How to Earn Respect Without Being A Jerk

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  • @jonchaton7541
    @jonchaton7541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Great vid! Ironically I've found that earning respect in this way makes jerks less jerky towards me. They become less defensive overall.

  • @woodyscabin
    @woodyscabin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm female and old. It is SO REFRESHING to watch your channel. Real gentlemen doing as gentlemen should. Thank you, a gentleman, for being out there STILL. So many young men need this.

  • @jamess4688
    @jamess4688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love how your channel is much more than clothing and dress. This holistic approach taken in helping men become gentlemen, inside and out, is very much needed in this world and appreciated. Keep up the great work.

  • @miguelluis483
    @miguelluis483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The acting, my God, the acting.

    • @ronaldmalcolm5609
      @ronaldmalcolm5609 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not any worse than the acting on the typical live-action Disney show.

    • @miguelluis483
      @miguelluis483 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ronaldmalcolm5609 by any means

  • @eoinmaclean6478
    @eoinmaclean6478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Your role-play acting clips are HILARIOUS! I would pay for an office comedy film with the three of you acting in it.

  • @trout6629
    @trout6629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    please don't stop saying "Peasant". It cracks me up every time 😂

    • @carltrotter7622
      @carltrotter7622 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's funny because he uses it with no harm meant whilst most people will use that term when thinking of themselves as better as the 'common folk' whilst Sven is just trying to get his point across xD

  • @Aishcrazy
    @Aishcrazy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Preston's acting can put Lionardo Dicaprio to shame

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      His acting is nuanced; I like to think of mine as "accessible." :) Thanks for watching!
      - Preston

  • @lolvonlolipopp
    @lolvonlolipopp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Your tie knot is perfection!

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you

    • @BobTheHatKing
      @BobTheHatKing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was slightly irritated that it was crooked lol. You look great though, Raphael!

  • @Gerry1of1
    @Gerry1of1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have completely stopped expecting any respect or courtesy when out in public. "I do what I want" seems to be the standard rule of behavior for most people. I'm only responsible for my behavior so I try to be polite to others and it's very pleasant and welcome when it's returned. Though I stopped expecting manners from others.

  • @herculepoirot4488
    @herculepoirot4488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Sven Raphael Schneider and Preston, the dream team. You both are great people and chivalirious gentelmen.

  • @Uyoba
    @Uyoba 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    + RESPECT /San Andreas mission complete theme playin'/

  • @Quinntheeskimo99
    @Quinntheeskimo99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This vid should be shown in UK schools to kids aged (say) 14 plus, and then followed up. More use than some parts of the National Curriculum.

  • @TFreemanJohnson
    @TFreemanJohnson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The world does seem to be getting nastier day by day. Sharing your thoughts in this video is a subtle but powerful force in restoring civility.
    I admire the way your personal style in clothing reflects your personal philosophy. The fact that you dress in a way that bucks the trend toward slovenliness shows personal confidence which in turn indicates that you’re ready to respect the unique worth of anyone you meet.
    A true gentleman doesn’t need impress others and doesn’t demand that others impress him. His graciousness has the sly effect of inviting others to rise to his level of confidence tempered with humility.
    I’m grateful for your work.

  • @chrissanchez9935
    @chrissanchez9935 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank You for the video. Very educational, Sir.

  • @m.k.v.g.7203
    @m.k.v.g.7203 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very good video on basic Gentleman's behaviour. Description and comparison can hit the bullseye much more precisely than insults.

  • @carltrotter7622
    @carltrotter7622 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The acting was hilarious xD - Good job. Definitely a memorable video!

  • @charlesware5767
    @charlesware5767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Preston's New York Italian impression is um... lacking. Lol. Good job guys always entertaining.

  • @jamierife7789
    @jamierife7789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was an extremely entertaining video! Thanks guys!

  • @RizwanKler
    @RizwanKler 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Raphael & Preston for such an important topic covered so politely 😎

  • @michaelmcdonnell5998
    @michaelmcdonnell5998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He attac
    He protec
    but most importantly
    He earn respec!

  • @alizarkami6187
    @alizarkami6187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Use more of that acting and less stock photo pictures. It's more organic and fun! Also great videos!

  • @bencorley8687
    @bencorley8687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New Subscriber today. I like the look book at the end of the video. Classy, and helpful for sure. Thank you.

  • @scottmacmillan9436
    @scottmacmillan9436 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy that I found your site. I enjoy the information found in the videos so much. A great help for people like myself who aren't looking to alter their looks, attire, or behaviour for vanity or as a way of getting ahead, but simply seeking to put their best selves forward. Thank you.

  • @kellydunn2528
    @kellydunn2528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'd love to be a part of your team. That I am afraid is a pipe dream. First, I am retired (nearly 63). Second, I live in Kansas City. And third, I could only be a contracting consultant. A part from those exceptions I'd love to come and join in the fun. It is fun isn't it? It looks fun.

