How to get over a break up: Step 1: Get Invincible from ICC after 7 years of farming it almost every single week. What do you say now Jenny??? Who's the loser now ?
Here's some red flags for the boys: 1. "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" 2. She listens to and idolizes Jhene Aiko 3. When you go out to eat, she only takes pictures of the food.
Add: - obsessed with japanese stuff - has more than one animal at home or a cat (fuck cat girls) - shes obsesses over horses (crazy horse girls) - playing in a band
There’s loads of people saying “that’s the worst advice” but I think it’s great advice. I’ve got a higher level of respect for him after hearing his views on these situations
This is good advice. I dated a girl a few years back who was an "egirl" and it just wasnt working out. We like each other, but we hate each other at the same time. She ended up moving away, and we havent spoken to each other in months now. I do miss her from time to time, but i often wonder if its the idea of her that i miss and not really her. I havent seen another girl in over a year, and im doing okay these days. I work on my hobbies, things im passionate about like Zack mentioned. Break ups can be hard, but youll be okay. There are literally billions of other guys and girls in the world and you dont have to stick around with someone who isnt around for you.
This is such weird timing. Girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me 5 days ago and its been the hardest week I've had in a long long time. Watching Asmon has helped tho. Thank you for your content!
Don't let it sway you bro, concentrate on you, and become numb to being reliant on someone else to be happy. Be Happy because you accept and love yourself, we're all gonna make it bro.
As a guy who dealt with this, Asmon’s advice on immersing yourself in a passion really worked (even though I didn’t know this vid existed until way later) for me. While I was dating this girl I had to take a small step back from my musical studies, but when she broke up with me I started practicing for like 5 hrs a day (after school) and now I’m way better than I would have been had we stayed together. Honestly, the rotation of practicing all day and watching asmongold at night before bed really helped me move on too bc I was so focused on music that I only had a little bit of time to think about other shit, and I would fill that little crevice in my brain with Asmon vids.
Better advice, masturbate before every date. If you're still interested in the person after that then it has a more realistic chance to be built on a solid foundation of similar interests rather than sexual attraction.
It's crazy to read the comments of how many people who is going through a breakup right now. My gf broke up with me 6 days ago and reading all the nice supportive comments here sure helps. Thanks
sorry to hear that man, mine was less than 24 hours ago, kissed, hugged, said we loved each other... and that was it. I hope you get through this as unscathed as possible. I really do.
@@Spudawg this sounds exactly like my hardest breakup years ago. I hope you'll be fine and please don't let anyone tell you there's a specific period of time after which you should be okay again.
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1.Know you worth. 2.Have some self respect. 3.Walk AWAY! Never contact her again. Let her come to you! If not good you just saved time and emotional drama.
It's not the being in a band that is meh. As long as you seem like you have your shit together to a degree and can balance your priorities being in a band or smoking weed aren't gonna change anything for the worse 😂
As a married 37y old male, that loves mmorpgs with a respectful career, 2 children 1 boy 1 girl, a loving wife... I HAD TO WATCH THIS... Thanks for the content man. You will laugh at this. I played WoW when it came out. Havent played WoW in over 15years. Im a FFXIV player.. haahaha gotcha you!!! :P , played SWTOR and ESO, after that, BDO a bit.. a few others in the past.. list would go on..... but I really enjoy your videos. Dont ask me how I got you in the first place, no idea. Was just a video recommendation. Thank youtube algorithm I guess. But just to say although, I dont like WoW that much. I mean I know its a great MMORPG and the King for many years, personally doesnt appeal to me. But you do man. Even when I just see a video of you doing a mount battle with mounts from a game I dont have them.. I resonate with you. I share the same experience. I could type for ages man, just to say, you have excellent content and I really appreciate it. LOVED the Ashes of Creation videos. Again as I dont play WoW you got me as a viewer that is veteran in MMORPGS. Loved it! Keep improving bro and really respect your channel.
Dont go looking for relationships. Just do what makes you happy and let shit sort itself out. If you find someone, great. If not, who cares. Being single isnt nearly as bad as society tells you it is.
Best advice right here. Somehow with relationships and people, the best ones are always the ones you stumble into at a point in your life where you're not looking for anything and completely contempt with being single and your life in general.
Get a bro, not a gay lover idiots. Just a bro, a dude who does all the same shit you do. Because then both of you are always together, and having a blast, crashing at each others place nightly. And you get to say perverted shit about girls, maybe treat one to an escort, go to strip clubs. I used to live with a bro, and we'd take turns on who gets the house to jerk off. I'd actually go for a walk, and he'd do the same.
ACtually crazy that this video came out. My ex gf just ended our relationship of six years, we were both the first we've ever had. It has been the most difficult experience in my life. I really thought she was the one and dreamt of the day of marrying her and growing as people. Really sucks man but feels good to see Asmon talking about this
Urazz I disagree man, people get over things differently to others but the best thing Asmon said was “do it whatever way feels comfortable”, that’s the best advice
Best advice that worked for me everytime: delete and block her everywhere, put pictures away in a box. out of sight, out of mind. Then take your time with a good game, take vacation from work and 420 the shit out of your favorite game. (Dopamin output through smoking replaces the Dopamin you get from your girl) HOWEVER: after that youre probably addicted to smoking weed. But hey, you dont think about your ex anymore. You just think about weed. Lol
Love yourself and forgive and you’ll be ok. Too many people hold on to anger and jealousy and it hurts them long term. I got dumped in a bad breakup when I was young an eternity ago and thought my life was over. Then I met my wife (several years later) and we have an amazing family now that I could not have imagined ever being possible. Do good things for yourself and others and good things will happen. Don’t give up! Nerd dad pep talk over. Good luck.
