@@Adea I almost had sex with a guy who didn't know I was trans. I did foreplay etc. But I had to stop cause I was feeling bad with my botched nose. Same with another guy in French Rivera he approached me and I took his number but I don't want to have to disclose to people I don't even know and not sure I even want any kind of relation with them. I always put myself in dangerous situations recently.
Love you, Adea. I don't know where people got the idea that being a trans woman was not hard as hell. You have to put effort into how you look, but also how you stand, how you move, how you talk, how you look at people, what you will do in a social situation, what you will let others do for you. People today seem to think they can just say in their head "I'm a woman," and do nothing to emulate women. This is just a plan to be miserable and feel like people are against you. We can't change the world, but we damn well can change ourselves. You are such a good example!
As somebody who didn't grow up as wealthy or privileged as Adea. It's unfair to claim that we have to change ourselves in order to be perceived correctly. I was finally able to get my FFS at 20 years old (my first trans related surgery) after working at an Amazon Warehouse for nearly 2 years. For Adea to have everything she has at her age. That's a prime example of privilege, and an opportunity that not everybody will have. Heck, I started HRT at 17 because I didn't have supportive parents to allow me to start early enough to off-set male puberty. So, my voice is now permanently damaged from male puberty. Something Adea doesn't seem to really have experienced considering her voice is completely cis passing. 🤷♀(I have been voice training since I was like 12 years old and still get clocked for my voice)
@@adrianfox7535 If what I said is wrong, why are you changing? Why are you getting the surgeries and taking the 'mones and doing voice training? What does Adea's money have to do with the fact that you have to pass, to pass? Maybe try transitioning away from communism as well as masculinity. The communists will never give you what you want, need, or desire. They will only use you and screw you in the end.
@@adrianfox7535 that's very true, not everyone can even pass after male puberty even with surgeries, and it's costly. That being said, even if you had male puberty ( I did too and it ruined my life, I was so beautiful before ) you were also privileged to start at 17 yo.
I love the simile you used about how we have to repaint our canvas to be ourselves, most of the time society just sees the process of our transition and how we get from a to b without actually focusing on the person themselves. I love your videos so much you're a Queen 🫶🏻
just to point out, you CAN and WILL find good men even if you are pre-op! your worth and sex appeal is much larger than a surgery or a body part and the men who get it, get it.
I've got my srs done 3 weeks earlier, and just found your channel you can't imagine how good it felt to finnaly see a trans women spitting facts about everything a trans women is. You're so blunt and truthful it really got me feel better. It's not to the world to change for us, but us to work on ourselves ! Thank you so much for you videos. I got lucky that I worked really hard on my appearence so I never got to experience with men too much since I just found straight away the good one, but seing your video makes me aware of how hard it may be to date indeed and defenetly your advices will help those who struggle with it.
Love these kind of videos it doesn’t make me feel like I’m going through it alone and there’s someone else experiencing the same thing as me which is makes me stronger.
Hello, from a trans sister, who is in her 50s. When I was in my 20s, in the 90s, my trans issue was never an issue for any of my boyfriends. I lived with the guy who was studying to be a lawyer and at The same time he competed in strength sports. I was always at the competitions, taking care of his stuff I was always training with him. He never tried to hide me. I am also pre op to this day and will be forever. None of my boyfriends are closeted gays, or chasers, because none of them have trans, girlfriend after me. Genital does not determine your gender and even less your personality. It’s the person we are with not their genitalia. I also did international fitness modelling career all over the world in stealth. My medical issues have never been an issue in a relationship over the decades 🎉 At the moment I’m in a relationship with a Conservative Muslim who pray five times a day and he’s half younger than I am. We have been together six years. Maybe today’s dating world is more superficial in every category, (if there is some). I never felt I ever belong to any, I have always been me. ❤
As a feminine gay guy it's a funny world because most other gay guys don't like me, they often say if I wanted a feminine guy I might as well date women, fair enough but I can't change who I am. I find that I get most attention from bi guys or curious ones. Problem is these kinds of guys are not comfortable being seen in a relationship with another guy or be outed as bi or whatever, it's that toxic masculinity thing rearing it's head. They'd rather be in a relationship with a woman and they'd never in a million years tell their macho friends whilst watching sport that they screwed another guy the day before. So the single life is a frequent thing for me. I guess this mirrors what some trans women go through in that bi guys just use you and then go back to their wife, kids and usual acquaintances. This is my experience as a fem gay guy. By the way you are absolutely beautiful I'd never have guessed you are trans at all. You have a nice voice too, it just sounds like any other young woman in my opinion. No doubt straight guys would be very attracted to you I'm sure of that if they passed you in the street. I guess being on the blockers early helped a lot before the testosterone really ramped up.