  • @ewanwilson1974
    @ewanwilson1974 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve personally witnessed this firsthand. It was a couple of days ago and I was on my evening shift at work, and there was this guy who was dressed like a 21st century gangster. I didn’t judge him because he could have been a nice person. However he was yelling into his phone on speaker. He was yelling things like “MY NAME ISNT JASON, ITS SIR!”. I ended up feeling kind of bad for the guy on the other end for the way he was being talked to. Unfortunately there was nothing I could do, and my supervisors couldn’t either because he wasn’t doing anything to violate the store policies or endanger the other customers.

  • @geroldatlarge1841
    @geroldatlarge1841 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The channel is getting better.

  • @patrickwwallace89
    @patrickwwallace89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey, thank you for these videos! What a neat niche you're filling.

  • @DavidLinn
    @DavidLinn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love the very subtle camera movement to keep us engaged

  • @jamesrice21
    @jamesrice21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bet you guys had so much fun filming this haha!

  • @謝宗祐-j2x
    @謝宗祐-j2x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Why the definition of "jerk" so similar to politicians? loll

    • @giovannid.6264
      @giovannid.6264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And mentally ill people who put pineapple on pizza

    • @swabby429
      @swabby429 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch the finger-pointing my friend.

  • @Amory-wd3ws
    @Amory-wd3ws 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Preston's hair here was especially superb.

  • @jeffreyyehezkiel8259
    @jeffreyyehezkiel8259 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video have a lot of information. Gotta watch it again later. Thanks!

  • @Sam-lj9vj
    @Sam-lj9vj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    that smile at 1:42, that feeling when you know someone just lost the argument by starting to yell...

  • @silenos9955
    @silenos9955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Since Preston has a beard, he looks like a good father.

  • @sorabhsood
    @sorabhsood 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing this video

  • @HeleneLogan
    @HeleneLogan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations from one of the ladies and nice choice of bourbon there (3:39)! 😊

  • @LoLo-zr7bk
    @LoLo-zr7bk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m not a gentleman but I’m binging on your channel

  • @opetr198336
    @opetr198336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ye, I am all for continuing the “peasant” thing

  • @DavidLLambertmobile
    @DavidLLambertmobile 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are all the heroes in our own stories ... 👍😉📖...

  • @nicejosq803
    @nicejosq803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    just t-pose to assert your dominance

  • @justjacqueline2004
    @justjacqueline2004 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic video.

  • @lxr_rl
    @lxr_rl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Would love to see a proper beard on Preston!

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd like to try it, too--but alas, it's not to be. My facial hair is too patchy! Thanks for watching.
      - Preston

    • @TXCrafts1
      @TXCrafts1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think a Moustache is more suitable for Preston, It would give him that Clark Gable look.

  • @solecellarz2881
    @solecellarz2881 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way Preston was carrying himself trying to muscle Sven. Where is Pesci to help Preston understand the error of his ways.

  • @juliea.
    @juliea. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had found the D-bag comment from the other video funny. What a good video. I wish I could show this at my job!

  • @mamymimma
    @mamymimma 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, thanks a lot!

  • @Austin_IK
    @Austin_IK 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much

  • @alexanderyu5234
    @alexanderyu5234 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you ever going to release more fashion-forward accessories?
    Ie: colored velvet , grenadine bow ties, velvet pocket squares, etc?

  • @harraism
    @harraism 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Press "F" to earn respect.

    • @Ripperundergaslight
      @Ripperundergaslight 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That meme is a bit dated but I still find it funny 😄

  • @joshuacarlson240
    @joshuacarlson240 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Make a video on canes

  • @getrakd1885
    @getrakd1885 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would greatly appreciate it if you continue to refer to people who wear tennis socks away from the court as 'like a peasant.'

  • @alexandertheamerican9663
    @alexandertheamerican9663 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I struggle with criticism, I feel that if someone isn’t in charge they can’t give me criticism cause they shouldn’t be. Yet a lot wish to rule over others

  • @rafaelhunkeler8458
    @rafaelhunkeler8458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Simple. Let others press F.

  • @Vincent_Pilsen
    @Vincent_Pilsen 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Preston would look gorgeous with a beard!!!

  • @baskorohpradono7171
    @baskorohpradono7171 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing new hairstyle,preston

  • @PilotVolunteer
    @PilotVolunteer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed the peasant comment

  • @thelegendofdarius
    @thelegendofdarius 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need help! My parents want me to stop buying suits! Because they say that my closet is “too full”! I try to explain to them that I want to be well dressed but they respond aggressively like yelling in a high tone voice and yes I try to respect them as I can (BTW i’m from a Mexican family) so what can I do? 🤷🏻‍♂️😟

  • @johnt2257
    @johnt2257 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, thanks

  • @HoglyStevenson
    @HoglyStevenson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yessir! I like it!

  • @nachiketh3650
    @nachiketh3650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This won't work in college. Something to be done at your workplace.

  • @TheTOBroShow
    @TheTOBroShow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Hello and welcome to the Gentleman's Gazette. Today we are going to show you how to [BLEEP] like a gentleman.