I broke up one month ago with my girlfriend after 2 years of relationship, gave her all the best of me just to get cheated on. Silly me tried to forgive her just to get cheated again. I wish I had broken up with her after the first time, I wasted so much time and energy on someone who didn't care about me. I don't know how to get distracted away from it since I've lost all my friends because of her, and I don't even have a good PC to play games, so this sucks, but hey, at the end of the day I know things will get better and it will stop hurting
Don't get into a serious relationship until you are financially, mentally, and spiritually ready to start a family. Most women want this, the longer you string the relationship along the worse your gf gets. Girls 25+ years are the ones usually looking for marriage and a lot more mature but ofcourse exceptions. Just play the field until you're ready. Your gf probably wasn't quite ready for a relationship, all girls fantasize about the husband and kids(being a good girl) at some point but they didn't anticipate the temptation that is in the world lol. She will probably date alot of guys, get tired and look back and realize you were a really nice guy and she should of worked it out, at that point in a woman life she will be most ready for marriage.
As someone who last year who lost a decade old relationship, I can attest that Asmon is saying good things here. I'll boil it down for those who are struggling as I was. First, see yourself for who you are. Is that someone you're okay with being? If not, why not? What do you want, and how will you get it? Etc. Second, achieve those things in the way that works best for you. If you need therapy to do these things, then go get therapy. If you need to immerse yourself and push yourself all the way, then go for it brother. It's very important you allow yourself this, because it's the most crucial part. Denying yourself the things you need is a good way to make things unnecessarily hard on you. Last, rekindle with what you love. Who you were before the relationship. We're all gonna make it.
The things he talks about.... Yeah ive been through that with my ex. She cheated on me so many times. I have grown from a casual to a pro. Finally found a girl thats Nice to me and loves me.
how are you doing now? I just got cheated on with my gf of 3 years 4 days ago and this has been the worst pain I have ever felt. I don't eat anymore, sleep, or do anything. I still love her which is the worst part but everything seems forever changed. It honestly feels like a nightmare and I just want to wake up from it. I cant even look at other girls with desire as she was my everything. I wanted to marry her and everything reminds me of her. I've never been so depressed.
@@Fatiha_mokhtari better than ever. I recovered and am now realizing I'm way happier than I have ever been. Of course there's down days or ill notice she checks my stories. but, overall, I'm way better without that person anymore.
@@lolFlipper never having any because you don't get the joy. You also don't get the pain buy the joy is worth it. That's why the quote " It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all"
@@JoeCamel. Quotes are not absolute truths, ya know. You cant miss chocolate if youve never had any. Having had it and missing it is worse, imo, so that quote does not apply to everyone
@@lolFlipper Imo never having something to begin with is better than having it taken away. For example I'd rather live my entire life drinking water and not knowing what soda tastes like, rather than experiencing the flavor of soda then having all soda taken away from me forever.
I'm 27 (almost 28) never dated or had sex in my life. I know nothing about dating but lemme tell ya what I do know. You may be heart broken or feel confused but after a while you'll feel bad about wasting all those months sweating over it. Like Asmon said. Spend your time on things you love or enjoy or better yet learn a skill in one of those things. If you ever feel like there's nothing you enjoy then clean your house, take a walk or maybe shower with a new soap you've never tried before. Anything is better then just stagnating in your room worrying about a girl/ guy it didn't work out with.
28, never had a gf. I have been dating and also loved someone who didn't love me so I just ended up befrinding those gals. Honestly the best parts of my life is when I don't date and doesn't have romantic feelings. Just got out of my one sided feelings about 3 months ago and started playing wow Classic again and couldn't be happier.
As someone who went through a break up in the last year after nearly 20 years, don't try and jump straight in to a new relationship. Spend time and enjoy actually being single for a change. It's a huge difference in how you can live your life and it's not all negative. Find the things you enjoy and enjoy them.
At first he seems like he is gonna joke around, but he has a lot of interesting/smart things to say. I sometimes wonder if the Asmongold character is holding zack back. I enjoy the character, but many confuse the two.
It doesn't hold him back because they're properly separated. When you see a video from Zack, you know what you're getting. If you see a video from Asmongold, same applies usually. Though I guess this is a rare instance of Zack breaking the character to talk about something serious
@@Anvarynn it seems to affect him quite a bit when he sees something that happend in his life, like when he said he could relate to people who seek for their exes, says they love her then hate her on a message. He's human, and best thing about him is that he's real. It shows off, I like it
We do date. Some of us neckbeards also do things like train in Jiu Jitsu, raise children, create art. Yes, our necks are disgusting, but we are also nerd assassin warrior poets. We stay in good physical shape and women tend to like guys in uniforms as well. Even our silly ass wanna be ninja costumes. The key is to live a balanced life... do some productive things that compensate for how much of a douche bag you are.
Hypothetically 30 here too. Agreed on the younger girl thing. As I age, dating a 21 yo just seems like a bad decision. You still have to deal with the problems a 21 year old has, they still have a lot of life experience they need to get. You'd be supporting them. And also they just look so young now its just odd.