@@aurora3655Yeah very true. Trans girls don't turn me on, when I look at you I just see a female in all intents and purposes. Some might still have a penis and that's nice, I do like a penis after all but everything else to me is female and so it's a no no. I like the whole guy package if you know what I mean, body hair, stubble, some muscle tone etc. I couldn't go out hand in hand with a trans girl and be like she's my girlfriend because that's what she would be and it would never get that far anyway. And so I've never had an abrupt personality change and gone out of my way to date a trans girl or slept with one. I like guys, everything about them being intimate and even just cuddling and stuff, I dunno what it is I suppose it's the same for straight women. I couldn't do all that with trans women because I see them as women.
@@Gaz12345 Your story was litteraly mine before my transition. I always been super féminine didn't get a deep voice and I actracted a lot men but I was physically a man myself and it was so hard to find someone to be with, they had no problem when it was to get sex but as soon as you wanted more than that they flew away saying "I'm not gay" ... Now that I transitionned cause being a man physically was pain for me, I have no more issues with men. And I truly am sorry that you have to go through that you surely are a unique and rare pearl and I am so sure aswell that you'll find someone nice that is clean in his head. Be yourself and never change for someone. You are beautiful as you are !
@@eliesage8030 Thank you so much that has made my day 🙂 you certainly get what I am talking about and that's refreshing. Yeah I'd like to find a guy that doesn't mind my feminine side and appreciates it, not just uses it for some sort of kink or fantasy and then disappears. I'm "one of a kind" as people tell me so as you know yourself from your past you get both positive and negative attention that goes a long with it. Basically you can't win as a fem guy. Anyway I'm glad you are doing well and so much better than before your transition, you seem all the more happier for it. 😊
Loved this video very much. Nice conversation. Although I would contradict one of your points and respond that dating a pre op/ non op doesn’t make a guy gay. And it is indeed straight men who can happen one day to be attracted to trans girls (or just generally to you) that is possible . It’s like in between categories. Often these men swipe on your dating profiles or meet in real life, didn’t know you were trans in the beginning, but own their attraction and accept it. Now I have seen these men (only a few) begin to fetishize the “chick with the d” thing….but often it’s just ordinary men who are attracted to femininity/ ordinary women and just accept that you are a special kind of woman
Great video! You made so many good points. I really think toxic masculinity is something that harms trans women especially hard, and honestly men themselves. No one deep down wants to always be putting on a show just to conform. Hopefully it starts to die down with subsequent generations, although the alt-right influencers like Tate and Rogan are doing their best to keep it alive :(
@@geoffreycasey875 just stop. please. like actually stop, this isn't okay. She's a woman, you don't have to keep reminding trans people what their starting point was, we know that she used to be a man, stop pointing out the obvious and stop misgendering. please stop.
Great video, Adea...and I agree with your categorization of the male population. Although, in my personal experience as a 51-year-old pre-op transwoman (until January next year😊) I have only had sexual encounters with men to this day - sadly not a single normal romantic date even though I'm passing in every way, including my voice due to feminising voice training, very well. They don't want to risk other people getting to know that I'm a transwoman if they are seen with me in public because they are too insecure due to the toxic masculinity that has been instilled in them since childhood. And to be honest it's beginning to get to me and affect my self-worth after several years like this even though I'm known to be a very mentally strong woman😢 We can only change ourselves, not other people...
Re: "canvas." Adea, you are like some renowned school in Vienna in the Renaissance. You should take on worthy students and show them the fine brushwork of becoming masterpieces!
