Just want to add obviously there’s different circumstances some men have hard lives and it’s not always easy I was just summing it up shortly and a bit of delulu is good sometimes:)))
To be honest with you I have dated a trans woman and it was the best experience ever you need to find man who will love you and accept you there are a lot of men who are now accepting trans women ever than before so that's something to feel good about❤❤❤
As someone who transitioned over 15 years ago I would say the way I present my transness to men is really the key. When I finally decide to tell them, the tone in which I deliver it to them is most important. If you view your state of being trans as some sort of doom & gloom or negative thing, that’s how everyone else will perceive it. Prefacing it with “don’t be scared” or “I have something important to tell you & I’m not sure how you’re going to feel about me after” is just asking to be rejected. Also save yourself the heartbreak of waiting too long to tell him. Waiting too long indicates you’re trying to hide something, hiding something indicates it’s negative or you’re ashamed. That may or may not be how you feel, but that’s how it comes off to cis het men. If you haven’t learned to love yourself as a transgender woman, dating will always be a challenge.
Where do you girls even live. I am here refusing so date cis girl just so that my soul mate will be a transe. But couldn't find anyone. I know there are a lot of you girls but how to find you
You are so right about the guy not standing his ground regarding his opinions. It's such a good indicator, I've experienced it many times myself Have a nice day! ❤
As a 40 yr old hetero cis chic, I admire your inner strength, wise for your years maturity, & genuine beauty both inside and out. You radiate such confidence. It’s been such a pleasure, over the last year or so, watching you grow and settle into yourself. Your soul radiates such a bright light. And girl, that HAIR. That GLOW. That BEAT. Absolute perfection 😍
Been following your videos on TH-cam for a while, Adea, and the one thing I've always wondered is, how important is ongoing counseling to transition successfully? The points you made at the end of this video were a) really great and b) suggest that in a lot of ways, "feminization" (surgeries, grooming, etc.) is only a first step. Once you've quieted the worst gender/body dysmorphia, you're at square one of normalizing your life: finding a companion, forming a relationship. At that point, you're facing the issues everybody faces, trans or not, but with the additional complications of being trans. There must be so many questions of whom you can open up to, how to be a less exaggerated version of one's "new" self, etc. That's a LOT to deal with on your own and in the flow of things. Where do you find support? How do you get other perspectives to help interpret and integrate your experiences? One of the things I loved about your visit to Maya Henry's channel was this idea of a circle of women (community might be too firm a word) experiencing some of the same things. I hope there are resources-people, books, videos, etc.-that you can turn to. I admire how you've become just that kind of resource yourself. Maybe that helps just as much!
Thankyou for following me through all this time that’s crazy that you’re mentioning all of this because my next video is a lot about that!!! And Thankyou for your support bb
It’s easy to spot when a guy just hang around because they want to have fun. As you said the time they text you. For me personally this guy would always text me around 4 pm. Always hitting me up before he gets off work. Then there was this other guy that I really kicked it off with and got intimate with. The sex was amazing, but after hooking up his personality change. Then he start acting normal and every time we hook up he would act different afterwards. I spot it the first time, and I was ok with giving it a few chances because I was into him and enjoy hooking up with him, but the fourth time I blocked him afterward.
Adea you are very special and i will always support you and your transition . I will always come for you no matter what it would ever cost me . Sgt K Smith retired usmc
thank you for these vids !!! you are an angel, im 15 now and i came out as trans in 2022 so having this knowledge early on in my transition is so helpful, it’s amazing to have someone like you to watch and learn from💟
I am trans too and dating it's not hard at all I have been in a relationship for 5 years now and it's was never that hard as a woman, and even thing's like meeting my in law's was very easy and they are pretty conservative and even like that they really like me and I am the first trans girlfriend of my boyfriend I don't know if they know that i am trans thought 🤔 but probably they do.