*The meta for tinder and other dating sites* is to like every grill until you get matches and from those matches you filter out which ones you like, that way the algorithm doesn't purposely fuck you over and only show you people you don't have a solid connection with (wanting you to come back to their app after your relationship fails). Some dating sites even backburner your account if it's older than X weeks.
Got a former co-worker, aged 28, been there 10 years, great worker, started dating an 18 year old in January. At first he wouldn't shut the fuck up about the sex. No shit. What the fuck else does an 18 year old have to do? Suddenly he seems to have no money. Has to drive her places all the time. She's asking for money for her family members who are in debt. Demands he go clubbing with her. He starts calling in sick a lot. His work starts to suffer. He quit last month.
The time period after a break up will be some of your best times, you can focus on yourself, workout, find a new hobby, reconnect with friends etc. You will look back on them with fondness as those are one of the few times that a human being can actually change as it's quite difficult to bring about change in your life alone.
Ironically enough my wife and I have been together for 20 years and you're the only WoW Streamer she tolerates because of your personality, so not all your viewers have trouble keeping a relationship. You want to know the secret boys, marry your bestfriend and go for a middle of the road attractive chick; average looking chicks are not vapid fools and can carry on an intelligent conversation.
1. Marry ya best friend, well that's outta the picture, girl is like a damn sister to me, aint happening. 2. What u just described is for some people even outta the question. and 3. Bold to assume i'm not an ugly unloveable motherfucker. But forreal, you right tho, gotta put the standard down a bit to more of a fun but also intellectual level.
@@Xcitng1988 no it's just my experience that really attractive women are usually not that bright because life tends to be easier for them, same thing for really attractive men. But if you want to jump to conclusions and judge me then go live your best life.
I understand not dating someone who's almost a decade or younger, but at age 30 you're gonna have a hard time finding a similar age woman who doesnt have kids or isn't dysfunctional. Very few women make it to 30 without a boyfriend for no reason.
@@eddyram4932 or simply ppl who just want to live their life without being judged. It's stupid and retarded.. If u really want to help some1, make their talent and objectives arise from the inside, do not just put them on railways like trains.. Everyone has its own path
Kinda relate with the dude in chat who mentioned they got out of a long term relationship. Got out of a super long one right before Covid, started watching Asmon and making friends to play games with online. It's helped.
I would say unfriend/block your ex asap, on all social media you're connected on. Out of sight, out of mind. Don't torture yourself. The sooner you can move on, the better.
Asmon seems really wise on this subject. About ages too. I actually have a 5 years difference restriction. I remember chatting with someone who on tinder lied about being 27 and was actually 30. It was obvious that because of the age gap of almost 10 years, he ended up being sometimes patronizing in the way "I lived more like you, know more, got more experience". He kinda got offended that I wouldn't date him and took it personal cuz he already dated other young chicks like me... Yeah dodget a bullet there
My fathers advice to me on how to get over a girl or a broken heart was crude, but effective; The best way to get over one woman, is to get under another.
He’s spitting some real facts. I got fucked up back in may and after all that I’ve lost all motivation for things especially looking for people to meet or befriend. Focus/invest in yourself and let what you want come to you and if you truly have made self improvements people notice and people want to latch on to that in a person but even then don’t lose your mind set because someone is showing you attention or whatever they express it’s easy to be swayed if you don’t believe in your self and your mind set
Yo, dude... damn, these boys need you sometimes. This supercut is super positive. I love this from you. its raw, and honest, and "no homo," uplifting. Moarpleez.
Tinder is a terrible place for neckbeards. Become GM, use your local power to get gamer girls. On tinder you have to compete with club promoters and body builders. Just not a good place to make a play.
Had a girl I was with say she believed in ghosts, star signs and shit and she was dead serious about it all. Normally I'd tell the person "Yeah well I think the earth is flat doesn't make me right" but instead I put up with it. Now if a girl says something bat shit crazy I just laugh and blank them.
Thanks man, just went through it an hour ago and this popped up in recommended....Funny how things can line up sometimes. Imma go make a shitload of music and study it more.Thanks for the advice my friend.
You're exactly right. I've tried it and I can say, a 21 year old does not have the same lifestyle or goals as a 30 year old. You expect different things from your relationship and there will be problems eventually.
Being in love is equivalent to being a drug addict. Asmon is 100% right. You need to distract yourself as much as possible for about a month. Then everything becomes so much more clear.
After you go through at least 2 breakups that you could have sworn you’d never get through, the next time it happens, you can reassure yourself by saying “I’ve felt this way twice before and I know this shitty feeling won’t last forever”. Humans persevere by facing adversity.
Met her on wow, she lied to me about being single when we met, later it turned out to be 'they were about to break up', and in the end it was 'you were the reason we broke up'. So she was stringing the other guy along as she met me and left him a wreck and blindsided. Of course, she eventually did the same to me. Bad habits don't usually change. Had I known from the beginning I wouldn't have went with it. Advice is sound, self love, self focus, discover yourself again and be ready and whole when a new person notices, don't be the same miserable wreck.
I feel very emotional connected with this streamer, it feels weird thing, it feels like the brother I've never had and always i wanted to be with. Very good guy indeed. Have a nice day.