You are gorgeous and I have a lot of respect for you girls and what you have had to deal with with most people i see you as a beautiful woman that I would have no problem being with ❤
Amazing video. The only thing I don't agree with is only gay or bi guy's dating pre-op/non-op. I've met men who didn't know I was pre-op, and when I told them, they accepted me as just being a bit different. They also didn't start obsessing over it either, like chasers often do. Other than that, I agree. Same with dating other women. Apart from far right exgremists (yes we have far right lesbians in sweden), nobody have really cared. Daily lufe transphobia is much more common in my experience though. People notice when I start speaking. I might learn sign language until I get that surgery 🙄 Also, you look stunning ans I love the vibes. Queen
I've dated Trans Women before and would proudly date another Trans Woman! I'm a 54 year old in flyover Kansas who is very accepting and don't care what other people think about who makes me happy! 👍
First off, it IS hard as hell being trans, and we DO have to work for every inch of femininity we have. STILL currently going through hell for it, so DAMN YES, we have a right to be proud and confident in who we are!! Hell, I'm damn proud just to still be alive!! I guess for those of us not straight, there's a ton of scrutiny that we have to deal with as well. Honestly, being on the lesbian side of pan and currently in a relationship, I'm almost terrified of being single again, and I would say if that happens, I'd be happy to just be alone. I'd feel unwelcome in most spaces, so there really is nothing wrong with wanting to be alone and learning to love yourself, because of all people in life, the only one who will never leave you is yourself ♥
what gets me being gay is that i always wished to be a woman. I am 27 and i still couldn’t afford any of it plus my circle is literally so homophobic that it hurts. I feel like life being in the wrong body is something nobody should ever have to life with. It brought me nothing good only pain, missed opportunities, A guy i rly could consider hes the one! but never could tell him my true feelings since im still in the closet and ofc A rly bad mental health which follows me since 13. it feels like being not able to be my true self took a life from me which i will never get back All the stolen memories ive could made gone all the scenes that could happen stayed in my head and i always had to say Oh honey this is to expensive for you better go the cheap way ( Situations i would so love to fit in but couldn’t so i had to leave) i don’t know what to do with my traumatic life and if i keep being like this its gonna end rly bad i fear
There are also women who date transwomen in a similar way nice chasers do that and open-minded straight women. Similar traits go across both genders but get expressed differently in women. I occasionally encountered male chasers but had no interest in them. 😮 I have friends who hang out with me, like they did before my transition, and they don't care about what people think.
I would never ever have a problem dating and being in a relationship with a transgender woman. We are all human beings at the end of the day and transgender women go through an awful lot of pain, money, stress change their bodies to match what their minds and souls are and it is hard work for life. I would never want to hide and not been seen in public if I was dating and in a relationship with a transgender woman because why hide the stunningly beautiful woman your in love with.😘🌹❤🥰😍
I feel like when it comes to chasers they always want that Pre op moment but even the open minded actually recently I got my first ever “ I will not do it but if you were post sure” I was like okurrr and there’s no need to feel bad I will stay PREEEE OP HUNNIIII I feel like w the whole chasers thing it gives if you’re pretty you can do anything vibes
okay bichh you actually look good here, glammed up the eyebrows are more far apart , less arched contour is right eyes is right nose is snatched like okayyyyy drop the makeup routine for the dollzzzz
Hello Adea i'm a new subscriber it was great meeting you on Maya V Henry's latest Brain Rot Stream Brilliant Episode getting everything out there leaving no cards on the table huge respect.
I’ve been lucky when it comes to dating, I’ve had 2 serious relationships, they only dated women prior to us and we’ve lived together and everything. It’s hard going back to dating when I’ve only experienced men that were open about being with me.
God I wish I transitioned 20 years ago. Now I’m old. And bald. And yes there are super real wigs out there. I’m lucky to be super slender. Never been a “manly man”. No big chest. How did you get this voice? Surgery or did you transition before puberty? Your waist? How do you have such a feminine figure? I’m a rectangle. No hips. No ass. I’m so afraid to just be me. So afraid
I agree with some of the stuff you said, but don’t tell the girls to not tell the guys that they are trans. They need to tell them off rip when they meet them. A lot of people get hurt or get killed just because of that so I don’t agree with that part. If you are trans let them know.
