re going to put the children first, you have to go ALL the way. You can’t fake it. Kids are perceptive. Even Jesus offers redemption , who are we to withhold it?
Sista Wives?!? Girl...MaShonda please don't drink the kool aid. Blink if u need help!! 👀😆
Lmao...
*+2348124002333 ... this is the number of a very powerful spell caster who helped bring me my ex-husband, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has come back to me, .....* 💌❤..❤..❤..❤..❤
@@tonyjohn699 why do u want a man who didn’t want u under a spell/lie? No shade i just genuinely want to know.
That's what they are. They just dont wanna say it. Where Mashondas man at?
@@michelleyoga87 dear, that’s a nigeria number. Ya better stay away 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Alicia is a huge disappointment but Mashonda is such an inspiration.
Alicia did nothing wrong though?
inspiration for what? they were separated and mashonda was dating other people too, the industry knows
Facts I lost respect for Alicia after that.
Y’all just expect her to be bitter about it😂😂😂the lady clearly stated they was working on a divorce and co parenting plus Alicia and swizz are soul mates they met when they were teenagers in NY and linked back up in the music business now that’s her soul mate and soul mates always find each other yall can’t be mad at that🤣you weirdos
@@sheabutter7370 yup. Ppl always looking for the drama. She got over it. Great
Mashonda is definitely a beautiful strong Woman I applaud her 👏👏
I never looked at Alicia the same way after this. She was such a disappointment.
caramelhoney29 same same same it was a big disappointment for me
Same, I'm not trying to judge her or swizz but I feel really bad for Mashonda, even though she seems cool with them, you can tell she is still really hurt. It's good there getting along for the kids sake but Adultery is up there with Murder-aint no coming back from that, I think mashonda should have told them, "I see who you are so therefore we will co-parent from afar". The way I see them though has forever changed. It's just truly sad. But I wish them all the best.
Same I’m trying tho
caramelhoney29 me either
Who's perfect??
The sitting position says it all. alecia put herself in the middle.
She knows swizz still in love 🥰 with his ex wife! She’s insecure about her u can tell and it all seems so staged at what they’re saying it doesn’t even seem real
@@breyachanel5647 come on y'all....BLACK PEOPLE???
Still didn't learn nothing from Mother Sarah and Hagar..... Abraham issue....SARAH kicked Hagar out....Go read the Bible.
@@TriciaRP the Bible has nothin to do with this situation whatsoever ‼️ ur trying to make it to that just so u can have something to say and comment 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ so just comment on reality of this video not bout the Bible and black peoples I get what u meant but yea that’s nothing to do with this situation I hate to tell ya but 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ yea ur wayyyyy off 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mashonda is an amazing woman so spiritual and loving. God bless this beautiful queen. I wish her all the best in her life ❤️❤️❤️ phenomenal woman that’s her.
I’m crying! They are so wise! ❤️ God bless their family!
Beautiful, I tell you people are really growing to come to a point like this. You don't see this happening. You see anger fighting and X husband and Xwife not getting along. This is really a beautiful thing to see them all happy like this. I'm sure it took alot of work to get to this space. Simply Beautiful and it makes me smile and proud to watch.
@classyt20f7 you are right this is not right and it is not normal to see a wife goes from being a wife to a x wife and getting a long with the current wife. It appears that they are getting along and it appears that they are happy now. Only God can judge them.
Why are these people all squeezed into one corner like this?
😂😂😂😂
This is beautiful representation of compassion and humility for the sake of family
that affair pretty much destroyed her career
Yes it did.....this whole jada and will situation doesn't fool me. This is damage control to sell music again but it's too late!
What's crazy is.. Alicia Keys knows that.. Nobody effn with her .. with that BS.. FOH... not my money.. bet that !
I agree I don't buy this crap at all they are paying her to do this you mean to tell me marshonda not salty I know plenty of folks who will bend for the kids but the vacations and all of that crap alicia making that corny ass kumbaya blended family song is a load of crap
@@nuna2968 sure not bunch of mess
@@tanyaperry8174 ... Ok Sis😅😂🤣.. not buying this nonsense.. But.. If they want to think people getting bamboozled... Power to them... I think we are woke now... ✊
One thing about it, Swizz seems to love him some beautiful, black educated woman. They are impressive at any race or color, but seeing them makes a black woman like me feel even better about myself. I wish black woman would be celebrated more in this light and not so much for our hips and lips that others surgically try to duplicate on a regular.
Mrs. Lucas So true.
Alicia is biracial
@@june7gemini So am I but the world sees a black woman when I walk into the room and I own it and I LOVE it!
This is what you call true forgiveness, a family who are able to push pass through all the hurt,anger ect..and are willing to make it work for the sake of their children.
This is unacceptable, you can forgive but you don’t have to settle for any embarrassment.
That shows how much humility this mom has. One person can't break up a marriage; it takes two. It's about the children; as far as it depends on you be peaceable with all men; I think this is what's happened and the family is to be commended in cultivating peace for the kid's sake because they didn't deserve what was happening.
For real this is crazy thing I ever seen
Seriously! But I guess she’s just doing what she feels is best for her child, very unselfish woman
Trur
@@turbojjr Nah I guess she needed to sell that book. Absolute Ludicrous...
Yep she is definitely over him. In a ''been there, done that, I sure as hell don't want that" kinda space. Easy to do when you're completely over the person, you go girl!
The word Ummie comes from Islam Ummie means mother Alicia keys did not make that the word Umi is Arabic English is mother I am a Ummie Harvey Levin children and I am Muslim
I’ll never look at Alicia the same again and that disturbing man beside her... please!🤦🏾♀️
DON'T TAKE IT SO PERSONALLY, IT IS NOT YOUR CIRCUS ...........LOL
Laura Blackwell right on
Swiss was cheating on Mashonda for years and had a baby with someone else while they were married. While Alicia was the last, Swiss claims he was over Mashonda cause she wouldn't accept his daughter
Ain't no way I'd be sitting up with a floozy who messed with my husband. Wonder if they're paying her. But, no I wouldnt sell out to this mess. So, fake. They're sitting there looking like they're worried she might slip and say the wrong thing.
@@imgrateful7142 It's money and clout for these people. That's all it is. If they were nobodies with little net worth this would never happen. Of course you could make something like this work if you get attention.
Beautiful message. It's not about you, it's about the child!
I already love Alicia keys but the more I know her the more obsessed I get!! Thank you for always raising the bar on being such a terrific human being