Best advice ever in this video!!!! This is the first video I ever watched of asmondgold, was just over a year ago that Ive seen this ,wife left me because we were broke and blocked me off the face of the earth..ever since I've been watching asmondgold on the side just because of this one video right here...just thought I'd come back and remind myself how cool this guy is and watch this again🎉
I'll extend the "don't ask for nudes the first time you talk to a girl" to "don't ever ask for nudes". And also, NEVER send any nudes with your face (or your tattoos or any special features that are specific to you) on them if you send any yourself and if you do that, don't send them from a profile that has your name in it or a profile pic that shows up in the chat, cause that again can be used against you/to identify you/prove that you sent the pic.
dont get in relationships unless: -you get jealous easy -get annoyed easy -enjoy your own space too much -haven’t got much money -very self confident -haven’t known them for more than 2months.
Bros im dealing with a divorce and lemme tell you oooof. However i can say just remember to stay positive dont let the negative thoughts take over and stay productive ! Don't let the end of relationship be the reason you dont care or dont try anymore. Go out there be better grab life by the balls. The right girls is out there for you and its not always going to be the person you swore on everything you would spend the rest of your life with.
Forgivness is for the sake of the one who forgives, mind you that doesnt mean that you carry one with the relationship whatever type it is is just so one doesnt carry that around, for the sake of releasing the baggage and move on
A girl blocked after she broke up with me, that night I went from lvl 91-100 in WOD I felt so powerful never forget that night
What class?
@@dreamsteal4773 discipline priest
Lmaooo
lmfaoooo
@@lrenjhu art imitates life
How to get over a break up:
Step 1: Get Invincible from ICC after 7 years of farming it almost every single week. What do you say now Jenny??? Who's the loser now ?
Imagine doing that just to have it go on BMAH 💀💀
I got it in like 2 months
I got the drop finally like a month ago. Years of farming finally done!
Jenny: Understandable, have a great day.
@@brussailpook8213 nobody likes you
"If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you."
Boy did I learn that the hard way.
shit same man :(
sameee broke up with ex, friends for over a year then found out she cheated on me last month while we were still talking as friends
@@CrossHarry that sucks man 💔
@@sobot_ its awful aint it, makes u feel utterly worthless
welcome to the fucking club = )
Golden advice from a golden streamer
My steamer FeelsStrongMan
Well thats AsmonGOLD for you
It's bald advice from a baldened streamer.
You know I'm right.
Wait did I miss something? Was R. Kelly here?
Here's some red flags for the boys:
1. "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
2. She listens to and idolizes Jhene Aiko
3. When you go out to eat, she only takes pictures of the food.
who tf is jhene aiko
@@eeeflaco24 shes makes songs about how all her exes are shitty and how she dont need no man
@@JReeces Then that's not even a red flag, its a straight up "stay away" sign.
Add:
- obsessed with japanese stuff
- has more than one animal at home or a cat (fuck cat girls)
- shes obsesses over horses (crazy horse girls)
- playing in a band
That was oddly specific, dood...are you okay?
There’s loads of people saying “that’s the worst advice” but I think it’s great advice. I’ve got a higher level of respect for him after hearing his views on these situations
There are lot of stupid ppl in his chat
I listened to “Sup Yall” for 7 hours straight today.
Yeah so you're definitely single
I think that's impressive
@@7128jml but he's cool. Fuck biatches
"wtf dood"
You deserve one of those awards they give to everyone to make certain people feel special when there not
This is good advice. I dated a girl a few years back who was an "egirl" and it just wasnt working out. We like each other, but we hate each other at the same time. She ended up moving away, and we havent spoken to each other in months now. I do miss her from time to time, but i often wonder if its the idea of her that i miss and not really her. I havent seen another girl in over a year, and im doing okay these days. I work on my hobbies, things im passionate about like Zack mentioned. Break ups can be hard, but youll be okay. There are literally billions of other guys and girls in the world and you dont have to stick around with someone who isnt around for you.
This is such weird timing. Girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me 5 days ago and its been the hardest week I've had in a long long time. Watching Asmon has helped tho. Thank you for your content!
Don't let it sway you bro, concentrate on you, and become numb to being reliant on someone else to be happy.
Be Happy because you accept and love yourself, we're all gonna make it bro.
@@Tysonbax thank you man really appreciate that :)
You're gonna feel like shit for a while bro but better dayz will come I promise 💯💯
Just workout and get fucking yolked. Best possible after breakup thing to do
As a guy who dealt with this, Asmon’s advice on immersing yourself in a passion really worked (even though I didn’t know this vid existed until way later) for me. While I was dating this girl I had to take a small step back from my musical studies, but when she broke up with me I started practicing for like 5 hrs a day (after school) and now I’m way better than I would have been had we stayed together. Honestly, the rotation of practicing all day and watching asmongold at night before bed really helped me move on too bc I was so focused on music that I only had a little bit of time to think about other shit, and I would fill that little crevice in my brain with Asmon vids.
How to get over a break up:
Step 1: Don't get in a relationship.
Sound advice
Better advice, masturbate before every date. If you're still interested in the person after that then it has a more realistic chance to be built on a solid foundation of similar interests rather than sexual attraction.
*Insert forever alone meme here*
@@JoeCamel. Dude I do that too! xD
Better advise that everyone can have
It's crazy to read the comments of how many people who is going through a breakup right now. My gf broke up with me 6 days ago and reading all the nice supportive comments here sure helps. Thanks
sorry to hear that man, mine was less than 24 hours ago, kissed, hugged, said we loved each other... and that was it. I hope you get through this as unscathed as possible. I really do.