Thanks To Caitlyn Jenner, I Am More Open To Love Trans Women. Dating A Trans Woman? 😱 Yes!👍👌💪 Will Be A Romantic Relationship. 😍😘 Trans Women Deserves Love, Support & Worship. 💞💞💞
As a straight guy I am attracted to femininity, What's between their legs doesn't matter to me. Ive dated cis women and been with trans women and for me the attraction is purely how they present themselves (both internally and externally), like I dont find cis men, gay men, cross dressers, trans men etc or anyone who associates with being male remotely attractive. Trans women regardless of if they've had surgery or not are woman and for me that is absolutely fine.
Hello how's it going I have dated and I was engaged to a trans woman now she is gone because a drunk driver killed her when we was engaged I met her in a bar and she asked me do I like trans women I told her I like Christine Jorgensen she was the first transgender and when she heard that she fell in love with me and trans women are the most beautiful women upon the Earth❤
HEY GUYS I hope my experiences can help you I wish someone would have told me all this before all the drama I’ve been through with men 😬
Does it apply to trans girls who transitioned after male puberty?
no cs ur so real 😭
@@Adea I almost had sex with a guy who didn't know I was trans. I did foreplay etc. But I had to stop cause I was feeling bad with my botched nose. Same with another guy in French Rivera he approached me and I took his number but I don't want to have to disclose to people I don't even know and not sure I even want any kind of relation with them. I always put myself in dangerous situations recently.
@@Aurora146 well do you pass?
@@tsuyuasui7297 mostly yes but it's different than being a pre puberty transitioner
Love you, Adea. I don't know where people got the idea that being a trans woman was not hard as hell. You have to put effort into how you look, but also how you stand, how you move, how you talk, how you look at people, what you will do in a social situation, what you will let others do for you. People today seem to think they can just say in their head "I'm a woman," and do nothing to emulate women. This is just a plan to be miserable and feel like people are against you. We can't change the world, but we damn well can change ourselves. You are such a good example!
It's extremely hard
I love you❤
As somebody who didn't grow up as wealthy or privileged as Adea. It's unfair to claim that we have to change ourselves in order to be perceived correctly. I was finally able to get my FFS at 20 years old (my first trans related surgery) after working at an Amazon Warehouse for nearly 2 years. For Adea to have everything she has at her age. That's a prime example of privilege, and an opportunity that not everybody will have. Heck, I started HRT at 17 because I didn't have supportive parents to allow me to start early enough to off-set male puberty. So, my voice is now permanently damaged from male puberty. Something Adea doesn't seem to really have experienced considering her voice is completely cis passing. 🤷♀(I have been voice training since I was like 12 years old and still get clocked for my voice)
@@adrianfox7535 If what I said is wrong, why are you changing? Why are you getting the surgeries and taking the 'mones and doing voice training?
What does Adea's money have to do with the fact that you have to pass, to pass?
Maybe try transitioning away from communism as well as masculinity.
The communists will never give you what you want, need, or desire. They will only use you and screw you in the end.
@@adrianfox7535 that's very true, not everyone can even pass after male puberty even with surgeries, and it's costly. That being said, even if you had male puberty ( I did too and it ruined my life, I was so beautiful before ) you were also privileged to start at 17 yo.
I love the simile you used about how we have to repaint our canvas to be ourselves, most of the time society just sees the process of our transition and how we get from a to b without actually focusing on the person themselves. I love your videos so much you're a Queen 🫶🏻
You are beautiful and sound like a genuine, nice person. That should be what matters most. 😊
The rapper/pop star is Tyga and the music video was with Iggy Azalea and the trans chick who got cut from the video is Eden The Doll
thx
Yesssss, Tyga is a knowwwwwnnnnn chaser. He loves the LA dolls.
Yeah! I remember this story, Eden spoke about it on her channel.
tea
just to point out, you CAN and WILL find good men even if you are pre-op! your worth and sex appeal is much larger than a surgery or a body part and the men who get it, get it.