@@Adeaя❤очень тебя полюбил и хочу быть похож на тебя помоги мне начать переход я очень хочу чтоб помогла я буду тогда счастлив дай ответ пожалуйста андрей❤
I have a trans friend and she seems to find it very easy to date guys. Whereas I am a fem gay guy and 95% of gay guys don't like me, they like muscles, hairy bodies, guys who don't pluck their eyebrows or are into beauty etc. I find that "curious" or bi guys seem to like me the most but these guys don't want to date or be seen with me around their friends or family because they are worried about what people think, they just want sex with me and then they are gone, never to be seen again. It's a lonely life, next year I am 40 and feel like time is running out to find a guy who truly appreciates me.
I am sorry to hear that. I am a Transwoman who hasn’t transitioned and thought maybe i could live without Transitioning by just being more feminine and just date gay guys. But as you said most gays are looking for masculine men and not „another woman“. But right now i know a guy who is probably bi and he‘s so sweet and romantic to me even though we both aren’t out yet or anything. We‘ve known each other for a year know as friends but it‘s turning into something more. So don‘t give up! You will find the right people aswell! ❤
Im so sorry to hear that I haven’t been through the gay universe bc I transitioned pretty young but I’m sure it’s a lot too I wish I could have wise words about it❤
@@Adea yeah being gay isn't all rainbows unfortunately it's a pretty hard life in many ways caused by people inside and outside of the community, you have to grow a thick skin from early on. It's not been all bad times though, over the years I've met some nice people because of who I am and been supported by straight people too. And you look beautiful for transitioning young, if I didn't know you I'd never have guessed you are trans. Make the most of it because it didn't seem that long ago I was your age and now I'm practically middle aged or close to it and will probably become undesirable soon enough once the wrinkles set in into my 40s. Time flies.
I kind of disagree with Adea there's a lot of men who love trans women reason why I say that is because they're a good Cooks they are women that want to please a man and make a good husband❤ because I have dated and was engaged to a trans woman and when I was walking with her when she was alive men were looking at her and want to be with her and they will fight me just to be with her so there's a lot of men that do accept trans woman because they are really beautiful beautiful the beautiful women upon this Earth
I disagree. Blayton attention maybe but no, I am not attractive at all Is point 01 percent. Ladies always make Is propriate gazes at your crouch all day and I often feel like. Idk weird . So
Just want to add obviously there’s different circumstances some men have hard lives and it’s not always easy I was just summing it up shortly and a bit of delulu is good sometimes:)))
What about in Ukraine? The men there have it pretty hard.
Adea give us an update on you're uterus transplant and how everything's going plsss🫶🫶
@@iamonney What uterus transplant ??
To be honest with you I have dated a trans woman and it was the best experience ever you need to find man who will love you and accept you there are a lot of men who are now accepting trans women ever than before so that's something to feel good about❤❤❤
@@compscinewengland4797did you read my comment babe
As someone who transitioned over 15 years ago I would say the way I present my transness to men is really the key. When I finally decide to tell them, the tone in which I deliver it to them is most important. If you view your state of being trans as some sort of doom & gloom or negative thing, that’s how everyone else will perceive it. Prefacing it with “don’t be scared” or “I have something important to tell you & I’m not sure how you’re going to feel about me after” is just asking to be rejected. Also save yourself the heartbreak of waiting too long to tell him. Waiting too long indicates you’re trying to hide something, hiding something indicates it’s negative or you’re ashamed. That may or may not be how you feel, but that’s how it comes off to cis het men. If you haven’t learned to love yourself as a transgender woman, dating will always be a challenge.
Thank you for sharing this. I needed to hear this ❤
Where do you girls even live. I am here refusing so date cis girl just so that my soul mate will be a transe. But couldn't find anyone. I know there are a lot of you girls but how to find you
You are so right about the guy not standing his ground regarding his opinions. It's such a good indicator, I've experienced it many times myself
Have a nice day! ❤
Right!!! It’s so annoying and sad :(
Girl this hair color is absolutely gorgeous on u. Deadass what do I ask for at the salon😂
Thankyouuu it’s called milk tea💕
Я хочу на вас походить ??@@Adea
most guys are hole is hole when it comes down to it, if he's attracted to you he'll probably be cool with it.
This!!!