@@Spudawg this sounds exactly like my hardest breakup years ago. I hope you'll be fine and please don't let anyone tell you there's a specific period of time after which you should be okay again.
Shut up, bitch.
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1.Know you worth.
2.Have some self respect.
3.Walk AWAY! Never contact her again. Let her come to you! If not good you just saved time and emotional drama.
We are weak willed souls, and this is a strong willed demand
I'm literally Jake whose 23, in a band with my high school friend and smokes weed all day. I feel attacked.
You should yikes
Delete the gym, retain Facebook, hit a lawyer
It's not the being in a band that is meh. As long as you seem like you have your shit together to a degree and can balance your priorities being in a band or smoking weed aren't gonna change anything for the worse 😂
Just date 18y olds.
Em I dont know if its legal in NA so thats EU specific k?
@Brendan heard that one a million times :D
As a married 37y old male, that loves mmorpgs with a respectful career, 2 children 1 boy 1 girl, a loving wife... I HAD TO WATCH THIS... Thanks for the content man. You will laugh at this. I played WoW when it came out. Havent played WoW in over 15years. Im a FFXIV player.. haahaha gotcha you!!! :P , played SWTOR and ESO, after that, BDO a bit.. a few others in the past.. list would go on..... but I really enjoy your videos. Dont ask me how I got you in the first place, no idea. Was just a video recommendation. Thank youtube algorithm I guess. But just to say although, I dont like WoW that much. I mean I know its a great MMORPG and the King for many years, personally doesnt appeal to me. But you do man. Even when I just see a video of you doing a mount battle with mounts from a game I dont have them.. I resonate with you. I share the same experience. I could type for ages man, just to say, you have excellent content and I really appreciate it. LOVED the Ashes of Creation videos. Again as I dont play WoW you got me as a viewer that is veteran in MMORPGS. Loved it! Keep improving bro and really respect your channel.
Larva S lmao
New copypasta?
Nice alt accoundt asmon:)
This is some good pasta
Wierd flex
Dont go looking for relationships. Just do what makes you happy and let shit sort itself out. If you find someone, great. If not, who cares. Being single isnt nearly as bad as society tells you it is.
Well if governments could just legalize prostitution....
Best advice right here. Somehow with relationships and people, the best ones are always the ones you stumble into at a point in your life where you're not looking for anything and completely contempt with being single and your life in general.
@@PorscheJon its legal in germany
Dunning Kruger move to Australia they have brothels over there
i've been single for my entire life. i'm 32
doesn't feel like i need a girl at all.
How to get a girl:
Step 1. Don't and get a bro
No homo but true.
gay
gachiBASS
Make sure you play with your swords
Get a bro, not a gay lover idiots.
Just a bro, a dude who does all the same shit you do.
Because then both of you are always together, and having a blast, crashing at each others
place nightly. And you get to say perverted shit about girls, maybe treat one to an escort, go to strip clubs.
I used to live with a bro, and we'd take turns on who gets the house to jerk off.
I'd actually go for a walk, and he'd do the same.
ACtually crazy that this video came out. My ex gf just ended our relationship of six years, we were both the first we've ever had. It has been the most difficult experience in my life. I really thought she was the one and dreamt of the day of marrying her and growing as people. Really sucks man but feels good to see Asmon talking about this
I'm very sorry, I hope you find love again. My bf died cause of the disease he had, not same thing but still both experiences are heartbreaking
Urazz I disagree man, people get over things differently to others but the best thing Asmon said was “do it whatever way feels comfortable”, that’s the best advice
Best advice that worked for me everytime: delete and block her everywhere, put pictures away in a box.
out of sight, out of mind. Then take your time with a good game, take vacation from work and 420 the shit out of your favorite game.
(Dopamin output through smoking replaces the Dopamin you get from your girl)
HOWEVER: after that youre probably addicted to smoking weed. But hey, you dont think about your ex anymore. You just think about weed. Lol
@@haruchinen9959 That sounds hard to deal with. I hope you're doing alright!
Love yourself and forgive and you’ll be ok. Too many people hold on to anger and jealousy and it hurts them long term. I got dumped in a bad breakup when I was young an eternity ago and thought my life was over. Then I met my wife (several years later) and we have an amazing family now that I could not have imagined ever being possible. Do good things for yourself and others and good things will happen. Don’t give up! Nerd dad pep talk over. Good luck.
The icing on the top is Mccools face with a woman's body 😂
Bonus points because its Asmon's ex
@Stoogs this man has evolved, leave him be
That's how you clickbait /s
Asmongold: "It's probably better to meet a girl playing Wow then on tinder"
Chat comment: The rarest drop ever
Wow jokes. Hilarious.
I broke up one month ago with my girlfriend after 2 years of relationship, gave her all the best of me just to get cheated on. Silly me tried to forgive her just to get cheated again. I wish I had broken up with her after the first time, I wasted so much time and energy on someone who didn't care about me.
I don't know how to get distracted away from it since I've lost all my friends because of her, and I don't even have a good PC to play games, so this sucks, but hey, at the end of the day I know things will get better and it will stop hurting
Go to the gym. 100%
I'm sorry you're going through this. Please don't let anyone tell you how or for how long you should not feel okay and do it at your own pace, okay?