Is more.....you get it ????!!!!!!
100%
Sincere and good men exist out there. Indeed.
You actually have better chance finding love pre-op
@@dotplan gay men yes
loved this video sm
I've got my srs done 3 weeks earlier, and just found your channel you can't imagine how good it felt to finnaly see a trans women spitting facts about everything a trans women is. You're so blunt and truthful it really got me feel better. It's not to the world to change for us, but us to work on ourselves ! Thank you so much for you videos.
I got lucky that I worked really hard on my appearence so I never got to experience with men too much since I just found straight away the good one, but seing your video makes me aware of how hard it may be to date indeed and defenetly your advices will help those who struggle with it.
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Good luck with recovery beautiful
Thank you for all that energy and strengh you're giving us. Thank you for the bottom of my heart. You are a true inspiration.
Xxx
I love your videos. You're so honest, funny and down to earth. Your honesty is so rare to find in trans spaces nowadays. Keep up the good work
Love these kind of videos it doesn’t make me feel like I’m going through it alone and there’s someone else experiencing the same thing as me which is makes me stronger.
Thank you for taking the time to make this video.. It's girls like you who is going to help change society into a more educated world of tomorrow.
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Hello, from a trans sister, who is in her 50s. When I was in my 20s, in the 90s, my trans issue was never an issue for any of my boyfriends. I lived with the guy who was studying to be a lawyer and at The same time he competed in strength sports. I was always at the competitions, taking care of his stuff I was always training with him. He never tried to hide me. I am also pre op to this day and will be forever. None of my boyfriends are closeted gays, or chasers, because none of them have trans, girlfriend after me. Genital does not determine your gender and even less your personality. It’s the person we are with not their genitalia.
I also did international fitness modelling career all over the world in stealth. My medical issues have never been an issue in a relationship over the decades 🎉
At the moment I’m in a relationship with a Conservative Muslim who pray five times a day and he’s half younger than I am. We have been together six years.
Maybe today’s dating world is more superficial in every category, (if there is some).
I never felt I ever belong to any, I have always been me. ❤
Why you didnt got the surgery? I dont undestand hahahah
Nice to read that but why hasn’t he marry you yet? Normally in Islam marriage is obligatatory and happens fast
Your an icon, I have so much internalized transphobia, especially since I’m stealth, but you help me to love that part of myself 🌷
I’m happy to hear that💕
Yess Adea more stories please you’re entertaining to watch
Omg girl, I love your videos, and YES PLEASE MAKE STORYTIME VIDEOS AGAIN, your storytimes are the best❤
As a feminine gay guy it's a funny world because most other gay guys don't like me, they often say if I wanted a feminine guy I might as well date women, fair enough but I can't change who I am. I find that I get most attention from bi guys or curious ones. Problem is these kinds of guys are not comfortable being seen in a relationship with another guy or be outed as bi or whatever, it's that toxic masculinity thing rearing it's head. They'd rather be in a relationship with a woman and they'd never in a million years tell their macho friends whilst watching sport that they screwed another guy the day before. So the single life is a frequent thing for me.
I guess this mirrors what some trans women go through in that bi guys just use you and then go back to their wife, kids and usual acquaintances. This is my experience as a fem gay guy. By the way you are absolutely beautiful I'd never have guessed you are trans at all. You have a nice voice too, it just sounds like any other young woman in my opinion. No doubt straight guys would be very attracted to you I'm sure of that if they passed you in the street. I guess being on the blockers early helped a lot before the testosterone really ramped up.
@@aurora3655Yeah very true. Trans girls don't turn me on, when I look at you I just see a female in all intents and purposes. Some might still have a penis and that's nice, I do like a penis after all but everything else to me is female and so it's a no no. I like the whole guy package if you know what I mean, body hair, stubble, some muscle tone etc. I couldn't go out hand in hand with a trans girl and be like she's my girlfriend because that's what she would be and it would never get that far anyway. And so I've never had an abrupt personality change and gone out of my way to date a trans girl or slept with one. I like guys, everything about them being intimate and even just cuddling and stuff, I dunno what it is I suppose it's the same for straight women. I couldn't do all that with trans women because I see them as women.