  • @jinisong6312
    @jinisong6312 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    A gentle man needs some humor😁

  • @arbernani4727
    @arbernani4727 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    We miss you Sven!

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What do you mean? a video of me has been published every week! Hit the bell next to the subscribe button so you get notified of all of our videos

    • @arbernani4727
      @arbernani4727 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes sir, I did hited that, but when you speak can concentrate instead when the other guy speaks. Don't take it wrong, neither you or him.
      Is just that you have your chevalier karizma, status and character not many have it.
      With all do respect, your big and young fan!

  • @emilianorabre6926
    @emilianorabre6926 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Number 10: pressing f

  • @Elias-sk2nc
    @Elias-sk2nc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aus welchem Teil von Deutschland kommen sie eigentlich ?

    • @kellydunn2528
      @kellydunn2528 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Der große, blonde Kerl kommt nicht aus Deutschland. Ich glaube, er ist ein gebürtiger Minnesotan.

  • @abajaj1510
    @abajaj1510 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Germans doing comedy...so wholesome .....😀

  • @klikkolee
    @klikkolee ปีที่แล้ว

    "don't use strong words" is definitely not a correct lesson to learn from the "19 things men shouldn't wear" video. Words should be chosen to match what is being described. Generically avoiding strong words can lead to you understating things, which is a flaw unto itself.
    unless someone is taking inspiration from historical peasants or is in a similar life situation to a peasant, it is exceedingly unlikely that they will literally look like a peasant, so people will look to how peasants were perceived in history and popular fiction in order to interpret your statement metaphorically. Peasants were perceived as lesser people by non-peasants, and it is uncommon to see peasants depicted perceiving each other through the lens of the word "peasant". As such, your remarks will be interpreted as "it will make you look like a lesser person". There are exceedingly few clothing choices that will reflect negatively on a persons character in the eyes of a reasonable person.
    Appearance is subjective, so a statement of appearance will have a subject inferred. "You look like..." is almost universally interpreted as "I see you as...", so your remark was interpreted by many as "it will make me see you as a lesser person", and at this level of deconstruction, I think it should become obvious why people found the remark offensive. It's not the mere strength of your words -- it's the actual meaning of the words.
    For completeness, the alternative interpretation of "you look like..." is "other people will see you as...", which leads to "other people will see you as a lesser person". This is a statement of little value. a confident person does not need unreasonable people to think highly of them. So in the best case, the statement says nothing, and in the common case, it presents you as an unreasonable and snobbish person.

  • @geralt.of.arabia9766
    @geralt.of.arabia9766 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is that nice artwork behind you Mr. Raphael? I find it aesthetically pleasing, and would love to know where to get it.

  • @chillerinstinct1
    @chillerinstinct1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just strange.

  • @keyboardwarrior327
    @keyboardwarrior327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can't.
    I'm just kidding, I just can't watch the video right now. I'm excited to learn how I can do this though.

  • @purplefabian
    @purplefabian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is that new guy your boyfriend? Cute couple

  • @natsidrukdruk
    @natsidrukdruk 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jerks, you mean a sociopath

  • @elizabethpatrick7645
    @elizabethpatrick7645 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get it - your family was quite talkative. But not interrupting a person is simply kindergarten good manners. It was good you changed.

  • @ProgressivePatriot28
    @ProgressivePatriot28 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. But Raphael, fix your tie, man! The knot on that thing is always hanging off to your left. I know you prefer the four in hand knot and I'm not sure if this is a hallmark of that knot, but if it is there are lots of other tie knots.

  • @emas5306
    @emas5306 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish 45 watched your videos

  • @MatthewJBD
    @MatthewJBD 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ali G approves this video 🤙🏾👊🏾

  • @aquilestadeu
    @aquilestadeu 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    😱😅😅😅😅😅Very good!

  • @loupanella9632
    @loupanella9632 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣 too funny!

  • @ghostygallagher
    @ghostygallagher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    if you have to drink please drink something better than Buffalo Trace lol, just joking super video

  • @sugoi3082
    @sugoi3082 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please, tell me the name of the music in the intro, or something similar

  • @rovercoupe7104
    @rovercoupe7104 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The ‘J’ word shouldn’t be used by a gentleman. M.

  • @boogalooblues3931
    @boogalooblues3931 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't be a peasant, be an #alpha like Sven

  • @kostas5829
    @kostas5829 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An observation. Your posture is kind of wrong. You need to keep your back straight and your neck back.

  • @OfficerBaron
    @OfficerBaron 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    3rd comment

  • @pal98111
    @pal98111 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please stop using profanity in your videos. It actually causes a loss of respect for me.

  • @jerkyscientist3333
    @jerkyscientist3333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm truly sorry but can you make fashion or item videos instead since all about personality changing video never increase any of my aspects thank you

    • @gentlemansgazette
      @gentlemansgazette  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Your comment makes it seem like you can in fact improve on the way you deal with others.

    • @MiniPaintAdventurer
      @MiniPaintAdventurer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gentleman's Gazette beat me to it!

    • @kohakuaiko
      @kohakuaiko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "a fool abhors wise counsel"