@@kuewinger4206 I'm doing that, it helps a lot to feel better and ease my mind while also improving myself
@@nosoulnoproblem3368 Thanks, I appreciate that, I know some people just get over it faster than others but I'm on the low-pace side lol
Don't get into a serious relationship until you are financially, mentally, and spiritually ready to start a family. Most women want this, the longer you string the relationship along the worse your gf gets. Girls 25+ years are the ones usually looking for marriage and a lot more mature but ofcourse exceptions. Just play the field until you're ready. Your gf probably wasn't quite ready for a relationship, all girls fantasize about the husband and kids(being a good girl) at some point but they didn't anticipate the temptation that is in the world lol. She will probably date alot of guys, get tired and look back and realize you were a really nice guy and she should of worked it out, at that point in a woman life she will be most ready for marriage.
As someone who last year who lost a decade old relationship, I can attest that Asmon is saying good things here. I'll boil it down for those who are struggling as I was.
First, see yourself for who you are. Is that someone you're okay with being? If not, why not? What do you want, and how will you get it? Etc.
Second, achieve those things in the way that works best for you. If you need therapy to do these things, then go get therapy. If you need to immerse yourself and push yourself all the way, then go for it brother. It's very important you allow yourself this, because it's the most crucial part. Denying yourself the things you need is a good way to make things unnecessarily hard on you.
Last, rekindle with what you love. Who you were before the relationship.
We're all gonna make it.
The things he talks about.... Yeah ive been through that with my ex. She cheated on me so many times. I have grown from a casual to a pro. Finally found a girl thats Nice to me and loves me.
Congrats, know how much you're worth
how are you doing now? I just got cheated on with my gf of 3 years 4 days ago and this has been the worst pain I have ever felt. I don't eat anymore, sleep, or do anything. I still love her which is the worst part but everything seems forever changed. It honestly feels like a nightmare and I just want to wake up from it. I cant even look at other girls with desire as she was my everything. I wanted to marry her and everything reminds me of her. I've never been so depressed.
@@Lucaslee_art how are you doing after 4 months
@@Fatiha_mokhtari better than ever. I recovered and am now realizing I'm way happier than I have ever been. Of course there's down days or ill notice she checks my stories. but, overall, I'm way better without that person anymore.
@@Lucaslee_art I hope you doing well
Sadly this won't be relevant for 90% of his chat xD including me ='(
it's like naruto vs sasuke, losing your parents vs never having any, what's worse :()
@@lolFlipper never having any because you don't get the joy. You also don't get the pain buy the joy is worth it. That's why the quote " It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all"
@@JoeCamel. Quotes are not absolute truths, ya know. You cant miss chocolate if youve never had any. Having had it and missing it is worse, imo, so that quote does not apply to everyone
You didn't have to say "Including me", your "xD" did it well.
@@lolFlipper Imo never having something to begin with is better than having it taken away. For example I'd rather live my entire life drinking water and not knowing what soda tastes like, rather than experiencing the flavor of soda then having all soda taken away from me forever.
I'm 27 (almost 28) never dated or had sex in my life.
I know nothing about dating but lemme tell ya what I do know. You may be heart broken or feel confused but after a while you'll feel bad about wasting all those months sweating over it.
Like Asmon said. Spend your time on things you love or enjoy or better yet learn a skill in one of those things.
If you ever feel like there's nothing you enjoy then clean your house, take a walk or maybe shower with a new soap you've never tried before. Anything is better then just stagnating in your room worrying about a girl/ guy it didn't work out with.
28, never had a gf. I have been dating and also loved someone who didn't love me so I just ended up befrinding those gals. Honestly the best parts of my life is when I don't date and doesn't have romantic feelings. Just got out of my one sided feelings about 3 months ago and started playing wow Classic again and couldn't be happier.
perfect timing too
F u will get through this bud
That's rough buddy
Honestly I was expecting this to be joke advice but he gave a lot of good advice. Good stuff.
That's Asmon in a nutshell
I was ridin' the eyebrows in this one.
As someone who went through a break up in the last year after nearly 20 years, don't try and jump straight in to a new relationship.
Spend time and enjoy actually being single for a change. It's a huge difference in how you can live your life and it's not all negative. Find the things you enjoy and enjoy them.
At first he seems like he is gonna joke around, but he has a lot of interesting/smart things to say.
I sometimes wonder if the Asmongold character is holding zack back. I enjoy the character, but many confuse the two.
It doesn't hold him back because they're properly separated. When you see a video from Zack, you know what you're getting. If you see a video from Asmongold, same applies usually. Though I guess this is a rare instance of Zack breaking the character to talk about something serious
@@Anvarynn it seems to affect him quite a bit when he sees something that happend in his life, like when he said he could relate to people who seek for their exes, says they love her then hate her on a message. He's human, and best thing about him is that he's real. It shows off, I like it
@@lukashenrique4295 That was more him being facetious because someone said his advice sucks
when you hear him say "okaaaaay, duuuuude" it's asmon otherwise it's zack.
"Dating Advice For Neckbeards"
Do neckbeards date? Because as a neckbeard I can say that I have not seen a woman for several years.
I have seen women recently, their lack of interest in me was expected.
but why would people who do date need advice
We do date. Some of us neckbeards also do things like train in Jiu Jitsu, raise children, create art. Yes, our necks are disgusting, but we are also nerd assassin warrior poets. We stay in good physical shape and women tend to like guys in uniforms as well. Even our silly ass wanna be ninja costumes. The key is to live a balanced life... do some productive things that compensate for how much of a douche bag you are.
@@benkelly7182 this is literally key for anyone really. Well said
Hypothetically 30 here too.