@@Gaz12345 Your story was litteraly mine before my transition. I always been super féminine didn't get a deep voice and I actracted a lot men but I was physically a man myself and it was so hard to find someone to be with, they had no problem when it was to get sex but as soon as you wanted more than that they flew away saying "I'm not gay" ... Now that I transitionned cause being a man physically was pain for me, I have no more issues with men. And I truly am sorry that you have to go through that you surely are a unique and rare pearl and I am so sure aswell that you'll find someone nice that is clean in his head. Be yourself and never change for someone. You are beautiful as you are !
@@eliesage8030 Thank you so much that has made my day 🙂 you certainly get what I am talking about and that's refreshing. Yeah I'd like to find a guy that doesn't mind my feminine side and appreciates it, not just uses it for some sort of kink or fantasy and then disappears. I'm "one of a kind" as people tell me so as you know yourself from your past you get both positive and negative attention that goes a long with it. Basically you can't win as a fem guy. Anyway I'm glad you are doing well and so much better than before your transition, you seem all the more happier for it. 😊
You're a twink?
Loved this video very much. Nice conversation. Although I would contradict one of your points and respond that dating a pre op/ non op doesn’t make a guy gay. And it is indeed straight men who can happen one day to be attracted to trans girls (or just generally to you) that is possible . It’s like in between categories. Often these men swipe on your dating profiles or meet in real life, didn’t know you were trans in the beginning, but own their attraction and accept it. Now I have seen these men (only a few) begin to fetishize the “chick with the d” thing….but often it’s just ordinary men who are attracted to femininity/ ordinary women and just accept that you are a special kind of woman
Thankyou! And I kind of agree!!
Girl. You are too perfect.
Great advice, you're so gorgeous ❤
Great video! You made so many good points. I really think toxic masculinity is something that harms trans women especially hard, and honestly men themselves. No one deep down wants to always be putting on a show just to conform. Hopefully it starts to die down with subsequent generations, although the alt-right influencers like Tate and Rogan are doing their best to keep it alive :(
Young men cant get a break😂 Cis gorls dont want them, trans dont want them.
Ur such a beautiful woman
It's a man
@@geoffreycasey875 why do you have to be negative
@@geoffreycasey875 hater
@@FMoment4311 it is the truth
@@geoffreycasey875 just stop. please. like actually stop, this isn't okay. She's a woman, you don't have to keep reminding trans people what their starting point was, we know that she used to be a man, stop pointing out the obvious and stop misgendering. please stop.
you are drop-dead gorgeous
You are a beautiful lady,Adea.Reach for the stars,because you're worth it.
Queen adea with another flawless video
Thankyou Adea for making us proud to be ourselves again.😢
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You look great and it's so good to hear you OWN IT! 👍😊
We want videos about your style/outfits I’m in loveeee
Great video, Adea...and I agree with your categorization of the male population. Although, in my personal experience as a 51-year-old pre-op transwoman (until January next year😊) I have only had sexual encounters with men to this day - sadly not a single normal romantic date even though I'm passing in every way, including my voice due to feminising voice training, very well. They don't want to risk other people getting to know that I'm a transwoman if they are seen with me in public because they are too insecure due to the toxic masculinity that has been instilled in them since childhood. And to be honest it's beginning to get to me and affect my self-worth after several years like this even though I'm known to be a very mentally strong woman😢 We can only change ourselves, not other people...
Re: "canvas." Adea, you are like some renowned school in Vienna in the Renaissance. You should take on worthy students and show them the fine brushwork of becoming masterpieces!