Thanks for the upload! As someone who is just dipping their toe into dating CIS men, I really appreciate it and would love to see more! 😊
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pls more storytimesss im obsessed with your storytimes
Noted and ty bb
i just love the way you talk
As a 40 yr old hetero cis chic, I admire your inner strength, wise for your years maturity, & genuine beauty both inside and out. You radiate such confidence. It’s been such a pleasure, over the last year or so, watching you grow and settle into yourself. Your soul radiates such a bright light. And girl, that HAIR. That GLOW. That BEAT. Absolute perfection 😍
Been following your videos on TH-cam for a while, Adea, and the one thing I've always wondered is, how important is ongoing counseling to transition successfully? The points you made at the end of this video were a) really great and b) suggest that in a lot of ways, "feminization" (surgeries, grooming, etc.) is only a first step. Once you've quieted the worst gender/body dysmorphia, you're at square one of normalizing your life: finding a companion, forming a relationship. At that point, you're facing the issues everybody faces, trans or not, but with the additional complications of being trans. There must be so many questions of whom you can open up to, how to be a less exaggerated version of one's "new" self, etc. That's a LOT to deal with on your own and in the flow of things. Where do you find support? How do you get other perspectives to help interpret and integrate your experiences? One of the things I loved about your visit to Maya Henry's channel was this idea of a circle of women (community might be too firm a word) experiencing some of the same things. I hope there are resources-people, books, videos, etc.-that you can turn to. I admire how you've become just that kind of resource yourself. Maybe that helps just as much!
Thankyou for following me through all this time that’s crazy that you’re mentioning all of this because my next video is a lot about that!!! And Thankyou for your support bb
Я на вас смотрю и очень хочу стать как ты чтоб все у меня было как у вас и кансультироватся ТОЛЬКА с тобой подскажи с чего ты начинала?❤❤❤
It’s easy to spot when a guy just hang around because they want to have fun. As you said the time they text you. For me personally this guy would always text me around 4 pm. Always hitting me up before he gets off work. Then there was this other guy that I really kicked it off with and got intimate with. The sex was amazing, but after hooking up his personality change. Then he start acting normal and every time we hook up he would act different afterwards. I spot it the first time, and I was ok with giving it a few chances because I was into him and enjoy hooking up with him, but the fourth time I blocked him afterward.
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Adea you are very special and i will always support you and your transition . I will always come for you no matter what it would ever cost me . Sgt K Smith retired usmc
Adea ... Really liked this video ... hope you make more like it!
Awee tysm I’m so happy you like it❤
Great Video Adea you really went into so much depth i actually learned a lot hope you're doing well 🙂
Be happy to be a person you are now because your worth it
thank you for these vids !!! you are an angel, im 15 now and i came out as trans in 2022 so having this knowledge early on in my transition is so helpful, it’s amazing to have someone like you to watch and learn from💟
Stop ily❤
That was a nice thing for you to say. I hope everything goes well for you
I’ve been watching u since 2019 omggg❤️
Omg tysm for the support ily❤
NEW HAIR IS DEMURE ✊✊
Why is everyone using this word now lije they didn't have it in their vocabulary before? Smh.
@@RoseTorn411 its a trend ... 😭
@@lilly0440 I know and it's annoying! Just like when ppl started using cordial. 🙄
@@RoseTorn411not very demure of you 🦄
@@zephyr2k8 doll ate
Love ❤️ your storytime videos ❤
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I am trans too and dating it's not hard at all I have been in a relationship for 5 years now and it's was never that hard as a woman, and even thing's like meeting my in law's was very easy and they are pretty conservative and even like that they really like me and I am the first trans girlfriend of my boyfriend I don't know if they know that i am trans thought 🤔 but probably they do.
Thanks so much for your service sis! You truly are a beacon of light. Also, would you say that telling in person is better than texting?
Greetings from detroit❤ From a trans guy:))
New sub
Hiii welcome!!💕
@@Adeaя❤очень тебя полюбил и хочу быть похож на тебя помоги мне начать переход я очень хочу чтоб помогла я буду тогда счастлив дай ответ пожалуйста андрей❤
So if I cannot be a hot man or I don’t want to be a man , I can try to be a hot woman! 🤥😬😵💫🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐
love you so much
Ily
Ok , I love the video BUT I live for the hair !!!