Agreed on the younger girl thing. As I age, dating a 21 yo just seems like a bad decision. You still have to deal with the problems a 21 year old has, they still have a lot of life experience they need to get.
You'd be supporting them. And also they just look so young now its just odd.
*The meta for tinder and other dating sites* is to like every grill until you get matches and from those matches you filter out which ones you like, that way the algorithm doesn't purposely fuck you over and only show you people you don't have a solid connection with (wanting you to come back to their app after your relationship fails). Some dating sites even backburner your account if it's older than X weeks.
Got a former co-worker, aged 28, been there 10 years, great worker, started dating an 18 year old in January. At first he wouldn't shut the fuck up about the sex. No shit. What the fuck else does an 18 year old have to do? Suddenly he seems to have no money. Has to drive her places all the time. She's asking for money for her family members who are in debt. Demands he go clubbing with her. He starts calling in sick a lot. His work starts to suffer. He quit last month.
The time period after a break up will be some of your best times, you can focus on yourself, workout, find a new hobby, reconnect with friends etc. You will look back on them with fondness as those are one of the few times that a human being can actually change as it's quite difficult to bring about change in your life alone.
Ironically enough my wife and I have been together for 20 years and you're the only WoW Streamer she tolerates because of your personality, so not all your viewers have trouble keeping a relationship. You want to know the secret boys, marry your bestfriend and go for a middle of the road attractive chick; average looking chicks are not vapid fools and can carry on an intelligent conversation.
1. Marry ya best friend, well that's outta the picture, girl is like a damn sister to me, aint happening.
2. What u just described is for some people even outta the question.
and 3. Bold to assume i'm not an ugly unloveable motherfucker.
But forreal, you right tho, gotta put the standard down a bit to more of a fun but also intellectual level.
what a lovely way of calling your wife of 20 years ugly
@@Xcitng1988 oh no no no no....
This mans poor Wifu. Let her know you called her middle of the road and she how she reacts 😂
@@Xcitng1988 no it's just my experience that really attractive women are usually not that bright because life tends to be easier for them, same thing for really attractive men.
But if you want to jump to conclusions and judge me then go live your best life.
I understand not dating someone who's almost a decade or younger, but at age 30 you're gonna have a hard time finding a similar age woman who doesnt have kids or isn't dysfunctional. Very few women make it to 30 without a boyfriend for no reason.
Wrong. Women's today want career or simply are not interested in having kids. It's a cultural phenomenon in the Western society
@@eddyram4932 or simply ppl who just want to live their life without being judged. It's stupid and retarded.. If u really want to help some1, make their talent and objectives arise from the inside, do not just put them on railways like trains.. Everyone has its own path
Kinda relate with the dude in chat who mentioned they got out of a long term relationship. Got out of a super long one right before Covid, started watching Asmon and making friends to play games with online. It's helped.
I would say unfriend/block your ex asap, on all social media you're connected on. Out of sight, out of mind. Don't torture yourself. The sooner you can move on, the better.
I'm 41 and my wife is 31. We started dating at 37 and 27. I can thoroughly recommend that!
Asmon seems really wise on this subject. About ages too. I actually have a 5 years difference restriction. I remember chatting with someone who on tinder lied about being 27 and was actually 30. It was obvious that because of the age gap of almost 10 years, he ended up being sometimes patronizing in the way "I lived more like you, know more, got more experience". He kinda got offended that I wouldn't date him and took it personal cuz he already dated other young chicks like me... Yeah dodget a bullet there
Couldn't come at a better time. Girlfriend broke up with me less than 24 hours ago. I'm an absolute wreck. Thanks Asmon
My fathers advice to me on how to get over a girl or a broken heart was crude, but effective;
The best way to get over one woman, is to get under another.
I remember I always wanted a girlfriend and now, I don’t want a girlfriend whatsoever after dealing with women
He’s spitting some real facts. I got fucked up back in may and after all that I’ve lost all motivation for things especially looking for people to meet or befriend. Focus/invest in yourself and let what you want come to you and if you truly have made self improvements people notice and people want to latch on to that in a person but even then don’t lose your mind set because someone is showing you attention or whatever they express it’s easy to be swayed if you don’t believe in your self and your mind set
Love has done more bad than good.
Without joking: This was an actual good advice. Asmon is a great human being.
He's perceptive, consider ing he's literally had one real GF.
@@PikeBishop1
Didn't he break up with his gf?
He is such a sweet dude. The more I watch his streams and videos the more I like him
It's easy never give 100% of yourself always hold back a little then the hurt won't be so bad.
to be able to get over a breakup, you must first have been in a relationship with someone, and thats what makes his advice useless to me
Same, why need breakup advice when I can't even get a girlfriend? Single life gang, breakup problems are nonexistent
"If you want I can give you a list of my top 500" 😆
This was honestly greate advices presendet in a funny way on top of that. And the burn at the end was pure gold.
Tbh I'm glad Asmon said these stuff. I'm dealing with a break up at the moment right now.
Honestly he gives pretty good advice for a guy who plays wow all day.
Yo, dude... damn, these boys need you sometimes. This supercut is super positive. I love this from you. its raw, and honest, and "no homo," uplifting. Moarpleez.
Also that Iconic Heroic Leap in GotSS.
Tinder is a terrible place for neckbeards. Become GM, use your local power to get gamer girls. On tinder you have to compete with club promoters and body builders. Just not a good place to make a play.