Omg as a straight cis girl I want all your story times! 😂 let me get out my popcorn
thank u adea!! i needddd this fr
Glad I can help💕
I just started my transition definitely needed this
Amazing glad I could help💕
🩷🏳️⚧️ Trans Is beautiful Always and Forever 🏳️⚧️ let,s love ADEA ❤She talks Truth Girls 👍
❤️I'm really happy when i see a notification pop up for your vids your honestly one of my favorite TH-camrs
please do some story times!! love your videos
Xoxo
Working on the loving myself part first so I don’t fall for some loser chaser. Would love some story time videos 😁
Yesssss
You are gorgeous and I have a lot of respect for you girls and what you have had to deal with with most people i see you as a beautiful woman that I would have no problem being with ❤
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Thank you for your reply ❤I think you are gorgeous ❤❤❤❤
You giving advice on dating is hilarious 😂
That intro is everythingg
Yes…..MORE Story time please🦊
Amazing video. The only thing I don't agree with is only gay or bi guy's dating pre-op/non-op. I've met men who didn't know I was pre-op, and when I told them, they accepted me as just being a bit different. They also didn't start obsessing over it either, like chasers often do. Other than that, I agree. Same with dating other women. Apart from far right exgremists (yes we have far right lesbians in sweden), nobody have really cared.
Daily lufe transphobia is much more common in my experience though. People notice when I start speaking. I might learn sign language until I get that surgery 🙄
Also, you look stunning ans I love the vibes. Queen
I've dated Trans Women before and would proudly date another Trans Woman! I'm a 54 year old in flyover Kansas who is very accepting and don't care what other people think about who makes me happy! 👍
First off, it IS hard as hell being trans, and we DO have to work for every inch of femininity we have. STILL currently going through hell for it, so DAMN YES, we have a right to be proud and confident in who we are!! Hell, I'm damn proud just to still be alive!!
I guess for those of us not straight, there's a ton of scrutiny that we have to deal with as well. Honestly, being on the lesbian side of pan and currently in a relationship, I'm almost terrified of being single again, and I would say if that happens, I'd be happy to just be alone. I'd feel unwelcome in most spaces, so there really is nothing wrong with wanting to be alone and learning to love yourself, because of all people in life, the only one who will never leave you is yourself ♥
what gets me being gay is that i always wished to be a woman. I am 27 and i still couldn’t afford any of it plus my circle is literally so homophobic that it hurts. I feel like life being in the wrong body is something nobody should ever have to life with. It brought me nothing good only pain, missed opportunities, A guy i rly could consider hes the one! but never could tell him my true feelings since im still in the closet and ofc A rly bad mental health which follows me since 13. it feels like being not able to be my true self took a life from me which i will never get back All the stolen memories ive could made gone all the scenes that could happen stayed in my head and i always had to say Oh honey this is to expensive for you better go the cheap way ( Situations i would so love to fit in but couldn’t so i had to leave) i don’t know what to do with my traumatic life and if i keep being like this its gonna end rly bad i fear
There are also women who date transwomen in a similar way nice chasers do that and open-minded straight women. Similar traits go across both genders but get expressed differently in women. I occasionally encountered male chasers but had no interest in them. 😮 I have friends who hang out with me, like they did before my transition, and they don't care about what people think.
THIS!!! ❤
I would never ever have a problem dating and being in a relationship with a transgender woman. We are all human beings at the end of the day and transgender women go through an awful lot of pain, money, stress change their bodies to match what their minds and souls are and it is hard work for life. I would never want to hide and not been seen in public if I was dating and in a relationship with a transgender woman because why hide the stunningly beautiful woman your in love with.😘🌹❤🥰😍
Me dating a transgender would never ever be a problem for me
That’s great
Is any problem dating a trans. Anyway.....
Ew
@@jamesb4729 ur mom and genes are
@@jamesb4729shut up, you’re ew
Wizard Liz but for trans girl
I feel like when it comes to chasers they always want that Pre op moment but even the open minded actually recently I got my first ever “ I will not do it but if you were post sure” I was like okurrr and there’s no need to feel bad I will stay PREEEE OP HUNNIIII
I feel like w the whole chasers thing it gives if you’re pretty you can do anything vibes
True
Please we need more dating story times. Tell us about your longest relationship.
Thank you so much, you are an inspiration to all of us and I love you. I always feel better after watching you and listening to your videos.
You are beautiful adea😅
On 6:14 I literally knew who you were talking about, and which video...
This is so ridiculous in my opinion...
Eden the doll and tyga? yeah
TH-cam ERA ATEEEEEEE
Yayyyy
love you gorgeous!!