Pls keep it lol !
Pls tell me the exact colour , this is too cute !
Ty!!! It’s called milk tea
how to date if u dont pass
Plastic surgery
I have a trans friend and she seems to find it very easy to date guys. Whereas I am a fem gay guy and 95% of gay guys don't like me, they like muscles, hairy bodies, guys who don't pluck their eyebrows or are into beauty etc. I find that "curious" or bi guys seem to like me the most but these guys don't want to date or be seen with me around their friends or family because they are worried about what people think, they just want sex with me and then they are gone, never to be seen again. It's a lonely life, next year I am 40 and feel like time is running out to find a guy who truly appreciates me.
I am sorry to hear that. I am a Transwoman who hasn’t transitioned and thought maybe i could live without Transitioning by just being more feminine and just date gay guys. But as you said most gays are looking for masculine men and not „another woman“. But right now i know a guy who is probably bi and he‘s so sweet and romantic to me even though we both aren’t out yet or anything. We‘ve known each other for a year know as friends but it‘s turning into something more. So don‘t give up! You will find the right people aswell! ❤
Im so sorry to hear that I haven’t been through the gay universe bc I transitioned pretty young but I’m sure it’s a lot too I wish I could have wise words about it❤
@@Adea yeah being gay isn't all rainbows unfortunately it's a pretty hard life in many ways caused by people inside and outside of the community, you have to grow a thick skin from early on. It's not been all bad times though, over the years I've met some nice people because of who I am and been supported by straight people too. And you look beautiful for transitioning young, if I didn't know you I'd never have guessed you are trans. Make the most of it because it didn't seem that long ago I was your age and now I'm practically middle aged or close to it and will probably become undesirable soon enough once the wrinkles set in into my 40s. Time flies.
❤❤❤❤ beautiful
I kind of disagree with Adea there's a lot of men who love trans women reason why I say that is because they're a good Cooks they are women that want to please a man and make a good husband❤ because I have dated and was engaged to a trans woman and when I was walking with her when she was alive men were looking at her and want to be with her and they will fight me just to be with her so there's a lot of men that do accept trans woman because they are really beautiful beautiful the beautiful women upon this Earth
Fair opinion I get what you are saying just every time I’ve let sum in my life from experience it has always ended in a bad ending
Awww I’m sorry about that may she R.I.P
where is a good place for a trans girl, get dated or find a date?
I like hinge and bumble and used to like tinder but I’m banned lol
@@Adea so you are a bit of a bad girl to get banned from Tinder? I like that!
Amazing video ❤
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You could make a show, tho ❤
Ily
I love you babe x
Love you too 💕
Ive been looking to date trans woman but bo success 😢
When you pass yes lol
I pass and it's hard to date here 🥲
@@emmatemesiomusic i pass too but i am not unclockable. And its harder if you're not passable or not a youngshit
@@emmatemesiomusic its hard here too ... :(
@@Aurora146 society sucks..
@@emmatemesiomusic yes 😣
Adea did you have to stop taking hormones for FFS?
You are so beautiful cutie
Tysm😘
Я так хочу быть похожим на тебя подскажи???❤️@@Adea
girl, not the arab guys...🚩
I identify you as a man, why is your opinion more valid than mine, and why does my opinion offend you.
She’s a woman now who should be allowed to feel right and happy in her own body gender and whatever else without trolls judging
@@jacknelson927 not a troll that was a legitimate unanswered question
@@jacknelson927 I never said anything about how they feel, read my comment again
the only one here offended is you. are you upset that a trans girl looks way better than you? @dfjdskf9234j4fisd
I disagree. Blayton attention maybe but no, I am not attractive at all Is point 01 percent. Ladies always make Is propriate gazes at your crouch all day and I often feel like. Idk weird . So
But maybe I went off course
I believe ladies are put to a standard that could feel like attention.Which is wrong?I do agree so maybe that's what I meant. Idk I'm on redbull
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