Asmon you inadvertently destroyed Pinksparkles. Dude you are amazing and she never deserved you
Relationships are just a distraction for being awesome. Barney aproved this message....legend...wait for it
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Had a girl I was with say she believed in ghosts, star signs and shit and she was dead serious about it all. Normally I'd tell the person "Yeah well I think the earth is flat doesn't make me right" but instead I put up with it. Now if a girl says something bat shit crazy I just laugh and blank them.
She probably is a Scorpio
@@nosoulnoproblem3368 this comment made my day :D
She's my type of girl
To be in love is the most wonderful feeling. Don’t ever take another person for granted and you will be fine. Enjoy life!
Simple, you don't get into a relationship in the first place
Thanks man, just went through it an hour ago and this popped up in recommended....Funny how things can line up sometimes. Imma go make a shitload of music and study it more.Thanks for the advice my friend.
Knowledge is power
You're exactly right. I've tried it and I can say, a 21 year old does not have the same lifestyle or goals as a 30 year old. You expect different things from your relationship and there will be problems eventually.
5:50 Asmondgold are we sure you have not been of Tinder cuz that was 100% of the spot LMAO
Being in love is equivalent to being a drug addict. Asmon is 100% right. You need to distract yourself as much as possible for about a month. Then everything becomes so much more clear.
Can someone tell me why he’s always farming that MoP dungeon?
i think he might be after mogu'dar blade of a thousand slaves weapon.havent seen it drop since mop came out.very low drop rate from heroic version
After you go through at least 2 breakups that you could have sworn you’d never get through, the next time it happens, you can reassure yourself by saying “I’ve felt this way twice before and I know this shitty feeling won’t last forever”. Humans persevere by facing adversity.
You don't, you just kind of forget about it over time cause you just find someone else
Divide by two add seven is the general rule for the minimum age of the people you should date.
divide your own age?
@@fpscanada3862 If you're looking for your minimum then yeah.
Seriously? Do u hv a math rule for that? It's 2020 Jesus.. Love has no age
@@belladesa91 Love has no common sense.
@@Arkantos117 ur right. Love's irrational so stop pretending to say what other ppl should do
3:53 The fucking music timing killed me🤣
Met her on wow, she lied to me about being single when we met, later it turned out to be 'they were about to break up', and in the end it was 'you were the reason we broke up'. So she was stringing the other guy along as she met me and left him a wreck and blindsided. Of course, she eventually did the same to me. Bad habits don't usually change. Had I known from the beginning I wouldn't have went with it. Advice is sound, self love, self focus, discover yourself again and be ready and whole when a new person notices, don't be the same miserable wreck.
I feel very emotional connected with this streamer, it feels weird thing, it feels like the brother I've never had and always i wanted to be with. Very good guy indeed. Have a nice day.
Best advice ever in this video!!!! This is the first video I ever watched of asmondgold, was just over a year ago that Ive seen this ,wife left me because we were broke and blocked me off the face of the earth..ever since I've been watching asmondgold on the side just because of this one video right here...just thought I'd come back and remind myself how cool this guy is and watch this again🎉
Hes legit just talking about his past relationship
Do all things in moderation EVEN.......
A breakup is the best thing that could ever happen to anyone, honestly.
Damn. I catch some of your stuff here and there but this was actually pretty good
Actual great advice young fellas. I’m 33 and have wasted a many years on dumb shit.
I'll extend the "don't ask for nudes the first time you talk to a girl" to "don't ever ask for nudes". And also, NEVER send any nudes with your face (or your tattoos or any special features that are specific to you) on them if you send any yourself and if you do that, don't send them from a profile that has your name in it or a profile pic that shows up in the chat, cause that again can be used against you/to identify you/prove that you sent the pic.
That was all good advice, very gentle and smooth
I’m a girl that’s 27 and play’s wow and never had a boyfriend ever.
the top FIVE HUNDRED bit broke me. its simple but the delivery was great)
dont get in relationships unless:
-you get jealous easy
-get annoyed easy
-enjoy your own space too much
-haven’t got much money
-very self confident
-haven’t known them for more than 2months.
“Who would swipe right on me? I’m a fiend!” I nearly choked on my god damn Taco Bell
Asmon is right. I was 29/30 and I was dating with 20/21. Horrible time, but only one positive factor was body.
Man I’m really into these real talks with Asmon!
that moment when the oblivion/skyrim combat music popped on haha 3:45
i needed this.... right on point, works for girls as well i guess..
Spittin straight facts today, asmon.
never had one never will
Advice list summary
1. Jerk-off
2. Plan the 3 months of life
A. Get them back (if they're worth it)
B. Don't (if they did you wrong)
Bros im dealing with a divorce and lemme tell you oooof. However i can say just remember to stay positive dont let the negative thoughts take over and stay productive ! Don't let the end of relationship be the reason you dont care or dont try anymore. Go out there be better grab life by the balls. The right girls is out there for you and its not always going to be the person you swore on everything you would spend the rest of your life with.
Forgivness is for the sake of the one who forgives, mind you that doesnt mean that you carry one with the relationship whatever type it is is just so one doesnt carry that around, for the sake of releasing the baggage and move on
don't fall in love and break up isn't a problem
That last guy got absolutely rolled on
The best timing to talk about this!!
Honestly respect this guy now
i programmed a desk fan today, nice
From one neckbeard to another. Top advice.
10:44 the background music fits so well