MOTHER HAS POSTED!! OMG GIRL WHERE WERE UUUU
I posted last week lol😂😘
I wish my room was as clean as yours ❤ that will never happen..
you are so mature for your age!
okay bichh you actually look good here, glammed up the eyebrows are more far apart , less arched contour is right eyes is right nose is snatched like okayyyyy drop the makeup routine for the dollzzzz
she is talking about the time tyga and iggy did that video and eden the doll was told to go and she ended up being in the video for like 1 second
My friend is a trans I always thought trans pple supported one another and she told me that most people are in competition bad talking one another
Hello Adea i'm a new subscriber it was great meeting you on Maya V Henry's latest Brain Rot Stream Brilliant Episode getting everything out there leaving no cards on the table huge respect.
Thanks for your reply❤❤ I think you are gorgeous❤❤❤
That s the most perfect bloondy girl I ever seen.
So True!
First
You are very beautiful baby
Chasers need love too 😭
can you help a fellow trans woman and tell me who did your surgeries? youre stunning!
very good discussion baby
ur surgery came out amazing im so envious
Why wouldn't a man not want to be seen in public with you? You are beautiful, you give complete female energy.
also its so refreshing to see someone respond to positive comments, i hate when influencers only respond to negativity
GIVE US STORYTIMES
Can you make a video on different approaches, do you tell them online? When do you tell them etc etc? 💕
Such a wonderful message dear. 💯❤
I’ve been lucky when it comes to dating, I’ve had 2 serious relationships, they only dated women prior to us and we’ve lived together and everything. It’s hard going back to dating when I’ve only experienced men that were open about being with me.
Your nose looks really cute. I am female but I feel like my face looks very masculine . I hope to get my nose done like yours !
Me Dating a Transgender woman Would never be a Problem for me niether i,m not A Chaser i would date one now
God I wish I transitioned 20 years ago. Now I’m old. And bald. And yes there are super real wigs out there. I’m lucky to be super slender. Never been a “manly man”. No big chest.
How did you get this voice? Surgery or did you transition before puberty? Your waist? How do you have such a feminine figure? I’m a rectangle. No hips. No ass.
I’m so afraid to just be me. So afraid
I love how beautiful you are
where did u got ur custom necklace?💕
This jewelry store in Montreal
Very valuable info! We need more pls! 💕
Okay!! Xxx
Please do the storytimes
If you cant love yourselff how inda hell you gonna love somebody elsee??
Amen
How much work did you get done? How is your skin tunnel doing?
I agree with some of the stuff you said, but don’t tell the girls to not tell the guys that they are trans. They need to tell them off rip when they meet them. A lot of people get hurt or get killed just because of that so I don’t agree with that part. If you are trans let them know.
Bad bitchhhhhh😍😍😍
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Oo girl your mug sittin in this video so fish wtf!!
Thanks To Caitlyn Jenner, I Am More Open To Love Trans Women.
Dating A Trans Woman? 😱
Yes!👍👌💪 Will Be A Romantic Relationship. 😍😘
Trans Women Deserves Love, Support & Worship. 💞💞💞
As a straight guy I am attracted to femininity, What's between their legs doesn't matter to me. Ive dated cis women and been with trans women and for me the attraction is purely how they present themselves (both internally and externally), like I dont find cis men, gay men, cross dressers, trans men etc or anyone who associates with being male remotely attractive. Trans women regardless of if they've had surgery or not are woman and for me that is absolutely fine.
Hello how's it going I have dated and I was engaged to a trans woman now she is gone because a drunk driver killed her when we was engaged I met her in a bar and she asked me do I like trans women I told her I like Christine Jorgensen she was the first transgender and when she heard that she fell in love with me and trans women are the most beautiful women upon the Earth❤
I am a trans man, I am bisexual so idk how to date people 😅😅
Were love it to see you in are world
i want children, that is my only problem
Honestly 😮 wow.. :)
I really like your videos, but from this one I expected more tips and advice :(
Adea are you looking for a relationship with someone
2:22 😂 even the dumbest people 👏🏽